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How long before moving in together?
Posted by littlenanobyteThose gem sun/Scorpio moon guys are pretty sweet and thoughtful.
My scorp moon gem is so sweet. He helps me out with things I don't like, like doing the dishes. Sometimes if I am still in bed, he will take my dog outside to go potty. He also likes to cook! I just love being at home with him. Watching movies and cooking together and playing games and shit.
God I am so annoying and lovey lately, it's gross, someone fucking slap me.
Posted by littlenanobyteNoo... not annoying!! This is so cute ??
My scorp moon gem is so sweet. He helps me out with things I don't like, like doing the dishes. Sometimes if I am still in bed, he will take my dog outside to go potty. He also likes to cook! I just love being at home with him. Watching movies and cooking together and playing games and shit.
God I am so annoying and lovey lately, it's gross, someone fucking slap me.
Posted by littlenanobyteYup, I'm totally the same way. Completely swept me off my feet. I can't help myself. He's been calling me Mrs. (his last name) so cute. OK, 3 month anniversary I'm gonna submit! I don't even like going home anymore, feels vacant.
My scorp moon gem is so sweet. He helps me out with things I don't like, like doing the dishes. Sometimes if I am still in bed, he will take my dog outside to go potty. He also likes to cook! I just love being at home with him. Watching movies and cooking together and playing games and shit.
God I am so annoying and lovey lately, it's gross, someone fucking slap me.
Posted by littlenanobyte
God I am so annoying and lovey lately, it's gross, someone fucking slap me.
OK, I guess I gotta make a list of things I need to be cool before moving in. I guess you're never totally prepared, but my gut is telling me it's gonna happen and my heart wants it but my head is telling me common sense to wait longer.
I've only lived with one man. We moved across country together 20 hours from my family. He was a very abusive Scorpio(even got a criminal record over it) who cheated and I spent 8 years with.
I learnt a lot and have made wise decisions from when I left 3 years ago, but it's enough to scare a person!!!
I've only lived with one man. We moved across country together 20 hours from my family. He was a very abusive Scorpio(even got a criminal record over it) who cheated and I spent 8 years with.
I learnt a lot and have made wise decisions from when I left 3 years ago, but it's enough to scare a person!!!
How exciting.
And yes trust your intuition.
He wants to move in already?
He must be very fond of you. 🙂
Where is his moon?
And yes trust your intuition.
He wants to move in already?
He must be very fond of you. 🙂
Where is his moon?
Well.......😛
Just bear in mind the dynamic can change when you live with someone
Be sure it is the best thing to do?
Good luck!
Just bear in mind the dynamic can change when you live with someone
Be sure it is the best thing to do?
Good luck!
His chart...
Sun Gemini
Moon Taurus
Mercury Cancer
Venus Taurus
Mars Gemini
Jupiter Cancer
Saturn Pisces
Uranus Virgo
Neptune Scorpio
Pluto Virgo
Lilith Pisces
Asc node Taurus
Thanks for the feedback guys, and I do listen to my gut and intuition more than I ever have, so it's time to start trusting myself dammit!! 🙂
Sun Gemini
Moon Taurus
Mercury Cancer
Venus Taurus
Mars Gemini
Jupiter Cancer
Saturn Pisces
Uranus Virgo
Neptune Scorpio
Pluto Virgo
Lilith Pisces
Asc node Taurus
Thanks for the feedback guys, and I do listen to my gut and intuition more than I ever have, so it's time to start trusting myself dammit!! 🙂
Posted by NotSoInstantI'm sorry to hear, I've had that be a factor before. Least you had a great time together. 🙂 Yeah so many things to consider outside of the "chart". That's where I like a little extra time to see and make sense of it all. There is that magical time where you just have a leap of faith and grow together along the way.Posted by taurusgoddess
His chart...
