ashley1734
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Has anyone dated a cop?
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Posted by ImpulsvHahha I have heard this SO much about cops...cheaters.
First find out he is single
Most take off the ring
He is single for sure. I Googled the hell out of him.
Posted by ashley1734Nice ,you want some action movie in your life
Thoughts?
I have one chasing me and I continue to reject him because I don't think my lifestyle and ideas will mesh with his, but now I'm starting to get curious.
Nope. The boys in blue only trust the boys in blue.
Posted by KoniuchaNo actually. I don't know much about the cop's sign other than he is a Leo.
Is this the one you have that composite with?
I would go for it...I've been talking to one for a few months now and he's awesome. It's exciting (sometimes he lets me ride with him on duty) but also a little scary because of his occupation and what he has to deal with.
I don't do the stereotypes about people and let their actions speak for themselves. Give him a shot if he intrigues you.
Unless you're into illegal activities I don't see how your lifestyle could affect anything any differently from you talking to any other man.
I don't do the stereotypes about people and let their actions speak for themselves. Give him a shot if he intrigues you.
Unless you're into illegal activities I don't see how your lifestyle could affect anything any differently from you talking to any other man.
Posted by happyface1Yes illegal activities is what worries me. Nothing crazy, but still enough to where it would be a concern if I HAD to tell him about it.
I would go for it...I've been talking to one for a few months now and he's awesome. It's exciting (sometimes he lets me ride with him on duty) but also a little scary because of his occupation and what he has to deal with.
I don't do the stereotypes about people and let their actions speak for themselves. Give him a shot if he intrigues you.
Unless you're into illegal activities I don't see how your lifestyle could affect anything any differently from you talking to any other man.
The crazy schedule and scariness of the job doesn't really worry me too much, but that's easy to say because I have zero feelings invested.
Posted by ImpulsvI agree. I should just tell him our lifestyles aren't compatible and leave it at that (although I already did try to hint at that and he continued to peruse even harder).
Oh yeah if u are using illegal activities forget about it. Why put some one in that place. I mean imagine ur dating a druggie
N have HR start looking at u. Be open or stop that activity
I don't want to get arrested on a first date, as hot as that might be.
Posted by tizianiHahaha, you get me.
When you're doing illegal activities, the very first thing you want to be doing is dating a cop. You need the law on your side. For goodness sake, when opportunity knocks let it the hell in.
Posted by tizianiThe lawyer I dated was doing all the illegal activities with me and then some.
Although if you could date a lawyer that would be better.
Posted by tiziani
When you're doing illegal activities, the very first thing you want to be doing is dating a cop. You need the law on your side. For goodness sake, when opportunity knocks let it the hell in.
No ,i disagree if the ones who make laws dosen't respect it ,it will be worst
Posted by LoveSeekerHe was being sarcastic love.Posted by tiziani
When you're doing illegal activities, the very first thing you want to be doing is dating a cop. You need the law on your side. For goodness sake, when opportunity knocks let it the hell in.
No ,i disagree if the ones who make laws dosen't respect it ,it will be worstclick to expand
Posted by ashley1734Yeah...that's a dicey situation. If it's a little herb probably not a huge deal but I don't know.Posted by happyface1Yes illegal activities is what worries me. Nothing crazy, but still enough to where it would be a concern if I HAD to tell him about it.
I would go for it...I've been talking to one for a few months now and he's awesome. It's exciting (sometimes he lets me ride with him on duty) but also a little scary because of his occupation and what he has to deal with.
I don't do the stereotypes about people and let their actions speak for themselves. Give him a shot if he intrigues you.
Unless you're into illegal activities I don't see how your lifestyle could affect anything any differently from you talking to any other man.
The crazy schedule and scariness of the job doesn't really worry me too much, but that's easy to say because I have zero feelings invested.click to expand
While questioning him on the things he's seen or done while on duty...I'd test with a question asking how he thinks of people that dabble in whatever it is that you do.
If he seems to have a negative point of view towards it you have your answer...if he seems like it's not a problem then there you go.
Still a dicey situation though.
Posted by happyface1That's a good idea. It can't hurt to just go on one date and feel him out. And also, if I really liked someone and thought there was a future, there are things in my life I would have zero problems cutting out completely. It isn't even such a huge part of my life currently, I was more concerned for things on his end than mine.Posted by ashley1734Yeah...that's a dicey situation. If it's a little herb probably not a huge deal but I don't know.Posted by happyface1Yes illegal activities is what worries me. Nothing crazy, but still enough to where it would be a concern if I HAD to tell him about it.
I would go for it...I've been talking to one for a few months now and he's awesome. It's exciting (sometimes he lets me ride with him on duty) but also a little scary because of his occupation and what he has to deal with.
