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Past a certain age, it's hard to be poor and genuine without running into other character flaws
exactly what “other” character flaws does being poor entail?
Character is closely related to personality, disposition, and temperament. Most of the people that I see that are poor past a certain age lack ambition, a work ethic, maybe talent, or are delusional in some way. They all have a story. All of us do though. I still haven't met anyone that grew up poorer than I did so I saw firsthand what people can justify by what they lack.
what age would that be?
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🙋🏽♂️ The Cenozoic Age when the first squirrel-like mammals appeared. I guess I have too much expectations of people descended from squirrels 🐿
How about poor and image? My Aqua buddy has a Rolex and a $ 2000 Moncler jacket but still doesn't have any money and owes me $ 300 : D. Unless they're just starting out, they should have built themselves up. Otherwise, they're likely not ambitious/progressive enough. Past a certain age, it's hard to be poor and genuine without running into other character flaws or not being able to exercise one's will. I don't advocate for completely selling out for the money either as there are many negative unintended consequences associated with doing that, but some happy medium such as money and genuine. As someone here pointed out, you can do a lot of good with your money rather than just buying a yacht.
Well... as an older person I see a lot of guys not with much money after a couple of divorces and sometimes bad decisions. And this is an area where people have to survive somehow cuz job situation sucks
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I'm just speaking generally. There's always going to be instances with extenuating circumstances.
This should have been posted in The Powder Room, as most men aren't judgemental about such things - it's mostly women who are preoccupied with money and image, when it comes to potential partners...
I’ll post where I want 😂 shoulds have been erased from my vocabulary lol That’s not necessarily true btw.. a guy on a date last week asked how much I make last week .. like why do you want to know? I wasn’t the one asking!!
Shut-up Sagggggggggggggggggilllllllliiiiiiisssssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhimonemoooooo! It was merely a comment. Please chill.
As for your date, maybe he doesn't want to get fleeced, hence his question. Did you ever consider that?
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I guess.. I can take care of myself I don’t need anyone’s money! I’m chill lol jeez
How about poor and image? My Aqua buddy has a Rolex and a $ 2000 Moncler jacket but still doesn't have any money and owes me $ 300 : D. Unless they're just starting out, they should have built themselves up. Otherwise, they're likely not ambitious/progressive enough. Past a certain age, it's hard to be poor and genuine without running into other character flaws or not being able to exercise one's will. I don't advocate for completely selling out for the money either as there are many negative unintended consequences associated with doing that, but some happy medium such as money and genuine. As someone here pointed out, you can do a lot of good with your money rather than just buying a yacht.
Well... as an older person I see a lot of guys not with much money after a couple of divorces and sometimes bad decisions. And this is an area where people have to survive somehow cuz job situation sucks
I'm just speaking generally. There's always going to be instances with extenuating circumstances.
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Well a lot of people out there have stuff happen in this age group is what I’m seeing. Everyone has a story! Lol A lot of money just causes problems in my view, and many who have it are more concerned about image then real things. That doesn’t mean I want to live at a Lowe level though.. more about balance I guess.
This should have been posted in The Powder Room, as most men aren't judgemental about such things - it's mostly women who are preoccupied with money and image, when it comes to potential partners...
I’ll post where I want 😂 shoulds have been erased from my vocabulary lol That’s not necessarily true btw.. a guy on a date last week asked how much I make last week .. like why do you want to know? I wasn’t the one asking!!
Shut-up Sagggggggggggggggggilllllllliiiiiiisssssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhimonemoooooo! It was merely a comment. Please chill.
As for your date, maybe he doesn't want to get fleeced, hence his question. Did you ever consider that?
I guess.. I can take care of myself I don’t need anyone’s money! I’m chill lol jeez
Errrmmm... but he doesn't know that.
Try putting the shoe on the other foot. It goes a long way...
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I answered the question actually.. most are surprised when they ask me & that they make less. But, I guess he’s worried about that. My point was I don’t ask & im not worried about what you make, the material things you have. I just don’t want to live in a trailer or a mobile home when I own a townhouse and get told I’m materialistic. A lot it’s the area.. rural & hippies.
