LadyNeptune
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Your SO and having friends of the opposite sex/desirable sex
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I'm fine with it. Honestly, I welcome it. It's good to see how my SO deals with it. If she fools around, then y'know, that's my cue to dip. It's all about trust at the end of the day for me and it's incredibly validating if you are put in those situations as well and know that you ain't going to do anything to screw it up. It shows you're in a good place and you found someone worth keeping. Vice versa for the SO.
Posted by earlorg16
I'm fine with it. Honestly, I welcome it. It's good to see how my SO deals with it. If she fools around, then y'know, that's my cue to dip. It's all about trust at the end of the day for me and it's incredibly validating if you are put in those situations as well and know that you ain't going to do anything to screw it up. It shows you're in a good place and you found someone worth keeping. Vice versa for the SO.
I agree. I'll trust you until you prove yourself untrustworthy.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by earlorg16
I'm fine with it. Honestly, I welcome it. It's good to see how my SO deals with it. If she fools around, then y'know, that's my cue to dip. It's all about trust at the end of the day for me and it's incredibly validating if you are put in those situations as well and know that you ain't going to do anything to screw it up. It shows you're in a good place and you found someone worth keeping. Vice versa for the SO.
I agree. I'll trust you until you prove yourself untrustworthy.click to expand
It's the clearest way really. Builds even more trust too.
I like having female friends and it wouldn’t be fair to my s/o if I didn’t let her have her male friends. The only male friends I don’t like my so to have are the ones who I know are just waiting for an opportunity.
If you trust them and are secure about what you bring in the relationship is fair, balanced and heart felt, no amount of friends of whatever gender should be a problem.
Afterall research proves that social people are better at relationships and SEX
Afterall research proves that social people are better at relationships and SEX
Posted by nakedgirlavalanche
it definitely stems from insecurity and lack of trust it's okay to feel those things but if you love your SO and you trust they love you, you need to know regardless if said friend tries something know your SO will curve them so hard because they chose you
Idk who that “phishfood” cunt is but ily 💛💛💛
It comes down to just " hope "
You have to hope your significant other respects you enough to not cheat emotionally or physically with a friend of the opposite sex.
Because the truth is most of the time attraction is there. And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.
That's just real life.
If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a bitch. You are lying to yourself.
You have to hope your significant other respects you enough to not cheat emotionally or physically with a friend of the opposite sex.
Because the truth is most of the time attraction is there. And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.
That's just real life.
If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a bitch. You are lying to yourself.
Posted by Sag898
It comes down to just " hope "
You have to hope your significant other respects you enough to not cheat emotionally or physically with a friend of the opposite sex.
Because the truth is most of the time attraction is there. And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.
That's just real life.
If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a bitch. You are lying to yourself.
No. I don’t cry in front of friends.
I wouldn't mind as long as I can tell its a strictly platonic relationship and all the girls are ugly 😄. If he had some hot girl friends, I would have to play the "tit for tat" game and go get some hot guy friends to go yuck it up with. We can both be insecure together 😆
I have never had a problem with it. All my partners had female friends and I never being jealous about it. I have always had male friends too.
It is only a problem if we stop trusting each other
It is only a problem if we stop trusting each other
Posted by Sag898
It comes down to just " hope "
You have to hope your significant other respects you enough to not cheat emotionally or physically with a friend of the opposite sex.
Because the truth is most of the time attraction is there. And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.
That's just real life.
If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a bitch. You are lying to yourself.
LOL Wut
Not everyone lives in a realm of ulterior motives.
Posted by Caliope
I remember being 'interviewed' by a guy that was pursuing me. The first question he asked was if I had any male friends. He didn't want me to have any but he had several lady friends. lol
You should have busted his chops on that one.
Once they come out their mouths sideways, and it a definite no/go... you tell 'em how you really feel.
Posted by tizianiPosted by nikkistarPosted by Sag898
It comes down to just " hope "
You have to hope your significant other respects you enough to not cheat emotionally or physically with a friend of the opposite sex.