I don't do the stereotypes about people and let their actions speak for themselves. Give him a shot if he intrigues you.
Unless you're into illegal activities I don't see how your lifestyle could affect anything any differently from you talking to any other man.
The crazy schedule and scariness of the job doesn't really worry me too much, but that's easy to say because I have zero feelings invested.
While questioning him on the things he's seen or done while on duty...I'd test with a question asking how he thinks of people that dabble in whatever it is that you do.
If he seems to have a negative point of view towards it you have your answer...if he seems like it's not a problem then there you go.
Still a dicey situation though.
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I'll go on the date and see. They also have such a horrible reputation for cheating, but that could just be an unfortunate stereotype.
I'm pretty sure most cops won't turn in their love interest. Many of them likely know people who are doing drugs or pull over their family members who are drinking and driving but let it all happen.
Police work is extremely stressful, though. If you decide to go out with a cop, you should try to understand that. He may get called to work at random times or have to cancel plans for work. He may even be put on a work schedule completely opposite of your own. The police subculture also breeds jerks, but that's not to say everyone conforms to that.
Just make sure he's definitely stable and mature before you go in to it. Also, make sure he's cool with what you're doing.
Police work is extremely stressful, though. If you decide to go out with a cop, you should try to understand that. He may get called to work at random times or have to cancel plans for work. He may even be put on a work schedule completely opposite of your own. The police subculture also breeds jerks, but that's not to say everyone conforms to that.
Just make sure he's definitely stable and mature before you go in to it. Also, make sure he's cool with what you're doing.
Posted by GreyWizYou are nuts.Posted by ashley1734why do you want to date a dumb sign that won't stimulate you intellectually. you have no self respect. I tried my best to save you from wasting your time.Posted by KoniuchaNo actually. I don't know much about the cop's sign other than he is a Leo.
Is this the one you have that composite with?click to expand
I haven't even hung out with him. A sun sign alone doesn't determine whether or not someone will stimulate me intellectually! Please calm down over there.
Posted by ScenicThank you, I will try and get a good feel for him the first time around and then decide. He may not even like me too, who knows!
I'm pretty sure most cops won't turn in their love interest. Many of them likely know people who are doing drugs or pull over their family members who are drinking and driving but let it all happen.
Police work is extremely stressful, though. If you decide to go out with a cop, you should try to understand that. He may get called to work at random times or have to cancel plans for work. He may even be put on a work schedule completely opposite of your own. The police subculture also breeds jerks, but that's not to say everyone conforms to that.
Just make sure he's definitely stable and mature before you go in to it. Also, make sure he's cool with what you're doing.
His schedule isn't as bad as some of the ones I've heard.
Posted by GreyWizThat's fine, but telling someone they have "no self respect" is unwarranted as fck.
I am very calm. I am just speaking from experience of seeing so many gem girls get bored and ditching leo males etc. do whatever you want.
My mother's father was a detective. My mother became a lawyer. I vowed to never marry a man in law enforcement, a firefighter, or a soldier.
Cops used to come into Dunkin where I used to work and flirt with us. They used to talk about "the wife not finding out." I'm not sure if it's the culture or not.
Cops used to come into Dunkin where I used to work and flirt with us. They used to talk about "the wife not finding out." I'm not sure if it's the culture or not.
If you would like, give him a chance. There is no harm in that. At least then you'll know. We don't always know what we like and what will be good for us as well as we think.
They're in a group hypnotic trip, they dont have their own thoughts.
Posted by LillyPetalThat is so very true.
If you would like, give him a chance. There is no harm in that. At least then you'll know. We don't always know what we like and what will be good for us as well as we think.
Posted by busyeyes88Sort of in limbo there. The whole mother living with him thing has me a bit reserved.Posted by ashley1734What has happened to the taurus?
Thoughts?
I have one chasing me and I continue to reject him because I don't think my lifestyle and ideas will mesh with his, but now I'm starting to get curious.click to expand
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXMy girlfriend said the same thing, that many of them are unfaithful and like to party on their off time.
Never dated a cop, However...I am no stranger to how cops are behind closed doors. My mother was a cop. My father still is a cop. My brother just became a cop not too long ago. I KNOW cops! lol....With that being said, many cops are unfaithful and alcoholics. Also many of them have a "my way or the highway" sometimes even militant personality. I won't say how or why I know this because I'm not divulging that kind of personal info on here, but more often than not, thats what you will get when dating a cop. I would not recommend it.
Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberAnd a love of mustaches
If I were not a Soldier, I would have become a Copper or Firefighter.
All three professions require bravery, skill and balls of steel.
