Can this related to most Aquarius guy? (Page 4)

How was his behavior in the first two weeks? Did he talk a lot more? Seem more interested than he is now? Do you feel like he’s fading away?

Posted by pinkbird03
How was his behavior in the first two weeks? Did he talk a lot more? Seem more interested than he is now? Do you feel like he’s fading away?

He's like madly in love with me... crazy, he's very straightforward like i already knew the 1st day we even talked online, he is that kind of person either like you or will just tell you to fxck off straight away, and he talks a lot, i mean a lot was like 24hours talking to me, every morning text me, talk everything, literally everything....no matter on whatsapp or when in person, and all the conversation he really did pay attention and do remember every word I said, and he did observe what kind of person I am in every conversation, and he always planning the next time to see me right after he kissed me goodbye at his place while I was still sleeping, also planning to see my close friends, even imagining to meet my parents, but of course thats way to fast, also...telling me everything what happened that day blah blah blah.... do everything i wanted to do, and told me that the feeling he has with me was like he never felt before... felt like I'm a person who he could be so open to share everything with, i just felt like I have never been spoiled by anyone like that in my life!

I can't really tell if now is fading or just really about all the situation he has....

To be honest, he told me last Saturday that he just paid all his last month salary for his son's next year school fee because his exwife not fxking paying her part, that i know really pissing him off, then the toilet incident costed him 400US.... and he did mention to me he really never liked this city but just because the salary is good and his son is here....

Just the illness thing, my gut feeling telling me yes the first day he took sick leave was true, but not the real reason that today he didn't come to my talk...

I don't know, all the connection and feelings and everything, was like we didn't even need to say a word then we already knew what each other wanted.... that was something really made me felt this is the relationship that I ever wanted

Too fast! And when it starts this fast, it fades away even faster, because their curiosity is filled up very quickly. He used the holidays to think a little about what happened and there is a chance that he either wants to take it to his real rhythm (that is way too slow for you...) or even slowly fade away, but I do not believe this yet. But since he is communicating with you, this is a good sign. As a general rule, believe half of the words he says and 200% of his actions.

The way they act is also influenced by the planets in their chart, so two Aquas may not behave similarly.

Posted by compy
Too fast! And when it starts this fast, it fades away even faster, because their curiosity is filled up very quickly. He used the holidays to think a little about what happened and there is a chance that he either wants to take it to his real rhythm (that is way too slow for you...) or even slowly fade away, but I do not believe this yet. But since he is communicating with you, this is a good sign. As a general rule, believe half of the words he says and 200% of his actions.

The way they act is also influenced by the planets in their chart, so two Aquas may not behave similarly.

“he either wants to take it to his real rhythm (that is way too slow for you...) or even slowly fade away, but I do not believe this yet. ” - - - Thanks for not believing that, which is my gut feeling tells me, but my anxiety makes me doubt it... I'm so lost honeyyyy

“But since he is communicating with you, this is a good sign” - - - this is what my gut feeling tells me, but my insecurity keeps me being so worried

I really hope this process won't take too long... really killing me, all these sleepless nights, that's really not easy for me

I am telling myself, don't ever try to contact him this week at least, give him time to get over his issues and depression and let him know i can do that....

Just dont know if that's really how it goes....

I just cried so bad when I was typing my last reply here

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Too fast! And when it starts this fast, it fades away even faster, because their curiosity is filled up very quickly. He used the holidays to think a little about what happened and there is a chance that he either wants to take it to his real rhythm (that is way too slow for you...) or even slowly fade away, but I do not believe this yet. But since he is communicating with you, this is a good sign. As a general rule, believe half of the words he says and 200% of his actions.

The way they act is also influenced by the planets in their chart, so two Aquas may not behave similarly.

“But since he is communicating with you, this is a good sign” - - - this is what my gut feeling tells me, but my insecurity keeps me being so worried

I really hope this process won't take too long... really killing me, all these sleepless nights, that's really not easy for me

I me telling myself, don't ever try to contact him this week, at least, give him time to get over his issues and depression and let him know i can do that....

