
stillstillwater
@stillstillwater
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Posted by Superman77Posted by Yodi
What had happened? Why do you want her gone š¤ and can I move in once she's gone?
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Posted by YodiI just need space and time alone lol. I just hate telling people no and shit so...it's a hard convo for me lol blaahhh help me haha
What had happened? Why do you want her gone š¤ and can I move in once she's gone?

Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
Lmao, she annoyed the butter out of ya. I remember that moving in gift.
Just say it the way it is utilizing "nicely", "please", "can you".

Posted by Yodishe didn't do anything except be around haha. Kidding. I'm just ready to be alone like I need it so bad.
What had happened? Why do you want her gone š¤ and can I move in once she's gone?


Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Yodi
What had happened? Why do you want her gone š¤ and can I move in once she's gone?
I just need space and time alone lol. I just hate telling people no and butter so...it's a hard convo for me lol blaahhh help me hahaclick to expand

Posted by LadyNeptuneExactly what I was thinking!! But...i hate lying so...no relative is coming lol in fact it's the opposite.
Tell her your āinsert relativeā is coming to visit and you need the space. Any chance you can move early? Iāll help you pack...


Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Yodi
What had happened? Why do you want her gone š¤ and can I move in once she's gone?
she didn't do anything except be around haha. Kidding. I'm just ready to be alone like I need it so bad.click to expand

Posted by stillstillwaterDo you have an annoying friend who can camp out on your couch, leave the toilet seat up, toothpaste all over the sink, etc to play the part?Posted by LadyNeptune
Tell her your āinsert relativeā is coming to visit and you need the space. Any chance you can move early? Iāll help you pack...
Exactly what I was thinking!! But...i hate lying so...no relative is coming lol in fact it's the opposite. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by stillstillwaterPosted by LadyNeptune
Tell her your āinsert relativeā is coming to visit and you need the space. Any chance you can move early? Iāll help you pack...
Exactly what I was thinking!! But...i hate lying so...no relative is coming lol in fact it's the opposite. click to expand
Do you have an annoying friend who can camp out on your couch, leave the toilet seat up, toothpaste all over the sink, etc to play the part?click to expand

Posted by YodiLol. Iāll come leave poop trails in the toilet.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by stillstillwaterPosted by LadyNeptune
Tell her your āinsert relativeā is coming to visit and you need the space. Any chance you can move early? Iāll help you pack...
Exactly what I was thinking!! But...i hate lying so...no relative is coming lol in fact it's the opposite. click to expand
Do you have an annoying friend who can camp out on your couch, leave the toilet seat up, toothpaste all over the sink, etc to play the part?
ššæāāļø click to expandclick to expand


Posted by LadyNeptuneššPosted by YodiPosted by LadyNeptuneššæāāļø click to expandPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by LadyNeptune
Tell her your āinsert relativeā is coming to visit and you need the space. Any chance you can move early? Iāll help you pack...
Exactly what I was thinking!! But...i hate lying so...no relative is coming lol in fact it's the opposite. click to expand
Do you have an annoying friend who can camp out on your couch, leave the toilet seat up, toothpaste all over the sink, etc to play the part?
Lol. Iāll come leave poop trails in the toilet.click to expand

Posted by nikkistar
Are you willing to bribe her?
Cause you could offer to pay for movers as an incentive.

Posted by YodiLol. I had a friend I let move in for a few months that wrecked my house. Also fucked up my expensive new pots by using metal forks to stir. Rearranged my kitchen, and medicine cabinet. Left garbage all over my living room. Dirty clothes all over my couch.Posted by nikkistar
Are you willing to bribe her?
Cause you could offer to pay for movers as an incentive.
Lol no nikki noooo we ain't trying to pay her š coins are tight this time of year click to expandclick to expand

