So he texted...

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Okay guys and girls, for anyone who have been following...

First of all thank you for your advice and feedback 😄

Second..

My Aquarius guy texted me after our first date and you know we sex on our first date like I said before we've been talking non stop for a week and the date was so much fun.

I was a little bit worried yesterday that he wouldn't text or you know to keep going with whatever this is.

He did, he texted saying I had a really unproductive day after our date and I did nothing for the day and how is your day..

so I replied back yeah it was fine and I'm really tired. I can't wait to be in bed.

Since then he seen it but never got back to me... and he hasn't been texting me as much.

Part of me is like do I really care?? well I do enough to write a post about it but I'm not losing my sleep.

Part of me thinks he's testing me and I'm like I'm not going to be needy anyway because that's not who I am

Part of me wishes he would just tell me he's not interested..

sooo many things to think about, which I don't like hahaha

Some of you mentioned he's a pisces venus and that he would be affectionate and you know lovely to deal with so I think the way he is to me is just showing me that he's not interested ??

What do you guys think
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Posted by Lioness18881
It's too early to jump to conclusions but you didn't really give him much to go on. I think you need to be a little more cute or at least ask a question for him to reply to... otherwise you might seem disinterested. When he replies, try to give the type of energy you want to get back. Tired, flat energy is contagious. He had it, and you caught it. Try to freshen it up.




I was thinking that too, I'm going to wait and see after Lunchtime today and see if I could spice things up a bit and asked him something.

the conversations I had with him was never boring so I guess part of me is afraid rejection because he didn't reply yesterday so I would end up double texting him and come across as needy ...



ohh I hate the texting games ha
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Posted by WittyGem88
Just be patient. He might be assessing how he feels. They can sometimes be retarded and takes time to realize if they like someone or not. Like maybe give him this week. Dont start initiating because he might think youre trying to pin him down and being clingy. He wouldnt like that. Act natural so he knows that the person he became interested in is still there and hasnt changed into a psycho clingy girl after the first sex with him. 🙂
Very fair point, I'm going to wait and see but just wished I wasn't so boring with my reply
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Just be patient. He might be assessing how he feels. They can sometimes be retarded and takes time to realize if they like someone or not. Like maybe give him this week. Dont start initiating because he might think youre trying to pin him down and being clingy. He wouldnt like that. Act natural so he knows that the person he became interested in is still there and hasnt changed into a psycho clingy girl after the first sex with him. 🙂
Very fair point, I'm going to wait and see but just wished I wasn't so boring with my reply
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Pisces venus don’t mind clingy so much. If you act like you are not interested he will think you don’t want him.
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He is interested if not he wouldn’t have texted you.

Your text was like you didn’t feel like talking to him.

He needs you to tell him that you had a good time and you want more.
Really?

I would never interpret it that way.

For me that's a:

I'm tired, we will talk later.
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After the first night of having sex? The first time you text her?

For a Pisces venus that would be very cold and like you don’t really care
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It's time for you to be mushy with him.

"I'm tired and can't wait to be in bed". Wtf was that shit.
hahahaha

I was genuinely tired

help me redeem myself what should I say now ?
Never be mushy with an Aqua we don't appreciate, what you said was just fine we are practical like that.

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Pisces venus like mushy even if they are aqua
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He is interested if not he wouldn’t have texted you.

Your text was like you didn’t feel like talking to him.

He needs you to tell him that you had a good time and you want more.
Really?

I would never interpret it that way.

For me that's a:

I'm tired, we will talk later.

After the first night of having sex? The first time you text her?

For a Pisces venus that would be very cold and like you don’t really care


I was with an aqua with pisces venus and mars. He wont be that sensitive. I think he will try again if he is interested. Aquas are go getters so that response abot being tired wont have a negative effect just yet. Plus he couldve responded something like”i hope you can rest tonight and feel better tomorrow” or something to keep the conversation going. I think hes not that ready himself and still thinking. Its only the first date and first sex. If Libra becomes mushy and show too much interest soon and being too available soon, aqua will lose interest.
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I have being in long relationships with 2 aquarius Pisces venus and Aries Pisces venus and in my honest opinion that would be too cold for them.