Posted by HellDoradoThat means they like to rape people, right? The anus chakra.Posted by bricklemarkthey operate at the lowest chakra level, along with soldiers
They're in a group hypnotic trip, they dont have their own thoughts.click to expand
Posted by HellDoradoThe footage of iraq and syria never shows anything that would suggest it.Posted by bricklemarki dont know about cops which means probably.Posted by HellDoradoThat means they like to rape people, right? The anus chakra.Posted by bricklemarkthey operate at the lowest chakra level, along with soldiers
They're in a group hypnotic trip, they dont have their own thoughts.
soldiers, yeah. soldiers like to rape. that's all that war is, is murder, rape, and theft. it's basically tautologicalclick to expand
@OP- What happened to the Taurus?
I hear they are very difficult to live with type A personalities and very controlling. A little crazy even.
Posted by HellDoradoYes you love stories of adventure and amazing facts don't you? Good little boy. Are you a CancerPosted by bricklemarkdid you bother to look?Posted by HellDoradoThe footage of iraq and syria never shows anything that would suggest it.Posted by bricklemarki dont know about cops which means probably.Posted by HellDoradoThat means they like to rape people, right? The anus chakra.Posted by bricklemarkthey operate at the lowest chakra level, along with soldiers
They're in a group hypnotic trip, they dont have their own thoughts.
soldiers, yeah. soldiers like to rape. that's all that war is, is murder, rape, and theft. it's basically tautological
http://serveice.blogspot.com/2011/08/rape-of-iraqi-women-by-us-soldiers.html
there's some photographic evidence for you if you're naive enough to think that war suddenly became civilized after... um, however many millenia of war being the antithesis of civility.
war is murder, rape and theft.
hell, we rape enemy combatants outside the context of war, i.e. gitmoclick to expand
I was dealing with a shrimp dick Taurus cop. He had a creepy fetish for black girls and was racist.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Still talking to him but his mom lives with him and I'm not sure if he has Peter Pan syndrome or not so I'm exploring my options while I figure it out.
@OP- What happened to the Taurus?
Do some push ups before you meet him ,some jogging ,get ready
So I decided I needed to just tell the cop we aren't compatible and flake on our date for tomorrow, and I tried to this morning. He is also SUPER inconsistent. He will be texting and trying to get to know me and then disappears and then expects me to still be interested, so when I tried to bid him adew, he called me and somehow convinced (manipulated perhaps) me to give him a chance. So I'm still going tomorrow and I'll let you know how it goes once I'm finished rolling my eyes.
Posted by LoveSeekerHahaha.
Do some push ups before you meet him ,some jogging ,get ready
Posted by bricklemarkPosted by HellDoradoThe footage of iraq and syria never shows anything that would suggest it.Posted by bricklemarki dont know about cops which means probably.Posted by HellDoradoThat means they like to rape people, right? The anus chakra.Posted by bricklemarkthey operate at the lowest chakra level, along with soldiers
They're in a group hypnotic trip, they dont have their own thoughts.
soldiers, yeah. soldiers like to rape. that's all that war is, is murder, rape, and theft. it's basically tautologicalclick to expand
what about other wars? I remember a certain scene from the Braveheart. or another movie on the war between Schottland and Britain.
what about all the war fronts in the WW II?
what do you think about the civil war?
Posted by DwellingOnMoveHello?Posted by bricklemarkPosted by HellDoradoThe footage of iraq and syria never shows anything that would suggest it.Posted by bricklemarki dont know about cops which means probably.Posted by HellDoradoThat means they like to rape people, right? The anus chakra.Posted by bricklemarkthey operate at the lowest chakra level, along with soldiers
They're in a group hypnotic trip, they dont have their own thoughts.
soldiers, yeah. soldiers like to rape. that's all that war is, is murder, rape, and theft. it's basically tautological
what about other wars? I remember a certain scene from the Braveheart. or another movie on the war between Schottland and Britain.
what about all the war fronts in the WW II?
what do you think about the civil war?click to expand
hello? then hi!
Not A cop. Currently a fire fighter was trying to court me. He's so arrogant though.
Posted by questionoflustquestionoftrustI dated a fireman once...arrogant and also completely nuts (Gemini).
Not A cop. Currently a fire fighter was trying to court me. He's so arrogant though.
Posted by ashley1734So wat happened?Posted by questionoflustquestionoftrustI dated a fireman once...arrogant and also completely nuts (Gemini).
Not A cop. Currently a fire fighter was trying to court me. He's so arrogant though.click to expand
Posted by LoveSeekerWith the cop?Posted by ashley1734So wat happened?Posted by questionoflustquestionoftrustI dated a fireman once...arrogant and also completely nuts (Gemini).
Not A cop. Currently a fire fighter was trying to court me. He's so arrogant though.click to expand
Not sure yet. Our date is in a few hours. I will be sure to let you guys know.