Because the truth is most of the time attraction is there. And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.
That's just real life.
If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a bitch. You are lying to yourself.
LOL Wut
Not everyone lives in a realm of ulterior motives.
You just wouldn't curl up and cry on a guy friend, that's the real beef here!click to expand
That's what I have my semi truck for. The DPF Filter on it, is super cuddly!
There is no such thing as “friends” between men and women, especially if you’re attractive person.
You see them as your friends and trust them, when actually they’re in love with you and wanna fk you.
You see them as your friends and trust them, when actually they’re in love with you and wanna fk you.
I don't really care much, and don't mind people living how they want. Who am I to say who someone can and can't talk to?
At the same time I do use that fact to divide potential lovers with the nothing but friends. I personally wouldn't date a women with a ton of friends in general, male or female. Male friends do make it harder though, because I don't want a relationship where I share attention with random people. I'm not about it. Thats just how I personally like my life, and only keep a small knit crew of friends myself. I personally don't want a women who needs a bunch of friends and other people to feel happy. I want her to have self powered mental and emotional stability. If she has a ton of friends I have no want or need to get involved In the first place. I'm quite comfortable being solo in the world, and rather be with a clean slate that was never influenced by a ton of different people. Or even someone whos been solo for a few years. That or just alone.
At the same time I do use that fact to divide potential lovers with the nothing but friends. I personally wouldn't date a women with a ton of friends in general, male or female. Male friends do make it harder though, because I don't want a relationship where I share attention with random people. I'm not about it. Thats just how I personally like my life, and only keep a small knit crew of friends myself. I personally don't want a women who needs a bunch of friends and other people to feel happy. I want her to have self powered mental and emotional stability. If she has a ton of friends I have no want or need to get involved In the first place. I'm quite comfortable being solo in the world, and rather be with a clean slate that was never influenced by a ton of different people. Or even someone whos been solo for a few years. That or just alone.
Posted by Sag898
It comes down to just " hope "
You have to hope your significant other respects you enough to not cheat emotionally or physically with a friend of the opposite sex.
Because the truth is most of the time attraction is there. And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.
That's just real life.
If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a bitch. You are lying to yourself.
I guess hope and trust are kinda similar in this context....And I agree with most of this, especially the bold part. But I would never "take the chance" or even have the desire to, no matter how drunk. I think emotional, mental, or even physical chemistry being present, can actually be kinda fun as long as there are boundaries. I think most people would even want to be surrounded by attractive people in their closest social circle. Ultimately this is why I think its better to bring opp. sex friends into the fold, and not have them as outliers that you or your SO always hang out with separately. Once that happens, that risk looks much less appealing. You don't just damage your own relationship, but the dynamic of the entire group if you decide to cheat - if the group works well as is, there's a certain respect for that, and desire to preserve it. If an opp. sex friend doesn't fit in there, probably less likely that I'd be hanging with them when in a committed relationship, just out of respect for my partner.
Posted by tizianiPosted by MetatronPosted by Sag898
It comes down to just " hope "
You have to hope your significant other respects you enough to not cheat emotionally or physically with a friend of the opposite sex.
Because the truth is most of the time attraction is there. And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.
That's just real life.
If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a bitch. You are lying to yourself.
I guess hope and trust are kinda similar in this context....And I agree with most of this, especially the bold part. But I would never "take the chance" or even have the desire to, no matter how drunk. I think emotional, mental, or even physical chemistry being present, can actually be kinda fun as long as there are boundaries. I think most people would even want to be surrounded by attractive people in their closest social circle. Ultimately this is why I think its better to bring opp. sex friends into the fold, and not have them as outliers that you or your SO always hang out with separately. Once that happens, that risk looks much less appealing. You don't just damage your own relationship, but the dynamic of the entire group if you decide to cheat - if the group works well as is, there's a certain respect for that, and desire to preserve it. If an opp. sex friend doesn't fit in there, probably less likely that I'd be hanging with them when in a committed relationship, just out of respect for my partner.
