Posted by Wizardz
đ You want to know the truth? We don't know why either!
Posted by WizardzPosted by Centaur12Posted by Wizardz
đ You want to know the truth? We don't know why either!
You seriously don't know why?
Okay but could you be fixed on someone though?
I honestly don't know
Sorry, I don't know if I could be fixed on someone either
She's probably the same
It sounds weird but I wouldn't take it personally. A bird can't swim and a fish can't fly, no matter how hard they try or how much you want them toclick to expand
Posted by WizardzPosted by Centaur12Posted by WizardzPosted by Centaur12Posted by Wizardz
đ You want to know the truth? We don't know why either!
You seriously don't know why?
Okay but could you be fixed on someone though?
I honestly don't know
Sorry, I don't know if I could be fixed on someone either
She's probably the same
It sounds weird but I wouldn't take it personally. A bird can't swim and a fish can't fly, no matter how hard they try or how much you want them to
Right now things aren't right between us though she I seeming interested doesn't want to talk about our problems and is trying to keep everything light no surprise I just want to know what I can do I take it I do nothing but mirror her.
Not think about it at all. Do your own life. Do you have a purpose? Let her come round when she wants and leave when she wants. I know that might sound difficult but if you fall into her patterns it will stay the same always. You need to be 100% solid in you . That's what hooks Geminis, I think. When someone they admire loves them but doesn't need them or their "games" (they're not really games but that's how they appear)click to expand
Posted by HippeeGem
I only get hot and cold when I've already checked out of the relationship, but haven't actually moved on fully yet. It takes time for me to get over someone that I gave my heart to.
You might want to move on sir. You deserve to be treated well, and never forget that.
Posted by WizardzPosted by Centaur12
Where I have been going wrong is wanting deep conversations with her and the problems we have together I have wanted to go over them but she see it as me keeping on and nagging at her.
I understand what I have to do now she has gone to town with her friends to do cloths shopping and she is getting lunch and a drink down their as well.
She rang me before she left to go down there and that's was this morning it's now middle of the afternoon and she said she would text me but she has not do I just leave it and not text her or call and wait for her?
You can't go a few hours without a text? What is wrong with you? Seriously you need to do your own thing and not sit there worrying about a missed text - it comes across as needy and insecure. You need to get out of this pattern
Sorry if that sounds too harsh but it seems her behaviour and inconsistency is driving your insecurity, not knowing where you are with her all the time, which is understandable but it won't change unless you start being firmer about yourself. Change yourself(as in act in a way that is more beneficial for yourself), don't hope to change her. Geminis can't be controlled reallyclick to expand
Posted by MyStarsShine
Didnât you finish with her? đ€«
Posted by jeane
maybe stop trying to control her and manipulate her? worth a shot.
Posted by Centaur12Posted by jeane
maybe stop trying to control her and manipulate her? worth a shot.
Jean I have stopped now believe me I have stopped it all just want something fulfilling.
She will not listen or has stopped communicating and starting to distancing her self now. And not making plans.click to expand
Posted by Centaur12Posted by MyStarsShine
Didnât you finish with her? đ€«
We did but then I picked her up from town and we slept together she told me she loves me wanted to sort us so we did but we needed to talk about her having texts every day from her male friend who is older he was texting her every day and I told her I wasn't okay with this all the time and I said I respect he's your friend and you have male friends like i have female ones but It's not okay to have him texting you everyday I asked her would she like it if the shoe was on the other foot and she said no yet still continued to talk to him. Yet when I said i wasn't okay with it she said stop moaning I don't want to talk about us anymore and now she had been distancing herself from me and not communicating etc.click to expand
Posted by jeanePosted by Centaur12Posted by jeane
maybe stop trying to control her and manipulate her? worth a shot.
Jean I have stopped now believe me I have stopped it all just want something fulfilling.
