Why are all the Cancer threads about self hate and being a martyr??

Seriously. Lets talk about something more interesting. Like your hobbies. Or how you fuck. Or self preservation. I mean COMMON. (cancer sun, libra rising, sag moon)

I never see threads made by a Cancer. lol It's usually women asking for help with their Cancer.

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
because feeling sorry for ourselves is like BALMS to our soul.

don't you DARE take that away from US.

😆 aaaayyyyeeee



This made me laugh lol

Alright water devil I'm all ears what do you wanna talk about ... 😘👂👂

To be sad is what makes us happy. ✨

Posted by Cancan26
Alright water devil I'm all ears what do you wanna talk about ... 😘👂👂

Can I say that I love one of my best friends, a sweet, lovely and balanced cancer woman? She is getting married to a quirky weird cancer and they just had a beautiful cancer girl. The baby is now about four months, has the deepest dark eyes I ever saw and absolutely loves guys with beards. That's it.

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Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxX
Because Cancers are self hating martyrs?

its not self hate, its this thing where we're never finding complete satisfaction within...we understand everything is temporary and that pains us...

so we're always struggling to accept that.

well for me it's true, i don't know about other crabs.

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Temporary is a good word. We crave for security and that's not something easy to achieve nowadays. Crabs were just not made for these times.

Posted by nikkistar
I never see threads made by a Cancer. lol It's usually women asking for help with their Cancer.

exactly. Im a cancer always writing on the pisces thread to get my fix from other water signs. I feel like everyone is hiding something. Im that cancer trying to break that mold. COME OUT AND TELL ME HOW YOU FEEL AND WE CAN SHARE STORIES BRUJAS! LETS BE REALLLL.

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
lately i been just thinking about everything i want that i don't have, for instance a family, and a cloud came over me.

it felt comforting to be sad, its like yah i should be sad, im tired of trying to ignore it. When women are walking their kids to the schools. i wonder they get to sit and watch their plays.

How cool. things like that

I feel you. im not a maternal cancer, don't want kids but I DEFINITELY feel you. Im learning though that it helps to feel shit out for a little, but I need to steer away from dwelling and appreciate the life I already have. IM SURE people out their envious of me for being a single 26 year old female who is working on her music and doing things, grass is always greener. But us cancers def struggle with appreciating what we have as opposed to what we dont.

Posted by Cancan26
Alright water devil I'm all ears what do you wanna talk about ... 😘👂👂

hows your sex life yo!! lets get vulnerable. Tell me the parts you hide from everyone else.

Posted by carrazeda
To be sad is what makes us happy. ✨

Not true. I HATE being sad. Sharing my happiness with someone special makes me happy.

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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
because feeling sorry for ourselves is like BALMS to our soul.

don't you DARE take that away from US.

i made a progress 😄. i don't feel sorry for myself. i'm mostly like: things i've seen and the things i felt...

😄

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I feel that. Im just always sad. But that isn't what I want. So Im taking action and seeing if emotions follow. We shall seeeee

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Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxX
Because Cancers are self hating martyrs?

its not self hate, its this thing where we're never finding complete satisfaction within...we understand everything is temporary and that pains us...

so we're always struggling to accept that.

well for me it's true, i don't know about other crabs.

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interesting my pisces just told me that that's EXACTLY how she feels about, life lovers and friends.

Posted by greylatern
I'm begining to understand cancers. Let me see if I understand correctly from a virgo point of view. Keep in mind I have sun opposition moon. Cancers work though thiet emotions by letting themselves feel it fully and expressing it to themselves oppenly. Crying in the corner by themselves to release the emotions bottled up would be a correct discription?

nah

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Posted by Cancan26
Alright water devil I'm all ears what do you wanna talk about ... 😘👂👂

hows your sex life yo!! lets get vulnerable. Tell me the parts you hide from everyone else.

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Lmao ...the part I hide from everyone is I'm a boiling pot of rage tucked behind a smile and witty comments 😆

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Posted by Cancan26
Alright water devil I'm all ears what do you wanna talk about ... 😘👂👂

hows your sex life yo!! lets get vulnerable. Tell me the parts you hide from everyone else.

Lmao ...the part I hide from everyone is I'm a boiling pot of rage tucked behind a smile and witty comments 😆

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funny. But that is ALL i see on the cancer forum. A LOT of witty banter. I get it. WE ARE FUNNY. And REALLLLLY sarcastic. But I find for me in the real world that's become a bad habit. It's almost like my "fun wall" to keep people from taking me TOO SERIOUSLY from fear of them not actually seeing me vulnerable. smh. I think I just had a breakthrough.

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Posted by Cancan26
Alright water devil I'm all ears what do you wanna talk about ... 😘👂👂

hows your sex life yo!! lets get vulnerable. Tell me the parts you hide from everyone else.

