SirHorns
@SirHorns
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What men and women really are looking for, you'll be SURPRISED!!!
Posted by tizianiNo one if perfect Tiz.
Makes complete sense until he started crowbarring the vegan promos in there out of nowhere.
I winced at that too though.
Posted by SirHornsThanks! I KNEW the reasons deep down inside my heart why the relationship w/my ex bf didn't work out! #2 Personality and 4. Values (he lacked). I told him I WILL find a man that I will be 90-95% compatible with...and I will!
Cyber hugs 🤗
Love,
Eva
Posted by tizianiYou MISSED the point. Sigh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am NOT going to the gym, staying healthy, and date a PORKO that is 20-30lbs heavier than I am, he doesn't care about staying away from roasted peanuts because it triggers his thyroid gland and he doesn't want to drink water because, 'I am going to die anyway, so I'm speeding things up". Ex-bf (Saggy). Why bother with someone that doesn't have the same values (#4) as I do—
Makes complete sense until he started crowbarring the vegan promos in there out of nowhere.
Am I the only one that takes notes? 🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by EvatheDivaGonna die anyway, so might as well speed things up?Posted by tizianiYou MISSED the point. Sigh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am NOT going to the gym, stay healthy, and date a PORKO that is 20-30lbs heavier than I am, he doesn't care about staying away from roasted peanuts because it triggers his thyroid gland and he doesn't want to drink water because, 'I am going to die anyway, so I'm speeding things up". Ex-bf (Saggy). Why bother with someone that doesn't have the same values (#4) as I do—
Makes complete sense until he started crowbarring the vegan promos in there out of nowhere.
Am I the only one that takes notes? 🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
Damn. Someone was miserable. Smart move to get out of that relationship.
Posted by SirHorns^5 (high five!) 🤗 cyber hug!Posted by EvatheDivaGonna die anyway, so might as well speed things up?Posted by tizianiYou MISSED the point. Sigh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am NOT going to the gym, stay healthy, and date a PORKO that is 20-30lbs heavier than I am, he doesn't care about staying away from roasted peanuts because it triggers his thyroid gland and he doesn't want to drink water because, 'I am going to die anyway, so I'm speeding things up". Ex-bf (Saggy). Why bother with someone that doesn't have the same values (#4) as I do—
Makes complete sense until he started crowbarring the vegan promos in there out of nowhere.
Am I the only one that takes notes? 🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Damn. Someone was miserable. Smart move to get out of that relationship.click to expand
Love,
Eva
Posted by tizianiEva grabs a THESAURUS: OBESE, adj syn:Posted by EvatheDivaMaybe I am missing the point, but I don't think anyone would find it much fun to be in a relationship with a partner who labels them a "porko", to be fair. Keyword being "value".Posted by tizianiYou MISSED the point. Sigh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am NOT going to the gym, stay healthy, and date a PORKO that is 20-30lbs heavier than I am, he doesn't care about staying away from roasted peanuts because it triggers his thyroid gland and he doesn't want to drink water because, 'I am going to die anyway, so I'm speeding things up". Ex-bf (Saggy). Why bother with someone that doesn't have the same values (#4) as I do—
Makes complete sense until he started crowbarring the vegan promos in there out of nowhere.
Am I the only one that takes notes? 🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
Porko, over weight, obese, gross, heavy, fat, portly, stout....take your pick, TIZIANI 🤗 cyber hug!
