So during thanksgiving my whole family was here. My bf barely spoke a word to my family and stayed in the bedroom for four days. Needless to say I was livid and embarrassed. He doesn't see a problem with this.
Would you be mad if your bf ignored your family on thanksgiving?
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He said because there's nowhere to sit? He hurt my aunts feelings Barely acknowledged them and then said sorry I went broke paying for all their food. I'm so embarrassed.
Posted by Stensco21Mad?
So during thanksgiving my whole family was here. My bf barely spoke a word to my family and stayed in the bedroom for four days. Needless to say I was livid and embarrassed. He doesn't see a problem with this.
I would redefine the nature of our relationship,
so to speak.
I'm trying to imagine under what circumstances
that would be acceptable.
Illness.
Or if he seriously objected to the visit altogether,
and you did it anyway.
Was it either of those?
He never objected and his behavior through me off guard quite honestly. It was strange. And every time I bring it up he says well I bought and cooked the food. How weird. I would have never treated his family like that in a million years and if I had I wouldn't hear the end of it.
To me it means he isn't invested in me. Like they were like annoying flys to him.
Does he have social anxiety?
Also was this the first time he was meeting your clan?
He's a libra and he's introverted but not from anxiety. I'm starting to notice he's kind of elitist type you're not good enough for me type of attitude. His attitude during thanksgiving was basically my family wasn't worth the bother.
Surprised me because when we first started dating of course he was Prince Charming but I think his mask is slipping a little.
Surprised me because when we first started dating of course he was Prince Charming but I think his mask is slipping a little.
Yes first time to meet them.
Posted by Stensco21
So during thanksgiving my whole family was here. My bf barely spoke a word to my family and stayed in the bedroom for four days. Needless to say I was livid and embarrassed. He doesn't see a problem with this.
was it at your place or his? you said about him buying food for all? could it be he did not feel welcomed by the family? did you try pulling him into conversations or did your family try to engage him in talks? he might have been rude, but maybe he also felt left out?
Yes it was at his house. We tried multiple times and tried the get him to play dominos. He turned his nose up and went to the room and basically had his own little count down until it was over. Everyone could feel it. My aunt drove 12 hours and tried to leave every two times because of it.
Posted by Stensco21
He's a libra and he's introverted but not from anxiety. I'm starting to notice he's kind of elitist type you're not good enough for me type of attitude. His attitude during thanksgiving was basically my family wasn't worth the bother.
Surprised me because when we first started dating of course he was Prince Charming but I think his mask is slipping a little.
ok in that case maybe he is not the right guy for you. next time you and your family should be the one avoiding him, like see what his reaction is if you have a family get-together and you don't invite him.
Posted by puhleezePosted by Stensco21
He's a libra and he's introverted but not from anxiety. I'm starting to notice he's kind of elitist type you're not good enough for me type of attitude. His attitude during thanksgiving was basically my family wasn't worth the bother.
Surprised me because when we first started dating of course he was Prince Charming but I think his mask is slipping a little.
ok in that case maybe he is not the right guy for you. next time you and your family should be the one avoiding him, like see what his reaction is if you have a family get-together and you don't invite him.
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I told him on Christmas I'm going to do the same to his family and that I actually didn't even want to see his family because I'm so detached from him now.
Posted by Stensco21I am libra and did this as well this thanksgiving, avoiding family.
He's a libra and he's introverted but not from anxiety. I'm starting to notice he's kind of elitist type you're not good enough for me type of attitude. His attitude during thanksgiving was basically my family wasn't worth the bother.
Surprised me because when we first started dating of course he was Prince Charming but I think his mask is slipping a little.
I don't feel comfortable when I'm forced to be around others' family.
Posted by Stensco21I'm getting the vibe that he wants to end the relationship and wants you to do the dirty work so he's acting like an ass so you dump him. Libras tend to avoid confrontation. Has he been an asshole in other ways recently?
He's a libra and he's introverted but not from anxiety. I'm starting to notice he's kind of elitist type you're not good enough for me type of attitude. His attitude during thanksgiving was basically my family wasn't worth the bother.