Lmao ...the part I hide from everyone is I'm a boiling pot of rage tucked behind a smile and witty comments 😆

funny. But that is ALL i see on the cancer forum. A LOT of witty banter. I get it. WE ARE FUNNY. And REALLLLLY sarcastic. But I find for me in the real world that's become a bad habit. It's almost like my "fun wall" to keep people from taking me TOO SERIOUSLY from fear of them not actually seeing me vulnerable. smh. I think I just had a breakthrough.

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People always say they wanna see it until they do ....the cancer board gets on my nerves half of the threads are the cancer is distant, aloof, etc...and the other complains that we are too emotional, whiny, etc ...it gets old ...-_-

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
I like to think we came up with the single tear rolling down the cheek technique.

Shut up Lmaooo 😆

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Posted by Cancan26
Alright water devil I'm all ears what do you wanna talk about ... 😘👂👂

hows your sex life yo!! lets get vulnerable. Tell me the parts you hide from everyone else.

Lmao ...the part I hide from everyone is I'm a boiling pot of rage tucked behind a smile and witty comments 😆

funny. But that is ALL i see on the cancer forum. A LOT of witty banter. I get it. WE ARE FUNNY. And REALLLLLY sarcastic. But I find for me in the real world that's become a bad habit. It's almost like my "fun wall" to keep people from taking me TOO SERIOUSLY from fear of them not actually seeing me vulnerable. smh. I think I just had a breakthrough.

People always say they wanna see it until they do ....the cancer board gets on my nerves half of the threads are the cancer is distant, aloof, etc...and the other complains that we are too emotional, whiny, etc ...it gets old ...-_-

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I say we implant change

Posted by ChrisxKodak

Posted by WaterDevil
Seriously. Lets talk about something more interesting. Like your hobbies. Or how you fuck. Or self preservation. I mean COMMON. (cancer sun, libra rising, sag moon)

Cancer men don't expose themselves or their "extra-curricular activities " for attention on dxpnet lol

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it's not about attention it's about saying something real for once, an experience that others could potentially learn from. And i'm a female.

Posted by SentimentalCrabby
Self-hate? Wtf—



Bro. I. LOVE. FOOD.

lol taurus ascending

I don't like being sad but it kinds of feel good.. Even when I'm happy I don't smile much, but when I do it's beautiful. I guess you gotta hurt to feel alive..

Posted by WaterDevil
Seriously. Lets talk about something more interesting. Like your hobbies. Or how you fuck. Or self preservation. I mean COMMON. (cancer sun, libra rising, sag moon)

I never responded to your original post. I love music, books, physics and art. I usually say that a week without a new book is a sad week. As for music, I think that it just balances my brain. Same for art. Physics is just way out of sight interest. Maybe because it's the perfect combo of science and maths with the transcendent. Three things that always keep my head in motion. I also love to cook and especially to cook for my friends.

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Posted by WaterDevil
Seriously. Lets talk about something more interesting. Like your hobbies. Or how you fuck. Or self preservation. I mean COMMON. (cancer sun, libra rising, sag moon)

I never responded to your original post. I love music, books, physics and art. I usually say that a week without a new book is a sad week. As for music, I think that it just balances my brain. Same for art. Physics is just way out of sight interest. Maybe because it's the perfect combo of science and maths with the transcendent. Three things that always keep my head in motion. I also love to cook and especially to cook for my friends.

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Thanks for sharing that!

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Posted by WaterDevil
Seriously. Lets talk about something more interesting. Like your hobbies. Or how you fuck. Or self preservation. I mean COMMON. (cancer sun, libra rising, sag moon)

I never responded to your original post. I love music, books, physics and art. I usually say that a week without a new book is a sad week. As for music, I think that it just balances my brain. Same for art. Physics is just way out of sight interest. Maybe because it's the perfect combo of science and maths with the transcendent. Three things that always keep my head in motion. I also love to cook and especially to cook for my friends.

Thanks for sharing that!

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What are your hobbies?

Posted by Arielle83
Ain't no one crying here

you are a strong one.

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Posted by WaterDevil
Seriously. Lets talk about something more interesting. Like your hobbies. Or how you fuck. Or self preservation. I mean COMMON. (cancer sun, libra rising, sag moon)

I never responded to your original post. I love music, books, physics and art. I usually say that a week without a new book is a sad week. As for music, I think that it just balances my brain. Same for art. Physics is just way out of sight interest. Maybe because it's the perfect combo of science and maths with the transcendent. Three things that always keep my head in motion. I also love to cook and especially to cook for my friends.

Thanks for sharing that!

What are your hobbies?

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Making music. And writing stories about my love life lol. Specifically involving pisces women hah.

Cancer anthem

Posted by LadyNeptune

Cancer anthem

I feel like this all the time... In a weird lethargic way. Even when I'm happy. As if... feelings are too much. Doesn't matter what feelings they are. It's weird.