Love,
Eva
PS Eva just decided to pick the word porko
Notes from today:
#1 Appearance
#2 Personality
#3 Expression (freedom of speech)
#4 Values (same likes/dislikes)
#5 Honesty
#6 Transparency
#7 Evolution
#1. Respect
#2. Support
#3. Inspiration
Five Secrets for a good relationship:
1. Communicate
2. Appreciation
3. Passion
4. & 5. Missed them to respond to TIZIANI 😭
Cyber hug! 🤗
Love,
Eva
#1 Appearance
#2 Personality
#3 Expression (freedom of speech)
#4 Values (same likes/dislikes)
#5 Honesty
#6 Transparency
#7 Evolution
#1. Respect
#2. Support
#3. Inspiration
Five Secrets for a good relationship:
1. Communicate
2. Appreciation
3. Passion
4. & 5. Missed them to respond to TIZIANI 😭
Cyber hug! 🤗
Love,
Eva
Posted by SensitiveBluesYep! And when one has two left feet...one bounces!Posted by EvatheDivaIt takes TWO to tANGO
Notes from today:
#1 Appearance
#2 Personality
#3 Expression (freedom of speech)
#4 Values (same likes/dislikes)
#5 Honesty
#6 Transparency
#7 Evolution
#1. Respect
#2. Support
#3. Inspiration
Five Secrets for a good relationship:
1. Communicate
2. Appreciation
3. Passion
4. & 5. Missed them to respond to TIZIANI 😭
Cyber hug! 🤗
Love,
Eva
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🤗 cyber hug!
Love,
Eva
Posted by tizianiOk... intj - having lots of similarities with infj - still works for my inquiry.Posted by PalerioI'm INTJ or INTP
@tiziani
Are you one of those psychological type (ENFJ/INFJ/ENFP/INFP)?
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Would say the body is seemingly the least of your concerns until you realize is actually your number 1 priority? Obviously no need to answer if you prefer not to.
.....still waiting to be surprised.
same go-to words, not enough of a vision.
waiting for someone to place emphasis on what people should look for together, less in one another.
same go-to words, not enough of a vision.
waiting for someone to place emphasis on what people should look for together, less in one another.
Posted by tizianiThanks.Posted by PalerioI'd say that's proven true so far, yes.Posted by tizianiOk... intj - having lots of similarities with infj - still works for my inquiry.Posted by PalerioI'm INTJ or INTP
@tiziani
Are you one of those psychological type (ENFJ/INFJ/ENFP/INFP)?
Would say the body is seemingly the least of your concerns until you realize is actually your number 1 priority? Obviously no need to answer if you prefer not to.
I'm with a woman who is INFJ though and that's not true for her.
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I've recently started looking for patterns between astrology and personality types, IMO it's a lot more interesting and thorough to look at the subject that way.
I guess I'm retracing Jung's footsteps.
Posted by tizianiYeah that type of "taming" is paramount.Posted by DamnataLike Antoine de Saint-Exupery!
.....still waiting to be surprised.
same go-to words, not enough of a vision.
waiting for someone to place emphasis on what people should look for together, less in one another.click to expand
I didn't see anything in this video about creating intimacy, safety or my go-to word that makes the difference between relationships and passing time.
Posted by Finbuff^5 (high five).Posted by EvatheDivaAwesome post - I get you completely. I'm the same way, so totally.Posted by tizianiYou MISSED the point. Sigh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am NOT going to the gym, staying healthy, and date a PORKO that is 20-30lbs heavier than I am, he doesn't care about staying away from roasted peanuts because it triggers his thyroid gland and he doesn't want to drink water because, 'I am going to die anyway, so I'm speeding things up". Ex-bf (Saggy). Why bother with someone that doesn't have the same values (#4) as I do—
Makes complete sense until he started crowbarring the vegan promos in there out of nowhere.
Am I the only one that takes notes? 🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
🤗 cyber hug!
Love,
Eva
PS: Some people DO get his points of view and some people don't.....sigh on the latter! 😕
Posted by Explicityeah, that sounds easy but it's not easy ... I do agree that that is all you need ...
People make this so complicated.
Just find someone you connect with, someone you're attracted to and someone who is loyal and supportive.
That's all you need.
Posted by tizianiDiane Keaton is the definition of an INFJ woman.Posted by PalerioI'd say that's proven true so far, yes.Posted by tizianiOk... intj - having lots of similarities with infj - still works for my inquiry.Posted by PalerioI'm INTJ or INTP
@tiziani
Are you one of those psychological type (ENFJ/INFJ/ENFP/INFP)?
