Notice to all the women out there

I'm officially tired of the games and BS. You win, I quit. I'm done chasing anybody, dating has been nothing but pain for me and I just don't have it in me anymore.

On behalf of all women, I'd like to say we are devastated.

Lately ive gotten a bad batch too. Like wtf!?.lol

Just gonna stay to self. Take courting cap off and put player cap on.lol

Posted by csdude55
I'm officially tired of the games and BS. You win, I quit. I'm done chasing anybody, dating has been nothing but pain for me and I just don't have it in me anymore.

I hope you feel better. x

Posted by Tauruswithspunk

Posted by LadyNeptune


On behalf of all women, I'd like to say we are devastated.

— very

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When someone tells you that you can't have the thing that you don't want, it's like...k

Posted by csdude55
I'm officially tired of the games and BS. You win, I quit. I'm done chasing anybody, dating has been nothing but pain for me and I just don't have it in me anymore.

Looks like all those years of not trying have paid off. I have no kids, no wife, just work and me time. By that I mean lots of alcohol, weed, and masterbation. According to you it could be worse though, so I actually feel a lot better.

Lol

Posted by Soul
Looks like all those years of not trying have paid off. I have no kids, no wife, just work and me time. By that I mean lots of alcohol, weed, and masterbation. According to you it could be worse though, so I actually feel a lot better.

Srsly you're not missing anything. You're living my dream lol

You could always turn to men. I mean.........oh wait, actually it does hurt



but then you get used to it.

All in good time dude.

No such thing as 'mr or mrs right'

...

There's always a 'mr or mrs right now' tho

Either way, being single is kind of frikken epic and if you do it correctly, one day the other half will happen for you ~*~

There's always a 'mr or mrs right now' tho

This... has also not been my experience 😢

I know I'm being just a tad dramatic and hyperbolic here, but seriously, it was either post this or go punch a tree. And what did the poor tree do to deserve that?

'Preciate the sympathy from some of you guys 🙂

I feel ya. Tell me more about your Virgo Venus

Posted by SoulOfABird

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Tauruswithspunk

Posted by LadyNeptune


On behalf of all women, I'd like to say we are devastated.

— very

When someone tells you that you can't have the thing that you don't want, it's like...k

Can you guys have some sympathy I mean he's obviously hurt...

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Right?! Poor guy.

OP, keep your head up, dating can be hard. I hope you find the happiness you're looking for.

Posted by drunkghost
you're making us virgos look bad stop being weak

Lol Finally! A scold!

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by Soul
Looks like all those years of not trying have paid off. I have no kids, no wife, just work and me time. By that I mean lots of alcohol, weed, and masterbation. According to you it could be worse though, so I actually feel a lot better.

Srsly you're not missing anything. You're living my dream lol

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this is the future for everybody

unending me-time, masturbation and social media.

I don't know if it's a side effect of overpopulation or sthg else.

old style relationship is a thing of the past when you can dedicate your life to your selfies' popularity

not everything is lost but you must stop being csdude and you must become slaydude.

Nobody is impressed by online stats

Posted by hydorah

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by Soul
Looks like all those years of not trying have paid off. I have no kids, no wife, just work and me time. By that I mean lots of alcohol, weed, and masterbation. According to you it could be worse though, so I actually feel a lot better.

Srsly you're not missing anything. You're living my dream lol

this is the future for everybody

unending me-time, masturbation and social media.

I don't know if it's a side effect of overpopulation or sthg else.

old style relationship is a thing of the past when you can dedicate your life to your selfies' popularity

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What else is a side-effect of 21st century is this need to be accepted and validate by everyone and at all times. This disgusting need to be SOCIAL or else you're unsound.

Underneath this charade we've known for more than half a century just how unhealthy and poisenous human relationships really are as a norm, some people haven't still accepted it bc they live and evaluate themselves through others.

So "masturbation, weed and alcohol" is really a way of saying 'I do what I please on my time'. Few ppl have that luxury for real, you have to go places you'd rather not to get there.

I was so active on this site but im so heartbroken i don't know whats happening anymore!

I thought me and my Virgo man could establish something romantic and may be he's shy or may be he really needs time to come out of his shell and say something sweet to me someday! But all hopes are gone... —

I recently met him unexpectedly in a cafe where i was sitting with my beautiful friend and within minutes he charmed her pants off. Made future meeting plan's , made few business opportunities known and got her hooked to him like a bee! I was right there watching all this transformation and thinking to myself what did i miss !! Now i hear he calls her everyday sends the same greeting messages makes her laugh hysterically and the list goes on and on ... —??