Just dont know if that's really how it goes....

I just cried so bad when I was typing my last reply here

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You must not forget that you are dealing with the most detached sign. Unfortunately, they come strong at the beginning, but they either remain that way if they fall in love (highly unlikely though), or back out a little and then continue in their own way, which is actually in a total contradiction with that they did in the beginning. It happened to me too, but I was prepared for both ways and I got myself a very loyal friend in the end.

Continue to communicate with him and help him a little, but keep it light. Show him support, but let him get over his sickness first. Aquas are very strong and don't complain (especially men) but he won't let you see him in sickness because they hate being perceived as vulnerable. Knowing his chart helps to better understand him, because most of the "love advice" pieces have no effects on Aquas.

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Too fast! And when it starts this fast, it fades away even faster, because their curiosity is filled up very quickly. He used the holidays to think a little about what happened and there is a chance that he either wants to take it to his real rhythm (that is way too slow for you...) or even slowly fade away, but I do not believe this yet. But since he is communicating with you, this is a good sign. As a general rule, believe half of the words he says and 200% of his actions.

The way they act is also influenced by the planets in their chart, so two Aquas may not behave similarly.

“But since he is communicating with you, this is a good sign” - - - this is what my gut feeling tells me, but my insecurity keeps me being so worried

I really hope this process won't take too long... really killing me, all these sleepless nights, that's really not easy for me

I me telling myself, don't ever try to contact him this week, at least, give him time to get over his issues and depression and let him know i can do that....

Just dont know if that's really how it goes....

I just cried so bad when I was typing my last reply here

You must not forget that you are dealing with the most detached sign. Unfortunately, they come strong at the beginning, but they either remain that way if they fall in love (highly unlikely though), or back out a little and then continue in their own way, which is actually in a total contradiction with that they did in the beginning. It happened to me too, but I was prepared for both ways and I got myself a very loyal friend in the end.

Continue to communicate with him and help him a little, but keep it light. Show him support, but let him get over his sickness first. Aquas are very strong and don't complain (especially men) but he won't let you see him in sickness because they hate being perceived as vulnerable. Knowing his chart helps to better understand him, because most of the "love advice" pieces have no effects on Aquas.

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He did complaint a lot about this city whenever anything happened, then he could always connect those everything to how much he doesn't like this city.... that's what he did before when something made him mad and he talked those things to me.....

Maybe because that last time the toilet incident he was somehow get to my nerves cause I was born and raised here, so I did tell him i wasn't feel so comfortable about what he said and told him i might because of this not comment too much and asked hope he understand, but said I do understand his frustration...(i did say it calmly and not accusing way)

Maybe, maybe that's why he's not venting to me this time.....he did tell me yesterday he felt bad to vent to me about his depression now, said cause I'm not the reason he hate here this city..

If really that's why, i now feel bad I am the person who pushed him away....

Posted by JadeAlexander
Sometimes with guys, they jump in really fast. Then once they know you’re invested they examine themselves to see if this is what they actually want. The chase excites them so much they don’t even consider if they’re chasing what they want...

Now that the dust is settling he may be starting to have second thoughts. He’s been ill, he’s had vacations with his son... he may want a relationship but is finding it more work then he was prepared for.

I know Aquas can be difficult. I have a lot of insecurities and struggles understanding what mine was doing. I couldn’t tell if we were just super good friends or if he liked me or what...

But you seem like you need someone more attached and warm. Are you really that into HIM or do you just want a relationship?

Before the trips, he was exactly that warm and attached person.

I want a long lasting relationship, i didn't think i want him that much until how hard he's been showing how much he's been putting all the efforts and love (i dont want to use this word but don't know what to use) and all the deep talking, caring, the connection we somehow having to knowing what each other thinking without saying a word, and even letting his son to meet me, while his son is his world..... that all what really made me become so much into this person and this relationship...