Would say the body is seemingly the least of your concerns until you realize is actually your number 1 priority? Obviously no need to answer if you prefer not to.
I'm with a woman who is INFJ though and that's not true for her.
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Her quirky mental process is simply a thing of beauty.
I need to repost this too.
Posted by PalerioHave you come to any conclusions about it so far? Interesting topic. I should ask my mother about this too, because she was a Jungian analyst for a few years.Posted by tizianiThanks.Posted by PalerioI'd say that's proven true so far, yes.Posted by tizianiOk... intj - having lots of similarities with infj - still works for my inquiry.Posted by PalerioI'm INTJ or INTP
@tiziani
Are you one of those psychological type (ENFJ/INFJ/ENFP/INFP)?
Would say the body is seemingly the least of your concerns until you realize is actually your number 1 priority? Obviously no need to answer if you prefer not to.
I'm with a woman who is INFJ though and that's not true for her.
I've recently started looking for patterns between astrology and personality types, IMO it's a lot more interesting and thorough to look at the subject that way.
I guess I'm retracing Jung's footsteps.click to expand
I'm INFJ too.
@Palerio
I hadn't realized it until watching the Annie Hall clips you posted, but I can think like that. I try to mask it on the outside and curb saying it out loud, but when nervous I sometimes get blurty and qualify things I say a lot. One person told me it was very "endearing" and it reminded him of Joe Pesci.
I hadn't realized it until watching the Annie Hall clips you posted, but I can think like that. I try to mask it on the outside and curb saying it out loud, but when nervous I sometimes get blurty and qualify things I say a lot. One person told me it was very "endearing" and it reminded him of Joe Pesci.
not sure why it says you will be surprised. in addition to love, natural affinity and attraction, mutual respect, support and the ability to make each other wanting to be better person are some of essential things in a happy lasting relationship. i guess common senses are not common, as we all know lol
Both my BF and I are pescatarian and it makes things wonderfully delicious when we go out to eat. Honestly, I was constantly asked what I would do if my SO wasn't a pescatarian or vegetarian, and people practically harassed me about "what I'd do" if he ate meat. I've answered that question go myself, but I am very happy he and I have the same ideas about food.
Posted by PalerioShe's great! I remember thinking, "I love her style! She's so bold for wearing what she does!" Fast forward, and I'm rocking hats, too. Although, my father and mother played a big hand in my carefree freedom to express myself via fashion.Posted by tizianiDiane Keaton is the definition of an INFJ woman.Posted by PalerioI'd say that's proven true so far, yes.Posted by tizianiOk... intj - having lots of similarities with infj - still works for my inquiry.Posted by PalerioI'm INTJ or INTP
@tiziani
Are you one of those psychological type (ENFJ/INFJ/ENFP/INFP)?
Would say the body is seemingly the least of your concerns until you realize is actually your number 1 priority? Obviously no need to answer if you prefer not to.
I'm with a woman who is INFJ though and that's not true for her.
Her quirky mental process is simply a thing of beauty.
I need to repost this too.click to expand
Posted by cloudyI think when couples get bored is when things get exciting! 😄Posted by Explicituntil you get bored
People make this so complicated.
Just find someone you connect with, someone you're attracted to and someone who is loyal and supportive.
That's all you need.click to expand
that's true. both of us enjoy seafood and sashimi very much. i wouldn't be able to love a man who cannot appreciate them. that's for real so much more important than spiritual compatibility lol. i really don't care what religion as long as i keep who i am
Posted by DamnataHonestly, as corny as this may sound, I believe those are things couples have to discover on their own. The points mentioned on the video is merely a sign-post to help people navigate their way through traffic before they set out on the road with their lover.Posted by tizianiYeah that type of "taming" is paramount.Posted by DamnataLike Antoine de Saint-Exupery!
.....still waiting to be surprised.
same go-to words, not enough of a vision.
waiting for someone to place emphasis on what people should look for together, less in one another.