I'm done with life! It took me 3 year's to let my past go and have a strong crush on someone and im back to square one of being the same miserable state i was in 3 year's back.

When i hadn't met him the loneliness never bothered me i was still happy but now i feel im dying inside!

Posted by TomSawyer

Posted by OHNOXoxo
I was so active on this site but im so heartbroken i don't know whats happening anymore!

I thought me and my Virgo man could establish something romantic and may be he's shy or may be he really needs time to come out of his shell and say something sweet to me someday! But all hopes are gone... —

I recently met him unexpectedly in a cafe where i was sitting with my beautiful friend and within minutes he charmed her pants off. Made future meeting plan's , made few business opportunities known and got her hooked to him like a bee! I was right there watching all this transformation and thinking to myself what did i miss !! Now i hear he calls her everyday sends the same greeting messages makes her laugh hysterically and the list goes on and on ... —??

I'm done with life! It took me 3 year's to let my past go and have a strong crush on someone and im back to square one of being the same miserable state i was in 3 year's back.

When i hadn't met him the loneliness never bothered me i was still happy but now i feel im dying inside!

Why do you think I told you to land him in bed as soon as possible?

Now he's probably gonna fuck your friend since you never gave him a real signal.

It's not entirely your fault tho.

Most people gave you real shit advice on how to handle your man and you believed them.

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I have been crying my ass off since three day's now . Continuously.

Posted by csdude55

There's always a 'mr or mrs right now' tho

This... has also not been my experience 😢

I know I'm being just a tad dramatic and hyperbolic here, but seriously, it was either post this or go punch a tree. And what did the poor tree do to deserve that?

'Preciate the sympathy from some of you guys 🙂

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stop looking and take care of yourself and your interests and be friends ... it is hard - been riding that wave for a long time myself ...

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Posted by hydorah

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by Soul
Looks like all those years of not trying have paid off. I have no kids, no wife, just work and me time. By that I mean lots of alcohol, weed, and masterbation. According to you it could be worse though, so I actually feel a lot better.

Srsly you're not missing anything. You're living my dream lol

this is the future for everybody

unending me-time, masturbation and social media.

I don't know if it's a side effect of overpopulation or sthg else.

old style relationship is a thing of the past when you can dedicate your life to your selfies' popularity

What else is a side-effect of 21st century is this need to be accepted and validate by everyone and at all times. This disgusting need to be SOCIAL or else you're unsound.

Underneath this charade we've known for more than half a century just how unhealthy and poisenous human relationships really are as a norm, some people haven't still accepted it bc they live and evaluate themselves through others.

So "masturbation, weed and alcohol" is really a way of saying 'I do what I please on my time'. Few ppl have that luxury for real, you have to go places you'd rather not to get there.

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it can also be described as a society of "instant gratification" - always wanting the newest, the latest, the best, the toys, the trinkets, the baubles ... how do you work through to a relationship with someone on a level where everything is disposable and you can just go out and get a new one - that ain't normal

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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Maybe you're gay. Most virgos love dick up their a $ $ . Try it

That's rude.

I'm being honest. He probably really wants penis down his throat

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After this post

I found strength

to log off finally.

Fufufufu.

Posted by TomSawyer

Posted by OHNOXoxo

Posted by TomSawyer

Posted by OHNOXoxo
I was so active on this site but im so heartbroken i don't know whats happening anymore!

I thought me and my Virgo man could establish something romantic and may be he's shy or may be he really needs time to come out of his shell and say something sweet to me someday! But all hopes are gone... —

I recently met him unexpectedly in a cafe where i was sitting with my beautiful friend and within minutes he charmed her pants off. Made future meeting plan's , made few business opportunities known and got her hooked to him like a bee! I was right there watching all this transformation and thinking to myself what did i miss !! Now i hear he calls her everyday sends the same greeting messages makes her laugh hysterically and the list goes on and on ... —??

I'm done with life! It took me 3 year's to let my past go and have a strong crush on someone and im back to square one of being the same miserable state i was in 3 year's back.

When i hadn't met him the loneliness never bothered me i was still happy but now i feel im dying inside!

