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Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by pooface222Posted by PuzzlePieces
One of the most important things I’ve learned in life is how to be grateful. It was extremely important after I left my husband. See because the sadness drags you so far down, it’s hard to breathe sometimes. It’s hard to remember there are good things. But a grateful practice helps you realize all the good things you have in this world, instead of dwelling on the bad. I mean I know you’re a Capricorn but you need to try it. I used to make a list of 10 things I was grateful for everyday. You know it’s amazing there are always things no matter how bad your life is! It really helps to change your focus. I’d say that’s what you need … to change your focus. Focus on the good instead of the bad. Life will get better!
You are so right.
Gratitude.
And also..Acceptance.
The thing is I am grateful and I was grateful with my life with my husband. Eg a Marriage, a Family, a Home, a Life, Security.
That's a lot to lose for some Pisces bastard who took me for a ride!
Despite being grateful for everything I had, everything else took over. Loneliness, Anger, Insecurity, Depression, Anxiety.
Sadly I became blind to everything I had. Emotion took over.
Life is a lot harder now.
I hate being a single mum. Especially where me and my husband don't speak.
We haven't spoken for most of her life. She's nearly 8.
I just wish I'd forced myself to REMEMBER what I had and the Gratitude I always had!
I remember who saying you were unhappy in your marriage before Pisces.. that marrying your husband was a mistake and the only reason you stayed is you couldn’t bear to be apart from your little girl. I don’t get you saying this about him now. You were miserable then. The only thing I can get from this is you are unhappy with yourself & will be unhappy wherever you are until you learn to accept yourself & love yourself. You have to stop blaming others and accept your responsibility. It isn’t that there isn’t blame to go around, it’s just that it does no good to dwell on it. If you are going to stop patterns, you need to accept your part in it, and rise above. See it just is what it is, you love yourself and make a better life.
I couldn’t imagine being single either, but it is the best thing I did for myself and children. I committed to being healthier emotionally and we all are now. I’m financially better off by a long ways too. I get to be me, do the things I enjoy. There are not so great things too, but focusing on the good makes a huge difference. The good is just so amazing truly. You just can’t get dragged down by the negative. Nothing is perfect in life, so we have to walk that road finding the best things.click to expand
That's the thing. I don't blame others and fail to notice my part!
I'm in therapy talking at length about my regret in not patching up my marriage!
I know the part I played. I didn't make a decision either way - my husband or the Pisces!
I think its important to point out that I was post-natal and as a result my head was all over the place, made worse by threats made by my husband!
I became scared and my head became f**ked up!
I was trying to be a mum and making that transition was not easy as becoming a mum is an emotional and mental transition. Not just having a baby to look after.
You become a mum emotionally and mentally.
At the time I just wanted and needed emotional support from my husband. But i got none!
I needed to make a decision- my lover or my husband.
I chose my pisces lover and it was the biggest mistake of my life!
I knew 5yrs ago that if I leave my husband I will hate being a single mum, should the Pisces guy not be with me.
I knew i wanted to make a go of my family instead of throwing it away. And I knew this in 2016! I was just so depressed, full of anxiety, insecurity, lonliness, sadness and anger that i was unable to clearly formulate a decision and just go with it.
Instead i chose the effing Loser pisces.
And to this day he is still with her!
He even cheated on his WIFE before he met his current partner!
Sour grapes? Although they are sweet lol
Posted by pooface222Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by pooface222Posted by PuzzlePieces
One of the most important things I’ve learned in life is how to be grateful. It was extremely important after I left my husband. See because the sadness drags you so far down, it’s hard to breathe sometimes. It’s hard to remember there are good things. But a grateful practice helps you realize all the good things you have in this world, instead of dwelling on the bad. I mean I know you’re a Capricorn but you need to try it. I used to make a list of 10 things I was grateful for everyday. You know it’s amazing there are always things no matter how bad your life is! It really helps to change your focus. I’d say that’s what you need … to change your focus. Focus on the good instead of the bad. Life will get better!
You are so right.
Gratitude.
And also..Acceptance.
The thing is I am grateful and I was grateful with my life with my husband. Eg a Marriage, a Family, a Home, a Life, Security.
That's a lot to lose for some Pisces bastard who took me for a ride!
Despite being grateful for everything I had, everything else took over. Loneliness, Anger, Insecurity, Depression, Anxiety.
Sadly I became blind to everything I had. Emotion took over.
Life is a lot harder now.
I hate being a single mum. Especially where me and my husband don't speak.
We haven't spoken for most of her life. She's nearly 8.
I just wish I'd forced myself to REMEMBER what I had and the Gratitude I always had!
I remember who saying you were unhappy in your marriage before Pisces.. that marrying your husband was a mistake and the only reason you stayed is you couldn’t bear to be apart from your little girl. I don’t get you saying this about him now. You were miserable then. The only thing I can get from this is you are unhappy with yourself & will be unhappy wherever you are until you learn to accept yourself & love yourself. You have to stop blaming others and accept your responsibility. It isn’t that there isn’t blame to go around, it’s just that it does no good to dwell on it. If you are going to stop patterns, you need to accept your part in it, and rise above. See it just is what it is, you love yourself and make a better life.
I couldn’t imagine being single either, but it is the best thing I did for myself and children. I committed to being healthier emotionally and we all are now. I’m financially better off by a long ways too. I get to be me, do the things I enjoy. There are not so great things too, but focusing on the good makes a huge difference. The good is just so amazing truly. You just can’t get dragged down by the negative. Nothing is perfect in life, so we have to walk that road finding the best things.
That's the thing. I don't blame others and fail to notice my part!
I'm in therapy talking at length about my regret in not patching up my marriage!
I know the part I played. I didn't make a decision either way - my husband or the Pisces!
I think its important to point out that I was post-natal and as a result my head was all over the place, made worse by threats made by my husband!
I became scared and my head became f**ked up!
I was trying to be a mum and making that transition was not easy as becoming a mum is an emotional and mental transition. Not just having a baby to look after.
You become a mum emotionally and mentally.
At the time I just wanted and needed emotional support from my husband. But i got none!
I needed to make a decision- my lover or my husband.
I chose my pisces lover and it was the biggest mistake of my life!
