Vacation Queen
@saggurl88
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Posted by lazybonesPosted by saggurl88
How do gold diggers accept money from a person?
How do they get people to give/get them stuff?
There is a man that I just met that keeps trying to gift me with money and stuff and I keep asking him why he keeps trying to do this. It almost feels like light weight prostitution. š
I haven't taken anything from him because I keep asking him why he wants to help me so bad. (He asks about my monthly bills)
Do men really just enjoy giving money to females? I think he has an ulterior motive that I want nothing to do with š¢
So women or men with sugar mommas, how do you say "cash me out" when they offerā
Just think of it as an exchangeclick to expand
Posted by Koni
Is this really worth it? What if he doesnāt get what he wants from you and decides to hurt you?
We are both grown and he is shorter than me! I think I can take him! š
Posted by Superman77Posted by saggurl88Posted by Superman77Posted by nanobotPosted by Superman77Posted by nanobotPosted by Superman77
So much for the promotion of strong, independent women
I fail to see how those are mutually exclusive
Do I need your money to pay my bills? No
Will I go hungry or struggle without it? No
Will I take your money if you insist on it? Yes
Lol. Why even do it if you donāt need it? Itās compromising your own integrity and worth. Plus, saving yourself from the eventual drama of the guy wanting more. Itās like leading someone on.
No, its compromising HIS integrity and worth. What does it say about him that he feels he needs to buy someone? Maybe I just like money and if he's insisting.... why wouldn't I take it? Would you take free money? I'm not responsible for his choices and behavior afterwards. He can deal with the ripple effect of his arrogance and stupidity. I don't carry that weight or consequential judgements. 0 fucks
Knowingly taking money from someone with no good intentions IS compromising your integrity.
huh? My good intentions would be to pay my bill
Pay your own bills. Live within your means and take care of yourselfclick to expand
This is why I was asking gold diggers for help! You are no help to me! š
Posted by KoniPosted by saggurl88Posted by Koni
Is this really worth it? What if he doesnāt get what he wants from you and decides to hurt you?
We are both grown and he is shorter than me! I think I can take him! š
Would you be able to take on a gun? Iām just sayinclick to expand
Itās not that serious. Lol.
Heās a Libra after all š
Posted by tizianiPosted by Superman77Posted by saggurl88Posted by Superman77Posted by nanobotPosted by Superman77Posted by nanobotPosted by Superman77
So much for the promotion of strong, independent women
I fail to see how those are mutually exclusive
Do I need your money to pay my bills? No
Will I go hungry or struggle without it? No
Will I take your money if you insist on it? Yes
Lol. Why even do it if you donāt need it? Itās compromising your own integrity and worth. Plus, saving yourself from the eventual drama of the guy wanting more. Itās like leading someone on.
No, its compromising HIS integrity and worth. What does it say about him that he feels he needs to buy someone? Maybe I just like money and if he's insisting.... why wouldn't I take it? Would you take free money? I'm not responsible for his choices and behavior afterwards. He can deal with the ripple effect of his arrogance and stupidity. I don't carry that weight or consequential judgements. 0 fucks
Knowingly taking money from someone with no good intentions IS compromising your integrity.
huh? My good intentions would be to pay my bill
Pay your own bills. Live within your means and take care of yourself
She already does do that.click to expand
Thank you sugar daddy ššš š
I find it ironic that some are up in arms about women taking money from people, and assuming they aren't independent or strong.
Here's the problem with all humans, we are all shit people in different forms. We all do fucked up shit, just some own it more than others. People don't gift other people for "free". There is ALWAYS some sort of expectation out of it. Either it's in the form of validation by being a gifter, and it really is about you making yourself happy more than it is about the receiver getting the gift. Or the gifter thinks it will bridge a means of the receiver being more prone to giving them sexual favors.
In both scenarios, I don't have give a shit about the gifter, or how my taking advantage of their behavior is my worry. They made the decision to try an manipulate me with material and monetary gifts, and I decided to accept and say "don't owe you shit, a gift is a gift".
