
Vacation Queen
@saggurl88
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Posted by tctaap
maybe he thinks if he provides for you then he owns you


Posted by Black-Mamba
70 debts to the dollar. Stop asking questions and take that bag



Posted by nikkistar
When I was younger, I had no qualms about taking gifts or money.
They'd get mad cause they thought I owed them something, and I would laugh. Having no remorse or sympathy came in handy. I still don't feel bad about it either. If they were stupid enough to try, who was I to deny them thinking I could be bought when I couldn't. Jokes on you, idiot.


Posted by Black-Mamba
I used to hate on gold diggers but really they're the smart ones

Posted by LadyNeptune
Back page
Seeking arrangements
Every thirst trap on instagram
If your looking for advice on how to step up your sugar baby game start there. The cat ladies of dxp can't help you.

Posted by saggurl88Posted by nikkistar
When I was younger, I had no qualms about taking gifts or money.
They'd get mad cause they thought I owed them something, and I would laugh. Having no remorse or sympathy came in handy. I still don't feel bad about it either. If they were stupid enough to try, who was I to deny them thinking I could be bought when I couldn't. Jokes on you, idiot.
I need to get this type of mentality! He asked me who I banked with cause he was trying to gift me with money and I asked him why?? So weird. I didn't give him any info yet. I'm trying to figure out his angle.
This Venus retrograde is something else! 😆click to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by LadyNeptune
Back page
Seeking arrangements
Every thirst trap on instagram
If your looking for advice on how to step up your sugar baby game start there. The cat ladies of dxp can't help you.
Hahahaha
I need guilt free advice without putting out!click to expand


Posted by tiziani
they are using you so you decide if you want to use them back.
when it's mutual and both people are real about their motivations, it can be a respectful relationship.
but it's when one is delusional to their own greed (usually the buyer) then it's going to be a car crash waiting to happen.



Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by saggurl88Posted by LadyNeptune
Back page
Seeking arrangements
Every thirst trap on instagram
If your looking for advice on how to step up your sugar baby game start there. The cat ladies of dxp can't help you.
Hahahaha
I need guilt free advice without putting out!
Who said anything about putting out tho...
Sugar baby/daddy relationship doesn't have to include sex.
click to expand


Posted by nikkistarPosted by saggurl88Posted by nikkistar
When I was younger, I had no qualms about taking gifts or money.
They'd get mad cause they thought I owed them something, and I would laugh. Having no remorse or sympathy came in handy. I still don't feel bad about it either. If they were stupid enough to try, who was I to deny them thinking I could be bought when I couldn't. Jokes on you, idiot.
I need to get this type of mentality! He asked me who I banked with cause he was trying to gift me with money and I asked him why?? So weird. I didn't give him any info yet. I'm trying to figure out his angle.
This Venus retrograde is something else! 😆
Set up a venmo. Then you don't have to tell him your bank, and just send him a @saggurl88 on venmo.
Problem solved. lolclick to expand

Posted by tizianiPosted by saggurl88Posted by tiziani
they are using you so you decide if you want to use them back.
when it's mutual and both people are real about their motivations, it can be a respectful relationship.
but it's when one is delusional to their own greed (usually the buyer) then it's going to be a car crash waiting to happen.
I will see what happens with this friendship. I'm not good at accepting these types of gifts without being suspicious
hell you don't have to do it if you just don't feel like it.
but the mistake I use to make was feeling bad for them when really it was just me assuming.click to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by tctaap
maybe he thinks if he provides for you then he owns you
He doesn't even live in my city, we met in passing and now all the sudden he wants to try and spend time with me and pay for my bills. It's really weird to me and I'm suspicious lol
But I don't know how gold diggers get away with it. I keep trying to tell myself that he's just trying to be nice, but I'm not so sure!click to expand


Posted by saggurl88Posted by nikkistar
When I was younger, I had no qualms about taking gifts or money.
They'd get mad cause they thought I owed them something, and I would laugh. Having no remorse or sympathy came in handy. I still don't feel bad about it either. If they were stupid enough to try, who was I to deny them thinking I could be bought when I couldn't. Jokes on you, idiot.
I need to get this type of mentality! He asked me who I banked with cause he was trying to gift me with money and I asked him why?? So weird. I didn't give him any info yet. I'm trying to figure out his angle.
This Venus retrograde is something else! 😆click to expand

Posted by LaMadrina
Take it but be prepared for consequences. Nothing is free. I look every gift horse in the mouth. Behind it, usually creepy guys pretend to be concerned and want to help, but they are trying to bag you. That's why I maintain my independence. I don't need anything from anybody, especially when their motive is getting me in return.