Why do you think I told you to land him in bed as soon as possible?

Now he's probably gonna fuck your friend since you never gave him a real signal.

It's not entirely your fault tho.

Most people gave you real shit advice on how to handle your man and you believed them.

I have been crying my ass off since three day's now . Continuously.

I believe you, sweetheart.

You're a good girl.

The situation's not that hopeless tbh.

You can still reverse it.

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Please tell me how!??

Posted by csdude55
I'm officially tired of the games and BS. You win, I quit. I'm done chasing anybody, dating has been nothing but pain for me and I just don't have it in me anymore.

Sorry to hear this, as I haven't done anything to you. You're standing on the one side of the fence while I am listening to you and standing on the "other" side of the fence. I've met MY share of men that I wasn't compatible with. Did I give up? No. Did I throw in the towel? No. Did I convert to being a lesbian? No. You're not the first (nor last) man on this planet to strike out with women. We, women, too sit around talking about men. That's WHY it's also hard for us to find a good man. Why?

Because they have been hurt by bytches, and y'all just want to sleep around with many different women, and we (the GOOD ones, that don't lie, steal, cheat, etc) bump into you and you carry this black cloud over your head; because well, your heart is black (closed; not giving love a chance) and you lost the best woman that came into your life.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: NOT saying you are the one that wants to sleep w/different women, but I am also venting as you are. I am Piscean and I NEVER give up on love. I love love!

Posted by OHNOXoxo
I was so active on this site but im so heartbroken i don't know whats happening anymore!

I thought me and my Virgo man could establish something romantic and may be he's shy or may be he really needs time to come out of his shell and say something sweet to me someday! But all hopes are gone... —

I recently met him unexpectedly in a cafe where i was sitting with my beautiful friend and within minutes he charmed her pants off. Made future meeting plan's , made few business opportunities known and got her hooked to him like a bee! I was right there watching all this transformation and thinking to myself what did i miss !! Now i hear he calls her everyday sends the same greeting messages makes her laugh hysterically and the list goes on and on ... —??

I'm done with life! It took me 3 year's to let my past go and have a strong crush on someone and im back to square one of being the same miserable state i was in 3 year's back.

When i hadn't met him the loneliness never bothered me i was still happy but now i feel im dying inside!

Fuck him. You don't need a dude who goes after your friends.

He was never about you or loyal enough to be boyfriend material. You say this happened 3 years ago? If this is a recurring pattern then you may need to look at yourself and ask why you continually fall for dudes who are wrong for you...

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by hydorah

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by Soul
Looks like all those years of not trying have paid off. I have no kids, no wife, just work and me time. By that I mean lots of alcohol, weed, and masterbation. According to you it could be worse though, so I actually feel a lot better.

Srsly you're not missing anything. You're living my dream lol

this is the future for everybody

unending me-time, masturbation and social media.

I don't know if it's a side effect of overpopulation or sthg else.

old style relationship is a thing of the past when you can dedicate your life to your selfies' popularity

What else is a side-effect of 21st century is this need to be accepted and validate by everyone and at all times. This disgusting need to be SOCIAL or else you're unsound.

Underneath this charade we've known for more than half a century just how unhealthy and poisenous human relationships really are as a norm, some people haven't still accepted it bc they live and evaluate themselves through others.

So "masturbation, weed and alcohol" is really a way of saying 'I do what I please on my time'. Few ppl have that luxury for real, you have to go places you'd rather not to get there.

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But why is it one or the other—

I enjoy masturbation, weed and alcohol on the regular and it doesn't negatively affect my relationships. My dude rolls a mean j.

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Posted by OHNOXoxo

Posted by TomSawyer

Posted by OHNOXoxo

Posted by TomSawyer

Posted by OHNOXoxo
I was so active on this site but im so heartbroken i don't know whats happening anymore!

I thought me and my Virgo man could establish something romantic and may be he's shy or may be he really needs time to come out of his shell and say something sweet to me someday! But all hopes are gone... —

I recently met him unexpectedly in a cafe where i was sitting with my beautiful friend and within minutes he charmed her pants off. Made future meeting plan's , made few business opportunities known and got her hooked to him like a bee! I was right there watching all this transformation and thinking to myself what did i miss !! Now i hear he calls her everyday sends the same greeting messages makes her laugh hysterically and the list goes on and on ... —??