I don't need their money to pay my bills, or my way in life. But I have enough of bendable moral compass to take their gifts and not feel a god damn thing about it. Because the gift, wasn't in pure intentions from the start.
Here's the problem with all humans, we are all shit people in different forms. We all do fucked up shit, just some own it more than others. People don't gift other people for "free". There is ALWAYS some sort of expectation out of it. Either it's in the form of validation by being a gifter, and it really is about you making yourself happy more than it is about the receiver getting the gift. Or the gifter thinks it will bridge a means of the receiver being more prone to giving them sexual favors.
In both scenarios, I don't have give a shit about the gifter, or how my taking advantage of their behavior is my worry. They made the decision to try an manipulate me with material and monetary gifts, and I decided to accept and say "don't owe you shit, a gift is a gift".
I don't need their money to pay my bills, or my way in life. But I have enough of bendable moral compass to take their gifts and not feel a god damn thing about it. Because the gift, wasn't in pure intentions from the start.
So far itās all rhetoric. When he puts his money where his mouth is, then Iāll believe it. Heās trying to impress you. Some men are so insecure that this is the only way they feel like they can woo you. But thereās an ultimate goal believe that.
Back in the day I had no qualms with this. Had a few guys take me āshoppingā on a first date lol. But the older I got, the better I understood that nothing in lifeās free. The energy your giving off is your not comfortable in this exchange and it will haunt you, so if your not the type that can take freely and not look back then donāt even bother.
Back in the day I had no qualms with this. Had a few guys take me āshoppingā on a first date lol. But the older I got, the better I understood that nothing in lifeās free. The energy your giving off is your not comfortable in this exchange and it will haunt you, so if your not the type that can take freely and not look back then donāt even bother.
Posted by Superman77Posted by Cappadonna
So far itās all rhetoric. When he puts his money where his mouth is, then Iāll believe it. Heās trying to impress you. Some men are so insecure that this is the only way they feel like they can woo you. But thereās an ultimate goal believe that.
Back in the day I had no qualms with this. Had a few guys take me āshoppingā on a first date lol. But the older I got, the better I understood that nothing in lifeās free. The energy your giving off is your not comfortable in this exchange and it will haunt you, so if your not the type that can take freely and not look back then donāt even bother.
Why put yourself in that situation to begin with! Just makes your value in otherās thoughts go down. Then, people lose respect for you.click to expand
Some of us, give no fucks about what strangers on the internet think about us. And don't hide the fact that we had flaws when younger.
We don't need validation to present a "picture perfect" replica of what we really are. Flawed people, that make better choices for ourselves when older.
I give zero fucks if people "lose respect" for me for talking about my past behaviors. There are worse things in this world to be then to be a gold digger in your past. Moms that are crack whores, that foster their children off on other people. Dead beat dads that don't pay child support. Women and men that beat their spouse. Etc... Now those are people I wouldn't respect.
Posted by Superman77Posted by Cappadonna
So far itās all rhetoric. When he puts his money where his mouth is, then Iāll believe it. Heās trying to impress you. Some men are so insecure that this is the only way they feel like they can woo you. But thereās an ultimate goal believe that.
Back in the day I had no qualms with this. Had a few guys take me āshoppingā on a first date lol. But the older I got, the better I understood that nothing in lifeās free. The energy your giving off is your not comfortable in this exchange and it will haunt you, so if your not the type that can take freely and not look back then donāt even bother.
Why put yourself in that situation to begin with! Just makes your value in otherās thoughts go down. Then, people lose respect for you.click to expand
No they don't. Who would know? This is something that is between 2 people, and this man is obviously used to paying his way around No's.
He was nice to begin with but he is trying to impress me. So I will see if he's respectful about it or not.
