Why do promising courtships quickly become lets hangout at home? Is it the woman's fault that a man only has to work hard for 1 real date or is it the man's fault? Is a second or third date at your place a sign a person only wants sex?
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Posted by EveryOunceBecause you can't have sex in a restaurant?
Why do promising courtships quickly become lets hangout at home? Is it the woman's fault that a man only has to work hard for 1 real date or is it the man's fault? Is a second or third date at your place a sign a person only wants sex?
Posted by SeasonYes you can.Posted by EveryOunceBecause you can't have sex in a restaurant?
Why do promising courtships quickly become lets hangout at home? Is it the woman's fault that a man only has to work hard for 1 real date or is it the man's fault? Is a second or third date at your place a sign a person only wants sex?click to expand
Posted by SeasonTechnically you can...if you like spontaneous bathroom sex lol.Posted by EveryOunceBecause you can't have sex in a restaurant?
Why do promising courtships quickly become lets hangout at home? Is it the woman's fault that a man only has to work hard for 1 real date or is it the man's fault? Is a second or third date at your place a sign a person only wants sex?click to expand
Posted by SeasonTheres's toilets around, no?Posted by EveryOunceBecause you can't have sex in a restaurant?
Why do promising courtships quickly become lets hangout at home? Is it the woman's fault that a man only has to work hard for 1 real date or is it the man's fault? Is a second or third date at your place a sign a person only wants sex?click to expand
If you have your own place and I have mine at some point I better get to come over, and we do this 5050 stuff like that way too. Why not. If it's a connection.
Yours or mine first. I'm sorta private though I get ackward until I get comfortable so I might mention it early and kick back, and ask questions til then. Then I'll proceed again be like when you coming over.
Yours or mine first. I'm sorta private though I get ackward until I get comfortable so I might mention it early and kick back, and ask questions til then. Then I'll proceed again be like when you coming over.
Posted by EveryOunceFor some hanging out at home = promising courtship. It just depends on the person and what they want.
Why do promising courtships quickly become lets hangout at home? Is it the woman's fault that a man only has to work hard for 1 real date or is it the man's fault? Is a second or third date at your place a sign a person only wants sex?
Just stay true to what you want and your golden.
Posted by SeasonChallenge accepted!Posted by EveryOunceBecause you can't have sex in a restaurant?
Why do promising courtships quickly become lets hangout at home? Is it the woman's fault that a man only has to work hard for 1 real date or is it the man's fault? Is a second or third date at your place a sign a person only wants sex?click to expand
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I can't ever have sex at a guys house unless we've been together for a while and I trust them implicitly. My crazy mind will keep imagining hidden camera's and be all paranoid and shit, which isn't sexy.
If you have your own place and I have mine at some point I better get to come over, and we do this 5050 stuff like that way too. Why not. If it's a connection.
Yours or mine first. I'm sorta private though I get ackward until I get comfortable so I might mention it early and kick back, and ask questions til then. Then I'll proceed again be like when you coming over.
Lol me and my guy are homebodies for sure... but we like it that way..
We go out to do things every so often.. and it makes it funner when we do, as opposed to going out for dates all the time.. I like the privacy of staying in, we can talk more and just enjoy each others company
We go out to do things every so often.. and it makes it funner when we do, as opposed to going out for dates all the time.. I like the privacy of staying in, we can talk more and just enjoy each others company
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428But are you okay with going to his place on second date or him to yours that soon?
If you have your own place and I have mine at some point I better get to come over, and we do this 5050 stuff like that way too. Why not. If it's a connection.
Yours or mine first. I'm sorta private though I get ackward until I get comfortable so I might mention it early and kick back, and ask questions til then. Then I'll proceed again be like when you coming over.
I jumped the gun once and swear I had no intentions of sex. After that maybe it scare him some. That I was direct like that.
One guy had his own and once in awhile kick it together. It was cool. Another guy had his own and single, and a big house too. I was always over til it was over short term.
My ex lived with me for some years too. It was mine and ruined the feeling of ever moving in with someone until I really know.
One guy had his own and once in awhile kick it together. It was cool. Another guy had his own and single, and a big house too. I was always over til it was over short term.
My ex lived with me for some years too. It was mine and ruined the feeling of ever moving in with someone until I really know.
Posted by HarleyTwinFlameSo how soon did the two of you ditch formal dates and lounge at home?
Lol me and my guy are homebodies for sure... but we like it that way..
We go out to do things every so often.. and it makes it funner when we do, as opposed to going out for dates all the time.. I like the privacy of staying in, we can talk more and just enjoy each others company
Posted by HarleyTwinFlameUs too. Lately we've been going out for lunch instead of dinner cause it's way cheaper and we can still go somewhere fancy. Then we netflix and chill or light a bonfire and get our smoke on.
