
RumiLove
@RumiL
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Posted by Arielle83Nice...its cute! 🙂
I had jean seberg hair from 15 to 18

Posted by tizianiTiziani, how long is your hair??
It's a good thing she has very long hair otherwise my own hair would be the most gender-bending thing in our relationship.



Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Because if your job, FDTW?? 🙂
I just chopped most of my hair , I had too though..


Posted by RumiLNo because it was too damaged I am afraid. I had a mid life crisis woman I wanted to go Britney Spears on yall.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Because if your job, FDTW?? 🙂
I just chopped most of my hair , I had too though..
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428There's this shampoo - for horses that seems to do miracle for some people:Posted by RumiLNo because it was too damaged I am afraid. I had a mid life crisis woman I wanted to go Britney Spears on yall.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Because if your job, FDTW?? 🙂
I just chopped most of my hair , I had too though..
I have natural curly hair and I usually wear it up at work.click to expand

Posted by nevesOh I've heard of it and was thinking about it. Thanks for the information.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428There's this shampoo - for horses that seems to do miracle for some people:Posted by RumiLNo because it was too damaged I am afraid. I had a mid life crisis woman I wanted to go Britney Spears on yall.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Because if your job, FDTW?? 🙂
I just chopped most of my hair , I had too though..
I have natural curly hair and I usually wear it up at work.
https://www.amazon.com/Mane-Tail-Shampoo-Conditioner-32-Ounce/dp/B0046KG8DS?ie=UTF8&ref_=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top
And no, this is not a joke. 🙂 As the story goes, some horse owners - were really surprise to see how well it worked on the mane of their horse - and decided to try it on their own hair as well. And it turn-up to be an inspired decision - cause it had the same effect (faster hair growth, more volume and healthier looking). One of them was probbaly a Gemini, cause it shared this discovery with others - and from there on - more and more people try it and praised it for its efficiency. If you check YouTube by typing "Mane 'N Tail" in the search bar - you'll find tons of reviews where it's praised for same thing.
There's even "after months/years of using this product" type of reviews. So, it's not like in a commercials - where they probably selected a model whom happen to have great hair - even prior to trying their product (+the CGI effects added).
Though, it doesn't seem to have the same results on everybody. Different individuals, different hair types - so i suppose there's some who have an incompatible hair type (of something like that). There's no research - to see why it doesn't work that minority - but it seems to work for many people. So, hey - you could try it and hopefully you're one of the lucky ones. You're a Taurus too - and bulls are not that far from Horses. ^^click to expand


Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428The price seems fair on this product (quite affordable), and if it works as praised - it should be a bargain. You'd get more than what you pay for - compared to some commercial product - that's quite expensive and yet - doesn't work for everybody either (usually praised by some hairstylist).
I also did the Brazilian blow out didn't last more than a year. But it helped straighten my hair out, it's expensive and it damaged my hair too.

Posted by nevesThanks for the warning and thoughts to help me out in my mid life crises.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428The price seems fair on this product (quite affordable), and if it works as praised - it should be a bargain. You'd get more than what you pay for - compared to some commercial product - that's quite expensive and yet - doesn't work for everybody either (usually praised by some hairstylist).
I also did the Brazilian blow out didn't last more than a year. But it helped straighten my hair out, it's expensive and it damaged my hair too.
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Posted by dayspaYou used it?
i remember mane n tail being a bit strong/ harsh.
https://www.amazon.com/Andalou-Naturals-Defying-Shampoo-Argan/dp/B006RHI142


Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428You're welcome. ^^Posted by nevesThanks for the warning and thoughts to help me out in my mid life crises.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428The price seems fair on this product (quite affordable), and if it works as praised - it should be a bargain. You'd get more than what you pay for - compared to some commercial product - that's quite expensive and yet - doesn't work for everybody either (usually praised by some hairstylist).
I also did the Brazilian blow out didn't last more than a year. But it helped straighten my hair out, it's expensive and it damaged my hair too.
I would buy it if it was tested on animals and worked well for 90 percent of testers. I read reviews and ratings I will not except nothing more than 3 stars...click to expand


Posted by ElleDuMondeThey call this love at first sight. ^^
I.cannot.stop.staring.at.Tiziani.
someone please yank we away from monitor!