The him not responding to that comment prove my point. It doesn’t mean is ruined but she should let him know that she enjoyed being with him

And on top of that he is a cancer moon. Clingy
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He is interested if not he wouldn’t have texted you.

Your text was like you didn’t feel like talking to him.

He needs you to tell him that you had a good time and you want more.
Really?

I would never interpret it that way.

For me that's a:

I'm tired, we will talk later.

After the first night of having sex? The first time you text her?

For a Pisces venus that would be very cold and like you don’t really care


If that's the case a Pisyces Venus must be really overly sensitive.
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I wouldn’t say overly sensitive. They are just warm and loving and they need that back.

I think you can pretty much say anything to a Cap Venus and you wouldn’t take it personally. You just see that message and take it as it is.

A Pisces venus would look for the warm inside that message and if he cannot finds it he would feel like you don’t care.
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He is interested if not he wouldn’t have texted you.

Your text was like you didn’t feel like talking to him.

He needs you to tell him that you had a good time and you want more.
Really?

I would never interpret it that way.

For me that's a:

I'm tired, we will talk later.

After the first night of having sex? The first time you text her?

For a Pisces venus that would be very cold and like you don’t really care


If that's the case a Pisyces Venus must be really overly sensitive.
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Lol at the Pisyces 😝
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He is interested if not he wouldn’t have texted you.

Your text was like you didn’t feel like talking to him.

He needs you to tell him that you had a good time and you want more.
Really?

I would never interpret it that way.

For me that's a:

I'm tired, we will talk later.

After the first night of having sex? The first time you text her?

For a Pisces venus that would be very cold and like you don’t really care


If that's the case a Pisyces Venus must be really overly sensitive.
I wouldn’t say overly sensitive. They are just warm and loving and they need that back.

I think you can pretty much say anything to a Cap Venus and you wouldn’t take it personally. You just see that message and take it as it is.

A Pisces venus would look for the warm inside that message and if he cannot finds it he would feel like you don’t care.
Does that mean that every message needs to contain some form of love/warmth or it is seen as cold?

If yes, I would call that very sensitive. For good and bad.
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Not everyone, not at all. But we are talking about that first one after an important moment. That is the moment she should show if she want to see him again or not.
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He is interested if not he wouldn’t have texted you.

Your text was like you didn’t feel like talking to him.

He needs you to tell him that you had a good time and you want more.
Really?

I would never interpret it that way.

For me that's a:

I'm tired, we will talk later.

After the first night of having sex? The first time you text her?

For a Pisces venus that would be very cold and like you don’t really care


If that's the case a Pisyces Venus must be really overly sensitive.
I wouldn’t say overly sensitive. They are just warm and loving and they need that back.

I think you can pretty much say anything to a Cap Venus and you wouldn’t take it personally. You just see that message and take it as it is.

A Pisces venus would look for the warm inside that message and if he cannot finds it he would feel like you don’t care.
Does that mean that every message needs to contain some form of love/warmth or it is seen as cold?

If yes, I would call that very sensitive. For good and bad.

Not everyone, not at all. But we are talking about that first one after an important moment. That is the moment she should show if she want to see him again or not.


Okay, that makes some sense.
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Only some?

What is what it doesn’t?
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He is interested if not he wouldn’t have texted you.

Your text was like you didn’t feel like talking to him.

He needs you to tell him that you had a good time and you want more.
Really?

I would never interpret it that way.

For me that's a:

I'm tired, we will talk later.

After the first night of having sex? The first time you text her?

For a Pisces venus that would be very cold and like you don’t really care


I was with an aqua with pisces venus and mars. He wont be that sensitive. I think he will try again if he is interested. Aquas are go getters so that response abot being tired wont have a negative effect just yet. Plus he couldve responded something like”i hope you can rest tonight and feel better tomorrow” or something to keep the conversation going. I think hes not that ready himself and still thinking. Its only the first date and first sex. If Libra becomes mushy and show too much interest soon and being too available soon, aqua will lose interest.
I have being in long relationships with 2 aquarius Pisces venus and Aries Pisces venus and in my honest opinion that would be too cold for them.

