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Cappy man disappeared for few days and reappeared! Lol brief few messages and told me what happened over the long wknd and boom! Suddenly a text message (times difference between us I was still asleep) Saying he miss me 😨 when I got up saw the message I replied morning I miss you too...wish you were here and my phone went dead as I pressed the send button (ffs) then charged it thought it was sent but nope, I have to type it and send again. He read it 10 mins later and not heard anything since...have I made a mistake? Or he made a mistake now doesn’t know how to reply to my message? Confused AF lol ah well I’m doing better than last post now, those days he disappeared I just get on with life and I was too busy to think about why and what. And bang! He came back! Now I feel like I done so mmm etching wring and pushed him away like saying it kiss you too’ 🤦🏻‍♀️ Any thoughts? Any Cappy can chip in your 2 cents? Many thanks

Thank you 🙏🏻 Yeh I know he has super busy schedule and he did mention he’s trying to reach the quota for next quarter so when I visit in am August he can complete take time off for me. He told me his ex’s mum had an accident ended up in hospital so he was there to sort out insurance for her etc...I was glad he helped them out but one side of me couldn’t stop thinking if that will relight the sparks...but hey! I can’t stop it from happening regardless, right? Also I was thinking to send him a little text saying ‘thinking of you and I’m here if you need me’ but it didn’t seem right so I scrapped the idea 😂😂 omg as a Taurus, overthinking is my weakness

I think a cap guy would just be smiling that u feel the same.....and went on his own stuff....

😉i think a lot too....overthinking abt a taurus atm 😂

Awww Jalent99... guess what he just text told me just got home from work with 😭 emoji. Think I’m kinda used his behaviour (even though still overthink ALOT!) one day he could be so chatty and conversation goes on all day then when he said good night I told myself ‘wow what just happened? I guess I won’t hear from him much again tomorrow’ 😂😂 we are not dating as we can even meet up, defo not exclusive or Official so I finally convinced myself just see it as a normal friendship, this way I can be myself and things will be easier. Anyway what do you wanna know about Taurus? See if can chip in my 2 cents?

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Awww Jalent99... guess what he just text told me just got home from work with 😭 emoji. Think I’m kinda used his behaviour (even though still overthink ALOT!) one day he could be so chatty and conversation goes on all day then when he said good night I told myself ‘wow what just happened? I guess I won’t hear from him much again tomorrow’ 😂😂 we are not dating as we can even meet up, defo not exclusive or Official so I finally convinced myself just see it as a normal friendship, this way I can be myself and things will be easier. Anyway what do you wanna know about Taurus? See if can chip in my 2 cents?

Well I usually take a while to warm up and want a r/s too.....in the range of 3-6mths typically 😂

So my story - Met the taurus and we went out a couple of times in feb.....then he got on a project end feb and i didnt see him but we still text regularly......then end of mar he disappeared.....read but no reply to my last msgs. I didnt send him more after.

Previously in mid mar he told me he is overwhelmed with the project and though he likes me but he cant meet me and he feels guilty. He suggested i meet other guys (we met on an app) and if i like him at the end of the project thats good. I told him i am not going to do that and am happy to wait.

I know apr is the peak of his project, but given the no reply....:/ i dunno what to think.

it shouldnt be this hard

relationships arent supposed to be nerve wrecking

Well at least you weren't the wrong recipient of that "I miss you" text lol

Enjoy..

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Awww Jalent99... guess what he just text told me just got home from work with 😭 emoji. Think I’m kinda used his behaviour (even though still overthink ALOT!) one day he could be so chatty and conversation goes on all day then when he said good night I told myself ‘wow what just happened? I guess I won’t hear from him much again tomorrow’ 😂😂 we are not dating as we can even meet up, defo not exclusive or Official so I finally convinced myself just see it as a normal friendship, this way I can be myself and things will be easier. Anyway what do you wanna know about Taurus? See if can chip in my 2 cents?

Well I usually take a while to warm up and want a r/s too.....in the range of 3-6mths typically 😂

So my story - Met the taurus and we went out a couple of times in feb.....then he got on a project end feb and i didnt see him but we still text regularly......then end of mar he disappeared.....read but no reply to my last msgs. I didnt send him more after.

Previously in mid mar he told me he is overwhelmed with the project and though he likes me but he cant meet me and he feels guilty. He suggested i meet other guys (we met on an app) and if i like him at the end of the project thats good. I told him i am not going to do that and am happy to wait.

I know apr is the peak of his project, but given the no reply....:/ i dunno what to think.

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I can relate to this, I know it sounds dumb but I do that all the times. I get stressed and worked up so easily specially when it comes to projects. I don’t wanna be distracted and as selfish as it sounds, once I’m texting again I’ll be distracted and not getting things done. Worst of all I’m a perfectionist so I would t want my project be a piece of trash. I said things like go find someone/leave then etc at times but it’s actually opposite to what I really mean. I know it’s stupid but for me I don’t want that person to go. If I want you to leave, I do the opposite, I won’t be vocal or dropping any hint at all. I won’t ghost you but I turn stone cold until either I tell that person to get lost or get the hint and leave. Cowards I know that’s why when I come to think of it I guess this Capricorn man is telling to leave him alone in subtle way.

Don’t think too much, when this Taurus done with the project he’ll be back in your life in a jiffy. I’m very insecure not sure about him but sometimes I need a lot of reassurance. But just don’t flat out on me, I can’t take it lol I hope he’ll realise you’re there all the way, but don’t love your life around him, enjoy what you do, go out with your friends, this definitely make us wonder why you’ve been quiet

Good luck and I’m here if you need to talk 🙂

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Well at least you weren't the wrong recipient of that "I miss you" text lol

Enjoy..

It’s been extremely hot and cold I would hear from him for 2 days then nothing for another 2 days. It’s been 2 days now, he said morning on Sunday I replied also with a smile, sent him pics of my day out, nothing since. I don’t know if he just wanna make sure I’m still in his game or what? Leave star sign aside, do men like to be chased (not in aggressive ways)? If I text he always reply as soon as he sees it, but if he initiate the message, he won’t reply after I reply 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m tired now, I tried to convince myself it’s time to let go, my gut is telling me he met another (he’s been online all the time and ignored my hello message) ☹️

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Cappy man disappeared for few days and reappeared! Lol brief few messages and told me what happened over the long wknd and boom! Suddenly a text message (times difference between us I was still asleep) Saying he miss me 😨 when I got up saw the message I replied morning I miss you too...wish you were here and my phone went dead as I pressed the send button (ffs) then charged it thought it was sent but nope, I have to type it and send again. He read it 10 mins later and not heard anything since...have I made a mistake? Or he made a mistake now doesn’t know how to reply to my message? Confused AF lol ah well I’m doing better than last post now, those days he disappeared I just get on with life and I was too busy to think about why and what. And bang! He came back! Now I feel like I done so mmm etching wring and pushed him away like saying it kiss you too’ 🤦🏻‍♀️ Any thoughts? Any Cappy can chip in your 2 cents? Many thanks

Hi x

I'm a Capricorn woman and I like a man to reply relatively quick. It shows he likes me. It doesnt have to be straight away but within 5mins.

I'm chatting to a guy on Bumble right now but he's taking up to 12 HOURS to reply to my messages!

