Like in the beginning of dating...
How to get a Gemini to open up to you??
Posted by tizianiNo... I'm trying to connect with ? 🙂
Are you asking for manipulation? Because that would be bad 😐
Posted by tizianiAwe man ?Posted by MoonbutterJust yanking your chain.Posted by tizianiNo... I'm trying to connect with ? 🙂
Are you asking for manipulation? Because that would be bad 😐click to expand
With lots of patience... we need to think we can trust you, that you won't judge us or our most crazy thoughts and ideas.... and that you won't be patronizing when we show the vulnerable side.
When we see you are able to rationalize emotions with us... that whatever we tell you won't hurt you or won't upset you... i don't know how to explain... is like I first need to understand emotions, then I'll share them and if you show to understand then and me I'll feel actually excited about opening myself up to you more often...
But overall do not pressure a gem to do it... evil twin will snap out....
When we see you are able to rationalize emotions with us... that whatever we tell you won't hurt you or won't upset you... i don't know how to explain... is like I first need to understand emotions, then I'll share them and if you show to understand then and me I'll feel actually excited about opening myself up to you more often...
But overall do not pressure a gem to do it... evil twin will snap out....
With lots of patience... we need to think we can trust you, that you won't judge us or our most crazy thoughts and ideas.... and that you won't be patronizing when we show the vulnerable side.
When we see you are able to rationalize emotions with us... that whatever we tell you won't hurt you or won't upset you... i don't know how to explain... is like I first need to understand emotions, then I'll share them and if you show to understand then and me I'll feel actually excited about opening myself up to you more often...
But overall do not pressure a gem to do it... evil twin will snap out....
When we see you are able to rationalize emotions with us... that whatever we tell you won't hurt you or won't upset you... i don't know how to explain... is like I first need to understand emotions, then I'll share them and if you show to understand then and me I'll feel actually excited about opening myself up to you more often...
But overall do not pressure a gem to do it... evil twin will snap out....
Posted by TeteThanks Tete... I think I understand 🙂 is a Cancer able to rationalize emotions like a Gem though? That's the challenge... I think I fail in this regard because sometimes I do get emotional over something stupid ? Luckily my Gem is patient but he's probably thinking wtf? Is this doomed?
With lots of patience... we need to think we can trust you, that you won't judge us or our most crazy thoughts and ideas.... and that you won't be patronizing when we show the vulnerable side.
When we see you are able to rationalize emotions with us... that whatever we tell you won't hurt you or won't upset you... i don't know how to explain... is like I first need to understand emotions, then I'll share them and if you show to understand then and me I'll feel actually excited about opening myself up to you more often...
But overall do not pressure a gem to do it... evil twin will snap out....
I thought geminis wear their heart on their sleeves? I have not met a slow moving gemini yet. I think they know what they want very quickly. Well, just my experience.
Posted by whatisthisallaboutThis is not about a Gemini showing interest, it's about after that point and the initial stages of dating.
I thought geminis wear their heart on their sleeves? I have not met a slow moving gemini yet. I think they know what they want very quickly. Well, just my experience.
Posted by MoonbutterHmm...inital stages... every gemini I have gone on dates with asked me if I wanted to be their gf within 5 dates... =.=Posted by whatisthisallaboutThis is not about a Gemini showing interest, it's about after that point and the initial stages of dating.
I thought geminis wear their heart on their sleeves? I have not met a slow moving gemini yet. I think they know what they want very quickly. Well, just my experience.click to expand
I am sorry if I still misunderstood your question. I interpreted "opening up" as declaring their intention to be with you. I have not met one who's patient in love... sorry, maybe your gemin is just different from the ones I have met. =.=
Posted by whatisthisallaboutClearly.. I think different Gems. Yours sound young... I remember guys in their young 20s that's typical or over 40 I guess could be quick like that.Posted by MoonbutterHmm...inital stages... every gemini I have gone on dates with asked me if I wanted to be their gf within 5 dates... =.=Posted by whatisthisallaboutThis is not about a Gemini showing interest, it's about after that point and the initial stages of dating.
I thought geminis wear their heart on their sleeves? I have not met a slow moving gemini yet. I think they know what they want very quickly. Well, just my experience.