How about poor and image? My Aqua buddy has a Rolex and a $ 2000 Moncler jacket but still doesn't have any money and owes me $ 300 : D. Unless they're just starting out, they should have built themselves up. Otherwise, they're likely not ambitious/progressive enough. Past a certain age, it's hard to be poor and genuine without running into other character flaws or not being able to exercise one's will. I don't advocate for completely selling out for the money either as there are many negative unintended consequences associated with doing that, but some happy medium such as money and genuine. As someone here pointed out, you can do a lot of good with your money rather than just buying a yacht.
Well... as an older person I see a lot of guys not with much money after a couple of divorces and sometimes bad decisions. And this is an area where people have to survive somehow cuz job situation sucks
I'm just speaking generally. There's always going to be instances with extenuating circumstances.
Well a lot of people out there have stuff happen in this age group is what I’m seeing. Everyone has a story! Lol A lot of money just causes problems in my view, and many who have it are more concerned about image then real things. That doesn’t mean I want to live at a Lowe level though.. more about balance I guess.
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It does. I work with the super wealthy and I'd say they are less happy overall than an average person..but I don't like either extreme as a valid choice. Too much is the same as not enough.
This should have been posted in The Powder Room, as most men aren't judgemental about such things - it's mostly women who are preoccupied with money and image, when it comes to potential partners...
I’ll post where I want 😂 shoulds have been erased from my vocabulary lol That’s not necessarily true btw.. a guy on a date last week asked how much I make last week .. like why do you want to know? I wasn’t the one asking!!
Shut-up Sagggggggggggggggggilllllllliiiiiiisssssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhimonemoooooo! It was merely a comment. Please chill.
As for your date, maybe he doesn't want to get fleeced, hence his question. Did you ever consider that?
I guess.. I can take care of myself I don’t need anyone’s money! I’m chill lol jeez
Errrmmm... but he doesn't know that.
Try putting the shoe on the other foot. It goes a long way...
I answered the question actually.. most are surprised when they ask me & that they make less. But, I guess he’s worried about that. My point was I don’t ask & im not worried about what you make, the material things you have. I just don’t want to live in a trailer or a mobile home when I own a townhouse and get told I’m materialistic. A lot it’s the area.. rural & hippies.
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Ok. I would move into your house together and have him contribute to household whichever amount you both agree on...
His house could be sold or rented out.
When we’ve discussed it with Aries - his rent same as my mortgage so...him moving with me would save us $ 1500x12 - $ 18k per year.
We could live a dream spending these money on whatever.
The rest is easy. So far he is paying his way. I am paying mine. So 2 combined we would save there as well.
If I made $ 20k more than him - that would be mine in my bank still. And it would be my choice to spend it on US or keep it as mine.
I don’t see where is the issue.
By me - if 2 people had lived separately and kept it well - living together is a saving. No matter how you look at it.
This should have been posted in The Powder Room, as most men aren't judgemental about such things - it's mostly women who are preoccupied with money and image, when it comes to potential partners...
I’ll post where I want 😂 shoulds have been erased from my vocabulary lol That’s not necessarily true btw.. a guy on a date last week asked how much I make last week .. like why do you want to know? I wasn’t the one asking!!
Shut-up Sagggggggggggggggggilllllllliiiiiiisssssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhimonemoooooo! It was merely a comment. Please chill.
As for your date, maybe he doesn't want to get fleeced, hence his question. Did you ever consider that?
I guess.. I can take care of myself I don’t need anyone’s money! I’m chill lol jeez
Errrmmm... but he doesn't know that.
Try putting the shoe on the other foot. It goes a long way...
I answered the question actually.. most are surprised when they ask me & that they make less. But, I guess he’s worried about that. My point was I don’t ask & im not worried about what you make, the material things you have. I just don’t want to live in a trailer or a mobile home when I own a townhouse and get told I’m materialistic. A lot it’s the area.. rural & hippies.
Ok. I would move into your house together and have him contribute to household whichever amount you both agree on...
His house could be sold or rented out.
When we’ve discussed it with Aries - his rent same as my mortgage so...him moving with me would save us $ 1500x12 - $ 18k per year.
We could live a dream spending these money on whatever.
The rest is easy. So far he is paying his way. I am paying mine. So 2 combined we would save there as well.
If I made $ 20k more than him - that would be mine in my bank still. And it would be my choice to spend it on US or keep it as mine.
I don’t see where is the issue.