Its bothering me!

And to me its like he's only replying out of politeness yet he puts 😉😎 on his messages to me.

Anyway..

What I'm trying to say from a Capricorn point of view is that if he is like me then he probably wanted a quick reply from you!

10mins is ok so it may mean that he is - worst case - offended you didn't reply sooner. Or - best case - he felt relieved/happy and carried on with his busy schedule.

If I were you, I would text him "Are you ok? x"

And leave it there...see what he says.

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Posted by holy_moo

Cappy man disappeared for few days and reappeared! Lol brief few messages and told me what happened over the long wknd and boom! Suddenly a text message (times difference between us I was still asleep) Saying he miss me 😨 when I got up saw the message I replied morning I miss you too...wish you were here and my phone went dead as I pressed the send button (ffs) then charged it thought it was sent but nope, I have to type it and send again. He read it 10 mins later and not heard anything since...have I made a mistake? Or he made a mistake now doesn’t know how to reply to my message? Confused AF lol ah well I’m doing better than last post now, those days he disappeared I just get on with life and I was too busy to think about why and what. And bang! He came back! Now I feel like I done so mmm etching wring and pushed him away like saying it kiss you too’ 🤦🏻‍♀️ Any thoughts? Any Cappy can chip in your 2 cents? Many thanks

Hi x

I'm a Capricorn woman and I like a man to reply relatively quick. It shows he likes me. It doesnt have to be straight away but within 5mins.

I'm chatting to a guy on Bumble right now but he's taking up to 12 HOURS to reply to my messages!

Its bothering me!

And to me its like he's only replying out of politeness yet he puts 😉😎 on his messages to me.

Anyway..

What I'm trying to say from a Capricorn point of view is that if he is like me then he probably wanted a quick reply from you!

10mins is ok so it may mean that he is - worst case - offended you didn't reply sooner. Or - best case - he felt relieved/happy and carried on with his busy schedule.

If I were you, I would text him "Are you ok? x"

And leave it there...see what he says.

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Hello! Thank you for your reply 🙂 I guess I haven’t got the guts to do this to be honest...my feeling is telling me a very nice woman is keeping him happy now if my message pops up may only kill his mood 😢 he text me on Sunday to say morning sweets (afternoon on his side due to time zone) and as soon as I woke up I replied good morning hun with a smile, and nothing ever since...(about half an hour after he sent the message I woke up). I really don’t know why I’m so scared of making a move with him, may be he didn’t see anything like I see, I’m only just a friend? But the things we been talking about and all defo more than friends...omg my overthinking is killing me. Since I haven’t been myself lately, the happy playful lighthearted me (the one he first met) is now gone even I find my replies are so dull, may be that’s why he did a runner? I guess he’s gone now he dropped me like a hot cake😭

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Posted by holy_moo

Awww Jalent99... guess what he just text told me just got home from work with 😭 emoji. Think I’m kinda used his behaviour (even though still overthink ALOT!) one day he could be so chatty and conversation goes on all day then when he said good night I told myself ‘wow what just happened? I guess I won’t hear from him much again tomorrow’ 😂😂 we are not dating as we can even meet up, defo not exclusive or Official so I finally convinced myself just see it as a normal friendship, this way I can be myself and things will be easier. Anyway what do you wanna know about Taurus? See if can chip in my 2 cents?

Well I usually take a while to warm up and want a r/s too.....in the range of 3-6mths typically 😂

So my story - Met the taurus and we went out a couple of times in feb.....then he got on a project end feb and i didnt see him but we still text regularly......then end of mar he disappeared.....read but no reply to my last msgs. I didnt send him more after.

Previously in mid mar he told me he is overwhelmed with the project and though he likes me but he cant meet me and he feels guilty. He suggested i meet other guys (we met on an app) and if i like him at the end of the project thats good. I told him i am not going to do that and am happy to wait.

I know apr is the peak of his project, but given the no reply....:/ i dunno what to think.

I can relate to this, I know it sounds dumb but I do that all the times. I get stressed and worked up so easily specially when it comes to projects. I don’t wanna be distracted and as selfish as it sounds, once I’m texting again I’ll be distracted and not getting things done. Worst of all I’m a perfectionist so I would t want my project be a piece of trash. I said things like go find someone/leave then etc at times but it’s actually opposite to what I really mean. I know it’s stupid but for me I don’t want that person to go. If I want you to leave, I do the opposite, I won’t be vocal or dropping any hint at all. I won’t ghost you but I turn stone cold until either I tell that person to get lost or get the hint and leave. Cowards I know that’s why when I come to think of it I guess this Capricorn man is telling to leave him alone in subtle way.

Don’t think too much, when this Taurus done with the project he’ll be back in your life in a jiffy. I’m very insecure not sure about him but sometimes I need a lot of reassurance. But just don’t flat out on me, I can’t take it lol I hope he’ll realise you’re there all the way, but don’t love your life around him, enjoy what you do, go out with your friends, this definitely make us wonder why you’ve been quiet

Good luck and I’m here if you need to talk 🙂

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Has been 3 weeks since i last heard from him. But as a cap, my communication on expressing emotions is terrible. I wanted to tell him i admire what he has done soo far and he is amazing. But i didnt.

My last voicemessages were - i realise i didnt express myself well in my replies frm before and sound unconcern but actually i do care and just wanted u to know.....soo he didnt reply to this.

Well.....happy to stick ard and in mid may i will be away for a month.....sooo till then.

*knowing me i will still think too much and circle back to ask for advice, pls bear with me till then 😂

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Posted by holy_moo

Cappy man disappeared for few days and reappeared! Lol brief few messages and told me what happened over the long wknd and boom! Suddenly a text message (times difference between us I was still asleep) Saying he miss me 😨 when I got up saw the message I replied morning I miss you too...wish you were here and my phone went dead as I pressed the send button (ffs) then charged it thought it was sent but nope, I have to type it and send again. He read it 10 mins later and not heard anything since...have I made a mistake? Or he made a mistake now doesn’t know how to reply to my message? Confused AF lol ah well I’m doing better than last post now, those days he disappeared I just get on with life and I was too busy to think about why and what. And bang! He came back! Now I feel like I done so mmm etching wring and pushed him away like saying it kiss you too’ 🤦🏻‍♀️ Any thoughts? Any Cappy can chip in your 2 cents? Many thanks

Hi x

I'm a Capricorn woman and I like a man to reply relatively quick. It shows he likes me. It doesnt have to be straight away but within 5mins.

I'm chatting to a guy on Bumble right now but he's taking up to 12 HOURS to reply to my messages!

Its bothering me!

And to me its like he's only replying out of politeness yet he puts 😉😎 on his messages to me.

Anyway..

What I'm trying to say from a Capricorn point of view is that if he is like me then he probably wanted a quick reply from you!

10mins is ok so it may mean that he is - worst case - offended you didn't reply sooner. Or - best case - he felt relieved/happy and carried on with his busy schedule.

If I were you, I would text him "Are you ok? x"

And leave it there...see what he says.

