Women, is a handjob considered cheating these days?

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MoesMoneys
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So I was at the pool today and my girlfriend has been mostly out of town this past week. I haven't touched my thing for days or had any sex so I was as aroused as ever. Then along comes a neighbor of mines (Gemini) that is good friends with me but also has had a few good interactions with my girlfriend. She has a very Emily Ratajkowski type of look to her with her slim body, brunette hair, brown eyes, and tanned skin. She even wears a dark yellow bikini along with a hat to the pool.

Sits next to me, smiles, and we get a good conversation going. Tells me about how her night yesterday was and how it was funny because at her table at the club, some girl in her group dancing managed to have her jugs spill out of her dress. The way she told that story and how she teased me had me a really hard. Our pool was empty too as it got closer to the night. We talked for a solid hour and she scooted her chair closer to me.

Not sure if it is the hot weather or what but the way she talked and the vibe she gave off, playful yet strong, had my d1c as hard as a rock. I got an erection and even tried to put my leg over it so she wouldn't see. Well, I almost fall out of my chair while laying down and trying to do that and the erection still shows. She laughs and puts a hand on my shoulder and says "oh you're so adorable".

Odd flirting technique but then she squeezes my shoulder which gets a reaction out of me. I rub her shoulder a bit but then we look around. Our chairs are behind a fake tree they have at the pool and an elevated platform. No one is at the pool so I look at her and then try to push down my erect pen1s. She smiles and then leans in saying "here, I have an idea".

I ask her what she is doing and she says "don't worry about it neighbor, just looking out".

She slips her hand in my shorts and starts stroking me as we chat. She is casually chatting with me and then grabs a bit of my testicles too. Her hands felt so soft and smooth compared to mines (years of weightlifting and those calluses as a result). She'd rub it with two fingers and use the rest to massage my testicles which aroused me. After that, I start to stretch my legs out and let out a soft moan while she aggressively strokes me. Finally, I bust in my shorts and she says "there you go".

I tell her I have a girlfriend and she says "oh no, that's all good, these days that is not considered cheating". I look at her confused and she tells me "women get it, sometimes their man needs a little help down there and they aren't around, it would be worse if you didn't contain that and started flirting and messing around with other girls. What if you took them home and actually legitimately cheated?".

So I debate with her and she says "first, it's done so what now? Second, ask your girlfriend, she wouldn't mind".

I am not sure how to approach this now...
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borednbeautiful
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Without prior consent from the girlfriend (as in you guys discussed what’s allowed or not), it is cheating.

The moment someone starts looking around, talking to others, engaging in physical and sexual touch = cheating to me.

He/she is already on the way out and just waiting for the right moment.

However, some people have high tolerance and will tolerate it. For whatever reason.

Leos are notorious cheaters though. It’s that natural charm and hyper sexual doesn’t help 😉