This one is a Leo, truly full of himself.
Posted by DonnaElvira77Oh, no he makes like over $ 200k a year. It's not shit pay where he works at ALL.Posted by ashley1734It's a shit job with shity pay. I say shit job ...........there is NO way to describe the frustrations those men must go through. I know we all admire them ec. But really? I would want an easier life. I would say it's impossible to really get their job.Posted by happyface1Yes illegal activities is what worries me. Nothing crazy, but still enough to where it would be a concern if I HAD to tell him about it.
I would go for it...I've been talking to one for a few months now and he's awesome. It's exciting (sometimes he lets me ride with him on duty) but also a little scary because of his occupation and what he has to deal with.
I don't do the stereotypes about people and let their actions speak for themselves. Give him a shot if he intrigues you.
Unless you're into illegal activities I don't see how your lifestyle could affect anything any differently from you talking to any other man.
The crazy schedule and scariness of the job doesn't really worry me too much, but that's easy to say because I have zero feelings invested.
Yeah ...not what i would pick for a partner. But it's up to you.
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Ok so the date.
We met at sushi and he did everything right (at first), told me I looked pretty, opened the door, pulled out my chair, paid, etc. The conversation was really good...there wasn't like overt chemistry, but definitely attraction. We were at the restaurant for a couple hours and then I was gesturing to be ready to go when he asked if I wanted to go play some pool and I said sure, but then he continued to tell me "at his house..." so which I declined and that's when he wasn't such a gentleman anymore.
I was perfectly polite about declining, but I mean hello, obviously I'm not going back to your place. And before this happened he was trying to have me meet him at his house and he would drive us to the place, which I also declined and told him I would meet him there.
So anyway we got to say goodbye outside and we hug, and he kissed me which was sort of surprising but still a good kiss. And then he gets in his car, doesn't wait for me to get into mine, and leaves. Didn't check to make sure I got home safe, nothing.
I can't help but laugh. But hey, I'm glad i went.
We met at sushi and he did everything right (at first), told me I looked pretty, opened the door, pulled out my chair, paid, etc. The conversation was really good...there wasn't like overt chemistry, but definitely attraction. We were at the restaurant for a couple hours and then I was gesturing to be ready to go when he asked if I wanted to go play some pool and I said sure, but then he continued to tell me "at his house..." so which I declined and that's when he wasn't such a gentleman anymore.
I was perfectly polite about declining, but I mean hello, obviously I'm not going back to your place. And before this happened he was trying to have me meet him at his house and he would drive us to the place, which I also declined and told him I would meet him there.
So anyway we got to say goodbye outside and we hug, and he kissed me which was sort of surprising but still a good kiss. And then he gets in his car, doesn't wait for me to get into mine, and leaves. Didn't check to make sure I got home safe, nothing.
I can't help but laugh. But hey, I'm glad i went.
Posted by ashley1734Welcome back 🙂
Ok so the date.
We met at sushi and he did everything right (at first), told me I looked pretty, opened the door, pulled out my chair, paid, etc. The conversation was really good...there wasn't like overt chemistry, but definitely attraction. We were at the restaurant for a couple hours and then I was gesturing to be ready to go when he asked if I wanted to go play some pool and I said sure, but then he continued to tell me "at his house..." so which I declined and that's when he wasn't such a gentleman anymore.
I was perfectly polite about declining, but I mean hello, obviously I'm not going back to your place. And before this happened he was trying to have me meet him at his house and he would drive us to the place, which I also declined and told him I would meet him there.
So anyway we got to say goodbye outside and we hug, and he kissed me which was sort of surprising but still a good kiss. And then he gets in his car, doesn't wait for me to get into mine, and leaves. Didn't check to make sure I got home safe, nothing.
I can't help but laugh. But hey, I'm glad i went.
Posted by LibralulaHe's a total douche so that won't be happening. Although I would love to handcuff him to his own bed and pepper spray him.
If he asks you to handcuff him, pepper spray and spank him with a police baton him during sex, I say keep him.
Just saying.
you should do it. imagine all the perks
Posted by ashley1734Good girl. Fvck dem pigs.Posted by LibralulaHe's a total douche so that won't be happening. Although I would love to handcuff him to his own bed and pepper spray him.
If he asks you to handcuff him, pepper spray and spank him with a police baton him during sex, I say keep him.
Just saying.click to expand
Posted by littlemegabyteYeah he didn't even try to hide it. Man I can't believe I even gave him the benefit of the doubt, but my curiosity got me.
Girl dat cop only wanted 1 thing.
If you ever go that route again, make sure he uses his handcuffs on you. I'm just projecting a minor fantasy of mine onto you
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