Posted by cheekyfaerieMohawks seem to trendy this days. ^^
I can vouch for the Mane & Tail stuff. My Tall One cut hers super short and, when she got ready to grow it out, it was taking forever. She was freakin out cause it usually grows really fast and is super thick. She tried all kindsa stuff, even prenatal vitamins. The Mane & Tail's what finally made a difference.
I've had short hair more than long hair. It's ungodly thick so it gets SO hot and heavy. Eventually there comes a summer where I get so tired of ponytail headaches that it just has to go. Currently sporting a Mohawk. It's just hair. It grows back.

Posted by tizianiPosted by RumiLLol overnight afros, probably hard to tell how long here. Don't revoke my Powder Room card just yet.Posted by tizianiTiziani, how long is your hair??
It's a good thing she has very long hair otherwise my own hair would be the most gender-bending thing in our relationship.
Is L'Oreal still showing its magic? :p
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Posted by cheekyfaerieFrom a punk kid to a sexy secretary outfit... People change so much. ^^
And I was a punk kid who was always attracted to androgyny. My wardrobe runs the gamut from sexy secretary to 12yo boy.

Posted by ElleDuMondeI see. That makes sense. 🙂Posted by nevesI have scorpio rising.....so, creepy stare, it is 😄Posted by ElleDuMondeThey call this love at first sight. ^^
I.cannot.stop.staring.at.Tiziani.
someone please yank we away from monitor!
And since "you're a focus enthusiast" - i guess that's what they call a long term first sight. 😄
...while other call it - the creepy stare. 😱click to expand

Posted by K_1018Not what I heard supposed to be permanent. Oh well it damaged my hair alittle bit and now I need Mane and Tail . Thanks for the tip too.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Brazilian blowout is really only supposed to last 3-4 months. Sometimes people can stretch it out further, there are some better straightening treatments out there though. We use one at my salon and it works amazing and the hair is so healthy after, but all our products are plant derived so maybe that's why it keeps the integrity of the hair.
The price of the shampoo is alot cheaper the Brazilian blow out cost 140. Lol. It didn't work like I mentioned. I mean barely 6 months for that. I wasn't happy.click to expand

Posted by cheekyfaerieYeah, i noticed... the cyclical part. We all do - one way or the other (the hard way - that is). If only one could tell - where one cycle begins and where the others ends. Though, a facet only dies out - if it's at a loss of purpose (if it's not useful to you anymore). If you let it die out - if you let it go (sometimes you're forced to do so - by certain events from your life - where change seems the only way to go, while other times it's a matter of choice - if it starts to feel like a drag... like a song you used to like - but now it plays only the background - a song that's stuck on repeat). Oversaturated... as you put it. Then there's those facets that become another layer - and you don't even know why - but they seem relevant for some reason. So you keep them around - like a favorite piece of clothing, one that seems to be out of fashion (not in tune with your current tastes) - but who knows, maybe one day... you'll wear it with pride again. Does ring a bell... maybe even a funeral bell - for the ones that are no longer with us. And yet... they used to be a part of us. Hahaha!Posted by nevesYou're right tho. Outside of the classics, everything's cyclical. It's gotta get oversaturated and played out so it can die off, lay low and then become popular again.Posted by cheekyfaerieFrom a punk kid to a sexy secretary outfit... People change so much. ^^
And I was a punk kid who was always attracted to androgyny. My wardrobe runs the gamut from sexy secretary to 12yo boy.click to expand



Posted by Chance_11ANY hairstyle only really works if you have a pretty face lol
Like dreads, short hair only really works if you have a pretty face. It's a nice way to accentuate.



Posted by cheekyfaerie😄! But... Rumi has Scorpio Moon. She might look harmless from the outside - but she's really dangerous when she gets mad. I mean, when that happens - the ones in question disappear and nobody seems to know what happened to them - nor do we hear from them again. ° JK! She's a sweet kid (or maybe i'm just saying that - cause i'm afraid)! ^^
@neves
Personal style has a lot to do with the question so I don't think we've *completely* derailed Rumi's thread. I'll desist if she disagrees, of course. 🙂
The mohawk was very much part of the punk movement, but that movement changed when it became commercial. Now you can buy jeans already ripped or with safety pins or whatever. Avril Lavigne ruined women wearing men's ties. Britney ruined sock gauntlets and shaving your head. Ruby Rose with the whole tattooed fem-dyke look. Once a celebrity makes something uber trendy and commercial, the people they took it from start to rebel against it.
Turned 36 in Jan. I laughed when I read what you wrote. The end of last year was a super low point in my life. I decided some time around my bday that this was going to be my year, whether it likes it or not! Jupiter ftw? 😄

