Had a Gay Dream and it’s bothering me

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So I’m a straight heterosexual Male. Never have or will ever be interested in men. But last night I had a dream that left me feeling like WTF was that. The dream revolves around me an a guy just being physical touching not kissing but touching and not having sex but leading to it. And then as it progressed I was like “aaaaaaaahhh WAIT .. WAIT WHAT AM I DOING?? I snapped out of it and woke it was 2:47AM I was confused and caught off guard that I didn’t really want go back to sleep. I dreamt about cheating on my girl, sex with female co workers, ex girlfriends, random women I’ve met or been attracted too. But I’ve never expressed or desired gay sex. I think Lesbians sex is hot but being honest a little boring. Regardless I’m confused and embarrassed because I’m straight. I have no issues with gay guys at all I think their cool and chill people and 100 real from my experience. But that’s not what I’m into.

Embarrassed but here I go

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Posted by blvckphvze

I'm gonna bypass the initial issue here for a minute.. but if you have dreams about cheating on your girl and having sex with that many different people, it sounds like you aren't happy in your relationship.. or that your needs are not being met. And that also correlates with the gay dream.. to me that simply indicates curiosity. Not to say that you are at all curious about being with men, just that you are looking for more stimulation sexually.. basically you are bored.. so that coming up in your dream also tells me you are lacking something physically in your relationship.

Wow! I never thought of it that way. When I dreamed about cheating with other women it was always physical. I never thought about leaving my girl but I do feel like our relationship has been just falling apart. I don’t know what it is she doesn’t either. We sit apart from each other watching movies and she lives on her phone. Date, Movie, after sex she’s on her phone.
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I'm gonna bypass the initial issue here for a minute.. but if you have dreams about cheating on your girl and having sex with that many different people, it sounds like you aren't happy in your relationship.. or that your needs are not being met. And that also correlates with the gay dream.. to me that simply indicates curiosity. Not to say that you are at all curious about being with men, just that you are looking for more stimulation sexually.. basically you are bored.. so that coming up in your dream also tells me you are lacking something physically in your relationship.

Wow! I never thought of it that way. When I dreamed about cheating with other women it was always physical. I never thought about leaving my girl but I do feel like our relationship has been just falling apart. I don’t know what it is she doesn’t either. We sit apart from each other watching movies and she lives on her phone. Date, Movie, after sex she’s on her phone.

Yeah.. that is the core of the issue here and the reason you've been having sexual dreams involving other people. I wouldn't read too much into the gender.. these dreams just indicate that you are lacking something you desire.
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It’s just crazy few weeks was her birthday I bought her flowers some nice shoes set rose peddles on the floor. Planned something nice since we’ve both been busy and argued few days prior. I wanted to make it up and show my love the whole day I didn’t see her because I was working late but planned everything up to surprise her she comes home at 3am the next morning. So past few weeks she hasn’t explained it and gets defensive when I ask, so I’ve closed myself off. All she those is go to the restroom and cry never talks
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As long as you didnt wake up with a dick in your mouth, you're probably good.

No, please don’t say that

You didn't wake up with a dick in your mouth, did you? That's a whole different ball game. That brings up sleepwalking, home security issues, household boundaries, it gets complicated..

What are you worried about? You think you're gonna turn gay now? Start saying "YUSS! GOORL", standing too close at the urinal, have a new desire to wear high heels and sequins? Do you feel your wrist getting limp?

It's a dream... go watch a Chuck Norris movie and move on.
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No I don’t feel that way I know I’m straight, I just didn’t understand why the heck I dreamt it. And I had to talk about it, before I tell someone else
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Its normal...everyone experiences it at least once in their life. Doesnt mean you're gay or bi...unless you wanna be and thats perfectly fine too.

I have never had a gay dream

is your life over today? Pretty sure you still got a ways to go there and plenty of opportunities for it to happen lol

calm down
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I'm pretty calm but thanks for the concern??
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Its normal...everyone experiences it at least once in their life. Doesnt mean you're gay or bi...unless you wanna be and thats perfectly fine too.