Hello! Thank you for your reply 🙂 I guess I haven’t got the guts to do this to be honest...my feeling is telling me a very nice woman is keeping him happy now if my message pops up may only kill his mood 😢 he text me on Sunday to say morning sweets (afternoon on his side due to time zone) and as soon as I woke up I replied good morning hun with a smile, and nothing ever since...(about half an hour after he sent the message I woke up). I really don’t know why I’m so scared of making a move with him, may be he didn’t see anything like I see, I’m only just a friend? But the things we been talking about and all defo more than friends...omg my overthinking is killing me. Since I haven’t been myself lately, the happy playful lighthearted me (the one he first met) is now gone even I find my replies are so dull, may be that’s why he did a runner? I guess he’s gone now he dropped me like a hot cake😭

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The taurus man used words like baby too....i used to ask if he is that sweet to everyone.

Anyway, as a cap......i am cautious abt being given sweet names before a r/s......maybe its just me 😵 too serious

Me too.....my replies have been dull too. I mean i know how to be lighthearted and fun. But knowing he is busy i didnt want to load on and overshare about my life.....and i prefer sharing my life face to face or a phone call. Also.....with the covid.....i kind of feel that he frowns upon me hanging out with friends.....though they are the same grp and i probly meet them once per week......but cause we msg less and when we do i send him photos of the meetup of that week, i feel that his impression is that i am too outgoing......(red flag for taurus?) 😓

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Posted by holy_moo

Posted by pooface222

Posted by holy_moo

Cappy man disappeared for few days and reappeared! Lol brief few messages and told me what happened over the long wknd and boom! Suddenly a text message (times difference between us I was still asleep) Saying he miss me 😨 when I got up saw the message I replied morning I miss you too...wish you were here and my phone went dead as I pressed the send button (ffs) then charged it thought it was sent but nope, I have to type it and send again. He read it 10 mins later and not heard anything since...have I made a mistake? Or he made a mistake now doesn’t know how to reply to my message? Confused AF lol ah well I’m doing better than last post now, those days he disappeared I just get on with life and I was too busy to think about why and what. And bang! He came back! Now I feel like I done so mmm etching wring and pushed him away like saying it kiss you too’ 🤦🏻‍♀️ Any thoughts? Any Cappy can chip in your 2 cents? Many thanks

Hi x

I'm a Capricorn woman and I like a man to reply relatively quick. It shows he likes me. It doesnt have to be straight away but within 5mins.

I'm chatting to a guy on Bumble right now but he's taking up to 12 HOURS to reply to my messages!

Its bothering me!

And to me its like he's only replying out of politeness yet he puts 😉😎 on his messages to me.

Anyway..

What I'm trying to say from a Capricorn point of view is that if he is like me then he probably wanted a quick reply from you!

10mins is ok so it may mean that he is - worst case - offended you didn't reply sooner. Or - best case - he felt relieved/happy and carried on with his busy schedule.

If I were you, I would text him "Are you ok? x"

And leave it there...see what he says.

Hello! Thank you for your reply 🙂 I guess I haven’t got the guts to do this to be honest...my feeling is telling me a very nice woman is keeping him happy now if my message pops up may only kill his mood 😢 he text me on Sunday to say morning sweets (afternoon on his side due to time zone) and as soon as I woke up I replied good morning hun with a smile, and nothing ever since...(about half an hour after he sent the message I woke up). I really don’t know why I’m so scared of making a move with him, may be he didn’t see anything like I see, I’m only just a friend? But the things we been talking about and all defo more than friends...omg my overthinking is killing me. Since I haven’t been myself lately, the happy playful lighthearted me (the one he first met) is now gone even I find my replies are so dull, may be that’s why he did a runner? I guess he’s gone now he dropped me like a hot cake😭

The taurus man used words like baby too....i used to ask if he is that sweet to everyone.

Anyway, as a cap......i am cautious abt being given sweet names before a r/s......maybe its just me 😵 too serious

Me too.....my replies have been dull too. I mean i know how to be lighthearted and fun. But knowing he is busy i didnt want to load on and overshare about my life.....and i prefer sharing my life face to face or a phone call. Also.....with the covid.....i kind of feel that he frowns upon me hanging out with friends.....though they are the same grp and i probly meet them once per week......but cause we msg less and when we do i send him photos of the meetup of that week, i feel that his impression is that i am too outgoing......(red flag for taurus?) 😓

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This is actually really strange, it feels like I’m talking to my reflection now lol you and me are in exactly same situation with exactly same mind of thinking and issues/struggles. I hate expressing my feelings and I don’t normally have pet names for anyone unless I’m in r/S but he’s a Capricorn and calling me sweets all the way (after few weeks of chatting first) even up til Sunday just gone he still calling me sweets though not heard from him for 2 days now...I can express myself way better in person im a very practical person.

Anyhow, personally I love receiving pictures from the person I like, it feels like I’m part of their daily life if it makes sense though I won’t say it but deep down I’m over the moon... I’m very outgoing and life of a party to be precise. Never dull around me but text wise, between friends I’m playful and always make them laugh so hard to the point they wet themselves but with the person I had feeling towards to...I’m a chicken as I don’t wanna make a silly move and lose him?

I admire outgoing people, may be I’m one. Did I ally group pics really lighten my day lol don’t worry about too much (but I can’t do it myself lol) give him til end of the project, 3 weeks without contact while we are swamped with work is nothing tbh sorry for being so flat out but I rather tell you how I feel as a Taurus but I can’t speak for all at least she’s some lights to you 🙂

I still debating inside if I should forget about this Cappy man and move on

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Posted by holy_moo

Posted by pooface222

Posted by holy_moo

Cappy man disappeared for few days and reappeared! Lol brief few messages and told me what happened over the long wknd and boom! Suddenly a text message (times difference between us I was still asleep) Saying he miss me 😨 when I got up saw the message I replied morning I miss you too...wish you were here and my phone went dead as I pressed the send button (ffs) then charged it thought it was sent but nope, I have to type it and send again. He read it 10 mins later and not heard anything since...have I made a mistake? Or he made a mistake now doesn’t know how to reply to my message? Confused AF lol ah well I’m doing better than last post now, those days he disappeared I just get on with life and I was too busy to think about why and what. And bang! He came back! Now I feel like I done so mmm etching wring and pushed him away like saying it kiss you too’ 🤦🏻‍♀️ Any thoughts? Any Cappy can chip in your 2 cents? Many thanks

Hi x

I'm a Capricorn woman and I like a man to reply relatively quick. It shows he likes me. It doesnt have to be straight away but within 5mins.

I'm chatting to a guy on Bumble right now but he's taking up to 12 HOURS to reply to my messages!

Its bothering me!

And to me its like he's only replying out of politeness yet he puts 😉😎 on his messages to me.

Anyway..

What I'm trying to say from a Capricorn point of view is that if he is like me then he probably wanted a quick reply from you!

10mins is ok so it may mean that he is - worst case - offended you didn't reply sooner. Or - best case - he felt relieved/happy and carried on with his busy schedule.

If I were you, I would text him "Are you ok? x"

And leave it there...see what he says.

