If your ex texted you...

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Posted by Pandora101

If your ex texted you: I love you and want you back

would you reply and if yes, what would be your answer? honestly

(try to word it, to the first ex you think of when reading this, no backstory needed)

Edit: its not my case, I am not asking for advice, I am just curious as to the wording


Doesn’t it all depends on the story of an end and personality of the ex?

If you gave a break up reason I would tell you...without it - no answer would be useful to you in your search.

If I thought off the bet about Scorpio I would say let’s meet and talk. And I would take it from there. Today that’s it. In a year maybe not even open email or read text and delete it...
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Which ex? Cuz seriously all but one I’d say are you kidding me? Ya no.

It just depends if I was done or not. Yep on the one... I haven’t got to done yet. Even though logically I should have. I answer, I go back trying to make it work or get to done.


"Which ex? Cuz seriously all but one I’d say are you kidding me? Ya no. "

"all but one" and thats the point

I think everyone has lots of exes, but knows exactly which ex they mean, when they think, what they would do and if they would reply and what 🙂
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Which ex? Cuz seriously all but one I’d say are you kidding me? Ya no.

It just depends if I was done or not. Yep on the one... I haven’t got to done yet. Even though logically I should have. I answer, I go back trying to make it work or get to done.

"Which ex? Cuz seriously all but one I’d say are you kidding me? Ya no. "

"all but one" and thats the point

I think everyone has lots of exes, but knows exactly which ex they mean, when they think, what they would do and if they would reply and what 🙂
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Ok. I don’t have to say what if. It’s happened and more than once. There were times I wouldn’t reply at first, but he’s not going away so I decided this year what I had to do was deal with it. So what I do now is say hi. I let him talk. When he says, I love you, I miss you. I say I know. I might even say I do too, but...

So I ask why he left. He talks more.

It becomes a conversation about how he was feeling, how I see it. At the very least we are working through it. To what end I don’t know. And this is what I needed to do, since i need closure. And neither of us has gotten it by being apart.
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My Gemini ex does this all the time and tries to guilt trip me when I don't answer by saying "Did I do something wrong?"

I say "No I'm busy and you need to start dating. Quit texting me with this bullshit."

is he THE ex?
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He's the one I was with the longest but the Scorpio keeps in contact with me still too. I only engage with them still cause I'm single. If I was in a relationship, all men would be blocked.
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My Gemini ex does this all the time and tries to guilt trip me when I don't answer by saying "Did I do something wrong?"

I say "No I'm busy and you need to start dating. Quit texting me with this bullshit."

is he THE ex?

He's the one I was with the longest but the Scorpio keeps in contact with me still too. I only engage with them still cause I'm single. If I was in a relationship, all men would be blocked.
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"He's the one I was with the longest but the Scorpio keeps in contact with me still too. I only engage with them still cause I'm single. If I was in a relationship, all men would be blocked."

it wasnt what I ment
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The bad ex or the good one? Lol

word it, to the bad and to the good

It all depends.

How's the relationship ended and how long it's been going on—

Honestly I won't think much about it as it is weird reading I love you coming from exes. They might be drunk while typing it.
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Yup! Like it's too late for all that! Go to sleep, you're drunk! 😆
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My Gemini ex does this all the time and tries to guilt trip me when I don't answer by saying "Did I do something wrong?"

I say "No I'm busy and you need to start dating. Quit texting me with this bullshit."

is he THE ex?

He's the one I was with the longest but the Scorpio keeps in contact with me still too. I only engage with them still cause I'm single. If I was in a relationship, all men would be blocked.

"He's the one I was with the longest but the Scorpio keeps in contact with me still too. I only engage with them still cause I'm single. If I was in a relationship, all men would be blocked."

it wasnt what I ment
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Ok What did you mean then? what does "THE ex" mean?
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The bad ex or the good one? Lol

Lol

Both? 😜

I'd ignore the bad one 😄

Really?

I would definitely reply 😄

Reply with what? 😜

With a - you must be out of your mind 😂

Savage 😂😂😂
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Well, it’s the bad ex 😜😂 I would be a bit sweeter to the good one
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The bad ex or the good one? Lol

word it, to the bad and to the good

It all depends.

How's the relationship ended and how long it's been going on—

Honestly I won't think much about it as it is weird reading I love you coming from exes. They might be drunk while typing it.
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"It all depends.

How's the relationship ended and how long it's been going on—"

no, it doesnt depend on this

it doesnt matter who was it, and who was to blame or not blame, good or bad...

if there is no ONE ex, its irrelevant

I mean it
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The bad ex or the good one? Lol

word it, to the bad and to the good

It all depends.

How's the relationship ended and how long it's been going on—

Honestly I won't think much about it as it is weird reading I love you coming from exes. They might be drunk while typing it.
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Lol

That is a so typical thing to asume for an Aquarius man 😂😜
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The bad ex or the good one? Lol

word it, to the bad and to the good

It all depends.

How's the relationship ended and how long it's been going on—

Honestly I won't think much about it as it is weird reading I love you coming from exes. They might be drunk while typing it.

Lol

That is a so typical thing to asume for an Aquarius man 😂😜
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I'm right tho 😜😄😄
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Posted by AerialView
Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by AerialView
Posted by Pandora101
Posted by AerialView

The bad ex or the good one? Lol

word it, to the bad and to the good

It all depends.

How's the relationship ended and how long it's been going on—

Honestly I won't think much about it as it is weird reading I love you coming from exes. They might be drunk while typing it.

Lol

That is a so typical thing to asume for an Aquarius man 😂😜

I'm right tho 😜😄😄
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Totally 😂😘
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Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by AerialView
Posted by Pandora101
Posted by AerialView

The bad ex or the good one? Lol

word it, to the bad and to the good

It all depends.

How's the relationship ended and how long it's been going on—

Honestly I won't think much about it as it is weird reading I love you coming from exes. They might be drunk while typing it.

Lol

That is a so typical thing to asume for an Aquarius man 😂😜

I'm right tho 😜😄😄

Totally 😂😘
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😘😘😘