"I think most people would even want to be surrounded by attractive people in their closest social circle."
Yeah this is what I was saying to Nikki yesterday.click to expand
And we decided that I only keep attractive women around for their nudes.
#ItsNotCreepyCuzNikki
Posted by Sag898
It comes down to just " hope "
You have to hope your significant other respects you enough to not cheat emotionally or physically with a friend of the opposite sex.
Because the truth is most of the time attraction is there. And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.
That's just real life.
If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a bitch. You are lying to yourself.
Never had those experiences.
Hope? Hope?
I wish. I wish a mf would. I'm 44 yo. I'm self-sustaining all my life.
I'm the kinda bitch that will invite you and ya gal to Thanksgiving dinner - real talk. Might even have a young thang sittin at the head of the table, where you used to sit, holding yo hand while he says grace. And, everybody can take they ass home at the end of the night.
I imagine my retirement singing in dive joints looking glamorous, sculpting and painting, enjoying life.
My sun progressed to Taurus a couple years ago.
There comes a time where people have to take ownership of their happiness. Be a mother and father to yourself and take care of yourself like you are your child.
Posted by tizianiPosted by nikkistarPosted by tizianiPosted by MetatronPosted by Sag898
It comes down to just " hope "
You have to hope your significant other respects you enough to not cheat emotionally or physically with a friend of the opposite sex.
Because the truth is most of the time attraction is there. And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.
That's just real life.
If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a bitch. You are lying to yourself.
I guess hope and trust are kinda similar in this context....And I agree with most of this, especially the bold part. But I would never "take the chance" or even have the desire to, no matter how drunk. I think emotional, mental, or even physical chemistry being present, can actually be kinda fun as long as there are boundaries. I think most people would even want to be surrounded by attractive people in their closest social circle. Ultimately this is why I think its better to bring opp. sex friends into the fold, and not have them as outliers that you or your SO always hang out with separately. Once that happens, that risk looks much less appealing. You don't just damage your own relationship, but the dynamic of the entire group if you decide to cheat - if the group works well as is, there's a certain respect for that, and desire to preserve it. If an opp. sex friend doesn't fit in there, probably less likely that I'd be hanging with them when in a committed relationship, just out of respect for my partner.
"I think most people would even want to be surrounded by attractive people in their closest social circle."
Yeah this is what I was saying to Nikki yesterday.
And we decided that I only keep attractive women around for their nudes.
#ItsNotCreepyCuzNikki
var sendnudes
var dxper
var Nikkistar
if dxper = Nikkistar
then sendnudes = 1
else sendnudes = 0
print "that's creepy!"click to expand
I do like your widget you are developing right now. Think we can make this into a full on app, that allows you to take pictures and send them to me immediately.
Posted by Sag898
And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.
That's just real life.
If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a bitch. You are lying to yourself.
Nope, I have respect for a thing called boundaries. I would never hit on a man of my female friends or have sex with them, and no amount of drugs/drinking etc would change that.
Also, a male friend as a shoulder to cry on is far different than having sex with him.
Posted by MetatronPosted by Sag898
It comes down to just " hope "
You have to hope your significant other respects you enough to not cheat emotionally or physically with a friend of the opposite sex.
Because the truth is most of the time attraction is there. And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.
That's just real life.
If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a bitch. You are lying to yourself.
I guess hope and trust are kinda similar in this context....And I agree with most of this, especially the bold part. But I would never "take the chance" or even have the desire to, no matter how drunk. I think emotional, mental, or even physical chemistry being present, can actually be kinda fun as long as there are boundaries. I think most people would even want to be surrounded by attractive people in their closest social circle. Ultimately this is why I think its better to bring opp. sex friends into the fold, and not have them as outliers that you or your SO always hang out with separately. Once that happens, that risk looks much less appealing. You don't just damage your own relationship, but the dynamic of the entire group if you decide to cheat - if the group works well as is, there's a certain respect for that, and desire to preserve it. If an opp. sex friend doesn't fit in there, probably less likely that I'd be hanging with them when in a committed relationship, just out of respect for my partner.click to expand
Weeeeeeelll,
I brought my Virgo bff into "the fold" and my Virgo hubby told me to get rid of her, "she wants to fuck you and she wants to fuck me."