She will not listen or has stopped communicating and starting to distancing her self now. And not making plans.
but you haven't. your first post in this thread asks "how do i get her hooked"? that's manipulation. you are still trying to power play here.
just be yourself. she can be herself. if you can come together being honest about who you each are and accepting the other in all that comes with then great. but you know she can't accept you and you can't accept her either.
ffs, get some balls, get some self respect. stop being a pussy hanging off her tit like an overgrown child. she doesn't have a golden pussy that sparkles with diamonds and has the scent of fresh baked krispy kreme. there are other women out there. you get your end away, she says some nice words and you are back here again? do you realise how pathetic that is?
the thing is she knows you are weak and don't really have the backbone. she plays you like a fiddle. i'm guessing you like it. maybe you feel good in the drama. the woe is me bullshit you seem to revel in. if you didn't you wouldn't engage in it. we don't continue to do things if we don't get something out of it.
so let's go another round of this nonsense. you'll still be in the same ridiculous situation at the end of this thread that you were in the beginning of it.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Centaur12Posted by MyStarsShine
Didnât you finish with her? đ€«
We did but then I picked her up from town and we slept together she told me she loves me wanted to sort us so we did but we needed to talk about her having texts every day from her male friend who is older he was texting her every day and I told her I wasn't okay with this all the time and I said I respect he's your friend and you have male friends like i have female ones but It's not okay to have him texting you everyday I asked her would she like it if the shoe was on the other foot and she said no yet still continued to talk to him. Yet when I said i wasn't okay with it she said stop moaning I don't want to talk about us anymore and now she had been distancing herself from me and not communicating etc.
So dysfunctional
So toxic
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Posted by ozzzy
Well, they can be like that. I also have a question for Gemini girls/women. I went on a date with one Gemini girl who added me on Insta cause she liked my looks when she saw me on a friend's tagged pic...and the date went really well, and we walked for so long and talked about everything, for almost 3 hours. At the end of the date, she already suggested that we could go for a walk another time also...in between the week, we texted a bit. She was always smiling and laughing through her texts and agreed to see me on Friday. We texted a bit yesterday also.
Today I texted her in which time to meet, and she was like, "you won't be mad if we postpone a date for the next weekend?". I mean, why just a weekend, and not over the working days? I mean, if you work the first shift, it is manageable...so does it indicate low interest, her having a lot of options, or are Geminis like that? I mean, I doubt that she didn't like me, cause we talked for so long, and she suggested another walk by the end of the first date.
On the first date, she talked so many details about her family, personal things, relationships, how she always runs into some jerks, and stuff like that...she was really open.
A friend from a college is born on the same day and month as her, and we were inseparable through college, and there was a lot of chemistry...I can even see a lot of similarities between them while talking.
Posted by Centaur12Posted by ozzzy
Well, they can be like that. I also have a question for Gemini girls/women. I went on a date with one Gemini girl who added me on Insta cause she liked my looks when she saw me on a friend's tagged pic...and the date went really well, and we walked for so long and talked about everything, for almost 3 hours. At the end of the date, she already suggested that we could go for a walk another time also...in between the week, we texted a bit. She was always smiling and laughing through her texts and agreed to see me on Friday. We texted a bit yesterday also.
Today I texted her in which time to meet, and she was like, "you won't be mad if we postpone a date for the next weekend?". I mean, why just a weekend, and not over the working days? I mean, if you work the first shift, it is manageable...so does it indicate low interest, her having a lot of options, or are Geminis like that? I mean, I doubt that she didn't like me, cause we talked for so long, and she suggested another walk by the end of the first date.
On the first date, she talked so many details about her family, personal things, relationships, how she always runs into some jerks, and stuff like that...she was really open.
A friend from a college is born on the same day and month as her, and we were inseparable through college, and there was a lot of chemistry...I can even see a lot of similarities between them while talking.
They can shift things instantly because they are juggling so much at once . Dont be pushy I have learnt. Accept the change of date if she does it again cut her off.click to expand
Posted by PuzzlePieces
Pay attention to the actions not the words. Seriously she says she loves you & you go flying back.. need to talk things out but she doesnât actually want to.. sheâs going to do what she wants, and you two are SO not on the same page.
Btw I went through this with Capricorn. It is important to realize itâs not good for you & love yourself more than be putting through this bullshit. You are acting controlling, she is acting like she is going to do what she wants no matter how you feel about it. & what about how she feels about your kids? Sorry but that wouldâve been a dealbreaker for me. But it just keeps getting worse? Obviously itâs not working. You need to face that.
Posted by Centaur12Posted by ozzzy
Well, they can be like that. I also have a question for Gemini girls/women. I went on a date with one Gemini girl who added me on Insta cause she liked my looks when she saw me on a friend's tagged pic...and the date went really well, and we walked for so long and talked about everything, for almost 3 hours. At the end of the date, she already suggested that we could go for a walk another time also...in between the week, we texted a bit. She was always smiling and laughing through her texts and agreed to see me on Friday. We texted a bit yesterday also.
