What percent of your sexual partners were nonconsensual? (Page 2)

Felt pressured into it, I couldn't count.

My ex boyfriend went down on me when I was passed out drunk when we first met... he thought he'd wake me up by doing it he claims. I didn't find out about it till he confessed like a year or so later about it. After we broke up I look back at that and think damn dude violated me. Kind of messed with my head for a while because there were times during our relationship where he kind of forced me into sex when I wasn't feeling it.

In college I went to a club with a friend and was almost gang raped. I was really drunk and went outside where there was this huge crowd of men. They surrounded me and some of them started grabbing at my tits and ass. My friend dragged me out of there. I had blocked it out for years until I talked about it to my Libra ex who really made me realize what had happened.

There have been other incidents like that too. I try not to think about them to much.

Umm 0. Im not a rapist

Posted by GammaArietis

I’m not going to do any math but I was raped by a 29 year old man when I was 15. It was one of my uncles friends and I had grown up around him.

He is a Scorpio. I only know because he tried to add me on Facebook years and years later.

Edit-it wasn’t just rape because I was 15. It was pretty violent and I had to dig my tampon out from the base of my cervix because he’d not bothered to notice I was on my period and had a tampon in.

That is fucked up. How can you speak so calmly of this??

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One was a guy I went to school with, I was in the backyard laying out in the sun when he called and said he was coming to get some cds that he had loaned me. He was on his way and not far, so when I came back into the house to find the cds I was still in my swimsuit. He got there a couple minutes later to get the cds, I lived with my sister at the time but she wasn’t home she was working. (we were in our early 20s) it happened incredibly fast he basically pulled my bikini bottom down and forced me over the kitchen table, then it was over just as quick as it started. I was in shock so I didn’t flip out or fight him like I probably should have, but I never spoke to him again. I felt like since I knew him and since I was wearing a bikini, I kind of deserved it (thanks to social conditioning).

10 years later I would see him at my job because he had a baby with my coworker, he would say hi but I tried to avoid him, it was so uncomfortable. I never told her what happened I just wanted to forget it. I struggled with shame because I felt like I should have changed into clothes before he got there, but I wasn’t wearing the bikini to entice him, I was sunbathing long before he even announced that he was coming. Men should be able to control themselves regardless of what a woman is wearing. He was a cancer.

That is fucked up and you damn sure didnt deserve it

Posted by nanobotz

Sexually assaulted 4x

Attempted rape 2 of those times

Fought them and escaped both times. The men were never held accountable.

I do believe that most women experience these types of assaults at some point, or throughout, their lives. It’s a very scary world we live in that there are so many men who feel entitled to our bodies. Talking about it, hopefully empowers women to be safer (when applicable), fight back against their assailants (when applicable), and to have the courage to prosecute them. Talking about it, also helps bring awareness to the good men out there, that this is happening all the time everywhere, so they can fully condemn it. It’s time for men to be held accountable for their actions.

This. Because trust me not all men feel like yall owe us something period! My sons mother is a rape victim and I guess that's why I sympathize with her the way I do. I feel bad for her when she has her meltdowns

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Posted by zandomenica

all women went through some kind of sexual abuse in life - and if men can't recognize that, they're part of the problem

as a scorpio moon, the idea of revenge is kind of enticing in this circumstance

have y'all ever watched "hard candy" (2005) and "promising young women" (2020)?

I do find it odd all women go though some type of sexual abuse. I've noticed most if not all women I've know have some type of tormentor due to some type of sexual abuse. It makes me wonder why. I refuse to believe women are weak, and just prone to this type of abuse. I know more then enough women who would kill a man or woman if they tried to betray her mentally or physically. There has to be something else. Something I can't quite describe, because I'm not a woman, nor have I been sexually abused. I have had a handful of women completely fool me and take advantage of my sex drive for some type of gain. Whether it be money, or just knowing the cards are forever in their favor. Though I can't use that as a point to argue anything. If I did I would be looked at as either masochistic, or one who blames victims. I want it to be known I'm neither of those. At least from my own perspective. One that us open for debate.