I knew 5yrs ago that if I leave my husband I will hate being a single mum, should the Pisces guy not be with me.
I knew i wanted to make a go of my family instead of throwing it away. And I knew this in 2016! I was just so depressed, full of anxiety, insecurity, lonliness, sadness and anger that i was unable to clearly formulate a decision and just go with it.
Instead i chose the effing Loser pisces.
And to this day he is still with her!
He even cheated on his WIFE before he met his current partner!click to expand
Well you are very angry with the Pisces it seems. I’m glad you are in therapy. Anger can really eat away at us.
The thing about transition, and love and support is everyone shows it differently. Love & support isn’t necessarily how we want it. It took me a long time to learn that lesson. I’m not sure what you were needing, but it doesn’t sound like your ex-husband was able to deal with it. That’s the thing I’m saying.. maybe it wasn’t a match. Not really about trying to make the family work. You got some support from the Pisces so you went that way. It isn’t necessarily that it was the wrong choice, just the wrong person. You needed a more nurturing person. It doesn’t sound like the Aries was that person. So in that state it’s easy to go towards nurturing.
Now it’s different. You are working on it. Perhaps you’re stronger & think it would be better now. But, that’s not really how it works. Too much has happened, and all our experiences shape us. We have to let go of these traumatic things and find where you need to be in the world ( and with who).
Posted by pooface222Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by pooface222Posted by PuzzlePieces
One of the most important things I’ve learned in life is how to be grateful. It was extremely important after I left my husband. See because the sadness drags you so far down, it’s hard to breathe sometimes. It’s hard to remember there are good things. But a grateful practice helps you realize all the good things you have in this world, instead of dwelling on the bad. I mean I know you’re a Capricorn but you need to try it. I used to make a list of 10 things I was grateful for everyday. You know it’s amazing there are always things no matter how bad your life is! It really helps to change your focus. I’d say that’s what you need … to change your focus. Focus on the good instead of the bad. Life will get better!
You are so right.
Gratitude.
And also..Acceptance.
The thing is I am grateful and I was grateful with my life with my husband. Eg a Marriage, a Family, a Home, a Life, Security.
That's a lot to lose for some Pisces bastard who took me for a ride!
Despite being grateful for everything I had, everything else took over. Loneliness, Anger, Insecurity, Depression, Anxiety.
Sadly I became blind to everything I had. Emotion took over.
Life is a lot harder now.
I hate being a single mum. Especially where me and my husband don't speak.
We haven't spoken for most of her life. She's nearly 8.
I just wish I'd forced myself to REMEMBER what I had and the Gratitude I always had!
I remember who saying you were unhappy in your marriage before Pisces.. that marrying your husband was a mistake and the only reason you stayed is you couldn’t bear to be apart from your little girl. I don’t get you saying this about him now. You were miserable then. The only thing I can get from this is you are unhappy with yourself & will be unhappy wherever you are until you learn to accept yourself & love yourself. You have to stop blaming others and accept your responsibility. It isn’t that there isn’t blame to go around, it’s just that it does no good to dwell on it. If you are going to stop patterns, you need to accept your part in it, and rise above. See it just is what it is, you love yourself and make a better life.
I couldn’t imagine being single either, but it is the best thing I did for myself and children. I committed to being healthier emotionally and we all are now. I’m financially better off by a long ways too. I get to be me, do the things I enjoy. There are not so great things too, but focusing on the good makes a huge difference. The good is just so amazing truly. You just can’t get dragged down by the negative. Nothing is perfect in life, so we have to walk that road finding the best things.
That's the thing. I don't blame others and fail to notice my part!
I'm in therapy talking at length about my regret in not patching up my marriage!
I know the part I played. I didn't make a decision either way - my husband or the Pisces!
I think its important to point out that I was post-natal and as a result my head was all over the place, made worse by threats made by my husband!
I became scared and my head became f**ked up!
I was trying to be a mum and making that transition was not easy as becoming a mum is an emotional and mental transition. Not just having a baby to look after.
You become a mum emotionally and mentally.
At the time I just wanted and needed emotional support from my husband. But i got none!
I needed to make a decision- my lover or my husband.
I chose my pisces lover and it was the biggest mistake of my life!
I knew 5yrs ago that if I leave my husband I will hate being a single mum, should the Pisces guy not be with me.
I knew i wanted to make a go of my family instead of throwing it away. And I knew this in 2016! I was just so depressed, full of anxiety, insecurity, lonliness, sadness and anger that i was unable to clearly formulate a decision and just go with it.
Instead i chose the effing Loser pisces.
And to this day he is still with her!
He even cheated on his WIFE before he met his current partner!click to expand
I still think you should seek counseling and some type of domestic violence support. They will have shelters and probably job and legal connections. A google search in the city should find it all.
Otherwise, he said, she said, we did, and they said, I felt, he thought..
All of that, the details, they are less important than keeping in mind that if someone loves and cares about you, they want good for you. They don't want to control you, or tear you down, yell at you, or lead you on for years. None of those actions are motivated by love or care.
So you gotta love yourself and right now that means a couple things, getting yourself into a healthier place emotionally and mentally. Counseling will be a big step there. And the next step would be finding a job and a stable place to be for your children.
You can do this!
I'm trash at communicating.
What I'm saying is that both of these have men have shown you that they don't love or care about you. And if they do, it isn't by much. So right now, that's all you need to know. Working out the particulars can wait until later because its code red, enemies at the gate right now. You got problems to deal with. So don't worry about those two shitheads. Should tell the pisces' wife what has been going on after you spit in his face and cut him out for good.
And your husband. It sounds like the only way this dude was ok toward you was when you were little timid housewife at home doing everything he said to do. Is this really what you want to repair? Fuck that dude.
In short, go no contact with these guys and get your situation stable. Then circle back and get your kids.
Counseling counseling counseling. Seek out domestic violence services. No contact with either man. Job, place to stay and kids.
What I'm saying is that both of these have men have shown you that they don't love or care about you. And if they do, it isn't by much. So right now, that's all you need to know. Working out the particulars can wait until later because its code red, enemies at the gate right now. You got problems to deal with. So don't worry about those two shitheads. Should tell the pisces' wife what has been going on after you spit in his face and cut him out for good.
