Would you be mad if your bf ignored your family on thanksgiving? (Page 3)

I don't understand why you have all of this hostility towards your boyfriend. If you are engaged to him, then don't you at least care for him (even if you don't love him)?

Obviously, something was wrong with him. But, you don't seem to care about that. You only seem to care about what you want of him.

If you have all of this money .. then why did he have to pay for a dinner he never wanted?

You don't make sense .. you keep contradicting yourself. It's like everytime someone says something you don't want to hear, the story changes.

The bottom line is ..... you were embarrassed, and now you feel like he has to be punished for that because you refuse to accept the fact that you are partially responsible for it by forcing him to interact with your family when he wasn't ready.

If you plan on ever having a trusting and respectful relationship with a person ... thn you ar going to have to learn how to take responsibility for your own actions.



I feel sorry for the guy, it appears as though he has been tricked by you, in that he likely agreed with this situation of being your boyfriend and having you live with him (not your place, rather you are invading his space) ... he agreed with this under the pretense that you cared about him, his health and happiness. But, you're not showing that your viewing audience.

You're showing us that you're using him.

Posted by Stensco21
So during thanksgiving my whole family was here. My bf barely spoke a word to my family and stayed in the bedroom for four days. Needless to say I was livid and embarrassed. He doesn't see a problem with this.

Do you see a problem with you forcing him to accept your family in his house for 4 days when he didn't agree to it?