I'm done with life! It took me 3 year's to let my past go and have a strong crush on someone and im back to square one of being the same miserable state i was in 3 year's back.

When i hadn't met him the loneliness never bothered me i was still happy but now i feel im dying inside!

Why do you think I told you to land him in bed as soon as possible?

Now he's probably gonna fuck your friend since you never gave him a real signal.

It's not entirely your fault tho.

Most people gave you real shit advice on how to handle your man and you believed them.

I have been crying my ass off since three day's now . Continuously.

I believe you, sweetheart.

You're a good girl.

The situation's not that hopeless tbh.

You can still reverse it.

Please tell me how!??

P.f,dlkslfksldk k ffffffffffuuuuuuuuu.......

No.

Listen, He just got fed up with waiting.

I don't understand how in the hell you bullettes manage to move so slow.

Nonetheless, He's a vUrgo, so you're naturally his kryptonite.

Idk if your friend's a libra or gemini(might be even leo chick) but he's most likely just keeping his mind in check in order not to go crazy with the slow pace.

Just make something, send a picture of it to him and say "I made this today".

See what he responds.

That's what one Taurus chick sent me.

It got me fightin my thoughts.

Maybe it will work.

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She's an Aquarius!

Yes, i should start taking few initiatives. Like you suggested make something! Im a great cook , maybe ill invite him for lunch or bake a cake for him.

I'm so crushed inside because i could see it in his eye's that my friend really had his attention and he looked completely awestruck with her! And suddenly i was a crowd between two of them. The mere memory and the aftermath marathon of texts and calling between them makes me want to break my head !

I understand i didnt move fast. But neither did he ! And thing's were still going smooth with subtle flirting.

Nonetheless, He's a vUrgo, so you're naturally his kryptonite. Makes me smile thanks for saying it ☺

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Posted by OHNOXoxo
I was so active on this site but im so heartbroken i don't know whats happening anymore!

I thought me and my Virgo man could establish something romantic and may be he's shy or may be he really needs time to come out of his shell and say something sweet to me someday! But all hopes are gone... —

I recently met him unexpectedly in a cafe where i was sitting with my beautiful friend and within minutes he charmed her pants off. Made future meeting plan's , made few business opportunities known and got her hooked to him like a bee! I was right there watching all this transformation and thinking to myself what did i miss !! Now i hear he calls her everyday sends the same greeting messages makes her laugh hysterically and the list goes on and on ... —??

I'm done with life! It took me 3 year's to let my past go and have a strong crush on someone and im back to square one of being the same miserable state i was in 3 year's back.

When i hadn't met him the loneliness never bothered me i was still happy but now i feel im dying inside!

Fuck him. You don't need a dude who goes after your friends.

He was never about you or loyal enough to be boyfriend material. You say this happened 3 years ago? If this is a recurring pattern then you may need to look at yourself and ask why you continually fall for dudes who are wrong for you...

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It wasn't the same situation 3 year's back . But the heartache was , felt similar to present ache!

You are right when you say he wasn't all about me but the hints and behaviour and few thing's did make me feel there could be more to our friendship. I was hoping and praying each day , we hit it off together!

But well ! Everyone's saying i didnt move fast .. but is it compulsory to move at a fast pace?! But is it like People who are naturally shy and not so open about their feelings have no chance at love??!!

it is hard - been riding that wave for a long time myself

I'm closing in on 4 years of riding that wave. That's a long time to be lonely and feel like nobody cares.

Like @EvatheDiva described, all the years of rejection is starting to weigh on my soul. I can feel it. I used to be a happy person with a natural smile, but anymore I find myself practicing how to smile in the mirror. My heart is darker, my blood is growing sour. All of which, of course, makes me less attractive, which makes my heart even darker. It's a downward spiral, and I can't figure out how to reverse it.

I'm about an inch away from trying the MDMA / Coke idea... lol

Thanks for letting me vent a little, though, I feel better today for it 🙂

Posted by OHNOXoxo

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by OHNOXoxo
I was so active on this site but im so heartbroken i don't know whats happening anymore!

I thought me and my Virgo man could establish something romantic and may be he's shy or may be he really needs time to come out of his shell and say something sweet to me someday! But all hopes are gone... —

I recently met him unexpectedly in a cafe where i was sitting with my beautiful friend and within minutes he charmed her pants off. Made future meeting plan's , made few business opportunities known and got her hooked to him like a bee! I was right there watching all this transformation and thinking to myself what did i miss !! Now i hear he calls her everyday sends the same greeting messages makes her laugh hysterically and the list goes on and on ... —??

