Capricorn Survival Thread

Have you dated a Capricorn? Did you make it to happily ever after? If so, share your stories- give the people hope. If not, feel free to vent.

Posted by ScorpioTruth
I thought we came pretty damn close until he had the affair. Lol

Now after the affair and after I've left him he seems convinced that i am his happily ever after and wants to go ring shopping. What in the actual fuck? I thought Capricorns were logical and think things through? Knowing that, i find it difficult to believe him when he says it wont happen again and i am the one he wants to spend his life with. If that were true, why did it happen to begin with??

Thanks for allowing me to VENT. Sorry for not providing hope for the people. Lol

My dear, logical does not equal intelligent. Many of us are dumb as fuck.

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Posted by ScorpioTruth
I thought we came pretty damn close until he had the affair. Lol

Now after the affair and after I've left him he seems convinced that i am his happily ever after and wants to go ring shopping. What in the actual fuck? I thought Capricorns were logical and think things through? Knowing that, i find it difficult to believe him when he says it wont happen again and i am the one he wants to spend his life with. If that were true, why did it happen to begin with??

Thanks for allowing me to VENT. Sorry for not providing hope for the people. Lol

Right now he just wants what he can't have

Typical cap

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Or he could be telling the truth (I doubt it, but it is possible). Don't be so harsh. Where would you be without second chances?

I have a few Cap stories.

My first fwb and I when we were both 14-15.. we were each other's first, but no one knew what we had. I think it was bc of me, I've always liked hidden relationships. We barely ever talked, he'd call me, I went to his house, had sex, cuddled and left. It went for over a year and we have a kid together. He doesn't know :/ he cut me off when I left the country without telling him. He said it wasn't his, I was 15 so I was hurt and decided to never say a word to him. (14 yrs have passed)

So I created a fake fb account for my friend a few yrs ago and I added him there to see how he's doing.

One day all of a sudden he sent a message to the fake fb which is obv. fake...I replied and started talking to him. To this day he doesn't know it's me... I stopped texting since last year because it's soo weird. 😢 😢

He messaged me again a couple of months ago and I didn't reply. 😭

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Posted by ScorpioTruth
I thought we came pretty damn close until he had the affair. Lol

Now after the affair and after I've left him he seems convinced that i am his happily ever after and wants to go ring shopping. What in the actual fuck? I thought Capricorns were logical and think things through? Knowing that, i find it difficult to believe him when he says it wont happen again and i am the one he wants to spend his life with. If that were true, why did it happen to begin with??

Thanks for allowing me to VENT. Sorry for not providing hope for the people. Lol

Right now he just wants what he can't have

Typical cap

Or he could be telling the truth (I doubt it, but it is possible). Don't be so harsh. Where would you be without second chances?

Your cancer moon is showing. *Heavy eye roll*

This is exactly what gets me in trouble.. my damn soft ass cancer moon wanting to give him the benefit of doubt. After spending 8 years with someone, you want to be able to believe in them, but then again thats what got me in trouble in the first place.

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*Waves fist* lol you're probably right (in re cancer moon). You have a mountain of evidence to help you decide. Just keep referring to it, that should help keep that feely moon in check. At least it does for me.

Posted by Aerazo
I have a few Cap stories.

My first fwb and I when we were both 14-15.. we were each other's first, but no one knew what we had. I think it was bc of me, I've always liked hidden relationships. We barely ever talked, he'd call me, I went to his house, had sex, cuddled and left. It went for over a year and we have a kid together. He doesn't know :/ he cut me off when I left the country without telling him. He said it wasn't his, I was 15 so I was hurt and decided to never say a word to him. (14 yrs have passed)

So I created a fake fb account for my friend a few yrs ago and I added him there to see how he's doing.

One day all of a sudden he sent a message to the fake fb which is obv. fake...I replied and started talking to him. To this day he doesn't know it's me... I stopped texting since last year because it's soo weird. 😢 😢

He messaged me again a couple of months ago and I didn't reply. 😭

Don't know what to say to that story. I'd give you a hug if I could. Yikes.

When I moved here I met another Capricorn, we wouldnt talk much in class. I broke the ice and one of the first things he said was "Do you wanna be my girlfriend? " I said "Yes!"

He raised my daughter as his, we were together for 12 yrs and have another daughter together.

A lot of ups and downs, we were trying to have a mature relationship while still being immature. we moved in together at 20 yrs old.

the last few years were good and bad, we had a toxic relationship, hurt each other too much, until I couldn't take it anymore, I was tired of the vicious cycle and decided to end the relationship on 2015. it's still recent, he cried and begged me to get back with him but he had anger issues and as much as I begged him that we should get help, he never wanted to.

Is not a happy ending together but we are both happier now. 🙂



I have a friend Cap who fell in love with me and to this day he wants to be with me but he's still living with his wife so idk how he wants me to agree to that. I don't think there will be a Happy ending there.



Now, the guy Im currently seeing is another Cap. we been going out for 5 months, more like getting to know each other well before getting in a relationship. Hopefully this will be a happy ending.

Posted by Aerazo
I have a few Cap stories.

My first fwb and I when we were both 14-15.. we were each other's first, but no one knew what we had. I think it was bc of me, I've always liked hidden relationships. We barely ever talked, he'd call me, I went to his house, had sex, cuddled and left. It went for over a year and we have a kid together. He doesn't know :/ he cut me off when I left the country without telling him. He said it wasn't his, I was 15 so I was hurt and decided to never say a word to him. (14 yrs have passed)

So I created a fake fb account for my friend a few yrs ago and I added him there to see how he's doing.

One day all of a sudden he sent a message to the fake fb which is obv. fake...I replied and started talking to him. To this day he doesn't know it's me... I stopped texting since last year because it's soo weird. 😢 😢

He messaged me again a couple of months ago and I didn't reply. 😭

Wait..so you had a kid with him at 15 and didn't tell him? Or you told him after you bounced and he denied it?

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Posted by Aerazo
I have a few Cap stories.

My first fwb and I when we were both 14-15.. we were each other's first, but no one knew what we had. I think it was bc of me, I've always liked hidden relationships. We barely ever talked, he'd call me, I went to his house, had sex, cuddled and left. It went for over a year and we have a kid together. He doesn't know :/ he cut me off when I left the country without telling him. He said it wasn't his, I was 15 so I was hurt and decided to never say a word to him. (14 yrs have passed)

So I created a fake fb account for my friend a few yrs ago and I added him there to see how he's doing.

