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@VenusAquarius
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The Things Lovers Have Taught Me...
I always attract Mars in Taurus men to include my Virgo hubby. These men can teach some dirty lil things to a sweet lil Ram such as myself.
Leo w/Scorpio Moon, Mars in Taurus taught me how to drink and drive... literally. And a very aggressive Taurus before him hinted at teaching me the same. So, protective. .
Leo w/Scorpio Moon, Mars in Taurus taught me how to drink and drive... literally. And a very aggressive Taurus before him hinted at teaching me the same. So, protective. .
Posted by -sierra-
my libra ex taught me how to drive
Can I borrow him? You know...if he is not a Scorpio - he can only teach me certain things...lol
Scorpio though me how to stop being crazy! And find a joy in suffering...patience. Respect. Calming urges when it’s impossible...
Being a friend when I want to be a lover. Stay cool when I wanted to DIE! Never thought I can make it trough Scorpio boot camp! October will be 9 years of shit! Would never trade it for anything...Love is a bitch!
❤️
Being a friend when I want to be a lover. Stay cool when I wanted to DIE! Never thought I can make it trough Scorpio boot camp! October will be 9 years of shit! Would never trade it for anything...Love is a bitch!
❤️
Posted by Gemitati
Scorpio though me how to stop being crazy! And find a joy in suffering...patience. Respect. Calming urges when it’s impossible...
Being a friend when I want to be a lover. Stay cool when I wanted to DIE! Never thought I can make it trough Scorpio boot camp! October will be 9 years of shit! Would never trade it for anything...Love is a bitch!
❤️
I had a Scorpio try to teach me those very same things. Us being both Mars ruled, me being an Aries orienting marsian energy in a different direction... guess who lost their shit? No, he did, LULZ.
Dated a younger one too... and, he lost his shit too. I'll tell you about it one day.
Posted by Impulsv
To chose me over them
Alrightnow. That's what I like to hear. You ain't good to nobody, if you're not good to yourself.
That's divine teaching righthere.
Posted by ScorpioTruth
My Capricorn ex taught me a lot actually.. he taught me how to cook and has taught me a bit about politics.
So practical those Caps.
Posted by ScorpioTruthPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by ScorpioTruth
My Capricorn ex taught me a lot actually.. he taught me how to cook and has taught me a bit about politics.
So practical those Caps.
I learned a lot more from him in those 10 years but those 2 things stand out to me most.. especially the cooking lolclick to expand
Silly man. Don't he know you gonna use those cookn skills to trap another, lol.
Bumboklatt said it all. They refuse to accept for who you are..
I've learned that being real is a dead end and only girls who deserve respect are hoes and sluts, playing games is what makes you admirable and telling the truth is unacceptable.
I've learned that being real is a dead end and only girls who deserve respect are hoes and sluts, playing games is what makes you admirable and telling the truth is unacceptable.
Posted by inmercury
My Libra ex taught me not to overextend myself when I needed to get my life in order. I'm a Virgo with north node Aquarius, 8th house. His north node is Pisces, 1st house. What is to be implied by this?
Here's a random article I skimmed to make sure it accurately answered your question without me having to reproduce the same info. Of course, you can look for others:
https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/astrology-101-north-nodes-south-nodes-reveal-your-life-purpose
Then, you break the North Node down by sign, and further down by house. Using myself as an example... my North Node involves the Gemini/Sag Axis - The Axis of Knowledge. This axis falls in my 5th/11th houses (the house part gets pretty deep and I don't feel like that tonite which ironical plays into this Axis, Lulz).
In this axis of knowledge, and Gemini being my South Node, God wants me to grow beyond the "jack of all trades, master of none" that is the Gemini South Node. Grow towards the spiritual, universal, big picture, connecting knowledge on various and asundry to going deeper.
Gemini is in my fun house, the creative, dating for fun, romance, etc. House. So, you see. I dip in, rock that house, rock that crowd, but sneak out before the encore, sneak out while they're sleeping, give only 50% because it will get me an A when compared to others. When I know that I can do alot better but don't because I have so many other "shiny objects" I wanna look at be it lovers, fine art versus my singing ability, teaching art vs making $ ....
So, when making this topic, I believe that relationships are about, or should contribute to, development of North Node.
Gemini are like fire to flame w/me but I just can't. Sags (Sag doms) I found to heavy because I wasn't ready. I scare myself with how deep I get with Sag men automatically. I'm still an Aqua Venus and I have to resist what we true Aqua Venuses know as "that special feeling" that makes us want to throw up with too much intimacy at once or when we grow cold for no reason when it's the end... like over-eating or one night stand walk of shame feeling... is the best way I can describe it. But, I actually like that... one night stand and/or walk of shame... just using it as an example for "regular people" to understand.
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by Gemitati
Scorpio though me how to stop being crazy! And find a joy in suffering...patience. Respect. Calming urges when it’s impossible...
Being a friend when I want to be a lover. Stay cool when I wanted to DIE! Never thought I can make it trough Scorpio boot camp! October will be 9 years of shit! Would never trade it for anything...Love is a bitch!
❤️
I had a Scorpio try to teach me those very same things. Us being both Mars ruled, me being an Aries orienting marsian energy in a different direction... guess who lost their shit? No, he did, LULZ.
Dated a younger one too... and, he lost his shit too. I'll tell you about it one day.click to expand
You can tell me but my almost decade of total dedication is probably will knock your socks off.
The rule we go by is total respect.
No demands. Never one argument in 9 years. He is my twin flame.
No shit losing. Because we both value what we have and carrying it to another level. Day by day. But it’s age shit! We would kill each other if we’ve met younger. Maybe not. But we were both nuts! Now...just peace...and unexplainable joy.
Posted by GemitatiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by Gemitati
Scorpio though me how to stop being crazy! And find a joy in suffering...patience. Respect. Calming urges when it’s impossible...
Being a friend when I want to be a lover. Stay cool when I wanted to DIE! Never thought I can make it trough Scorpio boot camp! October will be 9 years of shit! Would never trade it for anything...Love is a bitch!
❤️
I had a Scorpio try to teach me those very same things. Us being both Mars ruled, me being an Aries orienting marsian energy in a different direction... guess who lost their shit? No, he did, LULZ.
Dated a younger one too... and, he lost his shit too. I'll tell you about it one day.
You can tell me but my almost decade of total dedication is probably will knock your socks off.
The rule we go by is total respect.
No demands. Never one argument in 9 years. He is my twin flame.