The him not responding to that comment prove my point. It doesn’t mean is ruined but she should let him know that she enjoyed being with him

And on top of that he is a cancer moon. Clingy
Yeah. I understand. I just think its too soon for her to show her interest. She should give it time for now and for the aqua to dive in first before she does. Shes an air sign and a libra and chances are she is an all or nothing type of person and might fall faster than the aqua which is why i think she should hold her horses til the aqua has decided about her first. Several libras on here have failed being with an aqua by being into them too soon and expressing their feelings before the aqua has realized his own feelings.
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I hope more women would adhere to this, whatever sign the guy is

Ladies, let the man be a man.....he is meant to pursue you ....

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He is interested if not he wouldn’t have texted you.

Your text was like you didn’t feel like talking to him.

He needs you to tell him that you had a good time and you want more.
Really?

I would never interpret it that way.

For me that's a:

I'm tired, we will talk later.

After the first night of having sex? The first time you text her?

For a Pisces venus that would be very cold and like you don’t really care


If that's the case a Pisyces Venus must be really overly sensitive.
Lol at the Pisyces 😝
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He is interested if not he wouldn’t have texted you.

Your text was like you didn’t feel like talking to him.

He needs you to tell him that you had a good time and you want more.
Really?

I would never interpret it that way.

For me that's a:

I'm tired, we will talk later.

After the first night of having sex? The first time you text her?

For a Pisces venus that would be very cold and like you don’t really care


I was with an aqua with pisces venus and mars. He wont be that sensitive. I think he will try again if he is interested. Aquas are go getters so that response abot being tired wont have a negative effect just yet. Plus he couldve responded something like”i hope you can rest tonight and feel better tomorrow” or something to keep the conversation going. I think hes not that ready himself and still thinking. Its only the first date and first sex. If Libra becomes mushy and show too much interest soon and being too available soon, aqua will lose interest.
I have being in long relationships with 2 aquarius Pisces venus and Aries Pisces venus and in my honest opinion that would be too cold for them.

The him not responding to that comment prove my point. It doesn’t mean is ruined but she should let him know that she enjoyed being with him

And on top of that he is a cancer moon. Clingy
Yeah. I understand. I just think its too soon for her to show her interest. She should give it time for now and for the aqua to dive in first before she does. Shes an air sign and a libra and chances are she is an all or nothing type of person and might fall faster than the aqua which is why i think she should hold her horses til the aqua has decided about her first. Several libras on here have failed being with an aqua by being into them too soon and expressing their feelings before the aqua has realized his own feelings.
I hope more women would adhere to this, whatever sign the guy is

Ladies, let the man be a man.....he is meant to pursue you ....


You need to go back to the Stone Age with that attitude.

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He is interested if not he wouldn’t have texted you.

Your text was like you didn’t feel like talking to him.

He needs you to tell him that you had a good time and you want more.
Really?

I would never interpret it that way.

For me that's a:

I'm tired, we will talk later.

After the first night of having sex? The first time you text her?

For a Pisces venus that would be very cold and like you don’t really care


I was with an aqua with pisces venus and mars. He wont be that sensitive. I think he will try again if he is interested. Aquas are go getters so that response abot being tired wont have a negative effect just yet. Plus he couldve responded something like”i hope you can rest tonight and feel better tomorrow” or something to keep the conversation going. I think hes not that ready himself and still thinking. Its only the first date and first sex. If Libra becomes mushy and show too much interest soon and being too available soon, aqua will lose interest.
I have being in long relationships with 2 aquarius Pisces venus and Aries Pisces venus and in my honest opinion that would be too cold for them.

The him not responding to that comment prove my point. It doesn’t mean is ruined but she should let him know that she enjoyed being with him

And on top of that he is a cancer moon. Clingy
Yeah. I understand. I just think its too soon for her to show her interest. She should give it time for now and for the aqua to dive in first before she does. Shes an air sign and a libra and chances are she is an all or nothing type of person and might fall faster than the aqua which is why i think she should hold her horses til the aqua has decided about her first. Several libras on here have failed being with an aqua by being into them too soon and expressing their feelings before the aqua has realized his own feelings.
I hope more women would adhere to this, whatever sign the guy is

Ladies, let the man be a man.....he is meant to pursue you ....


