Annie09
@Annie09
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Is it over for Capricorn man ?
Posted by GobbyPosted by Annie09Posted by DeadInside
whats the lie
I’ve lied to him about my age ..
By how much?
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By 4 years ..
It’s been10 days since no contact but still nothing .
The way we broke it off was by me walking away from him telling him I don’t wanna be his fuck buddy and if he changes his mind , to let me know if I’m still single . Lol
When I said that he had tears in his eyes and followed me to the door . He was standing there till I drove off . He never did this . I’m hoping he regretted to let me go and will contact me soon 😢 10 days no contact and still nothing
When I said that he had tears in his eyes and followed me to the door . He was standing there till I drove off . He never did this . I’m hoping he regretted to let me go and will contact me soon 😢 10 days no contact and still nothing
Posted by Annie09Posted by GobbyPosted by Annie09Posted by DeadInside
whats the lie
I’ve lied to him about my age ..
By how much?
By 4 years ..
It’s been10 days since no contact but still nothing .click to expand
Are you under aged?
Posted by Sagicorn
Well could be he expects you again to reach out first. Not sure what to tell you. Do it if you feel like it, but don't get emotional whatever happens. Keep it together no matter what. Also don't accept fwb again as it clearly isn't for you. You can simply ask how he's doing and that you thought about him. You don't have anything to lose anyway. He might be expecting you to make up for your lie and to show you care. Again, it's a long shot but if you feel like contacting him I say do it.
Thanks , yes definitely he’s expecting me to reach out first as I was always the one trying to repair the relationship - towards the end. And the fact he tried to put me in a fwb zone , speaks miles about his confidence . He knows I liked him way too much so he was hoping I would agree to it rather than lose him . But I don’t want to reach out . He dumped me so that’s why I’m doing no contact . 1 and half week in .
He haven’t blocked me or anything I’m sure if I text him he’ll reply but I just don’t wanna seem desperate. I want us to be like before , in love and together but not just his sexual toy. I’m stubborn in this 🙈
She must be underage, tut tut
I know ... he was telling me from the beginning he hates lies . Ok the thing was we ve met on tinder . And I had NO intentions on having a relationship . I’ve made a fake profile with fake name and age and pictures lol . So when we ve met he was surprised he told me he didn’t expect to like me and I was the same . He ve never asked me - how old are you question.
But after half year together after declaring love for each other I’ve decided to make sure he knows my real age. So I asked him if he knows my age and he said -not sure . Then he was bit quiet but cool . After that he started to pick up fights with me it seemed like he was doing it to have a reason to break up . And the last day of our argument he said the age matters to him and why did I lie ..
But after half year together after declaring love for each other I’ve decided to make sure he knows my real age. So I asked him if he knows my age and he said -not sure . Then he was bit quiet but cool . After that he started to pick up fights with me it seemed like he was doing it to have a reason to break up . And the last day of our argument he said the age matters to him and why did I lie ..
best thing is...if he contacts you...explain how the age-lie happened. It wasn't intentional and that it was for your tinder because you like to keep your privacy until you know someone..and he's that special person you decided to open up to but you forgot about the age thing on your profile... that you hope you're both mature enough to get over this minor issue.
Be logical. Be confident. Be sincere.
It was an honest misunderstanding so hopefully he can deal with it unless the issue is something else...
sigh ain't nobody got time for Drama Kings.
Be logical. Be confident. Be sincere.
It was an honest misunderstanding so hopefully he can deal with it unless the issue is something else...
sigh ain't nobody got time for Drama Kings.
Posted by stillstillwater
best thing is...if he contacts you...explain how the age-lie happened. It wasn't intentional and that it was for your tinder because you like to keep your privacy until you know someone..and he's that special person you decided to open up to but you forgot about the age thing on your profile... that you hope you're both mature enough to get over
this minor issue.
Be logical. Be confident. Be sincere.