Surprised me because when we first started dating of course he was Prince Charming but I think his mask is slipping a little.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Stensco21I'm getting the vibe that he wants to end the relationship and wants you to do the dirty work so he's acting like an ass so you dump him. Libras tend to avoid confrontation. Has he been an asshole in other ways recently?
He's a libra and he's introverted but not from anxiety. I'm starting to notice he's kind of elitist type you're not good enough for me type of attitude. His attitude during thanksgiving was basically my family wasn't worth the bother.
Surprised me because when we first started dating of course he was Prince Charming but I think his mask is slipping a little.
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That's what I think too! Which I would be happy to do because I can't stand him!
Posted by libsterPosted by Stensco21I am libra and did this as well this thanksgiving, avoiding family.
He's a libra and he's introverted but not from anxiety. I'm starting to notice he's kind of elitist type you're not good enough for me type of attitude. His attitude during thanksgiving was basically my family wasn't worth the bother.
Surprised me because when we first started dating of course he was Prince Charming but I think his mask is slipping a little.
I don't feel comfortable when I'm forced to be around others' family.
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That's understandable but still rude.
Posted by leowwwPosted by Stensco21Why have it at his place if he was gonna be such a bad host? I wouldn't introduce my family to my boyfriend.. unless it's serious and.. I know he actually cares to meet them...
Yes it was at his house. We tried multiple times and tried the get him to play dominos. He turned his nose up and went to the room and basically had his own little count down until it was over. Everyone could feel it. My aunt drove 12 hours and tried to leave every two times because of it.
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We are engaged and lived together! I didn't expect this at all.
Posted by Stensco21Saying 'No... I'd rather not do that.' isn't that difficult.Posted by libsterPosted by Stensco21I am libra and did this as well this thanksgiving, avoiding family.
He's a libra and he's introverted but not from anxiety. I'm starting to notice he's kind of elitist type you're not good enough for me type of attitude. His attitude during thanksgiving was basically my family wasn't worth the bother.
Surprised me because when we first started dating of course he was Prince Charming but I think his mask is slipping a little.
I don't feel comfortable when I'm forced to be around others' family.
That's understandable but still rude.
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@Stensco21
How you going to dump him?
heh
Posted by Seraphlight
Yes.
And actually that sounds really draining and boring.
He needs to be reminded that he is part ..of EVERYTHING.
I am as much of an introvert as anyone. I need that. But everyone is my equal. If they are nice people. I will make efforts to connect. And let them in my world a little. So long as they move nothing !
Farrow became so serious about her meditation that she "turned into a near recluse" and "rarely came out" of the cottage she was living in. John Lennon was asked to "contact her and make sure she came out more often to socialize". As a result, Lennon wrote the song "Dear Prudence". In the song Lennon asks Farrow to "open up your eyes" and "see the sunny skies" reminding her that she is "part of everything". The song was said to be "a simple plea to a friend to 'snap out of it'".[4] Lennon said later that "She'd been locked in for three weeks and was trying to reach God quicker than anyone else."
Elitists need to be reminded that they are part of everything as equals. And there is a space for them in the room. Just like everyone. That they need to also welcome everyone into the room.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dear_Prudence
Exactly. He lives in the middle of nowhere in a house and doesn't have friends. I knew he was introverted and I can be too, but I'm not rude. It's starting to seem like he's alone just because body is good enough for his supreme intellect.
Posted by Stensco21Sit him down and ask him to give a better reason than "there wasn't a place to sit".Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Stensco21I'm getting the vibe that he wants to end the relationship and wants you to do the dirty work so he's acting like an ass so you dump him. Libras tend to avoid confrontation. Has he been an asshole in other ways recently?
He's a libra and he's introverted but not from anxiety. I'm starting to notice he's kind of elitist type you're not good enough for me type of attitude. His attitude during thanksgiving was basically my family wasn't worth the bother.
Surprised me because when we first started dating of course he was Prince Charming but I think his mask is slipping a little.
That's what I think too! Which I would be happy to do because I can't stand him!
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Perhaps he resents having to purchase all the food and was sulking in retaliation...
Perhaps he was anxious and couldn't handle being around that many new people who all know each other...