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idk maybe its just simple as who has power and willing to exploit it to gain something they want. This happens in all area's of society. So idk if its an exclusive woman to man dynamic, just a human nature thing.

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Posted by neves

Hate it when people play mind games with sensitive issues. What kind of question is that?! Why not simply ask: Did you ever experience rape (if so how many times)? 🤨

That's like touching other sensitives topics like bullying or suicide and be like: "How many times did you enjoy getting beaten to a pulp? Or... How many beatings did it took - to get used to pain or the taste of your own blood? Or... How many times did your suicide attempts turn you on?" And so on and so forth...

The OP sounds so casual... as if it's a topic about beer consumption or smoking (especially the way the question is phrased). Jeez...

I actually found zero fault in how she wrote her OP. I understood 100%

To accuse her of game playing is a bit of a leap tho

Chalk it up to Mercury in synastry

Now if your post is meant to detract, I would please beg you to check yourself and ask yourself why you don’t want to stay on topic

Since you put it like that - you could apply the same theory to my Mercury (why you can't see my point of view - or why i can't see hers - through same logic as yours and such...). Coincidentally (since i don't like/intend to use astrology as a scapegoat) - my Mercury is in Taurus (practical way of thinking - dabbling with facts and figures) - which would imply that Mercury in Pisces confuses meh (don't even know your astrological placements - but Mercury in Pisces would fit - this conundrum).

Beyond the astro-talk - and to answer your question (well, what you seem to imply): No, i don't have any experience with rape - not even close. Unless it's about the non-sexual type, then yes - over 90% was non-consensual (on their part). But that's a thing of the past, distant past. For some might be helpful to talk about it (after all - that's what therapy is all about), but... there's also people who yearn to feed their own demons - with other people's trauma/pain (so called misery loves company and such).

Any more questions? Bluntly put if you please - cause i'm not into guessing (or reading between lines).

I think OP also has taurus mercury and DMV has scorp mercury.

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I do, But I always my thought process is also greatly affected by my gem moon, because your emotions are your instincts the gateway to your thoughts. So my merc is always yelling at my moon who is throwing a brain party, "you better clean this shit up before you let it out!"

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Posted by GammaArietis

I’m not going to do any math but I was raped by a 29 year old man when I was 15. It was one of my uncles friends and I had grown up around him.

He is a Scorpio. I only know because he tried to add me on Facebook years and years later.

Edit-it wasn’t just rape because I was 15. It was pretty violent and I had to dig my tampon out from the base of my cervix because he’d not bothered to notice I was on my period and had a tampon in.

That is fucked up. How can you speak so calmly of this??

I wouldn’t say that I’m calm? I was hesitant to share it here. Its the first time I’ve ever told strangers on the internet. It happened 20 years ago and I’ve been to therapy. I wouldn’t have shared it if I thought I might be affected by negative responses.

But, why would I share it? So other women can read it and feel less isolated. I wanted to break the ice and share the ugly details so other women would feel comfortable. If someone is ready, talking about their trauma can be very powerful and help in healing.

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I hope I didnt sound rude or cold. I just meant how did you come to such a calm enough place. Thats horrible tho. I hate to hear about women being raped. Youre brave to tell ya story and survive it!

Posted by Astrobyn

2 nonconsensual

divided by

9 men total (including nonconsensual)

= 22% nonconsensual

The point to all the math was just to see these experience from a different perspective. So, when I tell myself 20% of all the men that have been with, happened without my consent. My personal experience may have taught my subconscious 20% of the men will do this, and this is how I see and interact with the world.

The point of the thread, was me reading a guy on here being so flippant about the topic. (I get there are men who are not, whom I sure reside somewhere in that other 80% ) I don’t care about that dude and what he thinks personally, this is not an attack on him. Its just funny to me how we have completely different ideas about this.

I feel like a I have a good understanding of how often this happens to women, I just wanted to see some numbers. This is just me trying to explore some ideas.