I didn't see anything in this video about creating intimacy, safety or my go-to word that makes the difference between relationships and passing time.
click to expand
Posted by iCloud9Is interesting that you bring that up because I never thought to be with someone who doesn't share my religion. Lo and behold! I fall in love with an atheist. Needless to say it is a shock to the mold in which I was raised. While I was raised to be an independent thinker, I think my parents (and I) took certain things for granted. Now here I am. La di da!
that's true. both of us enjoy seafood and sashimi very much. i wouldn't be able to love a man who cannot appreciate them. that's for real so much more important than spiritual compatibility lol. i really don't care what religion as long as i keep who i am
Posted by SirHornssounds like "connection" if you don't have the connection then why bother.
it's true, that if you don't have to try too hard, and you can be silly willy and he/she loves it, you are lucky.
some people get aggravated, and those types you need to just move on.
he seems like a happy guru. lol
Posted by Explicit
People make this so complicated.
Just find someone you connect with, someone you're attracted to and someone who is loyal and supportive.
That's all you need.
lol yeah I agree.
but the problem is, so many unrequited loves.
the basic fundamental problem which is recurrent even on his forum. Women want what they can't have. Men want what they cant have. so how come so many singles??
cause the singles don't want eachother. they are looking for other types they dream up in their head. no reality. there should be a balance of reality and your dreams.
Edit - IF it were THAT easy, everyone would be happy pappy with someone/taken.
Posted by tizianiI though Cap's were socially awkward.
The Annie Hall archetype tends to match people with occult interests imo.
Dear grief that was painful.
Posted by LillyPetaltbh it took me years to rid of some prejudice i had against organized religions (a guy seduced me to bible study in college and told me he worried i'll go hell if i don't become a christian. i said i rather go hell with my family no one is christian then living with small minds worse than hell lol. he was shexxy tho lol)Posted by iCloud9Is interesting that you bring that up because I never thought to be with someone who doesn't share my religion. Lo and behold! I fall in love with an atheist. Needless to say it is a shock to the mold in which I was raised. While I was raised to be an independent thinker, I think my parents (and I) took certain things for granted. Now here I am. La di da!
that's true. both of us enjoy seafood and sashimi very much. i wouldn't be able to love a man who cannot appreciate them. that's for real so much more important than spiritual compatibility lol. i really don't care what religion as long as i keep who i amclick to expand
scorp comes from a Catholic background yet he respects different beliefs and never impose his on mine. i am attracted to and admire people with expansive and flexible minds. it's not that common so kudos to you 🙂
Posted by CopperDoveEndearing is exactly the word I would use to describe INFJ women and I've curiously used it a couple of days ago in the same context, actually more than once. I believe it starts from being fidgety at birth and bit child-like but more confident while growing up. You seem to naturally possess a strong inner child and a vivid imagination that shouldn't be confused with being immature - which is why a lot of men flinch - not understanding it's who you are and a matter of inner vitality and desire for self-expression, to which my 5th house seems to be pretty attuned to.
@Palerio
I hadn't realized it until watching the Annie Hall clips you posted, but I can think like that. I try to mask it on the outside and curb saying it out loud, but when nervous I sometimes get blurty and qualify things I say a lot. One person told me it was very "endearing" and it reminded him of Joe Pesci.
On the men side we're cheeky, which is good until someone get to know you better and gets scared. Actually I remember when I was seeing this girl, who was insecure in her offbeatness at the time, and she literally told me "I feel too naked around you, I don't feel good", which reminded me of this pic I've seen a few days ago.
I see it now in restrospective and it's hilarious how she must have thought "WTF is this! Are you kidding me? I'm out of here". Besides, I wasn't that confident myself to guide her through my inner world and it took me awhile to accept that is what happens inside my head on a normal day... When your goal is to strip the other person naked - and someone naked is by definition HOT - it's hard to accept that she may not feel totally comfortable being too naked while Pluto in Scorpio is drooling. It sucks even more because an additional reason for me to do that would be to ultimately protect her and revive my deep-rooted masculinity.