One day all of a sudden he sent a message to the fake fb which is obv. fake...I replied and started talking to him. To this day he doesn't know it's me... I stopped texting since last year because it's soo weird. 😢 😢

He messaged me again a couple of months ago and I didn't reply. 😭

Oh wow. Doesn't your child want to know who his father is?

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She doesn't know because when I started seeing my other bf (Cap) he practically raised her since she was a couple months old. He taught her to call him Dad, and his whole family have always cared for her as his daughter.

I will tell her at some point, she's 13 Also a CAP!! (please help me!!) but I'd have to talk to her bio dad first before telling her.

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Posted by Aerazo
I have a few Cap stories.

My first fwb and I when we were both 14-15.. we were each other's first, but no one knew what we had. I think it was bc of me, I've always liked hidden relationships. We barely ever talked, he'd call me, I went to his house, had sex, cuddled and left. It went for over a year and we have a kid together. He doesn't know :/ he cut me off when I left the country without telling him. He said it wasn't his, I was 15 so I was hurt and decided to never say a word to him. (14 yrs have passed)

So I created a fake fb account for my friend a few yrs ago and I added him there to see how he's doing.

One day all of a sudden he sent a message to the fake fb which is obv. fake...I replied and started talking to him. To this day he doesn't know it's me... I stopped texting since last year because it's soo weird. 😢 😢

He messaged me again a couple of months ago and I didn't reply. 😭

Wait..so you had a kid with him at 15 and didn't tell him? Or you told him after you bounced and he denied it?

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So, I was pregnant when I left my home country, I didn't know I was. I found out a few months later when I was already here. doctors were surprised that I was 6 months preg. and didn't show at all.

I left the country without telling him I was leaving. 😢 I was moving forever.

I called him from here to tell him and he said " I don't think that's my kid, if it is then call me" but he was very upset.

I'm an Aqua and we cut people off easily, my heart was cold as ice.. I never called him. I don't think I even cried or hesitated. Also I was more worried about making sure my baby was healthy and also going through problems here with my family who were very supportive.

I also found out I had heart problems and got pneumonia as well during my pregnancy, I was very weak bc she was taking everything from me and I hadn't taken proper care.

So I had more important things to worry about.

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Posted by Aerazo
I have a few Cap stories.

My first fwb and I when we were both 14-15.. we were each other's first, but no one knew what we had. I think it was bc of me, I've always liked hidden relationships. We barely ever talked, he'd call me, I went to his house, had sex, cuddled and left. It went for over a year and we have a kid together. He doesn't know :/ he cut me off when I left the country without telling him. He said it wasn't his, I was 15 so I was hurt and decided to never say a word to him. (14 yrs have passed)

So I created a fake fb account for my friend a few yrs ago and I added him there to see how he's doing.

One day all of a sudden he sent a message to the fake fb which is obv. fake...I replied and started talking to him. To this day he doesn't know it's me... I stopped texting since last year because it's soo weird. 😢 😢

He messaged me again a couple of months ago and I didn't reply. 😭

Don't know what to say to that story. I'd give you a hug if I could. Yikes.

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Thank you!!!! I never really talked about my stories, I bury them in the bottom of my heart and I practically decided not to even think about it.

Posted by ScorpioTruth

Posted by daron76


*Waves fist* lol you're probably right (in re cancer moon). You have a mountain of evidence to help you decide. Just keep referring to it, that should help keep that feely moon in check. At least it does for me.

I asked him recently if the reason he is so adamant now about getting married is because of guilt or obligation. I read in a thread on here recently that caps will stay in a relationship out of obligation and i wanted to put my feelers out to see if that was the case with him. He said that it wasn't until after our first counseling session, he said he did not realize how much i love him and how much he had hurt me by doing this and said he wants to spend the rest of his life making it up to me. He said its not out of obligation because he has an older son from a previous relationship and never married her out of obligation. He said he has never even entertained the idea of marrying anyone except me. He also has a cancer moon.

That's what makes this whole situation difficult. He's been my best friend for 8 years, he's an amazing father to our son. And aside from this, he was perfect for me. Even after 8 years we still enjoy each other's company.. even after breaking my heart, somehow we still make each other laugh. Sometimes i wish he would be a dickhead and blame me for the affair or say something mean that would make this whole "letting go" process easier.

Im just in a funk tonight. Womp.

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Yeah. Just take your time. There shouldn't be a rush. You were violated, heal at the pace you are comfortable with. Even though you are probably tired of dealing with this and would like it settled ASAP, keep in mind that time reveals all and is therefore your friend.

I like this thread. Yes, please give me hope because I am dating a cap right now and it's blissful. Only a month in, though, but haven't expressed exclusivity yet.

He has an Aries moon and I have a Cap moon so I've had to tell him to slow it down. He said he will be as patient as he needs to be and go at my speed so that is a good thing I assume.

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Posted by Aerazo
I have a few Cap stories.

My first fwb and I when we were both 14-15.. we were each other's first, but no one knew what we had. I think it was bc of me, I've always liked hidden relationships. We barely ever talked, he'd call me, I went to his house, had sex, cuddled and left. It went for over a year and we have a kid together. He doesn't know :/ he cut me off when I left the country without telling him. He said it wasn't his, I was 15 so I was hurt and decided to never say a word to him. (14 yrs have passed)

So I created a fake fb account for my friend a few yrs ago and I added him there to see how he's doing.

One day all of a sudden he sent a message to the fake fb which is obv. fake...I replied and started talking to him. To this day he doesn't know it's me... I stopped texting since last year because it's soo weird. 😢 😢

He messaged me again a couple of months ago and I didn't reply. 😭

Don't know what to say to that story. I'd give you a hug if I could. Yikes.

Thank you!!!! I never really talked about my stories, I bury them in the bottom of my heart and I practically decided not to even think about it.

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Been there as well, talking about it (when you're ready) is def helpful

Posted by ScorpioTruth

Posted by daron76


*Waves fist* lol you're probably right (in re cancer moon). You have a mountain of evidence to help you decide. Just keep referring to it, that should help keep that feely moon in check. At least it does for me.

I asked him recently if the reason he is so adamant now about getting married is because of guilt or obligation. I read in a thread on here recently that caps will stay in a relationship out of obligation and i wanted to put my feelers out to see if that was the case with him. He said that it wasn't until after our first counseling session, he said he did not realize how much i love him and how much he had hurt me by doing this and said he wants to spend the rest of his life making it up to me. He said its not out of obligation because he has an older son from a previous relationship and never married her out of obligation. He said he has never even entertained the idea of marrying anyone except me. He also has a cancer moon.