Merry Christmas

That percentage is bound to vary depending on location (quite a lot in some cases - be it lower or higher - depending on location). Time has a big saying as well - ofc, but same goes for repercussions (in a distant past were most women rarely had a saying - to such extent that they probably couldn't even comprehend/imagine a world where intercourse with their man is consensual - a mater of choice... in such times emotional impact or trauma - seem less likely "without other factors - like a third party, a stranger or an enemy - being the culprit").

Back to present times... there's still some regions where women don't have the same freedom - the same possibilities and uprising of other women from our times - just luckier on the birth lottery (born in a place that comes with more privileges). For example - Arab countries vs United States, tho - even with this example... not all Arab countries are the same - and that's especially true for United States. Sometimes it's even a matter of neighborhood (impoverished/underprivileged areas - in particular) despite of living a state or country - where stuff like that rarely happens. That's not to say that uptown girls are excluded from this equation (that's simply less likely - again, where once again - ones human condition has the biggest saying).

We also live in times where we had the Me Too movement, tho on the negative side... modern feminism started degrading - cause of woman who use it as a card for personal agendas (women like Amber Heard and others alike) or to gain some privileges (to many to count - and this women are usually the loudest). Then there's the spiteful/envious bunch - women who seem to hate/envy other women (quite an irony that in 2021-2022... there's women who target and sabotage other women / and sure, when it comes to male partners - women competing and hating or sabotaging one another - was more common even in the past - but screwing with groups of women who enjoy a sport - the one in question might suck at). But this last part is less relevant for this topic - so i'll leave it at that.

Anyway, this subject is more complex and as mentioned above - in can vary from location to location - which makes that percentage quite irrelevant - generally speaking. It's not like talking about a product with same properties - thus its impact (be it negative or positive) - can imply similar outcomes wherever its used (like cigarettes and smoking - for example).

Merry XMAS and a Happy New Year. 😜

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Posted by neves

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Posted by neves

Hate it when people play mind games with sensitive issues. What kind of question is that?! Why not simply ask: Did you ever experience rape (if so how many times)? 🤨

That's like touching other sensitives topics like bullying or suicide and be like: "How many times did you enjoy getting beaten to a pulp? Or... How many beatings did it took - to get used to pain or the taste of your own blood? Or... How many times did your suicide attempts turn you on?" And so on and so forth...

The OP sounds so casual... as if it's a topic about beer consumption or smoking (especially the way the question is phrased). Jeez...

I actually found zero fault in how she wrote her OP. I understood 100%

To accuse her of game playing is a bit of a leap tho

Chalk it up to Mercury in synastry

Now if your post is meant to detract, I would please beg you to check yourself and ask yourself why you don’t want to stay on topic

Since you put it like that - you could apply the same theory to my Mercury (why you can't see my point of view - or why i can't see hers - through same logic as yours and such...). Coincidentally (since i don't like/intend to use astrology as a scapegoat) - my Mercury is in Taurus (practical way of thinking - dabbling with facts and figures) - which would imply that Mercury in Pisces confuses meh (don't even know your astrological placements - but Mercury in Pisces would fit - this conundrum).

Beyond the astro-talk - and to answer your question (well, what you seem to imply): No, i don't have any experience with rape - not even close. Unless it's about the non-sexual type, then yes - over 90% was non-consensual (on their part). But that's a thing of the past, distant past. For some might be helpful to talk about it (after all - that's what therapy is all about), but... there's also people who yearn to feed their own demons - with other people's trauma/pain (so called misery loves company and such).

Any more questions? Bluntly put if you please - cause i'm not into guessing (or reading between lines).

I think OP also has taurus mercury and DMV has scorp mercury.

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Scorpio Mercury, i see... that means - she's gonna hold a grudge - for a loooong time. 👻

There’s a reason why a lot of people have sex regret or sleep with someone they never would sober. That feeling of doom and anxiety was always a sign of something wrong.

It’s because they were DRUNK/HIGH/COMATOSE/IN A BLACKOUT

THERE WAS NEVER ANY CONSENT.

Posted by cake

How come the men in this thread sound defensive. Why are you guys preventing this discussion?

