I can see that. But hes been the one pursuing every step of the way ....ive been the one reluctant and taking it VERY SLOW. Hes way more committed than i am thats why it was so confusing....
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Posted by LibraLovesHimWell he did a 180. Its very confusing to be told a million things and then him totally back off and leave me..
So whats the problem? He has told you what his is, do you not believe him or...??
Posted by Capmercury87Ok. Yes thats cool and all...maybe its best not to be quite so 'honest' in the beginning tho...he promised a lot of stuff he clearly cant deliver. Dont say stuff unless you mean it. Im the one thst said we should take it slow...mmph.
Sometimes we Aquarius get excited about feelings and then think it over and lose those feelings simply because we realize it was quick not a slow cooked emotional thing going on in our hearts.
I love his honesty tho
Posted by bumboklattAhh. Well what do you propose i do about it? Nothing? I was thinking just a simple goodbye and exchanging of things...Posted by boxcarmirntaHmmm maybe he got ahead of himselfPosted by bumboklattI can see that. But hes been the one pursuing every step of the way ....ive been the one reluctant and taking it VERY SLOW. Hes way more committed than i am thats why it was so confusing....
He's insecure about commitment
He probably feels you getting ahead of him in the relationship
That's very scary for aquas
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Posted by FutureSeekerI meant leave the relationship not physically leave. But hey! Communication was most def the answer..he contacted me and wanted to talk and he explained what happened. He was feeling very insecure about "performing" cuz he was drunk..and it spiraled out of control from there...he tried to cover it up instead of being honest. We worked through it and all is well. THANKS ALL! ?Posted by boxcarmirntaWait- you said you ran away. When did he leave you?Posted by LibraLovesHimWell he did a 180. Its very confusing to be told a million things and then him totally back off and leave me..
So whats the problem? He has told you what his is, do you not believe him or...??
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Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by FutureSeekerI meant leave the relationship not physically leave. But hey! Communication was most def the answer..he contacted me and wanted to talk and he explained what happened. He was feeling very insecure about "performing" cuz he was drunk..and it spiraled out of control from there...he tried to cover it up instead of being honest. We worked through it and all is well. THANKS ALL! ?Posted by boxcarmirntaWait- you said you ran away. When did he leave you?Posted by LibraLovesHimWell he did a 180. Its very confusing to be told a million things and then him totally back off and leave me..
So whats the problem? He has told you what his is, do you not believe him or...??
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thats awesome! what's his venus placement? congrats on working things out.,..see you got all emotional and hurt for nothing... next time, stay and work at the problem there and then.. 😛
Posted by LibraLovesHimYou read the whole thread and couldn't
So whats the problem? He has told you what his is, do you not believe him or...??
Grasp what the prob is? Or are you just a jerk asking obvious sarcastic questions.
One month.
You've already been intimate.
Would you be this hurt if you hadn't already had sex? Probably not.
Lesson for you is not to jump in bed with someone so quickly. It sets you up for mixed signals and confusion.
That said, him turning you down is not necessarily a bad thing. It means he's assessing the situation and deciding whether he has feelings or not. It means he's not going to keep screwing you and leading you on if he doesn't have feelings. Sounds like a good guy to me.
You've already been intimate.
Would you be this hurt if you hadn't already had sex? Probably not.
Lesson for you is not to jump in bed with someone so quickly. It sets you up for mixed signals and confusion.
That said, him turning you down is not necessarily a bad thing. It means he's assessing the situation and deciding whether he has feelings or not. It means he's not going to keep screwing you and leading you on if he doesn't have feelings. Sounds like a good guy to me.
No I didn't read the whole thread, just your opening statement
Posted by boxcarmirntafinally, a happy ending on DXP !Posted by FutureSeekerI meant leave the relationship not physically leave. But hey! Communication was most def the answer..he contacted me and wanted to talk and he explained what happened. He was feeling very insecure about "performing" cuz he was drunk..and it spiraled out of control from there...he tried to cover it up instead of being honest. We worked through it and all is well. THANKS ALL! ?Posted by boxcarmirntaWait- you said you ran away. When did he leave you?Posted by LibraLovesHimWell he did a 180. Its very confusing to be told a million things and then him totally back off and leave me..
So whats the problem? He has told you what his is, do you not believe him or...??
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Posted by saweetz1988Totally! Aquarius.Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by FutureSeekerI meant leave the relationship not physically leave. But hey! Communication was most def the answer..he contacted me and wanted to talk and he explained what happened. He was feeling very insecure about "performing" cuz he was drunk..and it spiraled out of control from there...he tried to cover it up instead of being honest. We worked through it and all is well. THANKS ALL! ?Posted by boxcarmirntaWait- you said you ran away. When did he leave you?Posted by LibraLovesHimWell he did a 180. Its very confusing to be told a million things and then him totally back off and leave me..