And your husband. It sounds like the only way this dude was ok toward you was when you were little timid housewife at home doing everything he said to do. Is this really what you want to repair? Fuck that dude.
In short, go no contact with these guys and get your situation stable. Then circle back and get your kids.
Counseling counseling counseling. Seek out domestic violence services. No contact with either man. Job, place to stay and kids.
You need to count your blessings and leave the past behind.
You've got a daughter, plenty of child-free time to do whatever you want (thanks to your ex and his new partner), a mortgage-free (?) apartment. You are fitness instructor, so I imagine you are fit and healthy.
Firstly, close your past chapters and try some brain fitness regime, with a goal in mind.
You want a new, proper relationship? Then find a suitable man, don't waste your time with some 15 years junior fling, or someone else's partner! Plenty of decent men in the UK who are single/divorced and looking. Give yourself a deadline for when you'll be free to date again.
I'm looking forward to reading your NEW dating adventures on dxpnet. I like your writing style , it's very captivating!
You've got a daughter, plenty of child-free time to do whatever you want (thanks to your ex and his new partner), a mortgage-free (?) apartment. You are fitness instructor, so I imagine you are fit and healthy.
Firstly, close your past chapters and try some brain fitness regime, with a goal in mind.
You want a new, proper relationship? Then find a suitable man, don't waste your time with some 15 years junior fling, or someone else's partner! Plenty of decent men in the UK who are single/divorced and looking. Give yourself a deadline for when you'll be free to date again.
I'm looking forward to reading your NEW dating adventures on dxpnet. I like your writing style , it's very captivating!
Posted by pooface222
That's the thing. I don't blame others and fail to notice my part!
I'm in therapy talking at length about my regret in not patching up my marriage!...
Respectfully, if this is how you're using your therapy sessions a year into the process, then I can see why you're stuck.
If you're focused and "talking" about regret, then you're spending too much time stuck in the past*, oppose to focusing on how you can move forward. Don't get me wrong, exploring and discussing the past is necessary in the beginning if you are also using that time to better understand why you made the decisions that you made, identifying your pattern(s). Otherwise it merely an expensive vent session. And you already have DXP for that no?
Move on to constructive conversations in your session. Or look for another therapist.
Posted by SeajattPosted by pooface222Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by pooface222Posted by PuzzlePieces
One of the most important things I’ve learned in life is how to be grateful. It was extremely important after I left my husband. See because the sadness drags you so far down, it’s hard to breathe sometimes. It’s hard to remember there are good things. But a grateful practice helps you realize all the good things you have in this world, instead of dwelling on the bad. I mean I know you’re a Capricorn but you need to try it. I used to make a list of 10 things I was grateful for everyday. You know it’s amazing there are always things no matter how bad your life is! It really helps to change your focus. I’d say that’s what you need … to change your focus. Focus on the good instead of the bad. Life will get better!
You are so right.
Gratitude.
And also..Acceptance.
The thing is I am grateful and I was grateful with my life with my husband. Eg a Marriage, a Family, a Home, a Life, Security.
That's a lot to lose for some Pisces bastard who took me for a ride!
Despite being grateful for everything I had, everything else took over. Loneliness, Anger, Insecurity, Depression, Anxiety.
Sadly I became blind to everything I had. Emotion took over.
Life is a lot harder now.
I hate being a single mum. Especially where me and my husband don't speak.
We haven't spoken for most of her life. She's nearly 8.
I just wish I'd forced myself to REMEMBER what I had and the Gratitude I always had!
I remember who saying you were unhappy in your marriage before Pisces.. that marrying your husband was a mistake and the only reason you stayed is you couldn’t bear to be apart from your little girl. I don’t get you saying this about him now. You were miserable then. The only thing I can get from this is you are unhappy with yourself & will be unhappy wherever you are until you learn to accept yourself & love yourself. You have to stop blaming others and accept your responsibility. It isn’t that there isn’t blame to go around, it’s just that it does no good to dwell on it. If you are going to stop patterns, you need to accept your part in it, and rise above. See it just is what it is, you love yourself and make a better life.
I couldn’t imagine being single either, but it is the best thing I did for myself and children. I committed to being healthier emotionally and we all are now. I’m financially better off by a long ways too. I get to be me, do the things I enjoy. There are not so great things too, but focusing on the good makes a huge difference. The good is just so amazing truly. You just can’t get dragged down by the negative. Nothing is perfect in life, so we have to walk that road finding the best things.
That's the thing. I don't blame others and fail to notice my part!
I'm in therapy talking at length about my regret in not patching up my marriage!
I know the part I played. I didn't make a decision either way - my husband or the Pisces!
I think its important to point out that I was post-natal and as a result my head was all over the place, made worse by threats made by my husband!
I became scared and my head became f**ked up!
I was trying to be a mum and making that transition was not easy as becoming a mum is an emotional and mental transition. Not just having a baby to look after.
You become a mum emotionally and mentally.
At the time I just wanted and needed emotional support from my husband. But i got none!
I needed to make a decision- my lover or my husband.
I chose my pisces lover and it was the biggest mistake of my life!
I knew 5yrs ago that if I leave my husband I will hate being a single mum, should the Pisces guy not be with me.
I knew i wanted to make a go of my family instead of throwing it away. And I knew this in 2016! I was just so depressed, full of anxiety, insecurity, lonliness, sadness and anger that i was unable to clearly formulate a decision and just go with it.
Instead i chose the effing Loser pisces.
And to this day he is still with her!
He even cheated on his WIFE before he met his current partner!
I still think you should seek counseling and some type of domestic violence support. They will have shelters and probably job and legal connections. A google search in the city should find it all.
Otherwise, he said, she said, we did, and they said, I felt, he thought..
All of that, the details, they are less important than keeping in mind that if someone loves and cares about you, they want good for you. They don't want to control you, or tear you down, yell at you, or lead you on for years. None of those actions are motivated by love or care.
So you gotta love yourself and right now that means a couple things, getting yourself into a healthier place emotionally and mentally. Counseling will be a big step there. And the next step would be finding a job and a stable place to be for your children.
You can do this!click to expand
Thank you so much.
I have a place for me and my little one but its the mental emotional torture of my ex-husband still being controlling of me even in divorce.
I just wish I had stayed in the marriage to protect her by seeing her 7 days a week. I truly hate the position I'm in.