The paradox is that we're extremely understading too and we get people who don't want to feel that naked, because on one side we're in a position to fully protect them - and asking a man not to protect his counterpart really goes against his nature - but on the other we're in the perfect spot to hurt them badly too; which leads me to believe that our only priority in relationships should be being trusted by our partner. Without complete reciprocal trust this isn't going anywhere for us.
As concerns Jung, I'm assuming - by reading in the past both Psychological Types and the book about synchronicities - that he must have had some interesting theories in terms of how psychology and astrology interlace. Being INFJ as Jung I can personally see patterns while delving into such topics and most importantly depth and lack of boundaries, which is something I find extremely liberating.
Posted by CopperDoveI've had a sturm und drang of ideas during the full moon but it's still a bit early to draw any conclusion as I can see myriad of variables - ok this a such an INFJ thing to say ahah - that could be considered and added into the equation. Furthemore, it's not like I am getting paid for doing this...!
@Palerio
Have you come to any conclusions about it so far? Interesting topic. I should ask my mother about this too, because she was a Jungian analyst for a few years.
I'm INFJ too
So far I'm trying to establish how to be more comfortable with our auxiliary Fe without getting stuck in our Ni-Ti loop as from what I notice these two functions are not that dissimilar in the way they work - to the point they may sporadically switch from time to time - yet they struggle immensely communicating with each other because, when our Ti tries to prevail, we skip a step, we skip our auxiliary Fe, which is what should help us interacting with people on a daily basis. But why so? The answer is very simple and extremely frustrating to accept: our Se sucks.
Now given our strong Ni, which makes us the least materialistic types of all, our ideals tend to be the opposite of what society nowadays embraces. Everything we see in front of our eyes is everything we (Ni) don’t like. Against our will we’re forced to accept that society has rules, we’re forced to accept superficiality we can’t stand and many others things that piss us off on principle, and they’re many. Once we get older we realize that the commodities and comfort society provides us aren’t that bad after all so we open up through our Fe, but guess what? We just cannot open up because our extroverted sensing is ludicrous. How can you live in a materialistic society when your Se is broken? You just can’t. You’re not allowed not to filter properly the information you’re getting from the external world, they’re too many. Basically what we do, it’s we collect every damn data available and then we start overanalyzing with our Ti because Fe is malfunctioning.
This creates a sort invisible barrier between us and the people around – damnnnn I’m genius I just realized this might be the veil of Maya Schopenhauer, INFJ himself, was referring to (also notice I'm being overly confident here in proper INFJ fashion!) – We need to rip the veil otherwise it will all remain just an illusion. Our Ni is also what creates, given our least dominant Se, the detachment. We only trust our intuition but that can’t be done for too long, it’s not real. For instance my intituion, from the last test I took, is at 95% so it's not like I have the option of not putting faith in what I feel is right for me.
@CopperDove
Sometimes we totally get people, we empathize a lot with but at the same time we’re left outside their circle despite being in it and active. A feeling of fitting everywhere – we’re known to be social chameleon too, people can rarely guess what’s behind the mask we put on – but not belonging anywhere is frequent and that makes us observers of human behaviors which is paralyzing on many levels.
The vitality I was referring to in the previous post is important to us; it needs to nurtured and taken care of constantly. In certain environment it gets damaged and repressed as we guard ourselves against people; afraid that our depth and the emotional connection we crave would make them run: rightly so to some extent. We’re very likable but we can’t blame people for not wanting to be with us either.
I remember a video where an INFJ – a confident one – was describing the way we fit in this world and made a comparison with us being like “penguins in the desert of Sahara”, never thought about it that way but it’s brilliant and I relate a lot to the metaphor or at least I used to.