No shit losing. Because we both value what we have and carrying it to another level. Day by day. But it’s age shit! We would kill each other if we’ve met younger. Maybe not. But we were both nuts! Now...just peace...and unexplainable joy.click to expand
Excuse me... "Miss 4eva the mistress of the underworld."
Seasons changed and battles ensued Hades wanted Persephone so badly for his wife.
"From this came the vigorous galloping sounds of multiple horses and such sudden happenings only froze the frail beauty to her feet. Out of all her friends only the naiad Cyane tried to rescue the crying Persephone but she was no match for the powerful Hades. Bereaving her friend’s kidnap, Cyane melted into a pool of tears and formed the river Cyane at the spot."
Posted by bumboklatt
im cool with all my friends, i respect new relationships
the only thing ive learned from them is that it wouldnt have worked long term
i dont change for anyone
i dont learn things as nothing is set in stone
Aqua male, this is not really about the "change for anyone" type learning.
Notice in the topic that it could be as simple as teaching you how to drive... mmkay?
Read the poem, "No Man is an Island?"
Perhaps I should've included it in the original topic post.
No man is an island,
entire of itself;
every man is a piece of the continent,
a part of the main.
If a clod be washed away by the sea,
Europe is the less,
as well as if a promontory were.
as well as if a manor of thy friend’s
or of thine own were.
Any man’s death diminishes me,
because I am involved in mankind;
and therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls;
it tolls for thee.
Posted by pisceanloves
Bumboklatt said it all. They refuse to accept for who you are..
I've learned that being real is a dead end and only girls who deserve respect are hoes and sluts, playing games is what makes you admirable and telling the truth is unacceptable.
That's what you got from his post?
No, notice I stated in the original post topic that it could be as practical as learning how to drive.
Take note that he is the only man to post (so far). Think about that.
So, like I said before, I always attract Mars in Taurus men to include my Virgo hubby. These men can teach some dirty lil things to a sweet lil Ram such as myself. And, some good things equally well
Mars in Taurus made me a more diverse cook. I am a very good cook, if not excellent. Mars in Taurus looooovez "the table and the bed."
I don't like going out to eat because I have to refrain from going apeshit if my food isn't right. Like, I will lose my shit if you bring me rare porkchops. Inside my head, I'm like,
these mutherfucker are actually trying to kill a bitch tonite? Are you kidding me? I'm supposed to pay for my death, pay for bubble gut, not be able to have sex after this cause I'm on the toilet or for fear of shitting on him. We can't do that kinda play yet so don't know if he will appreciate it..."
Anyway, Mars in Taurus will pick me up and upon opening the door, the smell the wonderful aroma of the dinner I fixed my kids. And, finally realize why I don't like to eat out..
So as time progresses, Mars in Taurus will take me out to eat asking me if I could cook this or that and what would I need. So, I got to thinking Venus, you can enjoy eating out as it will give you ideas and other recipes. So, Mars in Taurus taught me to diversify my menu. Encouraged it by our dates being, instead of taking me out to eat, he said, let me buy the groceries for a dinner (once safe to be around my kids because he made it known that marriage was his end game.)
Mars in Taurus made me a more diverse cook. I am a very good cook, if not excellent. Mars in Taurus looooovez "the table and the bed."
I don't like going out to eat because I have to refrain from going apeshit if my food isn't right. Like, I will lose my shit if you bring me rare porkchops. Inside my head, I'm like,
these mutherfucker are actually trying to kill a bitch tonite? Are you kidding me? I'm supposed to pay for my death, pay for bubble gut, not be able to have sex after this cause I'm on the toilet or for fear of shitting on him. We can't do that kinda play yet so don't know if he will appreciate it..."
Anyway, Mars in Taurus will pick me up and upon opening the door, the smell the wonderful aroma of the dinner I fixed my kids. And, finally realize why I don't like to eat out..
So as time progresses, Mars in Taurus will take me out to eat asking me if I could cook this or that and what would I need. So, I got to thinking Venus, you can enjoy eating out as it will give you ideas and other recipes. So, Mars in Taurus taught me to diversify my menu. Encouraged it by our dates being, instead of taking me out to eat, he said, let me buy the groceries for a dinner (once safe to be around my kids because he made it known that marriage was his end game.)
Posted by inmercuryPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by inmercury
My Libra ex taught me not to overextend myself when I needed to get my life in order. I'm a Virgo with north node Aquarius, 8th house. His north node is Pisces, 1st house. What is to be implied by this?
Here's a random article I skimmed to make sure it accurately answered your question without me having to reproduce the same info. Of course, you can look for others:
https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/astrology-101-north-nodes-south-nodes-reveal-your-life-purpose
Then, you break the North Node down by sign, and further down by house. Using myself as an example... my North Node involves the Gemini/Sag Axis - The Axis of Knowledge. This axis falls in my 5th/11th houses (the house part gets pretty deep and I don't feel like that tonite which ironical plays into this Axis, Lulz).
In this axis of knowledge, and Gemini being my South Node, God wants me to grow beyond the "jack of all trades, master of none" that is the Gemini South Node. Grow towards the spiritual, universal, big picture, connecting knowledge on various and asundry to going deeper.
Gemini is in my fun house, the creative, dating for fun, romance, etc. House. So, you see. I dip in, rock that house, rock that crowd, but sneak out before the encore, sneak out while they're sleeping, give only 50% because it will get me an A when compared to others. When I know that I can do alot better but don't because I have so many other "shiny objects" I wanna look at be it lovers, fine art versus my singing ability, teaching art vs making $ ....
So, when making this topic, I believe that relationships are about, or should contribute to, development of North Node.
Gemini are like fire to flame w/me but I just can't. Sags (Sag doms) I found to heavy because I wasn't ready. I scare myself with how deep I get with Sag men automatically. I'm still an Aqua Venus and I have to resist what we true Aqua Venuses know as "that special feeling" that makes us want to throw up with too much intimacy at once or when we grow cold for no reason when it's the end... like over-eating or one night stand walk of shame feeling... is the best way I can describe it. But, I actually like that... one night stand and/or walk of shame... just using it as an example for "regular people" to understand.
I have looked into north nodes before but never associated it with relationships. Now it's kind of eerie to look at my Libra ex's chart because his sun is in the 8th house and my north node is in my 8th house. Maybe it's not that significant but what I mentioned in my prior post is very 8th house-like. Sharing my assets, giving too much. It was something I felt inclined to do but it wasn't the right time I guess. You are on to something.click to expand
Thanks. That's what I was hoping to discover.