He is possessive. The cat gets side-eyed. LOL! My male cat is obsessed tho.
People can fall in love with a couple. 🤓🤓
I have always been one of the "you can look at the menu but don't eat" type of females with my past relationships. I don't freak out if they go to strip clubs, watch porn, have female friends. If I want to be able to do those things myself, I would never place that double standard on my man. However, if the trust is being questioned by either person, it's time to sit down and reevaluate because no trust= no relationship.
Posted by tiziani
shoulder crying seems deeper than sex to me.
Well, Aquas don't cry so im arid in that department too. 😛
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by MetatronPosted by Sag898
It comes down to just " hope "
You have to hope your significant other respects you enough to not cheat emotionally or physically with a friend of the opposite sex.
Because the truth is most of the time attraction is there. And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.
That's just real life.
If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a bitch. You are lying to yourself.
I guess hope and trust are kinda similar in this context....And I agree with most of this, especially the bold part. But I would never "take the chance" or even have the desire to, no matter how drunk. I think emotional, mental, or even physical chemistry being present, can actually be kinda fun as long as there are boundaries. I think most people would even want to be surrounded by attractive people in their closest social circle. Ultimately this is why I think its better to bring opp. sex friends into the fold, and not have them as outliers that you or your SO always hang out with separately. Once that happens, that risk looks much less appealing. You don't just damage your own relationship, but the dynamic of the entire group if you decide to cheat - if the group works well as is, there's a certain respect for that, and desire to preserve it. If an opp. sex friend doesn't fit in there, probably less likely that I'd be hanging with them when in a committed relationship, just out of respect for my partner.
Weeeeeeelll,
I brought my Virgo bff into "the fold" and my Virgo hubby told me to get rid of her, "she wants to fuck you and she wants to fuck me."
He is possessive. The cat gets side-eyed. LOL! My male cat is obsessed tho.
People can fall in love with a couple. 🤓🤓click to expand
I think its right that some people should be off limits hahahah....falling in love with a couple sounds really good to me, as long as its platonic (unless otherwise specified and agreed upon ahead of time lol)....I actually feel that way about some couples I'm friends with, but I don't struggle with sexual thoughts around it. That's hilarious about your cat; my dog is the same way....intercepts kisses to your SO with face licking, will poke her nose in your eye, even piss next to your foot on the floor in extreme cases...very obsessive and jealous....
Posted by FantamRooster
I think it's "catching." If your friends cheat, and if you think your SO might cheat, you're way more likely to cheat. If your friends abhor cheating and think people who cheat are weak-willed, you're less likely to do it.
Idk, my hubby tells me stories all the time of his cheating friends. His cheating friends and family members tell me about their cheating.
My hubby told me how they tried to clown on him at work 'cause he doesn't cheat. Ww are very open with each other like twin siblings. We know how handsome he is and what those guys would do with his looks if they were him. We know the source - yeah, male jealousy... peer pressure as grown ass men
Posted by tiziani
shoulder crying seems deeper than sex to me.
How bout shoulder crying while getting deep dick.
Like the commercial, "Priceless."
LOL
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Sag898
It comes down to just " hope "
You have to hope your significant other respects you enough to not cheat emotionally or physically with a friend of the opposite sex.
Because the truth is most of the time attraction is there. And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.
That's just real life.
If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a bitch. You are lying to yourself.
No. I don’t cry in front of friends.click to expand
Good for you girl
Posted by tizianiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by tiziani
shoulder crying seems deeper than sex to me.
How bout shoulder crying while getting deep dick.
Like the commercial, "Priceless."
LOL
damn that seems kind of tragic to be real.