She says INFJs’ power is in understand people to their core and in order to do that we need to swim into the ocean; however, as we can’t swim in a desert place - for obvious reasons - we need to swim into the ocean of people’s minds where we’re at ease with ourselves and naturally prosper. Notwithstanding the noble gesture we can’t hack into people’s minds just like that unless we have been given full access – we’re not interested in anything that’s remotely partial – since it’d be disrespectful on our side, which is hilarious considering how much we actually care about others… We need to let go of our desire to “save people” and work to fix Ni-Ti loop by upgrading our Fe surrendering to our Se.
Going back to astrology – sorry for the papyrus – my theory is that the loop can be fixed by looking at semi-hard aspects – we’re not that uncomfortable in our NiFi so square or opposition are not be considered – therefore I would look at inconjunctions, semisquares and perhaps out of sign aspects to fix the issue. The focus has to be put on the latent and extra drive that seems to be hidden behind those aspects, which is ultimately what preventing us to turn our visions into reality.
I’m personally starting from the energy I know best (Aquarius/Pisces/Virgo/Scorpio/Sagittarius and Capricorn) to see if there’s more. Actually I know already there’s more, I wanted to say to you, but I need to put a full stop at this post as it’s getting too lengthy.
Maybe next time I'll expand on modalities, aspects, instrinc traits signs naturally possess and etcetera etcetera 😛
Sometimes we totally get people, we empathize a lot with but at the same time we’re left outside their circle despite being in it and active. A feeling of fitting everywhere – we’re known to be social chameleon too, people can rarely guess what’s behind the mask we put on – but not belonging anywhere is frequent and that makes us observers of human behaviors which is paralyzing on many levels.
The vitality I was referring to in the previous post is important to us; it needs to nurtured and taken care of constantly. In certain environment it gets damaged and repressed as we guard ourselves against people; afraid that our depth and the emotional connection we crave would make them run: rightly so to some extent. We’re very likable but we can’t blame people for not wanting to be with us either.
I remember a video where an INFJ – a confident one – was describing the way we fit in this world and made a comparison with us being like “penguins in the desert of Sahara”, never thought about it that way but it’s brilliant and I relate a lot to the metaphor or at least I used to.
She says INFJs’ power is in understand people to their core and in order to do that we need to swim into the ocean; however, as we can’t swim in a desert place - for obvious reasons - we need to swim into the ocean of people’s minds where we’re at ease with ourselves and naturally prosper. Notwithstanding the noble gesture we can’t hack into people’s minds just like that unless we have been given full access – we’re not interested in anything that’s remotely partial – since it’d be disrespectful on our side, which is hilarious considering how much we actually care about others… We need to let go of our desire to “save people” and work to fix Ni-Ti loop by upgrading our Fe surrendering to our Se.
Going back to astrology – sorry for the papyrus – my theory is that the loop can be fixed by looking at semi-hard aspects – we’re not that uncomfortable in our NiFi so square or opposition are not be considered – therefore I would look at inconjunctions, semisquares and perhaps out of sign aspects to fix the issue. The focus has to be put on the latent and extra drive that seems to be hidden behind those aspects, which is ultimately what preventing us to turn our visions into reality.
I’m personally starting from the energy I know best (Aquarius/Pisces/Virgo/Scorpio/Sagittarius and Capricorn) to see if there’s more. Actually I know already there’s more, I wanted to say to you, but I need to put a full stop at this post as it’s getting too lengthy.
Maybe next time I'll expand on modalities, aspects, instrinc traits signs naturally possess and etcetera etcetera 😛
Posted by tizianiShe's dark for sure but the delivery is exquisite and when she speaks I only see light.
The Annie Hall archetype tends to match people with occult interests imo.
HA! For a full INFJ experience, a sandwich to be precise, I would recommend you to watch Carol: both Cate Blanchett and Rooney Mara are that type.
Posted by ImarollinPurity of a Sagittarius Mercury.Posted by PalerioI think I'd contribute that to her purity of spirit.Posted by tizianiShe's dark for sure but the delivery is exquisite and when she speaks I only see light.
The Annie Hall archetype tends to match people with occult interests imo.