I'm mentioning the type of men I attract because when the Universe/God keeps sending you something, there maybe a lesson in it
So, I also attract men with Moon Square Venus. These astrology boards would be plagued with Moon Square Venus issues (often unbeknownst to the poster). But, I know this aspect like the back of my hand because I attract these men alot (to include my Virgo hubby).
This aspect in men is called the "The Madonna/Whore Complex."
Here's an article about Moon Square Venus men:
https://sasstrology.com/2012/06/astrology-truth-or-myth-moon-square-venus-means-a-lifetime-of-unsatisfying-relationships.html
So, I learned from Moon Square Venus men... there's someone for everybody, faults and all. The gold digger will find her millionaire who wants to spoil her. The homemaker will find her sole provider who wants his wife to not work. Just like men with the "Madonna/Whore Complex find me... to include my Virgo hubby who told me week one, "you felt untouched." But, I've been touched, lulz. I just present innocently as I am "The Day of Innocence' in the Secret Language of Birthdays. They found their lady in the streets, freak in the sheets. You say every man wants that? No, these men need it psychologically to heal childhood wounds. They talk about their mothers after sex. Naked after sex, Scorpio cries in my arms about his Sag mother humiliating him by lying about who his father is.
I learned it's okay to be a "walking contradiction" as my Pisces male friend calls me. I used to feel like a liar. No, the way I look (Capricorn Ascendant, only earth placement with sweet dimpled, Venus in the 1st house. Favorite clothing fabric pattern tweed, wearing suits since jeez middle school, favorite fabrics wool and tweed. I will buss if I can find the combo. Yes, I'm Venus dominate but, it's the freakass Venus though) is not who I am! Moon Square Venus after Moon Square Venus loved the contradiction. To attract an aspect... there's diffinitely something to it.
How do I know my lovers' charts? They're saved in astro.com. Why? To track what God was sending me... looking for patterns.
So, I also attract men with Moon Square Venus. These astrology boards would be plagued with Moon Square Venus issues (often unbeknownst to the poster). But, I know this aspect like the back of my hand because I attract these men alot (to include my Virgo hubby).
This aspect in men is called the "The Madonna/Whore Complex."
Here's an article about Moon Square Venus men:
https://sasstrology.com/2012/06/astrology-truth-or-myth-moon-square-venus-means-a-lifetime-of-unsatisfying-relationships.html
So, I learned from Moon Square Venus men... there's someone for everybody, faults and all. The gold digger will find her millionaire who wants to spoil her. The homemaker will find her sole provider who wants his wife to not work. Just like men with the "Madonna/Whore Complex find me... to include my Virgo hubby who told me week one, "you felt untouched." But, I've been touched, lulz. I just present innocently as I am "The Day of Innocence' in the Secret Language of Birthdays. They found their lady in the streets, freak in the sheets. You say every man wants that? No, these men need it psychologically to heal childhood wounds. They talk about their mothers after sex. Naked after sex, Scorpio cries in my arms about his Sag mother humiliating him by lying about who his father is.
I learned it's okay to be a "walking contradiction" as my Pisces male friend calls me. I used to feel like a liar. No, the way I look (Capricorn Ascendant, only earth placement with sweet dimpled, Venus in the 1st house. Favorite clothing fabric pattern tweed, wearing suits since jeez middle school, favorite fabrics wool and tweed. I will buss if I can find the combo. Yes, I'm Venus dominate but, it's the freakass Venus though) is not who I am! Moon Square Venus after Moon Square Venus loved the contradiction. To attract an aspect... there's diffinitely something to it.
How do I know my lovers' charts? They're saved in astro.com. Why? To track what God was sending me... looking for patterns.
Through my personal experiences, my lovers taught me to choose happiness alone, and be single.
Rather than to be with someone, and lonely.
Rather than to be with someone, and lonely.
My Cap ex taught me that tears and acting like a victim all the time won't get me anywhere.
Both Scorpio exes taught me that sometimes opening my heart to the right people will help me grow.
I'm Aries with NN Scorpio.
Both Scorpio exes taught me that sometimes opening my heart to the right people will help me grow.
I'm Aries with NN Scorpio.
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanloves
Bumboklatt said it all. They refuse to accept for who you are..
I've learned that being real is a dead end and only girls who deserve respect are hoes and sluts, playing games is what makes you admirable and telling the truth is unacceptable.
That's what you got from his post?
No, notice I stated in the original post topic that it could be as practical as learning how to drive.
Take note that he is the only man to post (so far). Think about that.click to expand
I agreed him and stated mine, No man ever helped me with anything practical if that's what you are digging for. But They sure thought me a few good lessons so I will be cautious next time. Meanwhile I absolutely refuse to lose my identity
Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanloves
Bumboklatt said it all. They refuse to accept for who you are..
I've learned that being real is a dead end and only girls who deserve respect are hoes and sluts, playing games is what makes you admirable and telling the truth is unacceptable.
That's what you got from his post?
No, notice I stated in the original post topic that it could be as practical as learning how to drive.
Take note that he is the only man to post (so far). Think about that.
I agreed him and stated mine, No man ever helped me with anything practical if that's what you are digging for. But They sure thought me a few good lessons so I will be cautious next time. Meanwhile I absolutely refuse to lose my identityclick to expand
I'm not digging for anything beyond the topic I created and understanding therein.
However, being real shouldn't be "a loss" or "a gain." It is what it is. You were real when you came out your momma.
Why you gonna be "cautious?" Don't you want to know ASAP whether or not they like you and vice versa? You tryna sneak up on love?
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanloves
Bumboklatt said it all. They refuse to accept for who you are..
I've learned that being real is a dead end and only girls who deserve respect are hoes and sluts, playing games is what makes you admirable and telling the truth is unacceptable.
That's what you got from his post?
No, notice I stated in the original post topic that it could be as practical as learning how to drive.
Take note that he is the only man to post (so far). Think about that.
I agreed him and stated mine, No man ever helped me with anything practical if that's what you are digging for. But They sure thought me a few good lessons so I will be cautious next time. Meanwhile I absolutely refuse to lose my identity
I'm not digging for anything beyond the topic I created and understanding therein.
However, being real shouldn't be "a loss" or "a gain." It is what it is. You were real when you came out your momma.
Why you gonna be "cautious?" Don't you want to know ASAP whether or not they like you and vice versa? You tryna sneak up on love?click to expand
Lmao "knowing asap whether they like you or not" , what makes you think that you get an honest response— Hahahaha
Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanloves
Bumboklatt said it all. They refuse to accept for who you are..
I've learned that being real is a dead end and only girls who deserve respect are hoes and sluts, playing games is what makes you admirable and telling the truth is unacceptable.