I am sorry if I still misunderstood your question. I interpreted "opening up" as declaring their intention to be with you. I have not met one who's patient in love... sorry, maybe your gemin is just different from the ones I met. =.=click to expand
Posted by aquanibSoo?
Aquanib was here.
Posted by LiveAndLoveThanks @ LiveandLove... I really like that it makes me feel better because I don't believe I'm fake or come off that way. Do you guys respond to vulnerability? The Gem I'm talking about has Cancer Venus and Pisces Moon btw.
I gravitate towards the genuine. I may not let on if if see through someone's shallow behavior or bs, but I will cut those people out of my life really fast if I sense they're not for real. We love honest down to earth people. Flaws and all. Just be real with us, that's all we really want.
Posted by Moonbutterthat's ture. almost all of them are in their 20s. I guess that's it.Posted by whatisthisallaboutClearly.. I think different Gems. Yours sound young... I remember guys in their young 20s that's typical or over 40 I guess could be quick like that.Posted by MoonbutterHmm...inital stages... every gemini I have gone on dates with asked me if I wanted to be their gf within 5 dates... =.=Posted by whatisthisallaboutThis is not about a Gemini showing interest, it's about after that point and the initial stages of dating.
I thought geminis wear their heart on their sleeves? I have not met a slow moving gemini yet. I think they know what they want very quickly. Well, just my experience.
I am sorry if I still misunderstood your question. I interpreted "opening up" as declaring their intention to be with you. I have not met one who's patient in love... sorry, maybe your gemin is just different from the ones I met. =.=click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterActually, best deep chat I normally have is with cancer females... and I'm always looking forward to chat whenever we met... I do find them sensible tho, BUT not in a bad way, just in a way I can't understand, sometimes I think about little things I wouldnt even see, but is so sweet!! I just adore cancers.Posted by TeteThanks Tete... I think I understand 🙂 is a Cancer able to rationalize emotions like a Gem though? That's the challenge... I think I fauil in this regard because sometimes I do get emotional over something stupid ? Luckily my Gem is patient but he's probably thinking wtf? Is this doomed?
With lots of patience... we need to think we can trust you, that you won't judge us or our most crazy thoughts and ideas.... and that you won't be patronizing when we show the vulnerable side.
When we see you are able to rationalize emotions with us... that whatever we tell you won't hurt you or won't upset you... i don't know how to explain... is like I first need to understand emotions, then I'll share them and if you show to understand then and me I'll feel actually excited about opening myself up to you more often...
But overall do not pressure a gem to do it... evil twin will snap out....click to expand
Doomed? Not at all, as someone said above, as long as you are being yourself, true we will dig you and we will keep on getting closer
Posted by TeteOk, thanks Tete that makes me feel a lot better. I think I'm feeling this Venus Retrograde pretty hard ? lolPosted by MoonbutterActually, best deep chat I normally have is with cancer females... and I'm always looking forward to chat whenever we met... I do find them sensible tho, BUT not in a bad way, just in a way I can't understand, sometimes I think about little things I wouldnt even see, but is so sweet!! I just adore cancers.Posted by TeteThanks Tete... I think I understand 🙂 is a Cancer able to rationalize emotions like a Gem though? That's the challenge... I think I fauil in this regard because sometimes I do get emotional over something stupid ? Luckily my Gem is patient but he's probably thinking wtf? Is this doomed?
With lots of patience... we need to think we can trust you, that you won't judge us or our most crazy thoughts and ideas.... and that you won't be patronizing when we show the vulnerable side.
When we see you are able to rationalize emotions with us... that whatever we tell you won't hurt you or won't upset you... i don't know how to explain... is like I first need to understand emotions, then I'll share them and if you show to understand then and me I'll feel actually excited about opening myself up to you more often...
But overall do not pressure a gem to do it... evil twin will snap out....
Doomed? Not at all, as someone said above, as long as you are being yourself, true we will dig you and we will keep on getting closer
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Posted by PootyButtHow can you fall in love in only a month or two?Posted by MoonbutterOlder Geminis fall just as quickly, in my experience. *shrugs* We're not unsure when we're in love UNLESS there is lack of reciprocation.Posted by whatisthisallaboutClearly.. I think different Gems. Yours sound young... I remember guys in their young 20s that's typical or over 40 I guess could be quick like that.Posted by MoonbutterHmm...inital stages... every gemini I have gone on dates with asked me if I wanted to be their gf within 5 dates... =.=Posted by whatisthisallaboutThis is not about a Gemini showing interest, it's about after that point and the initial stages of dating.