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Always worked for me
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He is interested if not he wouldn’t have texted you.

Your text was like you didn’t feel like talking to him.

He needs you to tell him that you had a good time and you want more.
Really?

I would never interpret it that way.

For me that's a:

I'm tired, we will talk later.

After the first night of having sex? The first time you text her?

For a Pisces venus that would be very cold and like you don’t really care


I was with an aqua with pisces venus and mars. He wont be that sensitive. I think he will try again if he is interested. Aquas are go getters so that response abot being tired wont have a negative effect just yet. Plus he couldve responded something like”i hope you can rest tonight and feel better tomorrow” or something to keep the conversation going. I think hes not that ready himself and still thinking. Its only the first date and first sex. If Libra becomes mushy and show too much interest soon and being too available soon, aqua will lose interest.
I have being in long relationships with 2 aquarius Pisces venus and Aries Pisces venus and in my honest opinion that would be too cold for them.

The him not responding to that comment prove my point. It doesn’t mean is ruined but she should let him know that she enjoyed being with him

And on top of that he is a cancer moon. Clingy
Yeah. I understand. I just think its too soon for her to show her interest. She should give it time for now and for the aqua to dive in first before she does. Shes an air sign and a libra and chances are she is an all or nothing type of person and might fall faster than the aqua which is why i think she should hold her horses til the aqua has decided about her first. Several libras on here have failed being with an aqua by being into them too soon and expressing their feelings before the aqua has realized his own feelings.
I hope more women would adhere to this, whatever sign the guy is

Ladies, let the man be a man.....he is meant to pursue you ....


You need to go back to the Stone Age with that attitude.


....and I've never had to chase a man



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He is interested if not he wouldn’t have texted you.

Your text was like you didn’t feel like talking to him.

He needs you to tell him that you had a good time and you want more.
Really?

I would never interpret it that way.

For me that's a:

I'm tired, we will talk later.

After the first night of having sex? The first time you text her?

For a Pisces venus that would be very cold and like you don’t really care


I was with an aqua with pisces venus and mars. He wont be that sensitive. I think he will try again if he is interested. Aquas are go getters so that response abot being tired wont have a negative effect just yet. Plus he couldve responded something like”i hope you can rest tonight and feel better tomorrow” or something to keep the conversation going. I think hes not that ready himself and still thinking. Its only the first date and first sex. If Libra becomes mushy and show too much interest soon and being too available soon, aqua will lose interest.
I have being in long relationships with 2 aquarius Pisces venus and Aries Pisces venus and in my honest opinion that would be too cold for them.

The him not responding to that comment prove my point. It doesn’t mean is ruined but she should let him know that she enjoyed being with him

And on top of that he is a cancer moon. Clingy
Yeah. I understand. I just think its too soon for her to show her interest. She should give it time for now and for the aqua to dive in first before she does. Shes an air sign and a libra and chances are she is an all or nothing type of person and might fall faster than the aqua which is why i think she should hold her horses til the aqua has decided about her first. Several libras on here have failed being with an aqua by being into them too soon and expressing their feelings before the aqua has realized his own feelings.
I hope more women would adhere to this, whatever sign the guy is

Ladies, let the man be a man.....he is meant to pursue you ....


No.
Always worked for me
Not the point.

Tyranny also works but that doesn't make it good or okay.
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Fair enough

It works for me

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He is interested if not he wouldn’t have texted you.

Your text was like you didn’t feel like talking to him.

He needs you to tell him that you had a good time and you want more.
Really?

I would never interpret it that way.

For me that's a:

I'm tired, we will talk later.

After the first night of having sex? The first time you text her?