Today I texted her in which time to meet, and she was like, "you won't be mad if we postpone a date for the next weekend?". I mean, why just a weekend, and not over the working days? I mean, if you work the first shift, it is manageable...so does it indicate low interest, her having a lot of options, or are Geminis like that? I mean, I doubt that she didn't like me, cause we talked for so long, and she suggested another walk by the end of the first date.
On the first date, she talked so many details about her family, personal things, relationships, how she always runs into some jerks, and stuff like that...she was really open.
A friend from a college is born on the same day and month as her, and we were inseparable through college, and there was a lot of chemistry...I can even see a lot of similarities between them while talking.
They can shift things instantly because they are juggling so much at once . Dont be pushy I have learnt. Accept the change of date if she does it again cut her off.click to expand
Posted by Centaur12Posted by Centaur12Posted by ozzzy
Well, they can be like that. I also have a question for Gemini girls/women. I went on a date with one Gemini girl who added me on Insta cause she liked my looks when she saw me on a friend's tagged pic...and the date went really well, and we walked for so long and talked about everything, for almost 3 hours. At the end of the date, she already suggested that we could go for a walk another time also...in between the week, we texted a bit. She was always smiling and laughing through her texts and agreed to see me on Friday. We texted a bit yesterday also.
Today I texted her in which time to meet, and she was like, "you won't be mad if we postpone a date for the next weekend?". I mean, why just a weekend, and not over the working days? I mean, if you work the first shift, it is manageable...so does it indicate low interest, her having a lot of options, or are Geminis like that? I mean, I doubt that she didn't like me, cause we talked for so long, and she suggested another walk by the end of the first date.
On the first date, she talked so many details about her family, personal things, relationships, how she always runs into some jerks, and stuff like that...she was really open.
A friend from a college is born on the same day and month as her, and we were inseparable through college, and there was a lot of chemistry...I can even see a lot of similarities between them while talking.
They can shift things instantly because they are juggling so much at once . Dont be pushy I have learnt. Accept the change of date if she does it again cut her off.
Only reason I say that is because there definitely is something or something someone at play or if there isn't then they are playing games to get you hooked on them to see if you will stick around and chase.click to expand
Posted by ozzzyPosted by Centaur12Posted by ozzzy
Well, they can be like that. I also have a question for Gemini girls/women. I went on a date with one Gemini girl who added me on Insta cause she liked my looks when she saw me on a friend's tagged pic...and the date went really well, and we walked for so long and talked about everything, for almost 3 hours. At the end of the date, she already suggested that we could go for a walk another time also...in between the week, we texted a bit. She was always smiling and laughing through her texts and agreed to see me on Friday. We texted a bit yesterday also.
Today I texted her in which time to meet, and she was like, "you won't be mad if we postpone a date for the next weekend?". I mean, why just a weekend, and not over the working days? I mean, if you work the first shift, it is manageable...so does it indicate low interest, her having a lot of options, or are Geminis like that? I mean, I doubt that she didn't like me, cause we talked for so long, and she suggested another walk by the end of the first date.
On the first date, she talked so many details about her family, personal things, relationships, how she always runs into some jerks, and stuff like that...she was really open.
A friend from a college is born on the same day and month as her, and we were inseparable through college, and there was a lot of chemistry...I can even see a lot of similarities between them while talking.
They can shift things instantly because they are juggling so much at once . Dont be pushy I have learnt. Accept the change of date if she does it again cut her off.
That is exactly what I do. Once if it happens, ok, something may come up, or whatever...but if it happens two times in a row, I just cut them off. Because when someone is into you, they will want to see you asap, and not to play some silly games. So I was like, ok, no problem...but as I said, if she does that again, game over. I am definitely not chasing any girl, because I have an abundance mindset, and always have 3-10 girls that I can make plans with...it is never smart to focus on just one person because you can end up being disappointed. But yeah, she is probably testing me, if I can put up with that, and to see my reactions.click to expand
Posted by SnowBunny726
Dude you're a lost cause. Make all the threads you want but you're just gonna get yourself back to square one every time because you're literally trying to manipulate this woman into doing what you want which will NEVER work. Especially on a Gemini.