So whats the problem? He has told you what his is, do you not believe him or...??
thats awesome! what's his venus placement? congrats on working things out.,..see you got all emotional and hurt for nothing... next time, stay and work at the problem there and then.. 😛
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Posted by truecapHe is a good guy. I wouldnt have been as upset if we hadnt talked about spending the night together for days...but a month is not fast imo eek.
One month.
You've already been intimate.
Would you be this hurt if you hadn't already had sex? Probably not.
Lesson for you is not to jump in bed with someone so quickly. It sets you up for mixed signals and confusion.
That said, him turning you down is not necessarily a bad thing. It means he's assessing the situation and deciding whether he has feelings or not. It means he's not going to keep screwing you and leading you on if he doesn't have feelings. Sounds like a good guy to me.
Posted by tctaI know right? I almost felt guilty posting the ending. Haha. He really is a really good guy. Hallelujah!!Posted by boxcarmirntafinally, a happy ending on DXP !Posted by FutureSeekerI meant leave the relationship not physically leave. But hey! Communication was most def the answer..he contacted me and wanted to talk and he explained what happened. He was feeling very insecure about "performing" cuz he was drunk..and it spiraled out of control from there...he tried to cover it up instead of being honest. We worked through it and all is well. THANKS ALL! ?Posted by boxcarmirntaWait- you said you ran away. When did he leave you?Posted by LibraLovesHimWell he did a 180. Its very confusing to be told a million things and then him totally back off and leave me..
So whats the problem? He has told you what his is, do you not believe him or...??
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Posted by boxcarmirntaremember next time to seek first to understand, and then to be understood ... way to go "grasshopper"! lolPosted by tctaI know right? I almost felt guilty posting the ending. Haha. He really is a really good guy. Hallelujah!!Posted by boxcarmirntafinally, a happy ending on DXP !Posted by FutureSeekerI meant leave the relationship not physically leave. But hey! Communication was most def the answer..he contacted me and wanted to talk and he explained what happened. He was feeling very insecure about "performing" cuz he was drunk..and it spiraled out of control from there...he tried to cover it up instead of being honest. We worked through it and all is well. THANKS ALL! ?Posted by boxcarmirntaWait- you said you ran away. When did he leave you?Posted by LibraLovesHimWell he did a 180. Its very confusing to be told a million things and then him totally back off and leave me..
So whats the problem? He has told you what his is, do you not believe him or...??
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Any news? Have you talked?
Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by bumboklattI can see that. But hes been the one pursuing every step of the way ....ive been the one reluctant and taking it VERY SLOW. Hes way more committed than i am thats why it was so confusing....
He's insecure about commitment
He probably feels you getting ahead of him in the relationship
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Aquas can be fickle, they can come on so strong...and then burn themselves out before a relationship has a chance to even get off the ground. Be careful in love relationships where a person is love-bombing you mindlessly with constant attention at the start of a relationship. Because it can burn out just as quickly as it started. Legitimate intimacy takes time. Don't allow yourself to be misled in a relationship, always follow your own pace.
The best thing to do in your situation is to back off and see what he does next. He could have changed his mind, or not. If you're wondering how or why he could do that. You should know that a lot of male Aquas are what I call "moment" people. Sometimes how they feel and what they say...are what they think at the moment.
I would suggest backing away to see if he comes back. If he does, pay attention to your "own" feelings about him. How does he make "you" feel. Can you trust him, etc.
...And if doesn't come back, let it be a life lesson for you.
Posted by RochelleWell we worked it out...but yr right i think. Hes been flip flopping now and i dont like it. Keeps saying it cant work, hes not the guy for me cu we have different schedules etc. After saying all he wants is me. Not quite the happy ending i thought it would be...Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by bumboklattI can see that. But hes been the one pursuing every step of the way ....ive been the one reluctant and taking it VERY SLOW. Hes way more committed than i am thats why it was so confusing....
He's insecure about commitment
He probably feels you getting ahead of him in the relationship
That's very scary for aquas
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Aquas can be fickle, they can come on so strong...and then burn themselves out before a relationship has a chance to even get off the ground. Be careful in love relationships where a person is love-bombing you mindlessly with constant attention at the start of a relationship. Because it can burn out just as quickly as it started. Legitimate intimacy takes time. Don't allow yourself to be misled in a relationship, always follow your own pace.