I thought geminis wear their heart on their sleeves? I have not met a slow moving gemini yet. I think they know what they want very quickly. Well, just my experience.
I am sorry if I still misunderstood your question. I interpreted "opening up" as declaring their intention to be with you. I have not met one who's patient in love... sorry, maybe your gemin is just different from the ones I met. =.=click to expand
Posted by LiveAndLoveOh man, I have no earth to ground me ?Posted by MoonbutterI respond, maybe too emotionally at times with my Aries Moon but my Taurus Venus and Mars keeps me grounded (usually).Posted by LiveAndLoveThanks @ LiveandLove... I really like that it makes me feel better because I don't believe I'm fake or come off that way. Do you guys respond to vulnerability? The Gem I'm talking about has Cancer Venus and Pisces Moon btw.
I gravitate towards the genuine. I may not let on if if see through someone's shallow behavior or bs, but I will cut those people out of my life really fast if I sense they're not for real. We love honest down to earth people. Flaws and all. Just be real with us, that's all we really want.
I don't have much experience with Cancer Venus, I think they have depth though. I think they feel things on a deepe level.
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Posted by PootyButtBut does it last?Posted by Moonbutter*shrugs* I don't know. That's just how it works with me. Four times in 40 years. The longest it took to know was about a month. The shortest was a day.Posted by PootyButtHow can you fall in love in only a month or two?Posted by MoonbutterOlder Geminis fall just as quickly, in my experience. *shrugs* We're not unsure when we're in love UNLESS there is lack of reciprocation.Posted by whatisthisallaboutClearly.. I think different Gems. Yours sound young... I remember guys in their young 20s that's typical or over 40 I guess could be quick like that.Posted by MoonbutterHmm...inital stages... every gemini I have gone on dates with asked me if I wanted to be their gf within 5 dates... =.=Posted by whatisthisallaboutThis is not about a Gemini showing interest, it's about after that point and the initial stages of dating.
I thought geminis wear their heart on their sleeves? I have not met a slow moving gemini yet. I think they know what they want very quickly. Well, just my experience.
I am sorry if I still misunderstood your question. I interpreted "opening up" as declaring their intention to be with you. I have not met one who's patient in love... sorry, maybe your gemin is just different from the ones I met. =.=click to expand
Posted by PootyButtInteresting? Sometimes I have a play by play of my ex sooo yeah love makes you do weird shit sometimes ?Posted by MoonbutterThe first time for about 3 years until he left me. The second left sooner, but I went to bed saying his name over and over at night for another 3 years until I met the third. With the third the love started to fall apart after about 10 years, but the relationship went on longer. The fourth, I don't know yet, because it's only been a year and a half.Posted by PootyButtBut does it last?Posted by Moonbutter*shrugs* I don't know. That's just how it works with me. Four times in 40 years. The longest it took to know was about a month. The shortest was a day.Posted by PootyButtHow can you fall in love in only a month or two?Posted by MoonbutterOlder Geminis fall just as quickly, in my experience. *shrugs* We're not unsure when we're in love UNLESS there is lack of reciprocation.Posted by whatisthisallaboutClearly.. I think different Gems. Yours sound young... I remember guys in their young 20s that's typical or over 40 I guess could be quick like that.Posted by MoonbutterHmm...inital stages... every gemini I have gone on dates with asked me if I wanted to be their gf within 5 dates... =.=Posted by whatisthisallaboutThis is not about a Gemini showing interest, it's about after that point and the initial stages of dating.
I thought geminis wear their heart on their sleeves? I have not met a slow moving gemini yet. I think they know what they want very quickly. Well, just my experience.
I am sorry if I still misunderstood your question. I interpreted "opening up" as declaring their intention to be with you. I have not met one who's patient in love... sorry, maybe your gemin is just different from the ones I met. =.=
So, yes, but not forever so far.