Posted by tizianiJansport are the bomb. I have a black and white one. 😄 I was grateful my school had uniforms because then I didn't have to figure out what to wear every day. Only thing is, we had to wear these pleated, navy blue skirts, and I didn't like that look. >😢Posted by dayspaWhen I hear things like this I suppose I'm reminded I'm glad I went to a French school. Uniforms are illegal there, and anything that shows religious allegiance too. Ironically having the freedom to dress however we wanted only exposed just how much we all followed the same trends. The level of Eastpaks/Jansport bags in high school... everywhere. Literally, everyone.Posted by tizianilol high schools had a no touching the eyebrows and back of the collar rule here. my bro has to get a 3x4 in his which kind of makes everyone look slow and forrest gumpish.Posted by dayspaLong hair? No olympic boxing team for you!Posted by RumiLyup i think i was still in high school when that came out. i lived near the race track and there were hawkers in the street for it. i wasn't trying to grow my hair though. it wasn't allowed or wasn't trendy at the time.Posted by dayspaYou used it?
i remember mane n tail being a bit strong/ harsh.
https://www.amazon.com/Andalou-Naturals-Defying-Shampoo-Argan/dp/B006RHI142click to expand

Posted by neves😱Posted by cheekyfaerie😄! But... Rumi has Scorpio Moon. She might look harmless from the outside - but she's really dangerous when she gets mad. I mean, when that happens - the ones in question disappear and nobody seems to know what happened to them - nor do we hear from them again. ° JK! She's a sweet kid (or maybe i'm just saying that - cause i'm afraid)! ^^
@neves
Personal style has a lot to do with the question so I don't think we've *completely* derailed Rumi's thread. I'll desist if she disagrees, of course. 🙂
The mohawk was very much part of the punk movement, but that movement changed when it became commercial. Now you can buy jeans already ripped or with safety pins or whatever. Avril Lavigne ruined women wearing men's ties. Britney ruined sock gauntlets and shaving your head. Ruby Rose with the whole tattooed fem-dyke look. Once a celebrity makes something uber trendy and commercial, the people they took it from start to rebel against it.
Turned 36 in Jan. I laughed when I read what you wrote. The end of last year was a super low point in my life. I decided some time around my bday that this was going to be my year, whether it likes it or not! Jupiter ftw? 😄
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Posted by cheekyfaeriePoor little Aries moon ˆ
He forgets I'm Scorp moon too. We've got him surrounded!

Posted by tizianiPosted by RumiLLol overnight afros, probably hard to tell how long here. Don't revoke my Powder Room card just yet.Posted by tizianiTiziani, how long is your hair??
It's a good thing she has very long hair otherwise my own hair would be the most gender-bending thing in our relationship.
Is L'Oreal still showing its magic? :p
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Posted by cheekyfaerieI... didn't know. 😱
He forgets I'm Scorp moon too. We've got him surrounded!

Posted by RumiLI see... coming at me while I'm still asleep. ¶ That's quite fitting for a Scorpio Moon (a swift attack from the shadows). A wise move... cause even 2 Scorpio Moons wouldn't stand a chance against an Aries Moon - head on (in a direct confrontations)! Sneaky little rascals! 👿Posted by cheekyfaeriePoor little Aries moon ˆ
He forgets I'm Scorp moon too. We've got him surrounded!
Oh Neves, where are you ‡click to expand