Posted by saggurl88Posted by nikkistarPosted by saggurl88Posted by nikkistar
When I was younger, I had no qualms about taking gifts or money.
They'd get mad cause they thought I owed them something, and I would laugh. Having no remorse or sympathy came in handy. I still don't feel bad about it either. If they were stupid enough to try, who was I to deny them thinking I could be bought when I couldn't. Jokes on you, idiot.
I need to get this type of mentality! He asked me who I banked with cause he was trying to gift me with money and I asked him why?? So weird. I didn't give him any info yet. I'm trying to figure out his angle.
This Venus retrograde is something else! 😆
Set up a venmo. Then you don't have to tell him your bank, and just send him a @saggurl88 on venmo.
Problem solved. lol
I ain't setting up nothing that he can trace back here! 😆click to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by nikkistarPosted by saggurl88Posted by nikkistar
When I was younger, I had no qualms about taking gifts or money.
They'd get mad cause they thought I owed them something, and I would laugh. Having no remorse or sympathy came in handy. I still don't feel bad about it either. If they were stupid enough to try, who was I to deny them thinking I could be bought when I couldn't. Jokes on you, idiot.
I need to get this type of mentality! He asked me who I banked with cause he was trying to gift me with money and I asked him why?? So weird. I didn't give him any info yet. I'm trying to figure out his angle.
This Venus retrograde is something else! 😆
Set up a venmo. Then you don't have to tell him your bank, and just send him a @saggurl88 on venmo.
Problem solved. lol
I ain't setting up nothing that he can trace back here! 😆click to expand

Posted by tizianiPosted by saggurl88Posted by tizianiPosted by saggurl88Posted by tiziani
they are using you so you decide if you want to use them back.
when it's mutual and both people are real about their motivations, it can be a respectful relationship.
but it's when one is delusional to their own greed (usually the buyer) then it's going to be a car crash waiting to happen.
I will see what happens with this friendship. I'm not good at accepting these types of gifts without being suspicious
hell you don't have to do it if you just don't feel like it.
but the mistake I use to make was feeling bad for them when really it was just me assuming.
Were you paying or were they? He is a Libra btw 😆
Lol hell if i were older I'd consider it.
they paid for my partner's time. I don't have that kind of wealth to call myself a sugar daddy.click to expand


Posted by tctaapPosted by saggurl88Posted by nikkistarPosted by saggurl88Posted by nikkistar
When I was younger, I had no qualms about taking gifts or money.
They'd get mad cause they thought I owed them something, and I would laugh. Having no remorse or sympathy came in handy. I still don't feel bad about it either. If they were stupid enough to try, who was I to deny them thinking I could be bought when I couldn't. Jokes on you, idiot.
I need to get this type of mentality! He asked me who I banked with cause he was trying to gift me with money and I asked him why?? So weird. I didn't give him any info yet. I'm trying to figure out his angle.
This Venus retrograde is something else! 😆
Set up a venmo. Then you don't have to tell him your bank, and just send him a @saggurl88 on venmo.
Problem solved. lol
I ain't setting up nothing that he can trace back here! 😆
oh - you haven't even met him ? lol - gurl - don't get played !click to expand

Posted by nikkistarPosted by saggurl88Posted by nikkistarPosted by saggurl88Posted by nikkistar
When I was younger, I had no qualms about taking gifts or money.
They'd get mad cause they thought I owed them something, and I would laugh. Having no remorse or sympathy came in handy. I still don't feel bad about it either. If they were stupid enough to try, who was I to deny them thinking I could be bought when I couldn't. Jokes on you, idiot.
I need to get this type of mentality! He asked me who I banked with cause he was trying to gift me with money and I asked him why?? So weird. I didn't give him any info yet. I'm trying to figure out his angle.
This Venus retrograde is something else! 😆
Set up a venmo. Then you don't have to tell him your bank, and just send him a @saggurl88 on venmo.
Problem solved. lol
I ain't setting up nothing that he can trace back here! 😆
FIne, make it "TIGOLEBITTIES"click to expand