Posted by nikkistarOh hell to the naw.. that's too muchPosted by YodiPosted by nikkistarLol no nikki noooo we ain't trying to pay her š coins are tight this time of year click to expand
Are you willing to bribe her?
Cause you could offer to pay for movers as an incentive.
Lol. I had a friend I let move in for a few months that wrecked my house. Also treetrunked up my expensive new pots by using metal forks to stir. Rearranged my kitchen, and medicine cabinet. Left garbage all over my living room. Dirty clothes all over my couch.
I was desperate to get her the treetrunk out after a month. Lolclick to expand
Posted by YodiWhat does being an Aries have to do with getting what you paid for?Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Yodi
What had happened? Why do you want her gone š¤ and can I move in once she's gone?
she didn't do anything except be around haha. Kidding. I'm just ready to be alone like I need it so bad.
I feel you.. I love living alone.
Tell her you have someone interested in renting her room in july.. I hate lying but aye.. you gotta do what you gotta do.
But knowing her (being an aries and all) she'll probably ride out those last two months because she paid for it already. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by bkbella86Posted by YodiPosted by stillstillwaterI feel you.. I love living alone.Posted by Yodi
What had happened? Why do you want her gone š¤ and can I move in once she's gone?
she didn't do anything except be around haha. Kidding. I'm just ready to be alone like I need it so bad.
Tell her you have someone interested in renting her room in july.. I hate lying but aye.. you gotta do what you gotta do.
But knowing her (being an aries and all) she'll probably ride out those last two months because she paid for it already. click to expand
What does being an Aries have to do with getting what you paid for?click to expand

Posted by greengemini_Posted by stillstillwater
Hi guys,
I got an Aries with Cap Moon roommate who I want to nicely ask if she can do me a favor to move out a month earlier than what we had agreed on. This other place she's moving to is vacant so it could be possible. I just want to ask her if she'd be willing to do that for me. We initally said we're going to live together for at least 6 months. IT's been 8 months now. COuple of months ago seh said she's moving out in Aug and i Said Ok. Butnow I"m thinkingJuly would be much better for me.
What do you guys think? Im really dreading the convo I suppose.
Wow You cardinals move fast @yodi moving in already?click to expand

Posted by bkbella86Posted by YodiPosted by stillstillwaterI feel you.. I love living alone.Posted by Yodi
What had happened? Why do you want her gone š¤ and can I move in once she's gone?
she didn't do anything except be around haha. Kidding. I'm just ready to be alone like I need it so bad.
Tell her you have someone interested in renting her room in july.. I hate lying but aye.. you gotta do what you gotta do.
But knowing her (being an aries and all) she'll probably ride out those last two months because she paid for it already. click to expand
What does being an Aries have to do with getting what you paid for?click to expand

Posted by stillstillwaterJust tell her that.Posted by Yodi
What had happened? Why do you want her gone š¤ and can I move in once she's gone?
I just need space and time alone lol. I just hate telling people no and shit so...it's a hard convo for me lol blaahhh help me haha click to expandclick to expand
Posted by stillstillwatervery easy...send her the link to this thread!
Hi guys,
I got an Aries with Cap Moon roommate who I want to nicely ask if she can do me a favor to move out a month earlier than what we had agreed on. This other place she's moving to is vacant so it could be possible. I just want to ask her if she'd be willing to do that for me. We initally said we're going to live together for at least 6 months. IT's been 8 months now. COuple of months ago seh said she's moving out in Aug and i Said Ok. Butnow I"m thinkingJuly would be much better for me.
What do you guys think? Im really dreading the convo I suppose.

Posted by Awesomeyooolol thanks. Well you know our dear dxpers like to assume the facts sometimes so i'd thought to be thorough. šPosted by stillstillwaterI like the way you covered all the angles in your post. This seems like a libra post lol. Anyways I don't have an answer but just know this that your case is all air tight from all the angles and no it's not wrong to ask her to move out early. click to expand
Hi guys,
I got an Aries with Cap Moon roommate who I want to nicely ask if she can do me a favor to move out a month earlier than what we had agreed on. This other place she's moving to is vacant so it could be possible. I just want to ask her if she'd be willing to do that for me. We initally said we're going to live together for at least 6 months. IT's been 8 months now. COuple of months ago seh said she's moving out in Aug and i Said Ok. Butnow I"m thinkingJuly would be much better for me.
What do you guys think? Im really dreading the convo I suppose.click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptunelol ewwwPosted by YodiPosted by LadyNeptuneššæāāļø click to expandPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by LadyNeptune
Tell her your āinsert relativeā is coming to visit and you need the space. Any chance you can move early? Iāll help you pack...
Exactly what I was thinking!! But...i hate lying so...no relative is coming lol in fact it's the opposite. click to expand
Do you have an annoying friend who can camp out on your couch, leave the toilet seat up, toothpaste all over the sink, etc to play the part?
Lol. Iāll come leave poop trails in the toilet. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by nikkistarshe'd love that!! but nope lol I'd be losing one month of renter's money so i wouldn't be willing to give out anymore.
Are you willing to bribe her?
Cause you could offer to pay for movers as an incentive.