And as said before, I'm the kind of person is. When things suddenly not going the way it was with so much difference, i then start to be panic and trying to hold on everything to want everything under control... I don't know but I'm always like this, which also why it makes me being so upset

I am famous around here as the PM person. If you wish, send me his birth data in a PM. I would like to have a better look. He seems watery.

Posted by compy
I am famous around here as the PM person. If you wish, send me his birth data in a PM. I would like to have a better look. He seems watery.

I try, but only know the year month and date... that's all, and where he's from.... is that okay ?

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Posted by compy
I am famous around here as the PM person. If you wish, send me his birth data in a PM. I would like to have a better look. He seems watery.

I try, but only know the year month and date... that's all, and where he's from.... is that okay ?

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Yes.

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I am famous around here as the PM person. If you wish, send me his birth data in a PM. I would like to have a better look. He seems watery.

I try, but only know the year month and date... that's all, and where he's from.... is that okay ?

Yes.

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PMed....

One thing i really want to say is I want to say thanks to everyone here ever replied to my thread and being so cheerful and helpful and caring, without you guys i really don't know how could I go through all these alone.... i didn't tell much about my relationship issue to friends cause i feel embarrassing for some reason...

But really, thank you so so much, i mean it

Posted by Timon
Aw I don't know what to do with you. You don't sleep and you can't think about anything else. This is not good! And it's not healthy!

Are you really sure this isn't just your need for the relationship and not him? I don't think you know him well enough but you seem to already be sure he is the man of your dreams? Getting to know someone takes time and you have only known each other a really short time.

You are too focused on "getting his love" and your needs of getting that fulfilled. Have you thought about setting that aside and listen to what he needs also? I'm not saying this is the case but he might have become turned off when he was down and having problems that you didn't focus on him and his needs but only on your needs.

Maybe he needed someone to listen to him instead of wanting something from him. Imagine being sick and all your partner wants to know is "are you coming to my event?". Did you even ask him "how are YOU feeling today?", "Are you feeling better? Anything I can do to help?"

I'm a libra. I try to be objective and see all sides of a situation. 😛

Since he changed so much it could mean he is having second thoughts. Maybe you're just not compatible. You might need more than he can give you. And if that's what you really want why would you want to settle for that?

“Maybe he needed someone to listen to him instead of wanting something from him. Imagine being sick and all your partner wants to know is "are you coming to my event?". Did you even ask him "how are YOU feeling today?", "Are you feeling better? Anything I can do to help?" ”

- - - I definitely did that and asked and talked about how he feels and asked if anything i could do and give him room to split it out whatever he wanted to vent about... but as mentioned up there.. might be because last time the toilet incident he connected his anger to how much he doesn't like this city again! and i wasn't feel comfortable for something he said cause I was born and raised in here this city, and I calmly told him and hope he understand that's why i wasn't replying him as usually i was, but still saying i did understand his frustration, then now yesterday he mentioned, he did feel bad to vent to me cause I'm not the reason he hated it here this city.

I don't know if that's the reason he's not communicating this time about his depression

Posted by Timon
What is his moon sign?

Should be Cancer

I just want him to back to the normal him the boyfriend that I know.....

That's just so not him, and after today this morning his message reply say he cant make it tonight with sorry, I replied playfully but still caring, he had no response at all....tho I didn't really expect he would reply anything, but still... if there is, would be great

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Posted by SagGirl1124
I just want him to back to the normal him the boyfriend that I know.....

That's just so not him, and after today this morning his message reply say he cant make it tonight with sorry, I replied playfully but still caring, he had no response at all....tho I didn't really expect he would reply anything, but still... if there is, would be great

What if this is the normal him? You can't demand a person to behave the way you want them to. Either you accept it or find someone better for you.

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Maybe... i don't know now, i can accept it if there was a better transitions : (

Sorry, don't know if I meant what i mean, my English not that good

Follow your heart. Don’t give up on him if you don’t want to. No one knows him better than you. Trust your intuition.

