Giving up on my crush

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Same here, even though we were in a full blown relationship. Cap started retreating and acting weird, so I cut the cord before I got my feelings hurt anymore.

I'm learning to let go these days....

He kept trying to hang out so for that I felt bad. It's been almost 2 weeks since last contact. And it's been a rollercoaster of emotions. The first month was the hardest. This my first true relationship and heartbreak.

He said I'm not really heartbroken,so IDK WTF that means. I still love him.

I decided to move because there's too many memories here in the apartment.

When I move and get settled in, I will start dating again, im too young to shut all the way down.

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Same here, even though we were in a full blown relationship. Cap started retreating and acting weird, so I cut the cord before I got my feelings hurt anymore.

I'm learning to let go these days....

He kept trying to hang out so for that I felt bad. It's been almost 2 weeks since last contact. And it's been a rollercoaster of emotions. The first month was the hardest. This my first true relationship and heartbreak.

He said I'm not really heartbroken,so IDK WTF that means. I still love him.

I decided to move because there's too many memories here in the apartment.

When I move and get settled in, I will start dating again, im too young to shut all the way down.


Life goes on. You’ll find someone to treat you right 🙂 big hugs 🤗
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Thank you. He was great, but I'll live...and to clarify he thinks I'm NOT heart broken. When I said I was hurt he told me he doesn't think I am and then came over to smooth things out. My Leo ex said the same thing. They think I fake emotions WTF 🤔
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Posted by miriyahhh
Same here, even though we were in a full blown relationship. Cap started retreating and acting weird, so I cut the cord before I got my feelings hurt anymore.

I'm learning to let go these days....

He kept trying to hang out so for that I felt bad. It's been almost 2 weeks since last contact. And it's been a rollercoaster of emotions. The first month was the hardest. This my first true relationship and heartbreak.

He said I'm not really heartbroken,so IDK WTF that means. I still love him.

I decided to move because there's too many memories here in the apartment.

When I move and get settled in, I will start dating again, im too young to shut all the way down.


Keep the faith for both of us
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Crush? What’s that? I only have obsessions.

But yeah. Gave up on it last year. He still roams my mental pathways time to time though.

I’ve never known you to surrender a crush tho DMV. Scorpio moon learning how to retire finally? 😉
Yeah

This is new for me.

Usually I circle for months but I'm tired of being told no or getting no interest/passion back.

I learned, I much rather be emotionally content than emotionally confused.

I prefer myself better when my emotions aren't clouded by "perceived interest."

Well, "perceived" anything nowadays.

I'm done guessing or wondering or letting my fantasies get carried away.

I rather live in the KNOWN
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I sent a final message, well not really, I will reach out on his birthday but then I'm done. I don't like the unkown, so I'm just gonna leave it at that and pretend to move on lol

I was actually thinking this exactly lol yet month has passed since birthday and I still haven't done it lol
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That's why I said I will PRETEND to move on! 😆
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I'm just so sick of unrequited love.

36 years of unrequited love.

Granted I didn't start dating till 18.

But still.


I'm sorry to hear that you have been sitting in the same boat as me.

I hope your Sagittarius luck is going to kick in from now and for the rest of your life.
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I wish you some luck too, with coming into your feels and dealing with them accordingly 🙂

I love the feeling of being in love so I will punish myself and let it fester a little. I won't move on until someone else can get my interest. That's the worst part cause I'm so freaking picky!
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I'm just kicking my wounds right now.







It is painful reading this thread tbh.

I always liked you cuz of strong opinions, not afraid of voicing them, a little fighter. 😄









We are owning our heartaches! lol We all should be so brave and do this! 🙂





It is painful reading this thread tbh.

I always liked you cuz of strong opinions, not afraid of voicing them, a little fighter. 😄





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We are owning our heartaches! lol We all should be so brave and do this! 🙂
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I'm just kicking my wounds right now.







It is painful reading this thread tbh.

I always liked you cuz of strong opinions, not afraid of voicing them, a little fighter. 😄









Haha trust I almost didn't write it.



Ppl need to know that they're not alone.





It is painful reading this thread tbh.

I always liked you cuz of strong opinions, not afraid of voicing them, a little fighter. 😄





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Haha trust I almost didn't write it.



Ppl need to know that they're not alone.
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Same here, even though we were in a full blown relationship. Cap started retreating and acting weird, so I cut the cord before I got my feelings hurt anymore.