For a Pisces venus that would be very cold and like you don’t really care


I was with an aqua with pisces venus and mars. He wont be that sensitive. I think he will try again if he is interested. Aquas are go getters so that response abot being tired wont have a negative effect just yet. Plus he couldve responded something like”i hope you can rest tonight and feel better tomorrow” or something to keep the conversation going. I think hes not that ready himself and still thinking. Its only the first date and first sex. If Libra becomes mushy and show too much interest soon and being too available soon, aqua will lose interest.
I have being in long relationships with 2 aquarius Pisces venus and Aries Pisces venus and in my honest opinion that would be too cold for them.

The him not responding to that comment prove my point. It doesn’t mean is ruined but she should let him know that she enjoyed being with him

And on top of that he is a cancer moon. Clingy
Yeah. I understand. I just think its too soon for her to show her interest. She should give it time for now and for the aqua to dive in first before she does. Shes an air sign and a libra and chances are she is an all or nothing type of person and might fall faster than the aqua which is why i think she should hold her horses til the aqua has decided about her first. Several libras on here have failed being with an aqua by being into them too soon and expressing their feelings before the aqua has realized his own feelings.
I hope more women would adhere to this, whatever sign the guy is

Ladies, let the man be a man.....he is meant to pursue you ....


You need to go back to the Stone Age with that attitude.


....and I've never had to chase a man



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Boarrrinnngggg
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Okay so I hope I got everyone, I'm still not used to this website..

so he texted and I texted back. I think it's fair to say my response was boring as I was tired.

He liked one of my photos on Instagram.. so I took everyone advises on broad and waited untill he liked my picture..

I then screen shot something of his page and send it to him saying you look good here ... (I'm trying to flirt) hahaha



any how this is how our texts looks like so .. go ahead and let me know ..

Me: Sent a picture of him and the text says... well look at you, mr. shy but not really.. (because I don't think he's shy but he was saying he was)

him: Stil pretty shy

Me: Not on a monday though

him: Famousy outgoing on Monday's

Me: I'm not doing that again I'm too old for Mondays .. you're a bad influence 😉

him: I thought you were the bad influence tbh

Me: Ah it was fun, you're a charmer...







that's so far our messages..

I feel sooo funny about it. I think I've shown him enough interests now at this point. I'm not a pushy type well not when I don't really care just yet.

I think that's enough for him to know that i like him right ?

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He is interested if not he wouldn’t have texted you.

Your text was like you didn’t feel like talking to him.

He needs you to tell him that you had a good time and you want more.
Really?

I would never interpret it that way.

For me that's a:

I'm tired, we will talk later.

After the first night of having sex? The first time you text her?

For a Pisces venus that would be very cold and like you don’t really care


I was with an aqua with pisces venus and mars. He wont be that sensitive. I think he will try again if he is interested. Aquas are go getters so that response abot being tired wont have a negative effect just yet. Plus he couldve responded something like”i hope you can rest tonight and feel better tomorrow” or something to keep the conversation going. I think hes not that ready himself and still thinking. Its only the first date and first sex. If Libra becomes mushy and show too much interest soon and being too available soon, aqua will lose interest.
I have being in long relationships with 2 aquarius Pisces venus and Aries Pisces venus and in my honest opinion that would be too cold for them.

The him not responding to that comment prove my point. It doesn’t mean is ruined but she should let him know that she enjoyed being with him

And on top of that he is a cancer moon. Clingy
Yeah. I understand. I just think its too soon for her to show her interest. She should give it time for now and for the aqua to dive in first before she does. Shes an air sign and a libra and chances are she is an all or nothing type of person and might fall faster than the aqua which is why i think she should hold her horses til the aqua has decided about her first. Several libras on here have failed being with an aqua by being into them too soon and expressing their feelings before the aqua has realized his own feelings.
I hope more women would adhere to this, whatever sign the guy is

Ladies, let the man be a man.....he is meant to pursue you ....


Exactly how I do it. I learned it from my scorp mum hahaha and added my gemini flavor into it. But yeah... i feel that the man should be a man especially at an early stage. They tend to lose interest quite quickly (in most cases) with women they didnt have to work hard for. Not all men... just some. So its best to be safe.
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Same mums haahaa!