I mean JESUS I'm a fkn IDIOT!
I moaned about being married to a controlling guy who pays most of the mortgage on a 4 bed house, takes us on lovely holidays abroad AND I get to see my child all the time!!
NOW?
I'm a lonely miserable single mum in pain every day and wishing I'd saved what I had.
Its my child I miss more than anything!
How is your ex husband controlling you? I thought he has another wife and your daughter is with them now so what is he doing to control you?
Posted by DonnaLibra
How is your ex husband controlling you? I thought he has another wife and your daughter is with them now so what is he doing to control you?
He has partial custody. Not really control, just his parental rights.
Posted by Seajatt
I'm trash at communicating.
What I'm saying is that both of these have men have shown you that they don't love or care about you. And if they do, it isn't by much. So right now, that's all you need to know. Working out the particulars can wait until later because its code red, enemies at the gate right now. You got problems to deal with. So don't worry about those two shitheads. Should tell the pisces' wife what has been going on after you spit in his face and cut him out for good.
And your husband. It sounds like the only way this dude was ok toward you was when you were little timid housewife at home doing everything he said to do. Is this really what you want to repair? Fuck that dude.
In short, go no contact with these guys and get your situation stable. Then circle back and get your kids.
Counseling counseling counseling. Seek out domestic violence services. No contact with either man. Job, place to stay and kids.
Hi again..
Just read your message again..
You are right.
My husband Was only nice to me when I do as he says. But the moment I show my 'balls' he can't cope so shoots me down and insults me.
I like that you said I should tell the pisces (wife) long term partner. My best friend has been saying the same for a while..and I've been thinking about telling her too.
Do you think I should?
She too lost everything to be with him.
She has her house from her divorce, (that he lives in with her), her job, her friends, her life.
Its all HERS. Even the friends. Without her he has almost nothing.
I say almost because he bought a house 2hrs away and put his son and a lodger in it to pay his mortgage...under the guise of caring about his son.
He told me last year "my son doesn't want me around."
Well d'uh..his son is 22 and wants FREEDOM and a LIFE!
Like most of us when we leave home.
So if/when she chucks him out, he'll have to go and live with his son!
What a HUGE style -cramper for his son!
I'm tempted to tell her.. especially as i feel he has moved on to another fitness trainer i know of.
You obviously want to do it despite others saying not to. Then fucking do it.
“So if/when she chucks him out, he'll have to go and live with his son!
What a HUGE style -cramper for his son”!
So you don’t mind playing a part in putting his Son in a difficult position?
That sounds very selfish to me.
What a HUGE style -cramper for his son”!
So you don’t mind playing a part in putting his Son in a difficult position?
That sounds very selfish to me.
Posted by DonnaLibra
How is your ex husband controlling you? I thought he has another wife and your daughter is with them now so what is he doing to control you?
When it comes to arranging time our child spends with us, its His Way or the Highway!
Just like our Marriage!
I am not allowed to have days etc I want. I am only allowed what HE says I can have!
When he wants to make changes I have to give him what he wants nut its not the same the other way round.
Its just like being married to him!
Posted by pooface222Posted by Seajatt
I'm trash at communicating.
What I'm saying is that both of these have men have shown you that they don't love or care about you. And if they do, it isn't by much. So right now, that's all you need to know. Working out the particulars can wait until later because its code red, enemies at the gate right now. You got problems to deal with. So don't worry about those two shitheads. Should tell the pisces' wife what has been going on after you spit in his face and cut him out for good.
And your husband. It sounds like the only way this dude was ok toward you was when you were little timid housewife at home doing everything he said to do. Is this really what you want to repair? Fuck that dude.
In short, go no contact with these guys and get your situation stable. Then circle back and get your kids.
Counseling counseling counseling. Seek out domestic violence services. No contact with either man. Job, place to stay and kids.
Hi again..
Just read your message again..
You are right.
My husband Was only nice to me when I do as he says. But the moment I show my 'balls' he can't cope so shoots me down and insults me.
I like that you said I should tell the pisces (wife) long term partner. My best friend has been saying the same for a while..and I've been thinking about telling her too.
Do you think I should?
She too lost everything to be with him.
She has her house from her divorce, (that he lives in with her), her job, her friends, her life.
Its all HERS. Even the friends. Without her he has almost nothing.
I say almost because he bought a house 2hrs away and put his son and a lodger in it to pay his mortgage...under the guise of caring about his son.
He told me last year "my son doesn't want me around."
Well d'uh..his son is 22 and wants FREEDOM and a LIFE!
Like most of us when we leave home.
So if/when she chucks him out, he'll have to go and live with his son!
What a HUGE style -cramper for his son!
I'm tempted to tell her.. especially as i feel he has moved on to another fitness trainer i know of.click to expand
cardinal men be that way
i'm curious what sign she is
errbody messy and cheating
Posted by pooface222Posted by DonnaLibra
How is your ex husband controlling you? I thought he has another wife and your daughter is with them now so what is he doing to control you?
When it comes to arranging time our child spends with us, its His Way or the Highway!
Just like our Marriage!
I am not allowed to have days etc I want. I am only allowed what HE says I can have!
When he wants to make changes I have to give him what he wants nut its not the same the other way round.
Its just like being married to him!click to expand
Get court involved your not as powerless as you think
They have assistance for ur divorce
Well karma is playing its full Hand on you!!
Posted by MyStarsShine
“So if/when she chucks him out, he'll have to go and live with his son!
What a HUGE style -cramper for his son”!
So you don’t mind playing a part in putting his Son in a difficult position?
That sounds very selfish to me.
Not as selfish as the pisces guy pushing me to leave my husband, constantly talking about a new life with me and a future. Including telling me he always wanted a baby girl.
Then..when I leave my husband to be with him, my little girl was 3, I finally got my own little place 2yrs ago, I asked him to move in with me..
He says "No."
That is F**KING selfish!
I've lost everything for nothing!
Then he led me on further by saying he'll move in with me "One Day."
Posted by pooface222Posted by MyStarsShine
“So if/when she chucks him out, he'll have to go and live with his son!
What a HUGE style -cramper for his son”!
So you don’t mind playing a part in putting his Son in a difficult position?
That sounds very selfish to me.