It was an honest misunderstanding so hopefully he can deal with it unless the issue is something else...
sigh ain't nobody got time for Drama Kings
Thanks for a great advice , I hope so that he will contact me not sure at this stage it’s been almost 2 weeks. This is the longest we haven’t been speaking . Yeah there were other issues before the age problem came up . From the moment we were “in love” lots of arguing he started to be very insecure and controlling , always saying I’m not giving him 100% . Would get mad if I haven’t replied to his message within an half n hour etc.. what I’ve noticed is that this cap guy was so scared people would lie to him but had too high expectations of people at the same time, so people have to lie so he won’t get angry . What do u think about this ?
I'll assume that your four year age difference has not put you under any consensual age limit. You didn't actually state what age you are a s which way the four years went, which would have been easier, so I'll assume there's nothing detrimental here.
If he truly loved you and if he felt your relationship had a good foundation over the last six months to continue building on then the four year age difference would not have made a blind bit of difference.
Yes, you lied and also kept that lie for so long. Which I think is part of the issue here.
However, that said, this guy appears to have discarded you so easily, far too easily, and to change what you thought was a relationship into a fwb is just not the behaviour of someone who has feelings for you.
What I think has happened is your relationship wasn't quite as rosy as you thought it was. It seems like you had a hell of a lot of arguments between you in such a short space of time. That's not healthy at all. I'm sure there were good times that made you feel fuzzy and warm but, overall, I just don't think this is a match between you.
Add in that despite joining Tinder, neither of you were looking for a relationship. That's pretty much what you found - no relationship.
I think he was looking for a way out of something he wasn't quite sure of anyway. Sometimes, people come together for a short space of time, be it one month, three months, or six months. Six months is enough time to know if you do or do not wish to continue being with someone. Just because you are together, it doesn't mean 'happily ever after'.
I think you need time to yourself. Don't text or contact him. Each day will become easier. Later on, when you feel ready, you can date again only this time be clear with what you want and take time to date and get to know someone before jumping into bed with them. It will help you be more objective. Objectivity was lacking here.
If he truly loved you and if he felt your relationship had a good foundation over the last six months to continue building on then the four year age difference would not have made a blind bit of difference.
Yes, you lied and also kept that lie for so long. Which I think is part of the issue here.
However, that said, this guy appears to have discarded you so easily, far too easily, and to change what you thought was a relationship into a fwb is just not the behaviour of someone who has feelings for you.
What I think has happened is your relationship wasn't quite as rosy as you thought it was. It seems like you had a hell of a lot of arguments between you in such a short space of time. That's not healthy at all. I'm sure there were good times that made you feel fuzzy and warm but, overall, I just don't think this is a match between you.
Add in that despite joining Tinder, neither of you were looking for a relationship. That's pretty much what you found - no relationship.
I think he was looking for a way out of something he wasn't quite sure of anyway. Sometimes, people come together for a short space of time, be it one month, three months, or six months. Six months is enough time to know if you do or do not wish to continue being with someone. Just because you are together, it doesn't mean 'happily ever after'.
I think you need time to yourself. Don't text or contact him. Each day will become easier. Later on, when you feel ready, you can date again only this time be clear with what you want and take time to date and get to know someone before jumping into bed with them. It will help you be more objective. Objectivity was lacking here.
Posted by AgentP911
I'll assume that your four year age difference has not put you under any consensual age limit. You didn't actually state what age you are a s which way the four years went, which would have been easier, so I'll assume there's nothing detrimental here.
If he truly loved you and if he felt your relationship had a good foundation over the last six months to continue building on then the four year age difference would not have made a blind bit of difference.
Yes, you lied and also kept that lie for so long. Which I think is part of the issue here.
However, that said, this guy appears to have discarded you so easily, far too easily, and to change what you thought was a relationship into a fwb is just not the behaviour of someone who has feelings for you.