But mine was a Cappy.....a good mother is worth her weight in gold ❤️

Yes it's all true what you say....

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Okay so I hope I got everyone, I'm still not used to this website..

so he texted and I texted back. I think it's fair to say my response was boring as I was tired.

He liked one of my photos on Instagram.. so I took everyone advises on broad and waited untill he liked my picture..

I then screen shot something of his page and send it to him saying you look good here ... (I'm trying to flirt) hahaha



any how this is how our texts looks like so .. go ahead and let me know ..

Me: Sent a picture of him and the text says... well look at you, mr. shy but not really.. (because I don't think he's shy but he was saying he was)

him: Stil pretty shy

Me: Not on a monday though

him: Famousy outgoing on Monday's

Me: I'm not doing that again I'm too old for Mondays .. you're a bad influence 😉

him: I thought you were the bad influence tbh

Me: Ah it was fun, you're a charmer...







that's so far our messages..

I feel sooo funny about it. I think I've shown him enough interests now at this point. I'm not a pushy type well not when I don't really care just yet.

I think that's enough for him to know that i like him right ?


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He is interested if not he wouldn’t have texted you.

Your text was like you didn’t feel like talking to him.

He needs you to tell him that you had a good time and you want more.
Really?

I would never interpret it that way.

For me that's a:

I'm tired, we will talk later.

After the first night of having sex? The first time you text her?

For a Pisces venus that would be very cold and like you don’t really care


I was with an aqua with pisces venus and mars. He wont be that sensitive. I think he will try again if he is interested. Aquas are go getters so that response abot being tired wont have a negative effect just yet. Plus he couldve responded something like”i hope you can rest tonight and feel better tomorrow” or something to keep the conversation going. I think hes not that ready himself and still thinking. Its only the first date and first sex. If Libra becomes mushy and show too much interest soon and being too available soon, aqua will lose interest.
I have being in long relationships with 2 aquarius Pisces venus and Aries Pisces venus and in my honest opinion that would be too cold for them.

The him not responding to that comment prove my point. It doesn’t mean is ruined but she should let him know that she enjoyed being with him

And on top of that he is a cancer moon. Clingy
Yeah. I understand. I just think its too soon for her to show her interest. She should give it time for now and for the aqua to dive in first before she does. Shes an air sign and a libra and chances are she is an all or nothing type of person and might fall faster than the aqua which is why i think she should hold her horses til the aqua has decided about her first. Several libras on here have failed being with an aqua by being into them too soon and expressing their feelings before the aqua has realized his own feelings.
I hope more women would adhere to this, whatever sign the guy is

Ladies, let the man be a man.....he is meant to pursue you ....


Exactly how I do it. I learned it from my scorp mum hahaha and added my gemini flavor into it. But yeah... i feel that the man should be a man especially at an early stage. They tend to lose interest quite quickly (in most cases) with women they didnt have to work hard for. Not all men... just some. So its best to be safe.
Same mums haahaa!

But mine was a Cappy.....a good mother is worth her weight in gold ❤️

Yes it's all true what you say....

Wise women know this👍
I never had to chase a man myself. 😂 I havent met one I would like to chase. I think i would if i find one but all the ones I was with, they chased me. Current aqua flew 17 hours for a first date because if he didnt he knew he would lose me. I see aquas being a go getter and will go after who they want no matter the distance or the text messages and even if they get rejected. They are fixed and stubborn after all. Lol
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Okay guys and girls, for anyone who have been following...

First of all thank you for your advice and feedback 😄

Second..

My Aquarius guy texted me after our first date and you know we sex on our first date like I said before we've been talking non stop for a week and the date was so much fun.

I was a little bit worried yesterday that he wouldn't text or you know to keep going with whatever this is.

He did, he texted saying I had a really unproductive day after our date and I did nothing for the day and how is your day..

so I replied back yeah it was fine and I'm really tired. I can't wait to be in bed.

Since then he seen it but never got back to me... and he hasn't been texting me as much.

Part of me is like do I really care?? well I do enough to write a post about it but I'm not losing my sleep.

