heliumfiasco
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Posted by Nathan912Why do you say that?! We got along well! lol
Knew it. Any date with a Libra Woman is gonna be disaster.

Posted by heliumfiascoVirgo (Aug. 23–Sept. 22)Posted by Nathan912Why do you say that?! We got along well! lol
Knew it. Any date with a Libra Woman is gonna be disaster.click to expand
Posted by Already-use
ahha - 1 rule .. Know how to hold your liquor ! Especially on the first date ! The guy could have been a killer or something . Just get 1 or 2 or top 3 drinks just to get you in the mood . But getting shitface drunk naah , not cute , probably think that you are both alcoholic and can't have fun without liquor ^^.
Anyway on a more serious note if he wants to see you again go for it but your story is rather funny .
TBH I feel that virgo men are quite different from us female - they don't seem to be that complicated ^^


Posted by EllygantI'm just highly critical of any dating experience. I felt like it was a bad impression on my part. Overthinking as always.
Seems like fun to me lol. How was it a disaster?
Him wanting you to meet his friends seems like a good sign not a bad. Why did it weird you out?



Posted by LePetitFiskSpill it, lady. Don't spare me the details, gurl, I want the blow-by-blow!
If you didnt end up giving him a drunken handjob in front of his friends, how was it a disaster?

Posted by heliumfiascoMoral of the story? Next time drink water and avoid To-Kill-Ya. What did it get you? He's just as embarrassed as you are. To-Kill-Ya is yeah, a drink (shots) people do as if it were "Spring break" or at a frat house with games: lick, pour, drink, suck, etc!Posted by Already-use
ahha - 1 rule .. Know how to hold your liquor ! Especially on the first date ! The guy could have been a killer or something . Just get 1 or 2 or top 3 drinks just to get you in the mood . But getting shitface drunk naah , not cute , probably think that you are both alcoholic and can't have fun without liquor ^^.
Anyway on a more serious note if he wants to see you again go for it but your story is rather funny .
TBH I feel that virgo men are quite different from us female - they don't seem to be that complicated ^^
haha we will see. To be fair, neither us did anything too stupid. We were both just LIT! Like really LIT. We were dancing and having fun but it wasnt the best situation to get to know someone.We were talking EVERYDAY. Yesterday was brief and so far today nothing. Not too serious.... but I feel bad it went down like that.click to expand

Posted by Damnatatrue!
SMDH
Self sabotage.


Posted by heliumfiascoDon't feel bad, Libra Women are not the worst woman to date in the zodiac.Posted by Nathan912Why do you say that?! We got along well! lol
Knew it. Any date with a Libra Woman is gonna be disaster.click to expand

Posted by heliumfiascoWell aside from him having you meet his friends and getting drunk on the first date (btw, Virgos can be some serious drinkers, hence why I love them) sounds like nothing was wrong.Posted by EllygantI'm just highly critical of any dating experience. I felt like it was a bad impression on my part. Overthinking as always.
Seems like fun to me lol. How was it a disaster?
Him wanting you to meet his friends seems like a good sign not a bad. Why did it weird you out?
He twice asked if id meet his female friend Jacky that day on two separate occasions that day. (we hung out from 1pm to 1 am) I have lots of male friends and If I do that I want their opinions. Dates are weird enough, I dont want to feel even more examined. Ya know?
Oddly enough....he just text me.
Hes also Virgo_Libra cusp? That make a huge difference in personality?click to expand
Posted by ChuckcemPosted by heliumfiascoWell aside from him having you meet his friends and getting drunk on the first date (btw, Virgos can be some serious drinkers, hence why I love them) sounds like nothing was wrong.Posted by EllygantI'm just highly critical of any dating experience. I felt like it was a bad impression on my part. Overthinking as always.
Seems like fun to me lol. How was it a disaster?
Him wanting you to meet his friends seems like a good sign not a bad. Why did it weird you out?
He twice asked if id meet his female friend Jacky that day on two separate occasions that day. (we hung out from 1pm to 1 am) I have lots of male friends and If I do that I want their opinions. Dates are weird enough, I dont want to feel even more examined. Ya know?
Oddly enough....he just text me.
Hes also Virgo_Libra cusp? That make a huge difference in personality?
Both Virgos and Libras have this idea of impressing the other, but in different ways. Virgos are looking for someone who perfectly matches and accepts their quirks. I can't tell you how many times I met a Virgo for the first time over drinks or while they were wasted...or while explosions were happening...(the answer is every Virgo I know).
Libra on the other hand is all about charm, grace and setting the perfect first impression. You're worried how you look and how the situation looks. You're that he's worried and he's probably worried that you're worried. Virgos also need to see how you interact with their friends, so it's impressive you actually got him to go on a date in the first place without taking that awkwardly confusing friendship step first. Granted he still used his friends as a crutch, but it's BECAUSE he was trying to make a good impression by showing off his "network".
My advice would be to go out with him again, but to keep the date just the two of you. Still go and have fun, but try to maintain your faculties this time. It's not a bad thing to know that you two can get LIT though and nothing bad happens.
Devil's advocate: I'm a Virgo Moon and on my first date with a Libra, we both got drunk. She'd also met my friends well before our first date...soooooo...It happens.click to expand