I'm done with life! It took me 3 year's to let my past go and have a strong crush on someone and im back to square one of being the same miserable state i was in 3 year's back.

When i hadn't met him the loneliness never bothered me i was still happy but now i feel im dying inside!

Fuck him. You don't need a dude who goes after your friends.

He was never about you or loyal enough to be boyfriend material. You say this happened 3 years ago? If this is a recurring pattern then you may need to look at yourself and ask why you continually fall for dudes who are wrong for you...

It wasn't the same situation 3 year's back . But the heartache was , felt similar to present ache!

You are right when you say he wasn't all about me but the hints and behaviour and few thing's did make me feel there could be more to our friendship. I was hoping and praying each day , we hit it off together!

But well ! Everyone's saying i didnt move fast .. but is it compulsory to move at a fast pace?! But is it like People who are naturally shy and not so open about their feelings have no chance at love??!!

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I know sawyer is telling you that you should've fucked him and cause you waited you lost him. I disagree. If you would've fucked him he probably would've still moved on your friend and you'd be even more devastated.

As long as your showing your interest, aka being friendly/flirty, then if he was really interested he would've made an effort. Men go after the things they want. He just isn't that into you.

Next time don't get emotionally attached to a friend. Protect your heart.

Posted by csdude55

it is hard - been riding that wave for a long time myself

I'm closing in on 4 years of riding that wave. That's a long time to be lonely and feel like nobody cares.

Like @EvatheDiva described, all the years of rejection is starting to weigh on my soul. I can feel it. I used to be a happy person with a natural smile, but anymore I find myself practicing how to smile in the mirror. My heart is darker, my blood is growing sour. All of which, of course, makes me less attractive, which makes my heart even darker. It's a downward spiral, and I can't figure out how to reverse it.

I'm about an inch away from trying the MDMA / Coke idea... lol

Thanks for letting me vent a little, though, I feel better today for it 🙂

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PM me, I will give you the number of David, Guru, Tarot card reader. He will give you advice, maybe someone did something to have you go thru this for so long. I found out my ex-bf (Saggy) mom did this to me (to be alone, find no love, not advance at work, etc), but I caught it in time (18 months; I suffered for 18 months!). csdude55 (are you Chris?) it could have been one of your exes. My hair was falling off! I mean CLUMPS, my drain would be stopped up. I'd go to the club (alone or w/friends stand for five hours, and NO man would ask me to dance! I EVEN asked a cowboy for a dance and he turned me down! I HAD a feeling "something" wasn't right....18 months!!!! 😡 and Now, since I saw David, my hair has been thickening out like crazy! I have "normal" strands of hair on my brush, but none on floor/drain anymore! Guys do a double take when I pass them by (grocery store), I saw David last month on a Wednesday, I met Taurean (John) on TR (Thursday), went to the club on Friday and three different guys asked me to dance! PM me and I'll give you David's number here in San Antonio. The answer he will give you is yes or no. And will give you advice thereafter.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Posted by csdude55

it is hard - been riding that wave for a long time myself

I'm closing in on 4 years of riding that wave. That's a long time to be lonely and feel like nobody cares.

Like @EvatheDiva described, all the years of rejection is starting to weigh on my soul. I can feel it. I used to be a happy person with a natural smile, but anymore I find myself practicing how to smile in the mirror. My heart is darker, my blood is growing sour. All of which, of course, makes me less attractive, which makes my heart even darker. It's a downward spiral, and I can't figure out how to reverse it.

I'm about an inch away from trying the MDMA / Coke idea... lol

Thanks for letting me vent a little, though, I feel better today for it 🙂

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I know, you have to dig deep sometimes ... but hang with good friends and make sure you are getting out of the house and taking good care of yourself because you never know what will walk around the next corner - never give up your hope - that's all we have to hold on to

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Posted by OHNOXoxo

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Posted by OHNOXoxo

Posted by TomSawyer

Posted by OHNOXoxo

Posted by TomSawyer

Posted by OHNOXoxo
I was so active on this site but im so heartbroken i don't know whats happening anymore!

