Are you charming

People say Libras are charming, but I don’t find that quality in myself, you?

Libra risings

Not really. I'm not a social butterfly but I can be flirtatious with some people. If you consider banter flirtation that is.

I’m told I am lol

Bursting 7th house may contribute

I’m also flirty …. 😄

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Not really. I'm not a social butterfly but I can be flirtatious with some people. If you consider banter flirtation that is.

Surely that would be flanter?

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Lol. Flanter it is then. What's the difference? 😅

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Not really. I'm not a social butterfly but I can be flirtatious with some people. If you consider banter flirtation that is.

Surely that would be flanter?

Lol. Flanter it is then. What's the difference? 😅

It's a fine line, but I think it's whether it's matey or there's an undercurrent of sexuality.

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Banter it is then. 🤣

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Not really. I'm not a social butterfly but I can be flirtatious with some people. If you consider banter flirtation that is.

Surely that would be flanter?

Lol. Flanter it is then. What's the difference? 😅

It's a fine line, but I think it's whether it's matey or there's an undercurrent of sexuality.

Banter it is then. 🤣

I think a lot of it is about intent. I did what I would call flanter with an Aries woman years ago.

I said it looked like she had RBF in the pictures she showed me on her phone.

She said I missed loads of bit shaving my face.

We were both laughing for ages. To an outsider it is mild insults, but it's all about the vibe.

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I thinks it's just some people's sense of humour. That's how it was with my aries ex. We threw "insults" at each other all the time. I feel an aries is probably the only sign I can continuously diss out insults on and they enjoy it instead. 🤣

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I didn’t see it in myself until people started pointing it out to me.. I didn’t recognize it as “charm” but people generally do like and feel comfortable with me right away which is helpful and important, because of my line of work as a nurse.

I’m not a libra sun but have libra stellium and Venus rising in my natal chart

Venus rising? You got venus conjuncting your Libra rising? If you do that should make you super charming.

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I didn’t see it in myself until people started pointing it out to me.. I didn’t recognize it as “charm” but people generally do like and feel comfortable with me right away which is helpful and important, because of my line of work as a nurse.

I’m not a libra sun but have libra stellium and Venus rising in my natal chart

Venus rising? You got venus conjuncting your Libra rising? If you do that should make you super charming.

Yeah my Venus is in high degree of Virgo and libra rising, jupiter and Saturn are all in low degrees of libra. They’re not exactly conjunct but on astro-charts.com under my chart aspects it does say Venus rising (probably since libra is Venusian and I have a stellium) so I had to look that up to see what it meant.

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Awe. I wanna say I got Lilith in very tight orbs in conjunction to my first house. I mean I am charming giving that my ascendant is in Libra but I feel more like an object of attraction to women's desire (1st house lilith) than a charmer.

Yeah…for those I want to charm - I am charming. Others - fuck no!

Libra I gave birth to - goofy but apparently charming because people stick with her since kindergarten.

Libras are cutties, not charming.

libras are charming but i think it's more coz they're usually agreeable and easy on the eyes. but they pick up on little things to turn on you then ostracize you socially for it when you get on their bad books.

so i think leos got them beat- warm, open and attentive. always makes you feel like you're on a date with them.

I agree. Leos' charm is more natural. I noticed how I can get tired and bored and annoyed with Libras' so-called charm and how Leos cannot make me tire with their ones. I like to watch how Libras see themselves and try to present themselves as queens, but as soon as Leos step into the spotlight, you will see who the true queen is and who had better be the queen's pages and be happy with it.

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so i think leos got them beat- warm, open and attentive. always makes you feel like you're on a date with them.

i've got mars in libra (1st).

i'd say that i'm polite but not charming. i'm awkard and impatient. at times, even cold and distant. but i recognize libra energies when they're trying to provoke (suns will gossip, moons will stir but mars will wait). do you know how crazy people look when they lose their minds and you sit still? leave a random lie and watch them hound. that's how you get to find out whoever's following you.

that's libra manipulation.

but i think it's fair when you're looking for trouble.

My readings say I can charm the birds out of the trees; but I don't think so. I can charm dogs and cats though. They really take to me. I don't find any of the zodiac signs charming.

I can tell you, what ever i think you want to hear, to get what i want.... but so can anyone.

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libras are charming but i think it's more coz they're usually agreeable and easy on the eyes. but they pick up on little things to turn on you then ostracize you socially for it when you get on their bad books.

so i think leos got them beat- warm, open and attentive. always makes you feel like you're on a date with them.

Might be different with Libra men, because I'm not attracted to men. I honestly don't see Libra women as being more physically attractive than any other sign.

Agreeable isn't attractive to me, but I'm weird. You need some level of agreeableness, but I won't lie conflict and challenge turns me on more.

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Fuuuuck! I miss Aries energy!

Same. Thinking what is so amazing about Libras? I must say my child is gorgeous but she is MY child and I have genes of that sort…and my mom gorgeous at 78 so…

However Cap was married to 2 Libras and both are hardly slightly attractive. More like…not.