The best thing to do in your situation is to back off and see what he does next. He could have changed his mind, or not. If you're wondering how or why he could do that. You should know that a lot of male Aquas are what I call "moment" people. Sometimes how they feel and what they say...are what they think at the moment.
I would suggest backing away to see if he comes back. If he does, pay attention to your "own" feelings about him. How does he make "you" feel. Can you trust him, etc.
...And if doesn't come back, let it be a life lesson for you.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiYEa read above. We worked thru it..but hes sorta flip flopping again...so that is throwimg me for a loop. He was very consistent up to a point. now hes back tracking again...i think he has some shit he needs to work out himself. Suck.
Any news? Have you talked?
Posted by boxcarmirntaMaybe you need to grill him every time he says some sweet butter? Like are you sure? It's sound like you aren't doing your part honey.Posted by GemitatiYEa read above. We worked thru it..but hes sorta flip flopping again...so that is throwimg me for a loop. He was very consistent up to a point. now hes back tracking again...i think he has some shit he needs to work out himself. Suck.
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You are a woman. But you talking about him and don't say nothing almost about your part. I would love to know how you draw him to yourself. He must be lost loving you all alone and having no compassion from you.
Just my feelings. Maybe totally off but...
Good luck
Posted by GemitatiIve done that all along I always make sure hes sure..why do i not have compassion? He just fills my head with crap and then flip flops due to his own insecurities..im not sure what i can do about that . I dont like having the rug pulled out from under me...Posted by boxcarmirntaMaybe you need to grill him every time he says some sweet butter? Like are you sure? It's sound like you aren't doing your part honey.Posted by GemitatiYEa read above. We worked thru it..but hes sorta flip flopping again...so that is throwimg me for a loop. He was very consistent up to a point. now hes back tracking again...i think he has some shit he needs to work out himself. Suck.
Any news? Have you talked?
You are a woman. But you talking about him and don't say nothing almost about your part. I would love to know how you draw him to yourself. He must be lost loving you all alone and having no compassion from you.
Just my feelings. Maybe totally off but...
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Posted by boxcarmirntaI said I could be off but you never mentioning YOU in this. Where are YOU?Posted by GemitatiIve done that all along I always make sure hes sure..why do i not have compassion? He just fills my head with crap and then flip flops due to his own insecurities..im not sure what i can do about that . I dont like having the rug pulled out from under me...Posted by boxcarmirntaMaybe you need to grill him every time he says some sweet butter? Like are you sure? It's sound like you aren't doing your part honey.Posted by GemitatiYEa read above. We worked thru it..but hes sorta flip flopping again...so that is throwimg me for a loop. He was very consistent up to a point. now hes back tracking again...i think he has some shit he needs to work out himself. Suck.
Any news? Have you talked?
You are a woman. But you talking about him and don't say nothing almost about your part. I would love to know how you draw him to yourself. He must be lost loving you all alone and having no compassion from you.
Just my feelings. Maybe totally off but...
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What are you saying back when he buttered your toast? Do you talk about what? It seems all you 2 do is listening to his butter and than he flip flopping...
I don't see relashionship. Maybe it's just your writing style but it's hard to understand what's going on
Posted by GemitatiI reciprocated for the most part....ive always been a bit hesitant cuz of past issues..but ive been honest about how i feel about him.Posted by boxcarmirntaI said I could be off but you never mentioning YOU in this. Where are YOU?Posted by GemitatiIve done that all along I always make sure hes sure..why do i not have compassion? He just fills my head with crap and then flip flops due to his own insecurities..im not sure what i can do about that . I dont like having the rug pulled out from under me...Posted by boxcarmirntaMaybe you need to grill him every time he says some sweet butter? Like are you sure? It's sound like you aren't doing your part honey.Posted by GemitatiYEa read above. We worked thru it..but hes sorta flip flopping again...so that is throwimg me for a loop. He was very consistent up to a point. now hes back tracking again...i think he has some shit he needs to work out himself. Suck.
Any news? Have you talked?
You are a woman. But you talking about him and don't say nothing almost about your part. I would love to know how you draw him to yourself. He must be lost loving you all alone and having no compassion from you.
Just my feelings. Maybe totally off but...
Good luck
What are you saying back when he buttered your toast? Do you talk about what? It seems all you 2 do is listening to his butter and than he flip flopping...
I don't see relashionship. Maybe it's just your writing style but it's hard to understand what's going onclick to expand
Posted by bkbella86Dont be an arsehole now love. Unnecessary.Posted by LibraLovesHimYou read the whole thread and couldn't
So whats the problem? He has told you what his is, do you not believe him or...??