By me - if 2 people had lived separately and kept it well - living together is a saving. No matter how you look at it.
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It sounds simple, but is not always so simple... it wasn’t with the Cap. If you work together, it could be. But you have to be willing to work together. Too early to know if it goes there.. I’m going to just see how it goes.
As much as I would like the security, I want real. The most important factor is someone chasing their goals, not sitting their accepting life as it comes.
This should have been posted in The Powder Room, as most men aren't judgemental about such things - it's mostly women who are preoccupied with money and image, when it comes to potential partners...
I’ll post where I want 😂 shoulds have been erased from my vocabulary lol That’s not necessarily true btw.. a guy on a date last week asked how much I make last week .. like why do you want to know? I wasn’t the one asking!!
Shut-up Sagggggggggggggggggilllllllliiiiiiisssssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhimonemoooooo! It was merely a comment. Please chill.
As for your date, maybe he doesn't want to get fleeced, hence his question. Did you ever consider that?
I guess.. I can take care of myself I don’t need anyone’s money! I’m chill lol jeez
Errrmmm... but he doesn't know that.
Try putting the shoe on the other foot. It goes a long way...
I answered the question actually.. most are surprised when they ask me & that they make less. But, I guess he’s worried about that. My point was I don’t ask & im not worried about what you make, the material things you have. I just don’t want to live in a trailer or a mobile home when I own a townhouse and get told I’m materialistic. A lot it’s the area.. rural & hippies.
Ok. I would move into your house together and have him contribute to household whichever amount you both agree on...
His house could be sold or rented out.
When we’ve discussed it with Aries - his rent same as my mortgage so...him moving with me would save us $ 1500x12 - $ 18k per year.
We could live a dream spending these money on whatever.
The rest is easy. So far he is paying his way. I am paying mine. So 2 combined we would save there as well.
If I made $ 20k more than him - that would be mine in my bank still. And it would be my choice to spend it on US or keep it as mine.
I don’t see where is the issue.
By me - if 2 people had lived separately and kept it well - living together is a saving. No matter how you look at it.
It sounds simple, but is not always so simple... it wasn’t with the Cap. If you work together, it could be. But you have to be willing to work together. Too early to know if it goes there.. I’m going to just see how it goes.
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How was it with Cap? Were you ever moving together?
This should have been posted in The Powder Room, as most men aren't judgemental about such things - it's mostly women who are preoccupied with money and image, when it comes to potential partners...
I’ll post where I want 😂 shoulds have been erased from my vocabulary lol That’s not necessarily true btw.. a guy on a date last week asked how much I make last week .. like why do you want to know? I wasn’t the one asking!!
Shut-up Sagggggggggggggggggilllllllliiiiiiisssssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhimonemoooooo! It was merely a comment. Please chill.
As for your date, maybe he doesn't want to get fleeced, hence his question. Did you ever consider that?
I guess.. I can take care of myself I don’t need anyone’s money! I’m chill lol jeez
Errrmmm... but he doesn't know that.
Try putting the shoe on the other foot. It goes a long way...
I answered the question actually.. most are surprised when they ask me & that they make less. But, I guess he’s worried about that. My point was I don’t ask & im not worried about what you make, the material things you have. I just don’t want to live in a trailer or a mobile home when I own a townhouse and get told I’m materialistic. A lot it’s the area.. rural & hippies.
Ok. I would move into your house together and have him contribute to household whichever amount you both agree on...
His house could be sold or rented out.
When we’ve discussed it with Aries - his rent same as my mortgage so...him moving with me would save us $ 1500x12 - $ 18k per year.
We could live a dream spending these money on whatever.
The rest is easy. So far he is paying his way. I am paying mine. So 2 combined we would save there as well.
If I made $ 20k more than him - that would be mine in my bank still. And it would be my choice to spend it on US or keep it as mine.
I don’t see where is the issue.
By me - if 2 people had lived separately and kept it well - living together is a saving. No matter how you look at it.
It sounds simple, but is not always so simple... it wasn’t with the Cap. If you work together, it could be. But you have to be willing to work together. Too early to know if it goes there.. I’m going to just see how it goes.
How was it with Cap? Were you ever moving together?
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Yes multiple discussions darling while we were together & afterwards too. He wanted me to live in a trailer so he could save money at one point. I refused. Why should I? I own a townhouse!! I told him he could move in with me if he needed to... that didn’t go over well.