I dunno personally I just don't think I could get over someone shoulder crying to someone else, whereas sex doesn't affect me like that. But I'm a low sexed person in general.click to expand
now you've got me paranoid about this shoulder crying thing lol....need to ask the Sag what her official number is on that...
Posted by justagirlPosted by Sag898
And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.
That's just real life.
If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a bitch. You are lying to yourself.
Nope, I have respect for a thing called boundaries. I would never hit on a man of my female friends or have sex with them, and no amount of drugs/drinking etc would change that.
Also, a male friend as a shoulder to cry on is far different than having sex with him.click to expand
Why are you friends with your female friends boyfriends? how is that having boundaries?
If you cry to another man when your relationship is in trouble, I feel bad for your boyfriend
My dude has a lot of female friends and I’m cool with all of them. Doesn’t bother me.
(Though he’s a double standard having ass cause he eradicated every male friend from my life)
I will admit I did get weird about this once.
She was a Sag too...I really liked her...we became pretty close ourselves ...but idk 😒
I have a hard time explaining what my problem was exactly. Lol
I think some of the things she said rubbed me the wrong way and I felt she was actually really into him and wanted more and was envious of our relationship.
And it’s not that I didn’t trust him...he’s never given me any reason not to...but I just didn’t like her getting that type of attention from him. It got weird. Like I felt I was sharing my boyfriend and got possessive and whiny about it. Let’s just say I did not like the side that brought out in me
I didn’t say “you can’t be friends with her” or anything like that, but he was picking up what I was putting down I guess because he kind of phased her out on his own.
He probably initially enjoyed that I was showing signs of jealousy for once but in the end he was a good boyfriend and didn’t let me to feel that way
(Though he’s a double standard having ass cause he eradicated every male friend from my life)
I will admit I did get weird about this once.
She was a Sag too...I really liked her...we became pretty close ourselves ...but idk 😒
I have a hard time explaining what my problem was exactly. Lol
I think some of the things she said rubbed me the wrong way and I felt she was actually really into him and wanted more and was envious of our relationship.
And it’s not that I didn’t trust him...he’s never given me any reason not to...but I just didn’t like her getting that type of attention from him. It got weird. Like I felt I was sharing my boyfriend and got possessive and whiny about it. Let’s just say I did not like the side that brought out in me
I didn’t say “you can’t be friends with her” or anything like that, but he was picking up what I was putting down I guess because he kind of phased her out on his own.
He probably initially enjoyed that I was showing signs of jealousy for once but in the end he was a good boyfriend and didn’t let me to feel that way
Posted by tizianiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by tiziani
shoulder crying seems deeper than sex to me.
How bout shoulder crying while getting deep dick.
Like the commercial, "Priceless."
LOL
damn that seems kind of tragic to be real.
I dunno personally I just don't think I could get over someone shoulder crying to someone else, whereas sex doesn't affect me like that. But I'm a low sexed person in general.click to expand
“A shoulder to cry on becomes a dick to ride on “
That’s a quote straight from a Libra 🤷🏼♀️
Posted by FantamRoosterPosted by Sag898
It comes down to just " hope "
You have to hope your significant other respects you enough to not cheat emotionally or physically with a friend of the opposite sex.
Because the truth is most of the time attraction is there. And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.
That's just real life.
If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a bitch. You are lying to yourself.
That's different for different people. There are people who cannot have a platonic relationship with an attractive person without constantly fantasizing about having sex with them, and there are people who do not have that problem. I notice that people who have the problem assume everyone else is like them. I do think it's a problem, a flaw in character, if you will, to not be able to put sexual feelings aside and see other more important and valid reasons to value a person, even if you're NOT in a relationship. It's self control just like any other mind over matter issue.click to expand
I don't need male friends and I have none. They can't relate to me in a deep way because they are a different gender.
I have aquatinces and that's it. Which are usually built from work or activities I would never call them a friend.
Posted by tizianiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by tiziani
shoulder crying seems deeper than sex to me.
How bout shoulder crying while getting deep dick.
Like the commercial, "Priceless."