Or see if I want to start a brothel of 1 at my age š
Posted by tizianiPosted by nikkistarPosted by Superman77Posted by Cappadonna
So far itās all rhetoric. When he puts his money where his mouth is, then Iāll believe it. Heās trying to impress you. Some men are so insecure that this is the only way they feel like they can woo you. But thereās an ultimate goal believe that.
Back in the day I had no qualms with this. Had a few guys take me āshoppingā on a first date lol. But the older I got, the better I understood that nothing in lifeās free. The energy your giving off is your not comfortable in this exchange and it will haunt you, so if your not the type that can take freely and not look back then donāt even bother.
Why put yourself in that situation to begin with! Just makes your value in otherās thoughts go down. Then, people lose respect for you.
Some of us, give no fucks about what strangers on the internet think about us. And don't hide the fact that we had flaws when younger.
We don't need validation to present a "picture perfect" replica of what we really are. Flawed people, that make better choices for ourselves when older.
I give zero fucks if people "lose respect" for me for talking about my past behaviors. There are worse things in this world to be then to be a gold digger in your past. Moms that are crack whores, that foster their children off on other people. Dead beat dads that don't pay child support. Women and men that beat their spouse. Etc... Now those are people I wouldn't respect.
Right? there are just some kinds of respect that, if I lose it over trivial shit, it was never worth having that respect in the first place.
And I cannot count on my hands or feet how many people i've met that are 50 60+ years old and don't care about any of this. They just say man when I was young, I wish I'd made the most of it. They're not sitting there saying hey remember that one time you had a sugar daddy, well im mad about that and you can't sit with us in the old people's home.click to expand
Mannn I could tell you some stories about the shit I hear from these old fookers.
Posted by Superman77Posted by saggurl88Posted by Superman77Posted by Cappadonna
So far itās all rhetoric. When he puts his money where his mouth is, then Iāll believe it. Heās trying to impress you. Some men are so insecure that this is the only way they feel like they can woo you. But thereās an ultimate goal believe that.
Back in the day I had no qualms with this. Had a few guys take me āshoppingā on a first date lol. But the older I got, the better I understood that nothing in lifeās free. The energy your giving off is your not comfortable in this exchange and it will haunt you, so if your not the type that can take freely and not look back then donāt even bother.
Why put yourself in that situation to begin with! Just makes your value in otherās thoughts go down. Then, people lose respect for you.
No they don't. Who would know? This is something that is between 2 people, and this man is obviously used to paying his way around No's.
He was nice to begin with but he is trying to impress me. So I will see if he's respectful about it or not.
Or see if I want to start a brothel of 1 at my age š
Coolclick to expand
Posted by tizianiPosted by justagirlPosted by tizianiPosted by nikkistarPosted by Superman77Posted by Cappadonna
So far itās all rhetoric. When he puts his money where his mouth is, then Iāll believe it. Heās trying to impress you. Some men are so insecure that this is the only way they feel like they can woo you. But thereās an ultimate goal believe that.
Back in the day I had no qualms with this. Had a few guys take me āshoppingā on a first date lol. But the older I got, the better I understood that nothing in lifeās free. The energy your giving off is your not comfortable in this exchange and it will haunt you, so if your not the type that can take freely and not look back then donāt even bother.
Why put yourself in that situation to begin with! Just makes your value in otherās thoughts go down. Then, people lose respect for you.
Some of us, give no fucks about what strangers on the internet think about us. And don't hide the fact that we had flaws when younger.
We don't need validation to present a "picture perfect" replica of what we really are. Flawed people, that make better choices for ourselves when older.
I give zero fucks if people "lose respect" for me for talking about my past behaviors. There are worse things in this world to be then to be a gold digger in your past. Moms that are crack whores, that foster their children off on other people. Dead beat dads that don't pay child support. Women and men that beat their spouse. Etc... Now those are people I wouldn't respect.
Right? there are just some kinds of respect that, if I lose it over trivial shit, it was never worth having that respect in the first place.