Super defensive, very much so

As if we were talking about them

A hit dog will holler

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Posted by poppyflower

Posted by neves

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Posted by neves

Hate it when people play mind games with sensitive issues. What kind of question is that?! Why not simply ask: Did you ever experience rape (if so how many times)? 🤨

That's like touching other sensitives topics like bullying or suicide and be like: "How many times did you enjoy getting beaten to a pulp? Or... How many beatings did it took - to get used to pain or the taste of your own blood? Or... How many times did your suicide attempts turn you on?" And so on and so forth...

The OP sounds so casual... as if it's a topic about beer consumption or smoking (especially the way the question is phrased). Jeez...

I actually found zero fault in how she wrote her OP. I understood 100%

To accuse her of game playing is a bit of a leap tho

Chalk it up to Mercury in synastry

Now if your post is meant to detract, I would please beg you to check yourself and ask yourself why you don’t want to stay on topic

Since you put it like that - you could apply the same theory to my Mercury (why you can't see my point of view - or why i can't see hers - through same logic as yours and such...). Coincidentally (since i don't like/intend to use astrology as a scapegoat) - my Mercury is in Taurus (practical way of thinking - dabbling with facts and figures) - which would imply that Mercury in Pisces confuses meh (don't even know your astrological placements - but Mercury in Pisces would fit - this conundrum).

Beyond the astro-talk - and to answer your question (well, what you seem to imply): No, i don't have any experience with rape - not even close. Unless it's about the non-sexual type, then yes - over 90% was non-consensual (on their part). But that's a thing of the past, distant past. For some might be helpful to talk about it (after all - that's what therapy is all about), but... there's also people who yearn to feed their own demons - with other people's trauma/pain (so called misery loves company and such).

Any more questions? Bluntly put if you please - cause i'm not into guessing (or reading between lines).

I think OP also has taurus mercury and DMV has scorp mercury.

Scorpio Mercury, i see... that means - she's gonna hold a grudge - for a loooong time. 👻

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Not a grudge.

More so, I 👁 you and now know what to expect

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Posted by neves

Posted by DMV

Posted by neves

Hate it when people play mind games with sensitive issues. What kind of question is that?! Why not simply ask: Did you ever experience rape (if so how many times)? 🤨

That's like touching other sensitives topics like bullying or suicide and be like: "How many times did you enjoy getting beaten to a pulp? Or... How many beatings did it took - to get used to pain or the taste of your own blood? Or... How many times did your suicide attempts turn you on?" And so on and so forth...

The OP sounds so casual... as if it's a topic about beer consumption or smoking (especially the way the question is phrased). Jeez...

I actually found zero fault in how she wrote her OP. I understood 100%

To accuse her of game playing is a bit of a leap tho

Chalk it up to Mercury in synastry

Now if your post is meant to detract, I would please beg you to check yourself and ask yourself why you don’t want to stay on topic

Since you put it like that - you could apply the same theory to my Mercury (why you can't see my point of view - or why i can't see hers - through same logic as yours and such...). Coincidentally (since i don't like/intend to use astrology as a scapegoat) - my Mercury is in Taurus (practical way of thinking - dabbling with facts and figures) - which would imply that Mercury in Pisces confuses meh (don't even know your astrological placements - but Mercury in Pisces would fit - this conundrum).

Beyond the astro-talk - and to answer your question (well, what you seem to imply): No, i don't have any experience with rape - not even close. Unless it's about the non-sexual type, then yes - over 90% was non-consensual (on their part). But that's a thing of the past, distant past. For some might be helpful to talk about it (after all - that's what therapy is all about), but... there's also people who yearn to feed their own demons - with other people's trauma/pain (so called misery loves company and such).

Any more questions? Bluntly put if you please - cause i'm not into guessing (or reading between lines).

I think OP also has taurus mercury and DMV has scorp mercury.