Stop trying to beat a dead horse.
Posted by ozzzy
Hardly it will be something from OkCupid because you can find that her quote everywhere on the internet. Highly doubt that it would be that widely spread if it was fake.
Posted by Centaur12Posted by SnowBunny726
Dude you're a lost cause. Make all the threads you want but you're just gonna get yourself back to square one every time because you're literally trying to manipulate this woman into doing what you want which will NEVER work. Especially on a Gemini.
Stop trying to beat a dead horse.
Not anymore I'm going with the flow now cbfclick to expand
Posted by Centaur12
I am just really really gutted because I know its the end and I can't do anything about it anymore and I need to keep away and out of contact.
Posted by Centaur12Posted by ozzzyPosted by Centaur12Posted by ozzzy
Well, they can be like that. I also have a question for Gemini girls/women. I went on a date with one Gemini girl who added me on Insta cause she liked my looks when she saw me on a friend's tagged pic...and the date went really well, and we walked for so long and talked about everything, for almost 3 hours. At the end of the date, she already suggested that we could go for a walk another time also...in between the week, we texted a bit. She was always smiling and laughing through her texts and agreed to see me on Friday. We texted a bit yesterday also.
Today I texted her in which time to meet, and she was like, "you won't be mad if we postpone a date for the next weekend?". I mean, why just a weekend, and not over the working days? I mean, if you work the first shift, it is manageable...so does it indicate low interest, her having a lot of options, or are Geminis like that? I mean, I doubt that she didn't like me, cause we talked for so long, and she suggested another walk by the end of the first date.
On the first date, she talked so many details about her family, personal things, relationships, how she always runs into some jerks, and stuff like that...she was really open.
A friend from a college is born on the same day and month as her, and we were inseparable through college, and there was a lot of chemistry...I can even see a lot of similarities between them while talking.
They can shift things instantly because they are juggling so much at once . Dont be pushy I have learnt. Accept the change of date if she does it again cut her off.
That is exactly what I do. Once if it happens, ok, something may come up, or whatever...but if it happens two times in a row, I just cut them off. Because when someone is into you, they will want to see you asap, and not to play some silly games. So I was like, ok, no problem...but as I said, if she does that again, game over. I am definitely not chasing any girl, because I have an abundance mindset, and always have 3-10 girls that I can make plans with...it is never smart to focus on just one person because you can end up being disappointed. But yeah, she is probably testing me, if I can put up with that, and to see my reactions.
Definitely mate you could be being tested show her you aint taking no shit otherwise you'll end up like ne right now not goodclick to expand
Posted by FadedAriPosted by Centaur12
I am just really really gutted because I know its the end and I can't do anything about it anymore and I need to keep away and out of contact.
Your definitely showing SDE. Is she the only woman in the world. Are you not embarrassed about your actions towards your ex at all and donât you want to be a positive role model for your kids.click to expand
Posted by SnowBunny726Posted by FadedAriPosted by Centaur12
I am just really really gutted because I know its the end and I can't do anything about it anymore and I need to keep away and out of contact.
Your definitely showing SDE. Is she the only woman in the world. Are you not embarrassed about your actions towards your ex at all and donât you want to be a positive role model for your kids.
What's SDE?click to expand
Posted by WizardzPosted by ozzzyPosted by Centaur12Posted by ozzzyPosted by Centaur12Posted by ozzzy
Well, they can be like that. I also have a question for Gemini girls/women. I went on a date with one Gemini girl who added me on Insta cause she liked my looks when she saw me on a friend's tagged pic...and the date went really well, and we walked for so long and talked about everything, for almost 3 hours. At the end of the date, she already suggested that we could go for a walk another time also...in between the week, we texted a bit. She was always smiling and laughing through her texts and agreed to see me on Friday. We texted a bit yesterday also.
Today I texted her in which time to meet, and she was like, "you won't be mad if we postpone a date for the next weekend?". I mean, why just a weekend, and not over the working days? I mean, if you work the first shift, it is manageable...so does it indicate low interest, her having a lot of options, or are Geminis like that? I mean, I doubt that she didn't like me, cause we talked for so long, and she suggested another walk by the end of the first date.
On the first date, she talked so many details about her family, personal things, relationships, how she always runs into some jerks, and stuff like that...she was really open.
