mewmewgirl
@mewmewgirl
7 Years
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Not sure what to do with this Virgo?
Cut cut cut cut cut cut. NEVER befriend an ex-virgo. You need to make sure he can see your social media. AND make sure he can see you UPGRADE yourself. Post travel pics, post learning new things, post anything happy etc. That's the only way you can attract him back.
Posted by Toastedtoast
Cut cut cut cut cut cut. NEVER befriend an ex-virgo. You need to make sure he can see your social media. AND make sure he can see you UPGRADE yourself. Post travel pics, post learning new things, post anything happy etc. That's the only way you can attract him back.
Oof, I haven’t been on since I posted and only just saw this now.
It’s so bizarre you say that though! He’s currently “hanging out” with a new girl now (he essentially jumped from me to her, also the reason I believe he left) and we properly conversed via text tonight for the first time in ages. I spoke about what was going on with me, all positive. I told him I’ve been on dates and doing new things. I asked about the girl and I don’t know if he intentionally mellowed out what’s going on with her, which is apparently just being happy in each other’s company, or if something’s actually going on. Either way, he ended our convo with a “good night and sweet dreams” with a kissy face emoji and a “xx”. I thought that was weird. Makes it seem like he still feels something for me or just attempting to keep me on tabs. What do you think?
Regardless anyway, I cried, grieved and moved on. At this point I don’t even consider him a friend. I’m just curious to see how this unfolds. Definitely the Scorpio in me coming out to play haha.
What are your other placements
Moon
Venus
Mars
Honestly I've I always felt Virgo Scorpio matchs to be odd but sure that they do work.
If I was him I would have to say he probably didn't take it seriously or he did and his mechanism to protect his self from pain is the move on fast. That was a mistake I did once with a ex Cap with Scorpio placements. We let each other go and weeks I had a new girl friend who I just needed to cushing my pain. After few months my ex came back and we agreed to cut it off with the people we where involved with. Hurt on all sides and it turned out to be a bad idea. We ended up separated a year later. It took time to let her go but I didn't show it I just went into my safe space and took more time before jumping into relationship with some one new the 2end time.
Moon
Venus
Mars
Honestly I've I always felt Virgo Scorpio matchs to be odd but sure that they do work.
If I was him I would have to say he probably didn't take it seriously or he did and his mechanism to protect his self from pain is the move on fast. That was a mistake I did once with a ex Cap with Scorpio placements. We let each other go and weeks I had a new girl friend who I just needed to cushing my pain. After few months my ex came back and we agreed to cut it off with the people we where involved with. Hurt on all sides and it turned out to be a bad idea. We ended up separated a year later. It took time to let her go but I didn't show it I just went into my safe space and took more time before jumping into relationship with some one new the 2end time.
Posted by MrHandsome
What are your other placements
Moon
Venus
Mars
Honestly I've I always felt Virgo Scorpio matchs to be odd but sure that they do work.
If I was him I would have to say he probably didn't take it seriously or he did and his mechanism to protect his self from pain is the move on fast. That was a mistake I did once with a ex Cap with Scorpio placements. We let each other go and weeks I had a new girl friend who I just needed to cushing my pain. After few months my ex came back and we agreed to cut it off with the people we where involved with. Hurt on all sides and it turned out to be a bad idea. We ended up separated a year later. It took time to let her go but I didn't show it I just went into my safe space and took more time before jumping into relationship with some one new the 2end time.
Moon in Virgo
Venus in Sag
Mars in Sag
In all honesty, near the end of things with him it was really toxic! We just kept arguing. It definitely felt like we were stuck in limbo with all of it though and it just got the better of us. When we were good, we were amazing but when it was bad, it was a disaster lol. I can’t tell what he’s thinking/feeling now that he’s talking to/seeing someone else. Recently, I did decide to cut ties for good as a friend as he’s too inconsistent. Too in and out. But don’t think he’d come back either despite all the good I’ve done for him.