What I think has happened is your relationship wasn't quite as rosy as you thought it was. It seems like you had a hell of a lot of arguments between you in such a short space of time. That's not healthy at all. I'm sure there were good times that made you feel fuzzy and warm but, overall, I just don't think this is a match between you.
Add in that despite joining Tinder, neither of you were looking for a relationship. That's pretty much what you found - no relationship.
I think he was looking for a way out of something he wasn't quite sure of anyway. Sometimes, people come together for a short space of time, be it one month, three months, or six months. Six months is enough time to know if you do or do not wish to continue being with someone. Just because you are together, it doesn't mean 'happily ever after'.
I think you need time to yourself. Don't text or contact him. Each day will become easier. Later on, when you feel ready, you can date again only this time be clear with what you want and take time to date and get to know someone before jumping into bed with them. It will help you be more objective. Objectivity was lacking here
Yes we are legal , he’s younger than me , I was just looking for younger guy for fun at the beginning 🤭that’s why I haven’t told him about my real age . I gotta say that the first 5 months together were beautiful and fairytale like . Amazing sex , romance , spend a loooot of time together almost every second day . It went downhill the last month before we split up . He told me that his last relationship ended in very similar way 3 years ago, arguing a lot and he just ended cause he couldn’t handle arguing. So I guess it’s a pattern . Well my bad I’ve lied i have definitely contributed to the break up with lies and not wanting to commit at the beginning . He wanted relationship from the beginning and was very clear about it . But guess once it got serious he might panic. Cause he’s still young . ( early 20’s)
Interesting thing is that after our first serious argument ( before the actual break up, we haven’t spoke to each other for a week) I’ve reached out first and he blamed me how could I just not try to fix it in one week. And kept saying it was too late , I’ve waited too long ...and how could I let it be for so long . Very confusing
Guess you’re right sometimes we are with people for only few months to learn a lesson.
’m older. he’s early 20sPosted by DeadInsidePosted by ImpulsvPosted by DeadInsidePosted by starlord
Yeah I'm super curios about why 4 years matters so much? Will it make you underage or much older or what? And why'd you lie in the first place?
lol it remind me one of my taurus ex, we broke up for the same reason
That’s lame
Was she older?
no
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Another thing is that he told me to be fwb ( at least that what he told me )cause after initial 1 week break we’ve had , I reached out and wanted to see him. He said it’s too late I’ve waited too long and he had move on . He basically blamed me and said I’ve caused him too much pain to go through it again ( being in relationship) . He said that week felt like a year to him and went through hell . So if I wanted to keep seeing him he could see me once a week as a fwb. But he doesn’t wanna be in a relationship . I got offended and told him no and walked away and he was crying and running after me when I was leaving . ( guess he didn’t expect me to reject his “ awesome” proposition .. so messed up I know lol )
Posted by AgentP911
I'll assume that your four year age difference has not put you under any consensual age limit. You didn't actually state what age you are a s which way the four years went, which would have been easier, so I'll assume there's nothing detrimental here.
If he truly loved you and if he felt your relationship had a good foundation over the last six months to continue building on then the four year age difference would not have made a blind bit of difference.
Yes, you lied and also kept that lie for so long. Which I think is part of the issue here.
However, that said, this guy appears to have discarded you so easily, far too easily, and to change what you thought was a relationship into a fwb is just not the behaviour of someone who has feelings for you.
What I think has happened is your relationship wasn't quite as rosy as you thought it was. It seems like you had a hell of a lot of arguments between you in such a short space of time. That's not healthy at all. I'm sure there were good times that made you feel fuzzy and warm but, overall, I just don't think this is a match between you.
Add in that despite joining Tinder, neither of you were looking for a relationship. That's pretty much what you found - no relationship.
I think he was looking for a way out of something he wasn't quite sure of anyway. Sometimes, people come together for a short space of time, be it one month, three months, or six months. Six months is enough time to know if you do or do not wish to continue being with someone. Just because you are together, it doesn't mean 'happily ever after'.
