Need Help: Racists Who Marry the Race They View Negatively

We all should know that their are cases where racists marry the race they supposedly hate. Sometimes it's a matter of racist behavior towards the race they dislike and not necessarily "hate" but stereotyping, and showing disgust or disdain towards.

They act as though their spouse is "different" often appeasing their supremist views by telling the spouse but, "you're different." Or, acting one way in the marriage but, different around their race.

I need articles.

Reason is, I have a causian female who's lying. Here proof is "but, I'm married to a black man."

You can be married to black, asian, hispanic, and still feel you are superior to them. See it all the time.

Your help is greatly appreciated.

A true racist never marries or has relations outside of their race

I'm reading.

May not be able to comment/reply much, at times. But, please keep'em coming.

Although I need articles, I appreciate all comments.

Thank you.

Posted by Ixion

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/the-establishment/my-husbands-unconscious-r_b_10322380.html

I skimmed. It helps.

Main take-away... chauvinists and sexists still marry women. So, racists...

Posted by rejuvenatedheart

I just came here to bitch for a second: when I was working in retail, I had a white man with his Asian wife come in to the store and when they asked me for help he went "I'm the luckiest man to have two beautiful Asian women by my side!" as if I was his fucking concubine or some shit. And the sadder part is that his wife legit laughed.

I know that wasn't entirely relevant to your OP, but thanks for your time. ✌🏼

I greatly appreciate your vent. I am angry right now. It helps. I've witnessed this behavior with asian women too. Fetishism and superiority.

Posted by Neshama

Posted by 777

A true racist never marries or has relations outside of their race

Things that happened during slavery really disprove that. Many slave owners had affairs with slaves many more raped them systematically and a few even married them.

One of beyonces ancestors was a white slave owner who married a black woman.

http://time.com/5362781/beyonce-ancestor-slavery-marriage/

He was obviously racist. There is no denying that.

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This is good stuff. Thank you.

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Ixion

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/the-establishment/my-husbands-unconscious-r_b_10322380.html

I skimmed. It helps.

Main take-away... chauvinists and sexists still marry women. So, racists...

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@Ixion, great. I will cite this one. One-to-one example.

I need more scholarly sources. But, whatever ....

Bookmarking:

Dear White Women: Interracial Relationships and Biracial Children Do Not Absolve You of Racism

https://www.theroot.com/dear-white-women-interracial-relationships-and-biracia-1820006677

White Dating Black- Interracial Relationship and White Saviour Complex

https://medium.com/@bisialimi/there-is-a-thin-line-between-love-and-racism-3d534675fa5

4 Truths About Interracial Dating

https://intervarsity.org/blog/4-truths-about-interracial-dating

Alt-Right Advocate Known for Racist Trolling Marries a Black Man

https://www.diversityinc.com/news/alt-right-advocate-known-racist-trolling-marries-black-man

(The Black Hat) 10 Ways That Dating A White Girl Will Open A Black Man's Eyes to Racism

https://mobile.eurweb.com/2017/07/the-black-hat-10-ways-that-dating-a-white-girl-will-open-a-black-mans-eyes-to-racism

Study investigates marks of racism in "interracial families"

http://agencia.fapesp.br/study-investigates-marks-of-racism-in-interracial-families/25475/

Understanding Interracial Relationships -Are interracial relationships mercenary exchanges or unions of equality?

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/it-s-man-s-and-woman-s-world/201407/understanding-interracial-relationships

7 Things to Remember If You’re a White Person Dating a Person of Color"

https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/08/white-person-dating-poc/

Posted by rejuvenatedheart

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by rejuvenatedheart

I just came here to bitch for a second: when I was working in retail, I had a white man with his Asian wife come in to the store and when they asked me for help he went "I'm the luckiest man to have two beautiful Asian women by my side!" as if I was his fucking concubine or some shit. And the sadder part is that his wife legit laughed.