Posted by pinkbird03
Follow your heart. Don’t give up on him if you don’t want to. No one knows him better than you. Trust your intuition.

I just now pretty sure my communication last time during his toilet incident made him this time not feeling comfortable to talk to me about his depression...

I'm now so in rush feeling like to tell him about that i wasn't mean that way....

But i know i should leave him alone for sometime...at least this week...

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Posted by SagGirl1124
I just want him to back to the normal him the boyfriend that I know.....

That's just so not him, and after today this morning his message reply say he cant make it tonight with sorry, I replied playfully but still caring, he had no response at all....tho I didn't really expect he would reply anything, but still... if there is, would be great

You keep saying that is not him, but after one month, you don't even know him.

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I didn't say it's not him, but when in a relationship, i would also need to understand if there's anything I did wrong to make things went this way.

If this is not my story, maybe I would have said the same thing you said

But I understand your point of view and trying to make me don't feel thay sad as now xx kiss

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I just want him to back to the normal him the boyfriend that I know.....

That's just so not him, and after today this morning his message reply say he cant make it tonight with sorry, I replied playfully but still caring, he had no response at all....tho I didn't really expect he would reply anything, but still... if there is, would be great

You keep saying that is not him, but after one month, you don't even know him.

I didn't say it's not him, but when in a relationship, i would also need to understand if there's anything I did wrong to make things went this way.

If this is not my story, maybe I would have said the same thing you said

Well I hope it works out for you, but it doesn't seem so good so far. This early in any relationship should be all roses and rainbows, not constant ignoring.

Good luck!

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Yes i understand that, and that's really something I'm so sad about

Jeez... he's finally slightly back to the usual him now, still he didn't initial the first text, but I was starting with “Testing testing 123....Boyfriend calling girlfriend 😄DD”，the he instantly replied “Girlfriend here - just a very depressed one”.....

Then we started talking again, and he slightly open more today about what else exactly bothering him that depressing him that much.

It's actually everything about he's blaming himself having his son being stuck in this city, and feeling himself not being a good dad, especially he has to work extra day this week which may make that his son missing the swimming class while he knew his exwife would be always too lazy to do that...

I told him if really that case, I would be happy to take the boy to the class....

Thank god, really... now I'm relieved.... fxckkkkkk

Posted by SagGirl1124
Jeez... he's finally slightly back to the usual him now, still he didn't initial the first text, but I was starting with “Testing testing 123....Boyfriend calling girlfriend 😄DD”，the he instantly replied “Girlfriend here - just a very depressed one”.....

Then we started talking again, and he slightly open more today about what else exactly bothering him that depressing him that much.

It's actually everything about he's blaming himself having his son being stuck in this city, and feeling himself not being a good dad, especially he has to work extra day this week which may make that his son missing the swimming class while he knew his exwife would be always too lazy to do that...

I told him if really that case, I would be happy to take the boy to the class....

Thank god, really... now I'm relieved.... fxckkkkkk

First please learn how to use that Cancer moon properly before making another post lol

Moody.

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Posted by SagGirl1124
Jeez... he's finally slightly back to the usual him now, still he didn't initial the first text, but I was starting with “Testing testing 123....Boyfriend calling girlfriend 😄DD”，the he instantly replied “Girlfriend here - just a very depressed one”.....

Then we started talking again, and he slightly open more today about what else exactly bothering him that depressing him that much.

It's actually everything about he's blaming himself having his son being stuck in this city, and feeling himself not being a good dad, especially he has to work extra day this week which may make that his son missing the swimming class while he knew his exwife would be always too lazy to do that...

I told him if really that case, I would be happy to take the boy to the class....

Thank god, really... now I'm relieved.... fxckkkkkk

First please learn how to use that Cancer moon properly before making another post lol

Moody.