Perhaps he was missing his own family and had to excuse himself because it was too painful seeing you all interact (what's the story with his family?).
Posted by CanbullriusA billion times, this. Please please please do yourself a big favour and get rid of him. He's an abuser.Posted by Stensco21Run 100000000000 miles away from him, he will destroy you.
He's a libra and he's introverted but not from anxiety. I'm starting to notice he's kind of elitist type you're not good enough for me type of attitude. His attitude during thanksgiving was basically my family wasn't worth the bother.
Surprised me because when we first started dating of course he was Prince Charming but I think his mask is slipping a little.
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He's saying it's because he had to " go broke" paying for thanksgiving. If that's the case bye bye. That's really selfish. I don't like stingy ppl. I understand he might not have wanted to do it, but he never once mentioned it.
Posted by leowwwPosted by Stensco21Posted by Seraphlight
Yes.
And actually that sounds really draining and boring.
He needs to be reminded that he is part ..of EVERYTHING.
I am as much of an introvert as anyone. I need that. But everyone is my equal. If they are nice people. I will make efforts to connect. And let them in my world a little. So long as they move nothing !
Farrow became so serious about her meditation that she "turned into a near recluse" and "rarely came out" of the cottage she was living in. John Lennon was asked to "contact her and make sure she came out more often to socialize". As a result, Lennon wrote the song "Dear Prudence". In the song Lennon asks Farrow to "open up your eyes" and "see the sunny skies" reminding her that she is "part of everything". The song was said to be "a simple plea to a friend to 'snap out of it'".[4] Lennon said later that "She'd been locked in for three weeks and was trying to reach God quicker than anyone else."
Elitists need to be reminded that they are part of everything as equals. And there is a space for them in the room. Just like everyone. That they need to also welcome everyone into the room.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dear_Prudence
Exactly. He lives in the middle of nowhere in a house and doesn't have friends. I knew he was introverted and I can be too, but I'm not rude. It's starting to seem like he's alone just because body is good enough for his supreme intellect.
I'm introverted.. Yet that's no excuse...engaged is a serious step.. I personally couldn't see myself with someone who's so disrespectful.. Rude.. Pompous.. And kind of an asshole.
Clearly this is one side of the story but.. Considering all you've said..
Think hard before marrying this guy.
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I am. I'm actually glad I'm seeing this side now. In the beginning I caught glimpses of it but now his real self is flying in the wind because he has all the power now. I live with him.
Posted by MontgomeryJust wondering..did you force him to meet your family? Maybe he wasn't ready.Posted by Stensco21Saying 'No... I'd rather not do that.' isn't that difficult.Posted by libsterPosted by Stensco21I am libra and did this as well this thanksgiving, avoiding family.
He's a libra and he's introverted but not from anxiety. I'm starting to notice he's kind of elitist type you're not good enough for me type of attitude. His attitude during thanksgiving was basically my family wasn't worth the bother.
Surprised me because when we first started dating of course he was Prince Charming but I think his mask is slipping a little.
I don't feel comfortable when I'm forced to be around others' family.
That's understandable but still rude.
@Stensco21
How you going to dump him?
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I don't like holidays and its traditional family gatherings for personal reasons. I talked to my SO about this beforehand and was still forced to attend..I know it's rude, but it's not easy for me.
You already said you can't stand him ...why are you with someone you can't stand?
Posted by CanbullriusPosted by Stensco21You are his love of his life, not the dirt off the damn curb.
He's saying it's because he had to " go broke" paying for thanksgiving. If that's the case bye bye. That's really selfish. I don't like stingy ppl. I understand he might not have wanted to do it, but he never once mentioned it.
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I know! That's what I said. He's making me sound like I'm such a burden. It's rude.
Posted by libsterI never forced him. I had no idea it was a problem. He did it to control the situation. We have gatherings with his family every month. I can't stand him because he was fake as fuck in the beginning and now his true colors are flying.Posted by MontgomeryJust wondering..did you force him to meet your family? Maybe he wasn't ready.Posted by Stensco21Saying 'No... I'd rather not do that.' isn't that difficult.Posted by libsterPosted by Stensco21I am libra and did this as well this thanksgiving, avoiding family.