Posted by Yodiyep that's why we're dxp besties!Posted by nikkistar
Are you willing to bribe her?
Cause you could offer to pay for movers as an incentive.
Lol no nikki noooo we ain't trying to pay her š coins are tight this time of year click to expandclick to expand






Posted by Impulsvlol who?Posted by stillstillwaterHaha
but bruuuhhh she got the toilet all clogged up and didn't bother unclogging it and went to bed.
I'm ok...i'm not ok...
Passive aggressive? click to expandclick to expand

Posted by xoxfluteyeah ... looks like there was a lot more involved than I thought. I'm just going to wait it out... poopyPosted by stillstillwaterSounds like her plan heavily relies on that she stays until August 1st. I think the only way you can get her to move early might be if you can help her find alternate living arrangements (for the month) and commute to work (if she can buy the car early or if there's alternate affordable commute to her work). click to expand
@yodi @ladyneptune @awesomeyoo @nikkistar @anyoneelseiforgottotag
so just casually was like soooooooooooooooooo you know how you said you want to move out Aug 1st? Well I was wondering if you could move out sooner like July? She was like you mean end of July? (in my head i was like um isn't that same thing to Aug 1st anyways...) I was like no, like beginning of July..I just have a lot going on and running out of space. The living room is looking all filled up, i'm just getting stressed out by it and would like things to be arranged more. She was like oh but the place is not vacant anymore until August 1st plus I haven't bought my car yet so I wouldn't be able to live there and then still work here. I'm planning on buying the car end of July so I can afford to commute to work. I was like oh ok no problem, no pressure. Just wanted to know if it was possible because it would've helped me out. She was like oh well don't worry a month and 2 weeks will fly!
uhhh huhhh
so that's about it. Got myself all hyped up and hopeful for nothing. But now I'm getting all worried what if she cant' get her car by July and then asks to stay longer!! I'm going to be like No, i already made other arrangements... ukh
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Posted by stillstillwaterI know her Aries Sun and Cap Moon would appreciate the direct approach so just ask her just like that. If she can, she can, if she can't, there is a reason she can't - but it will open that discussion.
Hi guys,
I got an Aries with Cap Moon roommate who I want to nicely ask if she can do me a favor to move out a month earlier than what we had agreed on. This other place she's moving to is vacant so it could be possible. I just want to ask her if she'd be willing to do that for me. We initally said we're going to live together for at least 6 months. IT's been 8 months now. COuple of months ago seh said she's moving out in Aug and i Said Ok. Butnow I"m thinkingJuly would be much better for me.
What do you guys think? Im really dreading the convo I suppose.

Posted by stillstillwater@awesomeyooo
@yodi @ladyneptune @awesomeyoo @nikkistar @anyoneelseiforgottotag
so just casually was like soooooooooooooooooo you know how you said you want to move out Aug 1st? Well I was wondering if you could move out sooner like July? She was like you mean end of July? (in my head i was like um isn't that same thing to Aug 1st anyways...) I was like no, like beginning of July..I just have a lot going on and running out of space. The living room is looking all filled up, i'm just getting stressed out by it and would like things to be arranged more. She was like oh but the place is not vacant anymore until August 1st plus I haven't bought my car yet so I wouldn't be able to live there and then still work here. I'm planning on buying the car end of July so I can afford to commute to work. I was like oh ok no problem, no pressure. Just wanted to know if it was possible because it would've helped me out. She was like oh well don't worry a month and 2 weeks will fly!
uhhh huhhh
so that's about it. Got myself all hyped up and hopeful for nothing. But now I'm getting all worried what if she cant' get her car by July and then asks to stay longer!! I'm going to be like No, i already made other arrangements... ukh

Posted by bkbella86Good news is you're not in her position so you won't have to worry your confused brain on what to do.
I think it was a ridiculous request to begin with. Most places donāt allow you to move in early so where was she supposed to stay so you can have some āspaceā?
If they do allow you to move in early you pay early, proration. So Iām just confused what she was supposed to do to accommodate you?