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I honestly know nothing about these things....lol

Tell me pleaseeeeeee

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Jeez... he's finally slightly back to the usual him now, still he didn't initial the first text, but I was starting with “Testing testing 123....Boyfriend calling girlfriend 😄DD”，the he instantly replied “Girlfriend here - just a very depressed one”.....

Then we started talking again, and he slightly open more today about what else exactly bothering him that depressing him that much.

It's actually everything about he's blaming himself having his son being stuck in this city, and feeling himself not being a good dad, especially he has to work extra day this week which may make that his son missing the swimming class while he knew his exwife would be always too lazy to do that...

I told him if really that case, I would be happy to take the boy to the class....

Thank god, really... now I'm relieved.... fxckkkkkk

First please learn how to use that Cancer moon properly before making another post lol

Moody.

I'm honestly know nothing about these things....lol

Tell me pleaseeeeeee

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Now you're happy.

6 hours ago you were not.

12 hours ago you were happy.

Your next post you're unhappy again?

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Jeez... he's finally slightly back to the usual him now, still he didn't initial the first text, but I was starting with “Testing testing 123....Boyfriend calling girlfriend 😄DD”，the he instantly replied “Girlfriend here - just a very depressed one”.....

Then we started talking again, and he slightly open more today about what else exactly bothering him that depressing him that much.

It's actually everything about he's blaming himself having his son being stuck in this city, and feeling himself not being a good dad, especially he has to work extra day this week which may make that his son missing the swimming class while he knew his exwife would be always too lazy to do that...

I told him if really that case, I would be happy to take the boy to the class....

Thank god, really... now I'm relieved.... fxckkkkkk

First please learn how to use that Cancer moon properly before making another post lol

Moody.

I'm honestly know nothing about these things....lol

Tell me pleaseeeeeee

Now you're happy.

6 hours ago you were not.

12 hours ago you were happy.

Your next post you're unhappy again?

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LOL.....true true true hahaa, I'm just so easy to be happy or sad.....too emotional i know, could be good tho?

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Jeez... he's finally slightly back to the usual him now, still he didn't initial the first text, but I was starting with “Testing testing 123....Boyfriend calling girlfriend 😄DD”，the he instantly replied “Girlfriend here - just a very depressed one”.....

Then we started talking again, and he slightly open more today about what else exactly bothering him that depressing him that much.

It's actually everything about he's blaming himself having his son being stuck in this city, and feeling himself not being a good dad, especially he has to work extra day this week which may make that his son missing the swimming class while he knew his exwife would be always too lazy to do that...

I told him if really that case, I would be happy to take the boy to the class....

Thank god, really... now I'm relieved.... fxckkkkkk

First please learn how to use that Cancer moon properly before making another post lol

Moody.

I'm honestly know nothing about these things....lol

Tell me pleaseeeeeee

Now you're happy.

6 hours ago you were not.

12 hours ago you were happy.

Your next post you're unhappy again?

LOL.....true true true hahaa, I'm just so easy to be happy or sad.....too emotional i know, could be good tho?

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NO it's not good.

So hard to control..... I'm very easy to feel up and down.... while I care that one thing so much : (

I've been like this since i was little... how can I change it : (

Posted by Lioness18881
The truth sucks but eventually you have to realise what you had and what you have now are not the same thing. It sounds like you're trying to hold on to the lust from when it began and aren't looking at what's left now. Plus you're pretending to be someone you're not, by playing it cool with him. Aquas are really smart. They can sense it when something is hidden even if they don't say anything.

So is this guy the one you fell for, or is he someone else now? Because if he's changed, his feelings have too.

Yes I admit I'm holding on to it, because the whole time i see he's been honest and everything even with his feelings and anger... my gut feeling tells me this man and this relationship still deserves my patience and be there for that man. And i did take everyone's advice here to keep things light, and yes turns out he's recovered from the illness and obviously talking like the usual him now, just still depressed about not giving the life his son deserves.