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100nope. nice try tho. HahaPosted by boxcarmirntaBad sex.....Posted by sultrykittyyes we have. but not that often.
Have you been intimate before?
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Posted by FutureSeekerIm actually really good with communication which is why this confused me so much. i talk about my feelings with ease. He does not however and decided to once again make up lame excuses to which i asked a lot of questions about to get REAL answers but he refused. Hes just really insecure and im not and he doesnt know how to handle it. So yes it is doomed. Which is fine..i want someone who expresses himself easily and genuinely.Posted by boxcarmirntaThis relationship is not going to workout. The communication is horrible. On BOTH ends.Posted by GemitatiIve done that all along I always make sure hes sure..why do i not have compassion? He just fills my head with crap and then flip flops due to his own insecurities..im not sure what i can do about that . I dont like having the rug pulled out from under me...Posted by boxcarmirntaMaybe you need to grill him every time he says some sweet butter? Like are you sure? It's sound like you aren't doing your part honey.Posted by GemitatiYEa read above. We worked thru it..but hes sorta flip flopping again...so that is throwimg me for a loop. He was very consistent up to a point. now hes back tracking again...i think he has some shit he needs to work out himself. Suck.
Any news? Have you talked?
You are a woman. But you talking about him and don't say nothing almost about your part. I would love to know how you draw him to yourself. He must be lost loving you all alone and having no compassion from you.
Just my feelings. Maybe totally off but...
Good luck
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Posted by Mystical111
This is exactly why I don't connect with Aqua Sun & Moon men.
There's always a mental connection between us but not an emotional one. I just don't view them as relationship material. I find them so strange in that department..
This is the reason as to why Aquas should pair up with other Air or Fire signs because those are the only people who can truly understand and relate to them.
If you crave passion, affection, & depth then stay away from these people. They make great friends and acquaintances but that's about it.
This
I was with two Aqua men but as romantic partners, just no.....lovely guys and make interesting friends but when a commitment is wanted, and especially for water sign women.......nightmare!
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I am the opposite of clingy. I have mostly aqua in my chart. HE was the one who was all over me. Which shouldve been a good indicator that he was going too fast and that it wasnt real. And sex after a month is extremely normal. We got along amazingly, there was no problem. He has issues he needs to work out, his insecurities destroyed us.
Pisces are clingy and always want emotional bonding... Aqua energy is the complete opposite.. They need tonnes and tonnes of space..
These two energies do not work well at all... Better to end now than later down the line and the aqua can already see this whereas you being dreamy Pisces can only see what you dream... Plus you have only known him one month and had sex already before even getting to know him on a deeper level... Game Over
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100No thank god. He was the gushy emotional one.Posted by boxcarmirntaFrom your perspective... But Pisces dream alot... Something is bad... He's not running back for more is he!Posted by JohnTheBaptist100nope. nice try tho. HahaPosted by boxcarmirntaBad sex.....Posted by sultrykittyyes we have. but not that often.
Have you been intimate before?
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I completely disagree with that. I think about other peoples feelings all the time. I have a lot of compassion and understanding.Posted by boxcarmirntaPisces ONLY ever see their feelings no one else's.. In Pisces dreamworld they are the epitome of perfection but not according to this aqua... Your best bet is to swim away and find another perfect fish just like you.Posted by FutureSeekerIm actually really good with communication which is why this confused me so much. i talk about my feelings with ease. He does not however and decided to once again make up lame excuses to which i asked a lot of questions about to get REAL answers but he refused. Hes just really insecure and im not and he doesnt know how to handle it. So yes it is doomed. Which is fine..i want someone who expresses himself easily and genuinely.Posted by boxcarmirntaThis relationship is not going to workout. The communication is horrible. On BOTH ends.Posted by GemitatiIve done that all along I always make sure hes sure..why do i not have compassion? He just fills my head with crap and then flip flops due to his own insecurities..im not sure what i can do about that . I dont like having the rug pulled out from under me...Posted by boxcarmirntaMaybe you need to grill him every time he says some sweet butter? Like are you sure? It's sound like you aren't doing your part honey.Posted by GemitatiYEa read above. We worked thru it..but hes sorta flip flopping again...so that is throwimg me for a loop. He was very consistent up to a point. now hes back tracking again...i think he has some shit he needs to work out himself. Suck.
Any news? Have you talked?
You are a woman. But you talking about him and don't say nothing almost about your part. I would love to know how you draw him to yourself. He must be lost loving you all alone and having no compassion from you.
Just my feelings. Maybe totally off but...
Good luck
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Posted by Mystical111
This is exactly why I don't connect with Aqua Sun & Moon men.