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Taurus energy flows very freely in DMV land

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Posted by neves

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Posted by neves

Posted by DMV

Posted by neves

Hate it when people play mind games with sensitive issues. What kind of question is that?! Why not simply ask: Did you ever experience rape (if so how many times)? 🤨

That's like touching other sensitives topics like bullying or suicide and be like: "How many times did you enjoy getting beaten to a pulp? Or... How many beatings did it took - to get used to pain or the taste of your own blood? Or... How many times did your suicide attempts turn you on?" And so on and so forth...

The OP sounds so casual... as if it's a topic about beer consumption or smoking (especially the way the question is phrased). Jeez...

I actually found zero fault in how she wrote her OP. I understood 100%

To accuse her of game playing is a bit of a leap tho

Chalk it up to Mercury in synastry

Now if your post is meant to detract, I would please beg you to check yourself and ask yourself why you don’t want to stay on topic

Since you put it like that - you could apply the same theory to my Mercury (why you can't see my point of view - or why i can't see hers - through same logic as yours and such...). Coincidentally (since i don't like/intend to use astrology as a scapegoat) - my Mercury is in Taurus (practical way of thinking - dabbling with facts and figures) - which would imply that Mercury in Pisces confuses meh (don't even know your astrological placements - but Mercury in Pisces would fit - this conundrum).

Beyond the astro-talk - and to answer your question (well, what you seem to imply): No, i don't have any experience with rape - not even close. Unless it's about the non-sexual type, then yes - over 90% was non-consensual (on their part). But that's a thing of the past, distant past. For some might be helpful to talk about it (after all - that's what therapy is all about), but... there's also people who yearn to feed their own demons - with other people's trauma/pain (so called misery loves company and such).

Any more questions? Bluntly put if you please - cause i'm not into guessing (or reading between lines).

I think OP also has taurus mercury and DMV has scorp mercury.

Scorpio Mercury, i see... that means - she's gonna hold a grudge - for a loooong time. 👻

Not a grudge.

More so, I 👁 you and now know what to expect

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0.

for any woman whose number is greater than zero then my heart goes out to you.

thank you for feeling confident to share it if you have.

(and for those who keep it to themselves, that's ok too. i hope you have someone if your life you trust to tell)

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How come the men in this thread sound defensive. Why are you guys preventing this discussion?

Topics like these almost always seems to paint men in a negative light, regardless of whether it's warranted or not.

Topics like this require sensitivity towards the victims and those potentially at risk. Certain things, men have to learn how to manage their reaction because the world doesn't revolve around some of their poor egos.

And I'm not talking about all men. If you're a good man, then keep scrolling and keep being the kind of man you want to be around your mother/sister/niece/daughter.

Yeah, topics like this require sensitivity towards the victims, including where the victim being male and perpetrator being female. As @DMV puts it, "men can be the victims of sexual assumption". This kind of thing doesn't really encourage an open conversation between men and women on this topic.

Why as a woman do you feel like you need to speak for and sympathize with men? You did it in the other topic where the OP was paranoid of false rape allegations and now you’re in The Powder Room, which is for women, in a topic about sexual assault, sympathizing with the male experience. I’m not saying men are undeserving of sympathy but this isn’t the place. I just find it odd. It’s almost passive aggressive. You refuse to let women have a space without mentioning the male experience.

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I have to agree with the last line.

It kinda annoyed me having to talk qualify with the male experience of sexual assault.

It’s almost as if I had to mention and acknowledge the man’s sexual abuse just to appease the male ego.

Dare I say inclusivity always seem to rear it’s head in minority spaces. The what about me’s come out to play

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Posted by Moloko_vellocet

There’s a reason why a lot of people have sex regret or sleep with someone they never would sober. That feeling of doom and anxiety was always a sign of something wrong.

It’s because they were DRUNK/HIGH/COMATOSE/IN A BLACKOUT

THERE WAS NEVER ANY CONSENT.

the op was very clear, she was not talking about drunk situations, but when your partner force you into sex, cause, you are their partner, and somehow it's their right. and you maybe eventually let it cause you think, hey, maybe it is their right. it's not. it took a while for the law to incorporate these things, yes your wife, husband can rape you. and it's more common than we all think.