Lol me and my guy are homebodies for sure... but we like it that way..
We go out to do things every so often.. and it makes it funner when we do, as opposed to going out for dates all the time.. I like the privacy of staying in, we can talk more and just enjoy each others company
Or bringing them over to my home. I have to make sure if it works out now before home cook meals happen. I experiences both ways.
I fear if it doesn't work they know where i live.
I fear if it doesn't work they know where i live.
Posted by EveryOunceIf I want sex I guess that's why since I jumped my gun about initiating coming over. It freaks guy out and start thinking I want sex but I'm really a house warmer partier. Cook and chill type.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428But are you okay with going to his place on second date or him to yours that soon?
If you have your own place and I have mine at some point I better get to come over, and we do this 5050 stuff like that way too. Why not. If it's a connection.
Yours or mine first. I'm sorta private though I get ackward until I get comfortable so I might mention it early and kick back, and ask questions til then. Then I'll proceed again be like when you coming over.
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Posted by LadyNeptuneMy fear now is trusting and then being trapped like 8 years ago with someone moving in cause you thought it was a connection. Now that's bad for me.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I can't ever have sex at a guys house unless we've been together for a while and I trust them implicitly. My crazy mind will keep imagining hidden camera's and be all paranoid and shit, which isn't sexy.
If you have your own place and I have mine at some point I better get to come over, and we do this 5050 stuff like that way too. Why not. If it's a connection.
Yours or mine first. I'm sorta private though I get ackward until I get comfortable so I might mention it early and kick back, and ask questions til then. Then I'll proceed again be like when you coming over.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by HarleyTwinFlameUs too. Lately we've been going out for lunch instead of dinner cause it's way cheaper and we can still go somewhere fancy. Then we netflix and chill or light a bonfire and get our smoke on.
Lol me and my guy are homebodies for sure... but we like it that way..
We go out to do things every so often.. and it makes it funner when we do, as opposed to going out for dates all the time.. I like the privacy of staying in, we can talk more and just enjoy each others companyclick to expand
It's really expensive to dine out all the time in LA or something like that. I cook more now. I get excited when talking about food with a new friend. Like come over really quick I show you around. But nope something always happens.
True it is expensive to dine out all the time but what is wrong with trips to the park, museums,festivals, the movies etc stuff that is sometimes free or very close to it? Isn't the point of dating for a man to show you why he considers you a priority and not an option? I understand dates dont go on forever but in the beginning stage though?
Posted by cheekyfaerieGoing to a guys house doesn't automatically mean sex either. And nothing is sexier than a man who cooks you dinner.Posted by LadyNeptuneTroof. It's as much a compatibility issue as anything else. Some people like to go out, some people would like to get to know each other without all the distractions... as long as everybody's happy, what difference does it make?Posted by EveryOunceFor some hanging out at home = promising courtship. It just depends on the person and what they want.
Why do promising courtships quickly become lets hangout at home? Is it the woman's fault that a man only has to work hard for 1 real date or is it the man's fault? Is a second or third date at your place a sign a person only wants sex?
Just stay true to what you want and your golden.click to expand
Posted by EveryOunceHello yes, of course I would want to go be adventurous. The last thing on my mind is sex though 3 date, and 5th date fine.. Trust a Taurus would like to invite but shit you have to be pretty cool to even come over.
True it is expensive to dine out all the time but what is wrong with trips to the park, museums,festivals, the movies etc stuff that is sometimes free or very close to it? Isn't the point of dating for a man to show you why he considers you a priority and not an option? I understand dates dont go on forever but in the beginning stage though?
Posted by EveryOunceOh btw courtship is important suppose to happen. Dating is another left hook though it's different.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428But are you okay with going to his place on second date or him to yours that soon?
If you have your own place and I have mine at some point I better get to come over, and we do this 5050 stuff like that way too. Why not. If it's a connection.
Yours or mine first. I'm sorta private though I get ackward until I get comfortable so I might mention it early and kick back, and ask questions til then. Then I'll proceed again be like when you coming over.
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Posted by LadyNeptuneSee that's the thing I had to ask someone what I did and was considering inviting someone over. They told me it was a written invitation to fuck basically. Wtf. No wonder it scares peeps. Not mine intentions.Posted by cheekyfaerieGoing to a guys house doesn't automatically mean sex either. And nothing is sexier than a man who cooks you dinner.Posted by LadyNeptuneTroof. It's as much a compatibility issue as anything else. Some people like to go out, some people would like to get to know each other without all the distractions... as long as everybody's happy, what difference does it make?Posted by EveryOunceFor some hanging out at home = promising courtship. It just depends on the person and what they want.