That's what makes this whole situation difficult. He's been my best friend for 8 years, he's an amazing father to our son. And aside from this, he was perfect for me. Even after 8 years we still enjoy each other's company.. even after breaking my heart, somehow we still make each other laugh. Sometimes i wish he would be a dickhead and blame me for the affair or say something mean that would make this whole "letting go" process easier.

Im just in a funk tonight. Womp.

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If you feel like he is serious then I'd believe him, forget about the affair, I know is easy to say hard to do but stop bringing it up. Start a new chapter with him if that's what you want for yourself.

Also, just throwing this out there: He could be 100% sure that he wants to spend his life with you, but what about you? Are you sure you want to be with him? do you still love him?

As a partner of Caps I can tell you that we sometimes get exhausted of catching up to them. Making sure they are happy, always checking up to confirm they still love us, and for me, I lost myself in the process.

The process of being a good woman for him, taking care of our kids, the home, and I forgot about myself. Until one day I realized that I didn't love him anymore, and he didn't show that he loved me, so I needed to love myself and for that I had to leave him. Hard decision after 12 yrs together. He's a good man, I'm sure about that.

But when you know each other's weaknesses and you're hurt and blind, you hurt them back. and so on... 😢

I don't know why after two wrong Caps I keep going in for more Cap love.

I know what they have that attract me so much and I know it would be an amazing relationship if we are both mature.

FYI: I find out they are caps way after I'm into them. 😢 so is not even like I'm planning it.

I'm sorry if the Cap survival thread became the Guillotine thread lol

For all future Cap partners: Don't stress, they are good men, if you look up to having a husband whom you can admire, love, cherish and be loved in the most weirdest way, then hang in there.

They take loooong to come out of their comfort zone, but once they are sure about you, they put in effort to make you happy.

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Posted by Aerazo
I have a few Cap stories.

My first fwb and I when we were both 14-15.. we were each other's first, but no one knew what we had. I think it was bc of me, I've always liked hidden relationships. We barely ever talked, he'd call me, I went to his house, had sex, cuddled and left. It went for over a year and we have a kid together. He doesn't know :/ he cut me off when I left the country without telling him. He said it wasn't his, I was 15 so I was hurt and decided to never say a word to him. (14 yrs have passed)

So I created a fake fb account for my friend a few yrs ago and I added him there to see how he's doing.

One day all of a sudden he sent a message to the fake fb which is obv. fake...I replied and started talking to him. To this day he doesn't know it's me... I stopped texting since last year because it's soo weird. 😢 😢

He messaged me again a couple of months ago and I didn't reply. 😭

Oh wow. Doesn't your child want to know who his father is?

She doesn't know because when I started seeing my other bf (Cap) he practically raised her since she was a couple months old. He taught her to call him Dad, and his whole family have always cared for her as his daughter.

I will tell her at some point, she's 13 Also a CAP!! (please help me!!) but I'd have to talk to her bio dad first before telling her.

You are a cap magnet foreal LOL! My sons dad is a scorp magnet.. the son we have together as well as his son from a past relationship are both scorpios, his favorite granny is a Scorpio, two nephews, his favorite niece and favorite cousin are all scorpios and then there is me. Lol that poor guy is surrounded with intense emotion on a regular basis LMAO especially when the 4 of us were all living under the same roof. His older son is 16 now so he's pretty laid back and spends a lot of time in his room, but me and the toddler are just full of lots of intense, emotional excitement 😄

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Hahaha!! I find that that happens regularly! once you feel a strong attraction towards a certain zodiac sign then you just can't go back. lol

The cap that I'm currently seeing, his past 2 ex girlfriends (official gfs) were both Aquarius. When I met him, he said: Are you an aquarius?

me: Yes!! why?

him: because of the way you behave and kept me interested.

me: what are you?

him: Capricorn

me: Oh gosh! ? (I thought I was done with caps)

later that night he got drunk, he was always flirting around with me, I could take my eyes off of him, I took him home so he didn't drive wasted and we kissed and 5 months later we are still "getting to know each other ".

Nothing official yet, I'm being very cautious and I'm sure he is too. We talk about how weird it is for us to have connected so much and so quick.

After my ex I find it hard to feel comfortable with other guys, they all get on my nerves about what they do and say and act. :/

For him is hard too, he had never slept in the same bed with someone who weren't his gf's. and he was also in a very long relationship of 8 yrs. The aqua girl cheated on him, so maybe that's why he's cautious about me.

Capricorns are deep. They're certainly very reclusive and shy on the outside (I see this in both males and females), but on the inside they're someone totally different.

One Capricorn I was with was shy and quiet around people, but when he was with me he was pretty fun loving, loved to talk on and on about stuff he liked (especially about video games 9_9), and had a very cheeky and sometimes dry sense of humor. I especially LOVED how well timed his jokes were. He knows just what to say to make people laugh. Capricorn humor is not at all stupid. They're quick witted in that sense.

But even though he was very expressive around me and close friends, he was very stone cold around other people. I felt that he was sort of being cautious of people due to trust issues or some sort of trauma (he was bullied a lot as a teen and ran into a lot of troubling people and stress during his university years, yadada). He was very cautious and choosy about who to get along with, and certainly knew if someone was being dishonest or not.

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Posted by Aerazo
If you feel like he is serious then I'd believe him, forget about the affair, I know is easy to say hard to do but stop bringing it up. Start a new chapter with him if that's what you want for yourself.

Also, just throwing this out there: He could be 100% sure that he wants to spend his life with you, but what about you? Are you sure you want to be with him? do you still love him?

As a partner of Caps I can tell you that we sometimes get exhausted of catching up to them. Making sure they are happy, always checking up to confirm they still love us, and for me, I lost myself in the process.

The process of being a good woman for him, taking care of our kids, the home, and I forgot about myself. Until one day I realized that I didn't love him anymore, and he didn't show that he loved me, so I needed to love myself and for that I had to leave him. Hard decision after 12 yrs together. He's a good man, I'm sure about that.

But when you know each other's weaknesses and you're hurt and blind, you hurt them back. and so on... 😢

He's never been a man of many words, he's the type that only says what he means and means what he says. So im inclined to believe that even HE believes that he's serious about marrying me. However he apparently had this lapse in judgement the first time. Whether it was because he thought I wouldn't find out or because he just didn't care. That's what I'm trying to figure out. If I knew in my heart that it wont happen again, i could easily forgive him and give him another chance. But I need to feel safe with him again, and i dont feel that anymore and have expressed that to him. The love is absolutely still there, but trust is another story.