And I cannot count on my hands or feet how many people i've met that are 50 60+ years old and don't care about any of this. They just say man when I was young, I wish I'd made the most of it. They're not sitting there saying hey remember that one time you had a sugar daddy, well im mad about that and you can't sit with us in the old people's home.
Mannn I could tell you some stories about the shit I hear from these old fookers.
I bet you could, Vegas!click to expand
Best advise I got.. Think of it as if you only have this moment in life, make the most of it. Whatever happens: Good, bad or indifferent, it's how you handle it that makes your life what it is.
Posted by Superman77Posted by nikkistarPosted by Superman77Posted by Cappadonna
So far itās all rhetoric. When he puts his money where his mouth is, then Iāll believe it. Heās trying to impress you. Some men are so insecure that this is the only way they feel like they can woo you. But thereās an ultimate goal believe that.
Back in the day I had no qualms with this. Had a few guys take me āshoppingā on a first date lol. But the older I got, the better I understood that nothing in lifeās free. The energy your giving off is your not comfortable in this exchange and it will haunt you, so if your not the type that can take freely and not look back then donāt even bother.
Why put yourself in that situation to begin with! Just makes your value in otherās thoughts go down. Then, people lose respect for you.
Some of us, give no fucks about what strangers on the internet think about us. And don't hide the fact that we had flaws when younger.
We don't need validation to present a "picture perfect" replica of what we really are. Flawed people, that make better choices for ourselves when older.
I give zero fucks if people "lose respect" for me for talking about my past behaviors. There are worse things in this world to be then to be a gold digger in your past. Moms that are crack whores, that foster their children off on other people. Dead beat dads that don't pay child support. Women and men that beat their spouse. Etc... Now those are people I wouldn't respect.
Lol. Iām all for getting acts together. Whatās wrong with trying to help someone now? Help them avoid to possibility of looking back and being ashamed or being hard on themselves because they didnāt do it on their own? Iām not judging anyone and I have no problem with whatever sheās doing. I just know people who have done this and it never ends well. Eventually the money stops and the life style will either balance or they start compromising with those āflexible moralsāclick to expand
Help them with what? You're own sense of integrity?
You started judging the minute you stated "Just makes your value in otherās thoughts go down. Then, people lose respect for you."
I don't see what I did when younger as a mistake. I made the most of it. Do I do it now? No, because I make the choice not to, it no longer has the "fun" aspect I got from doing it. But could I do it again? Sure, I could. Easily. And I would still not give a shit if I did either.
It is what it is. My flexible moral compass is fine with that, because like @tiziani said, this stuff is trivial at best in the grand scheme of human shittiness.
Posted by DeadInside
great i want that moncler jacket and that diesel sofa ill send you that with my adress thx.
PM me your address
But the way my bank account is set up, you will get clothes and furniture for a dolls house only! But it will be top notch! š
Posted by justagirlPosted by tizianiPosted by justagirlPosted by tizianiPosted by nikkistarPosted by Superman77Posted by Cappadonna
So far itās all rhetoric. When he puts his money where his mouth is, then Iāll believe it. Heās trying to impress you. Some men are so insecure that this is the only way they feel like they can woo you. But thereās an ultimate goal believe that.
Back in the day I had no qualms with this. Had a few guys take me āshoppingā on a first date lol. But the older I got, the better I understood that nothing in lifeās free. The energy your giving off is your not comfortable in this exchange and it will haunt you, so if your not the type that can take freely and not look back then donāt even bother.
Why put yourself in that situation to begin with! Just makes your value in otherās thoughts go down. Then, people lose respect for you.
Some of us, give no fucks about what strangers on the internet think about us. And don't hide the fact that we had flaws when younger.
We don't need validation to present a "picture perfect" replica of what we really are. Flawed people, that make better choices for ourselves when older.
I give zero fucks if people "lose respect" for me for talking about my past behaviors. There are worse things in this world to be then to be a gold digger in your past. Moms that are crack whores, that foster their children off on other people. Dead beat dads that don't pay child support. Women and men that beat their spouse. Etc... Now those are people I wouldn't respect.