Not as selfish as the pisces guy pushing me to leave my husband, constantly talking about a new life with me and a future. Including telling me he always wanted a baby girl.
Then..when I leave my husband to be with him, my little girl was 3, I finally got my own little place 2yrs ago, I asked him to move in with me..
He says "No."
That is F**KING selfish!
I've lost everything for nothing!
Then he led me on further by saying he'll move in with me "One Day."click to expand
you took a chance and lost. time to move on. for the most of it it looks like you used/have poor judgment. it doesn't matter what this guy said or did, you ultimately made the decision and it was a bad one.
Posted by jeanePosted by pooface222Posted by MyStarsShine
“So if/when she chucks him out, he'll have to go and live with his son!
What a HUGE style -cramper for his son”!
So you don’t mind playing a part in putting his Son in a difficult position?
That sounds very selfish to me.
Not as selfish as the pisces guy pushing me to leave my husband, constantly talking about a new life with me and a future. Including telling me he always wanted a baby girl.
Then..when I leave my husband to be with him, my little girl was 3, I finally got my own little place 2yrs ago, I asked him to move in with me..
He says "No."
That is F**KING selfish!
I've lost everything for nothing!
Then he led me on further by saying he'll move in with me "One Day."
you took a chance and lost. time to move on. for the most of it it looks like you used/have poor judgment. it doesn't matter what this guy said or did, you ultimately made the decision and it was a bad one.click to expand
Yes.
I know.
Exactly!
You've hit the nail right on the head!
This is why I'm in therapy.
I made the total wrong decision and left my marriage and family for some Fly by Night Loser User who never gave a shit about me in the first place.
I was post-natal with a baby of 4 months when this guy came into my life. My husband being at his controlling WORST!
I went for the Pisces guy who offered me emotional love and support every single day, without thinking straight.
So.
There it is.
Posted by pooface222Posted by MyStarsShine
“So if/when she chucks him out, he'll have to go and live with his son!
What a HUGE style -cramper for his son”!
So you don’t mind playing a part in putting his Son in a difficult position?
That sounds very selfish to me.
Not as selfish as the pisces guy pushing me to leave my husband, constantly talking about a new life with me and a future. Including telling me he always wanted a baby girl.
Then..when I leave my husband to be with him, my little girl was 3, I finally got my own little place 2yrs ago, I asked him to move in with me..
He says "No."
That is F**KING selfish!
I've lost everything for nothing!
Then he led me on further by saying he'll move in with me "One Day."click to expand
I wasn’t referring to him, i was talking about you...
You’re like the cautionary tale for anyone who considers cheating.
You’re angry and bitter now. So grab that flame thrower and scorch the rest of it down and tell the wife everything (if she doesn’t already know) and disappear into the sunset.
OR try to work on making a cordial relationship with your ex in order to gain more access to your daughter. Too bad you didn’t consider how your actions were going to affect her when you went running to the Pisces.
You’re angry and bitter now. So grab that flame thrower and scorch the rest of it down and tell the wife everything (if she doesn’t already know) and disappear into the sunset.
OR try to work on making a cordial relationship with your ex in order to gain more access to your daughter. Too bad you didn’t consider how your actions were going to affect her when you went running to the Pisces.
Posted by geminiflyby
You’re like the cautionary tale for anyone who considers cheating.
You’re angry and bitter now. So grab that flame thrower and scorch the rest of it down and tell the wife everything (if she doesn’t already know) and disappear into the sunset.
OR try to work on making a cordial relationship with your ex in order to gain more access to your daughter. Too bad you didn’t consider how your actions were going to affect her when you went running to the Pisces.
Wise words 👍
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pooface222Posted by MyStarsShine
“So if/when she chucks him out, he'll have to go and live with his son!
What a HUGE style -cramper for his son”!
So you don’t mind playing a part in putting his Son in a difficult position?
That sounds very selfish to me.
Not as selfish as the pisces guy pushing me to leave my husband, constantly talking about a new life with me and a future. Including telling me he always wanted a baby girl.
Then..when I leave my husband to be with him, my little girl was 3, I finally got my own little place 2yrs ago, I asked him to move in with me..
He says "No."
That is F**KING selfish!
I've lost everything for nothing!
Then he led me on further by saying he'll move in with me "One Day."
I wasn’t referring to him, i was talking about you...click to expand
I know you were talking about me.
So I'm defending myself by saying if you think I'm selfish then look at what this Pisces guy did to a woman who was post-natal and living in fear of her husband.
Pisces guy didn't care about my baby girl. He didn't care about me.
He cared about himself and having a secure life with me (so he said), while I become a single mum, struggling emotionally and financially, while he womanizes under my roof!
That is beyond selfish of him.
And far Far More selfish than the possibility of the son having his dad around.
At least the son can go out at night with friend and/or girlfriend. He's 22.
And the Pisces guy can also go out to the gym and/or to find his next sex-toy woman.
I would have....and HAVE ...ended up as a single mum since my little girl was 3.
Posted by geminiflyby
You’re like the cautionary tale for anyone who considers cheating.
You’re angry and bitter now. So grab that flame thrower and scorch the rest of it down and tell the wife everything (if she doesn’t already know) and disappear into the sunset.
OR try to work on making a cordial relationship with your ex in order to gain more access to your daughter. Too bad you didn’t consider how your actions were going to affect her when you went running to the Pisces.
Actually I DID consider how my actions would affect my child THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!
In 2016, thought about co-parenting. And only seeing my child half the time. And about her life being split between 2 parents.
I didn't want that for her at all!
Or for myself!
So..
I tried talking to my husband.
The problem was his mum was dying.
So whenever I tried talking to him about our issues, as gently as I could, he would SNAP..
"MY MUMS DYING!"
So i acknowledged that and tried to explain how I'm feeling too.
I said "I'm lonely." I was referring to being a mum in the daytime where ok i get to meet other mums but i was trying to get back to being Me again.
I wanted to feel like Me. I wanted to feel like a Couple again. I already felt like a single mum back then too.
My husband refused to talk about anything!
His response was "I'M Lonely!"
Oh great so my feelings don't matter. Yet again!
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by pooface222Posted by Seajatt
I'm trash at communicating.