This should have been posted in The Powder Room, as most men aren't judgemental about such things - it's mostly women who are preoccupied with money and image, when it comes to potential partners...
I’ll post where I want 😂 shoulds have been erased from my vocabulary lol That’s not necessarily true btw.. a guy on a date last week asked how much I make last week .. like why do you want to know? I wasn’t the one asking!!
Shut-up Sagggggggggggggggggilllllllliiiiiiisssssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhimonemoooooo! It was merely a comment. Please chill.
As for your date, maybe he doesn't want to get fleeced, hence his question. Did you ever consider that?
I guess.. I can take care of myself I don’t need anyone’s money! I’m chill lol jeez
Errrmmm... but he doesn't know that.
Try putting the shoe on the other foot. It goes a long way...
I answered the question actually.. most are surprised when they ask me & that they make less. But, I guess he’s worried about that. My point was I don’t ask & im not worried about what you make, the material things you have. I just don’t want to live in a trailer or a mobile home when I own a townhouse and get told I’m materialistic. A lot it’s the area.. rural & hippies.
Ok. I would move into your house together and have him contribute to household whichever amount you both agree on...
His house could be sold or rented out.
When we’ve discussed it with Aries - his rent same as my mortgage so...him moving with me would save us $ 1500x12 - $ 18k per year.
We could live a dream spending these money on whatever.
The rest is easy. So far he is paying his way. I am paying mine. So 2 combined we would save there as well.
If I made $ 20k more than him - that would be mine in my bank still. And it would be my choice to spend it on US or keep it as mine.
I don’t see where is the issue.
By me - if 2 people had lived separately and kept it well - living together is a saving. No matter how you look at it.
It sounds simple, but is not always so simple... it wasn’t with the Cap. If you work together, it could be. But you have to be willing to work together. Too early to know if it goes there.. I’m going to just see how it goes.
How was it with Cap? Were you ever moving together?
Yes multiple discussions darling while we were together & afterwards too. He wanted me to live in a trailer so he could save money at one point. I refused. Why should I? I own a townhouse!! I told him he could move in with me if he needed to... that didn’t go over well.
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What were you supposed to do with your house?
This should have been posted in The Powder Room, as most men aren't judgemental about such things - it's mostly women who are preoccupied with money and image, when it comes to potential partners...
I’ll post where I want 😂 shoulds have been erased from my vocabulary lol That’s not necessarily true btw.. a guy on a date last week asked how much I make last week .. like why do you want to know? I wasn’t the one asking!!
Shut-up Sagggggggggggggggggilllllllliiiiiiisssssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhimonemoooooo! It was merely a comment. Please chill.
As for your date, maybe he doesn't want to get fleeced, hence his question. Did you ever consider that?
I guess.. I can take care of myself I don’t need anyone’s money! I’m chill lol jeez
Errrmmm... but he doesn't know that.
Try putting the shoe on the other foot. It goes a long way...
I answered the question actually.. most are surprised when they ask me & that they make less. But, I guess he’s worried about that. My point was I don’t ask & im not worried about what you make, the material things you have. I just don’t want to live in a trailer or a mobile home when I own a townhouse and get told I’m materialistic. A lot it’s the area.. rural & hippies.
Ok. I would move into your house together and have him contribute to household whichever amount you both agree on...
His house could be sold or rented out.
When we’ve discussed it with Aries - his rent same as my mortgage so...him moving with me would save us $ 1500x12 - $ 18k per year.
We could live a dream spending these money on whatever.
The rest is easy. So far he is paying his way. I am paying mine. So 2 combined we would save there as well.
If I made $ 20k more than him - that would be mine in my bank still. And it would be my choice to spend it on US or keep it as mine.
I don’t see where is the issue.
By me - if 2 people had lived separately and kept it well - living together is a saving. No matter how you look at it.
It sounds simple, but is not always so simple... it wasn’t with the Cap. If you work together, it could be. But you have to be willing to work together. Too early to know if it goes there.. I’m going to just see how it goes.
How was it with Cap? Were you ever moving together?
Yes multiple discussions darling while we were together & afterwards too. He wanted me to live in a trailer so he could save money at one point. I refused. Why should I? I own a townhouse!! I told him he could move in with me if he needed to... that didn’t go over well.