Just to add, I think his reasoning might lean more towards the latter. At that point we were both hurt and I still don’t understand how one could jump to another person immediately. My intuition tells me he gave up weeks prior (red flags), started talking to this girl and moved on to her as it’s easier to coat than to deal with the pain.
They do the silent treatment so we'll..it's their signature! I wouldn't run after him..let him come to you
Posted by mewmewgirlPosted by MrHandsome
What are your other placements
Moon
Venus
Mars
Honestly I've I always felt Virgo Scorpio matchs to be odd but sure that they do work.
If I was him I would have to say he probably didn't take it seriously or he did and his mechanism to protect his self from pain is the move on fast. That was a mistake I did once with a ex Cap with Scorpio placements. We let each other go and weeks I had a new girl friend who I just needed to cushing my pain. After few months my ex came back and we agreed to cut it off with the people we where involved with. Hurt on all sides and it turned out to be a bad idea. We ended up separated a year later. It took time to let her go but I didn't show it I just went into my safe space and took more time before jumping into relationship with some one new the 2end time.
Moon in Virgo
Venus in Sag
Mars in Sag
In all honesty, near the end of things with him it was really toxic! We just kept arguing. It definitely felt like we were stuck in limbo with all of it though and it just got the better of us. When we were good, we were amazing but when it was bad, it was a disaster lol. I can’t tell what he’s thinking/feeling now that he’s talking to/seeing someone else. Recently, I did decide to cut ties for good as a friend as he’s too inconsistent. Too in and out. But don’t think he’d come back either despite all the good I’ve done for him.click to expand
Virgo moon explains your emotional connection. You two are compatible but it depends on his mars.
All in all I wouldn't waste time on him, some guys live and feed off of attention just like most women do. If I was you I would mentally thank him for leaving, when people are in love or like its kind of hard to move on unless it really never met anything to them.
Let's just at he's lucky you don't have alot of Scorpio in you or he would have been up Sh#s creek with out a paddle lol.
The 1st year can be the easiest or the hardest depending on how well two people match on all levels.
Never befriend a Virgo ex
Ever
We need to miss you totally instead of slowly let our feelings fade out.
If he broke it off becuz of arguing he’ll probably never reenter a relationship with u.
Also imo of course. He will move on fast, like fast, like super fast but then find it hard to actually connect. 🤷🏽♀️
Don’t be his friend either he wants you or he doesn’t
Hugs🤗
Btw I love scorps
Ever
We need to miss you totally instead of slowly let our feelings fade out.
If he broke it off becuz of arguing he’ll probably never reenter a relationship with u.
Also imo of course. He will move on fast, like fast, like super fast but then find it hard to actually connect. 🤷🏽♀️
Don’t be his friend either he wants you or he doesn’t
Hugs🤗
Btw I love scorps
Don’t degrade yourself waiting for a man. You are SO much better than that. His loss for dropping a powerful Scorpio woman. It is not worth the emotional energy.
Posted by MrHandsomePosted by mewmewgirlPosted by MrHandsome
What are your other placements
Moon
Venus
Mars
Honestly I've I always felt Virgo Scorpio matchs to be odd but sure that they do work.
If I was him I would have to say he probably didn't take it seriously or he did and his mechanism to protect his self from pain is the move on fast. That was a mistake I did once with a ex Cap with Scorpio placements. We let each other go and weeks I had a new girl friend who I just needed to cushing my pain. After few months my ex came back and we agreed to cut it off with the people we where involved with. Hurt on all sides and it turned out to be a bad idea. We ended up separated a year later. It took time to let her go but I didn't show it I just went into my safe space and took more time before jumping into relationship with some one new the 2end time.
Moon in Virgo
Venus in Sag
Mars in Sag
In all honesty, near the end of things with him it was really toxic! We just kept arguing. It definitely felt like we were stuck in limbo with all of it though and it just got the better of us. When we were good, we were amazing but when it was bad, it was a disaster lol. I can’t tell what he’s thinking/feeling now that he’s talking to/seeing someone else. Recently, I did decide to cut ties for good as a friend as he’s too inconsistent. Too in and out. But don’t think he’d come back either despite all the good I’ve done for him.