There is not a doubt in my mind that i love him. Even in spite of all this, i still love him something fierce but wish that I didn't. Shit gets real after being with someone for 8 years and having a baby though. ( I know you know) I was also working night shift at the hospital and barely slept during the day so i could seee my baby. So there were times im sure he felt deprived. I nursed my son for 15 months of his life, when I wasn't working i had an infant latched on to me. Some days i didn't want to be touched, i just wanted to sleep. There was a time where i struggled with finding balance between being a good mom, good woman, clocking 12 hour shifts at the hospital and making time to take care of myself. I think our son is the only person I didn't neglect. I neglected myself as much as i neglected our relationship. I'm still working on finding that balance. Im not blaming myself for the affair, however there are things i could have done differently. When he said he didn't realize that i loved him this much until after our counseling session, this was the oly reason i could imagine he would feel that way.

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I totally understand your point. Yes they aren't usually people of many words.

After being around so many caps (now I include a long time friend and mentor who is in love with me) I've realized that Caps sometimes don't believe that we love them.

They are insecure when it comes to trusting someone with their feelings, they test the waters, they will show you one thing here and there, but they hold back because they think we aren't gonna be there long enough. Also I believe this is the reason why they hurt us.

I talk to them a lot about feelings, and is what has helped me come to understand them.

All 4 caps I have and have had close to me have anger issues. They are short tempered and can't control it sometimes.. they can say hurtful things even when they don't mean to because they will speak what they feel in the moment of anger.

My first relationship was with a Cap. He was shy but a sweetheart. He sent me a love letter through my brother asking me out. The letter was so sweet. I was surprised he was interested coz he never showed it. So i accepted to go out with him. He told me he observed me on several occasions before he made any moves.

It was a very relaxed relationship. Its like we were in sync and genuinely liked each other. He was a talker and always initiated so i didn't experience much of the disappearing acts i read about. I remember he was a very good listener as well.

The relationship took a turn when he escorted me back home one day. When he saw where i lived (my parents house) , he told me "he couldn't believe this is where i lived". He said the house was huge. That i came from a wealthy home, how was he going to keep up with this amount of wealth if he was to be with me. I was surprised by his reaction.

He told me it really intimidated him. That he didn't know if he could give me the same luxuries i was accustomed too. I tried to convince him that was not my motive. That i had to work for my own but he was scared. Things took a turn from there. I eventually moved away to another country and the relationship ended.

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Posted by Aerazo
I have a few Cap stories.

My first fwb and I when we were both 14-15.. we were each other's first, but no one knew what we had. I think it was bc of me, I've always liked hidden relationships. We barely ever talked, he'd call me, I went to his house, had sex, cuddled and left. It went for over a year and we have a kid together. He doesn't know :/ he cut me off when I left the country without telling him. He said it wasn't his, I was 15 so I was hurt and decided to never say a word to him. (14 yrs have passed)

So I created a fake fb account for my friend a few yrs ago and I added him there to see how he's doing.

One day all of a sudden he sent a message to the fake fb which is obv. fake...I replied and started talking to him. To this day he doesn't know it's me... I stopped texting since last year because it's soo weird. 😢 😢

He messaged me again a couple of months ago and I didn't reply. 😭

Wait..so you had a kid with him at 15 and didn't tell him? Or you told him after you bounced and he denied it?

So, I was pregnant when I left my home country, I didn't know I was. I found out a few months later when I was already here. doctors were surprised that I was 6 months preg. and didn't show at all.

I left the country without telling him I was leaving. 😢 I was moving forever.

I called him from here to tell him and he said " I don't think that's my kid, if it is then call me" but he was very upset.

I'm an Aqua and we cut people off easily, my heart was cold as ice.. I never called him. I don't think I even cried or hesitated. Also I was more worried about making sure my baby was healthy and also going through problems here with my family who were very supportive.

I also found out I had heart problems and got pneumonia as well during my pregnancy, I was very weak bc she was taking everything from me and I hadn't taken proper care.

So I had more important things to worry about.

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I totally understand, are you gonna break it to him though? That's heavy stuff.

I think capricorns are not difficult to be with. We are those with whom you can easily have happily every after. Provided you are not a problem yourself.

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Posted by Aerazo
I have a few Cap stories.

My first fwb and I when we were both 14-15.. we were each other's first, but no one knew what we had. I think it was bc of me, I've always liked hidden relationships. We barely ever talked, he'd call me, I went to his house, had sex, cuddled and left. It went for over a year and we have a kid together. He doesn't know :/ he cut me off when I left the country without telling him. He said it wasn't his, I was 15 so I was hurt and decided to never say a word to him. (14 yrs have passed)

So I created a fake fb account for my friend a few yrs ago and I added him there to see how he's doing.

One day all of a sudden he sent a message to the fake fb which is obv. fake...I replied and started talking to him. To this day he doesn't know it's me... I stopped texting since last year because it's soo weird. 😢 😢

He messaged me again a couple of months ago and I didn't reply. 😭

Wait..so you had a kid with him at 15 and didn't tell him? Or you told him after you bounced and he denied it?

So, I was pregnant when I left my home country, I didn't know I was. I found out a few months later when I was already here. doctors were surprised that I was 6 months preg. and didn't show at all.

I left the country without telling him I was leaving. 😢 I was moving forever.

I called him from here to tell him and he said " I don't think that's my kid, if it is then call me" but he was very upset.

I'm an Aqua and we cut people off easily, my heart was cold as ice.. I never called him. I don't think I even cried or hesitated. Also I was more worried about making sure my baby was healthy and also going through problems here with my family who were very supportive.

I also found out I had heart problems and got pneumonia as well during my pregnancy, I was very weak bc she was taking everything from me and I hadn't taken proper care.

So I had more important things to worry about.

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So that cap doesnt know he has a child with you ? He just knew you were pregnant but did he ever try to find out what happened ? I am sure you were hurt and i would also cut off from such a guy but here there is another life involved who has done nothing to be not aware of her father.. doesnt your child has a right to know about the father ?

Had my Capricorn 3 years long distance. Omg I couldn't ask for a better side kick! so grounded and there through everything and I mean everything. He always checks in by text or ph call even when he needs his space! Whenever I feel emotions bubbling he is there to ground me as harsh and blunt as he can be it centres me. I've never met anyone like him. He drives me nuts, challenges me but most of all my heart flutters to this day and I lose myself in him everytime we spend time together. Awww Sparks fly...he will always occupy a part of my heart ❤️

Posted by ScorpioTruth
In hindsight, I guess that ^^ might be part of the reason he's so persistent about getting married now.

Maybe he felt comfortable cheating because he thought I wouldn't leave him. Then when he realized that I would..... — Now he's trying to tie me down so I can't leave. Or am I thinking too far into this? Lol ok I'm going to bed foreal this time I'm exhausted ??