A friend from a college is born on the same day and month as her, and we were inseparable through college, and there was a lot of chemistry...I can even see a lot of similarities between them while talking.
They can shift things instantly because they are juggling so much at once . Dont be pushy I have learnt. Accept the change of date if she does it again cut her off.
That is exactly what I do. Once if it happens, ok, something may come up, or whatever...but if it happens two times in a row, I just cut them off. Because when someone is into you, they will want to see you asap, and not to play some silly games. So I was like, ok, no problem...but as I said, if she does that again, game over. I am definitely not chasing any girl, because I have an abundance mindset, and always have 3-10 girls that I can make plans with...it is never smart to focus on just one person because you can end up being disappointed. But yeah, she is probably testing me, if I can put up with that, and to see my reactions.
Definitely mate you could be being tested show her you aint taking no shit otherwise you'll end up like ne right now not good
What is funny tho is how she mentioned that she only runs into jerks...but no matter if a man or woman says something bad about their exes, it only speaks about themselves. Because you were choosing those people, and it is impossible that you always run into wrong ones, and its always their fault. Whoever is just badmouthing their exes, they are sketchy.
So she's attracted to jerks and people who treat her badly
You had a good time with her and now she'll sabotage it by fucking you around so she can go back to her jerks again
(assuming you're not a jerk đ)
Thing with Geminis they are very open and will connect with you well on a first date... but often it's superficial. Very quickly you will see another side to her or you'll find that it was a fleeting moment and that was it. We're good salespeople, good at putting on a front and making a good impression but for a limited time
I doubt she's testing you. Just being a flaky and inconsistent Gemclick to expand
Posted by FadedAriPosted by Centaur12
I am just really really gutted because I know its the end and I can't do anything about it anymore and I need to keep away and out of contact.
Your definitely showing SDE. Is she the only woman in the world. Are you not embarrassed about your actions towards your ex at all and donât you want to be a positive role model for your kids.click to expand
Posted by jeane...
ffs, get some balls, get some self respect. stop being a pussy hanging off her tit like an overgrown child. she doesn't have a golden pussy that sparkles with diamonds and has the scent of fresh baked krispy kreme. ..
Posted by Ganon_1Posted by Centaur12Posted by FadedAriPosted by Centaur12
I am just really really gutted because I know its the end and I can't do anything about it anymore and I need to keep away and out of contact.
Your definitely showing SDE. Is she the only woman in the world. Are you not embarrassed about your actions towards your ex at all and donât you want to be a positive role model for your kids.
Sde â
Small dic*k energyclick to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by jeane...
ffs, get some balls, get some self respect. stop being a pussy hanging off her tit like an overgrown child. she doesn't have a golden pussy that sparkles with diamonds and has the scent of fresh baked krispy kreme. ..
*like*LOL
I'm too lazy to look for the quote of the day thread otherwise this would definitely get posted there. It literally made me howl.click to expand
Posted by Centaur12Posted by Ganon_1Posted by Centaur12Posted by FadedAriPosted by Centaur12
I am just really really gutted because I know its the end and I can't do anything about it anymore and I need to keep away and out of contact.
Your definitely showing SDE. Is she the only woman in the world. Are you not embarrassed about your actions towards your ex at all and donât you want to be a positive role model for your kids.
Sde â
Small dic*k energy
đ đ I had to laugh at that I have never had any complaints about that part đ
Anyway she isn't the only woman I'm the world but she is one that I have never experienced a connection like we share together
That's why I find it so hard but starting to just let her come to me now instead.click to expand
Posted by jeanePosted by Centaur12Posted by Ganon_1Posted by Centaur12Posted by FadedAriPosted by Centaur12
I am just really really gutted because I know its the end and I can't do anything about it anymore and I need to keep away and out of contact.
Your definitely showing SDE. Is she the only woman in the world. Are you not embarrassed about your actions towards your ex at all and donât you want to be a positive role model for your kids.
Sde â
Small dic*k energy
đ đ I had to laugh at that I have never had any complaints about that part đ
Anyway she isn't the only woman I'm the world but she is one that I have never experienced a connection like we share together
That's why I find it so hard but starting to just let her come to me now instead.
ah so you don't have any self respect. useful to know.click to expand
Posted by Centaur12Posted by jeanePosted by Centaur12Posted by Ganon_1Posted by Centaur12Posted by FadedAriPosted by Centaur12
I am just really really gutted because I know its the end and I can't do anything about it anymore and I need to keep away and out of contact.