I think you need time to yourself. Don't text or contact him. Each day will become easier. Later on, when you feel ready, you can date again only this time be clear with what you want and take time to date and get to know someone before jumping into bed with them. It will help you be more objective. Objectivity was lacking here.
m too old for himPosted by ImpulsvPosted by DeadInsidePosted by starlord
Yeah I'm super curios about why 4 years matters so much? Will it make you underage or much older or what? And why'd you lie in the first place?
lol it remind me one of my taurus ex, we broke up for the same reason
That’s lame
Was she older?click to expand
Posted by Annie09
Another thing is that he told me to be fwb ( at least that what he told me )cause after initial 1 week break we’ve had , I reached out and wanted to see him. He said it’s too late I’ve waited too long and he had move on . He basically blamed me and said I’ve caused him too much pain to go through it again ( being in relationship) . He said that week felt like a year to him and went through hell . So if I wanted to keep seeing him he could see me once a week as a fwb. But he doesn’t wanna be in a relationship . I got offended and told him no and walked away and he was crying and running after me when I was leaving . ( guess he didn’t expect me to reject his “ awesome” proposition .. so messed up I know lol )Posted by AgentP911
I'll assume that your four year age difference has not put you under any consensual age limit. You didn't actually state what age you are a s which way the four years went, which would have been easier, so I'll assume there's nothing detrimental here.
If he truly loved you and if he felt your relationship had a good foundation over the last six months to continue building on then the four year age difference would not have made a blind bit of difference.
Yes, you lied and also kept that lie for so long. Which I think is part of the issue here.
However, that said, this guy appears to have discarded you so easily, far too easily, and to change what you thought was a relationship into a fwb is just not the behaviour of someone who has feelings for you.
What I think has happened is your relationship wasn't quite as rosy as you thought it was. It seems like you had a hell of a lot of arguments between you in such a short space of time. That's not healthy at all. I'm sure there were good times that made you feel fuzzy and warm but, overall, I just don't think this is a match between you.
Add in that despite joining Tinder, neither of you were looking for a relationship. That's pretty much what you found - no relationship.
I think he was looking for a way out of something he wasn't quite sure of anyway. Sometimes, people come together for a short space of time, be it one month, three months, or six months. Six months is enough time to know if you do or do not wish to continue being with someone. Just because you are together, it doesn't mean 'happily ever after'.
I think you need time to yourself. Don't text or contact him. Each day will become easier. Later on, when you feel ready, you can date again only this time be clear with what you want and take time to date and get to know someone before jumping into bed with them. It will help you be more objective. Objectivity was lacking here.
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The trouble with things that start with a 'big bang' of wonder is that they rarely last. Sure, great sex and time spent with each other is important but it just sounds like you were both not a match from the start. If he was adamant he wanted a relationship and you only wanted to fuck around then it was never going to have legs. It was less noticeable because 'great sex' perhaps covered over the foundations.
My fella of nearly three years lied about his age on his dating profile. He put 37 when he was 44. I was 36. He told me after two days of messaging because he though we were getting on well and he didn't want it to be a problem. It did annoy me but his reasoning was forgivable. At 44, all he was getting was messages from the blue rinse brigade. I'd set my filters to age 32 to 42. If he'd not lied, we would never have met.
And I just remembered he started to be very weird after taking steroids so you think that could mess his feelings up ?? Gym guys- need some advice !!
Damn that hurts to hear tbh, but you’re probably right . Just need to accept it
Posted by Chesh
I don't really see anything here worth salvaging, you got a clear case of someone that uses dating sites to fuck around.
You caught feelings for him and now he's back peddling. You did the best thing for yourself by walking away from the nonsense.
Truth be told if someone likes you, there's really no questions about it.
