Sagittarius Guy is back after 3 months

Hello Sagittarius

Please let me a honest opinion

I used to have a friends with benefits relationships with this guy and I started to catch feelings, I told him and he push me away... Totally understood because he always was honest about what he wanted with me.

This week I saw a funny video and I sent it to him. After that he started a whole conversation about things that happened between us and he told me that he didn't handle the situation with me in the very best way. Was a deep, long and honest conversation.

Next day he texted me telling me that he wanted to see me and I said yes. Long history short, he came to my house we talked and then we had sex.

Before he left, he told me "Dont get clingy this time"

Why come back to me after 3 months knowing that I have feelings?

And I know he is really lucky with girls, he is the kind of guy who can have the girl he choose...

He came back because you let him. You opened the door and he walked straight through it.

He knew the right words to say.

He wanted ass, so he said what he needed to say to get yours 🤦 Simple. Really.

Ouch.

Those damn Sagittarius BOYS.

He doesn’t want a relationship, he came back for sex.

To be clear... he didnt come back to you... you went back to him first and opened that door. It was all you dear.

If you come back and the sex was good like he remembers and you are a half way decent human being, he will try again. Doesn’t have much to do about getting played. He had to have liked you a little bit at least. We are pretty easy going and will try and give it another shot.

BUT

he also said don’t get clingy. So don’t. And it should work out fine.

Try and just go with the flow and hook up and have good conversations. We are pretty easy when things have good energy.

What sign are you and what do you want from him?

you have to love Sagi for being honest and direct about it. He wanted sex, that is obvious, he told you not to be clingy, obvious... why do you have these feelings, why did you have them and why after three months do you still have them? It will come across as clingy. Why do you ask why he does this when he knows you have feelings? Guys don’t assume you still have feelings after 3 months, most people don’t.

Why do you tell us that he can have other women, at first I thought maybe you are worried he might find someone else, but now I think maybe you are trying to describe to us that he’s the type of guy to get bothered about because he’s an attractive guy, because other women want him. Hmmz if that makes sense, anyway, just don’t worry or do anything stupid because you think someone else will take him. Have more confidence in yourself and that the future will be ok with or without him, you need to act this way, or you’ll continue to give him the clingy vibe. Don’t you think he should be the one making it up to you? Or do you not want to act that way.

In facts, I know in the last 3 months he was fucking around with others 6 girls... I know that because he told me, IDK why but he's really honest about what he's doing. Isn't about lack of confidence by myself, sadly I know him. About my feelings, he knows cuz he asked me if still I feel something for him.

Yeah, I have feelings for him but tbh I don't want a relationship with him.

Btw I'm Virgo

Posted by byfelicity

In facts, I know in the last 3 months he was fucking around with others 6 girls... I know that because he told me, IDK why but he's really honest about what he's doing. Isn't about lack of confidence by myself, sadly I know him. About my feelings, he knows cuz he asked me if still I feel something for him.

Yeah, I have feelings for him but tbh I don't want a relationship with him.

Btw I'm Virgo

Treat him as a summer fling.

Hot summer

Posted by FormerLurker

Is this the same Sagittarius guy you cheated on your husband with? Or a new one?

Same... I'm single now and happy about it.

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Posted by byfelicity

Posted by FormerLurker

Is this the same Sagittarius guy you cheated on your husband with? Or a new one?

Same... I'm single now and happy about it.

So he knew u had s husband and didn’t care he’d be helping break up your marriage?

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Yes he knew and not my marriages problems started before him but he used to asked me all the time about my divorce process and in some point he started to pushedme to separate and divorce, but he never offered me a real relationship, anyways my marriage was over with or without him.

This week when we talk again was when I told that I'm already divorced.

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Posted by byfelicity

Posted by FormerLurker

Is this the same Sagittarius guy you cheated on your husband with? Or a new one?

Same... I'm single now and happy about it.

Good for you. I'm fascinated by your choices. Where's your Moon, Venus and Mars?