LOL
damn that seems kind of tragic to be real.
I dunno personally I just don't think I could get over someone shoulder crying to someone else, whereas sex doesn't affect me like that. But I'm a low sexed person in general.click to expand
I'm sure you seen in a movie Tiz.
But, I agree... neither affect me. LOL. It'll probably be.... hmmm, a loss of respect. Then, you have to wonder what you did. Or, is she neurotic? Neurotics are exhausting. Seen some movies where the man just doesn't give a damn any more and would just close the door... which makes her more neurotic.
Posted by brianafayPosted by tizianiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by tiziani
shoulder crying seems deeper than sex to me.
How bout shoulder crying while getting deep dick.
Like the commercial, "Priceless."
LOL
damn that seems kind of tragic to be real.
I dunno personally I just don't think I could get over someone shoulder crying to someone else, whereas sex doesn't affect me like that. But I'm a low sexed person in general.
“A shoulder to cry on becomes a dick to ride on “
That’s a quote straight from a Libra 🤷🏼♀️click to expand
LMAO!!!
Posted by Haruuka
There is no such thing as “friends” between men and women, especially if you’re attractive person.
You see them as your friends and trust them, when actually they’re in love with you and wanna fk you.
I'm glad someone lives in reality!
Ooh I lied ...I got pissy on another occasion because this chick was asking him to help her hang her drapes and change her oil and shit
I was like bish get your own damn man 😡
Apparently I don’t like sharing manly favors 😂
I was like bish get your own damn man 😡
Apparently I don’t like sharing manly favors 😂
Posted by Caliope
I remember being 'interviewed' by a guy that was pursuing me. The first question he asked was if I had any male friends. He didn't want me to have any but he had several lady friends. lol
That’s because he was or has had sex with the women he considers “friends”.
Posted by Sag898Posted by justagirlPosted by Sag898
And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.
That's just real life.
If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a bitch. You are lying to yourself.
Nope, I have respect for a thing called boundaries. I would never hit on a man of my female friends or have sex with them, and no amount of drugs/drinking etc would change that.
Also, a male friend as a shoulder to cry on is far different than having sex with him.
Why are you friends with your female friends boyfriends? how is that having boundaries?
If you cry to another man when your relationship is in trouble, I feel bad for your boyfriendclick to expand
I have many married friend couples as well as friends in long term partnerships, and they are both my friends. Again, I respect the fact that's a friend, he's with someone, I won't cross that line, period, ever. You wrote that shit like an absolute and that it will happen and it's a fact, I'm stating you are wrong because no in fact not everyone will play the side chick or cheat just because they are friends with the opposite sex.
Cry about relationship troubles? naw. That stays between us. i misunderstood that part. also im an aqua we dont cry.
My dyslexia is out of control today, i think im going to stop posting 😢
Posted by brianafay
Ooh I lied ...I got pissy on another occasion because this chick was asking him to help her hang her drapes and change her oil and shit
I was like bish get your own damn man 😡
Apparently I don’t like sharing manly favors 😂
Service your love language too?
Posted by justagirlPosted by Sag898Posted by justagirlPosted by Sag898
And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.
That's just real life.
If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a bitch. You are lying to yourself.
Nope, I have respect for a thing called boundaries. I would never hit on a man of my female friends or have sex with them, and no amount of drugs/drinking etc would change that.
Also, a male friend as a shoulder to cry on is far different than having sex with him.
Why are you friends with your female friends boyfriends? how is that having boundaries?
If you cry to another man when your relationship is in trouble, I feel bad for your boyfriend
I have many married friend couples as well as friends in long term partnerships, and they are both my friends. Again, I respect the fact that's a friend, he's with someone, I won't cross that line, period, ever. You wrote that shit like an absolute and that it will happen and it's a fact, I'm stating you are wrong because no in fact not everyone with play the side chick or cheat just because they are friends with the opposite sex.
Cry about relationship troubles? naw. That stays between us. i misunderstood that part. also im an aqua we dont cry.