I know that wasn't entirely relevant to your OP, but thanks for your time. ✌🏼

I greatly appreciate your vent. I am angry right now. It helps. I've witnessed this behavior with asian women too. Fetishism and superiority.

I'm glad that I could help. ❤️

And yes, it happens to all POC, which is sad and needs to change.

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Who were you more angry with? Sometimes I'm more angry with the person of my race. I feel like they bought into it all like self-hatred.

'I can say that because my stove is black.'

Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxX

I had an experience years ago where I encountered a racist white dude going off about Black people in the comments and the guy had a Black wife and three Blacks kids.

I eventually screenshotted all the shit he was sayin and sent it to his wife because I felt like if I were in her shoes, I'd want to know.

She seemed completely unphased about his comments. All she did was apologize for him arguing with people online. Made no mention whatsoever about all the blatantly racist shit he had been saying about Black people.



After that I left it alone. Til this day one of the most disturbing relationship dynamics I've ever witnessed.



A husband who hates Black people marries a Black woman, has kids with her, and the Black wife is totally fine with the fact that her husband hates what she is. The only explanation I can come up with is that she must hate herself too. I feel sorry for those kids.

I accidentally dated a racist. Among many things, I was clued by discovering tons of black female porn on his desktop. Originally, I thought it was just political differences.

Since everything is racism, then affirmative action is technically racism too, no?

Posted by enfant_terrible

Since everything is racism, then affirmative action is technically racism too, no?

Please do not derail my thread. Start your own please. I have a case pending. Thank you.

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by enfant_terrible

Since everything is racism, then affirmative action is technically racism too, no?

Please do not derail my thread. Start your own please. I have a case pending. Thank you.

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Ah, this is a circle masturbation thread? Sorry I shall let myself out 🖖

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by enfant_terrible

Since everything is racism, then affirmative action is technically racism too, no?

Please do not derail my thread. Start your own please. I have a case pending. Thank you.

Ah, this is a circle masturbation thread? Sorry I shall let myself out 🖖

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Just stay on topic.

Start your own topic on affirmative action. Say it with ya chest. I'll join.

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by enfant_terrible

Since everything is racism, then affirmative action is technically racism too, no?

Please do not derail my thread. Start your own please. I have a case pending. Thank you.

Ah, this is a circle masturbation thread? Sorry I shall let myself out 🖖

Just stay on topic.

Start your own topic on affirmative action. Say it with ya chest. I'll join.

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If I marry a black chick cuz clearly I like her personality too but the color of her skin is the deal-maker then that makes me racist.

Even if I say something "racist" in a positive light it's still racism, right? That seems to be the latest hangup.

So I don't really get it, why should I have my own thread on affirmative action when we're already discussing that kind of racism in here?

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by enfant_terrible

Since everything is racism, then affirmative action is technically racism too, no?

Please do not derail my thread. Start your own please. I have a case pending. Thank you.

Ah, this is a circle masturbation thread? Sorry I shall let myself out 🖖

Just stay on topic.

Start your own topic on affirmative action. Say it with ya chest. I'll join.

If I marry a black chick cuz clearly I like her personality too but the color of her skin is the deal-maker then that makes me racist.

Even if I say something "racist" in a positive light it's still racism, right? That seems to be the latest hangup.

So I don't really get it, why should I have my own thread on affirmative action when we're already discussing that kind of racism in here?

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We are not discussing affirmative action. I would love to contribute to the topic, if you create it. And, I promise, I will explain in that topic.

As far as you loving black women for her personality and loving her skin, tis fine. But, making her skin "the deal maker," Idk man.

I am waaaay more than my skin color. For skin color to be "the deal maker" over anything else about me is kinda "fetishy," at least objectifying.

But, you're speaking in a hypothetical? To which you appear to have no idea of the psychology, sociology, and behaviors it implies, that precedes, or entails, skin color being a "deal maker."

Posted by VenusAquarius

As far as you loving black women for her personality and loving her skin, tis fine. But, making her skin "the deal maker," Idk man.