That's what you got from his post?
No, notice I stated in the original post topic that it could be as practical as learning how to drive.
Take note that he is the only man to post (so far). Think about that.
I agreed him and stated mine, No man ever helped me with anything practical if that's what you are digging for. But They sure thought me a few good lessons so I will be cautious next time. Meanwhile I absolutely refuse to lose my identity
I'm not digging for anything beyond the topic I created and understanding therein.
However, being real shouldn't be "a loss" or "a gain." It is what it is. You were real when you came out your momma.
Why you gonna be "cautious?" Don't you want to know ASAP whether or not they like you and vice versa? You tryna sneak up on love?
Lmao "knowing asap whether they like you or not" , what makes you think that you get an honest response— Hahahahaclick to expand
It's not about getting an honest "response." It's that their actions speak louder than words. Like Judge Lynn Toler said, "you watch'em and you wait a lil while, and you watch'em again.
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanloves
Bumboklatt said it all. They refuse to accept for who you are..
I've learned that being real is a dead end and only girls who deserve respect are hoes and sluts, playing games is what makes you admirable and telling the truth is unacceptable.
That's what you got from his post?
No, notice I stated in the original post topic that it could be as practical as learning how to drive.
Take note that he is the only man to post (so far). Think about that.
I agreed him and stated mine, No man ever helped me with anything practical if that's what you are digging for. But They sure thought me a few good lessons so I will be cautious next time. Meanwhile I absolutely refuse to lose my identity
I'm not digging for anything beyond the topic I created and understanding therein.
However, being real shouldn't be "a loss" or "a gain." It is what it is. You were real when you came out your momma.
Why you gonna be "cautious?" Don't you want to know ASAP whether or not they like you and vice versa? You tryna sneak up on love?
Lmao "knowing asap whether they like you or not" , what makes you think that you get an honest response— Hahahaha
It's not about getting an honest "response." It's that their actions speak louder than words. Like Judge Lynn Toler said, "you watch'em and you wait a lil while, and you watch'em again.
click to expand
LMAO you shouldn't be talking for the sake of words. I thought being cautious and watching were going hand in hand— hahaha
Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanloves
Bumboklatt said it all. They refuse to accept for who you are..
I've learned that being real is a dead end and only girls who deserve respect are hoes and sluts, playing games is what makes you admirable and telling the truth is unacceptable.
That's what you got from his post?
No, notice I stated in the original post topic that it could be as practical as learning how to drive.
Take note that he is the only man to post (so far). Think about that.
I agreed him and stated mine, No man ever helped me with anything practical if that's what you are digging for. But They sure thought me a few good lessons so I will be cautious next time. Meanwhile I absolutely refuse to lose my identity
I'm not digging for anything beyond the topic I created and understanding therein.
However, being real shouldn't be "a loss" or "a gain." It is what it is. You were real when you came out your momma.
Why you gonna be "cautious?" Don't you want to know ASAP whether or not they like you and vice versa? You tryna sneak up on love?
Lmao "knowing asap whether they like you or not" , what makes you think that you get an honest response— Hahahaha
It's not about getting an honest "response." It's that their actions speak louder than words. Like Judge Lynn Toler said, "you watch'em and you wait a lil while, and you watch'em again.
LMAO you shouldn't be talking for the sake of words. I thought being cautious and watching were going hand in hand— hahahaclick to expand
Your context for "caution" started out with calling other women hoes, sluts, and fakes compared to you... apparently, being taught some "good lesson" for being real. I think based on how you presented just from these responses, your lessons might be more universal.
Being real shouldn't be "a loss" or "a gain." It is what it is. You were real when you came out your momma.
Anticipating an "honest response" and watching a man's actions are two different things - actions will win over words everday.
You can breast stroke, back stroke, butterfly stroke throughout this convo in what seems to be an attempt to save face, for whatever reason you need but it's not working. It just looks like you made up your mind, have succomb to the idea of being fake, and are "hahaha"-ing thinking your practice here has made you successful.
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanloves
Bumboklatt said it all. They refuse to accept for who you are..
I've learned that being real is a dead end and only girls who deserve respect are hoes and sluts, playing games is what makes you admirable and telling the truth is unacceptable.
That's what you got from his post?
No, notice I stated in the original post topic that it could be as practical as learning how to drive.
Take note that he is the only man to post (so far). Think about that.
I agreed him and stated mine, No man ever helped me with anything practical if that's what you are digging for. But They sure thought me a few good lessons so I will be cautious next time. Meanwhile I absolutely refuse to lose my identity
I'm not digging for anything beyond the topic I created and understanding therein.
However, being real shouldn't be "a loss" or "a gain." It is what it is. You were real when you came out your momma.
Why you gonna be "cautious?" Don't you want to know ASAP whether or not they like you and vice versa? You tryna sneak up on love?
Lmao "knowing asap whether they like you or not" , what makes you think that you get an honest response— Hahahaha
It's not about getting an honest "response." It's that their actions speak louder than words. Like Judge Lynn Toler said, "you watch'em and you wait a lil while, and you watch'em again.
LMAO you shouldn't be talking for the sake of words. I thought being cautious and watching were going hand in hand— hahaha
Your context for "caution" started out with calling other women hoes, sluts, and fakes compared to you... apparently, being taught some "good lesson" for being real. I think based on how you presented just from these responses, your lessons might be more universal.
Being real shouldn't be "a loss" or "a gain." It is what it is. You were real when you came out your momma.
Anticipating an "honest response" and watching a man's actions are two different things - actions will win over words everday.
You can breast stroke, back stroke, butterfly stroke throughout this convo in what seems to be an attempt to save face, for whatever reason, you need but it's not working. It just looks like you made up your mind, have succomb to the idea of being fake, and are "hahaha"-ing thinking your practice here has made you successful.click to expand
I think maybe she didn't understand the purpose and intent of your thread. Reading her responses makes me think that's the most likely reason.
Posted by Ram416Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanloves
Bumboklatt said it all. They refuse to accept for who you are..
I've learned that being real is a dead end and only girls who deserve respect are hoes and sluts, playing games is what makes you admirable and telling the truth is unacceptable.
That's what you got from his post?
No, notice I stated in the original post topic that it could be as practical as learning how to drive.
Take note that he is the only man to post (so far). Think about that.
I agreed him and stated mine, No man ever helped me with anything practical if that's what you are digging for. But They sure thought me a few good lessons so I will be cautious next time. Meanwhile I absolutely refuse to lose my identity
I'm not digging for anything beyond the topic I created and understanding therein.