I dont think you are thinking too far. Cheating is not acceptable and yes possibly he wants to tie you down .

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I have a few Cap stories.

My first fwb and I when we were both 14-15.. we were each other's first, but no one knew what we had. I think it was bc of me, I've always liked hidden relationships. We barely ever talked, he'd call me, I went to his house, had sex, cuddled and left. It went for over a year and we have a kid together. He doesn't know :/ he cut me off when I left the country without telling him. He said it wasn't his, I was 15 so I was hurt and decided to never say a word to him. (14 yrs have passed)

So I created a fake fb account for my friend a few yrs ago and I added him there to see how he's doing.

One day all of a sudden he sent a message to the fake fb which is obv. fake...I replied and started talking to him. To this day he doesn't know it's me... I stopped texting since last year because it's soo weird. 😢 😢

He messaged me again a couple of months ago and I didn't reply. 😭

Wait..so you had a kid with him at 15 and didn't tell him? Or you told him after you bounced and he denied it?

So, I was pregnant when I left my home country, I didn't know I was. I found out a few months later when I was already here. doctors were surprised that I was 6 months preg. and didn't show at all.

I left the country without telling him I was leaving. 😢 I was moving forever.

I called him from here to tell him and he said " I don't think that's my kid, if it is then call me" but he was very upset.

I'm an Aqua and we cut people off easily, my heart was cold as ice.. I never called him. I don't think I even cried or hesitated. Also I was more worried about making sure my baby was healthy and also going through problems here with my family who were very supportive.

I also found out I had heart problems and got pneumonia as well during my pregnancy, I was very weak bc she was taking everything from me and I hadn't taken proper care.

So I had more important things to worry about.

So that cap doesnt know he has a child with you ? He just knew you were pregnant but did he ever try to find out what happened ? I am sure you were hurt and i would also cut off from such a guy but here there is another life involved who has done nothing to be not aware of her father.. doesnt your child has a right to know about the father ?

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He does know, he just never wanted to admit it.

His mom found out and for the first year his mom would go to my dad's house and he showed her pictures, and told her everything about my daughter. But then she stopped going and asking.

My friends who are still friends with him told him it was his and he never cared to ask more or talk to me. I think he just can't take responsibility.

He was a spoiled child growing up, he always got every thing he wanted, never really had to work for anything and had motorcycles and a car at 15, he liked to go out a lot and I probably even to this day he's not mature enough.

My daughter, she was raised by my ex since she was 3 months old (another cap) amazing father, so regardless if I tell her now or not he's still her father.

I do want to talk to her when she has the appropriate age to understand.

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Posted by ScorpioTruth
In hindsight, I guess that ^^ might be part of the reason he's so persistent about getting married now.

Maybe he felt comfortable cheating because he thought I wouldn't leave him. Then when he realized that I would..... — Now he's trying to tie me down so I can't leave. Or am I thinking too far into this? Lol ok I'm going to bed foreal this time I'm exhausted ??

I dont think you are thinking too far. Cheating is not acceptable and yes possibly he wants to tie you down .

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Caps are controlling, mostly if they know they fckd up and want to make it up to you.

My ex wanted to have another baby and marry me once I told him that I wanted to end the relationship. But...I reminded him of the many times he told me "I'm not that crazy to marry you".

So... why be with someone who even after 12 yrs together won't step up.

I'm not saying is your case, but IF you two are happy together then I'd say you should marry him.

Oh boy, a place to vent. I can't make any promises to keep it short on my end. But here goes nothing. But I do want to say a huge thanks to @Aerazo for being there to chat with when I was fully interested in this cap guy that sparked my interest like never before back then.

This was my story: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/capricorn-man-story-of-our-lives-the-hot-cold-episode--7653095/?p=3

I had "sorta" moved on. Had my fair of dates here & there and sadly none tickled my fancy like the cap guy has 😢

Yesterday the cap reaches out to me. Haven't chatted for 10 days. And he finally told me why he disappeared. It was career related and it was bad and it made sense because it connected to other statuses that I read from other people in his industry that were going through troubles and stress as well. He reached out to me in private messages because he screenshot my recent pic i posted and said "who is this beautiful girl?" I responded with; "That's the girl you said you've been trying to see for a while now". He laughed and said "you're right". He then says; that he wanted to ask me out tonight but it was too cold (20 degrees outside) so forget that. I said: "next time then who knows"

He then asked how I was doing. I was honestly stressed due to work and stuff. We ended having a convo on skype and I was making jokes like "wow, I had forgotten how you sounded like too. Been that long". We were laughing like as if time hadn't passed by. Throughout our convo, he would make "fresh" jokes here & there and I would just laugh. It's crazy how I still felt at ease joking with him like that but I'm not with other guys I'm getting to know. Maybe I'm not making enough effort with the Libra men that keep coming into my life but they're not crazy funny like the cap guy has been for me.

Throughout our convos we eventually hit the topic of sex and etc. We both were open to talk about anything without judgement. I always tell people I am getting to know, that I want you to trust me and tell me anything, I'm the last person to judge anyone. So we're just sharing random stories and so forth. He ended up talking about an embarrassing story about a female he had sex with. I asked how long ago was that? At first he seemed hesitant to respond for the first 2-3 seconds but then he responded honestly, he said 2 months ago. Now I'm not going to lie, it didn't hurt my feelings to hear that because I'm not his girl or anything and secondly this was during the time he sorta disappeared, but it also let me know that yes, he is living his single life and I wasn't the only female he was talking to, he just spending the most time with me on skype voice calls for 6-7 hours every other night when we were talking a lot back then (October-January 1). He had said that during his disappearance that he had thought of me a few times. Kind of hard for me to believe when he slept with someone else. However, I did appreciate his honesty, because he could've lied.

Do I think he may have had some interest in me? Maybe. He knew I was nowhere near "easy" and it's incredibly easy to tell that I am old-fashioned and "traditional" from a mile away but yet invested every free time he had back then to spend time with me thru skype. Clearly not the same as hanging out in person a lot but idk. Do I think he is ready for a relationship? Probably not. And that's just me being honest with myself in order to move on with life like I already was, only this time, I can move on with some peace and not look at my social media wondering things. If something physical were to happen between me & him later on in the future then it happens, but that would be my choice knowing that it would only be for fun/fling and that he can't give me what I really want at some point in time. But for now, I just wish him the best in life and if we just stay friends, then that would be cool too. Just weird that he continues to flirt and reach out to me when he knows he's not going to be "smashing" me anytime soon lol..