Hello! Thank you for your reply 🙂 I guess I haven’t got the guts to do this to be honest...my feeling is telling me a very nice woman is keeping him happy now if my message pops up may only kill his mood 😢 he text me on Sunday to say morning sweets (afternoon on his side due to time zone) and as soon as I woke up I replied good morning hun with a smile, and nothing ever since...(about half an hour after he sent the message I woke up). I really don’t know why I’m so scared of making a move with him, may be he didn’t see anything like I see, I’m only just a friend? But the things we been talking about and all defo more than friends...omg my overthinking is killing me. Since I haven’t been myself lately, the happy playful lighthearted me (the one he first met) is now gone even I find my replies are so dull, may be that’s why he did a runner? I guess he’s gone now he dropped me like a hot cake😭

The taurus man used words like baby too....i used to ask if he is that sweet to everyone.

Anyway, as a cap......i am cautious abt being given sweet names before a r/s......maybe its just me 😵 too serious

Me too.....my replies have been dull too. I mean i know how to be lighthearted and fun. But knowing he is busy i didnt want to load on and overshare about my life.....and i prefer sharing my life face to face or a phone call. Also.....with the covid.....i kind of feel that he frowns upon me hanging out with friends.....though they are the same grp and i probly meet them once per week......but cause we msg less and when we do i send him photos of the meetup of that week, i feel that his impression is that i am too outgoing......(red flag for taurus?) 😓

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This is actually really strange, it feels like I’m talking to my reflection now lol you and me are in exactly same situation with exactly same mind of thinking and issues/struggles. I hate expressing my feelings and I don’t normally have pet names for anyone unless I’m in r/S but he’s a Capricorn and calling me sweets all the way (after few weeks of chatting first) even up til Sunday just gone he still calling me sweets though not heard from him for 2 days now...I can express myself way better in person im a very practical person.

Anyhow, personally I love receiving pictures from the person I like, it feels like I’m part of their daily life if it makes sense though I won’t say it but deep down I’m over the moon... I’m very outgoing and life of a party to be precise. Never dull around me but text wise, between friends I’m playful and always make them laugh so hard to the point they wet themselves but with the person I had feeling towards to...I’m a chicken as I don’t wanna make a silly move and lose him?

I admire outgoing people, may be I’m one. Did I ally group pics really lighten my day lol don’t worry about too much (but I can’t do it myself lol) give him til end of the project, 3 weeks without contact while we are swamped with work is nothing tbh sorry for being so flat out but I rather tell you how I feel as a Taurus but I can’t speak for all at least she’s some lights to you 🙂

I still debating inside if I should forget about this Cappy man and move on

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Posted by Jalent99

Posted by holy_moo

Posted by pooface222

Posted by holy_moo

Cappy man disappeared for few days and reappeared! Lol brief few messages and told me what happened over the long wknd and boom! Suddenly a text message (times difference between us I was still asleep) Saying he miss me 😨 when I got up saw the message I replied morning I miss you too...wish you were here and my phone went dead as I pressed the send button (ffs) then charged it thought it was sent but nope, I have to type it and send again. He read it 10 mins later and not heard anything since...have I made a mistake? Or he made a mistake now doesn’t know how to reply to my message? Confused AF lol ah well I’m doing better than last post now, those days he disappeared I just get on with life and I was too busy to think about why and what. And bang! He came back! Now I feel like I done so mmm etching wring and pushed him away like saying it kiss you too’ 🤦🏻‍♀️ Any thoughts? Any Cappy can chip in your 2 cents? Many thanks

Hi x

I'm a Capricorn woman and I like a man to reply relatively quick. It shows he likes me. It doesnt have to be straight away but within 5mins.

I'm chatting to a guy on Bumble right now but he's taking up to 12 HOURS to reply to my messages!

Its bothering me!

And to me its like he's only replying out of politeness yet he puts 😉😎 on his messages to me.

Anyway..

What I'm trying to say from a Capricorn point of view is that if he is like me then he probably wanted a quick reply from you!

10mins is ok so it may mean that he is - worst case - offended you didn't reply sooner. Or - best case - he felt relieved/happy and carried on with his busy schedule.

If I were you, I would text him "Are you ok? x"

And leave it there...see what he says.

Hello! Thank you for your reply 🙂 I guess I haven’t got the guts to do this to be honest...my feeling is telling me a very nice woman is keeping him happy now if my message pops up may only kill his mood 😢 he text me on Sunday to say morning sweets (afternoon on his side due to time zone) and as soon as I woke up I replied good morning hun with a smile, and nothing ever since...(about half an hour after he sent the message I woke up). I really don’t know why I’m so scared of making a move with him, may be he didn’t see anything like I see, I’m only just a friend? But the things we been talking about and all defo more than friends...omg my overthinking is killing me. Since I haven’t been myself lately, the happy playful lighthearted me (the one he first met) is now gone even I find my replies are so dull, may be that’s why he did a runner? I guess he’s gone now he dropped me like a hot cake😭

The taurus man used words like baby too....i used to ask if he is that sweet to everyone.

Anyway, as a cap......i am cautious abt being given sweet names before a r/s......maybe its just me 😵 too serious

Me too.....my replies have been dull too. I mean i know how to be lighthearted and fun. But knowing he is busy i didnt want to load on and overshare about my life.....and i prefer sharing my life face to face or a phone call. Also.....with the covid.....i kind of feel that he frowns upon me hanging out with friends.....though they are the same grp and i probly meet them once per week......but cause we msg less and when we do i send him photos of the meetup of that week, i feel that his impression is that i am too outgoing......(red flag for taurus?) 😓

This is actually really strange, it feels like I’m talking to my reflection now lol you and me are in exactly same situation with exactly same mind of thinking and issues/struggles. I hate expressing my feelings and I don’t normally have pet names for anyone unless I’m in r/S but he’s a Capricorn and calling me sweets all the way (after few weeks of chatting first) even up til Sunday just gone he still calling me sweets though not heard from him for 2 days now...I can express myself way better in person im a very practical person.

Anyhow, personally I love receiving pictures from the person I like, it feels like I’m part of their daily life if it makes sense though I won’t say it but deep down I’m over the moon... I’m very outgoing and life of a party to be precise. Never dull around me but text wise, between friends I’m playful and always make them laugh so hard to the point they wet themselves but with the person I had feeling towards to...I’m a chicken as I don’t wanna make a silly move and lose him?

I admire outgoing people, may be I’m one. Did I ally group pics really lighten my day lol don’t worry about too much (but I can’t do it myself lol) give him til end of the project, 3 weeks without contact while we are swamped with work is nothing tbh sorry for being so flat out but I rather tell you how I feel as a Taurus but I can’t speak for all at least she’s some lights to you 🙂

I still debating inside if I should forget about this Cappy man and move on

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How long has yours been going? I am not sure if a cap man is similar to a cap woman, but i take at least 3-6 months of being ard the person to kind of be sure that he is here to stay.....guys who dont stick ard that long, i would be thinking well at least i didnt waste my time with him.

Assuming we r similar, well i have a taurus moon. I told my taurus too.....i dont need to date anyone else cause i m not wanting a r/s for the sake of wanting one for the moment. I want someone i can really connect with, feel comfortable ard, complimentary to me in ways and go on adventures together, someone whom i can be there for and he for me. * i wasnt that articulate when i say this to him but essentially what i feel.

Oh and cap man are sometimes soo complicated!