HA! For a full INFJ experience, a sandwich to be precise, I would recommend you to watch Carol: both Cate Blanchett and Rooney Mara are that type.
You can love that.click to expand
Posted by LillyPetal🙂
@Palerio, I feel so much love for you right now.
Posted by ImarollinI've just now checked her chart too, I read she also has Aquarius moon in 3rd!Posted by PalerioShe's cute. I had to look up Diane Keaton's chart. Low and behold... sag merc first.Posted by ImarollinPurity of a Sagittarius Mercury.Posted by PalerioI think I'd contribute that to her purity of spirit.Posted by tizianiShe's dark for sure but the delivery is exquisite and when she speaks I only see light.
The Annie Hall archetype tends to match people with occult interests imo.
HA! For a full INFJ experience, a sandwich to be precise, I would recommend you to watch Carol: both Cate Blanchett and Rooney Mara are that type.
You can love that.
🙂click to expand
Out of curiosity I clicked on the affinity button - I know astrotheme is treetrunked up - and I got 100% on both sexual and emotional rating lol
Posted by PiscoIt's totally embarrassing, you have no excuses! Ok, since you relate, now I feel like exposing you even more with these two videos that are even more awkward.
@Palerio
I act like this when I like someone or feel inadequate. It's embarrassing. :/ it's better just to just not talk haha. Whenever I take those tests, I either get INFJ or INTJ.
Bold, subtle, dirty, all over the place, witty, unpredictable. They surely make a show of themselves but what's not to like in confident INFJs?
@Imarollin
I wanted to prove it! But from that interface I can only extract the histogramme...
I think the best comparison I've had so far it's not even with Diane but Sharon Stone - triple 100% + a 98% - which is not something I should be proud of. Really, being compatible with her I guess makes me quite incompatible with every person on the planet, not cool.
Ohhh I remember with Scarlett too I was quite affine :-P
I wanted to prove it! But from that interface I can only extract the histogramme...
I think the best comparison I've had so far it's not even with Diane but Sharon Stone - triple 100% + a 98% - which is not something I should be proud of. Really, being compatible with her I guess makes me quite incompatible with every person on the planet, not cool.
Ohhh I remember with Scarlett too I was quite affine :-P
@Palerio
First, kind of working in reverse for the order of your posts, it's really something to see those clips of Diane Keaton in interview. It's like seeing myself in some ways, when I'm comfortable enough to not censor. I have Sag Mercury too, in 7th, so that might add to the familiarity. My chart is opposite Diane Keaton's with the houses, more or less, thanks to my Taurus rising at 20 degrees (her rising is Scorpio 18 degrees). I find her endearing in those clips, so I'm relieved that some people might think that too.
I will have to watch the other film you recommended - I'm surprised that I haven't seen it.
Everything you wrote about being an INFJ made sense to me, including the picture and the nakedness as you described it. So much so that it's quite moving, and makes it harder for me to respond (because of feeling emotional). So this will be shorter than I want it to be, and sorry about that. It's hard to be in this state and "feel" the response in a better way than words without inflexion (thanks to this being written word) can convey. I didn't want to wait too long to reply. Everything that you wrote is very helpful, and a relief because it's not often that I'm understood to that degree so maybe it really takes one to know one!
The way I live now is so much about having my own world directly around me, as much as I can - I live on an acreage that is heavily forested, my choice completely. It took me a few years to find a place that felt right enough for me. My uncle, who might be an INFJ too, told me that the island I live on makes him think of Neverland somehow.
My imagination has been a huge part of me from a young age. I didn't lose touch with that with maturity. I hadn't realized what might scare some people, but you're right, it does make some people uncomfortable to see the "child" parts, particularly if they had bad childhoods, I think, so they're out of touch, or too in touch (meaning they don't want to grow up at all so they aren't responsible), with their child self.
Saving people - I really need to move away from that, which has pulled on me a lot in my life, because I don't want people I care about to suffer.
“penguins in the desert of Sahara” - haha, yes. I often seem to stand out in public, even when I want to be invisible. When I want to be seen, it's fine of course. People confuse me for being more extroverted than I am during those times.
