Posted by narayanaI already reached out to her and nadda. :\
If she seemed fine with you when you met, maybe she's waiting on you to text first.
Posted by SassyKiwiyea yeay yea yea yeya yea yea yeayae ay eay eyeayea whatever 😛
Maybe you were a bad kisser y'kno
Posted by Shooting_the_Moon_that_I_call_MarsThis is my opinion on it too. It just sucks cuz she was awesome!
I've noticed that virgos ghost when they're under an enormous amount of stress. Maybe she decided she has too much going on to have a relationship at the moment.
Posted by earlorg16sorry - I hope she contacts you but then again if she does, I hope she doesn't disappear again ... that is a strange thing ...
Thanks for the tips. It's been a while since I pursued a Virgo. I'll just back off and let her reach out if anything.
Posted by tctaSeems to be a very common trait with them.Posted by earlorg16sorry - I hope she contacts you but then again if she does, I hope she doesn't disappear again ... that is a strange thing ...
Thanks for the tips. It's been a while since I pursued a Virgo. I'll just back off and let her reach out if anything.click to expand
Posted by earlorg16How long has it been since the concert and you hearing back from her? Have you tried calling?Posted by tctaSeems to be a very common trait with them.Posted by earlorg16sorry - I hope she contacts you but then again if she does, I hope she doesn't disappear again ... that is a strange thing ...
Thanks for the tips. It's been a while since I pursued a Virgo. I'll just back off and let her reach out if anything.click to expand
Posted by breterpanThat's probably also your Aries moon kicking in too.
usually when I ghost someone, I'm over it
I'm really on top of getting back to people I'm into
Posted by the_sunflowerHahah yep we do. Yeah that makes sense too.Posted by Chuckcemwow we have the same sun and moonPosted by breterpanThat's probably also your Aries moon kicking in too.
usually when I ghost someone, I'm over it
I'm really on top of getting back to people I'm into
@the_sunflower I'd agree, but he said he kissed her a few times and held back after that.
she probably has something going on in her life, as long as op makes contact..and sees if she responds, the best way to get virgo back is to make her regret it
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Posted by earlorg16She might have sensed your hesitancy and took it as if something was wrong with her. Reach out to her and see what happens. You'll have your answer then.
This Virgo was super chatty with me via text for like 2 weeks straight but also told me she was in grad school. We met up for a gig and held hands throughout the show, and I kissed her a few times, but held back cuz her friend was there and didn't want to make it awkward. But I haven't heard from her since the show. I guess it's over?
Posted by VirgoreanThe show was last Thursday, and I haven't heard from her since. I texted her the next day and didn't hear back and left it alone. Texted her again yesterday and nothing. I've never called her so I feel like it'd be weird to do that now.Posted by earlorg16How long has it been since the concert and you hearing back from her? Have you tried calling?Posted by tctaSeems to be a very common trait with them.Posted by earlorg16sorry - I hope she contacts you but then again if she does, I hope she doesn't disappear again ... that is a strange thing ...
Thanks for the tips. It's been a while since I pursued a Virgo. I'll just back off and let her reach out if anything.click to expand
Posted by breterpanShe's an Aries moon too! Libra Venus, Cancer Mars, Cap Rising. Yeah i'm pretty sure it's over with.
usually when I ghost someone, I'm over it
I'm really on top of getting back to people I'm into
Posted by virgo29damn yo thats harsh
it's over when a virgo starts to ghost you right?
YES
Posted by earlorg16Posted by VirgoreanThe show was last Thursday, and I haven't heard from her since. I texted her the next day and didn't hear back and left it alone. Texted her again yesterday and nothing. I've never called her so I feel like it'd be weird to do that now.Posted by earlorg16How long has it been since the concert and you hearing back from her? Have you tried calling?Posted by tctaSeems to be a very common trait with them.Posted by earlorg16sorry - I hope she contacts you but then again if she does, I hope she doesn't disappear again ... that is a strange thing ...
Thanks for the tips. It's been a while since I pursued a Virgo. I'll just back off and let her reach out if anything.
