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1. trust =/= detachment
"it doesn't seem like you care"
"you don't ask me where I came from"
well one thing y'all should know is that if a virgo truly loves you then that means they'll trust you with everything
"have fun" is probably all what you're going to get when you mention boys nights out
we won't grill you for coming home late because what the fuck would you be doing? cheating? no way lol
we won't feel jealous when women/men flirt with you, 90% out of times a virgo would laugh and cheer you on.
we trust you and our relationship
I don't think many people realize how big trust is in virgos relationships, like once we establish that good luck breaking it.
yet we get lots of shit for it because it seem like "we don't care" when its just us putting our faith in our partners.
2. private =/= detachment
"you don't seem that affectionate towards your partner"
well, first its non of anyone business but to give you an insight to what all this is about. WE ARE PRIVATE even more than scorpios, I don't know about other virgos but even after the relationship end I wouldn't want anyone to know anything, it is/was "ours" for a reason.
3. we don't drop hints because we don't get hints
1st dating stage:
"you seemed standoffish"
"it seemed like you've friendzoned me"
well, Virgos act normal and be themselves around everyone, even potential partners.
3. we do apologize, but only when we're wrong. AKA once in a blue moon
"you never apologize"
well, I don't know if any of you ever cared enough to read between the lines
and realize that "virgos are their own worst critic"
we don't just refuse to apologize, we think it over and over and over in our heads
guilt is death to virgos, we can't live with it. so there's no way our mindset is against apologizing.
you however won't get an apology if you're guilt tripping/manipulating us
or when you're upset over something that is within our nature
and you won't get one if we think we did the right thing which is based on other stuff that make absolute sense- even if it seemed like a dick move.-
(earthy-watery virgo)
"it doesn't seem like you care"
"you don't ask me where I came from"
well one thing y'all should know is that if a virgo truly loves you then that means they'll trust you with everything
"have fun" is probably all what you're going to get when you mention boys nights out
we won't grill you for coming home late because what the fuck would you be doing? cheating? no way lol
we won't feel jealous when women/men flirt with you, 90% out of times a virgo would laugh and cheer you on.
we trust you and our relationship
I don't think many people realize how big trust is in virgos relationships, like once we establish that good luck breaking it.
yet we get lots of shit for it because it seem like "we don't care" when its just us putting our faith in our partners.
2. private =/= detachment
"you don't seem that affectionate towards your partner"
well, first its non of anyone business but to give you an insight to what all this is about. WE ARE PRIVATE even more than scorpios, I don't know about other virgos but even after the relationship end I wouldn't want anyone to know anything, it is/was "ours" for a reason.
3. we don't drop hints because we don't get hints
1st dating stage:
"you seemed standoffish"
"it seemed like you've friendzoned me"
well, Virgos act normal and be themselves around everyone, even potential partners.
3. we do apologize, but only when we're wrong. AKA once in a blue moon
"you never apologize"
well, I don't know if any of you ever cared enough to read between the lines
and realize that "virgos are their own worst critic"
we don't just refuse to apologize, we think it over and over and over in our heads
guilt is death to virgos, we can't live with it. so there's no way our mindset is against apologizing.
you however won't get an apology if you're guilt tripping/manipulating us
or when you're upset over something that is within our nature
and you won't get one if we think we did the right thing which is based on other stuff that make absolute sense- even if it seemed like a dick move.-
(earthy-watery virgo)
Here for the lessons... carry on
My Aries Venus wants to chase but my Taurus sun and moon says sit the fuck down. Catch 22... which one should I use with virgos? (My favorite earth sign by the way ?)
Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSI'd go with my mood #EarthSignsConnection
My Aries Venus wants to chase but my Taurus sun and moon says sit the fuck down. Catch 22... which one should I use with virgos? (My favorite earth sign by the way ?)