What were you supposed to do with your house?
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Doesn’t matter.. He bought the trailer but doesn’t live in it.
This should have been posted in The Powder Room, as most men aren't judgemental about such things - it's mostly women who are preoccupied with money and image, when it comes to potential partners...
I’ll post where I want 😂 shoulds have been erased from my vocabulary lol That’s not necessarily true btw.. a guy on a date last week asked how much I make last week .. like why do you want to know? I wasn’t the one asking!!
Shut-up Sagggggggggggggggggilllllllliiiiiiisssssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhimonemoooooo! It was merely a comment. Please chill.
As for your date, maybe he doesn't want to get fleeced, hence his question. Did you ever consider that?
I guess.. I can take care of myself I don’t need anyone’s money! I’m chill lol jeez
Errrmmm... but he doesn't know that.
Try putting the shoe on the other foot. It goes a long way...
I answered the question actually.. most are surprised when they ask me & that they make less. But, I guess he’s worried about that. My point was I don’t ask & im not worried about what you make, the material things you have. I just don’t want to live in a trailer or a mobile home when I own a townhouse and get told I’m materialistic. A lot it’s the area.. rural & hippies.
Ok. I would move into your house together and have him contribute to household whichever amount you both agree on...
His house could be sold or rented out.
When we’ve discussed it with Aries - his rent same as my mortgage so...him moving with me would save us $ 1500x12 - $ 18k per year.
We could live a dream spending these money on whatever.
The rest is easy. So far he is paying his way. I am paying mine. So 2 combined we would save there as well.
If I made $ 20k more than him - that would be mine in my bank still. And it would be my choice to spend it on US or keep it as mine.
I don’t see where is the issue.
By me - if 2 people had lived separately and kept it well - living together is a saving. No matter how you look at it.
It sounds simple, but is not always so simple... it wasn’t with the Cap. If you work together, it could be. But you have to be willing to work together. Too early to know if it goes there.. I’m going to just see how it goes.
How was it with Cap? Were you ever moving together?
Yes multiple discussions darling while we were together & afterwards too. He wanted me to live in a trailer so he could save money at one point. I refused. Why should I? I own a townhouse!! I told him he could move in with me if he needed to... that didn’t go over well.
Wait wat. Don't tell me he expected you to sell your house.
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😂😂 we didn’t get that far cuz I’m like NO!!!! That’s not happening!
This should have been posted in The Powder Room, as most men aren't judgemental about such things - it's mostly women who are preoccupied with money and image, when it comes to potential partners...
I’ll post where I want 😂 shoulds have been erased from my vocabulary lol That’s not necessarily true btw.. a guy on a date last week asked how much I make last week .. like why do you want to know? I wasn’t the one asking!!
Shut-up Sagggggggggggggggggilllllllliiiiiiisssssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhimonemoooooo! It was merely a comment. Please chill.
As for your date, maybe he doesn't want to get fleeced, hence his question. Did you ever consider that?
I guess.. I can take care of myself I don’t need anyone’s money! I’m chill lol jeez
Errrmmm... but he doesn't know that.
Try putting the shoe on the other foot. It goes a long way...
I answered the question actually.. most are surprised when they ask me & that they make less. But, I guess he’s worried about that. My point was I don’t ask & im not worried about what you make, the material things you have. I just don’t want to live in a trailer or a mobile home when I own a townhouse and get told I’m materialistic. A lot it’s the area.. rural & hippies.
Ok. I would move into your house together and have him contribute to household whichever amount you both agree on...
His house could be sold or rented out.
When we’ve discussed it with Aries - his rent same as my mortgage so...him moving with me would save us $ 1500x12 - $ 18k per year.
We could live a dream spending these money on whatever.
The rest is easy. So far he is paying his way. I am paying mine. So 2 combined we would save there as well.
If I made $ 20k more than him - that would be mine in my bank still. And it would be my choice to spend it on US or keep it as mine.
I don’t see where is the issue.
By me - if 2 people had lived separately and kept it well - living together is a saving. No matter how you look at it.
It sounds simple, but is not always so simple... it wasn’t with the Cap. If you work together, it could be. But you have to be willing to work together. Too early to know if it goes there.. I’m going to just see how it goes.