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I have no idea, all I know is that I'm virgo

Posted by byfelicity

In facts, I know in the last 3 months he was fucking around with others 6 girls... I know that because he told me, IDK why but he's really honest about what he's doing. Isn't about lack of confidence by myself, sadly I know him. About my feelings, he knows cuz he asked me if still I feel something for him.

Yeah, I have feelings for him but tbh I don't want a relationship with him.

Btw I'm Virgo

So knowing this you still fucked him 🤦‍♀️ Aren’t you worried you could catch something. Condoms aren’t 100% effective against stds.

Roll the dice I guess.

Posted by MissKrabs

at least you know where you stand with him. actually it's not at least, it's big. take it or leave it.

Yeah I know that he's not going to offer me a real relationship but I know he has a lot of options and all these girls have less complicated life than mine.... This is why I'm curious.

All of them younger, beautiful and with their shit together.

Posted by byfelicity

Posted by MissKrabs

at least you know where you stand with him. actually it's not at least, it's big. take it or leave it.

Yeah I know that he's not going to offer me a real relationship but I know he has a lot of options and all these girls have less complicated life than mine.... This is why I'm curious.

All of them younger, beautiful and with their shit together.

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Pussy is pussy 🤷‍♀️

What sign are you?

he just wants sex from you, but probably a bad idea to stick around if you caught feelings in a fwb

he bangs 6 girls. he doesnt like you in that way

Posted by Sagicorn

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by byfelicity

Posted by FormerLurker

Is this the same Sagittarius guy you cheated on your husband with? Or a new one?

Same... I'm single now and happy about it.

So he knew u had s husband and didn’t care he’d be helping break up your marriage?

Why would an outsider care for marriage of two who don't care for in the first place? I'm sure all the fucbois out there before sleeping with a girl ask first if she's married, is she planning to divorce and patiently wait until she does so that they can jump on her rofl

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You are totally right

Damn those Sags

Posted by byfelicity

Posted by MissKrabs

at least you know where you stand with him. actually it's not at least, it's big. take it or leave it.

Yeah I know that he's not going to offer me a real relationship but I know he has a lot of options and all these girls have less complicated life than mine.... This is why I'm curious.

All of them younger, beautiful and with their shit together.

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Most saggis and other signs, even the older ones, have a habitat of being in "ships" with people who have more laundry then others.

It's a way to avoid forming real emotional attachments.

It doesnt mean that he doesnt like you.

Meet him where he is at.

If he only gives a slice of bread, meet him with a slice.

If you already have feelings...cut him loose.

Posted by LethalFantasia

damn you got played

roflroflroflrofl

shitttttttttttttt gorl

No! She get fucked! 🧐

yeah we keep it 100% . I always talk about everything pretty freely because I dont like to lie and talk so fast I will tell the truth anyway.

I love good sex, its a requirement, but you have to bring something else other than me enjoying our conversations because I enjoy my conversations with all my fwb

I'm not for breaking up homes, if she made it clear its over, then I would jump in.

I don't want to poke where another guy is poking..... but I want to fish wherever I want.

Posted by byfelicity

Hello Sagittarius

Please let me a honest opinion

I used to have a friends with benefits relationships with this guy and I started to catch feelings, I told him and he push me away... Totally understood because he always was honest about what he wanted with me.

This week I saw a funny video and I sent it to him. After that he started a whole conversation about things that happened between us and he told me that he didn't handle the situation with me in the very best way. Was a deep, long and honest conversation.

Next day he texted me telling me that he wanted to see me and I said yes. Long history short, he came to my house we talked and then we had sex.

Before he left, he told me "Dont get clingy this time"

Why come back to me after 3 months knowing that I have feelings?

And I know he is really lucky with girls, he is the kind of guy who can have the girl he choose...

Wow what a rude thing to say after just having sex with him..you should have said 'after that session trust me I won't be! 😂'

He wanted sex and he likes you so it was a very easy thing to do but really that was a pretty blunt thing to say afterwards x

Also hun don't assume because you think he's amazing all other women do. That's in your head. After what he said wouldn't matter if he was gods gift he sounds abit cocky to me. Not attractive. Don't be used x