Posted by cheekyfaerieWell, some say - the devil never sleeps. But that's a myth. ^^Posted by nevesOh. You sleep? That's cute. 😛Posted by RumiLI see... coming at me while I'm still asleep. ¶ That's quite fitting for a Scorpio Moon (a swift attack from the shadows). A wise move... cause even 2 Scorpio Moons wouldn't stand a chance against an Aries Moon - head on (in a direct confrontations)! Sneaky little rascals! 👿Posted by cheekyfaeriePoor little Aries moon ˆ
He forgets I'm Scorp moon too. We've got him surrounded!
Oh Neves, where are you ‡
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Posted by cheekyfaerieYou're definitively not from Right here, Right now... more like some place - 8 hours in the past. 😄Posted by neves1407 😄Posted by cheekyfaerieWell, some say - the devil never sleeps. But that's a myth. ^^Posted by nevesOh. You sleep? That's cute. 😛Posted by RumiLI see... coming at me while I'm still asleep. ¶ That's quite fitting for a Scorpio Moon (a swift attack from the shadows). A wise move... cause even 2 Scorpio Moons wouldn't stand a chance against an Aries Moon - head on (in a direct confrontations)! Sneaky little rascals! 👿Posted by cheekyfaeriePoor little Aries moon ˆ
He forgets I'm Scorp moon too. We've got him surrounded!
Oh Neves, where are you ‡
😄!
I do, but not at the same time - as you gals (i presume). You know... Time Zones and stuff like that. It's already 20:17 PM here - right now. 🙂click to expand

Posted by nevesOh it's 05:08 over here and searching for good to great reviews on mulitple shampoos and conditioners for my damaged hair.Posted by cheekyfaerieYou're definitively not from Right here, Right now... more like some place - 8 hours in the past. 😄Posted by neves1407 😄Posted by cheekyfaerieWell, some say - the devil never sleeps. But that's a myth. ^^Posted by nevesOh. You sleep? That's cute. 😛Posted by RumiLI see... coming at me while I'm still asleep. ¶ That's quite fitting for a Scorpio Moon (a swift attack from the shadows). A wise move... cause even 2 Scorpio Moons wouldn't stand a chance against an Aries Moon - head on (in a direct confrontations)! Sneaky little rascals! 👿Posted by cheekyfaeriePoor little Aries moon ˆ
He forgets I'm Scorp moon too. We've got him surrounded!
Oh Neves, where are you ‡
😄!
I do, but not at the same time - as you gals (i presume). You know... Time Zones and stuff like that. It's already 20:17 PM here - right now. 🙂
That's relativity for you. ^^click to expand

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Amazon can be quite unproductive - if you're interested in some product and you check the reviews. There were times when i spent weeks in there - trying to decide on a product, cause i kept changing my mind - while reading the negative reviews (some of them can be so discouraging). :S What's worst... there's times when i buy something with lots of positive reviews, thus - i have a big expectations from that product and... it doesn't turned-up to be as expected. The refund law - proved to be quite useful - for such cases (doesn't go so smoothly all the time but still... it's not a complete waste of money - as it would go if you'd be forced to keep an unsatisfactory product) . Unfortunately - they can't take back your feelings of disappointment. ^^
Oh it's 05:08 over here and searching for good to great reviews on mulitple shampoos and conditioners for my damaged hair.