However, being real shouldn't be "a loss" or "a gain." It is what it is. You were real when you came out your momma.
Why you gonna be "cautious?" Don't you want to know ASAP whether or not they like you and vice versa? You tryna sneak up on love?
Lmao "knowing asap whether they like you or not" , what makes you think that you get an honest response— Hahahaha
It's not about getting an honest "response." It's that their actions speak louder than words. Like Judge Lynn Toler said, "you watch'em and you wait a lil while, and you watch'em again.
LMAO you shouldn't be talking for the sake of words. I thought being cautious and watching were going hand in hand— hahaha
Your context for "caution" started out with calling other women hoes, sluts, and fakes compared to you... apparently, being taught some "good lesson" for being real. I think based on how you presented just from these responses, your lessons might be more universal.
Being real shouldn't be "a loss" or "a gain." It is what it is. You were real when you came out your momma.
Anticipating an "honest response" and watching a man's actions are two different things - actions will win over words everday.
You can breast stroke, back stroke, butterfly stroke throughout this convo in what seems to be an attempt to save face, for whatever reason, you need but it's not working. It just looks like you made up your mind, have succomb to the idea of being fake, and are "hahaha"-ing thinking your practice here has made you successful.
I think maybe she didn't understand the purpose and intent of your thread. Reading her responses makes me think that's the most likely reason.click to expand
Language barrier?
Posted by VenusAquarius
No relationship is a complete wash.
Unless you're married to Gemitati aka DXP's Benny Hill.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by VenusAquarius
No relationship is a complete wash.
Unless you're married to Gemitati aka DXP's Benny Hill.
click to expand
Oh shit, LOL!
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by Ram416Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanloves
Bumboklatt said it all. They refuse to accept for who you are..
I've learned that being real is a dead end and only girls who deserve respect are hoes and sluts, playing games is what makes you admirable and telling the truth is unacceptable.
That's what you got from his post?
No, notice I stated in the original post topic that it could be as practical as learning how to drive.
Take note that he is the only man to post (so far). Think about that.
I agreed him and stated mine, No man ever helped me with anything practical if that's what you are digging for. But They sure thought me a few good lessons so I will be cautious next time. Meanwhile I absolutely refuse to lose my identity
I'm not digging for anything beyond the topic I created and understanding therein.
However, being real shouldn't be "a loss" or "a gain." It is what it is. You were real when you came out your momma.
Why you gonna be "cautious?" Don't you want to know ASAP whether or not they like you and vice versa? You tryna sneak up on love?
Lmao "knowing asap whether they like you or not" , what makes you think that you get an honest response— Hahahaha
It's not about getting an honest "response." It's that their actions speak louder than words. Like Judge Lynn Toler said, "you watch'em and you wait a lil while, and you watch'em again.
LMAO you shouldn't be talking for the sake of words. I thought being cautious and watching were going hand in hand— hahaha
Your context for "caution" started out with calling other women hoes, sluts, and fakes compared to you... apparently, being taught some "good lesson" for being real. I think based on how you presented just from these responses, your lessons might be more universal.
Being real shouldn't be "a loss" or "a gain." It is what it is. You were real when you came out your momma.
Anticipating an "honest response" and watching a man's actions are two different things - actions will win over words everday.
You can breast stroke, back stroke, butterfly stroke throughout this convo in what seems to be an attempt to save face, for whatever reason, you need but it's not working. It just looks like you made up your mind, have succomb to the idea of being fake, and are "hahaha"-ing thinking your practice here has made you successful.
I think maybe she didn't understand the purpose and intent of your thread. Reading her responses makes me think that's the most likely reason.
Language barrier?click to expand
Possibly.
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanloves
Bumboklatt said it all. They refuse to accept for who you are..
I've learned that being real is a dead end and only girls who deserve respect are hoes and sluts, playing games is what makes you admirable and telling the truth is unacceptable.
That's what you got from his post?
No, notice I stated in the original post topic that it could be as practical as learning how to drive.
Take note that he is the only man to post (so far). Think about that.
I agreed him and stated mine, No man ever helped me with anything practical if that's what you are digging for. But They sure thought me a few good lessons so I will be cautious next time. Meanwhile I absolutely refuse to lose my identity
I'm not digging for anything beyond the topic I created and understanding therein.
However, being real shouldn't be "a loss" or "a gain." It is what it is. You were real when you came out your momma.
Why you gonna be "cautious?" Don't you want to know ASAP whether or not they like you and vice versa? You tryna sneak up on love?
Lmao "knowing asap whether they like you or not" , what makes you think that you get an honest response— Hahahaha
It's not about getting an honest "response." It's that their actions speak louder than words. Like Judge Lynn Toler said, "you watch'em and you wait a lil while, and you watch'em again.
LMAO you shouldn't be talking for the sake of words. I thought being cautious and watching were going hand in hand— hahaha
Your context for "caution" started out with calling other women hoes, sluts, and fakes compared to you... apparently, being taught some "good lesson" for being real. I think based on how you presented just from these responses, your lessons might be more universal.
Being real shouldn't be "a loss" or "a gain." It is what it is. You were real when you came out your momma.
Anticipating an "honest response" and watching a man's actions are two different things - actions will win over words everday.
You can breast stroke, back stroke, butterfly stroke throughout this convo in what seems to be an attempt to save face, for whatever reason, you need but it's not working. It just looks like you made up your mind, have succomb to the idea of being fake, and are "hahaha"-ing thinking your practice here has made you successful.click to expand
Listen sweetheart, you are clearly butthurt for some unknown reason, you took it personally me talking about hoes and sluts? well I guess my speech was clearly for you then lol and deep down you do realize the situation. Relax 😄 It's not who has the last word, but what has been said, just keep that on mind lmao
Don't catch feelings before him..
Being horny all the time is a good thing..
Keep my independence..
I talk too much when I'm ranting..
I'm a little freak/ cray cray..
How important boundaries are..
I can be a jerk..
My tolerance level is too high..
I'm sure there's more
Being horny all the time is a good thing..
Keep my independence..
I talk too much when I'm ranting..
I'm a little freak/ cray cray..
How important boundaries are..
I can be a jerk..
My tolerance level is too high..
I'm sure there's more
Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by pisceanloves
Bumboklatt said it all. They refuse to accept for who you are..
I've learned that being real is a dead end and only girls who deserve respect are hoes and sluts, playing games is what makes you admirable and telling the truth is unacceptable.
That's what you got from his post?
No, notice I stated in the original post topic that it could be as practical as learning how to drive.