Your definitely showing SDE. Is she the only woman in the world. Are you not embarrassed about your actions towards your ex at all and donât you want to be a positive role model for your kids.
Sde â
Small dic*k energy
đ đ I had to laugh at that I have never had any complaints about that part đ
Anyway she isn't the only woman I'm the world but she is one that I have never experienced a connection like we share together
That's why I find it so hard but starting to just let her come to me now instead.
ah so you don't have any self respect. useful to know.
Why do you think I do not have any self respect?click to expand
Posted by jeanePosted by Centaur12Posted by jeanePosted by Centaur12Posted by Ganon_1Posted by Centaur12Posted by FadedAriPosted by Centaur12
I am just really really gutted because I know its the end and I can't do anything about it anymore and I need to keep away and out of contact.
Your definitely showing SDE. Is she the only woman in the world. Are you not embarrassed about your actions towards your ex at all and donât you want to be a positive role model for your kids.
Sde â
Small dic*k energy
đ đ I had to laugh at that I have never had any complaints about that part đ
Anyway she isn't the only woman I'm the world but she is one that I have never experienced a connection like we share together
That's why I find it so hard but starting to just let her come to me now instead.
ah so you don't have any self respect. useful to know.
Why do you think I do not have any self respect?
because after all of this you aren't expecting better for you and your kids. you are wiling to sell your kids down the river for a bit of fanny. after all the big talk from you, you are still here hanging on to any crumb that she will throw your way. you're full of shit. you're not a person of their word.
it's not for our benefit. none of this makes a bit of difference to any of our lives but you have to live it and your kids have to live with your choices. which is why i go back to that you are getting something out of this drama. you're benefitting from it so much that you are happy for your kids to pay the price for it. well done.click to expand
Posted by Centaur12Posted by jeanePosted by Centaur12Posted by jeanePosted by Centaur12Posted by Ganon_1Posted by Centaur12Posted by FadedAriPosted by Centaur12
I am just really really gutted because I know its the end and I can't do anything about it anymore and I need to keep away and out of contact.
Your definitely showing SDE. Is she the only woman in the world. Are you not embarrassed about your actions towards your ex at all and donât you want to be a positive role model for your kids.
Sde â
Small dic*k energy
đ đ I had to laugh at that I have never had any complaints about that part đ
Anyway she isn't the only woman I'm the world but she is one that I have never experienced a connection like we share together
That's why I find it so hard but starting to just let her come to me now instead.
ah so you don't have any self respect. useful to know.
Why do you think I do not have any self respect?
because after all of this you aren't expecting better for you and your kids. you are wiling to sell your kids down the river for a bit of fanny. after all the big talk from you, you are still here hanging on to any crumb that she will throw your way. you're full of shit. you're not a person of their word.
it's not for our benefit. none of this makes a bit of difference to any of our lives but you have to live it and your kids have to live with your choices. which is why i go back to that you are getting something out of this drama. you're benefitting from it so much that you are happy for your kids to pay the price for it. well done.
Jean, my children do not see the Gemini anymore they have not seen her for 2 months nearly.
That was my decision after the way she acted.
I said to myself I am keeping my children out of reach right now until we are on good terms and there's no more games etc if that will ever happen.
I am still seeing her children when I go around her house to see her.
This is how strange it is though because on the Saturday night she said to me she isn't sure if she wants to work us out to much has happened the same old shit she says anyway I left and told her it was lovely to see you.
Next day she text me asking where this play park is for her children and I text her the details and I said I hope your girls have a lovely time.
She text me to say I am thinking of having a bbq later and watching the football your welcome to come around and join us if you would like.
I had a think and replied saying that would be lovely thank you and I will see you then and i hope the girls have a good day.
She text me saying that was also an invitation to the play park with us as well.
Lol can you see the silly little things she does says and feels one thing and then the next day it's completely different I am tired of it now so all I am doing is keeping my children away and I have them when I am suppose to on my own and then I make time for her I am not going to put all my eggs in her basket anymore like I use to and I will leave her to come to me from now on I am just going to do me and my children its down to her if she wants to make the effort like I have with hers and her.
We had a drink yesterday and I slept at hers I was expecting her to try it on with me in bed but I didn't give off and signals for that and I told myself if she does try it im saying no not until I know she's genuine I don't want it.