To me, tho I'm not a mother, but since i know from the beginning that his son is his world and he hates this city but always need to be here in terms of income the exwife has the custody of the son while she's definitely not leaving this city, so... I could understand his frustration inside his own head now... and I think as a girlfriend, while he's going through these, i shall be there for him instead of just okay I leave it cause I'm not getting what I wanted at this moment...

When we're communicating, i can feel he's still that same guy.

Thanks tho dear, I do understand you warning me don't hold on to someone that doesn't worth my time and effort, but for now...still I feel it

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Posted by Lioness18881
The truth sucks but eventually you have to realise what you had and what you have now are not the same thing. It sounds like you're trying to hold on to the lust from when it began and aren't looking at what's left now. Plus you're pretending to be someone you're not, by playing it cool with him. Aquas are really smart. They can sense it when something is hidden even if they don't say anything.

So is this guy the one you fell for, or is he someone else now? Because if he's changed, his feelings have too.

Yes I admit I'm holding on to it, because the whole time i see he's been honest and everything even with his feelings and anger... my gut feeling tells me this man and this relationship still deserves my patience and be there for that man. And i did take everyone's advice here to keep things light, and yes turns out he's recovered from the illness and obviously talking like the usual him now, just still depressed about not giving the life his son deserves.

To me, tho I'm not a mother, but since i know from the beginning that his son is his world and he hates this city but always need to be here in terms of income the exwife has the custody of the son while she's definitely not leaving this city, so... I could understand his frustration inside his own head now... and I think as a girlfriend, while he's going through these, i shall be there for him instead of just okay I leave it cause I'm not getting what I wanted at this moment...

When we're communicating, i can feel he's still that same guy.

Thanks tho dear, I do understand you warning me don't hold on to someone that doesn't worth my time and effort, but for now...still I feel it

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I feel sorry for him. Worst thing for a aquarius it’s to feel like he it’s trapped. But ofc his child it’s priority.

Enjoy what you have and don’t think so much 😄

@pisceswoman123 - That's why I could understand why he's that depressed... he even said hoping his son won't hate him later on in life : (

@Lioness18881 - yeah trying to keep reminding myself be myself that woman he fell for at the beginning, that playful and cheerful all the time.

He's having the bromance time with the son now... finally after all his illness days since back from holidays, i know he needed it so much

I'm that kind of person is when anything in life suddenly not going the way it was, not just relationship, then I will be so focusing on that one thing and finding every possible way to hopping i could have it fixed instantly.... that's somehow a good thing at work, but not that good if for life, stressing myself like crazy

I wonder.....Is it when Aquarian having issues like these and that depressed, they then generally so detached in the relationship and wouldn't bother in responding things especially regarding feelings to anything except if topics about his anger or disappointment ?

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I wonder.....Is it when Aquarian having issues like these and that depressed, they then generally so detached in the relationship and wouldn't bother in responding things especially regarding feelings to anything except if topics about his anger or disappointment ?

My ex Aqua (sun, mercury and venus), always responded. We broke up on Saturday and I messaged him on Tuesday. He responded within an hour. Then we messaged back and forth with only a few minutes in between texts. So what your one is doing, isn't an Aquarius thing. If he truely cares about you and your feelings, and values you as a person or your relationship, he will always reply to you. If it's a bad time he will tell you that he will talk to you later and he will call you and talk to you later. If he isn't doing that, don't blame it on astrology. There's something else going on. They only detatch if they need space from you and if they want space from you, there is a reason. If he is contacting you everyday, just not as much as you want, then that's probably your own insecurity not him being detatched.

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Let me say again, he's still always responding instantly, I'm just asking now and we're not broken up, I'm now try to ask if talking about replying the relationship related topics, will they generally like that. Thanks

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I wonder.....Is it when Aquarian having issues like these and that depressed, they then generally so detached in the relationship and wouldn't bother in responding things especially regarding feelings to anything except if topics about his anger or disappointment ?