How was it with Cap? Were you ever moving together?
Yes multiple discussions darling while we were together & afterwards too. He wanted me to live in a trailer so he could save money at one point. I refused. Why should I? I own a townhouse!! I told him he could move in with me if he needed to... that didn’t go over well.
What were you supposed to do with your house?
Doesn’t matter.. He bought the trailer but doesn’t live in it.
Math is one of his talents i'm sure 😂😂😂
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Haha 🤣
This should have been posted in The Powder Room, as most men aren't judgemental about such things - it's mostly women who are preoccupied with money and image, when it comes to potential partners...
I’ll post where I want 😂 shoulds have been erased from my vocabulary lol That’s not necessarily true btw.. a guy on a date last week asked how much I make last week .. like why do you want to know? I wasn’t the one asking!!
Shut-up Sagggggggggggggggggilllllllliiiiiiisssssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhimonemoooooo! It was merely a comment. Please chill.
As for your date, maybe he doesn't want to get fleeced, hence his question. Did you ever consider that?
I guess.. I can take care of myself I don’t need anyone’s money! I’m chill lol jeez
Errrmmm... but he doesn't know that.
Try putting the shoe on the other foot. It goes a long way...
I answered the question actually.. most are surprised when they ask me & that they make less. But, I guess he’s worried about that. My point was I don’t ask & im not worried about what you make, the material things you have. I just don’t want to live in a trailer or a mobile home when I own a townhouse and get told I’m materialistic. A lot it’s the area.. rural & hippies.
Ok. I would move into your house together and have him contribute to household whichever amount you both agree on...
His house could be sold or rented out.
When we’ve discussed it with Aries - his rent same as my mortgage so...him moving with me would save us $ 1500x12 - $ 18k per year.
We could live a dream spending these money on whatever.
The rest is easy. So far he is paying his way. I am paying mine. So 2 combined we would save there as well.
If I made $ 20k more than him - that would be mine in my bank still. And it would be my choice to spend it on US or keep it as mine.
I don’t see where is the issue.
By me - if 2 people had lived separately and kept it well - living together is a saving. No matter how you look at it.
It sounds simple, but is not always so simple... it wasn’t with the Cap. If you work together, it could be. But you have to be willing to work together. Too early to know if it goes there.. I’m going to just see how it goes.
How was it with Cap? Were you ever moving together?
Yes multiple discussions darling while we were together & afterwards too. He wanted me to live in a trailer so he could save money at one point. I refused. Why should I? I own a townhouse!! I told him he could move in with me if he needed to... that didn’t go over well.
What were you supposed to do with your house?
Doesn’t matter.. He bought the trailer but doesn’t live in it.
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No! It matters because his approach didn’t make any sense.
What I said makes every bit of a sense.
Why would you move from your house? Did he wanted to split your equity because you’ll be living in HIS trailer?
Otherwise it doesn’t make sense!
This should have been posted in The Powder Room, as most men aren't judgemental about such things - it's mostly women who are preoccupied with money and image, when it comes to potential partners...
I’ll post where I want 😂 shoulds have been erased from my vocabulary lol That’s not necessarily true btw.. a guy on a date last week asked how much I make last week .. like why do you want to know? I wasn’t the one asking!!
Shut-up Sagggggggggggggggggilllllllliiiiiiisssssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhimonemoooooo! It was merely a comment. Please chill.
As for your date, maybe he doesn't want to get fleeced, hence his question. Did you ever consider that?
I guess.. I can take care of myself I don’t need anyone’s money! I’m chill lol jeez
Errrmmm... but he doesn't know that.
Try putting the shoe on the other foot. It goes a long way...
I answered the question actually.. most are surprised when they ask me & that they make less. But, I guess he’s worried about that. My point was I don’t ask & im not worried about what you make, the material things you have. I just don’t want to live in a trailer or a mobile home when I own a townhouse and get told I’m materialistic. A lot it’s the area.. rural & hippies.
Ok. I would move into your house together and have him contribute to household whichever amount you both agree on...
His house could be sold or rented out.
When we’ve discussed it with Aries - his rent same as my mortgage so...him moving with me would save us $ 1500x12 - $ 18k per year.
We could live a dream spending these money on whatever.
The rest is easy. So far he is paying his way. I am paying mine. So 2 combined we would save there as well.
