ways a man can cheat?

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watching porn??

or worse??

have you all seen this scene?





what other ways can a man cheat?

1) being late at work all the time

2) hanging out at the clubs with the guys and never take you

3) watching lots of porn?

4) oogling the supermarket girl? and sliding her the phone number, the secret phone number?

5) getting up in the middle of the night and calling your mistress, then later tell your wife, or girlfriend you're gonna go on a business trip or some kind of important trip and it's in reality a trip with your mistress?

6) or be open about it, and just tell her you want to do the "Wonder woman" trilogy.
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1) being late at work all the time

What if poor guy actually working? Ever thought of that? Specially if you bitch keep asking for things—

2) hanging out at the clubs with the guys and never take you

Maybe his friends hate your nagging ass and asking him NOT to bring you—

3) watching lots of porn?

Learning how to please you so you would actually stop bringing up your ex who was better in bed?



4) oogling the supermarket girl? and sliding her the phone number, the secret phone number?

You are doomed! Face it...he is moving on. Get pregnant and make his life miserable! So is your own...



5) getting up in the middle of the night and calling your mistress, then later tell your wife, or girlfriend you're gonna go on a business trip or some kind of important trip and it's in reality a trip with your mistress?

So it’s your problem! You are jealous that he has a mistress and you missing a Master! Get one! Are you ugly or what—

Then...let him go and be happy if he returns...to you!



6) or be open about it, and just tell her you want to do the "Wonder woman" trilogy.

Awesome! If you up to it. But packing his shit and throwing him out is an option unless you live in HIS house and you don’t feel like you can survive in your own - put up and be his...whatever your place in a group. And don’t forget to make group breakfast after. For all being involved!

You welcome! Happy New Fucking Year!!!

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Posted by OCJack
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What kind of insecure broad thinks porn is cheating?

Men need variety. Better to get it through fantasy than reality.

No they don't, this is a lie. You really do not understand men if you think this. It's WOMEN who get bored easily and always need variety in things and gotta change into a billion different outfits, habits, men, etc over the course of their life. Men are black and white and 1 track minded because of Testosterone. We are vastly more stagnant, bent on routines, repitition and cycles, etc.

You're just trying to come up with a reason men cheat that makes sense to yourself. It's a woman who eventually feels like she needs something new if she's had the same old same old for however long. Men cheat simply because of lack of inhibition. If it was variety, a guy wouldn't cheat on their lover with a woman who looks very similar to her. Yet it happens all the time, implying it just simply has nothing to do with difference at all.

It's just a matter of, he's horny and she's around him enough. Guys who are "pussy driven" as I call it. Getting laid is just that significant to them

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We live in a day and age where you can download an app and with some swipes and minimal effort you can meet up and fuck a stranger.

Trying to control or manage someone is kinda pointless. Even if he works his 9-5 and comes straight home to you...doesn’t mean he’s not cheating. He could meet up with his thot on his lunch break for all you know. If he wants to, he will find away.

Better to use your energy to build something real between the two of you. No sense in worrying about what ifs. The truth always comes to light anyways.
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As far as "porn" goes. What if I just don't want to have sex? I always see this shit about how "if he doesn't get it from you..." but it's bullshit because that just furthers the stereotype that a guy is consumed by sexual intercourse. Like it's his all consuming purpose, his penultimate focus in life that trumps everything else.

Granted there are guys like that. But to me guys like that are just completely worthless retards. They have nothing better to do with their time. So 90% of the time they are chasing pussy. But what if a guy just doesn't think sex is all that it's cracked up to be? What if he would rather read a book or work out or even as far as spending time with you goes he'd rather cuddle and talk and go places, etc? What if Sex isn't even on his mind much at all?

If anything, if a guy is masterbating to porn. He's not having sex with someone else. So it's the exact opposite. Granted he's not having sex with YOU. But really I think YOU gotta stop and analyze your own character if that bothers you so much. Ask if maybe Lust has too much control over you.
Arthritis will eventually creep out on you...

And then you will do WHAT? Bite your hands that can’t grab your peepee?

Ouch!
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Besides porn isn’t cheating!

If you haven’t watched porn with your man, then that’s not even your man! 🤣
No kidding...lmao

Lots of impotents thinking of porn as a treat to their abilities...like ‘she wants me to be like him’...that’s why all this shit happening! Forget bozos...🥂
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lol@gemitati



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spoilers on the film...





he tells her, "I was just checking on my prostate" lmao



she's super cool about it, and thought it was just normal porn..

but it's paid web cam girl !! and the girl says, "who are you??"

the wife goes, "huh?!! i'm his wife!"


Urghhhh...don’t predict my future!!!

Paleeze...🙏🏻
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lol



she says....



"This feels like.... CHEATING."

then he is ...no this is mainstream stuff you know.. " lmao!!!

"how long have you been doing this?"