Take note that he is the only man to post (so far). Think about that.
I agreed him and stated mine, No man ever helped me with anything practical if that's what you are digging for. But They sure thought me a few good lessons so I will be cautious next time. Meanwhile I absolutely refuse to lose my identity
I'm not digging for anything beyond the topic I created and understanding therein.
However, being real shouldn't be "a loss" or "a gain." It is what it is. You were real when you came out your momma.
Why you gonna be "cautious?" Don't you want to know ASAP whether or not they like you and vice versa? You tryna sneak up on love?
Lmao "knowing asap whether they like you or not" , what makes you think that you get an honest response— Hahahaha
It's not about getting an honest "response." It's that their actions speak louder than words. Like Judge Lynn Toler said, "you watch'em and you wait a lil while, and you watch'em again.
LMAO you shouldn't be talking for the sake of words. I thought being cautious and watching were going hand in hand— hahaha
Your context for "caution" started out with calling other women hoes, sluts, and fakes compared to you... apparently, being taught some "good lesson" for being real. I think based on how you presented just from these responses, your lessons might be more universal.
Being real shouldn't be "a loss" or "a gain." It is what it is. You were real when you came out your momma.
Anticipating an "honest response" and watching a man's actions are two different things - actions will win over words everday.
You can breast stroke, back stroke, butterfly stroke throughout this convo in what seems to be an attempt to save face, for whatever reason, you need but it's not working. It just looks like you made up your mind, have succomb to the idea of being fake, and are "hahaha"-ing thinking your practice here has made you successful.
Listen sweetheart, you are clearly butthurt for some unknown reason, you took it personally me talking about hoes and sluts? well I guess my speech was clearly for you then lol and deep down you do realize the situation. Relax 😄 It's not who has the last word, but what has been said, just keep that on mind lmaoclick to expand
DITTO
aka... that mirror.
Your Sweetheart,
Hoe, slut, real bitch, married for 24 years bitch, aka that slut that got several bags.
Posted by Yodi
Don't catch feelings before him..
Being horny all the time is a good thing..
Keep my independence..
I talk too much when I'm ranting..
I'm a little freak/ cray cray..
How important boundaries are..
I can be a jerk..
My tolerance level is too high..
I'm sure there's more
That boundary thing is so important. But, lawd these habitual violators and line crossers.
Catching feelings didn't bother me. Cause the same way I caught em, I lost em. Feelings didn't mean romantic love to me. It just meant we bout to have fun (as loooong as you act right).
Posted by tizianiPosted by bumboklatt
im cool with all my friends, i respect new relationships
the only thing ive learned from them is that it wouldnt have worked long term
i dont change for anyone
i dont learn things as nothing is set in stone
I vibe with this pretty much.
The main reason why I didn't post in your thread is because I just can't relate to the idea every relationship is a lesson.
Relationships that happened for no reason have been just as good if not better. Not everything has to be a reflection upon me. We both had a good time.click to expand
What does this statement mean to you, "No relationship is a complete wash?" It's from my original post.
Look at my personal examples. Are they "negative?"
Posted by tizianiPosted by bumboklatt
im cool with all my friends, i respect new relationships
the only thing ive learned from them is that it wouldnt have worked long term
i dont change for anyone
i dont learn things as nothing is set in stone
I vibe with this pretty much.
The main reason why I didn't post in your thread is because I just can't relate to the idea every relationship is a lesson.
Relationships that happened for no reason have been just as good if not better. Not everything has to be a reflection upon me. We both had a good time.click to expand
ppl enter our lives for a reason.. its up to us to figure out why.
Or maybe you taught them something.
Posted by YodiPosted by tizianiPosted by bumboklatt
im cool with all my friends, i respect new relationships
the only thing ive learned from them is that it wouldnt have worked long term
i dont change for anyone
i dont learn things as nothing is set in stone
I vibe with this pretty much.
The main reason why I didn't post in your thread is because I just can't relate to the idea every relationship is a lesson.
Relationships that happened for no reason have been just as good if not better. Not everything has to be a reflection upon me. We both had a good time.
ppl enter our lives for a reason.. its up to us to figure out why.
Or maybe you taught them something.click to expand
Thank you moma. I thought my personal examples illustrated that.
~Shrugs and damn~
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by Yodi
Don't catch feelings before him..
Being horny all the time is a good thing..
Keep my independence..
I talk too much when I'm ranting..
I'm a little freak/ cray cray..
How important boundaries are..
I can be a jerk..
My tolerance level is too high..
I'm sure there's more
That boundary thing is so important. But, lawd these habitual violators and line crossers.
Catching feelings didn't bother me. Cause the same way I caught em, I lost em. Feelings didn't mean romantic love to me. It just meant we bout to have fun (as loooong as you act right).click to expand
lol yes and I'm still learning how to maintain my boundaries long term.
idk I'm becoming numb I don't fully commit or focus unless he tells me how he feels first.. I used to be so innocent lol
Posted by tizianiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by tizianiPosted by bumboklatt
im cool with all my friends, i respect new relationships
the only thing ive learned from them is that it wouldnt have worked long term
i dont change for anyone
i dont learn things as nothing is set in stone
I vibe with this pretty much.
The main reason why I didn't post in your thread is because I just can't relate to the idea every relationship is a lesson.
Relationships that happened for no reason have been just as good if not better. Not everything has to be a reflection upon me. We both had a good time.
What does this statement mean to you, "No relationship is a complete wash?" It's from my original post.
Look at my personal examples. Are they "negative?"
It sounds to me it's overlooking the relationships that happen for no reason and I just can't relate to that.
Your personal examples seem cool.click to expand
Okay, that was point #1 but, are they negative from your perspective? Cause it seems that "lesson" is carrying a negative connotation for you.
Particularly in this statement, "Not everything has to be a reflection upon me..." Is that the word "reflection" has negative connotation for you?
My personal examples, I am not necessarily "the main person" per se. But, I can see still see my purpose.
Furthermore, notice how in my examples with other men, my Virgo carried all these aspects and placements I encountered... What does that mean to you?
Posted by YodiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by Yodi
Don't catch feelings before him..
Being horny all the time is a good thing..
Keep my independence..
I talk too much when I'm ranting..
I'm a little freak/ cray cray..
How important boundaries are..
I can be a jerk..
My tolerance level is too high..
I'm sure there's more
That boundary thing is so important. But, lawd these habitual violators and line crossers.