He's a libra and he's introverted but not from anxiety. I'm starting to notice he's kind of elitist type you're not good enough for me type of attitude. His attitude during thanksgiving was basically my family wasn't worth the bother.
Surprised me because when we first started dating of course he was Prince Charming but I think his mask is slipping a little.
I don't feel comfortable when I'm forced to be around others' family.
That's understandable but still rude.
@Stensco21
How you going to dump him?
heh
I don't like holidays and its traditional family gatherings for personal reasons. I talked to my SO about this beforehand and was still forced to attend..I know it's rude, but it's not easy for me.
You already said you can't stand him ...why are you with someone you can't stand?click to expand
He's a Libra, and you're a .... ?
Posted by libsterHow were you "forced to attend?"Posted by MontgomeryJust wondering..did you force him to meet your family? Maybe he wasn't ready.Posted by Stensco21Saying 'No... I'd rather not do that.' isn't that difficult.Posted by libsterPosted by Stensco21I am libra and did this as well this thanksgiving, avoiding family.
He's a libra and he's introverted but not from anxiety. I'm starting to notice he's kind of elitist type you're not good enough for me type of attitude. His attitude during thanksgiving was basically my family wasn't worth the bother.
Surprised me because when we first started dating of course he was Prince Charming but I think his mask is slipping a little.
I don't feel comfortable when I'm forced to be around others' family.
That's understandable but still rude.
@Stensco21
How you going to dump him?
heh
I don't like holidays and its traditional family gatherings for personal reasons. I talked to my SO about this beforehand and was still forced to attend..I know it's rude, but it's not easy for me.
You already said you can't stand him ...why are you with someone you can't stand?click to expand
Technically, that's not possible without... you know-- force.
So
Apply this line of questioning to yourself, first.
Posted by MontgomeryScorpio
He's a Libra, and you're a .... ?
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by Stensco21Posted by leowwwPosted by Stensco21Why have it at his place if he was gonna be such a bad host? I wouldn't introduce my family to my boyfriend.. unless it's serious and.. I know he actually cares to meet them...
Yes it was at his house. We tried multiple times and tried the get him to play dominos. He turned his nose up and went to the room and basically had his own little count down until it was over. Everyone could feel it. My aunt drove 12 hours and tried to leave every two times because of it.
We are engaged and lived together! I didn't expect this at all.
He's checked out
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What do you mean
Posted by MontgomeryI'm not the one posting threads on DXP asking others if they'd be mad if "my bf ignored my family on thanksgiving" so technically, I don't have to apply any questioning to myself. I was simply sharing my POV with the OP so stfu.Posted by libsterHow were you "forced to attend?"Posted by MontgomeryJust wondering..did you force him to meet your family? Maybe he wasn't ready.Posted by Stensco21Saying 'No... I'd rather not do that.' isn't that difficult.Posted by libsterPosted by Stensco21I am libra and did this as well this thanksgiving, avoiding family.
He's a libra and he's introverted but not from anxiety. I'm starting to notice he's kind of elitist type you're not good enough for me type of attitude. His attitude during thanksgiving was basically my family wasn't worth the bother.
Surprised me because when we first started dating of course he was Prince Charming but I think his mask is slipping a little.
I don't feel comfortable when I'm forced to be around others' family.
That's understandable but still rude.
@Stensco21
How you going to dump him?
heh
I don't like holidays and its traditional family gatherings for personal reasons. I talked to my SO about this beforehand and was still forced to attend..I know it's rude, but it's not easy for me.
You already said you can't stand him ...why are you with someone you can't stand?
Technically, that's not possible without... you know-- force.
So
Apply this line of questioning to yourself, first.
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Posted by libsterYou are literally arguing with yourself.Posted by MontgomeryI'm not the one posting threads on DXP asking others if they'd be mad if "my bf ignored my family on thanksgiving" so technically, I don't have to apply any questioning to myself. I was simply sharing my POV with the OP so stfu.Posted by libsterHow were you "forced to attend?"Posted by MontgomeryJust wondering..did you force him to meet your family? Maybe he wasn't ready.Posted by Stensco21Saying 'No... I'd rather not do that.' isn't that difficult.Posted by libsterPosted by Stensco21I am libra and did this as well this thanksgiving, avoiding family.