Part of me thinks he's testing me and I'm like I'm not going to be needy anyway because that's not who I am

Part of me wishes he would just tell me he's not interested..

sooo many things to think about, which I don't like hahaha

Some of you mentioned he's a pisces venus and that he would be affectionate and you know lovely to deal with so I think the way he is to me is just showing me that he's not interested ??

What do you guys think
No testing. The conversation ran dry, he lost interest for the moment. He might be texting/seeing someone else
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Okay so I hope I got everyone, I'm still not used to this website..

so he texted and I texted back. I think it's fair to say my response was boring as I was tired.

He liked one of my photos on Instagram.. so I took everyone advises on broad and waited untill he liked my picture..

I then screen shot something of his page and send it to him saying you look good here ... (I'm trying to flirt) hahaha



any how this is how our texts looks like so .. go ahead and let me know ..

Me: Sent a picture of him and the text says... well look at you, mr. shy but not really.. (because I don't think he's shy but he was saying he was)

him: Stil pretty shy

Me: Not on a monday though

him: Famousy outgoing on Monday's

Me: I'm not doing that again I'm too old for Mondays .. you're a bad influence 😉

him: I thought you were the bad influence tbh

Me: Ah it was fun, you're a charmer...







that's so far our messages..

I feel sooo funny about it. I think I've shown him enough interests now at this point. I'm not a pushy type well not when I don't really care just yet.

I think that's enough for him to know that i like him right ?


You were supposed to say you love Mondays! Do you think this conversation feels normal? Or do u feel uncomfortable?
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Okay so I hope I got everyone, I'm still not used to this website..

so he texted and I texted back. I think it's fair to say my response was boring as I was tired.

He liked one of my photos on Instagram.. so I took everyone advises on broad and waited untill he liked my picture..

I then screen shot something of his page and send it to him saying you look good here ... (I'm trying to flirt) hahaha



any how this is how our texts looks like so .. go ahead and let me know ..

Me: Sent a picture of him and the text says... well look at you, mr. shy but not really.. (because I don't think he's shy but he was saying he was)

him: Stil pretty shy

Me: Not on a monday though

him: Famousy outgoing on Monday's

Me: I'm not doing that again I'm too old for Mondays .. you're a bad influence 😉

him: I thought you were the bad influence tbh

Me: Ah it was fun, you're a charmer...







that's so far our messages..

I feel sooo funny about it. I think I've shown him enough interests now at this point. I'm not a pushy type well not when I don't really care just yet.

I think that's enough for him to know that i like him right ?



Yes, that was good. Now he knows that you are interested.

Let him come to you next 😉
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He is interested if not he wouldn’t have texted you.

Your text was like you didn’t feel like talking to him.

He needs you to tell him that you had a good time and you want more.
Really?

I would never interpret it that way.

For me that's a:

I'm tired, we will talk later.

After the first night of having sex? The first time you text her?

For a Pisces venus that would be very cold and like you don’t really care


If that's the case a Pisyces Venus must be really overly sensitive.
I wouldn’t say overly sensitive. They are just warm and loving and they need that back.

I think you can pretty much say anything to a Cap Venus and you wouldn’t take it personally. You just see that message and take it as it is.

A Pisces venus would look for the warm inside that message and if he cannot finds it he would feel like you don’t care.
Does that mean that every message needs to contain some form of love/warmth or it is seen as cold?

If yes, I would call that very sensitive. For good and bad.

Not everyone, not at all. But we are talking about that first one after an important moment. That is the moment she should show if she want to see him again or not.


Okay, that makes some sense.
Only some?

What is what it doesn’t?
It still seems to be very sensitive to me albeit understandable.
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Okay so I hope I got everyone, I'm still not used to this website..

so he texted and I texted back. I think it's fair to say my response was boring as I was tired.

He liked one of my photos on Instagram.. so I took everyone advises on broad and waited untill he liked my picture..

I then screen shot something of his page and send it to him saying you look good here ... (I'm trying to flirt) hahaha



any how this is how our texts looks like so .. go ahead and let me know ..