My ex Aqua (sun, mercury and venus), always responded. We broke up on Saturday and I messaged him on Tuesday. He responded within an hour. Then we messaged back and forth with only a few minutes in between texts. So what your one is doing, isn't an Aquarius thing. If he truely cares about you and your feelings, and values you as a person or your relationship, he will always reply to you. If it's a bad time he will tell you that he will talk to you later and he will call you and talk to you later. If he isn't doing that, don't blame it on astrology. There's something else going on. They only detatch if they need space from you and if they want space from you, there is a reason. If he is contacting you everyday, just not as much as you want, then that's probably your own insecurity not him being detatched.

Let me say again, he's still always responding instantly, I'm just asking now and we're not broken up, I'm now try to ask if talking about replying the relationship related topics, will they generally like that. Thanks

Ok i misunderstood. I thought you said he wasnt responding. If he only avoids needy stuff about where you stand or your relationship, it's because they hate talking about that stuff. They don't see a point to those questions. If they're communicating with you and are still there, then you should know where you stand and not look for reassurance. Aquarius aren't the reassuring type. That stuff isn't something they will talk about unless there is a reason why they should.

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No really the communication about our relationship, he still calls himself girlfriend, but just not responding much to when it's like let's say if today is Valentine's day, then for example I say “it's vday today, miss you x” something like that he's not responding, or maybe just “aww : )”

I think you just over analyze every little thing. I see potential in your relationship, but I think you need to be try to go with the flow more with this particular man and trust him.

Posted by pinkbird03
I think you just over analyze every little thing. I see potential in your relationship, but I think you need to be try to go with the flow more with this particular man and trust him.

Yes that's i know I am... analyzing every little thing...

He's having his another bromance night with the son now

Hopefully the boy can make him feel better faster : )

I trust him, just I don't trust myself still that attracting him enough to have him back to the usual him asap

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Posted by pinkbird03
I think you just over analyze every little thing. I see potential in your relationship, but I think you need to be try to go with the flow more with this particular man and trust him.

Yes that's i know I am... analyzing every little thing...

He's having his another bromance night with the son now

Hopefully the boy can make him feel better faster : )

I trust him, just I don't trust myself still that attracting him enough to have him back to the usual him asap

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Get his attention. Send him sexy pictures

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Posted by SagGirl1124

Posted by pinkbird03
I think you just over analyze every little thing. I see potential in your relationship, but I think you need to be try to go with the flow more with this particular man and trust him.

Yes that's i know I am... analyzing every little thing...

He's having his another bromance night with the son now

Hopefully the boy can make him feel better faster : )

I trust him, just I don't trust myself still that attracting him enough to have him back to the usual him asap

Get his attention. Send him sexy pictures

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+1👍

Unfortunately he's definitely not in that mood... teased him that I have something for us which obviously sexual.. he's usually the one sending those pic btw, haha...

maybe he's really not interested in me anymore, or he's really that seriously depressed about thinking himself as a bad daddy and still thinking over and over that how much he hate to be stuck in this city

I really don't know, i mean he's still responding if calling him girlfriend, and calling me boyfriend, but still being real quiet, and yes, tomorrow he has to work extra which pissing him off.... sighhh

Posted by SagGirl1124
Unfortunately he's definitely not in that mood... teased him that I have something for us which obviously sexual.. he's usually the one sending those pic btw, haha...

maybe he's really not interested in me anymore, or he's really that seriously depressed about thinking himself as a bad daddy and still thinking over and over that how much he hate to be stuck in this city

I really don't know, i mean he's still responding if calling him girlfriend, and calling me boyfriend, but still being real quiet, and yes, tomorrow he has to work extra which pissing him off.... sighhh

Every guy is always in the mood for sexy pictures. Surprise him with a new outfit and send something very sexy. No words necessary

@Koniuchaa

We just can't help lol, since the day he asked me to be his “boyfriend”

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by SagGirl1124
Unfortunately he's definitely not in that mood... teased him that I have something for us which obviously sexual.. he's usually the one sending those pic btw, haha...

maybe he's really not interested in me anymore, or he's really that seriously depressed about thinking himself as a bad daddy and still thinking over and over that how much he hate to be stuck in this city

I really don't know, i mean he's still responding if calling him girlfriend, and calling me boyfriend, but still being real quiet, and yes, tomorrow he has to work extra which pissing him off.... sighhh

Every guy is always in the mood for sexy pictures. Surprise him with a new outfit and send something very sexy. No words necessary

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Do I look cheap if doing this while he's been so detached and replying every messages only except when saying miss him that he doesn't reply 😢

Posted by JadeAlexander
I say give him space...