He's a libra and he's introverted but not from anxiety. I'm starting to notice he's kind of elitist type you're not good enough for me type of attitude. His attitude during thanksgiving was basically my family wasn't worth the bother.
Surprised me because when we first started dating of course he was Prince Charming but I think his mask is slipping a little.
I don't feel comfortable when I'm forced to be around others' family.
That's understandable but still rude.
@Stensco21
How you going to dump him?
heh
I don't like holidays and its traditional family gatherings for personal reasons. I talked to my SO about this beforehand and was still forced to attend..I know it's rude, but it's not easy for me.
You already said you can't stand him ...why are you with someone you can't stand?
Technically, that's not possible without... you know-- force.
So
Apply this line of questioning to yourself, first.
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You'll dump him eventually and he will have brought it all on himself, but it will be all your fault, ive been previously with a Libra 5 years, just like him, had to make excuses whenever family came over, as he would disappear for some reason?
Eventually started putting me down, criticising me, my family, jeez!
He had no job, sat in front of the tv all day wanting his lunch, tea, and sex on tap, after abusive remarks towards me and me stupidly trying to make it work, jeez, stupid things you do when your 24!!
I'm so glad I'm 47 now!
Don't let him move in!! Took me 4 more years to get him to get the hint! Squatters rights were legal then here in the UK, and he loved to remind me ?
Eventually started putting me down, criticising me, my family, jeez!
He had no job, sat in front of the tv all day wanting his lunch, tea, and sex on tap, after abusive remarks towards me and me stupidly trying to make it work, jeez, stupid things you do when your 24!!
I'm so glad I'm 47 now!
Don't let him move in!! Took me 4 more years to get him to get the hint! Squatters rights were legal then here in the UK, and he loved to remind me ?
Posted by Stensco21Is he 10?
So during thanksgiving my whole family was here. My bf barely spoke a word to my family and stayed in the bedroom for four days. Needless to say I was livid and embarrassed. He doesn't see a problem with this.
The only way I would ignore the family is if they have issues with me being there but even if that were the case I wouldn't be there in the first place.
Posted by piscespoppy
You'll dump him eventually and he will have brought it all on himself, but it will be all your fault, ive been previously with a Libra 5 years, just like him, had to make excuses whenever family came over, as he would disappear for some reason?
Eventually started putting me down, criticising me, my family, jeez!
He had no job, sat in front of the tv all day wanting his lunch, tea, and sex on tap, after abusive remarks towards me and me stupidly trying to make it work, jeez, stupid things you do when your 24!!
I'm so glad I'm 47 now!
Don't let him move in!! Took me 4 more years to get him to get the hint! Squatters rights were legal then here in the UK, and he loved to remind me ?
He's already started to demean me and how I do things. I'm not a good enough cleaner and he makes me do literally everything his way. Even makes me put salt in a salt shaker the way he wants. I don't do anything in front of him because he will tell me it's not the right way.
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by Stensco21Is he 10?
So during thanksgiving my whole family was here. My bf barely spoke a word to my family and stayed in the bedroom for four days. Needless to say I was livid and embarrassed. He doesn't see a problem with this.
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Might as well be
Posted by Stensco21Get to know a person before you get engaged and move in together..Posted by leowwwPosted by Stensco21Why have it at his place if he was gonna be such a bad host? I wouldn't introduce my family to my boyfriend.. unless it's serious and.. I know he actually cares to meet them...
Yes it was at his house. We tried multiple times and tried the get him to play dominos. He turned his nose up and went to the room and basically had his own little count down until it was over. Everyone could feel it. My aunt drove 12 hours and tried to leave every two times because of it.
We are engaged and lived together! I didn't expect this at all.
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Posted by MontgomeryScorpio
He's a Libra, and you're a .... ?
Posted by libsterPosted by Stensco21Get to know a person before you get engaged and move in together..Posted by leowwwPosted by Stensco21Why have it at his place if he was gonna be such a bad host? I wouldn't introduce my family to my boyfriend.. unless it's serious and.. I know he actually cares to meet them...