Edit: By the way, I know it's creepy as hell that I whispered his name at night. I was homesick in a new place where I knew absolutely no one, and the breakup was fresh when I started that little ritual. It stuck until I fell in love with someone else. It was like counting sheep.click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterI think u are right though... for the most part Gems know instantly if they are into someone or not. I don't really question whether this Gem is into me, it's more like I feel I need him to show and tell me his interest a little more even though I know he does in his own way.. if that makes sense ?Posted by PootyButtInteresting? Sometimes I have a play by play of my ex sooo yeah love makes you do weird shit sometimes ?Posted by MoonbutterThe first time for about 3 years until he left me. The second left sooner, but I went to bed saying his name over and over at night for another 3 years until I met the third. With the third the love started to fall apart after about 10 years, but the relationship went on longer. The fourth, I don't know yet, because it's only been a year and a half.Posted by PootyButtBut does it last?Posted by Moonbutter*shrugs* I don't know. That's just how it works with me. Four times in 40 years. The longest it took to know was about a month. The shortest was a day.Posted by PootyButtHow can you fall in love in only a month or two?Posted by MoonbutterOlder Geminis fall just as quickly, in my experience. *shrugs* We're not unsure when we're in love UNLESS there is lack of reciprocation.Posted by whatisthisallaboutClearly.. I think different Gems. Yours sound young... I remember guys in their young 20s that's typical or over 40 I guess could be quick like that.Posted by MoonbutterHmm...inital stages... every gemini I have gone on dates with asked me if I wanted to be their gf within 5 dates... =.=Posted by whatisthisallaboutThis is not about a Gemini showing interest, it's about after that point and the initial stages of dating.
I thought geminis wear their heart on their sleeves? I have not met a slow moving gemini yet. I think they know what they want very quickly. Well, just my experience.
I am sorry if I still misunderstood your question. I interpreted "opening up" as declaring their intention to be with you. I have not met one who's patient in love... sorry, maybe your gemin is just different from the ones I met. =.=
So, yes, but not forever so far.
Edit: By the way, I know it's creepy as hell that I whispered his name at night. I was homesick in a new place where I knew absolutely no one, and the breakup was fresh when I started that little ritual. It stuck until I fell in love with someone else. It was like counting sheep.click to expand
Posted by PootyButtYes, but it's helpful and I appreciate it thank you!Posted by MoonbutterAnyway, I don't know how useful this information is for you. I'm a woman, and Gem women seem to be built very differently than Gem men. I also have that fixed Taurus energy in Venus and rising. My behavior may be a combination of Gemini quickness and Taurus longevity.Posted by PootyButtInteresting? Sometimes I have a play by play of my ex sooo yeah love makes you do weird shit sometimes ?Posted by MoonbutterThe first time for about 3 years until he left me. The second left sooner, but I went to bed saying his name over and over at night for another 3 years until I met the third. With the third the love started to fall apart after about 10 years, but the relationship went on longer. The fourth, I don't know yet, because it's only been a year and a half.Posted by PootyButtBut does it last?Posted by Moonbutter*shrugs* I don't know. That's just how it works with me. Four times in 40 years. The longest it took to know was about a month. The shortest was a day.Posted by PootyButtHow can you fall in love in only a month or two?Posted by MoonbutterOlder Geminis fall just as quickly, in my experience. *shrugs* We're not unsure when we're in love UNLESS there is lack of reciprocation.Posted by whatisthisallaboutClearly.. I think different Gems. Yours sound young... I remember guys in their young 20s that's typical or over 40 I guess could be quick like that.Posted by MoonbutterHmm...inital stages... every gemini I have gone on dates with asked me if I wanted to be their gf within 5 dates... =.=Posted by whatisthisallaboutThis is not about a Gemini showing interest, it's about after that point and the initial stages of dating.
I thought geminis wear their heart on their sleeves? I have not met a slow moving gemini yet. I think they know what they want very quickly. Well, just my experience.
I am sorry if I still misunderstood your question. I interpreted "opening up" as declaring their intention to be with you. I have not met one who's patient in love... sorry, maybe your gemin is just different from the ones I met. =.=
So, yes, but not forever so far.
Edit: By the way, I know it's creepy as hell that I whispered his name at night. I was homesick in a new place where I knew absolutely no one, and the breakup was fresh when I started that little ritual. It stuck until I fell in love with someone else. It was like counting sheep.click to expand
In my experience Gemini takes time to open up. At first they are so carefree and independent and carefree, then out of nowhere, they can become extremely possessive and extremely jealous.