Right? there are just some kinds of respect that, if I lose it over trivial shit, it was never worth having that respect in the first place.
And I cannot count on my hands or feet how many people i've met that are 50 60+ years old and don't care about any of this. They just say man when I was young, I wish I'd made the most of it. They're not sitting there saying hey remember that one time you had a sugar daddy, well im mad about that and you can't sit with us in the old people's home.
Mannn I could tell you some stories about the shit I hear from these old fookers.
I bet you could, Vegas!
Best advise I got.. Think of it as if you only have this moment in life, make the most of it. Whatever happens: Good, bad or indifferent, it's how you handle it that makes your life what it is.click to expand
YUP!!! This is great!
Posted by Superman77Posted by nikkistarPosted by Superman77Posted by nikkistarPosted by Superman77Posted by Cappadonna
So far itās all rhetoric. When he puts his money where his mouth is, then Iāll believe it. Heās trying to impress you. Some men are so insecure that this is the only way they feel like they can woo you. But thereās an ultimate goal believe that.
Back in the day I had no qualms with this. Had a few guys take me āshoppingā on a first date lol. But the older I got, the better I understood that nothing in lifeās free. The energy your giving off is your not comfortable in this exchange and it will haunt you, so if your not the type that can take freely and not look back then donāt even bother.
Why put yourself in that situation to begin with! Just makes your value in otherās thoughts go down. Then, people lose respect for you.
Some of us, give no fucks about what strangers on the internet think about us. And don't hide the fact that we had flaws when younger.
We don't need validation to present a "picture perfect" replica of what we really are. Flawed people, that make better choices for ourselves when older.
I give zero fucks if people "lose respect" for me for talking about my past behaviors. There are worse things in this world to be then to be a gold digger in your past. Moms that are crack whores, that foster their children off on other people. Dead beat dads that don't pay child support. Women and men that beat their spouse. Etc... Now those are people I wouldn't respect.
Lol. Iām all for getting acts together. Whatās wrong with trying to help someone now? Help them avoid to possibility of looking back and being ashamed or being hard on themselves because they didnāt do it on their own? Iām not judging anyone and I have no problem with whatever sheās doing. I just know people who have done this and it never ends well. Eventually the money stops and the life style will either balance or they start compromising with those āflexible moralsā
Help them with what? You're own sense of integrity?
You started judging the minute you stated "Just makes your value in otherās thoughts go down. Then, people lose respect for you."
I don't see what I did when younger as a mistake. I made the most of it. Do I do it now? No, because I make the choice not to, it no longer has the "fun" aspect I got from doing it. But could I do it again? Sure, I could. Easily. And I would still not give a shit if I did either.
It is what it is. My flexible moral compass is fine with that, because like @tiziani said, this stuff is trivial at best in the grand scheme of human shittiness.
Thatās not judging. Thatās what others have told me they felt and noticed from what happened. I give 2 shits what people do.
But, I guess my thoughts have no value since it doesnāt fall in line with yours. Per the norm now.click to expand
You are a professional victim.
So, let me get this straight. You aren't judging, but using other people's opinion to give advice?
K.
Posted by Superman77
Where did I say opinions? Experiences
Iām not a victim of anything. Just stating what youāre saying.
You like to talk in circles.
The definition of opinion to have a belief or feeling based off their own personal view.
So again, you are using other people's opinions, and not your own, to give advice. K.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by tctaap
maybe he thinks if he provides for you then he owns you
He doesn't even live in my city, we met in passing and now all the sudden he wants to try and spend time with me and pay for my bills. It's really weird to me and I'm suspicious lol
But I don't know how gold diggers get away with it. I keep trying to tell myself that he's just trying to be nice, but I'm not so sure!click to expand
Itās a way to make you feel indebted to them, essentially buying you. I had couple men and women do that in the past and even attempt in the present but I learned my lesson with the first one. When you fail to oblige to whatever their ulterior motive is, they throw a tantrum and say a common line like ālook all Iāve done for you...ā
Posted by Superman77Posted by tizianiPosted by Superman77Posted by saggurl88Posted by Superman77Posted by nanobotPosted by Superman77Posted by nanobotPosted by Superman77
So much for the promotion of strong, independent women
I fail to see how those are mutually exclusive
Do I need your money to pay my bills? No
Will I go hungry or struggle without it? No
Will I take your money if you insist on it? Yes
Lol. Why even do it if you donāt need it? Itās compromising your own integrity and worth. Plus, saving yourself from the eventual drama of the guy wanting more. Itās like leading someone on.