Posted by heliumfiascoYou're overthinking it. This guy is asking you out on dates and hitting you up often. That's not a friendship vibe. A friendship vibe will be when he starts nonchalantly tossing the word "friend" around and not asking for dates.Posted by ChuckcemPosted by heliumfiascoWell aside from him having you meet his friends and getting drunk on the first date (btw, Virgos can be some serious drinkers, hence why I love them) sounds like nothing was wrong.Posted by EllygantI'm just highly critical of any dating experience. I felt like it was a bad impression on my part. Overthinking as always.
Seems like fun to me lol. How was it a disaster?
Him wanting you to meet his friends seems like a good sign not a bad. Why did it weird you out?
He twice asked if id meet his female friend Jacky that day on two separate occasions that day. (we hung out from 1pm to 1 am) I have lots of male friends and If I do that I want their opinions. Dates are weird enough, I dont want to feel even more examined. Ya know?
Oddly enough....he just text me.
Hes also Virgo_Libra cusp? That make a huge difference in personality?
Both Virgos and Libras have this idea of impressing the other, but in different ways. Virgos are looking for someone who perfectly matches and accepts their quirks. I can't tell you how many times I met a Virgo for the first time over drinks or while they were wasted...or while explosions were happening...(the answer is every Virgo I know).
Libra on the other hand is all about charm, grace and setting the perfect first impression. You're worried how you look and how the situation looks. You're that he's worried and he's probably worried that you're worried. Virgos also need to see how you interact with their friends, so it's impressive you actually got him to go on a date in the first place without taking that awkwardly confusing friendship step first. Granted he still used his friends as a crutch, but it's BECAUSE he was trying to make a good impression by showing off his "network".
My advice would be to go out with him again, but to keep the date just the two of you. Still go and have fun, but try to maintain your faculties this time. It's not a bad thing to know that you two can get LIT though and nothing bad happens.
Devil's advocate: I'm a Virgo Moon and on my first date with a Libra, we both got drunk. She'd also met my friends well before our first date...soooooo...It happens.
Funny you should mention this weird friend phase thing. He texts me everyday but I cannot tell if he now wants to be friends or what. Ill even try to throw some flirtation out there and its returned with a polite and neutral response. Like it will be vague. I cant explain it! I'm also not texting him first at all. Letting him take the complete lead. Is that smart?
He specifically asked me out on a date the first time, in such a gentleman and straight forward manner.click to expand

Posted by ChuckcemThis makes sense to me now. Virgo's are serious drinkers. The one I dated was all about getting drunk and I was never into it. He spilled a beer all over my light blue dry clean only pants. I told him they were ruined and he never offered to replace them. I'm a Taurus and thought there was something wrong because I couldn't take him seriously. I have always been intrigued of the Virgo and Taurus connection. Drinking for me is a turn off. I'm not into getting drunk but I know I have a thing for Virgo men. I guess I have to overcome the drinking problem for Virgo men.Posted by heliumfiascoWell aside from him having you meet his friends and getting drunk on the first date (btw, Virgos can be some serious drinkers, hence why I love them) sounds like nothing was wrong.Posted by EllygantI'm just highly critical of any dating experience. I felt like it was a bad impression on my part. Overthinking as always.
Seems like fun to me lol. How was it a disaster?
Him wanting you to meet his friends seems like a good sign not a bad. Why did it weird you out?
He twice asked if id meet his female friend Jacky that day on two separate occasions that day. (we hung out from 1pm to 1 am) I have lots of male friends and If I do that I want their opinions. Dates are weird enough, I dont want to feel even more examined. Ya know?
Oddly enough....he just text me.
Hes also Virgo_Libra cusp? That make a huge difference in personality?
Both Virgos and Libras have this idea of impressing the other, but in different ways. Virgos are looking for someone who perfectly matches and accepts their quirks. I can't tell you how many times I met a Virgo for the first time over drinks or while they were wasted...or while explosions were happening...(the answer is every Virgo I know).
Libra on the other hand is all about charm, grace and setting the perfect first impression. You're worried how you look and how the situation looks. You're that he's worried and he's probably worried that you're worried. Virgos also need to see how you interact with their friends, so it's impressive you actually got him to go on a date in the first place without taking that awkwardly confusing friendship step first. Granted he still used his friends as a crutch, but it's BECAUSE he was trying to make a good impression by showing off his "network".
My advice would be to go out with him again, but to keep the date just the two of you. Still go and have fun, but try to maintain your faculties this time. It's not a bad thing to know that you two can get LIT though and nothing bad happens.
Devil's advocate: I'm a Virgo Moon and on my first date with a Libra, we both got drunk. She'd also met my friends well before our first date...soooooo...It happens.click to expand

