should i wish my all time crush a happy birthday after no contact for 4 months?

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imascorpio10
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so its me again lol sorry, its my virgos birthday tomorrow and we wish each other a happy birthday every year for the past 5 years no matter if we have contact or not. i feel like this time is different and idk if i should wish him or not. we usuallt do this kind of like saying 'hey i still remember your birthday' so should i wish him or not really? if you want a more detailed explanation of this story go check my other thread lmao

but virgos, would you like it or would you just like not give a damn??
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Posted by imascorpio10

so its me again lol sorry, its my virgos birthday tomorrow and we wish each other a happy birthday every year for the past 5 years no matter if we have contact or not. i feel like this time is different and idk if i should wish him or not. we usuallt do this kind of like saying 'hey i still remember your birthday' so should i wish him or not really? if you want a more detailed explanation of this story go check my other thread lmao

but virgos, would you like it or would you just like not give a damn??


Do you see any harm in it?
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imascorpio10
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Posted by 4evercharm

I did it with my Virgo X and it opened things right up. Very unexpected as all i wanted was a TY.

As for me, I wish most of my special X's a Happy Birthday. Seems to be a nice gesture and does not mean you want them back or more than just a nice thing to do.

Just Do It!


knowing my stubborn ass virgo the way i do i know he'll only say thank you even if he wanted to say more he wouldnt ...

thanks for the advice!
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imascorpio10
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Posted by UrsaMediocre

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Posted by UrsaMediocre

What's the worse that can happen?


me being the sensitive biatch that i am getting all my hopes up and then get heartbroken because id only get a "thank you" instead of more lmao


Word. So how did it go?
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just how i was expecting, he said thank you and thats about it, i saw him today too, first time in actual months, i was alone with a friend of mine which was a dude and i dont think he knows him and he saw us together so idk. anyway the birthday wish happened before he saw us, if he'd want to talk to me hed find a way to do it, i guess he doesnt
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So I had been getting advise from @GemCurio regsrding my virgo guy and now @GemCurio seems to be MIA. Like @imascropio10 i have a question regarding my Virgo's bday. My Virgo asked for space June 1, we text about every weeks just to say hi and how each other is doing. @GemCurio had advised in Aug. that I should write my virgo a letter. I have and thought I would mail it with a bday card and the gift I ordered for him. Now my Virgos bday was Sept. 3 and unfortunately the gift arrived late 🙁 Now I am thinking that just mailing it is too impersonal and I would like to deliver it personally (he lives about 112km away). Do I message him a few days prior asking if it's ok to come by, do I message him when I get on the ferry (that's a 30 min ride) or do I just go to his house not sure whether he is working or not? I know that he has always said his door is open but I am also trying to respect that he has asked for space.