Don't @moonbutter
Let him come to you with anything.
Don't judge if you do he will be afraid to open up more.
Gems eventually open up as long as they feel sincerity and truth
🙂
You wont have a problem you seem pretty open minded and with that sag moon you got this in the bag.
Let the chemistry flow naturally~
Let him come to you with anything.
Don't judge if you do he will be afraid to open up more.
Gems eventually open up as long as they feel sincerity and truth
🙂
You wont have a problem you seem pretty open minded and with that sag moon you got this in the bag.
Let the chemistry flow naturally~
Posted by MoonbutterPosted by LiveAndLoveThanks @ LiveandLove... I really like that it makes me feel better because I don't believe I'm fake or come off that way. Do you guys respond to vulnerability? The Gem I'm talking about has Cancer Venus and Pisces Moon btw.
I gravitate towards the genuine. I may not let on if if see through someone's shallow behavior or bs, but I will cut those people out of my life really fast if I sense they're not for real. We love honest down to earth people. Flaws and all. Just be real with us, that's all we really want.click to expand
if he has water in those two placements like myself, openness and showing them you trust him with your secrets. I'm really drawn to someone that will be open to me 1st, in conversation. Ask good thoughtful questions that will make him feel cared for.
Posted by GoodtimesHaha I can see that... sometimes I sense a bit of that from him in a playful manner
In my experience Gemini takes time to open up. At first they are so carefree and independent and carefree, then out of nowhere, they can become extremely possessive and extremely jealous.
Posted by questionoflustquestionoftrustThanks! I'm just enjoying spending time with him and sometimes we talk about personal stuff but mostly tease and wrestle a lot — only thing is I don't want to scare him off about relationship talk if it might be too soon I'm trying to go with the flow but how do I know when he's at that point? I mean he's affectionate, we grocery shop and cook together sometimes, we go for walks... I dunno ??♀️ my gut says we are on the right track so I'm just going along with it I guess lol.
Don't @moonbutter
Let him come to you with anything.
Don't judge if you do he will be afraid to open up more.
Gems eventually open up as long as they feel sincerity and truth
🙂
You wont have a problem you seem pretty open minded and with that sag moon you got this in the bag.
Let the chemistry flow naturally~
Posted by LadyPootsAlotHmm I understand a bit... but yes, I'm interested in that kind of stuff. I feel crazy myself sometimes and an alien in society soo I can't judge ?
We have a lot of complex shit going on inside. It's hard to explain, and most people look at us like we're crazy when we try to explain. So, if you want to hear more, don't look at him like he's crazy. Don't ghost him. Don't treat him like you don't care what he thinks. Don't try to change him. Don't tell him the things he feels are invalid. Let him talk and be encouraging, and eventually he'll open up. Of course, you have to mean it. Don't let all his insides trickle out and then say "ew, that's nasty."
Posted by WateryGemPosted by MoonbutterPosted by LiveAndLoveThanks @ LiveandLove... I really like that it makes me feel better because I don't believe I'm fake or come off that way. Do you guys respond to vulnerability? The Gem I'm talking about has Cancer Venus and Pisces Moon btw.
I gravitate towards the genuine. I may not let on if if see through someone's shallow behavior or bs, but I will cut those people out of my life really fast if I sense they're not for real. We love honest down to earth people. Flaws and all. Just be real with us, that's all we really want.click to expand
if he has water in those two placements like myself, openness and showing them you trust him with your secrets. I'm really drawn to someone that will be open to me 1st, in conversation. Ask good thoughtful questions that will make him feel cared for.
Posted by TheTinManI feel like my Gem ex was the toughest after 4 years I still didn't get him ??♀️??♀️? but open up in what way? Like your dreams, fears, wants, passion?
it takes a whole lot to get me to open up. you'd have to work really hard at that as I'm a very shy one. it takes a lot of patience on your behalf. you'll be lucky to get me to talk. one thing you wouldn't want to do is try and get me to open up in public where there's lots of people around. in due time once we get together I will eventually start opening up. but that'll take days and maybe even months for that to happen. and once that happen, (considering you don't give up on me due to impatience), you can rest assure a date with me will no doubt be entertaining. its not easy trying to get a shy Gemini to open up. just speaking for myself of course.