There's always a mental connection between us but not an emotional one. I just don't view them as relationship material. I find them so strange in that department..
This is the reason as to why Aquas should pair up with other Air or Fire signs because those are the only people who can truly understand and relate to them.
If you crave passion, affection, & depth then stay away from these people. They make great friends and acquaintances but that's about it.
Well he was super gushy and emotional..he has cried many times. I have an aqua moon so can be detached at times. He has a ton of pisces in his chart. But yea whatever it was...it didnt work!
Posted by boxcarmirntaWhat do you associate crying (being emotional) with?Posted by Mystical111
This is exactly why I don't connect with Aqua Sun & Moon men.
There's always a mental connection between us but not an emotional one. I just don't view them as relationship material. I find them so strange in that department..
This is the reason as to why Aquas should pair up with other Air or Fire signs because those are the only people who can truly understand and relate to them.
If you crave passion, affection, & depth then stay away from these people. They make great friends and acquaintances but that's about it.
Well he was super gushy and emotional..he has cried many times. I have an aqua moon so can be detached at times. He has a ton of pisces in his chart. But yea whatever it was...it didnt work!
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Posted by i_amWhat do you mean?Posted by boxcarmirntaWhat do you associate crying (being emotional) with?Posted by Mystical111
This is exactly why I don't connect with Aqua Sun & Moon men.
There's always a mental connection between us but not an emotional one. I just don't view them as relationship material. I find them so strange in that department..
This is the reason as to why Aquas should pair up with other Air or Fire signs because those are the only people who can truly understand and relate to them.
If you crave passion, affection, & depth then stay away from these people. They make great friends and acquaintances but that's about it.
Well he was super gushy and emotional..he has cried many times. I have an aqua moon so can be detached at times. He has a ton of pisces in his chart. But yea whatever it was...it didnt work!
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Hmm.yea you have no idea what yr talking about. I was never clingy. Thats not how i roll. Sex has nothing to do with this ALSO im a grown woman i can decide when i'm ready to have sex with someone. Im not manipulative in anyway sorry you had a bad time with a pisces but thats not me. What is the point of being such an ass? The problem is solved. Its over. And i know why. You dont, youre a stranger. Get bentPosted by boxcarmirntaSure. Pisces are manipulative doormats but they still don't see the "realism" of a relationship.. U see the relationship as fabulous and it's all his fault but yet you don't take any responsibility of the "clingy" part you played or that it was just sex. One month and sex what else is there about you to discover. Nah! Boredom set in and now he is gone. your sex was not good or he would still have been around.Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I completely disagree with that. I think about other peoples feelings all the time. I have a lot of compassion and understanding.Posted by boxcarmirntaPisces ONLY ever see their feelings no one else's.. In Pisces dreamworld they are the epitome of perfection but not according to this aqua... Your best bet is to swim away and find another perfect fish just like you.Posted by FutureSeekerIm actually really good with communication which is why this confused me so much. i talk about my feelings with ease. He does not however and decided to once again make up lame excuses to which i asked a lot of questions about to get REAL answers but he refused. Hes just really insecure and im not and he doesnt know how to handle it. So yes it is doomed. Which is fine..i want someone who expresses himself easily and genuinely.Posted by boxcarmirntaThis relationship is not going to workout. The communication is horrible. On BOTH ends.Posted by GemitatiIve done that all along I always make sure hes sure..why do i not have compassion? He just fills my head with crap and then flip flops due to his own insecurities..im not sure what i can do about that . I dont like having the rug pulled out from under me...Posted by boxcarmirntaMaybe you need to grill him every time he says some sweet butter? Like are you sure? It's sound like you aren't doing your part honey.Posted by GemitatiYEa read above. We worked thru it..but hes sorta flip flopping again...so that is throwimg me for a loop. He was very consistent up to a point. now hes back tracking again...i think he has some shit he needs to work out himself. Suck.
Any news? Have you talked?
You are a woman. But you talking about him and don't say nothing almost about your part. I would love to know how you draw him to yourself. He must be lost loving you all alone and having no compassion from you.
Just my feelings. Maybe totally off but...
Good luck
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Posted by PootyButt
OP, I don't know why people have jumped on you. *boggle*
It seems clear to me that he suddenly decided his feelings weren't strong enough to continue a serious relationship, and he felt maybe things were heading toward serious. He was probably trying to be direct and honest but came off as abrupt and mean.
OR
He suddenly had diarrhea, and he could think of no way out of it without admitting diarrhea.
Haha! Hes actually really insecure about a lot of stuff and it has proven to be the downfall of our relationship unfortunately. Hes running scared and theres nothing i can do about it except let him go! Hopefully he'll gain wisdom insight and perspective someday....