I am waaaay more than my skin color. For skin color to be "the deal maker" over anything else about me is kinda "fetishy," at least objectifying.

People "prefer" partners based on physical attributes and fetishes all the time, that is to say it is a deal-maker given there's also a match in personality. Why is that an issue when said preference revolves around race?

That's almost like calling me sexist bc my ultimate deal-maker is that the person has a vagina bc technically it outweighs the importance of personality lol

@enfant_terrible,

Courtesy of my continued research"

"7. If You Only Date People of Color (And Especially from One Group in Particular), Check Yourself

I’d love to be able to give you a formula – some kind of foolproof ratio of number-of-white-to-POC partners – to help you determine if you’re racist because you don’t date enoughoutside of whiteness or if you’re racist because you too often date outside of whiteness. But such a thing simply doesn’t exist.

But I do think it’s important to recognize what you’re doing if you’re only dating people of color, and especially from any one race or culture in particular.

For example, I have a cousin who, to my knowledge, has only had girlfriends who are of color – and all but one of them, who was Latina, have been East Asian. And I raise allthe eyebrows at that.

Because while it could just be coincidence or the effects of your environment (like if you’re a white person living in Japan or something), considering that racial fetishizationand exotification is totally a thing, I question any white person who “has a thing” for [insert race or culture here].

So make sure that you understand your motives behind why you’re dating interracially, whether it’s your first time (hint: “I’ve always wanted to try sex with a Black girl” is racist) or something you’re used to doing (hint: “I have yellow fever” is also totally racist).

You should be with your partner because they – as an entire person – are what’s good for you, not because you’re attracted to stereotypical ideas about them."

From: "7 Things to Remember If You’re a White Person Dating a Person of Color"

https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/08/white-person-dating-poc/

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by VenusAquarius

As far as you loving black women for her personality and loving her skin, tis fine. But, making her skin "the deal maker," Idk man.

I am waaaay more than my skin color. For skin color to be "the deal maker" over anything else about me is kinda "fetishy," at least objectifying.

People "prefer" partners based on physical attributes and fetishes all the time, that is to say it is a deal-maker given there's also a match in personality. Why is that an issue when said preference revolves around race?

That's almost like calling me sexist bc my ultimate deal-maker is that the person has a vagina bc technically it outweighs the importance of personality lol

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Courtesy of my continued research:

"7. If You Only Date People of Color (And Especially from One Group in Particular), Check Yourself

I’d love to be able to give you a formula – some kind of foolproof ratio of number-of-white-to-POC partners – to help you determine if you’re racist because you don’t date enoughoutside of whiteness or if you’re racist because you too often date outside of whiteness. But such a thing simply doesn’t exist.

But I do think it’s important to recognize what you’re doing if you’re only dating people of color, and especially from any one race or culture in particular.

For example, I have a cousin who, to my knowledge, has only had girlfriends who are of color – and all but one of them, who was Latina, have been East Asian. And I raise allthe eyebrows at that.

Because while it could just be coincidence or the effects of your environment (like if you’re a white person living in Japan or something), considering that racial fetishizationand exotification is totally a thing, I question any white person who “has a thing” for [insert race or culture here].

So make sure that you understand your motives behind why you’re dating interracially, whether it’s your first time (hint: “I’ve always wanted to try sex with a Black girl” is racist) or something you’re used to doing (hint: “I have yellow fever” is also totally racist).

You should be with your partner because they – as an entire person – are what’s good for you, not because you’re attracted to stereotypical ideas about them."

From: "7 Things to Remember If You’re a White Person Dating a Person of Color"

https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/08/white-person-dating-poc/

Posted by TodaysRap

Posted by enfant_terrible

Since everything is racism, then affirmative action is technically racism too, no?

you are super dumb

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And I am the one derailing this thread? @VenusAquarius Srsly was I even being offensive?

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by VenusAquarius

As far as you loving black women for her personality and loving her skin, tis fine. But, making her skin "the deal maker," Idk man.