I mention this in another post before. But just to give u ladies an idea. I was dating one 5yrs ago, 3mths later realise he didnt want marriage down the rd (he is divorced), it was hard but i walk away. 3yrs ago he got in touch and pursued. I asked if anything change abt his long term plan, he said no. I walked away.

Recently he is back.....i straightup told him that we r both similar in personality and stubborn in long terms goals in life. I dont think it will ever work.....his reply.....i think i might have changed

Only 2 months and a bit...I am using WhatsApp on my laptop at work so I can see him online slot and long time each time then I can’t stop myself from thinking he met another better one lol yes we met on an app he said I was the very first one he sent messages to 🤷🏻‍♀️ I am having trust issues now as well as my overthinking plus insecurities kicking in 😭 I feel so overwhelmed right now 😭😭😭😭

Only 2 months and a bit...I am using WhatsApp on my laptop at work so I can see him online slot and long time each time then I can’t stop myself from thinking he met another better one lol yes we met on an app he said I was the very first one he sent messages to 🤷🏻‍♀️ I am having trust issues now as well as my overthinking plus insecurities kicking in 😭 I feel so overwhelmed right now 😭😭😭😭

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Only 2 months and a bit...I am using WhatsApp on my laptop at work so I can see him online slot and long time each time then I can’t stop myself from thinking he met another better one lol yes we met on an app he said I was the very first one he sent messages to 🤷🏻‍♀️ I am having trust issues now as well as my overthinking plus insecurities kicking in 😭 I feel so overwhelmed right now 😭😭😭😭

You are right. Find a way to hide his activity, since it’s bothering you for nothing....this person is not your future boyfriend. His actions are speaking deafening loudly!

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Only 2 months and a bit...I am using WhatsApp on my laptop at work so I can see him online slot and long time each time then I can’t stop myself from thinking he met another better one lol yes we met on an app he said I was the very first one he sent messages to 🤷🏻‍♀️ I am having trust issues now as well as my overthinking plus insecurities kicking in 😭 I feel so overwhelmed right now 😭😭😭😭

You are right. Find a way to hide his activity, since it’s bothering you for nothing....this person is not your future boyfriend. His actions are speaking deafening loudly!

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Thank you 🙏🏻 I already deleted the conversation on whatsapp out of sight out of mind...it’s not the first time. First time was 5 days without anything no reply either and he popped back saying he’s been swamped with work and I took it as okay...I did this to myself allowing him to coming and go 🤦🏻‍♀️ Looks like moving on is the only answer I don’t like confronting him as we are not official but a little closure saying it met someone’ or ‘ I can’t see this is going further’ from him would be nice since I don’t want things to end but I have to accept it now 😢 tears down the face as I replying omg I can cry now woohoo been bottling up this long! Thank you xx

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Only 2 months and a bit...I am using WhatsApp on my laptop at work so I can see him online slot and long time each time then I can’t stop myself from thinking he met another better one lol yes we met on an app he said I was the very first one he sent messages to 🤷🏻‍♀️ I am having trust issues now as well as my overthinking plus insecurities kicking in 😭 I feel so overwhelmed right now 😭😭😭😭

You are right. Find a way to hide his activity, since it’s bothering you for nothing....this person is not your future boyfriend. His actions are speaking deafening loudly!

Thank you 🙏🏻 I already deleted the conversation on whatsapp out of sight out of mind...it’s not the first time. First time was 5 days without anything no reply either and he popped back saying he’s been swamped with work and I took it as okay...I did this to myself allowing him to coming and go 🤦🏻‍♀️ Looks like moving on is the only answer I don’t like confronting him as we are not official but a little closure saying it met someone’ or ‘ I can’t see this is going further’ from him would be nice since I don’t want things to end but I have to accept it now 😢 tears down the face as I replying omg I can cry now woohoo been bottling up this long! Thank you xx

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Hey, don't be sad. He probably got distracted by other flavours, like a child in a sweet shop. There are many people out there who would prefer yours, though. And you, theirs! Wasting time on him means less time to find a better match. At least you didn't waste months or years on him!

I would suggest you find everything about their communication preferences early on, by asking directly! Hey, what's your style ? Do you do this or that? How often? Can you text while at work? Can you at least read a text? Are you a "good morning", "good night person"? Don't accept vague answers, like maybe, depends, I'm flexile. Everyone could adapt to a new person, but the point is to find out what each one of you would prefer, if given the choice. Ask simple questions to get simple answers.

Also, men have much more testosterone than a woman. It's affecting their brains, not just the dicks. It gives them more drive to go after what they want. If they want to date a woman, they would try till rejected, and sometimes even further. Unless you want to date a pussy, pay more attention to men who pursue you!

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Only 2 months and a bit...I am using WhatsApp on my laptop at work so I can see him online slot and long time each time then I can’t stop myself from thinking he met another better one lol yes we met on an app he said I was the very first one he sent messages to 🤷🏻‍♀️ I am having trust issues now as well as my overthinking plus insecurities kicking in 😭 I feel so overwhelmed right now 😭😭😭😭

You are right. Find a way to hide his activity, since it’s bothering you for nothing....this person is not your future boyfriend. His actions are speaking deafening loudly!

Thank you 🙏🏻 I already deleted the conversation on whatsapp out of sight out of mind...it’s not the first time. First time was 5 days without anything no reply either and he popped back saying he’s been swamped with work and I took it as okay...I did this to myself allowing him to coming and go 🤦🏻‍♀️ Looks like moving on is the only answer I don’t like confronting him as we are not official but a little closure saying it met someone’ or ‘ I can’t see this is going further’ from him would be nice since I don’t want things to end but I have to accept it now 😢 tears down the face as I replying omg I can cry now woohoo been bottling up this long! Thank you xx

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Awww dont assume.....maybe like u said wrt the taurus not replying me.....he is just busy.....

Have u met him? Maybe meeting up would help move things along.

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Awww Jalent99... guess what he just text told me just got home from work with 😭 emoji. Think I’m kinda used his behaviour (even though still overthink ALOT!) one day he could be so chatty and conversation goes on all day then when he said good night I told myself ‘wow what just happened? I guess I won’t hear from him much again tomorrow’ 😂😂 we are not dating as we can even meet up, defo not exclusive or Official so I finally convinced myself just see it as a normal friendship, this way I can be myself and things will be easier. Anyway what do you wanna know about Taurus? See if can chip in my 2 cents?

Well I usually take a while to warm up and want a r/s too.....in the range of 3-6mths typically 😂

So my story - Met the taurus and we went out a couple of times in feb.....then he got on a project end feb and i didnt see him but we still text regularly......then end of mar he disappeared.....read but no reply to my last msgs. I didnt send him more after.

Previously in mid mar he told me he is overwhelmed with the project and though he likes me but he cant meet me and he feels guilty. He suggested i meet other guys (we met on an app) and if i like him at the end of the project thats good. I told him i am not going to do that and am happy to wait.

I know apr is the peak of his project, but given the no reply....:/ i dunno what to think.

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Not to ride but Why would you wait for a stranger. He was rejecting you lightly hoping you would catch the hint. Telling him you will wait isn’t sexy, it’s annoying. You better get three men to date and when he calls tell him if you even have time to respond. Also him telling you ahead of time he will be busy is GAME.