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Dude seriously..i was over it days ago I'm just being polite youre a judgmental fool with very limited perspective.Posted by boxcarmirntaMe wish a Pisces... Lololololololol No chance! I'm with the aqua on this. If it's so over why this thread over a one month fling. It was not even a relationship.. Just plain sex. And that was not enough to keep him around..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Hmm.yea you have no idea what yr talking about. I was never clingy. Thats not how i roll. Sex has nothing to do with this ALSO im a grown woman i can decide when i'm ready to have sex with someone. Im not manipulative in anyway sorry you had a bad time with a pisces but thats not me. What is the point of being such an ass? The problem is solved. Its over. And i know why. You dont, youre a stranger. Get bentPosted by boxcarmirntaSure. Pisces are manipulative doormats but they still don't see the "realism" of a relationship.. U see the relationship as fabulous and it's all his fault but yet you don't take any responsibility of the "clingy" part you played or that it was just sex. One month and sex what else is there about you to discover. Nah! Boredom set in and now he is gone. your sex was not good or he would still have been around.Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I completely disagree with that. I think about other peoples feelings all the time. I have a lot of compassion and understanding.Posted by boxcarmirntaPisces ONLY ever see their feelings no one else's.. In Pisces dreamworld they are the epitome of perfection but not according to this aqua... Your best bet is to swim away and find another perfect fish just like you.Posted by FutureSeekerIm actually really good with communication which is why this confused me so much. i talk about my feelings with ease. He does not however and decided to once again make up lame excuses to which i asked a lot of questions about to get REAL answers but he refused. Hes just really insecure and im not and he doesnt know how to handle it. So yes it is doomed. Which is fine..i want someone who expresses himself easily and genuinely.Posted by boxcarmirntaThis relationship is not going to workout. The communication is horrible. On BOTH ends.Posted by GemitatiIve done that all along I always make sure hes sure..why do i not have compassion? He just fills my head with crap and then flip flops due to his own insecurities..im not sure what i can do about that . I dont like having the rug pulled out from under me...Posted by boxcarmirntaMaybe you need to grill him every time he says some sweet butter? Like are you sure? It's sound like you aren't doing your part honey.Posted by GemitatiYEa read above. We worked thru it..but hes sorta flip flopping again...so that is throwimg me for a loop. He was very consistent up to a point. now hes back tracking again...i think he has some shit he needs to work out himself. Suck.
Any news? Have you talked?
You are a woman. But you talking about him and don't say nothing almost about your part. I would love to know how you draw him to yourself. He must be lost loving you all alone and having no compassion from you.
Just my feelings. Maybe totally off but...
Good luck
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Adios troll! Nice knowin ya. Keep up the good work!Posted by boxcarmirntaFrom Pisces perspective but I bet if we were to ask him, he would have a completely different story... Typical Pisces. PerfectPosted by PootyButt
OP, I don't know why people have jumped on you. *boggle*
It seems clear to me that he suddenly decided his feelings weren't strong enough to continue a serious relationship, and he felt maybe things were heading toward serious. He was probably trying to be direct and honest but came off as abrupt and mean.
OR
He suddenly had diarrhea, and he could think of no way out of it without admitting diarrhea.
Haha! Hes actually really insecure about a lot of stuff and it has proven to be the downfall of our relationship unfortunately. Hes running scared and theres nothing i can do about it except let him go! Hopefully he'll gain wisdom insight and perspective someday....
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Posted by boxcarmirntaCrying. What does it mean to you?Posted by i_amWhat do you mean?Posted by boxcarmirntaWhat do you associate crying (being emotional) with?Posted by Mystical111
This is exactly why I don't connect with Aqua Sun & Moon men.
There's always a mental connection between us but not an emotional one. I just don't view them as relationship material. I find them so strange in that department..
This is the reason as to why Aquas should pair up with other Air or Fire signs because those are the only people who can truly understand and relate to them.
If you crave passion, affection, & depth then stay away from these people. They make great friends and acquaintances but that's about it.
Well he was super gushy and emotional..he has cried many times. I have an aqua moon so can be detached at times. He has a ton of pisces in his chart. But yea whatever it was...it didnt work!
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Posted by i_amThat he has feelings? And is sad?Posted by boxcarmirntaCrying. What does it mean to you?Posted by i_amWhat do you mean?Posted by boxcarmirntaWhat do you associate crying (being emotional) with?Posted by Mystical111
This is exactly why I don't connect with Aqua Sun & Moon men.
There's always a mental connection between us but not an emotional one. I just don't view them as relationship material. I find them so strange in that department..