What I'm saying is that both of these have men have shown you that they don't love or care about you. And if they do, it isn't by much. So right now, that's all you need to know. Working out the particulars can wait until later because its code red, enemies at the gate right now. You got problems to deal with. So don't worry about those two shitheads. Should tell the pisces' wife what has been going on after you spit in his face and cut him out for good.
And your husband. It sounds like the only way this dude was ok toward you was when you were little timid housewife at home doing everything he said to do. Is this really what you want to repair? Fuck that dude.
In short, go no contact with these guys and get your situation stable. Then circle back and get your kids.
Counseling counseling counseling. Seek out domestic violence services. No contact with either man. Job, place to stay and kids.
Hi again..
Just read your message again..
You are right.
My husband Was only nice to me when I do as he says. But the moment I show my 'balls' he can't cope so shoots me down and insults me.
I like that you said I should tell the pisces (wife) long term partner. My best friend has been saying the same for a while..and I've been thinking about telling her too.
Do you think I should?
She too lost everything to be with him.
She has her house from her divorce, (that he lives in with her), her job, her friends, her life.
Its all HERS. Even the friends. Without her he has almost nothing.
I say almost because he bought a house 2hrs away and put his son and a lodger in it to pay his mortgage...under the guise of caring about his son.
He told me last year "my son doesn't want me around."
Well d'uh..his son is 22 and wants FREEDOM and a LIFE!
Like most of us when we leave home.
So if/when she chucks him out, he'll have to go and live with his son!
What a HUGE style -cramper for his son!
I'm tempted to tell her.. especially as i feel he has moved on to another fitness trainer i know of.
cardinal men be that way
i'm curious what sign she is
errbody messy and cheatingclick to expand
Hi ya..
When you say cardinal men, I'm guessing you mean my husband? He's Aries.
(I'm Capricorn).
And as for Her sign, I'm guessing you mean the Pieces guys partner?
She is Sagittarius.
So what do you think now?
Posted by TruemaraPosted by pooface222Posted by DonnaLibra
How is your ex husband controlling you? I thought he has another wife and your daughter is with them now so what is he doing to control you?
When it comes to arranging time our child spends with us, its His Way or the Highway!
Just like our Marriage!
I am not allowed to have days etc I want. I am only allowed what HE says I can have!
When he wants to make changes I have to give him what he wants nut its not the same the other way round.
Its just like being married to him!
Get court involved your not as powerless as you think
They have assistance for ur divorceclick to expand
Thanks so much...we're already divorced though.
Posted by pooface222
She is Sagittarius.
So what do you think now?
If this is correct, you're not going to get the results you're hoping for by telling her.
I think you want to tell Pisces wife about your affair out of revenge because he is now with another affair partner. The wife will view you as a scorned woman and will think why didn't you tell her about the affair when you were in it. She will not leave Pisces over that.
If your ex husband has split custody of your daughter isn't there set custody as to what days and time each of you has with her? If not, you can go to your attorney and request this so you don't have deal with arguing over it anymore with Aries. You can do that next week.
When the Pisces told you he wanted a baby girl with you he meant "his baby" not your ex husband's little girl. You too have acted very selfishly in this Pooface so I don't know how you expect better from him.
If your ex husband has split custody of your daughter isn't there set custody as to what days and time each of you has with her? If not, you can go to your attorney and request this so you don't have deal with arguing over it anymore with Aries. You can do that next week.
When the Pisces told you he wanted a baby girl with you he meant "his baby" not your ex husband's little girl. You too have acted very selfishly in this Pooface so I don't know how you expect better from him.
Posted by pooface222Posted by LadyNeptune
“I have a number of people around me who will be able to hear us.”
This says it all.
Yes. I know. I meant to say that on my post. He had his dad staying with him. He could have just sent me a TEXT ffs!?click to expand
You don’t get it—his dad, his friend, his workout partner, the clerk at the drugstore; why should it matter that anyone hears him talking to you? You’re his “down-low” baby;
Pisces are the most dangerous people; they can’t be trusted and they have so many natural qualities to fall back on, as seemingly normal reasons to the untrained eye as to why they shouldn’t be held accountable for their non-follow through in so many departments; flaky, sweet, overwhelmed easily..players all play by the same playbook. Don’t think they’re not aware of their shortcomings. They intertwine their “game” around their personality; you’re his lil’ plaything; he determined this relationship is for his fun. Thinking too much about lying would defeat it’s light, easy-going purpose. You’re the perfect type for a player to prey upon—you have excuses on backlog for their lack of respect to you.
It’s very dangerous to get involved with players. When you give one his way and then he’s done with you, he passes you over to his friends to get what they can from you. Players know players. They brag to each other what they got out of you. You leaving your husband for him?? Big-time props in his circle. If you buy him gifts, when there comes a point in time where he thinks you’re too hurt to carry on with “winning” him to give him anything further, he ghosts, passes you over to another player to try their luck with you. You’ll never have a chance to meet someone really eligible because the best years of your life will be blown dealing with and giving players “a chance.” You’ll grow jaded from relationships.
“Actually I DID consider how my actions would affect my child THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!”
And yet you did not put her needs ABOVE your own. It is rather fascinating reading your responses to this thread. You have rationalized all of your poor choices. You were hurting, you were lonely, you were not getting your needs met.
Leaving a toxic and un-fixable relationship is a positive step. Of course, not the way you chose. But regardless, it turned you into a single parent. Guess what? You have plenty of company! Network with other single moms. Again try to co-parent with the dad even if it means kissing his ass. He’s never going to change but you need to do whatever it takes to continue to see your daughter.
Enough of the ranting and self-condemnation and “what if’s”. What’s done is done.
And yet you did not put her needs ABOVE your own. It is rather fascinating reading your responses to this thread. You have rationalized all of your poor choices. You were hurting, you were lonely, you were not getting your needs met.
Leaving a toxic and un-fixable relationship is a positive step. Of course, not the way you chose. But regardless, it turned you into a single parent. Guess what? You have plenty of company! Network with other single moms. Again try to co-parent with the dad even if it means kissing his ass. He’s never going to change but you need to do whatever it takes to continue to see your daughter.
Enough of the ranting and self-condemnation and “what if’s”. What’s done is done.