Sun Gemini
Moon Taurus
Mercury Cancer
Venus Taurus
Mars Gemini
Jupiter Cancer
Saturn Pisces
Uranus Virgo
Neptune Scorpio
Pluto Virgo
Lilith Pisces
Asc node Taurus
Thanks for the feedback guys, and I do listen to my gut and intuition more than I ever have, so it's time to start trusting myself dammit!! 🙂
I'm a Gem Sun, moon in Taurus female and I didnt take long to decide to be with my Taurus bf.... we sorta separated very recently because of inter faith... otherwise we were great together :-)
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Posted by TaurusinTexasAre you dating a Gem/Scorp? What's his Venus?Posted by littlenanobyteThose gem sun/Scorpio moon guys are pretty sweet and thoughtful.
My scorp moon gem is so sweet. He helps me out with things I don't like, like doing the dishes. Sometimes if I am still in bed, he will take my dog outside to go potty. He also likes to cook! I just love being at home with him. Watching movies and cooking together and playing games and shit.
God I am so annoying and lovey lately, it's gross, someone fucking slap me.click to expand
Posted by WateryGemTaurus Venus, Gemini Mercury, Taurus MarsPosted by TaurusinTexasAre you dating a Gem/Scorp? What's his Venus?Posted by littlenanobyteThose gem sun/Scorpio moon guys are pretty sweet and thoughtful.
My scorp moon gem is so sweet. He helps me out with things I don't like, like doing the dishes. Sometimes if I am still in bed, he will take my dog outside to go potty. He also likes to cook! I just love being at home with him. Watching movies and cooking together and playing games and shit.
God I am so annoying and lovey lately, it's gross, someone fucking slap me.
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My Gem told me last night we should start looking for a place. We've been together since October 2015.
I'm pretty adamant that we find a 2 bedroom or a 1 bedroom with a living room and den area so we can have a dedicated office space as we both work from home here and there. Pretty excited.
I'm pretty adamant that we find a 2 bedroom or a 1 bedroom with a living room and den area so we can have a dedicated office space as we both work from home here and there. Pretty excited.
Posted by Freetobe007I know what you mean, but I have been there almost everyday. I see how he eats, sleeps, cleans, and we're totally compatible, like a lot! Financially I am smarter but from when I met him to now, he's 100% loved what I've shown him and completely followed suit.
I would never move in with a guy until after one year minimum. For one, I take my living space very seriously and a clean, harmonious household is extremely important to me. If we don't mesh, I'm a picky pain in the ass to live with. ? I like the kitchen to be clean at all times because I'm constantly cooking so I need a dish free sink and clean counters to prep and I will nag tf out of a roomie who's a slob. ....
I am from christian home, so I was raised to save for marriage, however didn't! lol Either way, after one fail, I don't want to waste my time and living conditions with someone unless we have plans to marry. That is 1000% on his agenda, and I'm feeling it's true for me too.
I think my big thing too, is the independence. I'd be giving it up. That's my huge thing. Privacy. I am an artist outside my work and I love having my own space for that. He knows that and wants to make art room for me, but I'm not sure that's enough. MIght just be an excuse for myself scared to let go of my solo life. I know I love this man so much, that once I make this choice, there's NO turning back!!!
after one fail, meaning live with boyfriend fail! lol just to clarify
Posted by taurusgoddessI don't think six months is enough, I think the bare minimum is a year, and that is not always enough either. Ultimately, it is a question of whether you think you are ready (this is not the same as feeling ready). It is a rather serious decision.
Give me your feedback! My gem is begging me to move in. We spend pretty much everyday together...happily. I am just a slow moving bull.
Typically I think most people wait half a year?!! But sometimes you don't need to put numbers on things. My bestfriend gem moved in with her boyfriend (now husband) after 2 months. I guess it depends on the relationship, but give me your thoughts!