Catching feelings didn't bother me. Cause the same way I caught em, I lost em. Feelings didn't mean romantic love to me. It just meant we bout to have fun (as loooong as you act right).
lol yes and I'm still learning how to maintain my boundaries long term.
idk I'm becoming numb I don't fully commit or focus unless he tells me how he feels first.. I used to be so innocent lol
click to expand
I think that's good.
Posted by tizianiPosted by YodiPosted by tizianiPosted by bumboklatt
im cool with all my friends, i respect new relationships
the only thing ive learned from them is that it wouldnt have worked long term
i dont change for anyone
i dont learn things as nothing is set in stone
I vibe with this pretty much.
The main reason why I didn't post in your thread is because I just can't relate to the idea every relationship is a lesson.
Relationships that happened for no reason have been just as good if not better. Not everything has to be a reflection upon me. We both had a good time.
ppl enter our lives for a reason.. its up to us to figure out why.
Or maybe you taught them something.
I just don't see why there has to be a reason xD
Not everything is about me.click to expand
Where you get that idea of it being about you? I wasn't necessarily the center of my examples.
Posted by WarDog
none'nt
Well then, as you were.
Posted by tizianiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by tizianiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by tizianiPosted by bumboklatt
im cool with all my friends, i respect new relationships
the only thing ive learned from them is that it wouldnt have worked long term
i dont change for anyone
i dont learn things as nothing is set in stone
I vibe with this pretty much.
The main reason why I didn't post in your thread is because I just can't relate to the idea every relationship is a lesson.
Relationships that happened for no reason have been just as good if not better. Not everything has to be a reflection upon me. We both had a good time.
What does this statement mean to you, "No relationship is a complete wash?" It's from my original post.
Look at my personal examples. Are they "negative?"
It sounds to me it's overlooking the relationships that happen for no reason and I just can't relate to that.
Your personal examples seem cool.
Okay, that was point #1 but, are they negative from your perspective? Cause it seems that "lesson" is carrying a negative connotation for you.
Particularly in this statement, "Not everything has to be a reflection upon me..." Is the word "reflection" have negative connotation for you?
My personal examples, I am not necessarily "the main person" per se. But, I can see still see my purpose.
Furthermore, notice how in my examples with other men, my Virgo carried all these aspects and placements I encountered... What does that mean to you?
It means you know what you like? That's my best guess.
Yeah I feel like reflection can easily turn into naval-gazing with me.click to expand
I can see that from you being a Libra. May not be good for a Libra to reflect too much. Y'all are naturally reflective. But, you still cardinal.
No, it's not that I know what I like, lulz.
Posted by tizianiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by tizianiPosted by YodiPosted by tizianiPosted by bumboklatt
im cool with all my friends, i respect new relationships
the only thing ive learned from them is that it wouldnt have worked long term
i dont change for anyone
i dont learn things as nothing is set in stone
I vibe with this pretty much.
The main reason why I didn't post in your thread is because I just can't relate to the idea every relationship is a lesson.
Relationships that happened for no reason have been just as good if not better. Not everything has to be a reflection upon me. We both had a good time.
ppl enter our lives for a reason.. its up to us to figure out why.
Or maybe you taught them something.
I just don't see why there has to be a reason xD
Not everything is about me.
Where you get that idea of it being about you? I wasn't necessarily the center of my examples.
Yodi said
"it is up to us to figure out why"
"maybe you taught them something"
That's where I got it from.
I feel some relationships, I didn't learn I didn't teach. It was a good relationship, we had a good time as people do.click to expand
I had good times and still reflected. To learn how I present, to know what works, to anticipate what I attract and why... whether negative or positive.
Posted by tizianiPosted by YodiPosted by tizianiPosted by bumboklatt
im cool with all my friends, i respect new relationships
the only thing ive learned from them is that it wouldnt have worked long term
i dont change for anyone
i dont learn things as nothing is set in stone
I vibe with this pretty much.
The main reason why I didn't post in your thread is because I just can't relate to the idea every relationship is a lesson.
Relationships that happened for no reason have been just as good if not better. Not everything has to be a reflection upon me. We both had a good time.
ppl enter our lives for a reason.. its up to us to figure out why.
Or maybe you taught them something.
I just don't see why there has to be a reason xD
Not everything is about me.click to expand
I responded then accidently pushed the back button.. so forget it -____-
Posted by tizianiPosted by YodiPosted by tizianiPosted by bumboklatt
im cool with all my friends, i respect new relationships
the only thing ive learned from them is that it wouldnt have worked long term
i dont change for anyone
i dont learn things as nothing is set in stone
I vibe with this pretty much.
The main reason why I didn't post in your thread is because I just can't relate to the idea every relationship is a lesson.
Relationships that happened for no reason have been just as good if not better. Not everything has to be a reflection upon me. We both had a good time.
ppl enter our lives for a reason.. its up to us to figure out why.
Or maybe you taught them something.
I just don't see why there has to be a reason xD
Not everything is about me.click to expand
There doesn't have to be a reason.
And lesson learnt doesn't always mean you will change. I get what bumboklatt said in his post, but this thread isn't about someone changing for anyone.
E.g. I used to be wary about sharing stuff like bank accounts, cellphone accounts etc. with partners. I vowed I would never do such a thing (I saw it as foolish). However along comes my Libra ex, who needed a cellphone but couldn't get her own because she wasn't a citizen or PR (she was still on a work pass) and for once in my life I decided to get her a cellphone under my account. Biggest mistake in my life and after that fiasco I went back to my previous stand.
However, nowadays my reason for not having shared accounts isn't because I am wary - more like because I prefer to keep things clean and straightforward.
Relationships happen, whether or not there is a reason. This thread is focusing on what we take away from those relationships (regardless no reason or not) or what we might have inadvertently taught the other person. It can be a positive lesson or a negative one.
Posted by Ram416Posted by tizianiPosted by YodiPosted by tizianiPosted by bumboklatt
im cool with all my friends, i respect new relationships
the only thing ive learned from them is that it wouldnt have worked long term
i dont change for anyone
i dont learn things as nothing is set in stone
I vibe with this pretty much.
The main reason why I didn't post in your thread is because I just can't relate to the idea every relationship is a lesson.
Relationships that happened for no reason have been just as good if not better. Not everything has to be a reflection upon me. We both had a good time.
ppl enter our lives for a reason.. its up to us to figure out why.
Or maybe you taught them something.
I just don't see why there has to be a reason xD
Not everything is about me.
There doesn't have to be a reason.
And lesson learnt doesn't always mean you will change. I get what bumboklatt said in his post, but this thread isn't about someone changing for anyone.