No, its compromising HIS integrity and worth. What does it say about him that he feels he needs to buy someone? Maybe I just like money and if he's insisting.... why wouldn't I take it? Would you take free money? I'm not responsible for his choices and behavior afterwards. He can deal with the ripple effect of his arrogance and stupidity. I don't carry that weight or consequential judgements. 0 fucks
Knowingly taking money from someone with no good intentions IS compromising your integrity.
huh? My good intentions would be to pay my bill
Pay your own bills. Live within your means and take care of yourself
She already does do that.
Then why need his money?click to expand
You don't have very good reading comprehension skills, do you?
She doesn't need the money. The guy offered and she asked him why.
If she had no qualms about taking his money and/or needing it, this thread wouldn't have been created and we wouldn't all be here discussing this with her.
Maybe take off your judgemental and sanctimonious glasses and READ more carefully?
Posted by saggurl88
How do gold diggers accept money from a person?
How do they get people to give/get them stuff?
There is a man that I just met that keeps trying to gift me with money and stuff and I keep asking him why he keeps trying to do this. It almost feels like light weight prostitution. š
I haven't taken anything from him because I keep asking him why he wants to help me so bad. (He asks about my monthly bills)
Do men really just enjoy giving money to females? I think he has an ulterior motive that I want nothing to do with š¢
So women or men with sugar mommas, how do you say "cash me out" when they offerā
let's just say i understand... Melania Trump, Marla Maples & Ivana Trump..
women who are super career oriented get pissed off at women like these lol
while the other way around, they don't give a shit about the career women. LOL
Posted by Black-Mamba
I used to hate on gold diggers but really they're the smart ones
u still love on Michelle Obama types
smart, powerful women who support their men.
do you think kate middleton and markles are HATED?? lol
cause damnnn they is LUCKYYYY!!!
"uh huh yeahhh i got me a PRINCE!!"
Is he a Cancer? My Cancer is like this. He always buys me gifts and he always asks what I want when he goes to the shopping centre. I always say I don't wear those or I have one but he usually gets me something anyway. I buy him little gifts sometimes but his gifts are excessive. I didn't like it at first because I like to keep my independence and I can buy my own stuff. I'm kind of used to it now though. I've never dated anyone like that before but it is really nice to be spoiled by a man instead of getting used by one.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by lisabethur8Posted by Black-Mamba
I used to hate on gold diggers but really they're the smart ones
u still love on Michelle Obama types
smart, powerful women who support their men.
do you think kate middleton and markles are HATED?? lol
cause damnnn they is LUCKYYYY!!!
"uh huh yeahhh i got me a PRINCE!!"
I think Merkle is fake. I pray for Harryclick to expand
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Posted by ErenSwoleagerPosted by saggurl88He doesn't even live in my city, we met in passing and now all the sudden he wants to try and spend time with me and pay for my bills. It's really weird to me and I'm suspicious lol
Stop playing clinically retarded here. We all know that men have been trained like Dogs to think they have to shell out the dough to even come close to holdin onto a woman.click to expand
You have choices to be with a gold digger or non gold digger. There are plenty of both types.
Posted by Lala1393Posted by saggurl88Posted by tctaap
is he from Nigeria ? lol
No he's a middle eastern businessman. I think that's even worse š
Oh dear.
Yeah he'll be expecting the p.
TRUST ME.