Get them drunk.
The ones I know are playful and hardly serious but on occasion they'll dedicate time to have a deep talk if they trust you. Half the time you're joking around and then bam they're in their feelings.
I think there has to be an established friendship first before they'll open up. I love Geminis because they can be insightful and not quick to judge. Other times I get annoyed with one of my friends when I talk about serious things and he can't get on my level.
The ones I know are playful and hardly serious but on occasion they'll dedicate time to have a deep talk if they trust you. Half the time you're joking around and then bam they're in their feelings.
I think there has to be an established friendship first before they'll open up. I love Geminis because they can be insightful and not quick to judge. Other times I get annoyed with one of my friends when I talk about serious things and he can't get on my level.
Posted by TheTinManYeah... he said he had demons to work through. I don't think he liked himself much unfortunately?Posted by Moonbutteropen up in all those things you've mentioned and then some. only way I can really open up like that is I'd have to get to know you first then feel comfortable in your presence. yeah that takes time and patience. but after 4 years and you still don't get him, something's wrong. he's hiding something from you he doesn't want you to know. that's the impression I get.Posted by TheTinManI feel like my Gem ex was the toughest after 4 years I still didn't get him ??♀️??♀️? but open up in what way? Like your dreams, fears, wants, passion?
it takes a whole lot to get me to open up. you'd have to work really hard at that as I'm a very shy one. it takes a lot of patience on your behalf. you'll be lucky to get me to talk. one thing you wouldn't want to do is try and get me to open up in public where there's lots of people around. in due time once we get together I will eventually start opening up. but that'll take days and maybe even months for that to happen. and once that happen, (considering you don't give up on me due to impatience), you can rest assure a date with me will no doubt be entertaining. its not easy trying to get a shy Gemini to open up. just speaking for myself of course.
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Posted by libralotusYes, I love they do that too. I have a Gem friend like that but this guy... I just knew him for several months through work so we never really became friends first but it's kinda like now we are mixing that into dating I guess ??♀️ Lol
Get them drunk.
The ones I know are playful and hardly serious but on occasion they'll dedicate time to have a deep talk if they trust you. Half the time you're joking around and then bam they're in their feelings.
I think there has to be an established friendship first before they'll open up. I love Geminis because they can be insightful and not quick to judge. Other times I get annoyed with one of my friends when I talk about serious things and he can't get on my level.
Posted by tizianiYou want to steel her golden chain?Posted by MoonbutterJust yanking your chain.Posted by tizianiNo... I'm trying to connect with ? 🙂
Are you asking for manipulation? Because that would be bad 😐click to expand
Shame on you! Lol
Every Gemini I know won't shit up! Haha you're having problems with one opening up?!?!??♀️
Just keep talking to them. Then eventually they'll open up a bit. Ask them questions and keep talking to them.
Posted by heliumfiascoHaha well he talks a lot but I mean more personal things ... I don't think he minds it's just me I find it kinda awkward I guess.
Every Gemini I know won't shit up! Haha you're having problems with one opening up?!?!??♀️
Posted by ChuckcemYeah, that's what I'm doing... he's pretty open actually so I guess I'll just continue ?
Just keep talking to them. Then eventually they'll open up a bit. Ask them questions and keep talking to them.
Posted by MoonbutterPosted by WateryGemPosted by MoonbutterPosted by LiveAndLoveThanks @ LiveandLove... I really like that it makes me feel better because I don't believe I'm fake or come off that way. Do you guys respond to vulnerability? The Gem I'm talking about has Cancer Venus and Pisces Moon btw.
I gravitate towards the genuine. I may not let on if if see through someone's shallow behavior or bs, but I will cut those people out of my life really fast if I sense they're not for real. We love honest down to earth people. Flaws and all. Just be real with us, that's all we really want.click to expand
if he has water in those two placements like myself, openness and showing them you trust him with your secrets. I'm really drawn to someone that will be open to me 1st, in conversation. Ask good thoughtful questions that will make him feel cared for.