I have never had a gay dream

is your life over today? Pretty sure you still got a ways to go there and plenty of opportunities for it to happen lol
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No thank you just not in to guys at all.
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Its normal...everyone experiences it at least once in their life. Doesnt mean you're gay or bi...unless you wanna be and thats perfectly fine too.

I have never had a gay dream

Whatever, Mr. Gemini, I mean Aries.
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Omg you caught that toooo

Lmaoo 🤣🤣

It threw my joke I had for him so off 🤨🤨🤔🧐
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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Its normal...everyone experiences it at least once in their life. Doesnt mean you're gay or bi...unless you wanna be and thats perfectly fine too.


😂

You sound like a real psychologist for the gays 😂

I had about 5 laughs on Dxp since I logged on 20 minutes ago. This comment was one of them.

Give yourself a round of applause 👏 You did good 😉
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So I’m a straight heterosexual Male. Never have or will ever be interested in men. But last night I had a dream that left me feeling like WTF was that. The dream revolves around me an a guy just being physical touching not kissing but touching and not having sex but leading to it. And then as it progressed I was like “aaaaaaaahhh WAIT .. WAIT WHAT AM I DOING?? I snapped out of it and woke it was 2:47AM I was confused and caught off guard that I didn’t really want go back to sleep. I dreamt about cheating on my girl, sex with female co workers, ex girlfriends, random women I’ve met or been attracted too. But I’ve never expressed or desired gay sex. I think Lesbians sex is hot but being honest a little boring. Regardless I’m confused and embarrassed because I’m straight. I have no issues with gay guys at all I think their cool and chill people and 100 real from my experience. But that’s not what I’m into.

Embarrassed but here I go

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Is this a Question or something? If your asking if I’m some1 name DJ then No I’m not.
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Posted by LittleStar

If I panicked every time I had dreams about having sex with women I’d have had a heart attack.



I do consider myself pansexual but you have a choice over your actual actions.

Dreams are dreams and they can be weird as fuck and really don’t have much to do the conscious in every case.

If this is making you feel attracted to other men IRL then maybe you should explore that but at your own pace, but those dreams are totally normal.

No I’m not, I’m not joking I’m not or ever will be. I know a lot of women who’ve had gay dreams I don’t blame them women are hot. And their sexuality is more fluid then men.
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Posted by colliereborn

weird dreams happen all the time get over it

and if your curious about guys theres nothing wrong with that jus sayin

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Its normal...everyone experiences it at least once in their life. Doesnt mean you're gay or bi...unless you wanna be and thats perfectly fine too.

I have never had a gay dream

is your life over today? Pretty sure you still got a ways to go there and plenty of opportunities for it to happen lol

No thank you just not in to guys at all.
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Who you trying to convince...us or yourself? You've made that perfectly clear that you aren't...doesn't matter tho...your subconscious does what it wants. Again...doesn't make you gay. The dream could mean all kinds of things. It's really not that big of a deal.
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Trroll....

How? And why?

Donno..responses conveniently provocative/naive... writing style indicative of other users..past users..

Could be wrong

Just speaking from the guts
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I'm wondering why OP answered for 7s here

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Anyway, we need more details from the dream OP.



did you get pounded like a prison bitch, or it was just an under the sheets cousins jerking off thing? 😆

there are different interpretations for those 🤣
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weird dreams happen all the time get over it

and if your curious about guys theres nothing wrong with that jus sayin

Omg

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shut up troll
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I dreamt once I was kissing a pig. It might have been a gay pig I don't know but that doesn't make me want to dress up farm animals.

I would rather a dream where I made out with a pig. I would have laughed that out and told ppl. I’m insecure about this dream.
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I think the more you focus on this the more it's going to drive you cray cray so just forget about it.
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