Virgo moon explains your emotional connection. You two are compatible but it depends on his mars.
All in all I wouldn't waste time on him, some guys live and feed off of attention just like most women do. If I was you I would mentally thank him for leaving, when people are in love or like its kind of hard to move on unless it really never met anything to them.
Let's just at he's lucky you don't have alot of Scorpio in you or he would have been up Sh#s creek with out a paddle lol.click to expand
He has mars in libra! However, I’ve cut contact with him now and ended whatever we were with a bitter sweet message. No ragrets. I enjoyed it while it lasted and see it as a learning curve so no loss here ☺️ Thanks so much for your input, much appreciated!
Haha and yes! Lucky indeed. I can be quite the hot head but was extremely lenient and civil. Always trying to spread love instead 🌝
Posted by Earthy
Never befriend a Virgo ex
Ever
We need to miss you totally instead of slowly let our feelings fade out.
If he broke it off becuz of arguing he’ll probably never reenter a relationship with u.
Also imo of course. He will move on fast, like fast, like super fast but then find it hard to actually connect. 🤷🏽♀️
Don’t be his friend either he wants you or he doesn’t
Hugs🤗
Btw I love scorps
Oof, GURL, I definitely learnt this time ‘round. Even as friends, it was extremely one sided and it was clear as day he didn’t give a damn. I’ve finally cut ties though and I’m back to being a happy gal! I just hope one day, despite our past, that he realises the good I’ve done for him because I always try to leave a positive impact on people 🤗💁🏻♀️
will!! When shit hits his life and you don’t contact him, he will be thinking of the good times. Scorpios keep it real. Honestly, I think scorpios deserve someone who’s all in or all out. No friend zone bs. I’m a Virgo with moon in scorp!Posted by mewmewgirlPosted by Earthy
Never befriend a Virgo ex
Ever
We need to miss you totally instead of slowly let our feelings fade out.
If he broke it off becuz of arguing he’ll probably never reenter a relationship with u.
Also imo of course. He will move on fast, like fast, like super fast but then find it hard to actually connect. 🤷🏽♀️
Don’t be his friend either he wants you or he doesn’t
Hugs🤗
Btw I love scorps
Oof, GURL, I definitely learnt this time ‘round. Even as friends, it was extremely one sided and it was clear as day he didn’t give a damn. I’ve finally cut ties though and I’m back to being a happy gal! I just hope one day, despite our past, that he realises the good I’ve done for him because I always try to leave a positive impact on people 🤗💁🏻♀️click to expand
Posted by Toastedtoast
Trust me, he will!! When shit hits his life and you don’t contact him, he will be thinking of the good times. Scorpios keep it real. Honestly, I think scorpios deserve someone who’s all in or all out. No friend zone bs. I’m a Virgo with moon in scorp!Posted by mewmewgirlPosted by Earthy
Never befriend a Virgo ex
Ever
We need to miss you totally instead of slowly let our feelings fade out.
If he broke it off becuz of arguing he’ll probably never reenter a relationship with u.
Also imo of course. He will move on fast, like fast, like super fast but then find it hard to actually connect. 🤷🏽♀️
Don’t be his friend either he wants you or he doesn’t
Hugs🤗
Btw I love scorps
Oof, GURL, I definitely learnt this time ‘round. Even as friends, it was extremely one sided and it was clear as day he didn’t give a damn. I’ve finally cut ties though and I’m back to being a happy gal! I just hope one day, despite our past, that he realises the good I’ve done for him because I always try to leave a positive impact on people 🤗💁🏻♀️
click to expand
I think you’re right because guess who I just got a text from a month later?! Tsk tsk, haven’t rolled my eyes that hard in awhile 🙄
Don't be the side chick he runs to when shit goes wrong with the preferred girl.
Posted by DarkLyon
Don't be the side chick he runs to when shit goes wrong with the preferred girl.
Nah, nah, nah. I’ve cut ties. It’s his loss and he knows it 😈
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