I know how she works now soon as I shift my energy she won't let me go soon as I become to invested in her she isn't interested.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Centaur12Posted by jeanePosted by Centaur12Posted by jeanePosted by Centaur12Posted by Ganon_1Posted by Centaur12Posted by FadedAriPosted by Centaur12
I am just really really gutted because I know its the end and I can't do anything about it anymore and I need to keep away and out of contact.
Your definitely showing SDE. Is she the only woman in the world. Are you not embarrassed about your actions towards your ex at all and donât you want to be a positive role model for your kids.
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Small dic*k energy
đ đ I had to laugh at that I have never had any complaints about that part đ
Anyway she isn't the only woman I'm the world but she is one that I have never experienced a connection like we share together
That's why I find it so hard but starting to just let her come to me now instead.
ah so you don't have any self respect. useful to know.
Why do you think I do not have any self respect?
because after all of this you aren't expecting better for you and your kids. you are wiling to sell your kids down the river for a bit of fanny. after all the big talk from you, you are still here hanging on to any crumb that she will throw your way. you're full of shit. you're not a person of their word.
it's not for our benefit. none of this makes a bit of difference to any of our lives but you have to live it and your kids have to live with your choices. which is why i go back to that you are getting something out of this drama. you're benefitting from it so much that you are happy for your kids to pay the price for it. well done.
Jean, my children do not see the Gemini anymore they have not seen her for 2 months nearly.
That was my decision after the way she acted.
I said to myself I am keeping my children out of reach right now until we are on good terms and there's no more games etc if that will ever happen.
I am still seeing her children when I go around her house to see her.
This is how strange it is though because on the Saturday night she said to me she isn't sure if she wants to work us out to much has happened the same old shit she says anyway I left and told her it was lovely to see you.
Next day she text me asking where this play park is for her children and I text her the details and I said I hope your girls have a lovely time.
She text me to say I am thinking of having a bbq later and watching the football your welcome to come around and join us if you would like.
I had a think and replied saying that would be lovely thank you and I will see you then and i hope the girls have a good day.
She text me saying that was also an invitation to the play park with us as well.
Lol can you see the silly little things she does says and feels one thing and then the next day it's completely different I am tired of it now so all I am doing is keeping my children away and I have them when I am suppose to on my own and then I make time for her I am not going to put all my eggs in her basket anymore like I use to and I will leave her to come to me from now on I am just going to do me and my children its down to her if she wants to make the effort like I have with hers and her.
We had a drink yesterday and I slept at hers I was expecting her to try it on with me in bed but I didn't give off and signals for that and I told myself if she does try it im saying no not until I know she's genuine I don't want it.
I know how she works now soon as I shift my energy she won't let me go soon as I become to invested in her she isn't interested.
Youâre dealing with a very dysfunctional woman who will affect your children at some level if you keep her in your life in any way.
Is that what you want, for them to remember their Dad as the guy who allowed himself to be treated very badly by a screwed up woman?click to expand
Posted by Sagoxa
A mutable asking another mutable sign why they're being a mutable... lol đ
Posted by jeanePosted by Centaur12Posted by jeane
maybe stop trying to control her and manipulate her? worth a shot.
Jean I have stopped now believe me I have stopped it all just want something fulfilling.
She will not listen or has stopped communicating and starting to distancing her self now. And not making plans.
but you haven't. your first post in this thread asks "how do i get her hooked"? that's manipulation. you are still trying to power play here.
just be yourself. she can be herself. if you can come together being honest about who you each are and accepting the other in all that comes with then great. but you know she can't accept you and you can't accept her either.
ffs, get some balls, get some self respect. stop being a pussy hanging off her tit like an overgrown child. she doesn't have a golden pussy that sparkles with diamonds and has the scent of fresh baked krispy kreme. there are other women out there. you get your end away, she says some nice words and you are back here again? do you realise how pathetic that is?
the thing is she knows you are weak and don't really have the backbone. she plays you like a fiddle. i'm guessing you like it. maybe you feel good in the drama. the woe is me bullshit you seem to revel in. if you didn't you wouldn't engage in it. we don't continue to do things if we don't get something out of it.
so let's go another round of this nonsense. you'll still be in the same ridiculous situation at the end of this thread that you were in the beginning of it.click to expand
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