Posted by nevesAww okay I will conquer my conquests, haha. And thanks for the advice. Oh if you are a father, Happy Father's day...Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Amazon can be quite unproductive - if you're interested in some product and you check the reviews. There were times when i spent weeks in there - trying to decide on a product, cause i kept changing my mind - while reading the negative reviews (some of them can be so discouraging). :S What's worst... there's times when i buy something with lots of positive reviews, thus - i have a big expectations from that product and... it doesn't turned-up to be as expected. The refund law - proved to be quite useful - for such cases (doesn't go so smoothly all the time but still... it's not a complete waste of money - as it would go if you'd be forced to keep an unsatisfactory product) . Unfortunately - they can't take back your feelings of disappointment. ^^
Oh it's 05:08 over here and searching for good to great reviews on mulitple shampoos and conditioners for my damaged hair.
You'll just have to keep trying till you find one. Though, keep in mind - the trial is more important than the search, cause that's the only way you can see if it actually works (in practice). ^^
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I'm not, but i feel compelled to play that roles sometimes. Like the times - when my parents behave like children (and not in a fun way). 🙂The wheels have turn. ^^ I guess the story of Benjamin Button - was inspired from reality... some people turn back into children - as they grow older (or maybe - they never grow-up to begin with).Posted by nevesAww okay I will conquer my conquests, haha. And thanks for the advice. Oh if you are a father, Happy Father's day...Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Amazon can be quite unproductive - if you're interested in some product and you check the reviews. There were times when i spent weeks in there - trying to decide on a product, cause i kept changing my mind - while reading the negative reviews (some of them can be so discouraging). :S What's worst... there's times when i buy something with lots of positive reviews, thus - i have a big expectations from that product and... it doesn't turned-up to be as expected. The refund law - proved to be quite useful - for such cases (doesn't go so smoothly all the time but still... it's not a complete waste of money - as it would go if you'd be forced to keep an unsatisfactory product) . Unfortunately - they can't take back your feelings of disappointment. ^^
Oh it's 05:08 over here and searching for good to great reviews on mulitple shampoos and conditioners for my damaged hair.
You'll just have to keep trying till you find one. Though, keep in mind - the trial is more important than the search, cause that's the only way you can see if it actually works (in practice). ^^
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Posted by nevesOh yeah I'm a big kid at hard and play like one to, idc. I was a huge tom boy when I was younger and had to become an adult very young age. Haha how often do you go out and do something fun? I do try to get out but I work alot.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I'm not, but i feel compelled to play that roles sometimes. Like the times - when my parents behave like children (and not in a fun way). 🙂The wheels have turn. ^^ I guess the story of Benjamin Button - was inspired from reality... some people turn back into children - as they grow older (or maybe - they never grow-up to begin with).Posted by nevesAww okay I will conquer my conquests, haha. And thanks for the advice. Oh if you are a father, Happy Father's day...Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Amazon can be quite unproductive - if you're interested in some product and you check the reviews. There were times when i spent weeks in there - trying to decide on a product, cause i kept changing my mind - while reading the negative reviews (some of them can be so discouraging). :S What's worst... there's times when i buy something with lots of positive reviews, thus - i have a big expectations from that product and... it doesn't turned-up to be as expected. The refund law - proved to be quite useful - for such cases (doesn't go so smoothly all the time but still... it's not a complete waste of money - as it would go if you'd be forced to keep an unsatisfactory product) . Unfortunately - they can't take back your feelings of disappointment. ^^
Oh it's 05:08 over here and searching for good to great reviews on mulitple shampoos and conditioners for my damaged hair.
You'll just have to keep trying till you find one. Though, keep in mind - the trial is more important than the search, cause that's the only way you can see if it actually works (in practice). ^^
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428OMG! I was infected by adulthood couple of times (maybe more than couple). Was awful! 😱 Come to think of it... my hair started degrading as well - during those times, but i didn't notice right away - cause was to stressed out... and what was happening to my hair or my mental health - was the least of my worries. Didn't seem that important - compared to all the other adult priorities (it's deemed childish - to give importance to stuff like hair appearance - when you have adult things to do). That's... acceptable collateral damage. ^^ And latter on... the gray hairs started appearing - which i did notice - cause for some weird reason (maybe because i'm a Gemini) - only the left side started goring gray - and looked kinda weird. 😕 I've heard of split personality before - but that was ridiculous. WTF! 😱
Oh yeah I'm a big kid at hard and play like one to, idc. I was a huge tom boy when I was younger and had to become an adult very young age. Haha how often do you go out and do something fun? I do try to get out but I work alot.

Posted by cheekyfaerieHer Sun is conjunct Neptune (at a tight orb) and her Mars is in Pisces. And with this placements - there's moments - when this individuals can be a bit unconscious (kinda like being drunk - thus, what you're doing might seem fine - during that time). So, it's not necessarily a bold move. Everybody's more courage - when drunk (by Neptune or otherwise). ^^Posted by nevesHa. I really hope I was never that impressionable. Great movie though. Easy to forget he did so few of them. He was a natural.
@cheekyfaerie The funny thing is (while taking this topic in consideration), i used to know a blonde female Cap with Scorpio moon - who shaved her head on a whim - after watching the movie "Rebel Without a Cause (with James Dean)". She even recorded herself shortly after, acting really pissed and proud of her deed - while sharing her disapproval with the ways of society and such... ^^
Though, the next morning and from there on (till her hair grew back) - she was filled with regrets.... and grew really fond of head scarfs - during that period of... recovery. ^^
So, maybe would be a good idea - to keep away from that movie (in case you haven't seen it). Who knows - what influence it might have on other Caps with Scorpio moon and what rebellious attitude - could inspire in them. 😄
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