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I’m talking about my own experiences. I can be intoxicated with my partner and have those experiences because they feel entitled, as my partner. You can go gatekeep elsewhere, seriously. Fuck off

None. But the statistics are what, 1 in 4 women? Makes me scared for my friends and family.

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Posted by zandomenica

all women went through some kind of sexual abuse in life - and if men can't recognize that, they're part of the problem

as a scorpio moon, the idea of revenge is kind of enticing in this circumstance

have y'all ever watched "hard candy" (2005) and "promising young women" (2020)?

I do find it odd all women go though some type of sexual abuse. I've noticed most if not all women I've know have some type of tormentor due to some type of sexual abuse. It makes me wonder why. I refuse to believe women are weak, and just prone to this type of abuse. I know more then enough women who would kill a man or woman if they tried to betray her mentally or physically. There has to be something else. Something I can't quite describe, because I'm not a woman, nor have I been sexually abused. I have had a handful of women completely fool me and take advantage of my sex drive for some type of gain. Whether it be money, or just knowing the cards are forever in their favor. Though I can't use that as a point to argue anything. If I did I would be looked at as either masochistic, or one who blames victims. I want it to be known I'm neither of those. At least from my own perspective. One that us open for debate.

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You've talked before on here about how an ex gf/lover accused you on facebook of rape. But you continued to be fb friends with her.

A bit masochistic of you to keep the person accusing you of such a crime in your life. I hope you blocked her finally.

One important point we should note about men experiencing sexual assault (because that's what this thread has turned into) is that it is overwhelmingly committed by other men.

Its estimated 91% of rape and sexual assault victims are women and 9% are male.

99% the perpetrator is male, 1% female.

These numbers are based on a US Dept of Justice report back in 2002

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None. But the statistics are what, 1 in 4 women? Makes me scared for my friends and family.

1 in 3 😔

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Posted by Soul

Posted by zandomenica

all women went through some kind of sexual abuse in life - and if men can't recognize that, they're part of the problem

as a scorpio moon, the idea of revenge is kind of enticing in this circumstance

have y'all ever watched "hard candy" (2005) and "promising young women" (2020)?

I do find it odd all women go though some type of sexual abuse. I've noticed most if not all women I've know have some type of tormentor due to some type of sexual abuse. It makes me wonder why. I refuse to believe women are weak, and just prone to this type of abuse. I know more then enough women who would kill a man or woman if they tried to betray her mentally or physically. There has to be something else. Something I can't quite describe, because I'm not a woman, nor have I been sexually abused. I have had a handful of women completely fool me and take advantage of my sex drive for some type of gain. Whether it be money, or just knowing the cards are forever in their favor. Though I can't use that as a point to argue anything. If I did I would be looked at as either masochistic, or one who blames victims. I want it to be known I'm neither of those. At least from my own perspective. One that us open for debate.

You've talked before on here about how an ex gf/lover accused you on facebook of rape. But you continued to be fb friends with her.

A bit masochistic of you to keep the person accusing you of such a crime in your life. I hope you blocked her finally.

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None of that is accurate. Firstly it was in 2008 we her and I were in high school, not on FB. Secondly it was only rumors amongst our firend circle after she was caught messing around with other guys by a few other people outside our friend circle. Thirdly she accused me of physically assaulting her, and pressuring her into sex a few times. Which pressuring isn't exactly the same thing as holding someone down and physically forcing them. Mental abuse is still abuse though. It was all lies to save her reputation with our friend circle. Which no one believed her, and she lost her reputation and friends over it. Years later she came up to me in person and apologized for all the drama back in school. I'll admit, I can't help Capricorn women are hot af, especially when they are being emotional and deep. We ended up dating for a few months, decided it felt weird and that we were two completely different people, and decided we were better off friends. Which was like 11 years ago when the friend thing happened. Now it's like who cares. She has a husband and a few kids, and I her posts on occasion and think to myself "I'm happy for you." I don't understand why that bothers you so badly.