I've been there.
Be careful. They can ruin your life if they don't get what they want. But I must add that culturally, over there, a man has the DUTY to financially take care of his woman and all her expenses for him to be considered as a suitable suitor.
Not every man over there is like that of course but it's part of the general culture.click to expand
I just figured I was out of his culture and therefor not really an option. Heās old and hasnāt been married yet.
Iāve just never had someone come at me like this. Just wondering what to do. Lol.
Iāll figure it out.
Posted by Ariqua
Some men do like to spend their money on women though. Without sex. I knew a lesbian that did it too. It makes them feel good
This is what Im hoping for! Lol š
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Ariqua
Some men do like to spend their money on women though. Without sex. I knew a lesbian that did it too. It makes them feel good
This is what Im hoping for! Lol šclick to expand
lol i love men like that.
but i have to really adore the man.
it feels super creepy when it's a man you dont feel nothing for LOL
cause i know they want something back...like your TIME. and u know what that means.....
the longer they get to know you, the longer they want you and want you more... yuck!!!
so better find a man who u love being with.
Posted by ErenSwoleagerPosted by saggurl88You have choices to be with a gold digger or non gold digger. There are plenty of both types.
False, you don't have to be a Gold Digger to "have standards" as it's called. In other words, to demand a man support you financially. Gold Digger just means you wholly rely upon the man for support, having no backbone to lift yourself up at all.
I mean it's by and large driven by evolution. Nature set it up so women were the codependents and the ones to desire and seek a stable mate to take care of them and their offspring. So I'm not talking about a conspiracy. I'm just speaking about the way /the universe/ has trained men to be like Dogs to women. Which goes both ways actually, cause if they aint acting like a submissive mut. They're acting like a total Dog/Douche.
Even if Money doesn't become a factor, somehow... against all odds. Then she will just be tryin to stack you up in other ways, and will be unfaithful for other reasons.click to expand
You wrote too much and I donāt feel like reading it all. But I will just take your ā falseā and agree š
Canāt believe you so young writing books like this. And a male, at that. You must be extremely argumentative as an adult.
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by saggurl88Posted by Ariqua
Some men do like to spend their money on women though. Without sex. I knew a lesbian that did it too. It makes them feel good
This is what Im hoping for! Lol š
lol i love men like that.
but i have to really adore the man.
it feels super creepy when it's a man you dont feel nothing for LOL
cause i know they want something back...like your TIME. and u know what that means.....
the longer they get to know you, the longer they want you and want you more... yuck!!!
so better find a man who u love being with.click to expand
You are the sweetest, I swear! This is why I love Aquas.
Thanks. I will take this into consideration and see how much I like him. Iām seeing someone right now, so Iām not taking him too seriously, which is why I started the thread to begin with. I was trying to figure out what the heck he wanted lol
Posted by saggurl88Posted by nikkistar
When I was younger, I had no qualms about taking gifts or money.
They'd get mad cause they thought I owed them something, and I would laugh. Having no remorse or sympathy came in handy. I still don't feel bad about it either. If they were stupid enough to try, who was I to deny them thinking I could be bought when I couldn't. Jokes on you, idiot.
I need to get this type of mentality! He asked me who I banked with cause he was trying to gift me with money and I asked him why?? So weird. I didn't give him any info yet. I'm trying to figure out his angle.
This Venus retrograde is something else! šclick to expand
"he asked me who I banked with"
"we met in passing"
dont give your bank account details to strangers
Edit: his insistence you give him your banking details is a big red flag for scam... they seek out people, its all over on the net...... you dont want to become part of some money laundering or money scams circle
if he really want, he can dine and wine you, in person, or give you presents, in person....
big NO to sending money to your account unless you live with somebody and you known them for some time
Posted by ErenSwoleagerPosted by saggurl88You wrote too much and I donāt feel like reading it all. But I will just take your ā falseā and agree š
Canāt believe you so young writing books like this. And a male, at that. You must be extremely argumentative as an adult.
