Posted by MyStarsShine
Or keeping their options open 😃
Posted by FadedAri
It’s to protect against future prospects. Sad but true. FYI Social media is a relationship killer and I’m sure your romantic interest really does like you.
Posted by WarEternal
Is there a reason why a guy who claims to care about you and support you as a friend doesn’t do it publicly like on social media? Before, we used to like each other romantically. For example, It feels he acknowledges everyone but me 😔 liking other girl’s photos and friends post etc
Posted by WarEternal
Is there a reason why a guy who claims to care about you and support you as a friend doesn’t do it publicly like on social media? Before, we used to like each other romantically. For example, It feels he acknowledges everyone but me 😔 liking other girl’s photos and friends post etc
Posted by WarEternalPosted by FadedAri
It’s to protect against future prospects. Sad but true. FYI Social media is a relationship killer and I’m sure your romantic interest really does like you.
I meant it like, him liking other girl’s photos and friends post but just never mine. @FadedAriclick to expand
Posted by ImperfectStorm
Social media is the devil, I swear. It exacerbates all of our biggest fears and insecurities. When I found myself in the past becoming insecure or obsessive about who or what a guy was liking, I took a break from social media so I could refocus on what really matters. In the end we cannot control other people we can only control how we respond, and choose not to let it get to you.
Are you dating or just friends?
Posted by IMNOTEVENREAL
Omg cant we have the right to not care bout social media
Posted by saggurl88
It's pretty common to do. You should figure out why you care so much about him validating your posts.
Your friendship shouldn't be affected by his likes and how he uses his social media.
Posted by WarEternalPosted by MyStarsShine
Or keeping their options open 😃
He would like other girl’s photos and friends stuff just not me 🤔 @MyStarsShineclick to expand
Posted by WarEternalPosted by saggurl88
It's pretty common to do. You should figure out why you care so much about him validating your posts.
Your friendship shouldn't be affected by his likes and how he uses his social media.
That doesn’t sound like a good friend at all. It’s not about validation it’s just his words don’t match his actions if he skips over specifically me. Just saying. Not trying to start an argument.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by WarEternalPosted by saggurl88
It's pretty common to do. You should figure out why you care so much about him validating your posts.
Your friendship shouldn't be affected by his likes and how he uses his social media.
That doesn’t sound like a good friend at all. It’s not about validation it’s just his words don’t match his actions if he skips over specifically me. Just saying. Not trying to start an argument.
How do you know it's just you that he skips over and how do you know that he's doing it on purpose? You do realize that social media has algorithm's, right? You may not even show up on his news feed, if he doesn't interact with your posts often.
As an example-
I've had people question why I don't like their stuff and it was because I didn't actively go to their page and look at it.
It did not show up on my feed at the time I hopped on quickly. One even asked me why I didn't view his stories- I never even knew he had stories because I don't scroll the top list of users to see more stories- I have the same ones who stay in rotation because those are usually the only ones I view, since it's convenient and right there.
I then felt forced to have to look at his stories, just because he brought it to my attention- It's ridiculous.
People look too much into these sorts of things.click to expand
Posted by WarEternalPosted by saggurl88Posted by WarEternalPosted by saggurl88
It's pretty common to do. You should figure out why you care so much about him validating your posts.
Your friendship shouldn't be affected by his likes and how he uses his social media.
That doesn’t sound like a good friend at all. It’s not about validation it’s just his words don’t match his actions if he skips over specifically me. Just saying. Not trying to start an argument.
How do you know it's just you that he skips over and how do you know that he's doing it on purpose? You do realize that social media has algorithm's, right? You may not even show up on his news feed, if he doesn't interact with your posts often.
As an example-
I've had people question why I don't like their stuff and it was because I didn't actively go to their page and look at it.
It did not show up on my feed at the time I hopped on quickly. One even asked me why I didn't view his stories- I never even knew he had stories because I don't scroll the top list of users to see more stories- I have the same ones who stay in rotation because those are usually the only ones I view, since it's convenient and right there.
I then felt forced to have to look at his stories, just because he brought it to my attention- It's ridiculous.
People look too much into these sorts of things.
Because even my friends have noticed. He doesn’t follow a lot of people like maybe 50 and some are inactive. He has seen my stories with no problem. That’s how I know and he did it on purpose.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by WarEternalPosted by saggurl88Posted by WarEternalPosted by saggurl88
It's pretty common to do. You should figure out why you care so much about him validating your posts.
Your friendship shouldn't be affected by his likes and how he uses his social media.
That doesn’t sound like a good friend at all. It’s not about validation it’s just his words don’t match his actions if he skips over specifically me. Just saying. Not trying to start an argument.
How do you know it's just you that he skips over and how do you know that he's doing it on purpose? You do realize that social media has algorithm's, right? You may not even show up on his news feed, if he doesn't interact with your posts often.
As an example-
I've had people question why I don't like their stuff and it was because I didn't actively go to their page and look at it.
It did not show up on my feed at the time I hopped on quickly. One even asked me why I didn't view his stories- I never even knew he had stories because I don't scroll the top list of users to see more stories- I have the same ones who stay in rotation because those are usually the only ones I view, since it's convenient and right there.
I then felt forced to have to look at his stories, just because he brought it to my attention- It's ridiculous.
People look too much into these sorts of things.
Because even my friends have noticed. He doesn’t follow a lot of people like maybe 50 and some are inactive. He has seen my stories with no problem. That’s how I know and he did it on purpose.
You should talk to him about it since it bothers you so much. Especially since you are taking what he does so personally.click to expand
Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by FadedAriPosted by IMNOTEVENREAL
Omg cant we have the right to not care bout social media
Idk about that. I would never use match or tinder because IG and FB is to easy to find a hookup.
I just want to be happyclick to expand
Posted by KrabssPosted by saggurl88Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by FadedAriPosted by IMNOTEVENREAL
Omg cant we have the right to not care bout social media
Idk about that. I would never use match or tinder because IG and FB is to easy to find a hookup.
I just want to be happy
You should be bringing it with you everywhere you go! 🥳 🥳 🥳 🥳
😂click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by KrabssPosted by saggurl88Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by FadedAriPosted by IMNOTEVENREAL
Omg cant we have the right to not care bout social media
Idk about that. I would never use match or tinder because IG and FB is to easy to find a hookup.
I just want to be happy
You should be bringing it with you everywhere you go! 🥳 🥳 🥳 🥳
😂
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Posted by ImperfectStorm
Agreed 💯 I have Venus in 12th house. Nobody on my Facebook friends list has any clue about the Pisces, and I’m crazy about him.
If I’m like engaged to be married then I might go public. But I keep my personal business personal and off of social media. I just talk openly about relationships on here because it’s anonymous. Lol
Posted by Som
This is natural for Water Venuses. I know a girl who starts speaking about her relationships in social media only after they end. She has Cancer Venus.Posted by ImperfectStorm
Agreed 💯 I have Venus in 12th house. Nobody on my Facebook friends list has any clue about the Pisces, and I’m crazy about him.
If I’m like engaged to be married then I might go public. But I keep my personal business personal and off of social media. I just talk openly about relationships on here because it’s anonymous. Lolclick to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by WarEternalPosted by MyStarsShine
Or keeping their options open 😃
He would like other girl’s photos and friends stuff just not me 🤔 @MyStarsShine
Well that’s isn’t good 😞click to expand
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