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Awww Jalent99... guess what he just text told me just got home from work with 😭 emoji. Think I’m kinda used his behaviour (even though still overthink ALOT!) one day he could be so chatty and conversation goes on all day then when he said good night I told myself ‘wow what just happened? I guess I won’t hear from him much again tomorrow’ 😂😂 we are not dating as we can even meet up, defo not exclusive or Official so I finally convinced myself just see it as a normal friendship, this way I can be myself and things will be easier. Anyway what do you wanna know about Taurus? See if can chip in my 2 cents?

Well I usually take a while to warm up and want a r/s too.....in the range of 3-6mths typically 😂

So my story - Met the taurus and we went out a couple of times in feb.....then he got on a project end feb and i didnt see him but we still text regularly......then end of mar he disappeared.....read but no reply to my last msgs. I didnt send him more after.

Previously in mid mar he told me he is overwhelmed with the project and though he likes me but he cant meet me and he feels guilty. He suggested i meet other guys (we met on an app) and if i like him at the end of the project thats good. I told him i am not going to do that and am happy to wait.

I know apr is the peak of his project, but given the no reply....:/ i dunno what to think.

Not to ride but Why would you wait for a stranger. He was rejecting you lightly hoping you would catch the hint. Telling him you will wait isn’t sexy, it’s annoying. You better get three men to date and when he calls tell him if you even have time to respond. Also him telling you ahead of time he will be busy is GAME.

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Cause u cant rationalise why u like someone.....and we shared a few kisses. I told him i cant kiss him then date another, doesnt work like that for me.

The waiting is to pick up where we left off to see where this might go, not expecting an immediate r/s.....

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Awww Jalent99... guess what he just text told me just got home from work with 😭 emoji. Think I’m kinda used his behaviour (even though still overthink ALOT!) one day he could be so chatty and conversation goes on all day then when he said good night I told myself ‘wow what just happened? I guess I won’t hear from him much again tomorrow’ 😂😂 we are not dating as we can even meet up, defo not exclusive or Official so I finally convinced myself just see it as a normal friendship, this way I can be myself and things will be easier. Anyway what do you wanna know about Taurus? See if can chip in my 2 cents?

Well I usually take a while to warm up and want a r/s too.....in the range of 3-6mths typically 😂

So my story - Met the taurus and we went out a couple of times in feb.....then he got on a project end feb and i didnt see him but we still text regularly......then end of mar he disappeared.....read but no reply to my last msgs. I didnt send him more after.

Previously in mid mar he told me he is overwhelmed with the project and though he likes me but he cant meet me and he feels guilty. He suggested i meet other guys (we met on an app) and if i like him at the end of the project thats good. I told him i am not going to do that and am happy to wait.

I know apr is the peak of his project, but given the no reply....:/ i dunno what to think.

Not to ride but Why would you wait for a stranger. He was rejecting you lightly hoping you would catch the hint. Telling him you will wait isn’t sexy, it’s annoying. You better get three men to date and when he calls tell him if you even have time to respond. Also him telling you ahead of time he will be busy is GAME.

Cause u cant rationalise why u like someone.....and we shared a few kisses. I told him i cant kiss him then date another, doesnt work like that for me.

The waiting is to pick up where we left off to see where this might go, not expecting an immediate r/s.....

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That’s the thing it won’t pick up. You showed a lack of respect for yourself when you said you would wait for him, you did yourself no favors and lowered your perceived value.

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Only 2 months and a bit...I am using WhatsApp on my laptop at work so I can see him online slot and long time each time then I can’t stop myself from thinking he met another better one lol yes we met on an app he said I was the very first one he sent messages to 🤷🏻‍♀️ I am having trust issues now as well as my overthinking plus insecurities kicking in 😭 I feel so overwhelmed right now 😭😭😭😭

He’s lying. The most important and busy people make time for who and what they want. He has time to go on whatsapp but can’t message you?! Or call you briefly?

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Only 2 months and a bit...I am using WhatsApp on my laptop at work so I can see him online slot and long time each time then I can’t stop myself from thinking he met another better one lol yes we met on an app he said I was the very first one he sent messages to 🤷🏻‍♀️ I am having trust issues now as well as my overthinking plus insecurities kicking in 😭 I feel so overwhelmed right now 😭😭😭😭

You are right. Find a way to hide his activity, since it’s bothering you for nothing....this person is not your future boyfriend. His actions are speaking deafening loudly!

Thank you 🙏🏻 I already deleted the conversation on whatsapp out of sight out of mind...it’s not the first time. First time was 5 days without anything no reply either and he popped back saying he’s been swamped with work and I took it as okay...I did this to myself allowing him to coming and go 🤦🏻‍♀️ Looks like moving on is the only answer I don’t like confronting him as we are not official but a little closure saying it met someone’ or ‘ I can’t see this is going further’ from him would be nice since I don’t want things to end but I have to accept it now 😢 tears down the face as I replying omg I can cry now woohoo been bottling up this long! Thank you xx

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Aww hugs. It’s gonna be ok. Try talking to multiple men at the same time to buffer these kinds of feelings. I hope you feel better soon and remember silence is closure.

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Awww Jalent99... guess what he just text told me just got home from work with 😭 emoji. Think I’m kinda used his behaviour (even though still overthink ALOT!) one day he could be so chatty and conversation goes on all day then when he said good night I told myself ‘wow what just happened? I guess I won’t hear from him much again tomorrow’ 😂😂 we are not dating as we can even meet up, defo not exclusive or Official so I finally convinced myself just see it as a normal friendship, this way I can be myself and things will be easier. Anyway what do you wanna know about Taurus? See if can chip in my 2 cents?

Well I usually take a while to warm up and want a r/s too.....in the range of 3-6mths typically 😂

So my story - Met the taurus and we went out a couple of times in feb.....then he got on a project end feb and i didnt see him but we still text regularly......then end of mar he disappeared.....read but no reply to my last msgs. I didnt send him more after.

Previously in mid mar he told me he is overwhelmed with the project and though he likes me but he cant meet me and he feels guilty. He suggested i meet other guys (we met on an app) and if i like him at the end of the project thats good. I told him i am not going to do that and am happy to wait.

I know apr is the peak of his project, but given the no reply....:/ i dunno what to think.

Not to ride but Why would you wait for a stranger. He was rejecting you lightly hoping you would catch the hint. Telling him you will wait isn’t sexy, it’s annoying. You better get three men to date and when he calls tell him if you even have time to respond. Also him telling you ahead of time he will be busy is GAME.

Cause u cant rationalise why u like someone.....and we shared a few kisses. I told him i cant kiss him then date another, doesnt work like that for me.

The waiting is to pick up where we left off to see where this might go, not expecting an immediate r/s.....

That’s the thing it won’t pick up. You showed a lack of respect for yourself when you said you would wait for him, you did yourself no favors and lowered your perceived value.

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Well i just think from my perspective. Cause i am an earth sign (like he is).....i like someone stable. So if i told him ok i will date someone else in the meantime, this would be going through my mind - 1) she will easily kiss any other guy 2) maybe i dont mean soo much to her.....