"oh just recently"

the girl in the webcam goes "10 months ..."

WHAT!!!!

he was paying her for 10 months of LIVE interaction.



I told my husband...."LOOK! i want you to see this."
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Posted by OCJack
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As far as "porn" goes. What if I just don't want to have sex? I always see this shit about how "if he doesn't get it from you..." but it's bullshit because that just furthers the stereotype that a guy is consumed by sexual intercourse. Like it's his all consuming purpose, his penultimate focus in life that trumps everything else.

Granted there are guys like that. But to me guys like that are just completely worthless retards. They have nothing better to do with their time. So 90% of the time they are chasing pussy. But what if a guy just doesn't think sex is all that it's cracked up to be? What if he would rather read a book or work out or even as far as spending time with you goes he'd rather cuddle and talk and go places, etc? What if Sex isn't even on his mind much at all?

If anything, if a guy is masterbating to porn. He's not having sex with someone else. So it's the exact opposite. Granted he's not having sex with YOU. But really I think YOU gotta stop and analyze your own character if that bothers you so much. Ask if maybe Lust has too much control over you.
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ehhh....my man told me about the porn actresses he knows and wanted to share with me when we started dating long ago.

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What kind of insecure broad thinks porn is cheating?

Men need variety. Better to get it through fantasy than reality.

No they don't, this is a lie. You really do not understand men if you think this. It's WOMEN who get bored easily and always need variety in things and gotta change into a billion different outfits, habits, men, etc over the course of their life. Men are black and white and 1 track minded because of Testosterone. We are vastly more stagnant, bent on routines, repitition and cycles, etc.

You're just trying to come up with a reason men cheat that makes sense to yourself. It's a woman who eventually feels like she needs something new if she's had the same old same old for however long. Men cheat simply because of lack of inhibition. If it was variety, a guy wouldn't cheat on their lover with a woman who looks very similar to her. Yet it happens all the time, implying it just simply has nothing to do with difference at all.

It's just a matter of, he's horny and she's around him enough. Guys who are "pussy driven" as I call it. Getting laid is just that significant to them

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my man and his guy friends tell me, 'women cheat just as much as men, it's just they always show men cheating.."

like in Ashley Madison sites, it's mostly the men.
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I'm only concerned with two types of cheating.

1. He sticks his penis in her vagina.

2. He is emotionally invested in another woman while claiming to be in love with me.

I may eventually be able to forgive and be friends for number 1. I will never forgive number 2, he'd be dead to me after.
that's what alot of women have done...



two examples,

1)Sharon Osbourne turned a blind eye for years, keeping the status between them, because well, that's her husband Ozzy, she's invested so much ...emotionally and her many years and child bearing and rearing, cleaning up after him...she figures as long as he doesnt get emotionally involved..

2)Jeri Hall, beautiful supermodel in her early years with Mick Jagger, he cheated for years.

but she went for a really really old billionaire guy. i can't imagine it's about sex with them.

it's about comfort and security.
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What kind of insecure broad thinks porn is cheating?

Men need variety. Better to get it through fantasy than reality.

No they don't, this is a lie. You really do not understand men if you think this. It's WOMEN who get bored easily and always need variety in things and gotta change into a billion different outfits, habits, men, etc over the course of their life. Men are black and white and 1 track minded because of Testosterone. We are vastly more stagnant, bent on routines, repitition and cycles, etc.

You're just trying to come up with a reason men cheat that makes sense to yourself. It's a woman who eventually feels like she needs something new if she's had the same old same old for however long. Men cheat simply because of lack of inhibition. If it was variety, a guy wouldn't cheat on their lover with a woman who looks very similar to her. Yet it happens all the time, implying it just simply has nothing to do with difference at all.

It's just a matter of, he's horny and she's around him enough. Guys who are "pussy driven" as I call it. Getting laid is just that significant to them




Amen to this. Why the fuck is this thread even on The Man Cave?

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someone will eventually make a topic on how women cheat in the powder room ect. for fairness sake.
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ehhh....my man told me about the porn actresses he knows and wanted to share with me when we started dating long ago.

Personally I think guys who have a regard for SPECIFIC porn actresses are just weird lol. I'm just tryin to fap here, it doesn't matter who I'm fappin to as long as she's hot.

Btw my original post was mostly rhetorical. I actually have beastly desires lustwise, even with as much self control as I have. I just usually aint that interested in most chicks, until I find that 1 that I just wanna tear her clothes off ravage her ass lol
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i was weirded out when my man showed me a couple porn actresses that had similar looks to me. (actually only one in particular) among the hundreds, the others he thinks are blah..BORING does nothing.

i was...eww.

omg. this is TMI.

but he is very VERY specific.



also.....i would be weirded out more if a guy jacked off to every woman lmao

he would probably border to other weird ass stuff.
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I'm only concerned with two types of cheating.