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If you feel like he is serious then I'd believe him, forget about the affair, I know is easy to say hard to do but stop bringing it up. Start a new chapter with him if that's what you want for yourself.

Also, just throwing this out there: He could be 100% sure that he wants to spend his life with you, but what about you? Are you sure you want to be with him? do you still love him?

As a partner of Caps I can tell you that we sometimes get exhausted of catching up to them. Making sure they are happy, always checking up to confirm they still love us, and for me, I lost myself in the process.

The process of being a good woman for him, taking care of our kids, the home, and I forgot about myself. Until one day I realized that I didn't love him anymore, and he didn't show that he loved me, so I needed to love myself and for that I had to leave him. Hard decision after 12 yrs together. He's a good man, I'm sure about that.

But when you know each other's weaknesses and you're hurt and blind, you hurt them back. and so on... 😢

He's never been a man of many words, he's the type that only says what he means and means what he says. So im inclined to believe that even HE believes that he's serious about marrying me. However he apparently had this lapse in judgement the first time. Whether it was because he thought I wouldn't find out or because he just didn't care. That's what I'm trying to figure out. If I knew in my heart that it wont happen again, i could easily forgive him and give him another chance. But I need to feel safe with him again, and i dont feel that anymore and have expressed that to him. The love is absolutely still there, but trust is another story.

There is not a doubt in my mind that i love him. Even in spite of all this, i still love him something fierce but wish that I didn't. Shit gets real after being with someone for 8 years and having a baby though. ( I know you know) I was also working night shift at the hospital and barely slept during the day so i could seee my baby. So there were times im sure he felt deprived. I nursed my son for 15 months of his life, when I wasn't working i had an infant latched on to me. Some days i didn't want to be touched, i just wanted to sleep. There was a time where i struggled with finding balance between being a good mom, good woman, clocking 12 hour shifts at the hospital and making time to take care of myself. I think our son is the only person I didn't neglect. I neglected myself as much as i neglected our relationship. I'm still working on finding that balance. Im not blaming myself for the affair, however there are things i could have done differently. When he said he didn't realize that i loved him this much until after our counseling session, this was the oly reason i could imagine he would feel that way.

I totally understand your point. Yes they aren't usually people of many words.

After being around so many caps (now I include a long time friend and mentor who is in love with me) I've realized that Caps sometimes don't believe that we love them.

They are insecure when it comes to trusting someone with their feelings, they test the waters, they will show you one thing here and there, but they hold back because they think we aren't gonna be there long enough. Also I believe this is the reason why they hurt us.

I talk to them a lot about feelings, and is what has helped me come to understand them.

All 4 caps I have and have had close to me have anger issues. They are short tempered and can't control it sometimes.. they can say hurtful things even when they don't mean to because they will speak what they feel in the moment of anger.

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@Aerazo You know us too well. Yes we can't trust that someone can love us. I don't know why but it is as it is. We can trust you with anything else but not emotions. Sometimes we can even block those to not feel a thing. We do want to open but we doubt you won't stay long. So better to hold back.

Anger issues are there and yes we speak what is on our mind during that time feeling guilty later to have said those things. But we do evolve and become more detached and do not feel angry.

We become more peaceful and livable.

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If you feel like he is serious then I'd believe him, forget about the affair, I know is easy to say hard to do but stop bringing it up. Start a new chapter with him if that's what you want for yourself.

Also, just throwing this out there: He could be 100% sure that he wants to spend his life with you, but what about you? Are you sure you want to be with him? do you still love him?

As a partner of Caps I can tell you that we sometimes get exhausted of catching up to them. Making sure they are happy, always checking up to confirm they still love us, and for me, I lost myself in the process.

The process of being a good woman for him, taking care of our kids, the home, and I forgot about myself. Until one day I realized that I didn't love him anymore, and he didn't show that he loved me, so I needed to love myself and for that I had to leave him. Hard decision after 12 yrs together. He's a good man, I'm sure about that.

But when you know each other's weaknesses and you're hurt and blind, you hurt them back. and so on... 😢

He's never been a man of many words, he's the type that only says what he means and means what he says. So im inclined to believe that even HE believes that he's serious about marrying me. However he apparently had this lapse in judgement the first time. Whether it was because he thought I wouldn't find out or because he just didn't care. That's what I'm trying to figure out. If I knew in my heart that it wont happen again, i could easily forgive him and give him another chance. But I need to feel safe with him again, and i dont feel that anymore and have expressed that to him. The love is absolutely still there, but trust is another story.

There is not a doubt in my mind that i love him. Even in spite of all this, i still love him something fierce but wish that I didn't. Shit gets real after being with someone for 8 years and having a baby though. ( I know you know) I was also working night shift at the hospital and barely slept during the day so i could seee my baby. So there were times im sure he felt deprived. I nursed my son for 15 months of his life, when I wasn't working i had an infant latched on to me. Some days i didn't want to be touched, i just wanted to sleep. There was a time where i struggled with finding balance between being a good mom, good woman, clocking 12 hour shifts at the hospital and making time to take care of myself. I think our son is the only person I didn't neglect. I neglected myself as much as i neglected our relationship. I'm still working on finding that balance. Im not blaming myself for the affair, however there are things i could have done differently. When he said he didn't realize that i loved him this much until after our counseling session, this was the oly reason i could imagine he would feel that way.

I totally understand your point. Yes they aren't usually people of many words.

After being around so many caps (now I include a long time friend and mentor who is in love with me) I've realized that Caps sometimes don't believe that we love them.

They are insecure when it comes to trusting someone with their feelings, they test the waters, they will show you one thing here and there, but they hold back because they think we aren't gonna be there long enough. Also I believe this is the reason why they hurt us.

I talk to them a lot about feelings, and is what has helped me come to understand them.

All 4 caps I have and have had close to me have anger issues. They are short tempered and can't control it sometimes.. they can say hurtful things even when they don't mean to because they will speak what they feel in the moment of anger.

@Aerazo You know us too well. Yes we can't trust that someone can love us. I don't know why but it is as it is. We can trust you with anything else but not emotions. Sometimes we can even block those to not feel a thing. We do want to open but we doubt you won't stay long. So better to hold back.

Anger issues are there and yes we speak what is on our mind during that time feeling guilty later to have said those things. But we do evolve and become more detached and do not feel angry.

We become more peaceful and livable.