If I made $ 20k more than him - that would be mine in my bank still. And it would be my choice to spend it on US or keep it as mine.
I don’t see where is the issue.
By me - if 2 people had lived separately and kept it well - living together is a saving. No matter how you look at it.
It sounds simple, but is not always so simple... it wasn’t with the Cap. If you work together, it could be. But you have to be willing to work together. Too early to know if it goes there.. I’m going to just see how it goes.
How was it with Cap? Were you ever moving together?
Yes multiple discussions darling while we were together & afterwards too. He wanted me to live in a trailer so he could save money at one point. I refused. Why should I? I own a townhouse!! I told him he could move in with me if he needed to... that didn’t go over well.
What were you supposed to do with your house?
Doesn’t matter.. He bought the trailer but doesn’t live in it.
No! It matters because his approach didn’t make any sense.
What I said makes every bit of a sense.
Why would you move from your house? Did he wanted to split your equity because you’ll be living in HIS trailer?
Otherwise it doesn’t make sense!
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Wtf!!! Why would he get to split my equity—?? It is mine not his! He would have to contribute more than a old freaking trailer. No he didn’t care. He was being selfish.. wanting what he needed and not considering me as usual. Why would I live in a trailer? I’m a professional who owns my own place. It is not my fault that he has made bad decisions... are you fucking kidding me? How does he get the benefit of my good decisions by forcing me into bad ones. Maybe he should’ve listened to me & my ideas. I found & got him into a house that he can afford renting & he can have all his stuff & dog at. We could’ve worked together to live together maybe buy a place together.. but no he runs away cuz he can’t deal with issues & feels bad because I have more than him.
ok, but is the scorp hot? nobody asked that wtf?
😂😂😂 🤣🤣 he’s alright lol. He cancelled on me for tonight!!! Omg. Now he’s worried about how to make it up to me lol
ok, but is the scorp hot? nobody asked that wtf?
😂😂😂 🤣🤣 he’s alright lol. He cancelled on me for tonight!!! Omg. Now he’s worried about how to make it up to me lol
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You're seeing a Scorp?
Can't keep up with you! 😁
ok, but is the scorp hot? nobody asked that wtf?
😂😂😂 🤣🤣 he’s alright lol. He cancelled on me for tonight!!! Omg. Now he’s worried about how to make it up to me lol
lets hope his imagination is big 😆
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Ha! That would be nice 😃😂😜
ok, but is the scorp hot? nobody asked that wtf?
😂😂😂 🤣🤣 he’s alright lol. He cancelled on me for tonight!!! Omg. Now he’s worried about how to make it up to me lol
You're seeing a Scorp?
Can't keep up with you! 😁
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Lol actual went out with him twice 2 weeks ago and then he went on vacation. He’s back now wanting to go out again.
Just been dating, meeting guys since I decided Libra could only be friends.
ok, but is the scorp hot? nobody asked that wtf?
😂😂😂 🤣🤣 he’s alright lol. He cancelled on me for tonight!!! Omg. Now he’s worried about how to make it up to me lol
You're seeing a Scorp?
Can't keep up with you! 😁
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Lol exploration mode as I’m figuring out what’s next!!
ok, but is the scorp hot? nobody asked that wtf?
😂😂😂 🤣🤣 he’s alright lol. He cancelled on me for tonight!!! Omg. Now he’s worried about how to make it up to me lol
You're seeing a Scorp?
Can't keep up with you! 😁
Lol exploration mode as I’m figuring out what’s next!!
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Love it! 😁. Try a few for me and report back. I can’t be arsed
Lol
ok, but is the scorp hot? nobody asked that wtf?
😂😂😂 🤣🤣 he’s alright lol. He cancelled on me for tonight!!! Omg. Now he’s worried about how to make it up to me lol
You're seeing a Scorp?
Can't keep up with you! 😁
Lol exploration mode as I’m figuring out what’s next!!
Love it! 😁. Try a few for me and report back. I can’t be arsed
Lol
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Haha as for the Scorpio .. funny he’s just like my daughter! 😂
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I’ll post where I want 😂 shoulds have been erased from my vocabulary lol That’s not necessarily true btw.. a guy on a date last week asked how much I make last week .. like why do you want to know? I wasn’t the one asking!!