E.g. I used to be wary about sharing stuff like bank accounts, cellphone accounts etc. with partners. I vowed I would never do such a thing (I saw it as foolish). However along comes my Libra ex, who needed a cellphone but couldn't get her own because she wasn't a citizen or PR (she was still on a work pass) and for once in my life I decided to get her a cellphone under my account. Biggest mistake in my life and after that fiasco I went back to my previous stand.
However, nowadays my reason for not having shared accounts isn't because I am wary - more like because I prefer to keep things clean and straightforward.
Relationships happen, whether or not there is a reason. This thread is focusing on what we take away from those relationships (regardless no reason or not) or what we might have inadvertently taught the other person. It can be a positive lesson or a negative one.click to expand
Thank you Ram!
Posted by tizianiPosted by Ram416Posted by tizianiPosted by YodiPosted by tizianiPosted by bumboklatt
im cool with all my friends, i respect new relationships
the only thing ive learned from them is that it wouldnt have worked long term
i dont change for anyone
i dont learn things as nothing is set in stone
I vibe with this pretty much.
The main reason why I didn't post in your thread is because I just can't relate to the idea every relationship is a lesson.
Relationships that happened for no reason have been just as good if not better. Not everything has to be a reflection upon me. We both had a good time.
ppl enter our lives for a reason.. its up to us to figure out why.
Or maybe you taught them something.
I just don't see why there has to be a reason xD
Not everything is about me.
There doesn't have to be a reason.
And lesson learnt doesn't always mean you will change. I get what bumboklatt said in his post, but this thread isn't about someone changing for anyone.
E.g. I used to be wary about sharing stuff like bank accounts, cellphone accounts etc. with partners. I vowed I would never do such a thing (I saw it as foolish). However along comes my Libra ex, who needed a cellphone but couldn't get her own because she wasn't a citizen or PR (she was still on a work pass) and for once in my life I decided to get her a cellphone under my account. Biggest mistake in my life and after that fiasco I went back to my previous stand.
However, nowadays my reason for not having shared accounts isn't because I am wary - more like because I prefer to keep things clean and straightforward.
Relationships happen, whether or not there is a reason. This thread is focusing on what we take away from those relationships (regardless no reason or not) or what we might have inadvertently taught the other person. It can be a positive lesson or a negative one.
I understand, but me posting about that was after I read VA say only one man posted here. It was just to share why I hadn't posted, rather than hijack the topic. I read the thread before and it's cool that you guys have your reasons.click to expand
Reflections not necessarily reasons
Posted by tizianiPosted by Ram416Posted by tizianiPosted by YodiPosted by tizianiPosted by bumboklatt
im cool with all my friends, i respect new relationships
the only thing ive learned from them is that it wouldnt have worked long term
i dont change for anyone
i dont learn things as nothing is set in stone
I vibe with this pretty much.
The main reason why I didn't post in your thread is because I just can't relate to the idea every relationship is a lesson.
Relationships that happened for no reason have been just as good if not better. Not everything has to be a reflection upon me. We both had a good time.
ppl enter our lives for a reason.. its up to us to figure out why.
Or maybe you taught them something.
I just don't see why there has to be a reason xD
Not everything is about me.
There doesn't have to be a reason.
And lesson learnt doesn't always mean you will change. I get what bumboklatt said in his post, but this thread isn't about someone changing for anyone.
E.g. I used to be wary about sharing stuff like bank accounts, cellphone accounts etc. with partners. I vowed I would never do such a thing (I saw it as foolish). However along comes my Libra ex, who needed a cellphone but couldn't get her own because she wasn't a citizen or PR (she was still on a work pass) and for once in my life I decided to get her a cellphone under my account. Biggest mistake in my life and after that fiasco I went back to my previous stand.
However, nowadays my reason for not having shared accounts isn't because I am wary - more like because I prefer to keep things clean and straightforward.
Relationships happen, whether or not there is a reason. This thread is focusing on what we take away from those relationships (regardless no reason or not) or what we might have inadvertently taught the other person. It can be a positive lesson or a negative one.
I understand, but me posting about that was after I read VA say only one man posted here. It was just to share why I hadn't posted, rather than hijack the topic. I read the thread before and it's cool that you guys have your reasons.click to expand
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[0] Capricorn
[0] Aquarius
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Hello y’all beautiful dxpeople
I trust you’re suffering well through this rx watchamafuxkit planet parade and the eclipse season from hell?
Can I just sleep through this mess and wake up in September already?
We're in the shadow period of the mercury rx which officially goes direct on the 25th and ends the 18th. My Scorpio ex hasn't ever really moved on and its been 7 months since I left him and started a relationship with my Aries. Now that mercury shadow has
Scenario: You've been seeing someone for a couple of months. You've been invited to stay the night for the second time. You pack up your things in the same bag you brought them in. On your way out the door you set a pair of shorts on the nightstand and sa
That's an interesting topic for me cause I recently discovered my personal style that feels natural to me on flirting.
I experimented for some time with my friends ways of flirting and attracting men cause they seemed to work. It brought me some men but
Have you ever had horrible synastry aspects with your S/O but the relationship was great anyways? Or vice versa... where the synastry was amazing but the relationship was actually horrible?
I know you are going to turn this about me, however I want to hear more generalized opinions.
So you live a dream that If you are going to have this man in your life - that is all that you need and happiness will follow as soon as he is with you.
Then t
I am caught between a Cancer with an Aqua moon and an Aqua with a Taurus moon. I'm a Taurus with an Aqua moon...
The basics: I met the Aqua fresh after a breakup with my long term partner of 10 years. I fell for him madly. He made me feel safe and taken
Thank goodness Jupiter is finally direct! I noticed a lot of couples broke up when Jupiter went RX including my relationship with my X scorpio. Although I'm with an Aries now, my X has fought to try to get me back and I'm really hoping now that Jupiter is
and the person you had the best sexual chemistry with.
If a loved one or a partner tells you "you're getting fat and need to lose weight", would you think of this as something inappropriate / hurtful, or as way of telling you they care about your health?
What's your sign?
Are they worth it? Is there a typical time frame they last? Why the new interest is total opposite from the ex and so forth?
I recently went back and ran the chart of 3 of my ex boyfriends
if funny to look at this is retrospect and how accurate astrology can be.
So for those who are into astrology and relationship comparison maybe this is fun to figure out which of my forme
Or, it could be a very practical skill like learning how to drive.
So, I'll sprinkle my learnin's in here or there.
Can you give your Sun signs and North Nodes (and houses) of you (and your lover, if known) any other placements you find pertinent to what you learned?