Why do promising courtships quickly become lets hangout at home? Is it the woman's fault that a man only has to work hard for 1 real date or is it the man's fault? Is a second or third date at your place a sign a person only wants sex?
Just stay true to what you want and your golden.click to expand
I would be cautious about going to anyone's home or having them at my home until I really knew them better and that means dating or doing things outside the home ... but no matter what you are always in control !
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Just make those intentions clear when you make the invite and your in the clear.Posted by LadyNeptuneSee that's the thing I had to ask someone what I did and was considering inviting someone over. They told me it was a written invitation to fuck basically. Wtf. No wonder it scares peeps. Not mine intentions.Posted by cheekyfaerieGoing to a guys house doesn't automatically mean sex either. And nothing is sexier than a man who cooks you dinner.Posted by LadyNeptuneTroof. It's as much a compatibility issue as anything else. Some people like to go out, some people would like to get to know each other without all the distractions... as long as everybody's happy, what difference does it make?Posted by EveryOunceFor some hanging out at home = promising courtship. It just depends on the person and what they want.
Why do promising courtships quickly become lets hangout at home? Is it the woman's fault that a man only has to work hard for 1 real date or is it the man's fault? Is a second or third date at your place a sign a person only wants sex?
Just stay true to what you want and your golden.click to expand
If a guy asked me to come over for netflix and chill and we didn't know each other that well I'd assume it was an invitation to be fuck buddies. However if we'd already been out on some dates I wouldn't think it was all about sex, but rather an invitation into his home and a more intimate part of his life.
My rule of thumb is never to do at home dates within the first month.
It has nothing to do with the pressure of sex, but everything to do with I am cynical. I don't want just anyone in my home or even knowing where I live. And I don't trust a dude enough to go to his home. There are too many crazies in this world for me to just hand out my address to anybody. Hell, you are lucky if I even let you know what street I live on past a month. lol
It has nothing to do with the pressure of sex, but everything to do with I am cynical. I don't want just anyone in my home or even knowing where I live. And I don't trust a dude enough to go to his home. There are too many crazies in this world for me to just hand out my address to anybody. Hell, you are lucky if I even let you know what street I live on past a month. lol
Posted by EveryOunceBeing taken to any of those places doesn't mean your a priority though. He could be taking other chicks to the park, museum, festivals, etc. etc.
True it is expensive to dine out all the time but what is wrong with trips to the park, museums,festivals, the movies etc stuff that is sometimes free or very close to it? Isn't the point of dating for a man to show you why he considers you a priority and not an option? I understand dates dont go on forever but in the beginning stage though?
The main thing is to spend time to evaluate if the other person is a good match, if there is relationship potential. I think I speak for most modern quality females when I say that taking us to a fancy dinner and flashing your money around isn't the best way to do that. Ask us about our interests, listen, and surprise us with dates that are centered around those interest.
Posted by LadyNeptuneWhy do you equate a date outside the home with flashing money around? Is it a bad thing that a man chooses to spend money on you? You can talk about interest and listen outside your home right? I think it has less to do with modern or traditional and more to do with preferences over all.Posted by EveryOunceBeing taken to any of those places doesn't mean your a priority though. He could be taking other chicks to the park, museum, festivals, etc. etc.
True it is expensive to dine out all the time but what is wrong with trips to the park, museums,festivals, the movies etc stuff that is sometimes free or very close to it? Isn't the point of dating for a man to show you why he considers you a priority and not an option? I understand dates dont go on forever but in the beginning stage though?
The main thing is to spend time to evaluate if the other person is a good match, if there is relationship potential. I think I speak for most modern quality females when I say that taking us to a fancy dinner and flashing your money around isn't the best way to do that. Ask us about our interests, listen, and surprise us with dates that are centered around those interest.click to expand
Posted by nikkistarI am the sameway. I would be scared sh*tless.
My rule of thumb is never to do at home dates within the first month.
It has nothing to do with the pressure of sex, but everything to do with I am cynical. I don't want just anyone in my home or even knowing where I live. And I don't trust a dude enough to go to his home. There are too many crazies in this world for me to just hand out my address to anybody. Hell, you are lucky if I even let you know what street I live on past a month. lol
Posted by EveryOunceYour missing the point...Posted by LadyNeptuneWhy do you equate a date outside the home with flashing money around? Is it a bad thing that a man chooses to spend money on you? You can talk about interest and listen outside your home right? I think it has less to do with moderb or traditional and more to do with preferences over all.Posted by EveryOunceBeing taken to any of those places doesn't mean your a priority though. He could be taking other chicks to the park, museum, festivals, etc. etc.