Oh dear about having to look at the aspects in my chart that are more weird, lol. But I should do that. I've avoided it not wanting to believe they count. Most of my chart is strong oppositions and conjunctions.
Being compatible with Diane Keaton is much better than with Sharon Stone, I agree, lol.
And it took me longer to write this response than it might seem because I had to move sentences around (reordering how I thought of them, which was tangent-y).
🙂
First, kind of working in reverse for the order of your posts, it's really something to see those clips of Diane Keaton in interview. It's like seeing myself in some ways, when I'm comfortable enough to not censor. I have Sag Mercury too, in 7th, so that might add to the familiarity. My chart is opposite Diane Keaton's with the houses, more or less, thanks to my Taurus rising at 20 degrees (her rising is Scorpio 18 degrees). I find her endearing in those clips, so I'm relieved that some people might think that too.
I will have to watch the other film you recommended - I'm surprised that I haven't seen it.
Everything you wrote about being an INFJ made sense to me, including the picture and the nakedness as you described it. So much so that it's quite moving, and makes it harder for me to respond (because of feeling emotional). So this will be shorter than I want it to be, and sorry about that. It's hard to be in this state and "feel" the response in a better way than words without inflexion (thanks to this being written word) can convey. I didn't want to wait too long to reply. Everything that you wrote is very helpful, and a relief because it's not often that I'm understood to that degree so maybe it really takes one to know one!
The way I live now is so much about having my own world directly around me, as much as I can - I live on an acreage that is heavily forested, my choice completely. It took me a few years to find a place that felt right enough for me. My uncle, who might be an INFJ too, told me that the island I live on makes him think of Neverland somehow.
My imagination has been a huge part of me from a young age. I didn't lose touch with that with maturity. I hadn't realized what might scare some people, but you're right, it does make some people uncomfortable to see the "child" parts, particularly if they had bad childhoods, I think, so they're out of touch, or too in touch (meaning they don't want to grow up at all so they aren't responsible), with their child self.
Saving people - I really need to move away from that, which has pulled on me a lot in my life, because I don't want people I care about to suffer.
“penguins in the desert of Sahara” - haha, yes. I often seem to stand out in public, even when I want to be invisible. When I want to be seen, it's fine of course. People confuse me for being more extroverted than I am during those times.
Oh dear about having to look at the aspects in my chart that are more weird, lol. But I should do that. I've avoided it not wanting to believe they count. Most of my chart is strong oppositions and conjunctions.
Being compatible with Diane Keaton is much better than with Sharon Stone, I agree, lol.
And it took me longer to write this response than it might seem because I had to move sentences around (reordering how I thought of them, which was tangent-y).
🙂
@Palerio Do you have an online resource for the Myers-Briggs test to recommend? I've done several, including a paid one, but I didn't get the breakdown of my percents, strangely, with the paid one. The Quistic one gives percents.
Long ago I did one on paper that was set up by my mother because she knew someone who was studying it, but I don't have my results anywhere. Long lost.
Long ago I did one on paper that was set up by my mother because she knew someone who was studying it, but I don't have my results anywhere. Long lost.
Posted by PalerioPosted by tizianiDiane Keaton is the definition of an INFJ woman.Posted by PalerioI'd say that's proven true so far, yes.Posted by tizianiOk... intj - having lots of similarities with infj - still works for my inquiry.Posted by PalerioI'm INTJ or INTP
@tiziani
Are you one of those psychological type (ENFJ/INFJ/ENFP/INFP)?
Would say the body is seemingly the least of your concerns until you realize is actually your number 1 priority? Obviously no need to answer if you prefer not to.
I'm with a woman who is INFJ though and that's not true for her.
Her quirky mental process is simply a thing of beauty.
I need to repost this too.click to expand
As an occasional INFJ and at times INTJ, this is especially true.
Although the ramblings seem to be far more contained internally within the mental processes rather than expressed externally.
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