Taking notes for my wishy washy ass
*sigh*
am lovin' my Virguy at the mo ๐
am lovin' my Virguy at the mo ๐
Posted by startwarsAh I see go with the flow at the time.. gotchaPosted by SPUNKYTAURUSI'd go with my mood #EarthSignsConnection
My Aries Venus wants to chase but my Taurus sun and moon says sit the fuck down. Catch 22... which one should I use with virgos? (My favorite earth sign by the way ?)click to expand
My sister constantly corrects me, not knowing I am usually having an autocorrect issue. Normally I would send a quick follow up, letting her know it's an autocorrect issue, but now I f*ck with her by purposely spelling things incorrectly to get under her skin or see if she'll have a "meltdown" (not a real meltdown, just lose her cool correcting everything). How can I make this meltdown happen faster?
#TrueStory
#TrueStory
I guess I should have read the OP more carefully.
Okay, why does my Virgo sister feel the need to correct very stupid spelling mistakes?
Actually I don't care why she does it. I really just want to know about activating the meltdown.
Okay, why does my Virgo sister feel the need to correct very stupid spelling mistakes?
Actually I don't care why she does it. I really just want to know about activating the meltdown.
Posted by PhoenixRisinghahaha
My sister constantly corrects, not knowing its autocorrect. Normally I would send a quick follow up, letting her know it's an autocorrect issue, but now I f*ck with her by purposely spelling things incorrectly to get under her skin or see if she'll have a "meltdown" (not a real meltdown, just lose her cool correcting everything). How can I make this meltdown happen faster?
#TrueStory
send
her
one
word
at
a
time
Posted by startwarsPosted by PhoenixRisinghahaha
My sister constantly corrects, not knowing its autocorrect. Normally I would send a quick follow up, letting her know it's an autocorrect issue, but now I f*ck with her by purposely spelling things incorrectly to get under her skin or see if she'll have a "meltdown" (not a real meltdown, just lose her cool correcting everything). How can I make this meltdown happen faster?
#TrueStory
send
her
one
word
at
a
timeclick to expand
Brilliant. Thanks!
Posted by PhoenixRising#TeamVirgoPosted by startwarsPosted by PhoenixRisinghahaha
My sister constantly corrects, not knowing its autocorrect. Normally I would send a quick follow up, letting her know it's an autocorrect issue, but now I f*ck with her by purposely spelling things incorrectly to get under her skin or see if she'll have a "meltdown" (not a real meltdown, just lose her cool correcting everything). How can I make this meltdown happen faster?
#TrueStory
send
her
one
word
at
a
time
Brilliant. Thanks!
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Posted by startwarsThat's very true. Virgos can tell when you're trying to manipulate them because we can seperate fact from fiction: what you're doing to us, what we're doing to you, what actually happened. We can categorize things in our head and that makes us good at spotting out a lie.
you however won't get an apology if you're guilt tripping/manipulating us
Posted by PhoenixRisingI only get annoyed when I misspell shit, when others do it im like yeah i expected that go back to school
I guess I should have read the OP more carefully.
Okay, why does my Virgo sister feel the need to correct very stupid spelling mistakes?
Actually I don't care why she does it. I really just want to know about activating the meltdown.
Posted by MiZLeoI NEVER interrupt anyone's sleep
I got an apology from my Virgo weeks later for something I
1. Forgot about
2. Dont ever really remember being upset about other than the fact he woke me up in the middle of the night interrupting my beauty sleep.
3. Never said anything or hinted anything about it or that I was upset.
I was really shocked with the apology.... I didn't even know what say lol
sleep is life
I'd apologize if i was him
Posted by startwarssuch a thing as "too well" ...?Posted by wagtailI knew you'd do well with virgos
*sigh*
am lovin' my Virguy at the mo ๐
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Posted by wagtailPosted by startwarssuch a thing as "too well" ...?Posted by wagtailI knew you'd do well with virgos
*sigh*
am lovin' my Virguy at the mo ๐
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Posted by NineAvenuedamn virgobro we wise
spelling does not impress me, i could care less. it is the intent.
i love to travel, see things and go places. spur of the moment too. live for tomorrow.
words matter plus actions.
trust is important. dont abuse it. dont lie
i dont care about gossip, eventualy ill know what is what my self.
ohh again dont lie.
come to me with your problems.....not everyone else.