I am waaaay more than my skin color. For skin color to be "the deal maker" over anything else about me is kinda "fetishy," at least objectifying.

People "prefer" partners based on physical attributes and fetishes all the time, that is to say it is a deal-maker given there's also a match in personality. Why is that an issue when said preference revolves around race?

That's almost like calling me sexist bc my ultimate deal-maker is that the person has a vagina bc technically it outweighs the importance of personality lol

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Liking a person having a vagina makes you a heterosexual male. Don't be obtuse. Furthermore, you will be tested by men who change gender so...

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by TodaysRap

Posted by enfant_terrible

Since everything is racism, then affirmative action is technically racism too, no?

you are super dumb

And I am the one derailing this thread? @VenusAquarius Srsly was I even being offensive?

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No, you're not being offensive.

But, TodaysRap didn't call you offensive.

Posted by VenusAquarius

Liking a person having a vagina makes you a heterosexual male. Don't be obtuse. Furthermore, you will be tested by men who change gender so...

Yeah and liking big dicks makes you a size queen, it's still on a make or break basis. Doesn't mean you don't love the person, it's just an attribute you prefer the person you love to have. Are we gonna split hairs?

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by TodaysRap

Posted by enfant_terrible

Since everything is racism, then affirmative action is technically racism too, no?

you are super dumb

And I am the one derailing this thread? @VenusAquarius Srsly was I even being offensive?

No, you're not being offensive.

But, TodaysRap didn't call you offensive.

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Why is he offended then?

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by VenusAquarius

Liking a person having a vagina makes you a heterosexual male. Don't be obtuse. Furthermore, you will be tested by men who change gender so...

Yeah and liking big dicks makes you a size queen, it's still on a make or break basis. Doesn't mean you don't love the person, it's just an attribute you prefer the person you love to have. Are we gonna split hairs?

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"Big dick" seems relative to me. What you, I, or Sally considers a big dick may be entirely different.

But, there's no opinion in me being black.

The size of the dick being a "deal maker" as you stated "deal maker" is probably quintessential to being a "size queen," as you call it. I have no arguement or opinion there.

Sexual things are sexual.

Race things are racial.

I guess DeNiro is racist.

Posted by Black-Mamba

Great thread. I always wonder why black ppl procreate with the individual

They dont care how their kids will turn out?

I feel like they're very selfish

By "turn out," I assume your speaking of the effects of having a racist parent.

The article cited below, describe a mother who repeatedly married black men singing a racist lullaby to her children.

Study investigates marks of racism in "interracial families"

http://agencia.fapesp.br/study-investigates-marks-of-racism-in-interracial-families/25475/

Posted by enfant_terrible

I guess DeNiro is racist.

Tell me more.

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by enfant_terrible

I guess DeNiro is racist.

Tell me more.

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Well he's been married to or at least has kids with 3 different black women. Huge coincidence or racism? 😉

@enfant_terrible,

https://m.whosdatedwho.com/dating/robert-de-niro

Gee, he got with 7 black woman outta 24. I guess for hollywood, that's way too many.

@enfant_terrible,

Should I use the winky too?

Or let's twist that around, if I told you I'm not into black women at all romantically or sexually, and not bc of any stereotypes bc I've met black women from various different cultures - but I enjoy their friendship and whatnot like you'd with any other person but that I can't tell you why I'm not feeling it any other wat.. does that make me racist? Cuz that's a strong wrong to put on preference

Posted by VenusAquarius

@enfant_terrible,

https://m.whosdatedwho.com/dating/robert-de-niro

Gee, he got with 7 black woman outta 24. I guess for hollywood, that's way too many.

Statistically speaking, isn't it though?

There’s racism and there’s ignorance.

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by VenusAquarius

@enfant_terrible,

https://m.whosdatedwho.com/dating/robert-de-niro

Gee, he got with 7 black woman outta 24. I guess for hollywood, that's way too many.

Statistically speaking, isn't it though?