Posted by AgentP911Posted by Annie09
Another thing is that he told me to be fwb ( at least that what he told me )cause after initial 1 week break we’ve had , I reached out and wanted to see him. He said it’s too late I’ve waited too long and he had move on . He basically blamed me and said I’ve caused him too much pain to go through it again ( being in relationship) . He said that week felt like a year to him and went through hell . So if I wanted to keep seeing him he could see me once a week as a fwb. But he doesn’t wanna be in a relationship . I got offended and told him no and walked away and he was crying and running after me when I was leaving . ( guess he didn’t expect me to reject his “ awesome” proposition .. so messed up I know lol )Posted by AgentP911
I'll assume that your four year age difference has not put you under any consensual age limit. You didn't actually state what age you are a s which way the four years went, which would have been easier, so I'll assume there's nothing detrimental here.
If he truly loved you and if he felt your relationship had a good foundation over the last six months to continue building on then the four year age difference would not have made a blind bit of difference.
Yes, you lied and also kept that lie for so long. Which I think is part of the issue here.
However, that said, this guy appears to have discarded you so easily, far too easily, and to change what you thought was a relationship into a fwb is just not the behaviour of someone who has feelings for you.
What I think has happened is your relationship wasn't quite as rosy as you thought it was. It seems like you had a hell of a lot of arguments between you in such a short space of time. That's not healthy at all. I'm sure there were good times that made you feel fuzzy and warm but, overall, I just don't think this is a match between you.
Add in that despite joining Tinder, neither of you were looking for a relationship. That's pretty much what you found - no relationship.
What a man tho , he came clear after 2 days ..
you know this guy is too young I guess but I know what we’ve had was real. He would leave his phone with me when he went shower or anytime. Never on his phone , I trusted him 100% . But it wasn’t as solid as I thought otherwise he’d be running back
The trouble with things that start with a 'big bang' of wonder is that they rarely last. Sure, great sex and time spent with each other is important but it just sounds like you were both not a match from the start. If he was adamant he wanted a relationship and you only wanted to fuck around then it was never going to have legs. It was less noticeable because 'great sex' perhaps covered over the foundations.
My fella of nearly three years lied about his age on his dating profile. He put 37 when he was 44. I was 36. He told me after two days of messaging because he though we were getting on well and he didn't want it to be a problem. It did annoy me but his reasoning was forgivable. At 44, all he was getting was messages from the blue rinse brigade. I'd set my filters to age 32 to 42. If he'd not lied, we would never have met.
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Whoops .. still struggle with quotations !
What a man if he told you the truth after 2 days .. happy for you .
you know this guy is too young I guess but I know what we’ve had was real. He would leave his phone with me when he went shower or anytime. Never on his phone , I trusted him 100% . But it wasn’t as solid as I thought otherwise he’d be running back right now
He spent so much time alone , never went out with friends maybe once in three months . I’m just thinking that he s used to being alone so me leaving him alone won’t cause him much discomfort . Is it true caps are loners ? He literally avoided any social event or rather got take away than sitting in a restaurant lol
Yeah he would literally tell me: “ how could you just let me alone after an argument . You should never give up on me , no matter what “ I told him I need to cool down so I won’t ssy something disrespectful .. and the whole fwb thing . That was his biggest fear that I’m seeing him just for sex . And the reason was cause when I met him , on my tinder profile I wrote : “ looking for some casual fun”. So one night i was at his, we hooked up he fell asleep and I got my period and was bleeding badly and in pain, so I went home didn’t wanted to wake him up cuz he wakes up early for work . Maaan you have no idea .. he was so mad ! Sending me messages : “ so you came here just to f@@ck and leave while I sleep ??” And tantrums lasted for days over this . So I DO NOT get it why he would want me to feel like fwb if that was something he was fearing the most.
Posted by MissKrabs
he sounds very weak. omg, a misunderstanding, i got mad, the woman left me alone and now i'm mad again. life is so hard man!
idk, try explaining him, if he continues to be the drama king, fuck him. not really. and yes, it's insulting to suggest ok lets only fuck. well fuck you!
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