True it is expensive to dine out all the time but what is wrong with trips to the park, museums,festivals, the movies etc stuff that is sometimes free or very close to it? Isn't the point of dating for a man to show you why he considers you a priority and not an option? I understand dates dont go on forever but in the beginning stage though?
The main thing is to spend time to evaluate if the other person is a good match, if there is relationship potential. I think I speak for most modern quality females when I say that taking us to a fancy dinner and flashing your money around isn't the best way to do that. Ask us about our interests, listen, and surprise us with dates that are centered around those interest.
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Someone who is superficial and thinks flashing enough of their money can buy affection will always be beaten out by someone who is genuine and interested in what your about.
Money can't buy a connection.
Posted by LadyNeptuneI think we both missed each others point.Posted by EveryOunceYour missing the point...Posted by LadyNeptuneWhy do you equate a date outside the home with flashing money around? Is it a bad thing that a man chooses to spend money on you? You can talk about interest and listen outside your home right? I think it has less to do with moderb or traditional and more to do with preferences over all.Posted by EveryOunceBeing taken to any of those places doesn't mean your a priority though. He could be taking other chicks to the park, museum, festivals, etc. etc.
True it is expensive to dine out all the time but what is wrong with trips to the park, museums,festivals, the movies etc stuff that is sometimes free or very close to it? Isn't the point of dating for a man to show you why he considers you a priority and not an option? I understand dates dont go on forever but in the beginning stage though?
The main thing is to spend time to evaluate if the other person is a good match, if there is relationship potential. I think I speak for most modern quality females when I say that taking us to a fancy dinner and flashing your money around isn't the best way to do that. Ask us about our interests, listen, and surprise us with dates that are centered around those interest.
Someone who is superficial and thinks flashing enough of their money can buy affection will always be beaten out by someone who is genuine and interested in what your about.
Money can't buy a connection.
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Posted by EveryOuncefair enoughPosted by LadyNeptuneI think we both missed each others point.Posted by EveryOunceYour missing the point...Posted by LadyNeptuneWhy do you equate a date outside the home with flashing money around? Is it a bad thing that a man chooses to spend money on you? You can talk about interest and listen outside your home right? I think it has less to do with moderb or traditional and more to do with preferences over all.Posted by EveryOunceBeing taken to any of those places doesn't mean your a priority though. He could be taking other chicks to the park, museum, festivals, etc. etc.
True it is expensive to dine out all the time but what is wrong with trips to the park, museums,festivals, the movies etc stuff that is sometimes free or very close to it? Isn't the point of dating for a man to show you why he considers you a priority and not an option? I understand dates dont go on forever but in the beginning stage though?
The main thing is to spend time to evaluate if the other person is a good match, if there is relationship potential. I think I speak for most modern quality females when I say that taking us to a fancy dinner and flashing your money around isn't the best way to do that. Ask us about our interests, listen, and surprise us with dates that are centered around those interest.
Someone who is superficial and thinks flashing enough of their money can buy affection will always be beaten out by someone who is genuine and interested in what your about.
Money can't buy a connection.
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Posted by julietteI'm a female and it is not personal. The dating world has changed since I have become single in regards to what is considered dating in my eyes over the years and wanted to get both male and female perspectives on it.
op i can't understand your point or questions at all. it seems you had a series of dates with non compatible females, i'm sure there are plenty out there who share your views on dates and relationships.
Posted by julietteHa! Oh my.Posted by EveryOuncePosted by julietteI'm a female and it is not personal. The dating world has changed since I have become single in regards to what is considered dating in my eyes over the years and wanted to get both male and female perspectives on it.
op i can't understand your point or questions at all. it seems you had a series of dates with non compatible females, i'm sure there are plenty out there who share your views on dates and relationships.
LOL sorry, and i wanted to tell you, you are a woman trapped in a man's body. ok, now i get it.
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Not as comfortably as you can at home though. LoL.Posted by SeasonYes you can.Posted by EveryOunceBecause you can't have sex in a restaurant?
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Posted by EveryOunceAre you a fire moon?
True it is expensive to dine out all the time but what is wrong with trips to the park, museums,festivals, the movies etc stuff that is sometimes free or very close to it?
Posted by DamnataPosted by EveryOunceAre you a fire moon?
True it is expensive to dine out all the time but what is wrong with trips to the park, museums,festivals, the movies etc stuff that is sometimes free or very close to it?
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Yes, sagittarius moon.
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