Posted by tctaap
is he from Nigeria ? lol

Posted by tizianiPosted by saggurl88Posted by tizianiPosted by saggurl88Posted by tizianiPosted by saggurl88Posted by tiziani
they are using you so you decide if you want to use them back.
when it's mutual and both people are real about their motivations, it can be a respectful relationship.
but it's when one is delusional to their own greed (usually the buyer) then it's going to be a car crash waiting to happen.
I will see what happens with this friendship. I'm not good at accepting these types of gifts without being suspicious
hell you don't have to do it if you just don't feel like it.
but the mistake I use to make was feeling bad for them when really it was just me assuming.
Were you paying or were they? He is a Libra btw 😆
Lol hell if i were older I'd consider it.
they paid for my partner's time. I don't have that kind of wealth to call myself a sugar daddy.
He's an older Libra and has a gem moon like yourself lol But he pretends that he's logical over emotions 😆 😆 (No diss to you!)
He said he's learned his lesson when dealing with life and women. He said he likes that I'm "one of the boys" and independent and not needy. I will see what he's talking about. I've already googled him, so I know he owns a few businesses. It's just weird for a man to want to pay for some company.
I do have a Venmo already lol
makes sense to me but like I said, I've never been in that position. the older I get the more it feels good to provide but im not sugar daddy level so can't comment from his pov.click to expand

Posted by LaMadrinaPosted by nikkistarPosted by saggurl88Posted by nikkistarPosted by saggurl88Posted by nikkistar
When I was younger, I had no qualms about taking gifts or money.
They'd get mad cause they thought I owed them something, and I would laugh. Having no remorse or sympathy came in handy. I still don't feel bad about it either. If they were stupid enough to try, who was I to deny them thinking I could be bought when I couldn't. Jokes on you, idiot.
I need to get this type of mentality! He asked me who I banked with cause he was trying to gift me with money and I asked him why?? So weird. I didn't give him any info yet. I'm trying to figure out his angle.
This Venus retrograde is something else! 😆
Set up a venmo. Then you don't have to tell him your bank, and just send him a @saggurl88 on venmo.
Problem solved. lol
I ain't setting up nothing that he can trace back here! 😆
FIne, make it "TIGOLEBITTIES"
You, Asian Chica. Explain this word. No comprehende.click to expand

Posted by tizianiPosted by saggurl88Posted by tizianiPosted by saggurl88Posted by tizianiPosted by saggurl88Posted by tizianiPosted by saggurl88Posted by tiziani
they are using you so you decide if you want to use them back.
when it's mutual and both people are real about their motivations, it can be a respectful relationship.
but it's when one is delusional to their own greed (usually the buyer) then it's going to be a car crash waiting to happen.
I will see what happens with this friendship. I'm not good at accepting these types of gifts without being suspicious
hell you don't have to do it if you just don't feel like it.
but the mistake I use to make was feeling bad for them when really it was just me assuming.
Were you paying or were they? He is a Libra btw 😆
Lol hell if i were older I'd consider it.
they paid for my partner's time. I don't have that kind of wealth to call myself a sugar daddy.
He's an older Libra and has a gem moon like yourself lol But he pretends that he's logical over emotions 😆 😆 (No diss to you!)
He said he's learned his lesson when dealing with life and women. He said he likes that I'm "one of the boys" and independent and not needy. I will see what he's talking about. I've already googled him, so I know he owns a few businesses. It's just weird for a man to want to pay for some company.
I do have a Venmo already lol
makes sense to me but like I said, I've never been in that position. the older I get the more it feels good to provide but im not sugar daddy level so can't comment from his pov.
This is actually reassuring if it is coming from a good place. He said that I'm hardworking and he's just trying to help.
I'm the one assuming the worst lol
the common things are
- they're looking to use you for something
- they don't want to take a risk that they cannot control
really just those two things, doesn't have to be good or bad. It's bad if they're oblivious to their own motivations, then forget it. And if you just plain don't want to get involved in an arrangement then forget it. Everything else is up to you.click to expand

Posted by saggurl88
How do gold diggers accept money from a person?
How do they get people to give/get them stuff?
There is a man that I just met that keeps trying to gift me with money and stuff and I keep asking him why he keeps trying to do this. It almost feels like light weight prostitution. 😆
I haven't taken anything from him because I keep asking him why he wants to help me so bad. (He asks about my monthly bills)
Do men really just enjoy giving money to females? I think he has an ulterior motive that I want nothing to do with 😢
So women or men with sugar mommas, how do you say "cash me out" when they offer—

Posted by Lionheart917Posted by saggurl88Posted by tctaap
is he from Nigeria ? lol
No he's a middle eastern businessman. I think that's even worse 😆
Most Mid East dudes I know are DOMclick to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by tctaap
maybe he thinks if he provides for you then he owns you
He doesn't even live in my city, we met in passing and now all the sudden he wants to try and spend time with me and pay for my bills. It's really weird to me and I'm suspicious lol
But I don't know how gold diggers get away with it. I keep trying to tell myself that he's just trying to be nice, but I'm not so sure!click to expand