My dyslexia is out of control today, i think im going to stop posting 😢click to expand
I'm just saying it's so easy to go from 1 to 10 with people. You could get your friend's man and beer and he could think you like him. Someone's husband could touch your arm and you may feel weird about it. The thing is attraction is always going on and so is sexual energy you have to be very careful with it. That's all I mean. You never know what someone is thinking. And too assume all people have pure intentions all the time is naive.
Some do, some don't. It's no one's fault but it's human nature.
No crying? I like that in aqua's lol
Posted by tizianiPosted by Sag898Posted by tiziani
shoulder crying seems deeper than sex to me.
that's because it is babe
When was the last time you did?click to expand
* Leo moon * you know I'd never do that shit in public 😄 lion pride
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by brianafay
Ooh I lied ...I got pissy on another occasion because this chick was asking him to help her hang her drapes and change her oil and shit
I was like bish get your own damn man 😡
Apparently I don’t like sharing manly favors 😂
Service your love language too?click to expand
Apparently so 😏
That and quality time
So... as long as these friends of his don’t ask for too many man favors or take any attention away from me ...we Gucci lol
Posted by Sag898Posted by justagirlPosted by Sag898Posted by justagirlPosted by Sag898
And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.
That's just real life.
If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a bitch. You are lying to yourself.
Nope, I have respect for a thing called boundaries. I would never hit on a man of my female friends or have sex with them, and no amount of drugs/drinking etc would change that.
Also, a male friend as a shoulder to cry on is far different than having sex with him.
Why are you friends with your female friends boyfriends? how is that having boundaries?
If you cry to another man when your relationship is in trouble, I feel bad for your boyfriend
I have many married friend couples as well as friends in long term partnerships, and they are both my friends. Again, I respect the fact that's a friend, he's with someone, I won't cross that line, period, ever. You wrote that shit like an absolute and that it will happen and it's a fact, I'm stating you are wrong because no in fact not everyone with play the side chick or cheat just because they are friends with the opposite sex.
Cry about relationship troubles? naw. That stays between us. i misunderstood that part. also im an aqua we dont cry.
My dyslexia is out of control today, i think im going to stop posting 😢
I'm just saying it's so easy to go from 1 to 10 with people. You could get your friend's man and beer and he could think you like him. Someone's husband could touch your arm and you may feel weird about it. The thing is attraction is always going on and so is sexual energy you have to be very careful with it. That's all I mean. You never know what someone is thinking. And too assume all people have pure intentions all the time is naive.
Some do, some don't. It's no one's fault but it's human nature.
No crying? I like that in aqua's lolclick to expand
Goctha 🙂
Well I am naive lol and rarely if ever cry. hahahah
Posted by brianafayPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by brianafay
Ooh I lied ...I got pissy on another occasion because this chick was asking him to help her hang her drapes and change her oil and shit
I was like bish get your own damn man 😡
Apparently I don’t like sharing manly favors 😂
Service your love language too?
Apparently so 😏
That and quality time
So... as long as these friends of his don’t ask for too many man favors or take any attention away from me ...we Gucci lolclick to expand
LOL!!
Mine is service. Not so much time but, time is his love language...quality or not, lol. I used to say please go outside and find somebody to play with. Those were the early years where I had to adjust.
Posted by ellesbelles
*randome thought* I've been hit on more by strangers than friends.
I dont know about anyone else but I dont fuck my friends. That would be really awkward afterwards.
What kind of friends do you have where that is even a thought?
I think along the same lines as you. Friends are friends. Guess just weird that way.
Posted by ellesbelles
*randome thought* I've been hit on more by strangers than friends.
I dont know about anyone else but I dont fuck my friends. That would be really awkward afterwards.
What kind of friends do you have where that is even a thought?
Some people’s adorable personalities are just too much to resist I guess 💁🏼♀️Lol
I mean I would literally make myself as undesirable as possible ...picking my nose and flicking boogers on them...discussing bowel movements,etc ...and a few still tried to date me.
Dropped on their heads
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