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Posted by coldwateryvirgoPretty much any signs can pull that ignore pull too. It sucks though, people cant be straightforward instead of being ignorinh. SmhPosted by earlorg16Posted by VirgoreanThe show was last Thursday, and I haven't heard from her since. I texted her the next day and didn't hear back and left it alone. Texted her again yesterday and nothing. I've never called her so I feel like it'd be weird to do that now.Posted by earlorg16How long has it been since the concert and you hearing back from her? Have you tried calling?Posted by tctaSeems to be a very common trait with them.Posted by earlorg16sorry - I hope she contacts you but then again if she does, I hope she doesn't disappear again ... that is a strange thing ...
Thanks for the tips. It's been a while since I pursued a Virgo. I'll just back off and let her reach out if anything.
Be done with her, you done deserve to be ignored. But if you want closure , borrow a friend phone and call her to see if she is alive and well. If she picks up then you have your answer . A Virgo will get back to people they're interested in . Point blank . It might take about 2 days but they do . If see can't find time in that 48hr to get back to you she probably don't care
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Posted by JustJulesI rather a person just not ghost at all if they're not trying to hurt my feelings and have some courtesy to tell me straight up they're not interested. Either way it's gonna suck but at least have some dignity in telling a person instead of just ignoring them. Regardless I've moved on from it.Posted by earlorg16Posted by VirgoreanThe show was last Thursday, and I haven't heard from her since. I texted her the next day and didn't hear back and left it alone. Texted her again yesterday and nothing. I've never called her so I feel like it'd be weird to do that now.Posted by earlorg16How long has it been since the concert and you hearing back from her? Have you tried calling?Posted by tctaSeems to be a very common trait with them.Posted by earlorg16sorry - I hope she contacts you but then again if she does, I hope she doesn't disappear again ... that is a strange thing ...
Thanks for the tips. It's been a while since I pursued a Virgo. I'll just back off and let her reach out if anything.
Sorry, but yeah it sounds like she ghosted. Sometimes I think I've answered a text but I haven't. After multiple times of you reaching out if she isn't responding, she's not going to. It's not nice, but maybe she doesn't want to hurt your feelings?
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Posted by Blue_FroggieYeah, and still nothing. It's cool, her loss.Posted by earlorg16Did you contact her after the show?
This Virgo was super chatty with me via text for like 2 weeks straight but also told me she was in grad school. We met up for a gig and held hands throughout the show, and I kissed her a few times, but held back cuz her friend was there and didn't want to make it awkward. But I haven't heard from her since the show. I guess it's over?click to expand
Posted by heliumfiascoTrue. 😢
It's over when ANYONE starts to ghost you. Don't let someone disregard you in that way.
Posted by earlorg16AgreedPosted by JustJulesI rather a person just not ghost at all if they're not trying to hurt my feelings and have some courtesy to tell me straight up they're not interested. Either way it's gonna suck but at least have some dignity in telling a person instead of just ignoring them. Regardless I've moved on from it.Posted by earlorg16Posted by VirgoreanThe show was last Thursday, and I haven't heard from her since. I texted her the next day and didn't hear back and left it alone. Texted her again yesterday and nothing. I've never called her so I feel like it'd be weird to do that now.Posted by earlorg16How long has it been since the concert and you hearing back from her? Have you tried calling?Posted by tctaSeems to be a very common trait with them.Posted by earlorg16sorry - I hope she contacts you but then again if she does, I hope she doesn't disappear again ... that is a strange thing ...
Thanks for the tips. It's been a while since I pursued a Virgo. I'll just back off and let her reach out if anything.
Sorry, but yeah it sounds like she ghosted. Sometimes I think I've answered a text but I haven't. After multiple times of you reaching out if she isn't responding, she's not going to. It's not nice, but maybe she doesn't want to hurt your feelings?
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Posted by Shooting_the_Moon_that_I_call_MarsYes very true grad school is tough and lots of Virgos love learning and push themselves to work hard despite how it kills them but once we have our goals set we become stubborn and if she's the type to want that 4.0 gpa she will forget the world...it doesn't mean she doesn't like you but she probably feels she needs to focus on grad school. Maybe give her text that you admire her ambitions and will support her in whatever way...see if she replies
I've noticed that virgos ghost when they're under an enormous amount of stress. Maybe she decided she has too much going on to have a relationship at the moment.
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