Posted by WateryGemPosted by MoonbutterPosted by WateryGemPosted by MoonbutterPosted by LiveAndLoveThanks @ LiveandLove... I really like that it makes me feel better because I don't believe I'm fake or come off that way. Do you guys respond to vulnerability? The Gem I'm talking about has Cancer Venus and Pisces Moon btw.
I gravitate towards the genuine. I may not let on if if see through someone's shallow behavior or bs, but I will cut those people out of my life really fast if I sense they're not for real. We love honest down to earth people. Flaws and all. Just be real with us, that's all we really want.click to expand
if he has water in those two placements like myself, openness and showing them you trust him with your secrets. I'm really drawn to someone that will be open to me 1st, in conversation. Ask good thoughtful questions that will make him feel cared for.
@Moonbutter I can't see your responses. :/
Posted by WateryGemI can't message you!!? ?
@Moonbutter I can't see your responses. :/
Getting to know us Gems take a while. Male or female, we need to trust someone a lot to be able to open up to them wholly. I think that initiating interesting or funny conversations is a good start, but we also want you to be honest about who you are instead of sending off mixed signals or being deceptive (otherwise, we will be deceptive towards you in return). We can see past anyone's flaws and accept you for who you are.
Posted by GruntysLairThanks for that ? The guy I'm seeing has Pisces Moon as well... I think at first we were navigating the mixed signals part(he has Cancer Venus) but now we both seem to be on the same page.
Getting to know us Gems take a while. Male or female, we need to trust someone a lot to be able to open up to them wholly. I think that initiating interesting or funny conversations is a good start, but we also want you to be honest about who you are instead of sending off mixed signals or being deceptive (otherwise, we will be deceptive towards you in return). We can see past anyone's flaws and accept you for who you are.
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.... followed by Leo (When the top 3 are in love, they forget about the ego. Leos would do anything for you except when it hurts their ego.)
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I hv a pretty interesting story. I hope you will enjoy it and give me some helpful feedback.
I currently work in a foreign country, of arabic origin. Im in a creative field and l hv a management position. My boss, who is younger with 6 years than me, is
So me and this Gemini are friends with benefits. Are gems prone, to catching feelings? We just started. While we were intimate he was extremely gentle and he even asked asked me if I was okay. And gave me a kiss and a hug. When I left.
Has another Valentine's Day come and passed without that special someone?
Are you a Libra Moon and tired of the long walk home after another hook up that didn't turn into relationship? Do you have Aries placements and keep on failing Anger Management c
***UPDATE: first of all thank you to everyone for their comments/thoughts on this topic which was posted seperately. This is a continuation to my other post which describes the story from the start.
I decided to take a 2 week trip around Europe for my
male and female responses pls
serious thread. as a double gem (Gemini moon and sun) do I come across like one? in your own view, how do I come across on these boards? now a lot of you knows me famously as miss everlynn and tbc. but for those new ones who don't know me let me introduce
Anyone can help me with interpretation of my chart? Some insight please
Planetary Positions
Planet Degree and Sign House
Sun 03°49' Gemini 1
Moon 03°17' Leo 4
Mercury 18°38' Taurus 12/1
Venus 19°38' Aries 12
Mars 19°42' Gemini 2
Bat sh*t crazy...
Give me your feedback! My gem is begging me to move in. We spend pretty much everyday together...happily. I am just a slow moving bull.
Typically I think most people wait half a year?!! But sometimes you don't need to put numbers on things. My bestfrie
Well to start off my gem or ex gem........I really like this woman.She believed I was being unfaithful to her.I wasn't.I showed her proof as in emails that were sent from a service representive that looked into my account.I emailed said company numerous t
What are your thoughts on this aspect?
I have gem moon in 8
He has gem moon in 5
Gems always come back .. Whether it's a friendship or relationship .. It never fails .. At least not with me
First off I'm a Sagittarius sun Aquarius moon, and my boyfriend is a Gemini sun Aquarius moon. If you want any other aspects just ask. Anyway, we haven't been together that long, about a year (on and off) but before our relationship started we were close
Libras, my question is, do you ladies think that it's best to be in a relationship with a Libra once she is older ? Closer to 30 ?
I know Gemini's aren't into being locked down lol but I'm starting to see the pattern with Libras too.
The three Libras I
A gemini ascendant