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How so? A little less than one-third? These are your stats so, please explain.

These were beautiful women in his circle, environment.

Remember the article?

"But I do think it’s important to recognize what you’re doing if you’re only dating people of color, and especially from any one race or culture in particular.

I’d love to be able to give you a formula – some kind of foolproof ratio of number-of-white-to-POC partners – to help you determine if you’re racist because you don’t date enoughoutside of whiteness or if you’re racist because you too often date outside of whiteness. But such a thing simply doesn’t exist."

"7 Things to Remember If You’re a White Person Dating a Person of Color"

https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/08/white-person-dating-poc/</strong>

Posted by Arielle83

My mom dated a lot of darker skinned men during the 70s and she used to cop animosity from women within the race she was dating. And also animosity when she is with my dad, but my dad’s race seemed ambiguous so not as much.

Maybe they thought she was racist or maybe there’s a double standard there of white women dating dark men versus white men dating dark women.

https://www.google.ca/amp/s/mobile.eurweb.com/2018/01/opinionthe-black-hat-when-black-women-date-white-men-its-love-when-black-men-date-white-women-its-betrayal/amp/

So, in the 70s, no animosity from whites at all? What country?

My husband's white mother caught so much animosity from whites, she gave him up for adoption.

Posted by Arielle83

When I lived in South Korea and worked with 4 white American guys, you’d have the Korean girls flocking to them and not caring who were their gfs.

These women just want white. Visa or whatever. It’s fetishized on their part too.

Then over time these coworkers fetishized them.

This article I posted, the closest to scholarly I could find, call what you describe "mercenary exchanges." Seems more about economy, class, and escaping poverty, communism, and/or sexism.

Understanding Interracial Relationships -Are interracial relationships mercenary exchanges or unions of equality?

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/it-s-man-s-and-woman-s-world/201407/understanding-interracial-relationships

Posted by Arielle83

This is real. See so many old fucks with young Asian women. The throw away wife.

https://www.google.ca/amp/s/amp.smh.com.au/life style /the-shameful-story-of-australias-serial-husbands-20140828-109b5i.html

“Their hidden agendas for the women they import include housebound slave-labour (at least one woman was expected to dig drains and concrete) and on-call sex (these men frequently import much younger women).”

The racist I dated had a brother who continuosly married pacific islanders. Marry and have her and her siblings work in his restaurant. He was on his third pacific islander.

The last straw, the straw that broke the camels back, was when I did a background check on my racist and saw he frequented this pacific island enough to have an address there pop up.

You don't know my outrage! No bride for him...

At first, I thought them culturally diverse... cool peeps. Until, I started digging.

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Arielle83

This is real. See so many old fucks with young Asian women. The throw away wife.

https://www.google.ca/amp/s/amp.smh.com.au/life style /the-shameful-story-of-australias-serial-husbands-20140828-109b5i.html

“Their hidden agendas for the women they import include housebound slave-labour (at least one woman was expected to dig drains and concrete) and on-call sex (these men frequently import much younger women).”

The racist I dated had a brother who continuosly married pacific islanders. Marry and have her and her siblings work in his restaurant. He was on his third pacific islander.

The last straw, the straw that broke the camels back, was when I did a background check on my racist and saw he frequented this pacific island enough to have an address there pop up.

You don't know my outrage! No bride for him...

At first, I thought them culturally diverse... cool peeps. Until, I started digging.

A lot of the men that work at my company go to Bali together every few months to see their “girlfriends”. They refuse to admit they’re sex tourists.

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Is it cheap coochie, fetishism, a sign of status, a double life, love of supremacy... are they married?

I wonder where they got the idea in the first place?

Are they lying? How do they afford it?

Posted by TodaysRap

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by VenusAquarius

As far as you loving black women for her personality and loving her skin, tis fine. But, making her skin "the deal maker," Idk man.

I am waaaay more than my skin color. For skin color to be "the deal maker" over anything else about me is kinda "fetishy," at least objectifying.