It took 9 months before my aqua got too busy to text regularly and by then we were good friends and openly discussed it without me feeling insecure. He was vocal enough about his affection for me that it was concerning.

I think you need to let this guy have space.

You guys still together now ? : )

9...m...o...n...t...h....sssssssssss

I only these 2 days been just light messages seeing how's things, most of the time just left him alone

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Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by SagGirl1124
Unfortunately he's definitely not in that mood... teased him that I have something for us which obviously sexual.. he's usually the one sending those pic btw, haha...

maybe he's really not interested in me anymore, or he's really that seriously depressed about thinking himself as a bad daddy and still thinking over and over that how much he hate to be stuck in this city

I really don't know, i mean he's still responding if calling him girlfriend, and calling me boyfriend, but still being real quiet, and yes, tomorrow he has to work extra which pissing him off.... sighhh

Every guy is always in the mood for sexy pictures. Surprise him with a new outfit and send something very sexy. No words necessary

Do I look cheap if doing this while he's been so detached and replying every messages only except when saying miss him that he doesn't reply 😢

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Lol nope. I do it a lot. Even when he’s being distant. He loves it.

Okay...guys, just did sent a sexy pic while he's venting at his extra work day today...

He did say, “ok that's cheer me up :） ” and said he miss my big ass...LOL

Besides, he finally wont miss his son's swimming class even extra work day today, so he's feeling better now, and i guess also the sexy pic you guys suggested, he's really being cheered up, and finally saying wanna see me!!!!! Thanks guyssss....

Posted by SagGirl1124
Okay...guys, just did sent a sexy pic while he's venting at his extra work day today...

He did say, “ok that's cheer me up :） ” and said he miss my big ass...LOL

Besides, he finally wont miss his son's swimming class even extra work day today, so he's feeling better now, and i guess also the sexy pic you guys suggested, he's really being cheered up, and finally saying wanna see me!!!!! Thanks guyssss....

Lol told you 😋

Why are you still banging on.

Take a hint. Ffs

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Posted by SagGirl1124
Okay...guys, just did sent a sexy pic while he's venting at his extra work day today...

He did say, “ok that's cheer me up :） ” and said he miss my big ass...LOL

Besides, he finally wont miss his son's swimming class even extra work day today, so he's feeling better now, and i guess also the sexy pic you guys suggested, he's really being cheered up, and finally saying wanna see me!!!!! Thanks guyssss....

Lol told you 😋

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Lemme guess

You’re not over your Aqua either

Smfh

I'm happy now, he's talking normal, making fun, and asked to see me.... Thank god and thanks you guys!!! Without everyone here, i really don't know how I could not be going crazy already !!!! Fingers crossed I don't need to update this thread anymore 😙😘😙😘😙😘

Hi Guys... Just curious....

We everything's going great

Finally saw him Monday

But...He's now no more initiating text everyday

Tho he's still responding every message instantly

If I want him send me message in the mornings

Do you guys think I can ask for it

Or will that be like too much and he would think I'm clingy ?

Posted by SagGirl1124
Hi Guys... Just curious....

We everything's going great

Finally saw him Monday

But...He's now no more initiating text everyday

Tho he's still responding every message instantly

If I want him send me message in the mornings

Do you guys think I can ask for it

Or will that be like too much and he would think I'm clingy ?

Ask for what you want in a relationship. You don't want him to txt you on his own though?