Posted by MikeNYNYC
Pisces are the most dangerous people; they can’t be trusted and they have so many natural qualities to fall back on, as seemingly normal reasons to the untrained eye as to why they shouldn’t be held accountable for their non-follow through in so many departments; flaky, sweet, overwhelmed easily..players all play by the same playbook. Don’t think they’re not aware of their shortcomings. They intertwine their “game” around their personality; you’re his lil’ plaything; he determined this relationship is for his fun. Thinking too much about lying would defeat it’s light, easy-going purpose. You’re the perfect type for a player to prey upon—you have excuses on backlog for their lack of respect to you.
Yes you are right.
They are very dangerous. And sadly its taken me 7yrs to finally see it.
This one plays game after game after game. When I let him know I'm not happy with his behaviour with just a glance, he either laughs it off like I'm flirting with him, or he gets 'hurt' and won't come near me.
Ghosts me for a few weeks, then comes back as if nothing happened.
It really has been exhausting and he has worn me out!
I went to a class at the gym today ..it is taught by an instructor who has insulted to me behind her back.
Then goes to her class.
This is one of his games.
Bad-mouths an instructor then plays the sweet little puppy-dog to their face.
He became an instructor just like me. He trained to or 3yrs ago. Last year he told me he Doesnt want to have a Permanent class, he just wants to cover classes and even told me he doesn't like teaching the type of fitness he trained in.
THEN...surprise surprise..got himself a PERMANENT class in the exact thing he 'Doeent want to teach anymore.'
I mean REALLY!!
I swear he plays games for the sake of it!
My feelings for him are messed up!
I swing between still wanting him yet feeling resentful and almost hateful towards him.
He makes me want to 🤮
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by pooface222
She is Sagittarius.
So what do you think now?
If this is correct, you're not going to get the results you're hoping for by telling her.click to expand
Why wont I get the results?
Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by pooface222Posted by LadyNeptune
“I have a number of people around me who will be able to hear us.”
This says it all.
Yes. I know. I meant to say that on my post. He had his dad staying with him. He could have just sent me a TEXT ffs!?
You don’t get it—his dad, his friend, his workout partner, the clerk at the drugstore; why should it matter that anyone hears him talking to you? You’re his “down-low” baby;click to expand
I Do get it.
This past year especially I have been confronting him with "I'm just an option to you."
"I'm your dirty secret."
"I'm at the bottom of the pile in your life."
Of course he denied it.
So I just kept saying it to him. Reminding him.
As usual he behaved like I'm being mean to him. Then stopped talking to me again.
Posted by StonyPosted by pooface222Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by pooface222
She is Sagittarius.
So what do you think now?
If this is correct, you're not going to get the results you're hoping for by telling her.
Why wont I get the results?
How broken ARE you LMAOclick to expand
JEEEEZ...I'm only asking. I like knowing why people say certain things.
I don't necessarily want to actually tell her.
I am scared of the repercussions of telling her.
Posted by pooface222Posted by StonyPosted by pooface222Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by pooface222
She is Sagittarius.
So what do you think now?
If this is correct, you're not going to get the results you're hoping for by telling her.
Why wont I get the results?
How broken ARE you LMAO
JEEEEZ...I'm only asking. I like knowing why people say certain things.
I don't necessarily want to actually tell her.
I am scared of the repercussions of telling her.click to expand
👍
Posted by pooface222Posted by MikeNYNYC
Pisces are the most dangerous people; they can’t be trusted and they have so many natural qualities to fall back on, as seemingly normal reasons to the untrained eye as to why they shouldn’t be held accountable for their non-follow through in so many departments; flaky, sweet, overwhelmed easily..players all play by the same playbook. Don’t think they’re not aware of their shortcomings. They intertwine their “game” around their personality; you’re his lil’ plaything; he determined this relationship is for his fun. Thinking too much about lying would defeat it’s light, easy-going purpose. You’re the perfect type for a player to prey upon—you have excuses on backlog for their lack of respect to you.
Yes you are right.
They are very dangerous. And sadly its taken me 7yrs to finally see it.
This one plays game after game after game. When I let him know I'm not happy with his behaviour with just a glance, he either laughs it off like I'm flirting with him, or he gets 'hurt' and won't come near me.
Ghosts me for a few weeks, then comes back as if nothing happened.
It really has been exhausting and he has worn me out!
I went to a class at the gym today ..it is taught by an instructor who has insulted to me behind her back.
Then goes to her class.
This is one of his games.
Bad-mouths an instructor then plays the sweet little puppy-dog to their face.
He became an instructor just like me. He trained to or 3yrs ago. Last year he told me he Doesnt want to have a Permanent class, he just wants to cover classes and even told me he doesn't like teaching the type of fitness he trained in.
THEN...surprise surprise..got himself a PERMANENT class in the exact thing he 'Doeent want to teach anymore.'
I mean REALLY!!
I swear he plays games for the sake of it!
My feelings for him are messed up!
I swing between still wanting him yet feeling resentful and almost hateful towards him.
He makes me want to 🤮click to expand
I think he used you to bolster his self esteem to study the in's and outs of the personality it takes to be a full-time teacher. It was the support he needed for his insecurities. I'd transfer to another location at this point, and stay in touch with your colleagues.
Pisces. Reminds me of Alex Rodriguez (Pisces moon) dating Jennifer Lopez just to get close enough to study what it takes to launch a cosmetic line. Lead the other person on for years. And Pisces energy always gets away with it, because if you complain about them to others, all other people know (as dumb-as-a-board as most people are), is how the "Pisces" always seemed so aloof and flaky with direction to be someone even capable of infiltrating such conscious wrong-doing. **They use their natural qualities as the perfect cover-up for their behavior.**
Posted by pooface222Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by pooface222Posted by LadyNeptune
“I have a number of people around me who will be able to hear us.”
This says it all.
Yes. I know. I meant to say that on my post. He had his dad staying with him. He could have just sent me a TEXT ffs!?
You don’t get it—his dad, his friend, his workout partner, the clerk at the drugstore; why should it matter that anyone hears him talking to you? You’re his “down-low” baby;
I Do get it.
This past year especially I have been confronting him with "I'm just an option to you."
"I'm your dirty secret."
"I'm at the bottom of the pile in your life."
Of course he denied it.
So I just kept saying it to him. Reminding him.