It started around when I was 16, and hasn't shut off since lulclick to expand
Lol. Itās cool. I suck at debating and arguing so I will always give up and tell you that youāre right. šš
Posted by Gobby
You know, now that the cat's out of the bag, you'll have to update us... š
Lol. Nice profile pic š
****************************UPDATE FOR ANYONE WHO'S INTERESTED****************************
He was full of shyt and trying to get some ass. Took me out to dinner, kept saying how he was a man of his word, and then kept trying to touch me and give me a massage.
UM............................................................NO.
So moral of the story, guess he thought he could make promises in hopes of scoring. Maybe it's worked for him in the past who knows. But I don't prostitute, you can have it for free or nothing at all! š
So grimey! lol DOM, indeed!
He was full of shyt and trying to get some ass. Took me out to dinner, kept saying how he was a man of his word, and then kept trying to touch me and give me a massage.
UM............................................................NO.
So moral of the story, guess he thought he could make promises in hopes of scoring. Maybe it's worked for him in the past who knows. But I don't prostitute, you can have it for free or nothing at all! š
So grimey! lol DOM, indeed!
Posted by tiziani
just another pic collector smh
or whatever the in-person equivalent is
I think so! I think he thought that I was young and naive. Had the nerve to tell me he knew how innocent I was lol
Yeah freaking right! š
Bummer! lol
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Black-Mamba
70 debts to the dollar. Stop asking questions and take that bag
I don't want him asking for any kitty lol This is hard for me!!! I don't think I can do it without feeling guilty š¢
I did nothing to deserve his money that he works hard for.click to expand
You would rather give the kitty away for free?
Posted by bkbella86Posted by saggurl88Posted by Black-Mamba
70 debts to the dollar. Stop asking questions and take that bag
I don't want him asking for any kitty lol This is hard for me!!! I don't think I can do it without feeling guilty š¢
I did nothing to deserve his money that he works hard for.
You would rather give the kitty away for free?click to expand
Iād rather give it away when and how I want to. I donāt want to feel obligated to or like I owe someone something.
Posted by Arielle83
I play unassuming
I wish I could be like that but Iām suspicious of everything lol. I also assume everything š šš
Posted by Arielle83Posted by saggurl88Posted by Arielle83
I play unassuming
I wish I could be like that but Iām suspicious of everything lol. I also assume everything š šš
āOhhh wow thanks for that!ā
Be enthusiastic and sweet.
They canāt get mad.
Then when they come onto you:
āExcuse me! I am not for u to manhandle!āclick to expand
Yeah but I donāt know how to hold the guys off and play dumb. I donāt want him trying to touch me. Iām horrible at playing coy.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Arielle83Posted by saggurl88Posted by Arielle83
I play unassuming
I wish I could be like that but Iām suspicious of everything lol. I also assume everything š šš
āOhhh wow thanks for that!ā
Be enthusiastic and sweet.
They canāt get mad.
Then when they come onto you:
āExcuse me! I am not for u to manhandle!ā
Yeah but I donāt know how to hold the guys off and play dumb. I donāt want him trying to touch me. Iām horrible at playing coy.click to expand
"I donāt want him trying to touch me."
why did you go out with him then? I thought you liked him, apart from the money thing
Posted by Pandora101Posted by saggurl88Posted by Arielle83Posted by saggurl88Posted by Arielle83
I play unassuming
I wish I could be like that but Iām suspicious of everything lol. I also assume everything š šš
āOhhh wow thanks for that!ā
Be enthusiastic and sweet.
They canāt get mad.
Then when they come onto you:
āExcuse me! I am not for u to manhandle!ā
Yeah but I donāt know how to hold the guys off and play dumb. I donāt want him trying to touch me. Iām horrible at playing coy.
"I donāt want him trying to touch me."
why did you go out with him then? I thought you liked him, apart from the money thing
click to expand
That doesnāt mean I want ha hands all over me. I like getting to know someone first. š
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