I'm learning to let go these days....

He kept trying to hang out so for that I felt bad. It's been almost 2 weeks since last contact. And it's been a rollercoaster of emotions. The first month was the hardest. This my first true relationship and heartbreak.

He said I'm not really heartbroken,so IDK WTF that means. I still love him.

I decided to move because there's too many memories here in the apartment.

When I move and get settled in, I will start dating again, im too young to shut all the way down.


Keep the faith for both of us

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I remain hopeful for the future. Though, some days I don't think I'll make it through. Feels like crippling depression😔
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Yeah gave up on mine 3 months ago saw him this past Saturday acted like i didn't see him and carried on
I'm convinced the love of your life is going to be a Capricorn 😈
Why? They're annoying and hypocritical
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Bcoz every cap I know especially male raves about cancer women 🙄annoyingly obsessed
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Same here, even though we were in a full blown relationship. Cap started retreating and acting weird, so I cut the cord before I got my feelings hurt anymore.

I'm learning to let go these days....

He kept trying to hang out so for that I felt bad. It's been almost 2 weeks since last contact. And it's been a rollercoaster of emotions. The first month was the hardest. This my first true relationship and heartbreak.

He said I'm not really heartbroken,so IDK WTF that means. I still love him.

I decided to move because there's too many memories here in the apartment.

When I move and get settled in, I will start dating again, im too young to shut all the way down.


Life goes on. You’ll find someone to treat you right 🙂 big hugs 🤗


Thank you. He was great, but I'll live...and to clarify he thinks I'm NOT heart broken. When I said I was hurt he told me he doesn't think I am and then came over to smooth things out. My Leo ex said the same thing. They think I fake emotions WTF 🤔


Omg!!!! Those Caps it takes so much for them to believe you! It is driving me crazy too. Leo’s too btw.. it took forever for a Leo to believe I liked him. Well to be fair I used to blow him off lol. But the Cap omg they always think the worst is going to happen. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

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You truly make me feel a tad bit better. Bcz though Its my decision. On the other side I remained extremely doubtful....
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Yeah gave up on mine 3 months ago saw him this past Saturday acted like i didn't see him and carried on
I'm convinced the love of your life is going to be a Capricorn 😈
Why? They're annoying and hypocritical
Bcoz every cap I know especially male raves about cancer women 🙄annoyingly obsessed

Cancer-Cap hate is special bond actually. They can't stand each other for whatever reason. I mentioned in some thread before playing with 2 Caps and how they would fight one another if things go bad and then there was this Cancer guy...God how 3 of them could fight, that was some serious shit lol then Caps will unite against him, literally bought of them have fought with this Cancer guy every single time about something...had to calm them down every time somehow and it's difficult cause I'm actually very good with all 3 of them so can't pick a side and stay completely neutral but calm them all lol

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Maybe I mean to say cap male cancer fem. Though I know 2 cap fem and cancer males relationships that are really steady

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Dead end conversations

No signs of interest

Anybody else giving up on their crush?


How did you crashed in THAT?
Sorry I didn't get your question
Why did you even fell for him on a first place?
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He's attractive, a creator, and...he's missing fingers on one of his hand.

I found that extremely sexy and alluring.

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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by DMV
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by DMV
Dead end conversations

No signs of interest

Anybody else giving up on their crush?


How did you crashed in THAT?
Sorry I didn't get your question
Why did you even fell for him on a first place?
He's attractive, a creator, and...he's missing fingers on one of his hand.

I found that extremely sexy and alluring.



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That's actually really creepy
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by DMV
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by DMV
Dead end conversations

No signs of interest

Anybody else giving up on their crush?


How did you crashed in THAT?
Sorry I didn't get your question
Why did you even fell for him on a first place?
He's attractive, a creator, and...he's missing fingers on one of his hand.

I found that extremely sexy and alluring.



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So it’s just went downhill? Sorry...
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That's OK. There is more to life than (romantic) love and sex (with another person). Family, friends, hobbies, life goals, professional success, music, film, art, travel, shopping, pampering, pets, neighbours, discussion groups, internet......you name it.

Most likely the subject of your affection/crush/obsession knows how you feel, and is happy for you to inflate his ego, but nothing more......

Avoid him, or treat him like any other acquaintance, if you bump into him.