I thought me and my Virgo man could establish something romantic and may be he's shy or may be he really needs time to come out of his shell and say something sweet to me someday! But all hopes are gone... —

I recently met him unexpectedly in a cafe where i was sitting with my beautiful friend and within minutes he charmed her pants off. Made future meeting plan's , made few business opportunities known and got her hooked to him like a bee! I was right there watching all this transformation and thinking to myself what did i miss !! Now i hear he calls her everyday sends the same greeting messages makes her laugh hysterically and the list goes on and on ... —??

I'm done with life! It took me 3 year's to let my past go and have a strong crush on someone and im back to square one of being the same miserable state i was in 3 year's back.

When i hadn't met him the loneliness never bothered me i was still happy but now i feel im dying inside!

Why do you think I told you to land him in bed as soon as possible?

Now he's probably gonna fuck your friend since you never gave him a real signal.

It's not entirely your fault tho.

Most people gave you real shit advice on how to handle your man and you believed them.

I have been crying my ass off since three day's now . Continuously.

I believe you, sweetheart.

You're a good girl.

The situation's not that hopeless tbh.

You can still reverse it.

Please tell me how!??

P.f,dlkslfksldk k ffffffffffuuuuuuuuu.......

No.

Listen, He just got fed up with waiting.

I don't understand how in the hell you bullettes manage to move so slow.

Nonetheless, He's a vUrgo, so you're naturally his kryptonite.

Idk if your friend's a libra or gemini(might be even leo chick) but he's most likely just keeping his mind in check in order not to go crazy with the slow pace.

Just make something, send a picture of it to him and say "I made this today".

See what he responds.

That's what one Taurus chick sent me.

It got me fightin my thoughts.

Maybe it will work.

She's an Aquarius!

Yes, i should start taking few initiatives. Like you suggested make something! Im a great cook , maybe ill invite him for lunch or bake a cake for him.

I'm so crushed inside because i could see it in his eye's that my friend really had his attention and he looked completely awestruck with her! And suddenly i was a crowd between two of them. The mere memory and the aftermath marathon of texts and calling between them makes me want to break my head !

I understand i didnt move fast. But neither did he ! And thing's were still going smooth with subtle flirting.

Nonetheless, He's a vUrgo, so you're naturally his kryptonite. Makes me smile thanks for saying it ☺

Okay, that could work.

Here's the thing, I have no idea if you're shy-shy, girly or like what are you presenting yourself as.

Him, I think I understand.

Maybe this will help you.

1) I walked into a store with my girlfriend to buy something.

I see a good looking salesgirl, so I start chatting her up about something and in a minute both of us are flirting and almost eye-fuckin each other....the girlfriend's basically standing there just mindblown.

Next time we come there, girlfriend says sarcastically with a smirk "there's your girlfriend".

I say "There she is" and go chat with her again.

2) Once I somehow found this one new girl, hit it off with her, went to her place and started getting her out of her shell (she was shy).

Cracking jokes, teasing her, kissing etc.

She was too shy to have sex at first, so after about visiting her twice, I just said fuck it, left her place and went back home to the wifey.

3 days later she started sending me text's like "You should come spend the night over here 🙂"

I thought about it, then shrugged it off.

She should've taken the chance when she had it.

Returned to my girlfriend.

What I'm telling you is...........Show him that you're the best out there.

If you can pull this off - you're golden.

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This explains a lot , thank you.

By a lot i mean i get an insight on his side of story a bit! May be I'm not for him.. may be i have been only pushing my luck ! May be even if i take a bold step today he will find it out eventually that's not me. Because that honestly is not me ! By tricking him to fall in love or by portraying myself as SOME bomb im not only fooling him ill be fooling myself too .

Hm , you are right when you say show him you are the best out there ! But i think it's something missing in my own confidence or my own personal judgment of myself alone that i may be am not the right match for him ! Because he's truly a gorgeous man with smartest brain you could find in thousand. Err.. may be i had simply got my hopes higher than i could ever reach .

But thank you .

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Posted by OHNOXoxo
I was so active on this site but im so heartbroken i don't know whats happening anymore!