1. He sticks his penis in her vagina.

2. He is emotionally invested in another woman while claiming to be in love with me.

I may eventually be able to forgive and be friends for number 1. I will never forgive number 2, he'd be dead to me after.
that's what alot of women have done...



two examples,

1)Sharon Osbourne turned a blind eye for years, keeping the status between them, because well, that's her husband Ozzy, she's invested so much ...emotionally and her many years and child bearing and rearing, cleaning up after him...she figures as long as he doesnt get emotionally involved..

2)Jeri Hall, beautiful supermodel in her early years with Mick Jagger, he cheated for years.

but she went for a really really old billionaire guy. i can't imagine it's about sex with them.

it's about comfort and security.

I couldn't put up with the physical cheating. I'm very possesive. But I may eventually forgive after the relationship ended and be able to be friends. Emotional cheating hurts more because I'm an all in type of person. Don't treat me second rate when I make you number 1.

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i wouldnt want either. Emotional OR physical. i dont want any of that. because physical contact can cause emotional. People aren't robots unless he is a psycopath.\\

(or they are getting paid for it) but i think you have to be a certain way to be that way...

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ehhh....my man told me about the porn actresses he knows and wanted to share with me when we started dating long ago.

Personally I think guys who have a regard for SPECIFIC porn actresses are just weird lol. I'm just tryin to fap here, it doesn't matter who I'm fappin to as long as she's hot.

Btw my original post was mostly rhetorical. I actually have beastly desires lustwise, even with as much self control as I have. I just usually aint that interested in most chicks, until I find that 1 that I just wanna tear her clothes off ravage her ass lol
i was weirded out when my man showed me a couple porn actresses that had similar looks to me. (actually only one in particular) among the hundreds, the others he thinks are blah..BORING does nothing.

i was...eww.

omg. this is TMI.

but he is very VERY specific.



also.....i would be weirded out more if a guy jacked off to every woman lmao

he would probably border to other weird ass stuff.
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No that’s good. It reaffirms his desire for you. Your his type.

I’d really only be concerned if I found my guy watching solely tranny porn or obese porn or etc. etc...you know something so far removed from what I can give him.

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I'm only concerned with two types of cheating.

1. He sticks his penis in her vagina.

2. He is emotionally invested in another woman while claiming to be in love with me.

I may eventually be able to forgive and be friends for number 1. I will never forgive number 2, he'd be dead to me after.
So goin to the strip club and paying for mouth parties in the vip is still on the table? Your much more generous than me...
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I'm only concerned with two types of cheating.

1. He sticks his penis in her vagina.

2. He is emotionally invested in another woman while claiming to be in love with me.

I may eventually be able to forgive and be friends for number 1. I will never forgive number 2, he'd be dead to me after.
So goin to the strip club and paying for mouth parties in the vip is still on the table? Your much more generous than me...

Was that on the list? I missed it.

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Oh your talking Liz’s list. I read this as your two non negotiables.
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What kind of insecure broad thinks porn is cheating?

Men need variety. Better to get it through fantasy than reality.

No they don't, this is a lie. You really do not understand men if you think this. It's WOMEN who get bored easily and always need variety in things and gotta change into a billion different outfits, habits, men, etc over the course of their life. Men are black and white and 1 track minded because of Testosterone. We are vastly more stagnant, bent on routines, repitition and cycles, etc.

You're just trying to come up with a reason men cheat that makes sense to yourself. It's a woman who eventually feels like she needs something new if she's had the same old same old for however long. Men cheat simply because of lack of inhibition. If it was variety, a guy wouldn't cheat on their lover with a woman who looks very similar to her. Yet it happens all the time, implying it just simply has nothing to do with difference at all.

It's just a matter of, he's horny and she's around him enough. Guys who are "pussy driven" as I call it. Getting laid is just that significant to them




Amen to this. Why the fuck is this thread even on The Man Cave?


someone will eventually make a topic on how women cheat in the powder room ect. for fairness sake.


That doesn't make it right, plus it will probably be a woman who makes the thread and it will be all about how effective and righteous a woman is when she cheats on her man.
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lol
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What kind of insecure broad thinks porn is cheating?

Men need variety. Better to get it through fantasy than reality.
I agree. Plus porn is educational. It teaches new moves and positions.
I have never been cat-fished or kitten-fished ...

I thank my porn stash for that! 😆
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lol i was just thinking...

would guys get all emotional with the web cam girls you pay $ $ for? after many months everyday talking to her nude,

what if her internet connection breaks and you have withdrawals?? lol
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-say you're going to walk the dog, have a quickie in the street

-go to the gas station, have sex in the public restroom, don't forget to actually fill the tank

-pretend you're playing a VR videogame -> it's actually cyber sex

-put a very well crafted mannequin in your image in the bed and go out while your wife asleep

-inception

-tell your first wife you have a day job, tell your second wife you have a night job -> you are actually rich and don't need to work
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Take big risks, fail big then no need for cheating.