This is the reason as to why Aquas should pair up with other Air or Fire signs because those are the only people who can truly understand and relate to them.
If you crave passion, affection, & depth then stay away from these people. They make great friends and acquaintances but that's about it.
Well he was super gushy and emotional..he has cried many times. I have an aqua moon so can be detached at times. He has a ton of pisces in his chart. But yea whatever it was...it didnt work!
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100You dont know what the truth is. Youre an idiotPosted by PootyButtJust telling the truth dude.Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Hey, didn't I see you just ragging on Cancers too? Maybe you should make a thread about how somebody did you wrong.Posted by boxcarmirntaFrom Pisces perspective but I bet if we were to ask him, he would have a completely different story... Typical Pisces. PerfectPosted by PootyButt
OP, I don't know why people have jumped on you. *boggle*
It seems clear to me that he suddenly decided his feelings weren't strong enough to continue a serious relationship, and he felt maybe things were heading toward serious. He was probably trying to be direct and honest but came off as abrupt and mean.
OR
He suddenly had diarrhea, and he could think of no way out of it without admitting diarrhea.
Haha! Hes actually really insecure about a lot of stuff and it has proven to be the downfall of our relationship unfortunately. Hes running scared and theres nothing i can do about it except let him go! Hopefully he'll gain wisdom insight and perspective someday....
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Posted by boxcarmirntaIntention > reaction > actionPosted by i_amThat he has feelings? And is sad?Posted by boxcarmirntaCrying. What does it mean to you?Posted by i_amWhat do you mean?Posted by boxcarmirntaWhat do you associate crying (being emotional) with?Posted by Mystical111
This is exactly why I don't connect with Aqua Sun & Moon men.
There's always a mental connection between us but not an emotional one. I just don't view them as relationship material. I find them so strange in that department..
This is the reason as to why Aquas should pair up with other Air or Fire signs because those are the only people who can truly understand and relate to them.
If you crave passion, affection, & depth then stay away from these people. They make great friends and acquaintances but that's about it.
Well he was super gushy and emotional..he has cried many times. I have an aqua moon so can be detached at times. He has a ton of pisces in his chart. But yea whatever it was...it didnt work!
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100aquasplainer?Posted by OphiuchusWhat is so special about NYE— It's just another "hyped up" day made by people like you...
Nye and he didn't have feelings or emotions for you?
At important days like christmas, nye, ny etc you'll know who really cares about you and who doesn't.
Sure he spent time with you, but I'm thinking he realized (though very late) that you're not the one. How could he not feel anything on nye? And I bet a bunch of users gonna explain his actions away. Should come up with a name for them. Aquasplainers or somethingclick to expand
Wow! After 9 pages she called everyone trolls and slammed the door?
Or am I mistaking?
Or am I mistaking?
You can't go into a new relationship holding onto past pain.
And if you want a man to open up, when they start to you have to be accepting even if it's not what you want to hear or in the way that you want to hear it.. to me it sounded like he was saying he had feelings for you—
If you want respect you have to give respect.
And if you want a man to open up, when they start to you have to be accepting even if it's not what you want to hear or in the way that you want to hear it.. to me it sounded like he was saying he had feelings for you—
If you want respect you have to give respect.
But in your defense some Aquarians are Satan. I have met a couple that are alright. But....I know more that will stab you in the back so hard and treat you like your best friends.
Posted by GemitatiNo i blocked one dude...jesus christ. That shitbrick who was being an asshole..sigh.
Wow! After 9 pages she called everyone trolls and slammed the door?
Or am I mistaking?
Posted by LibrajeanIve never been anything but respectful of him. He already pulled the rug out from under me a second time. Stating imaginary reasons why it wouldnt work..work schedules? And some other bullocks that had never been an issue and literally makes zero sense. He dumped me via text like a coward after having an amazing night with me the night before! He refused to even discuss it. Ive read about the aquarius disappearing trick, but this is just batshit in my opinion. We were perfectly matched. Never fought had everything in common, made future plans. We so incredibly synched up it was scary and other wordly almost. Thought id finally found my partner. But he dumped me like a ton of bricks and i am MYSTIFIED. He clearly didnt value me like he acted and said he did.
You can't go into a new relationship holding onto past pain.
And if you want a man to open up, when they start to you have to be accepting even if it's not what you want to hear or in the way that you want to hear it.. to me it sounded like he was saying he had feelings for you—
If you want respect you have to give respect.
Posted by LibrajeanHe feels like satan to me after what he just did.
But in your defense some Aquarians are Satan. I have met a couple that are alright. But....I know more that will stab you in the back so hard and treat you like your best friends.