I thought me and my Virgo man could establish something romantic and may be he's shy or may be he really needs time to come out of his shell and say something sweet to me someday! But all hopes are gone... —

I recently met him unexpectedly in a cafe where i was sitting with my beautiful friend and within minutes he charmed her pants off. Made future meeting plan's , made few business opportunities known and got her hooked to him like a bee! I was right there watching all this transformation and thinking to myself what did i miss !! Now i hear he calls her everyday sends the same greeting messages makes her laugh hysterically and the list goes on and on ... —??

I'm done with life! It took me 3 year's to let my past go and have a strong crush on someone and im back to square one of being the same miserable state i was in 3 year's back.

When i hadn't met him the loneliness never bothered me i was still happy but now i feel im dying inside!

Fuck him. You don't need a dude who goes after your friends.

He was never about you or loyal enough to be boyfriend material. You say this happened 3 years ago? If this is a recurring pattern then you may need to look at yourself and ask why you continually fall for dudes who are wrong for you...

It wasn't the same situation 3 year's back . But the heartache was , felt similar to present ache!

You are right when you say he wasn't all about me but the hints and behaviour and few thing's did make me feel there could be more to our friendship. I was hoping and praying each day , we hit it off together!

But well ! Everyone's saying i didnt move fast .. but is it compulsory to move at a fast pace?! But is it like People who are naturally shy and not so open about their feelings have no chance at love??!!

I know sawyer is telling you that you should've fucked him and cause you waited you lost him. I disagree. If you would've fucked him he probably would've still moved on your friend and you'd be even more devastated.

As long as your showing your interest, aka being friendly/flirty, then if he was really interested he would've made an effort. Men go after the things they want. He just isn't that into you.

Next time don't get emotionally attached to a friend. Protect your heart.

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Next time dont get emotionally attached to a friend??!!!

Him reciprocating or not is different than how I develop feelings for someone who could be my friend !!

He's not the only friend i have many friends. But he's the one i have feelings or developed feelings for ! And i couldn't help myself

Posted by csdude55
I'm officially tired of the games and BS. You win, I quit. I'm done chasing anybody, dating has been nothing but pain for me and I just don't have it in me anymore.

Sorry to say but the dating world has changed drastically with the growth of technology! 10 years ago how many people met online compared to now? The figures have changed

You think men are the only ones with these issues? People out there can be so tough in this day! Men and women you need to either suck it up and become stronger yourself or find other ways of dealing with it but feeling sorry for yourself is not a solution

but aries mooners don't quit

Haha, you got that right!! It can be sooooo frustrating to be me...

Try to care less. There are A LOT of screwed-up tools out there...

Yep. I'm a triple-Virgo, though, so caring less is against my nature. But I do try.

Men and women you need to either suck it up and become stronger yourself or find other ways of dealing with it but feeling sorry for yourself is not a solution

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I respectfully disagree 🙂 Feeling sorry for yourself is natural, and venting in a productive way like on an anonymous message board keeps people like me from blowing up at someone inappropriately.

I do agree, though, that dating can be tough for everyone.

Posted by Toti
I find dating world quite amusing. Nothing is as it seems, everything is possible and nothing is happening... Never a dull moment with everybody playing their own games.

T'is true

Posted by csdude55

but aries mooners don't quit

Haha, you got that right!! It can be sooooo frustrating to be me...

Try to care less. There are A LOT of screwed-up tools out there...

Yep. I'm a triple-Virgo, though, so caring less is against my nature. But I do try.

Men and women you need to either suck it up and become stronger yourself or find other ways of dealing with it but feeling sorry for yourself is not a solution

I respectfully disagree 🙂 Feeling sorry for yourself is natural, and venting in a productive way like on an anonymous message board keeps people like me from blowing up at someone inappropriately.

I do agree, though, that dating can be tough for everyone.

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Yeah it's all good to have a rant hell i'v just had one over a virgo but if you put a negative feeling sorry for yourself aura out there when you're on dates your level of attraction immediately depletes! How's your relationship with yourself? how do you feel about you?

How's your relationship with yourself? how do you feel about you?

Oh, I freakin' hate myself. I'm so sick of everything about me, you seriously wouldn't believe it. I've been fighting off depression pretty consistently since around 2013 or 2014, but I'm not suicidal like I was back then.

But I'm pretty sure I internalize that fairly well; most people that I'm happy, funny, and goofy. And since 90% of my human interaction is online, I think I keep it well hidden. With a Virgo moon, too, I'm usually pretty happy when I'm talking to my crush, anyway, so I don't think any of that leaks out to where she would ever know...