As usual he behaved like I'm being mean to him. Then stopped talking to me again.click to expand
If you "got" it, you wouldn't have responded to Lady Neptune's previous comment here, with "he could have just 'texted' me 'ffs';"--you're full of excuses for his behavior.
But, consider the possibility that it's ok if you didn't get it before, but that you got it now.
The bottom line is don't look for remorse from him, or worse yet "closure" from him. Most victims in situations bleed for a sense of closure from their perpetrators in life. He walks through life intending to be someone else's 'problem', not a 'solution'. Realize that he is a walking "problem" for anyone he sees a use for, and whose willing to accept his form of behavior.
The closure you want and the closure you need are quite different. The closure you need, is an inward process. Why would you let someone in that would treat you like this, repeatedly, for years? That's the closure that's necessary, and it involves no one else--only you and yourself.
It's a private process.
The closure you want and the closure you need are quite different. The closure you need, is an inward process. Why would you let someone in that would treat you like this, repeatedly, for years? That's the closure that's necessary, and it involves no one else--only you and yourself.
It's a private process.
Posted by pooface222Posted by geminiflyby
You’re like the cautionary tale for anyone who considers cheating.
You’re angry and bitter now. So grab that flame thrower and scorch the rest of it down and tell the wife everything (if she doesn’t already know) and disappear into the sunset.
OR try to work on making a cordial relationship with your ex in order to gain more access to your daughter. Too bad you didn’t consider how your actions were going to affect her when you went running to the Pisces.
Actually I DID consider how my actions would affect my child THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!
In 2016, thought about co-parenting. And only seeing my child half the time. And about her life being split between 2 parents.
I didn't want that for her at all!
Or for myself!
So..
I tried talking to my husband.
The problem was his mum was dying.
So whenever I tried talking to him about our issues, as gently as I could, he would SNAP..
"MY MUMS DYING!"
So i acknowledged that and tried to explain how I'm feeling too.
I said "I'm lonely." I was referring to being a mum in the daytime where ok i get to meet other mums but i was trying to get back to being Me again.
I wanted to feel like Me. I wanted to feel like a Couple again. I already felt like a single mum back then too.
My husband refused to talk about anything!
His response was "I'M Lonely!"
Oh great so my feelings don't matter. Yet again!click to expand
Everything about you is me, me, me and me. You talk as if you are the only woman who has become a first time mom struggling to adjust or has had post partem depression. Newsflash - women have been dealing with it since the beginning of time. Not all are fortunate enough to have a husband who takes care of all the bills, shops, cooks, washes, cleans the house all while adjusting to being a first time dad with an ungrateful wife who cheats because it's still not enough for her. You are blaming everyone for your bad choices but yourself. You'll never be happy until you own up to what put you in the position you're in now.
I've had 2 relationships with Pisces men and was married to one. They aren't nearly as bad as described above.
Posted by DonnaLibra
I've had 2 relationships with Pisces men and was married to one. They aren't nearly as bad as described above.
My sister and best friend were/are treated like Queens by their Pisces men. I also know a Pisces man who treats his very difficult wife very well.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by DonnaLibra
I've had 2 relationships with Pisces men and was married to one. They aren't nearly as bad as described above.
My sister and best friend were/are treated like Queens by their Pisces men. I also know a Pisces man who treats his very difficult wife very well.click to expand
My 1st husband Pisces was very good to me it's just that we were so young, (19 and 23), very responsible, talented and loving.
Posted by pooface222Posted by StonyPosted by pooface222Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by pooface222
She is Sagittarius.
So what do you think now?
If this is correct, you're not going to get the results you're hoping for by telling her.
Why wont I get the results?
How broken ARE you LMAO
JEEEEZ...I'm only asking. I like knowing why people say certain things.
I don't necessarily want to actually tell her.
I am scared of the repercussions of telling her.click to expand
Good on this because they don't play.
Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by DonnaLibra
I've had 2 relationships with Pisces men and was married to one. They aren't nearly as bad as described above.
My sister and best friend were/are treated like Queens by their Pisces men. I also know a Pisces man who treats his very difficult wife very well.
My 1st husband Pisces was very good to me it's just that we were so young, (19 and 23), very responsible, talented and loving.click to expand
One of my bosses was a Pisces. Whenever his kids or wife were on the phone, he’d drop everything for them. Adored his family ❤️
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I apologise if I have already asked this question on here.
I want to know if Pisces men Need a woman to make the relationship develop by eg talking about living together and talking about houses etc and making appointments to view houses
I’m a Taurus female dating a Pisces and we been together for a year and 9 months, lived together, been long distance for about 3 weeks, and the plan is a year as he’s in NY for his school and I’m in Cali waiting to go to bootcamp until we can get married
It’s a long one...
I’ve been dating this man for almost a year and our relationship has made little to no progress. He doesn’t tell me anything regarding his feelings. Where do I begin...There was one instance he begged me (yes begged me) to see a pictur
And not in the way I was hoping for 😜
So I’ve been chatting to a Pisces guy for a few weeks and things seemed to be going well. He responds almost instantly whenever I text but mostly I have to text first. He works long hours and currently on night shift
How much interest do you give to a Pisces man? In general I tend to give back the same amount that men give me but I’ve never been able to last more than a few dates with a Pisces. The connection always seems to be there at first and then they swim away.
I remember who saying you were unhappy in your marriage before Pisces.. that marrying your husband was a mistake and the only reason you stayed is you couldn’t bear to be apart from your little girl. I don’t get you saying this about him now. You were miserable then. The only thing I can get from this is you are unhappy with yourself & will be unhappy wherever you are until you learn to accept yourself & love yourself. You have to stop blaming others and accept your responsibility. It isn’t that there isn’t blame to go around, it’s just that it does no good to dwell on it. If you are going to stop patterns, you need to accept your part in it, and rise above. See it just is what it is, you love yourself and make a better life.
I couldn’t imagine being single either, but it is the best thing I did for myself and children. I committed to being healthier emotionally and we all are now. I’m financially better off by a long ways too. I get to be me, do the things I enjoy. There are not so great things too, but focusing on the good makes a huge difference. The good is just so amazing truly. You just can’t get dragged down by the negative. Nothing is perfect in life, so we have to walk that road finding the best things.