Posted by Awesomeyooolol@inception...sounds so evil...Posted by stillstillwaterLol her reasons seem to be genuine. Can't kick her out now. But don't worry she will move out in August. You have already incepted this into her mind that she needs to move out lol... So she will. click to expandPosted by stillstillwater
@yodi @ladyneptune @awesomeyoo @nikkistar @anyoneelseiforgottotag
so just casually was like soooooooooooooooooo you know how you said you want to move out Aug 1st? Well I was wondering if you could move out sooner like July? She was like you mean end of July? (in my head i was like um isn't that same thing to Aug 1st anyways...) I was like no, like beginning of July..I just have a lot going on and running out of space. The living room is looking all filled up, i'm just getting stressed out by it and would like things to be arranged more. She was like oh but the place is not vacant anymore until August 1st plus I haven't bought my car yet so I wouldn't be able to live there and then still work here. I'm planning on buying the car end of July so I can afford to commute to work. I was like oh ok no problem, no pressure. Just wanted to know if it was possible because it would've helped me out. She was like oh well don't worry a month and 2 weeks will fly!
uhhh huhhh
so that's about it. Got myself all hyped up and hopeful for nothing. But now I'm getting all worried what if she cant' get her car by July and then asks to stay longer!! I'm going to be like No, i already made other arrangements... ukh
@awesomeyooo click to expandclick to expand


Posted by AwesomeyoooGet out of my head! Get out of my head! lolPosted by stillstillwaterLol libras are like sweet knives... No one sees 'em coming haha click to expandPosted by AwesomeyoooPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by stillstillwater
@yodi @ladyneptune @awesomeyoo @nikkistar @anyoneelseiforgottotag
so just casually was like soooooooooooooooooo you know how you said you want to move out Aug 1st? Well I was wondering if you could move out sooner like July? She was like you mean end of July? (in my head i was like um isn't that same thing to Aug 1st anyways...) I was like no, like beginning of July..I just have a lot going on and running out of space. The living room is looking all filled up, i'm just getting stressed out by it and would like things to be arranged more. She was like oh but the place is not vacant anymore until August 1st plus I haven't bought my car yet so I wouldn't be able to live there and then still work here. I'm planning on buying the car end of July so I can afford to commute to work. I was like oh ok no problem, no pressure. Just wanted to know if it was possible because it would've helped me out. She was like oh well don't worry a month and 2 weeks will fly!
uhhh huhhh
so that's about it. Got myself all hyped up and hopeful for nothing. But now I'm getting all worried what if she cant' get her car by July and then asks to stay longer!! I'm going to be like No, i already made other arrangements... ukh
@awesomeyooo click to expand
Lol her reasons seem to be genuine. Can't kick her out now. But don't worry she will move out in August. You have already incepted this into her mind that she needs to move out lol... So she will. click to expand
lol@inception...sounds so evil...
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Posted by stillstillwater"Bytch, move the fuck out!!!" š”
Hi guys,
I got an Aries with Cap Moon roommate who I want to nicely ask if she can do me a favor to move out a month earlier than what we had agreed on. This other place she's moving to is vacant so it could be possible. I just want to ask her if she'd be willing to do that for me. We initally said we're going to live together for at least 6 months. IT's been 8 months now. COuple of months ago seh said she's moving out in Aug and i Said Ok. Butnow I"m thinkingJuly would be much better for me.
What do you guys think? Im really dreading the convo I suppose.



Posted by stillstillwaterlol I got you šPosted by YodiPosted by nikkistarLol no nikki noooo we ain't trying to pay her š coins are tight this time of year click to expand
Are you willing to bribe her?
Cause you could offer to pay for movers as an incentive.
yep that's why we're dxp besties!
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Posted by stillstillwaterEeww she's nasty..
@Yodi @LadyNeptune @Awesomeyooo @WolfinRamsClothing
Please stop me if I'm overreacting but a bomb is about to go off in this mahfaking house...
So this girl left the treetrunking toilet unclogged last night just going to bed like in lala land. Then next morning once again just pees and leaves the toilet as is and goes to work. (WTF..cringe...) Then I text her and she's like oh i thought we were going to call the maintenance....like sweetheart, no we don't call the maintenance at the drop of the hat you have to try ot fix it yourself first. Then if the issue continues we call the maintenance. She's playing all dumb so when she comes home I tell her what she needs to do. She tries fixing it I guess but I'm working so I don't follow up. Next thing I know her friend is over and they're all giggling and then leave. So I'm thinking toilet got fixed. I go over and NOPE!!! So just minimal effort to fix it and voila it's fixed.... but i'm just at awe of how she just left it like that thinking it's OK. Like no update...no plan of action. Just don't give a treetrunk about something you treetrunked up and can walk away knowing damn well you're not the only one living here.
Plus some other petty butter that was just icing on top...basically butter she texts me paragraphs about with pics that she does herself.
I don't know how much more uncivilized it can get.
Me inside:
Me outside:

Posted by Yodii wish lolPosted by stillstillwater
@Yodi @LadyNeptune @Awesomeyooo @WolfinRamsClothing
Please stop me if I'm overreacting but a bomb is about to go off in this mahfaking house...
So this girl left the treetrunking toilet unclogged last night just going to bed like in lala land. Then next morning once again just pees and leaves the toilet as is and goes to work. (WTF..cringe...) Then I text her and she's like oh i thought we were going to call the maintenance....like sweetheart, no we don't call the maintenance at the drop of the hat you have to try ot fix it yourself first. Then if the issue continues we call the maintenance. She's playing all dumb so when she comes home I tell her what she needs to do. She tries fixing it I guess but I'm working so I don't follow up. Next thing I know her friend is over and they're all giggling and then leave. So I'm thinking toilet got fixed. I go over and NOPE!!! So just minimal effort to fix it and voila it's fixed.... but i'm just at awe of how she just left it like that thinking it's OK. Like no update...no plan of action. Just don't give a treetrunk about something you treetrunked up and can walk away knowing damn well you're not the only one living here.
Plus some other petty butter that was just icing on top...basically butter she texts me paragraphs about with pics that she does herself.
I don't know how much more uncivilized it can get.
Me inside:
Me outside:
Eeww she's nasty..
does your place have another bathroom? If you have your own bathroom then leave that b!!tch clogged and pissy until august lol
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Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by YodiPosted by stillstillwater
@Yodi @LadyNeptune @Awesomeyooo @WolfinRamsClothing
Please stop me if I'm overreacting but a bomb is about to go off in this mahfaking house...
So this girl left the treetrunking toilet unclogged last night just going to bed like in lala land. Then next morning once again just pees and leaves the toilet as is and goes to work. (WTF..cringe...) Then I text her and she's like oh i thought we were going to call the maintenance....like sweetheart, no we don't call the maintenance at the drop of the hat you have to try ot fix it yourself first. Then if the issue continues we call the maintenance. She's playing all dumb so when she comes home I tell her what she needs to do. She tries fixing it I guess but I'm working so I don't follow up. Next thing I know her friend is over and they're all giggling and then leave. So I'm thinking toilet got fixed. I go over and NOPE!!! So just minimal effort to fix it and voila it's fixed.... but i'm just at awe of how she just left it like that thinking it's OK. Like no update...no plan of action. Just don't give a treetrunk about something you treetrunked up and can walk away knowing damn well you're not the only one living here.
Plus some other petty butter that was just icing on top...basically butter she texts me paragraphs about with pics that she does herself.
I don't know how much more uncivilized it can get.
Me inside:
Me outside:
Eeww she's nasty..
does your place have another bathroom? If you have your own bathroom then leave that b!!tch clogged and pissy until august lol
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i wish lolclick to expand

Posted by ellesbellesGood for you...?Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by ImpulsvPosted by stillstillwater
but bruuuhhh she got the toilet all clogged up and didn't bother unclogging it and went to bed.
I'm ok...i'm not ok...
Haha
Passive aggressive? click to expand
lol who? click to expand
You.
I call bullbutter on the whole "I need time to myself". click to expandclick to expand

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I got an Aries with Cap Moon roommate who I want to nicely ask if she can do me a favor to move out a month earlier than what we had agreed on. This other place she's moving to is vacant so it could be possible. I just want to ask her if she'd be willing to do that for me. We initally said we're going to live together for at least 6 months. IT's been 8 months now. COuple of months ago seh said she's moving out in Aug and i Said Ok. Butnow I"m thinkingJuly would be much better for me.
What do you guys think? Im really dreading the convo I suppose.