Oh honey, your problem here is so obvious.
"He said this. He's said that. He claims this, he claims that."
Libras, also an air sign, do the same stupid shit. They rush in fast and rush out just as fast.
This is what's happening here. You let this dipfuck sweep you away in his sweeping, immature declarations, and now he's going hot/cold.
Any guy who does this is one to be wary of. If you think it's too fast, chances are it is. When I first read this, prior to you hearing from him exactly why he did what he did on NYE, I couldn't help but wonder if his silly ass was all caught up in the idea of spending the holidays with someone new and exciting. Omgherd, new romance/the honeymoon phase! Fuck yeah during the holidays!
Now reality is setting in and he's going uh, what am I doing? All while leaving you wondering wtf is going on.
Regardless of sign, always be wary of individuals making such sweeping declarations, whether it be a romantic relationship or a friendship. I have yet to meet someone who was like this and was emotionally stable/well adjusted individual. They're usually pretty fucked in the head and will drag you along their personal shit show while they figure life out. Your role is keeping yourself away from fucktards like that, tbh.
"He said this. He's said that. He claims this, he claims that."
Libras, also an air sign, do the same stupid shit. They rush in fast and rush out just as fast.
This is what's happening here. You let this dipfuck sweep you away in his sweeping, immature declarations, and now he's going hot/cold.
Any guy who does this is one to be wary of. If you think it's too fast, chances are it is. When I first read this, prior to you hearing from him exactly why he did what he did on NYE, I couldn't help but wonder if his silly ass was all caught up in the idea of spending the holidays with someone new and exciting. Omgherd, new romance/the honeymoon phase! Fuck yeah during the holidays!
Now reality is setting in and he's going uh, what am I doing? All while leaving you wondering wtf is going on.
Regardless of sign, always be wary of individuals making such sweeping declarations, whether it be a romantic relationship or a friendship. I have yet to meet someone who was like this and was emotionally stable/well adjusted individual. They're usually pretty fucked in the head and will drag you along their personal shit show while they figure life out. Your role is keeping yourself away from fucktards like that, tbh.
Posted by boxcarmirntaHe's an immature cunt. Be glad you found out now and not in 6 months. Like you said, a month is nothing. It's frustrating and annoying that someone is this fucked up in the head, but lesson learned. Work through the emotional shitstorm and move along to someone who doesn't have the emotional maturity of a toddler.Posted by LibrajeanIve never been anything but respectful of him. He already pulled the rug out from under me a second time. Stating imaginary reasons why it wouldnt work..work schedules? And some other bullocks that had never been an issue and literally makes zero sense. He dumped me via text like a coward after having an amazing night with me the night before! He refused to even discuss it. Ive read about the aquarius disappearing trick, but this is just batshit in my opinion. We were perfectly matched. Never fought had everything in common, made future plans. We so incredibly synched up it was scary and other wordly almost. Thought id finally found my partner. But he dumped me like a ton of bricks and i am MYSTIFIED. He clearly didnt value me like he acted and said he did.
You can't go into a new relationship holding onto past pain.
And if you want a man to open up, when they start to you have to be accepting even if it's not what you want to hear or in the way that you want to hear it.. to me it sounded like he was saying he had feelings for you—
If you want respect you have to give respect.click to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamOh i totally agree with you. And was always a bit hesitant..the reason why i kept believing is bc we really do have everything in common, can talk about anything, want all the same things for thr future etc....thats why i thought ok, well...this does feel pretty right..he did not ever say he loved me. Thank god.
Oh honey, your problem here is so obvious.
"He said this. He's said that. He claims this, he claims that."
Libras, also an air sign, do the same stupid shit. They rush in fast and rush out just as fast.
This is what's happening here. You let this dipfuck sweep you away in his sweeping, immature declarations, and now he's going hot/cold.
Any guy who does this is one to be wary of. If you think it's too fast, chances are it is. When I first read this, prior to you hearing from him exactly why he did what he did on NYE, I couldn't help but wonder if his silly ass was all caught up in the idea of spending the holidays with someone new and exciting. Omgherd, new romance/the honeymoon phase! Fuck yeah during the holidays!
Now reality is setting in and he's going uh, what am I doing? All while leaving you wondering wtf is going on.
Regardless of sign, always be wary of individuals making such sweeping declarations, whether it be a romantic relationship or a friendship. I have yet to meet someone who was like this and was emotionally stable/well adjusted individual. They're usually pretty fucked in the head and will drag you along their personal shit show while they figure life out. Your role is keeping yourself away from fucktards like that, tbh.
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