Posted by LaMadrinaPosted by nikkistarPosted by saggurl88Posted by nikkistarPosted by saggurl88Posted by nikkistar
When I was younger, I had no qualms about taking gifts or money.
They'd get mad cause they thought I owed them something, and I would laugh. Having no remorse or sympathy came in handy. I still don't feel bad about it either. If they were stupid enough to try, who was I to deny them thinking I could be bought when I couldn't. Jokes on you, idiot.
I need to get this type of mentality! He asked me who I banked with cause he was trying to gift me with money and I asked him why?? So weird. I didn't give him any info yet. I'm trying to figure out his angle.
This Venus retrograde is something else! 😆
Set up a venmo. Then you don't have to tell him your bank, and just send him a @saggurl88 on venmo.
Problem solved. lol
I ain't setting up nothing that he can trace back here! 😆
FIne, make it "TIGOLEBITTIES"
You, Asian Chica. Explain this word. No comprehende.click to expand

Posted by Lionheart917Posted by saggurl88Posted by Lionheart917Posted by saggurl88Posted by tctaap
is he from Nigeria ? lol
No he's a middle eastern businessman. I think that's even worse 😆
Most Mid East dudes I know are DOM
What is DOM?
Dirty Ol Men lolclick to expand


Posted by justagirlPosted by saggurl88Posted by tctaap
maybe he thinks if he provides for you then he owns you
He doesn't even live in my city, we met in passing and now all the sudden he wants to try and spend time with me and pay for my bills. It's really weird to me and I'm suspicious lol
But I don't know how gold diggers get away with it. I keep trying to tell myself that he's just trying to be nice, but I'm not so sure!
HARD pass. girl you know he wants them tiddies.click to expand


Posted by nanobot
Take the money and feel nothing. Who cares? His choice.

Posted by Lionheart917Posted by saggurl88Posted by Lionheart917Posted by saggurl88Posted by Lionheart917Posted by saggurl88Posted by tctaap
is he from Nigeria ? lol
No he's a middle eastern businessman. I think that's even worse 😆
Most Mid East dudes I know are DOM
What is DOM?
Dirty Ol Men lol![]()
Expect booty sex for payback lolclick to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by justagirlPosted by saggurl88Posted by tctaap
maybe he thinks if he provides for you then he owns you
He doesn't even live in my city, we met in passing and now all the sudden he wants to try and spend time with me and pay for my bills. It's really weird to me and I'm suspicious lol
But I don't know how gold diggers get away with it. I keep trying to tell myself that he's just trying to be nice, but I'm not so sure!
HARD pass. girl you know he wants them tiddies.
That's exactly what I'm thinking lol
Men don't know I give it away for free if I like you! 😆 😛
click to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by tctaap
is he from Nigeria ? lol
No he's a middle eastern businessman. I think that's even worse 😆click to expand

Posted by tctaapPosted by saggurl88Posted by tctaap
is he from Nigeria ? lol
No he's a middle eastern businessman. I think that's even worse 😆
oh geez - that might be partly a cultural thing but as well, all the rest of this thread info applies lol not funny - be carefulclick to expand

Posted by Superman77
So much for the promotion of strong, independent women

Posted by nanobot
An important point I think of ssupes to bring up - Do you need the money?
I'm the opposite, I would never accept money or help when I could actually use it. Too proud lol

Posted by Superman77Posted by nanobotPosted by Superman77Posted by nanobotPosted by Superman77
So much for the promotion of strong, independent women
I fail to see how those are mutually exclusive
Do I need your money to pay my bills? No
Will I go hungry or struggle without it? No
Will I take your money if you insist on it? Yes
Lol. Why even do it if you don’t need it? It’s compromising your own integrity and worth. Plus, saving yourself from the eventual drama of the guy wanting more. It’s like leading someone on.
No, its compromising HIS integrity and worth. What does it say about him that he feels he needs to buy someone? Maybe I just like money and if he's insisting.... why wouldn't I take it? Would you take free money? I'm not responsible for his choices and behavior afterwards. He can deal with the ripple effect of his arrogance and stupidity. I don't carry that weight or consequential judgements. 0 fucks
Knowingly taking money from someone with no good intentions IS compromising your integrity.click to expand
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How do they get people to give/get them stuff?
There is a man that I just met that keeps trying to gift me with money and stuff and I keep asking him why he keeps trying to do this. It almost feels like light weight prostitution. 😆
I haven't taken anything from him because I keep asking him why he wants to help me so bad. (He asks about my monthly bills)
Do men really just enjoy giving money to females? I think he has an ulterior motive that I want nothing to do with 😢
So women or men with sugar mommas, how do you say "cash me out" when they offer—