You dated a girl who accused you of sexual & physical assault??!!

close brushes. mostly, cab drivers are creepy with me coz i stupidly sit up front all the time. one time i hailed a cab to get to uni to celebrate my bday with friends. i was crying on the way coz of some family drama.

then he started asking personal questions: "do you have a boyfriend? how many people stay with you? are you a virgin? maybe we can stop by to eat somewhere for your birthday. we can stop to sleep somewhere." then he started making circles on my thigh with his fingers.

and this was at broad daylight! i was paralyzed like i can't believe someone is actually doing this and on my bday too! we were barely approaching uni when i had him drop me off. and you know what he said after? "i'm a god-fearing man."

worst bday ever.

and there was one time i kept blowing money at uni that my dad started to restrict my spending. so i decided to look up ads put up by people looking for personal assistants or maybe doing some cleaning (stuff i like to do anyway). was excited to have my first part-time experience.

then some old dude had me on VC for an interview and i was really excited coz i've never done any kind of work before in my life and this gonna be the first time. he stated my duties and showed me my uniform like some maid cosplay lol. i thought it looked cool but ridiculous but okay. then he got weird, told me to turn my body this or that way so he can get a look and started saying things i didn't completely understand. he told me he might need some 'extra duties' done which might not be in the list and i'm like: "then why not just place them on the list?" (my virgo brain used to work in primitive ways. but you have to know that i was still a virgin at this time and only really lost my virginity much later than my friends and only viewed sex from a biological standpoint but have very little technical knowledge lol). he got so frustrated at my stupidity that he then angrily straight up told me exactly what he'd like to do to me coz my brain was still not processing it. i got so scared that i dropped the call and blocked him.

imagine what could've happened if i didn't have that VC 😨😨

that's why i turned to the business of semi-illegally profitting from lazy students struggling with term papers and other academic forgeries. made me popular tbh. hell i even had my own website.

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Posted by zandomenica

all women went through some kind of sexual abuse in life - and if men can't recognize that, they're part of the problem

as a scorpio moon, the idea of revenge is kind of enticing in this circumstance

have y'all ever watched "hard candy" (2005) and "promising young women" (2020)?

I do find it odd all women go though some type of sexual abuse. I've noticed most if not all women I've know have some type of tormentor due to some type of sexual abuse. It makes me wonder why. I refuse to believe women are weak, and just prone to this type of abuse. I know more then enough women who would kill a man or woman if they tried to betray her mentally or physically. There has to be something else. Something I can't quite describe, because I'm not a woman, nor have I been sexually abused. I have had a handful of women completely fool me and take advantage of my sex drive for some type of gain. Whether it be money, or just knowing the cards are forever in their favor. Though I can't use that as a point to argue anything. If I did I would be looked at as either masochistic, or one who blames victims. I want it to be known I'm neither of those. At least from my own perspective. One that us open for debate.

You've talked before on here about how an ex gf/lover accused you on facebook of rape. But you continued to be fb friends with her.

A bit masochistic of you to keep the person accusing you of such a crime in your life. I hope you blocked her finally.

None of that is accurate. Firstly it was in 2008 we her and I were in high school, not on FB. Secondly it was only rumors amongst our firend circle after she was caught messing around with other guys by a few other people outside our friend circle. Thirdly she accused me of physically assaulting her, and pressuring her into sex a few times. Which pressuring isn't exactly the same thing as holding someone down and physically forcing them. Mental abuse is still abuse though. It was all lies to save her reputation with our friend circle. Which no one believed her, and she lost her reputation and friends over it. Years later she came up to me in person and apologized for all the drama back in school. I'll admit, I can't help Capricorn women are hot af, especially when they are being emotional and deep. We ended up dating for a few months, decided it felt weird and that we were two completely different people, and decided we were better off friends. Which was like 11 years ago when the friend thing happened. Now it's like who cares. She has a husband and a few kids, and I her posts on occasion and think to myself "I'm happy for you." I don't understand why that bothers you so badly.

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That’s a lotta words just to say yes. I’m not bothered I just distinctly remember you talking about it in the past.

You brought up masochism here. Dating your rape accuser fits that fairly well.