So back to Aries…🤔…just kidding 😪

My Aries Father was extremely charming

Alpha male…quite commanding energy

My Grandad and Uncle were the same…they were Scorpio and Leo

All charismatic men …

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libras are charming but i think it's more coz they're usually agreeable and easy on the eyes. but they pick up on little things to turn on you then ostracize you socially for it when you get on their bad books.

so i think leos got them beat- warm, open and attentive. always makes you feel like you're on a date with them.

Might be different with Libra men, because I'm not attracted to men. I honestly don't see Libra women as being more physically attractive than any other sign.

Agreeable isn't attractive to me, but I'm weird. You need some level of agreeableness, but I won't lie conflict and challenge turns me on more.

Fuuuuck! I miss Aries energy!

Same. Thinking what is so amazing about Libras? I must say my child is gorgeous but she is MY child and I have genes of that sort…and my mom gorgeous at 78 so…

However Cap was married to 2 Libras and both are hardly slightly attractive. More like…not.

So back to Aries…🤔…just kidding 😪

Libra women I never meet or if I do neither of us are interested. I've got zero major air placements.

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But you good with Geminis…🤷‍♀️

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I agree. Leos' charm is more natural. I noticed how I can get tired and bored and annoyed with Libras' so-called charm and how Leos cannot make me tire with their ones. I like to watch how Libras see themselves and try to present themselves as queens, but as soon as Leos step into the spotlight, you will see who the true queen is and who would better be the queen's pages and be happy with it.

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so i think leos got them beat- warm, open and attentive. always makes you feel like you're on a date with them.

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I’m gonna say, not this Libra. I find most Leo’s annoying and I have a Leo moon. Leo suns are more charming and people tend to like them more than me, but I would not follow a Leo.

They often pretend to know more than they do, can’t admit wrong , and will follow a crowd if it means more praise. I had a Leo in my writing group that would wait for everyone to respond then summarize the best responses as if it was their idea. And if you say, I said that.. he would say “nope, that was me” it’s so ridiculous. I couldn’t ever see me personally being a follower to a Leo… absolutely not! Fire signs aren’t even practical to me.. earth maybe and even still I’m no one’s page

As someone who’s encountered too many Libras in my lifetime, they’re not charming. Then again I don’t usually ever find anyone charming. But I think the brooding, quiet Scorpio in the corner comes off more charming than a Libra. All air signs have this detached flair to them that I would not define as charming. Aquas do seem to be a little more quiet and brooding than the other signs tho. The thing about Libras is they come off generic and neutral. They naturally mirror other people hence their friendly, diplomatic characteristics but that isn’t what makes a person charming... If it does that’s pretty bland. Charming to me consists of riling something within the other person… perhaps a desire or a spark. It far from defines every friendly or agreeable person encountered.

My libra brother broke my bong on thanksgiving and I wasn't even mad. Now that is charm at work.

In a world where almost everyone wants to hear and believe the comfortable, pleasant lie, Libra is golden. Libra is agreeable and will tell you comfortable and pleasant lies to make you feel good and wanted and that is far more appreciated than those who tell you what you actually need to hear (the ugly truth). People who want to hear and can handle the truth are far and few.

Proof is in the sole fact that people celebrate life (beautiful lie) and abhor anything that remotely reminds them of death (ugly truth).

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In a world where almost everyone wants to hear and believe the comfortable, pleasant lie, Libra is golden. Libra is agreeable and will tell you comfortable and pleasant lies to make you feel good and wanted and that is far more appreciated than those who tell you what you actually need to hear (the ugly truth). People who want to hear and can handle the truth are far and few.

Proof is in the sole fact that people celebrate life (beautiful lie) and abhor anything that remotely reminds them of death (ugly truth).

Their detachedness can make it seem so disingenuous when they're trying to say the thing that will "make you happy". Almost like a robot. And if one thing doesn't work, certainly the opposite statement should work right?



If I plug in A, certainly that must produce B. Except that human emotions are certainly more subtle than that.

I appreciate Libra when they say Thank you, because they genuinely mean it from the bottom of their heart.

Oh I'm very charming in person. And I don't try to be but ppl latch on to me easily. I'm a quiet person so anything I say is a surprise to most. It's just that I got different shades to me. I didn't think I was charming until last year, at 34 lol but it's something I roll with now😎

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In a world where almost everyone wants to hear and believe the comfortable, pleasant lie, Libra is golden. Libra is agreeable and will tell you comfortable and pleasant lies to make you feel good and wanted and that is far more appreciated than those who tell you what you actually need to hear (the ugly truth). People who want to hear and can handle the truth are far and few.

Proof is in the sole fact that people celebrate life (beautiful lie) and abhor anything that remotely reminds them of death (ugly truth).

There's a saying I made up: Promise you the world and give fuck all.

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That’s duplicitous at its finest if I’m interpreting it appropriately.