People "prefer" partners based on physical attributes and fetishes all the time, that is to say it is a deal-maker given there's also a match in personality. Why is that an issue when said preference revolves around race?

That's almost like calling me sexist bc my ultimate deal-maker is that the person has a vagina bc technically it outweighs the importance of personality lol

Courtesy of my continued research:

"7. If You Only Date People of Color (And Especially from One Group in Particular), Check Yourself

I’d love to be able to give you a formula – some kind of foolproof ratio of number-of-white-to-POC partners – to help you determine if you’re racist because you don’t date enoughoutside of whiteness or if you’re racist because you too often date outside of whiteness. But such a thing simply doesn’t exist.

But I do think it’s important to recognize what you’re doing if you’re only dating people of color, and especially from any one race or culture in particular.

For example, I have a cousin who, to my knowledge, has only had girlfriends who are of color – and all but one of them, who was Latina, have been East Asian. And I raise allthe eyebrows at that.

Because while it could just be coincidence or the effects of your environment (like if you’re a white person living in Japan or something), considering that racial fetishizationand exotification is totally a thing, I question any white person who “has a thing” for [insert race or culture here].

So make sure that you understand your motives behind why you’re dating interracially, whether it’s your first time (hint: “I’ve always wanted to try sex with a Black girl” is racist) or something you’re used to doing (hint: “I have yellow fever” is also totally racist).

You should be with your partner because they – as an entire person – are what’s good for you, not because you’re attracted to stereotypical ideas about them."

From: "7 Things to Remember If You’re a White Person Dating a Person of Color"

https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/08/white-person-dating-poc/

Look, what is this about?

Feminism is real famine.

If you are about to be just with yourself, then put into perspective that we are dealing with money, now that will be unbeatable.



Passive aggressive is always a virtue, I'm telling you. No wasted energy whatsoever.

Who cares about colors!

I care for money and it's a period.

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That's right. I'm all about my papa.

Sexism and racism be trying to fucks with my money.

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Arielle83

This is real. See so many old fucks with young Asian women. The throw away wife.

https://www.google.ca/amp/s/amp.smh.com.au/life style /the-shameful-story-of-australias-serial-husbands-20140828-109b5i.html

“Their hidden agendas for the women they import include housebound slave-labour (at least one woman was expected to dig drains and concrete) and on-call sex (these men frequently import much younger women).”

The racist I dated had a brother who continuosly married pacific islanders. Marry and have her and her siblings work in his restaurant. He was on his third pacific islander.

The last straw, the straw that broke the camels back, was when I did a background check on my racist and saw he frequented this pacific island enough to have an address there pop up.

You don't know my outrage! No bride for him...

At first, I thought them culturally diverse... cool peeps. Until, I started digging.

A lot of the men that work at my company go to Bali together every few months to see their “girlfriends”. They refuse to admit they’re sex tourists.

Is it cheap coochie, fetishism, a sign of status, a double life, love of supremacy... are they married?

I wonder where they got the idea in the first place?

Are they lying? How do they afford it?

The guy I used to work with was married for 20 yrs then got divorced. He’s controlling and sexist and says racist things, but got this Asian fetish after his friend took him to massage parlours in Bali.

Bali is cheap. I’ve paid $ 500 for flights and hotel for 4 nights. Massages are like $ 6 before extras.

It’s a cheap vacation.

He is 62 and got a 24 yr old Balinese chick. He claimed she was a cop. Brought her to Perth a few times and she expected a visa.

So mercenary exchange.

He tells the married guys at work that they “don’t know what they’re missing out on”.

The friend that introduced him is clearly a guy that has no social skills and maybe a bit incel-y

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That's what I suspected.

Previous job, male rumored to be mail order bride purchaser but, was ostracized because of it.... balding, poor social skills, intelligent, pants belted under his arms, sexual harrassment claims/rumors.

Guy pulls me aside, "anybody told you about John, yet." He has a particular liking for women of your similar ethnicity...."