Yes it was at his house. We tried multiple times and tried the get him to play dominos. He turned his nose up and went to the room and basically had his own little count down until it was over. Everyone could feel it. My aunt drove 12 hours and tried to leave every two times because of it.
We are engaged and lived together! I didn't expect this at all.
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Go sit in your room emo.
Posted by Stensco21Lol why do you tolerate his shit cmon now you could do better.Posted by MontgomeryScorpio
He's a Libra, and you're a .... ?click to expand
Yes he is very controlling and doing everything he can to put me in my place. He is the typical know it all air sign who doesn't know anything.
No he was judging my family. They were excited to meet him.
Posted by leowwwPosted by Stensco21How long have you been together?
Yes he is very controlling and doing everything he can to put me in my place. He is the typical know it all air sign who doesn't know anything.
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A year. He was fine and friendly and charming.
Posted by Stensco21Um..ok..? If i was your boyfriend I'm sure I would too. No wonder he ignored you and your fam 🙂Posted by libsterPosted by Stensco21Get to know a person before you get engaged and move in together..Posted by leowwwPosted by Stensco21Why have it at his place if he was gonna be such a bad host? I wouldn't introduce my family to my boyfriend.. unless it's serious and.. I know he actually cares to meet them...
Yes it was at his house. We tried multiple times and tried the get him to play dominos. He turned his nose up and went to the room and basically had his own little count down until it was over. Everyone could feel it. My aunt drove 12 hours and tried to leave every two times because of it.
We are engaged and lived together! I didn't expect this at all.
Go sit in your room emo.
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Posted by libsterPosted by MontgomeryI'm not the one posting threads on DXP asking others if they'd be mad if "my bf ignored my family on thanksgiving" so technically, I don't have to apply any questioning to myself. I was simply sharing my POV with the OP so stfu.Posted by libsterHow were you "forced to attend?"Posted by MontgomeryJust wondering..did you force him to meet your family? Maybe he wasn't ready.Posted by Stensco21Saying 'No... I'd rather not do that.' isn't that difficult.Posted by libsterPosted by Stensco21I am libra and did this as well this thanksgiving, avoiding family.
He's a libra and he's introverted but not from anxiety. I'm starting to notice he's kind of elitist type you're not good enough for me type of attitude. His attitude during thanksgiving was basically my family wasn't worth the bother.
Surprised me because when we first started dating of course he was Prince Charming but I think his mask is slipping a little.
I don't feel comfortable when I'm forced to be around others' family.
That's understandable but still rude.
@Stensco21
How you going to dump him?
heh
I don't like holidays and its traditional family gatherings for personal reasons. I talked to my SO about this beforehand and was still forced to attend..I know it's rude, but it's not easy for me.
You already said you can't stand him ...why are you with someone you can't stand?
Technically, that's not possible without... you know-- force.
So
Apply this line of questioning to yourself, first.
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And I'm simply pointing out the hypocrisy
in your POV.
Looks like it struck a nerve.
🙂
Posted by libsterPosted by Stensco21Um..ok..? If i was your boyfriend I'm sure I would too. No wonder he ignored you and your fam 🙂Posted by libsterPosted by Stensco21Get to know a person before you get engaged and move in together..Posted by leowwwPosted by Stensco21Why have it at his place if he was gonna be such a bad host? I wouldn't introduce my family to my boyfriend.. unless it's serious and.. I know he actually cares to meet them...
Yes it was at his house. We tried multiple times and tried the get him to play dominos. He turned his nose up and went to the room and basically had his own little count down until it was over. Everyone could feel it. My aunt drove 12 hours and tried to leave every two times because of it.
We are engaged and lived together! I didn't expect this at all.
Go sit in your room emo.
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You're like 13 aren't you?