If you are into astrology, then you may want to hold off doing this until the second half of October. In short, until then, the stars are aligned in a way that makes people doubt their decisions and reexamine their relationships. You can use the time until then to strengthen your bond with him. 🙂
If you already spend most of your time together, it is not like you would be losing out on much by not moving in together right away. Once you do move in, though, even if it doesn't feel much different, responsibilities, finances and boundaries change significantly.
The above holds true for all, but especially if either of you is a Gemini. 😉
Thank Gombolom, that is some really sound advise.
Ahhh we're happy, so why change or rush anything? Keep the romance alive!
Ahhh we're happy, so why change or rush anything? Keep the romance alive!
Posted by taurusgoddess
Ahhh we're happy, so why change or rush anything? Keep the romance alive!
Exactly! If it ain't broke...
Just want to add that Geminis are known to like regular stimulation and novelty. I am not sure (Libra Sun here) if I am right about this but if I apply my logic (both my Sun and Moon are air signs), it would follow that taking things slow with a Gemini by intelligently dosing novelty and excitement is sound policy. Don't bombard him with heaps of excitement all at once, rather strategically sprinkle some here and there, just enough to make him want more, and always stay a bit of a mistery. You don't want his flame to burn out too quickly. 😉
Posted by taurusgoddessI am not a fan of going by other people's rules. I mean, where do they get their timelines from and who says they are right?
Give me your feedback! My gem is begging me to move in. We spend pretty much everyday together...happily. I am just a slow moving bull.
Typically I think most people wait half a year?!! But sometimes you don't need to put numbers on things. My bestfriend gem moved in with her boyfriend (now husband) after 2 months. I guess it depends on the relationship, but give me your thoughts!
My advice is to sleep over at his. Keep your place, but stay at his for a few months. See how you like it, then stay another few months. That way, you both will gain an understanding of what to expect and any obstacles (e.g. His place is too far from your work place) you may face.
Posted by LillyPetalThey might do that, but I don't think she needs to move to his place for months to get an idea of what life under the same roof would be like. That would be a little drastic. Moving pets, picking up mail, doing rounds to water plants... lots of complications. A week at a time should be more than enough.Posted by taurusgoddessI am not a fan of going by other people's rules. I mean, where do they get their timelines from and who says they are right?
Give me your feedback! My gem is begging me to move in. We spend pretty much everyday together...happily. I am just a slow moving bull.
Typically I think most people wait half a year?!! But sometimes you don't need to put numbers on things. My bestfriend gem moved in with her boyfriend (now husband) after 2 months. I guess it depends on the relationship, but give me your thoughts!
My advice is to sleep over at his. Keep your place, but stay at his for a few months. See how you like it, then stay another few months. That way, you both will gain an understanding of what to expect and any obstacles (e.g. His place is too far from your work place) you may face.click to expand
I think the real question doesn't hinge upon what life together would be like as much as on whether they are ready to give up freedom and personal space at this point and how likely it would be to have to move back out soon after given the relative youth of the relationship. In short, would it be too big a jump too soon, with too high a probability that moving in messes up a relationship that would otherwise have blossomed into a happy, lasting one. 😉
Posted by taurusgoddessAre you guys really that stupid?
Give me your feedback! My gem is begging me to move in. We spend pretty much everyday together...happily. I am just a slow moving bull.
Typically I think most people wait half a year?!! But sometimes you don't need to put numbers on things. My bestfriend gem moved in with her boyfriend (now husband) after 2 months. I guess it depends on the relationship, but give me your thoughts!
Do numbers matters for you before anything?
No, I am not moving until next month?
What?
I've met my husband 23 years ago.
Moved in in about few weeks after.
Still together
Are you looking for advise on your future from people who have no idea who you are and whom are you moving with?
Be real!
It's a stupid question!
Don't move if you have to ask here!!!
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https://dose.com/7-amazing-perks-of-moving-in-with-a-gemini-fbbfad76376d#.9hu2yh3qq
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Post your sign, and your significant other's as well...
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