Me: Sent a picture of him and the text says... well look at you, mr. shy but not really.. (because I don't think he's shy but he was saying he was)

him: Stil pretty shy

Me: Not on a monday though

him: Famousy outgoing on Monday's

Me: I'm not doing that again I'm too old for Mondays .. you're a bad influence 😉

him: I thought you were the bad influence tbh

Me: Ah it was fun, you're a charmer...







that's so far our messages..

I feel sooo funny about it. I think I've shown him enough interests now at this point. I'm not a pushy type well not when I don't really care just yet.

I think that's enough for him to know that i like him right ?


You were supposed to say you love Mondays! Do you think this conversation feels normal? Or do u feel uncomfortable?
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I think I've had fun but he's not worth the hassles really but I genuinely enjoyed his company and he was my first encounter with an Aquarius so that's why I needed all your help.

I'm going to leave it alone I think unless he makes a bold move on something
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@Aquastic

@pinkbird03



Okay so I hope I got everyone, I'm still not used to this website..

so he texted and I texted back. I think it's fair to say my response was boring as I was tired.

He liked one of my photos on Instagram.. so I took everyone advises on broad and waited untill he liked my picture..

I then screen shot something of his page and send it to him saying you look good here ... (I'm trying to flirt) hahaha



any how this is how our texts looks like so .. go ahead and let me know ..

Me: Sent a picture of him and the text says... well look at you, mr. shy but not really.. (because I don't think he's shy but he was saying he was)

him: Stil pretty shy

Me: Not on a monday though

him: Famousy outgoing on Monday's

Me: I'm not doing that again I'm too old for Mondays .. you're a bad influence 😉

him: I thought you were the bad influence tbh

Me: Ah it was fun, you're a charmer...





that's so far our messages..

I feel sooo funny about it. I think I've shown him enough interests now at this point. I'm not a pushy type well not when I don't really care just yet.

I think that's enough for him to know that i like him right ?


You were supposed to say you love Mondays! Do you think this conversation feels normal? Or do u feel uncomfortable?


I think I've had fun but he's not worth the hassles really but I genuinely enjoyed his company and he was my first encounter with an Aquarius so that's why I needed all your help.

I'm going to leave it alone I think unless he makes a bold move on something

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@pisceswoman123

@Aquastic

@pinkbird03



Okay so I hope I got everyone, I'm still not used to this website..

so he texted and I texted back. I think it's fair to say my response was boring as I was tired.

He liked one of my photos on Instagram.. so I took everyone advises on broad and waited untill he liked my picture..

I then screen shot something of his page and send it to him saying you look good here ... (I'm trying to flirt) hahaha



any how this is how our texts looks like so .. go ahead and let me know ..

Me: Sent a picture of him and the text says... well look at you, mr. shy but not really.. (because I don't think he's shy but he was saying he was)

him: Stil pretty shy

Me: Not on a monday though

him: Famousy outgoing on Monday's

Me: I'm not doing that again I'm too old for Mondays .. you're a bad influence 😉

him: I thought you were the bad influence tbh

Me: Ah it was fun, you're a charmer...







that's so far our messages..

I feel sooo funny about it. I think I've shown him enough interests now at this point. I'm not a pushy type well not when I don't really care just yet.

I think that's enough for him to know that i like him right ?


You were supposed to say you love Mondays! Do you think this conversation feels normal? Or do u feel uncomfortable?


I think I've had fun but he's not worth the hassles really but I genuinely enjoyed his company and he was my first encounter with an Aquarius so that's why I needed all your help.

I'm going to leave it alone I think unless he makes a bold move on something

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Ok good luck! And maybe if you ever get a chance, ask him what he’s looking for.
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It's time for you to be mushy with him.

"I'm tired and can't wait to be in bed". Wtf was that shit.
hahahaha

I was genuinely tired

help me redeem myself what should I say now ?
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I don't get it. You were tired, he allowed you to rest. What is to redeem? Simply go back to him when you are ready. Do not wait for him for another "sign". You threw the ball in your court. Why is it so difficult to communicate genuinely?