Posted by MontgomeryPosted by libsterPosted by MontgomeryI'm not the one posting threads on DXP asking others if they'd be mad if "my bf ignored my family on thanksgiving" so technically, I don't have to apply any questioning to myself. I was simply sharing my POV with the OP so stfu.Posted by libsterHow were you "forced to attend?"Posted by MontgomeryJust wondering..did you force him to meet your family? Maybe he wasn't ready.Posted by Stensco21Saying 'No... I'd rather not do that.' isn't that difficult.Posted by libsterPosted by Stensco21I am libra and did this as well this thanksgiving, avoiding family.
He's a libra and he's introverted but not from anxiety. I'm starting to notice he's kind of elitist type you're not good enough for me type of attitude. His attitude during thanksgiving was basically my family wasn't worth the bother.
Surprised me because when we first started dating of course he was Prince Charming but I think his mask is slipping a little.
I don't feel comfortable when I'm forced to be around others' family.
That's understandable but still rude.
@Stensco21
How you going to dump him?
heh
I don't like holidays and its traditional family gatherings for personal reasons. I talked to my SO about this beforehand and was still forced to attend..I know it's rude, but it's not easy for me.
You already said you can't stand him ...why are you with someone you can't stand?
Technically, that's not possible without... you know-- force.
So
Apply this line of questioning to yourself, first.
And I'm simply pointing out the hypocrisy
in your POV.
Looks like it struck a nerve.
🙂
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It did. I've been in the position opposite of the OP. Why is that hypocrisy?
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Which is one of my fave channels. It was a story about a married man that was having an affair for 2 years & the homewrecker had his baby. Husband told wife, wife ends up wanting to stay for the sake of her family but only if her husband tells his putana
Hello, DXPnet!
Let's talk first anniversary presents! :D
What did you give your love on your first anniversary? What did you receive?
I'm celebrating my first anniversary with my Capricorn in December. I have decided to buy him an iPod Nano! My r
Women don't need men, in fact we can take care of our selves in every way sooo GOOD luck with that fellas! ?
It took me 29 years to finally realize how pointless a relationship is. Norms of society have brainwashed us into believing that our life is not complete until we get married and have a house with a white picket fence, a minivan, and bratty kids who will
What would you think/feel if your S.O. of several years still didn't know your likes, tastes, etc. in regard to giving you gifts? Any time gift giving occurred, it was just things that have nothing to do with your personality, likes, interests, and so on?
I hate gifts.
I don't know what I want so how can you know what I want? And if it's not up my alley I can't smile and be all mushy 'thank you it's all I've ever dreamed about'...
I am just upfront with people about it.
I had just heard 'I want to give
Look at me ! Look at me ! Look how pretty l am!!!
Get the fvck away from me!!! I only want cuddles!
is this a problem for you? do you want to date/bang every attractive person of the gender you prefer if you have a good connection with them?
answering for myself. no, it's not. i have lots of hot friends. most of my friends are very attractive. but i
Hi ?
I am interested to hear from Women mainly and my question is if you HAD to choose one of these types of relationships, would you..
Prefer to be with a guy who treats you like shit by belittling you on a daily basis, (I don't mean violent or alc
Why? Why text me first and then when I respond you never text back? Wtf is the point of this? I just don't understand lol is this some kind of mind game?
OK I am creating this thread so that people have a place to speak what they want from love into existence I'll start .
I want someone who believes in me. Someone to show me when I don't believe in myself . Someone to motivate me but also give me r
What would you say the phases of a LONG term relationship would be? And I'm talking like longer than a year, maybe even longer than two.
I'm pretty curious..!
I've noticed a few instances where this guy interest of mine seems to not have his whole attention on me. Sorry if it seems like I'm full of myself, but I do feel slighted & believe this may be signs he actually just isn't as into me as I thought he was.
Inspired by another post.
How many words there are to use when addressing the person you love excluding 'baby, honey, cupcake...all these nauseating stupid honey bunnies etc.' when you talking to a person who are not in any shape or form 'baby' or 'bunny
It can be flattering to hear a love say "I want you", but when the relationship has moved past a certain point, I'm waiting for "I love yous". In fact, hearing I want you instead of I love you makes me go go cold with disappointment and the fear I'm just
Have you ever had one? What's the appeal? What signs do best in this type of arrangement?
I can't see a water signs tolerating non committed sex for very long.
This board seems to be filled with stories of FWBs gone wrong.