@bkbella86 thank you for your reply. Yup it never be too busy for anyone anything. It might not be an immediate reply but days? And I came to the sense ghat he owed me nothing as we are not official not even had a date due to lockdown so off he goes. Better nicer choices out there and my gut is telling me he just busy entertaining another love interest but hey. At least the first month or so was great and I felt ‘loved’ haha yup I will not initiate any contact now (well I did reply his good morning message few day’s ago and he went MIA since) and even if he does pop back again in the future my trust to him won’t be the same or may not even be there. Whatever the outcome is, I need to learn that when someone ghosts others or MIA it’s there problem not solely mine 🙏🏻

Yes deep down I’m yearning for him to talk to me again but I cannot force someone to like me, and I need to have self value. I will take my dignity and walk away. You were right, silence is a closure 🥺

@Jalent99 I did think may be he’s waiting for me to text but I notice lately each time I reached out his reply getting shorter and shorter and usually fairly quickly ending the chat or I have to change the subject if I wanna carry on. May be these are red flags as well. I won’t blame him since he said he’s only started a week on the app when we first chatted, so this is definitely like a candY shop to him knowing he’s only officially divorced 11 months at that time...(or may be all these are lies? No disrespect, but I don’t think Capricorn men who still men anyway never lied?) I hope I will be over him sooner than I think, as this pain is not nice at all.

On the other hand, I really hope Hongs do work out for you 🙂

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@Jalent99 I did think may be he’s waiting for me to text but I notice lately each time I reached out his reply getting shorter and shorter and usually fairly quickly ending the chat or I have to change the subject if I wanna carry on. May be these are red flags as well. I won’t blame him since he said he’s only started a week on the app when we first chatted, so this is definitely like a candY shop to him knowing he’s only officially divorced 11 months at that time...(or may be all these are lies? No disrespect, but I don’t think Capricorn men who still men anyway never lied?) I hope I will be over him sooner than I think, as this pain is not nice at all.

On the other hand, I really hope Hongs do work out for you 🙂

I meant hope things do work out for you (sorry typos)

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@Jalent99 I did think may be he’s waiting for me to text but I notice lately each time I reached out his reply getting shorter and shorter and usually fairly quickly ending the chat or I have to change the subject if I wanna carry on. May be these are red flags as well. I won’t blame him since he said he’s only started a week on the app when we first chatted, so this is definitely like a candY shop to him knowing he’s only officially divorced 11 months at that time...(or may be all these are lies? No disrespect, but I don’t think Capricorn men who still men anyway never lied?) I hope I will be over him sooner than I think, as this pain is not nice at all.

On the other hand, I really hope Hongs do work out for you 🙂

This popped up during my run https://g.co/kgs/VZfPuA

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cap are better irl

I don’t think I’ll ever see him in real life since it’s been 3 days without hearing from him and if I reach out only gonna annoy him I guess as my gut is telling me he found another lady or ladies to keep him entertained ☹️ Ah well

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cap are better irl

I don’t think I’ll ever see him in real life since it’s been 3 days without hearing from him and if I reach out only gonna annoy him I guess as my gut is telling me he found another lady or ladies to keep him entertained ☹️ Ah well

lol chill caps are slow

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Please shed some more lights to my direction? I’m like a zombie right now don’t know wth am I doing lol

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cap are better irl

I don’t think I’ll ever see him in real life since it’s been 3 days without hearing from him and if I reach out only gonna annoy him I guess as my gut is telling me he found another lady or ladies to keep him entertained ☹️ Ah well

lol chill caps are slow

Please shed some more lights to my direction? I’m like a zombie right now don’t know wth am I doing lol

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I think u might have a better chance than me......caps are just slower every step of the way......but if theres a connection, he will come ard

Well i just read if a taurus leave u on read (3wks now).....then its done 😓

I guess i screwed up when i told him i miss him in my last msg, pobably caused him to back away.....maybe he is unsure plus being too busy at work

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cap are better irl

I don’t think I’ll ever see him in real life since it’s been 3 days without hearing from him and if I reach out only gonna annoy him I guess as my gut is telling me he found another lady or ladies to keep him entertained ☹️ Ah well

lol chill caps are slow

Please shed some more lights to my direction? I’m like a zombie right now don’t know wth am I doing lol

I think u might have a better chance than me......caps are just slower every step of the way......but if theres a connection, he will come ard

Well i just read if a taurus leave u on read (3wks now).....then its done 😓

I guess i screwed up when i told him i miss him in my last msg, pobably caused him to back away.....maybe he is unsure plus being too busy at work

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I will use this silent time to get myself back on track and work on the negative energy and to be back to the happy self m, the person he fell for at the beginning. Whether he returns or not, it’s not within my control. Deep down I’m yearning for him but seeing myself this negative I cannot drag him in my turmoil either. We are not official i would say he doesn’t owe me anything I guess?

Give the bull sometime, we are hot headed and sometimes we don’t do things as our heart tells us to...let’s stay positive together 🙂 hope for the best xx

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I don’t think I’ll ever see him in real life since it’s been 3 days without hearing from him and if I reach out only gonna annoy him I guess as my gut is telling me he found another lady or ladies to keep him entertained ☹️ Ah well

lol chill caps are slow

Please shed some more lights to my direction? I’m like a zombie right now don’t know wth am I doing lol

I think u might have a better chance than me......caps are just slower every step of the way......but if theres a connection, he will come ard

Well i just read if a taurus leave u on read (3wks now).....then its done 😓

I guess i screwed up when i told him i miss him in my last msg, pobably caused him to back away.....maybe he is unsure plus being too busy at work

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I thought caps are consistent not flaky? If they are flaky and MIA whether caps or not means the guys just not into the woman? Ah well, I’m gonna expect the worst now that’s he has another candy to entertain I’m just a history...it’s over ☹️ But it’s okay when it was good it was really good at least I know what being loved feels like for short while ❤️

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Well at least you weren't the wrong recipient of that "I miss you" text lol

Enjoy..

It’s been extremely hot and cold I would hear from him for 2 days then nothing for another 2 days. It’s been 2 days now, he said morning on Sunday I replied also with a smile, sent him pics of my day out, nothing since. I don’t know if he just wanna make sure I’m still in his game or what? Leave star sign aside, do men like to be chased (not in aggressive ways)? If I text he always reply as soon as he sees it, but if he initiate the message, he won’t reply after I reply 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m tired now, I tried to convince myself it’s time to let go, my gut is telling me he met another (he’s been online all the time and ignored my hello message) ☹️

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I'd leave it constantly up to him. Some men are like that and you can't change that.

Just wait and see what happens. As for ignoring and not contacting I laughed lol

I had a man that would ignore me for weeks and would refuse to talk after already established connection. 2 days is nothing lol, little space is always necessary. But I feel you. Don't force it and everything will be alright.

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cap are better irl

I don’t think I’ll ever see him in real life since it’s been 3 days without hearing from him and if I reach out only gonna annoy him I guess as my gut is telling me he found another lady or ladies to keep him entertained ☹️ Ah well

lol chill caps are slow

Please shed some more lights to my direction? I’m like a zombie right now don’t know wth am I doing lol

I think u might have a better chance than me......caps are just slower every step of the way......but if theres a connection, he will come ard

Well i just read if a taurus leave u on read (3wks now).....then its done 😓

I guess i screwed up when i told him i miss him in my last msg, pobably caused him to back away.....maybe he is unsure plus being too busy at work

I thought caps are consistent not flaky? If they are flaky and MIA whether caps or not means the guys just not into the woman? Ah well, I’m gonna expect the worst now that’s he has another candy to entertain I’m just a history...it’s over ☹️ But it’s okay when it was good it was really good at least I know what being loved feels like for short while ❤️

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I guess we r like taurus.....we are not flaky once we are decided.....

💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻We will get there together

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Well at least you weren't the wrong recipient of that "I miss you" text lol

Enjoy..

It’s been extremely hot and cold I would hear from him for 2 days then nothing for another 2 days. It’s been 2 days now, he said morning on Sunday I replied also with a smile, sent him pics of my day out, nothing since. I don’t know if he just wanna make sure I’m still in his game or what? Leave star sign aside, do men like to be chased (not in aggressive ways)? If I text he always reply as soon as he sees it, but if he initiate the message, he won’t reply after I reply 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m tired now, I tried to convince myself it’s time to let go, my gut is telling me he met another (he’s been online all the time and ignored my hello message) ☹️

I'd leave it constantly up to him. Some men are like that and you can't change that.

Just wait and see what happens. As for ignoring and not contacting I laughed lol

I had a man that would ignore me for weeks and would refuse to talk after already established connection. 2 days is nothing lol, little space is always necessary. But I feel you. Don't force it and everything will be alright.

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Weeks? OMG no wonder this makes you laugh lol I’m doing better today not checking on whatsapp to see if he’s online! Woohoo! May be I’m only in love with the him in my head not the actually. August is still a long way and we haven’t met due to travel restrictions so who knows? And I won’t take him lightly IF he ever returns, I can’t keep going in circles..

Guys, I came to think of what happened is it because I didn’t initiate much lately that sent him away? If it is I’m pretty much finished as I heard when the Capricorn gives up, he/she really cut you off no way they will look at you again EVER! I feel even more stupid now, I was and still I Interested and never played games...but honestly his hot and cold really made me felt confused eventually I didn’t know how to approach him anymore.

Sigh...so it is me screwed this up 😭

No its not you.

Someone who claims to 'miss you' and then doesn't follow up by taking steps to meet up isn't genuine.

Next time tho, instead of responding to his 'miss you' with your own 'miss you', volley that ball back into his court. Example... "I miss you as well. I'm free next on (insert day) lets link up".

This way its on him to follow through and solidify the plan.

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No its not you.

Someone who claims to 'miss you' and then doesn't follow up by taking steps to meet up isn't genuine.

Next time tho, instead of responding to his 'miss you' with your own 'miss you', volley that ball back into his court. Example... "I miss you as well. I'm free next on (insert day) lets link up".

This way its on him to follow through and solidify the plan.

Thank you for your reply. I have read through all 300+ pages on Capricorn forum and hoping you will comment. Yay! I dunno why I’m so happy but I am 🥰

As per the Capricorn, I still can’t stop blaming myself, I finally managed to have 6 hours sleep tonight and still woke up at wee hours crying. One side of me telling me to reach out and see, but the other side said the action speaks for itself already. Since now I’m blaming myself, the anger and sadness towards him had disappeared, I wanted to apologise but this will only making myself a doormat and he MIGHT walk away with my dignity...

Is it true that men will lost interest if a woman doesn’t initiate as she did before?

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Guys, I came to think of what happened is it because I didn’t initiate much lately that sent him away? If it is I’m pretty much finished as I heard when the Capricorn gives up, he/she really cut you off no way they will look at you again EVER! I feel even more stupid now, I was and still I Interested and never played games...but honestly his hot and cold really made me felt confused eventually I didn’t know how to approach him anymore.

Sigh...so it is me screwed this up 😭

Well i am not that hard on judgement.....and when someone comes back, I will always be open as long as the person doesnt have bad intentions - ie playing games.......for me at least i dont write someone off unless something drastic happens.

he is still replying whenever u msg him? if he is i think u are fine

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Guys, I came to think of what happened is it because I didn’t initiate much lately that sent him away? If it is I’m pretty much finished as I heard when the Capricorn gives up, he/she really cut you off no way they will look at you again EVER! I feel even more stupid now, I was and still I Interested and never played games...but honestly his hot and cold really made me felt confused eventually I didn’t know how to approach him anymore.

Sigh...so it is me screwed this up 😭

Well i am not that hard on judgement.....and when someone comes back, I will always be open as long as the person doesnt have bad intentions - ie playing games.......for me at least i dont write someone off unless something drastic happens.

he is still replying whenever u msg him? if he is i think u are fine

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I haven’t got in touch since the reply to his morning text on Sunday. I’m not brave enough at all. I’m so not myself because of this...I’m sorry guys I feel like wasting everyone’s time and energy here 😭 but before the last message, whenever I replied or text he will reply as soon as he saw my message. May be like my male friend who ghosted others, he said he did it sometimes after deep thought it’s not gonna work he will ghost them even before physical contacts...may be this is the case? But just so sudden, morning still sweet and gone by night lol

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Guys, I came to think of what happened is it because I didn’t initiate much lately that sent him away? If it is I’m pretty much finished as I heard when the Capricorn gives up, he/she really cut you off no way they will look at you again EVER! I feel even more stupid now, I was and still I Interested and never played games...but honestly his hot and cold really made me felt confused eventually I didn’t know how to approach him anymore.

Sigh...so it is me screwed this up 😭

Well i am not that hard on judgement.....and when someone comes back, I will always be open as long as the person doesnt have bad intentions - ie playing games.......for me at least i dont write someone off unless something drastic happens.

he is still replying whenever u msg him? if he is i think u are fine

I haven’t got in touch since the reply to his morning text on Sunday. I’m not brave enough at all. I’m so not myself because of this...I’m sorry guys I feel like wasting everyone’s time and energy here 😭 but before the last message, whenever I replied or text he will reply as soon as he saw my message. May be like my male friend who ghosted others, he said he did it sometimes after deep thought it’s not gonna work he will ghost them even before physical contacts...may be this is the case? But just so sudden, morning still sweet and gone by night lol

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Since u havent msg him this week and its just the weekend, why dont u tell him - ie, u had a busy week, 1-2 things u did, and ask him abt his week....

Also u might want to share plans for the weekend, something interesting that might intrigue him

I dunno abt other caps but if u share with me abt art exhibitions, nature related activities that i havent done, i would be keen to ask u more abt it ( this depends on personality, u will know him better )

Guys, last night he reached out asking how my week has been and because he changed his phone from android to Apple and lost everything. I was busy until this morning when I got up, I didn’t answer his question only saying ‘welcome to the Apple gang wise move 😂‘ he read it then no sign of life again 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t know what to believe and I’m going to take it as he IS only a friend forget about dating and all, may be it would help me to feel a little more light hearted and relax not feeling suffocated when it comes to replying his message. Ah well if he list everything how did he still have my number? Sorry been always on Apple doesn’t know how this changing works 😐

Lol i wouldnt know how to response to u too!!!

Tell him abt ur week and weekend!!!

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Lol i wouldnt know how to response to u too!!!

Tell him abt ur week and weekend!!!

You mean from his point of view he won’t know how to respond to my reply? I didn’t tell him my week and he didn’t reply to my second text either so that’s my answer I reckon 😅