The dudes I've seen go through a massive hooker phase were playing it too safe with everything.
Playing too safe in which ways Tiz?

Emotionally ?
emotionally yes, every way possible.

Looking for validation in the same old ways.

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The look in his eyes.........somehow he missed the point.
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Posted by tiziani
Take big risks, fail big then no need for cheating.

The dudes I've seen go through a massive hooker phase were playing it too safe with everything.
wow like they've been raised religious or strict or something.

i find if a guy is raised in a free atmosphere, he doesn't need that and isn't so pent up about it.

alot of serial killers end up being crazy sex and obsessive about stuff cause of their super strict upbringing. (i was thinking of Jeffrey Dahmer) and many other serial killers who had a strict childhood.

Ted Bundy had a religious chldhood...but he went crazy on the women spree killing.



or just normal guys who are brought up religiuosly, and then watch gay porn cause they were told that being gay is bad, but they were always gay. just an example..

or another type of guy like the one you mentioned, who goes on hooker sprees...cause he was raised like he couldn't have any.
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-say you're going to walk the dog, have a quickie in the street

-go to the gas station, have sex in the public restroom, don't forget to actually fill the tank

-pretend you're playing a VR videogame -> it's actually cyber sex

-put a very well crafted mannequin in your image in the bed and go out while your wife asleep

-inception

-tell your first wife you have a day job, tell your second wife you have a night job -> you are actually rich and don't need to work


sounds like a lot of work.

exhausting.
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Ive a friend who is with a guy who she loves but can't stand having sex with him....they are very close but not sexually, he has a huge sex drive so visits prostitute. She accepts it and is happy because he is getting some
that's nice she lets him.

must be alot of money to put aside for prostitution costs.

i dont like men with too much of a giant sex drive...it means they can't control themselves.

i like a balance, a man with alot of blood going to his head too (his brain)
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1) being late at work all the time

What if poor guy actually working? Ever thought of that? Specially if you bitch keep asking for things—

2) hanging out at the clubs with the guys and never take you

Maybe his friends hate your nagging ass and asking him NOT to bring you—

3) watching lots of porn?

Learning how to please you so you would actually stop bringing up your ex who was better in bed?



4) oogling the supermarket girl? and sliding her the phone number, the secret phone number?

You are doomed! Face it...he is moving on. Get pregnant and make his life miserable! So is your own...



5) getting up in the middle of the night and calling your mistress, then later tell your wife, or girlfriend you're gonna go on a business trip or some kind of important trip and it's in reality a trip with your mistress?

So it’s your problem! You are jealous that he has a mistress and you missing a Master! Get one! Are you ugly or what—

Then...let him go and be happy if he returns...to you!



6) or be open about it, and just tell her you want to do the "Wonder woman" trilogy.

Awesome! If you up to it. But packing his shit and throwing him out is an option unless you live in HIS house and you don’t feel like you can survive in your own - put up and be his...whatever your place in a group. And don’t forget to make group breakfast after. For all being involved!

You welcome! Happy New Fucking Year!!!

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Pretty much this

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-say you're going to walk the dog, have a quickie in the street

-go to the gas station, have sex in the public restroom, don't forget to actually fill the tank

-pretend you're playing a VR videogame -> it's actually cyber sex

-put a very well crafted mannequin in your image in the bed and go out while your wife asleep

-inception

-tell your first wife you have a day job, tell your second wife you have a night job -> you are actually rich and don't need to work


sounds like a lot of work.

exhausting.
Lol, indeed. I can't even understand people who cheat. Are they not exhausted having to lie and keep up with their lies?

Man...I would just leave if I no longer feel happy in the relationship rather than have to go through all those hassle.

I've seen my ex did some stupid things and sometimes when I think about it, it's funny.

1. He told me he's having a meeting with his boss but I overheard him telling his other chick that he's on his way.

2. He told me he will be working overtime, but a friend saw him at the club holding hands with his side chick. He came back later at night pretending to look all tired like he was really, really busy working. Just lol.

3. He changed all of his side chicks name on his phone so it looks like men were texting him but which guy friend will text his friend, why you doing this to me when you knew I love you so much? Again, I lol.

It's easy to detect bs from men, tbh. At that time, when he cheated on me non stop, I have already check out emotionally, so it no longer hurts. I was just observing and waiting for the right time to react.

Men, smh!
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it's exhausting just to get up in the morning, shower, brush teeth, pee, put conditioner on, brush hair, fart, go make breakfast, break eggs scramble, put on the coffee, wait for coffee, get a tissue to blow nose, go wash hands, put toast in the toaster,

get your family up and ready.

i'm tired just for the mornings.

i guess they have alot of energy.