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Those are things I started putting together on their personalities, they were so similar. When I realized they were all Caps I started getting more into astrology and relationships which is why I ended up on DXP! 🙂

I wanna do things the right way with this Cap, and by right way I mean, be able to understand him better. Otherwise I'd have left his butt in 2016. lol

I actually saw him today, he texted me since I was by his area (he knows my schedule) I stayed with him for an hour or so. 🙂 it had been a week

Posted by ScorpioTruth
I thought we came pretty damn close until he had the affair. Lol

Now after the affair and after I've left him he seems convinced that i am his happily ever after and wants to go ring shopping. What in the actual fuck? I thought Capricorns were logical and think things through? Knowing that, i find it difficult to believe him when he says it wont happen again and i am the one he wants to spend his life with. If that were true, why did it happen to begin with??

Thanks for allowing me to VENT. Sorry for not providing hope for the people. Lol

I really feel for you as you're torn between your head and your heart. I'd feel the same in your position. I can pretty much forgive anything but I can't forget and I don't think I would be the same in a relationship after the trust has gone but then I believe in 2nd chances too. You have time and you don't need to rush anything. Sending a virtual hug your way.

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In hindsight, I guess that ^^ might be part of the reason he's so persistent about getting married now.

Maybe he felt comfortable cheating because he thought I wouldn't leave him. Then when he realized that I would..... — Now he's trying to tie me down so I can't leave. Or am I thinking too far into this? Lol ok I'm going to bed foreal this time I'm exhausted ??

He could be in panic mode and yes thinking marriage is the answer to show his commitment. Seriously marriage would be the last thing on my mind after what he did.

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i love Capricorns, but y'all stress me. —?

Awww. There are plenty of great ways to work out stress 😉

Until you've dated a Capricorn man, you'll never understand what it's like to date one.

Sorry daron ?♥️

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I don't even know where to start about my CAP boyfriend. We are in a LDR because of current circumstances. You know the saying you can have chemistry but you need timing and timing is a bitch. That's how I feel lol I think I've met my soul mate but it's so difficult right now. He has a very high pressured job and his dad and sister are terminally ill. This has all progressed since we started dating. We both trust each other implicitly and he's told me things he's never told a soul so i know that means a lot coming from a cap.

Over 18 months he's slowly brought down all the walls and got to know the real him. There is nothing I don't know about his life and his past. Vice versa. We talk about the future together. We have so much in common. We can be serious and deep and at the same time silly and goofy. We talk about anything and everything. Then there's the sexual chemistry on top.

How do you guys deal in seriously stressful situations? I know all his family lean on him for support (he's the only male bar his dad). Recently he's gone so distant and I'll reach out and let him know I'm here if he needs me but he just disappears for a long period. Says his family need his full attention. I'm not even asking for his attention but it's as if he shuts down. Considering he has spoken to me about anything and everything I don't understand his mentality. I respect it but I don't understand it. It just feels like he's pushing me away. I know if i reach out he'll reply but then I don't want to bother him if he doesn't want to chat. He knows I will avoid that topic if he didn't want to talk about it.

I kind of understand. I can go distant and into an introvert when I'm feeling down and I don't talk to anyone about what's bothering me either but I would still be able to talk to him. Maybe I can just detach myself from feeling one thing, you know stick it in a box for now and come back to it later while I have pleasant conversations with others without thinking about the other stuff I have going on. Maybe caps can't do that.

I've been as patient as I can and accepted the fact that I'm not a priority right now but it just feels rubbish when he's so cold and distant.

That's my vent. Any insight into how your mind work would be much appreciated.

Is there any way you can go see him?

That's something I'd do. Try to be there to support him through this.

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Until you've dated a Capricorn man, you'll never understand what it's like to date one.

Sorry daron ?♥️

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Posted by Rindaroo
Completely stressful! What's with the always making plans for the future, with you, without you, and verbalizing it as if you're just thinking about it? Doesn't make for a happy Sag. Just saying.. and then you act all sweet, loving, caring for me like I never heard it. And you wonder why I hesitate, why I'm not jumping all over the commitment. Omg. Who said stressful?

Okay needed to vent apparently.

Jump in lol

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I thought we came pretty damn close until he had the affair. Lol

Now after the affair and after I've left him he seems convinced that i am his happily ever after and wants to go ring shopping. What in the actual fuck? I thought Capricorns were logical and think things through? Knowing that, i find it difficult to believe him when he says it wont happen again and i am the one he wants to spend his life with. If that were true, why did it happen to begin with??

Thanks for allowing me to VENT. Sorry for not providing hope for the people. Lol

I really feel for you as you're torn between your head and your heart. I'd feel the same in your position. I can pretty much forgive anything but I can't forget and I don't think I would be the same in a relationship after the trust has gone but then I believe in 2nd chances too. You have time and you don't need to rush anything. Sending a virtual hug your way.

Thanks lady. Yeah this is exactly where I'm at now. We just got out of our counseling session a couple hours ago. So emotionally draining but so necessary. She dug into our history and touched on my issues that resolved from my parents divorce and his issues of being molested by his babysitter when he was 7 years old, and the fact that his parents were never married and split when he was 5.

The counselor was really good about bringing these past demons to the forefront and how they are impacting our relationship today. Tears were shed on both sides. The only other time I've seen him cry was when our son was born and we heard his first cry. I couldn't help but to grab his hand and hold it. He's opened up to me before about his childhood, I was aware of everything he'd been through but he's never broken down and cried about it until today.

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sounds like this was helpful. I hope it continues 🙂

clearly I opened Pandora's box lol

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I know there is never a good excuse but I need to know the reason. Typical Scorpio probing... Lol

I'm the same way. Although with my ex, its clearly an answer I'm never gonna get.

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On another note. I'm having pizza tonight.

lol that cheesy goodness was calling your name haha!

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Until you've dated a Capricorn man, you'll never understand what it's like to date one.

Sorry daron ?♥️

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Don't be sad! You give great advice from your perspective. It's just I think that actually dating a Capricorn sign is very different than dating any other sign.

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I thought we came pretty damn close until he had the affair. Lol

Now after the affair and after I've left him he seems convinced that i am his happily ever after and wants to go ring shopping. What in the actual fuck? I thought Capricorns were logical and think things through? Knowing that, i find it difficult to believe him when he says it wont happen again and i am the one he wants to spend his life with. If that were true, why did it happen to begin with??

Thanks for allowing me to VENT. Sorry for not providing hope for the people. Lol

I really feel for you as you're torn between your head and your heart. I'd feel the same in your position. I can pretty much forgive anything but I can't forget and I don't think I would be the same in a relationship after the trust has gone but then I believe in 2nd chances too. You have time and you don't need to rush anything. Sending a virtual hug your way.

Thanks lady. Yeah this is exactly where I'm at now. We just got out of our counseling session a couple hours ago. So emotionally draining but so necessary. She dug into our history and touched on my issues that resolved from my parents divorce and his issues of being molested by his babysitter when he was 7 years old, and the fact that his parents were never married and split when he was 5.