Posted by Nathan912Posted by heliumfiascoDon't feel bad, Libra Women are not the worst woman to date in the zodiac.Posted by Nathan912Why do you say that?! We got along well! lol
Knew it. Any date with a Libra Woman is gonna be disaster.
The number 1 spot belong to Aries Women, Your sign is just number 3.
click to expand

Posted by PeemcoYeah and just remember that Virgos are over-thinkers and worriers. So alcohol is a potential way to shut down their overactive minds for a bit.Posted by ChuckcemThis makes sense to me now. Virgo's are serious drinkers. The one I dated was all about getting drunk and I was never into it. He spilled a beer all over my light blue dry clean only pants. I told him they were ruined and he never offered to replace them. I'm a Taurus and thought there was something wrong because I couldn't take him seriously. I have always been intrigued of the Virgo and Taurus connection. Drinking for me is a turn off. I'm not into getting drunk but I know I have a thing for Virgo men. I guess I have to overcome the drinking problem for Virgo men.Posted by heliumfiascoWell aside from him having you meet his friends and getting drunk on the first date (btw, Virgos can be some serious drinkers, hence why I love them) sounds like nothing was wrong.Posted by EllygantI'm just highly critical of any dating experience. I felt like it was a bad impression on my part. Overthinking as always.
Seems like fun to me lol. How was it a disaster?
Him wanting you to meet his friends seems like a good sign not a bad. Why did it weird you out?
He twice asked if id meet his female friend Jacky that day on two separate occasions that day. (we hung out from 1pm to 1 am) I have lots of male friends and If I do that I want their opinions. Dates are weird enough, I dont want to feel even more examined. Ya know?
Oddly enough....he just text me.
Hes also Virgo_Libra cusp? That make a huge difference in personality?
Both Virgos and Libras have this idea of impressing the other, but in different ways. Virgos are looking for someone who perfectly matches and accepts their quirks. I can't tell you how many times I met a Virgo for the first time over drinks or while they were wasted...or while explosions were happening...(the answer is every Virgo I know).
Libra on the other hand is all about charm, grace and setting the perfect first impression. You're worried how you look and how the situation looks. You're that he's worried and he's probably worried that you're worried. Virgos also need to see how you interact with their friends, so it's impressive you actually got him to go on a date in the first place without taking that awkwardly confusing friendship step first. Granted he still used his friends as a crutch, but it's BECAUSE he was trying to make a good impression by showing off his "network".
My advice would be to go out with him again, but to keep the date just the two of you. Still go and have fun, but try to maintain your faculties this time. It's not a bad thing to know that you two can get LIT though and nothing bad happens.
Devil's advocate: I'm a Virgo Moon and on my first date with a Libra, we both got drunk. She'd also met my friends well before our first date...soooooo...It happens.click to expand
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So, it started GREAT! Great conversation, great food, nice flirtation.... then ALL the tequila. He took me to his friends house, we drank beers on his porch. IDK what the hell came over us to both get DRUNK AF on our first "serious" date. I dont think we will be going out again. What a way to go out in a blaze of glory!!!! Im kind of bummed. Neither of us has really talked much today. Although yesterday he said hed want to hangout again, only sober. I think we both felt bad about how it went down. He kept trying to take me to hangout with all his different friends around the city. That seems weird on a date. But he was a gentleman despite us being LIT hahaha. Just thought id share.
Ya girl is NOT okay. I'm aware.