I was like geeez louise. Can I just fucking work.

Posted by Parkourler

I need to check:

A small part of me thinks black woman are sexier because their culture makes them more emotional and warm and gregarious thats why i dated one. Thats not racism isnt it? Cause i appreciate culture. That is why many whities only date latina woman

Idk, I am not one quick to judge... particularly on personal experiences, and very little detail. I ask questions, I ponder for days, I research.

But it doesn't seem so. The fact that you acknowledge culture is a beautiful thang tho.

Now, the whites that "only date latina women" is another matter.

Posted by TodaysRap

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Parkourler

I need to check:

A small part of me thinks black woman are sexier because their culture makes them more emotional and warm and gregarious thats why i dated one. Thats not racism isnt it? Cause i appreciate culture. That is why many whities only date latina woman

Idk, I am not one quick to judge... particularly on personal experiences, and very little detail. I ask questions, I ponder for days, I research.

But it doesn't seem so. The fact that you acknowledge culture is a beautiful thang tho.

Now, the whites that "only date latina women" is another matter.

Yeah, so why don't I talk about those carats of yours ..

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Whatchu mean carats of mine?

You are difficult to follow.

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I need to check:

A small part of me thinks black woman are sexier because their culture makes them more emotional and warm and gregarious thats why i dated one. Thats not racism isnt it? Cause i appreciate culture. That is why many whities only date latina woman

Idk, I am not one quick to judge... particularly on personal experiences, and very little detail. I ask questions, I ponder for days, I research.

But it doesn't seem so. The fact that you acknowledge culture is a beautiful thang tho.

Now, the whites that "only date latina women" is another matter.

Yeah, so why don't I talk about those carats of yours ..

Whatchu mean carats of mine?

You are difficult to follow.

Driving under influence.

DOH!!! YOUR FINGER

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They can be in love with their spouse and be dismissive of their culture and heritage. Make spurious points about colour and strong arm their way in family disputes because of their perceived authority of being white and right. Even their relationship can be an affirmation of their superiority over her culture. I snagged your prized woman, she chose me and wear it proudly not out of love but spite

Hmmm, like racial emperialism or colonialism so to speak. I just made that up.

But, I've felt/intuited and heard specklings of this attitude.

There's an excerpt in this article about this woman's racist father married to her white-passing mother.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/inspired-life/wp/2017/11/20/my-mother-spent-her-life-passing-as-white-discovering-her-secret-changed-my-view-of-race-and-myself/?utm_term=.ea8bce7ccae3

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There's an excerpt in this article about this woman's racist father married to her white-passing mother.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/inspired-life/wp/2017/11/20/my-mother-spent-her-life-passing-as-white-discovering-her-secret-changed-my-view-of-race-and-myself/?utm_term=.ea8bce7ccae3

Thank you, so sad.

The horror. I guess she wasn't scared of having a dark baby and dna telling on her?

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There's an excerpt in this article about this woman's racist father married to her white-passing mother.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/inspired-life/wp/2017/11/20/my-mother-spent-her-life-passing-as-white-discovering-her-secret-changed-my-view-of-race-and-myself/?utm_term=.ea8bce7ccae3

Thank you, so sad.

The horror. I guess she wasn't scared of having a dark baby and dna telling on her?

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Perhaps she was hoping her child would be able to pass as she has? I don't know, it is quite unfortunate though.

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There's an excerpt in this article about this woman's racist father married to her white-passing mother.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/inspired-life/wp/2017/11/20/my-mother-spent-her-life-passing-as-white-discovering-her-secret-changed-my-view-of-race-and-myself/?utm_term=.ea8bce7ccae3

I saw this white chick with big red lips, she never associated with black people, i just thought a white chick with some bold ass lips

one day i saw her walking with her super dark father and her white azz mother

boy...i was super shocked but it started to make sense.

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Have you read about the biracial twins from England who nobody believes are sisters? Biology can be so random.