The counselor was really good about bringing these past demons to the forefront and how they are impacting our relationship today. Tears were shed on both sides. The only other time I've seen him cry was when our son was born and we heard his first cry. I couldn't help but to grab his hand and hold it. He's opened up to me before about his childhood, I was aware of everything he'd been through but he's never broken down and cried about it until today.

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It's good that you are both seeking the help you need. Yes they are very good at looking at situations objectively. I hope over time you get the answers you are looking for.

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Until you've dated a Capricorn man, you'll never understand what it's like to date one.

Sorry daron ?♥️

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Don't be sad! You give great advice from your perspective. It's just I think that actually dating a Capricorn sign is very different than dating any other sign.

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How so? I see a lot of similarities with this Cap with an Aqua I dated.

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Until you've dated a Capricorn man, you'll never understand what it's like to date one.

Sorry daron ?♥️

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Don't be sad! You give great advice from your perspective. It's just I think that actually dating a Capricorn sign is very different than dating any other sign.

How so? I see a lot of similarities with this Cap with an Aqua I dated.

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His perspective is spot on. I'm saying it's harder for anyone to see a girls perspective when dating a Capricorn man because it's a different kind of experience. So ladies, if you've ever dated a Capricorn man, you have that knowledge of what it's like to date them. If you haven't, I think you're missing some pieces into truly understanding what it's like to date them. I still like the Capricorn sign and all their layers of depth. I'd date another one if the opportunity arose.

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Until you've dated a Capricorn man, you'll never understand what it's like to date one.

Sorry daron ?♥️

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Don't be sad! You give great advice from your perspective. It's just I think that actually dating a Capricorn sign is very different than dating any other sign.

How so? I see a lot of similarities with this Cap with an Aqua I dated.

His perspective is spot on. I'm saying it's harder for anyone to see a girls perspective when dating a Capricorn man because it's a different kind of experience. So ladies, if you've ever dated a Capricorn man, you have that knowledge of what it's like to date them. If you haven't, I think you're missing some pieces into truly understanding what it's like to date them. I still like the Capricorn sign and all their layers of depth. I'd date another one if the opportunity arose.

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I am dating one now, therefore, interested. I do see the straightforwardness Caps are known for, but that's all Earth signs including myself.

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Until you've dated a Capricorn man, you'll never understand what it's like to date one.

Sorry daron ?♥️

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Don't be sad! You give great advice from your perspective. It's just I think that actually dating a Capricorn sign is very different than dating any other sign.

How so? I see a lot of similarities with this Cap with an Aqua I dated.

His perspective is spot on. I'm saying it's harder for anyone to see a girls perspective when dating a Capricorn man because it's a different kind of experience. So ladies, if you've ever dated a Capricorn man, you have that knowledge of what it's like to date them. If you haven't, I think you're missing some pieces into truly understanding what it's like to date them. I still like the Capricorn sign and all their layers of depth. I'd date another one if the opportunity arose.

I am dating one now, therefore, interested. I do see the straightforwardness Caps are known for, but that's all Earth signs including myself.

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That's good to have that in common. Does he seem interested in you too?

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Posted by pinkbird03
Until you've dated a Capricorn man, you'll never understand what it's like to date one.

Sorry daron ?♥️

😢

Don't be sad! You give great advice from your perspective. It's just I think that actually dating a Capricorn sign is very different than dating any other sign.

How so? I see a lot of similarities with this Cap with an Aqua I dated.

His perspective is spot on. I'm saying it's harder for anyone to see a girls perspective when dating a Capricorn man because it's a different kind of experience. So ladies, if you've ever dated a Capricorn man, you have that knowledge of what it's like to date them. If you haven't, I think you're missing some pieces into truly understanding what it's like to date them. I still like the Capricorn sign and all their layers of depth. I'd date another one if the opportunity arose.

I am dating one now, therefore, interested. I do see the straightforwardness Caps are known for, but that's all Earth signs including myself.

That's good to have that in common. Does he seem interested in you too?

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Very much so. He has told me he likes me and telling everyone we are dating, I think it's his Aries moon. I told him I'd like to slow things down, however, and he was understanding and going at my pace. Says he will slow down as much as I like and there is no rush. But we are dating 🙂

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Until you've dated a Capricorn man, you'll never understand what it's like to date one.

Sorry daron ?♥️

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Don't be sad! You give great advice from your perspective. It's just I think that actually dating a Capricorn sign is very different than dating any other sign.

How so? I see a lot of similarities with this Cap with an Aqua I dated.

His perspective is spot on. I'm saying it's harder for anyone to see a girls perspective when dating a Capricorn man because it's a different kind of experience. So ladies, if you've ever dated a Capricorn man, you have that knowledge of what it's like to date them. If you haven't, I think you're missing some pieces into truly understanding what it's like to date them. I still like the Capricorn sign and all their layers of depth. I'd date another one if the opportunity arose.

I am dating one now, therefore, interested. I do see the straightforwardness Caps are known for, but that's all Earth signs including myself.

That's good to have that in common. Does he seem interested in you too?

Very much so. He has told me he likes me and telling everyone we are dating, I think it's his Aries moon. I told him I'd like to slow things down, however, and he was understanding and going at my pace. Says he will slow down as much as I like and there is no rush. But we are dating 🙂

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Happy for you! Good luck!?

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Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by daron76

Posted by pinkbird03
Until you've dated a Capricorn man, you'll never understand what it's like to date one.

Sorry daron ?♥️

😢

Don't be sad! You give great advice from your perspective. It's just I think that actually dating a Capricorn sign is very different than dating any other sign.

How so? I see a lot of similarities with this Cap with an Aqua I dated.

His perspective is spot on. I'm saying it's harder for anyone to see a girls perspective when dating a Capricorn man because it's a different kind of experience. So ladies, if you've ever dated a Capricorn man, you have that knowledge of what it's like to date them. If you haven't, I think you're missing some pieces into truly understanding what it's like to date them. I still like the Capricorn sign and all their layers of depth. I'd date another one if the opportunity arose.

I am dating one now, therefore, interested. I do see the straightforwardness Caps are known for, but that's all Earth signs including myself.

That's good to have that in common. Does he seem interested in you too?

Very much so. He has told me he likes me and telling everyone we are dating, I think it's his Aries moon. I told him I'd like to slow things down, however, and he was understanding and going at my pace. Says he will slow down as much as I like and there is no rush. But we are dating 🙂

Happy for you! Good luck!?

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Thank you!