Posted by MiZLeoPosted by startwarsHe was appologising for leaving in the middle of the night. I honestly didn't think much of it cause he's allergic to my cat and that night in particular he seemed to be having a bad reaction so I figured he couldn't take it anymore and that's why he left. I had to get up and lock the door behind him cause I hadn't trusted him with my key yet.Posted by MiZLeoI NEVER interrupt anyone's sleep
I got an apology from my Virgo weeks later for something I
1. Forgot about
2. Dont ever really remember being upset about other than the fact he woke me up in the middle of the night interrupting my beauty sleep.
3. Never said anything or hinted anything about it or that I was upset.
I was really shocked with the apology.... I didn't even know what say lol
sleep is life
I'd apologize if i was him
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he's being the angel considerate virgo we all are.
Posted by startwarsHow do I form my facts into questions? Help me Virgos.
this thread will be full of insights on the virgos motives and intentions behind some of their actions.
so @ non virgos, save your "facts" for later. questions are welcome though
@ virgos share yours too, state your other placements, whether you're an airy/firey/watery/earthy virgo and your dominant sign.
Posted by LadyNeptuneLOLPosted by startwarsHow do I form my facts into questions? Help me Virgos.
this thread will be full of insights on the virgos motives and intentions behind some of their actions.
so @ non virgos, save your "facts" for later. questions are welcome though
@ virgos share yours too, state your other placements, whether you're an airy/firey/watery/earthy virgo and your dominant sign.
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no
Posted by Toti*as a Virgo moon, I'm qualified to answer*
Why Virgos go hot/cold,disappear then appear again,keep silent and then say something that amazes you,etc? I'd really like to know...
Because we recharge our mental/emotional batteries during our downtime. It's nothing personal. We just appreciate solitude every so often. It's not an indication of how much we like/dislike you.
Endorsing this 100% !
Adding we can be shy around love interests in the beginning. And we don't let people into our hearts quickly because we love hard when we do, so it's worth the wait to be patient with us. Just do right by us after we let you in because being done wrong takes a long time to recover from. I'll never show it though, my injured self will make a clean break and walk away...
(watery-earthy virgo)
Adding we can be shy around love interests in the beginning. And we don't let people into our hearts quickly because we love hard when we do, so it's worth the wait to be patient with us. Just do right by us after we let you in because being done wrong takes a long time to recover from. I'll never show it though, my injured self will make a clean break and walk away...
(watery-earthy virgo)
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by startwarsHow do I form my facts into questions? Help me Virgos.
this thread will be full of insights on the virgos motives and intentions behind some of their actions.
so @ non virgos, save your "facts" for later. questions are welcome though
@ virgos share yours too, state your other placements, whether you're an airy/firey/watery/earthy virgo and your dominant sign.
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Here you go-
Why do Virgos end friendships without telling the person they ended it when the person did no wrong?
Posted by beautifulsoul74Cause they're assholes.
Why do Virgos end friendships without telling the person they ended it when the person did no wrong?
Posted by mehPosted by NineAvenuePosted by mehPoor upbringingPosted by NineAvenueRead stories of those false rumours too often.
Just bc a virgo has certain astrology aspects does not mean he will cheat or manipulate you.
Seems there are many false rumors of that going on...
What makes a Virgo man inclined to cheat?
No respect for people
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*** The woman chatting up and flirting with other guys.***
*** When the virgo knows she's cheating on him and he never says anything about it.***
^^^ He may just in fact, pack the womans things in trash bags and send them to her.^^^
I've once read that Virgos mirror their partners.
- Do you agree with it?
- Would a Virgo match the intensity of their partner?
- Do Virgos flirt while in a relationship only because their partner is flirting?
- Am I asking too many questions?
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No, we're usually intelligent with strong minds and opinions so mirroring not necessary. But we are mutable...and adaptable.
Yes, but isn't that how most people are in relationships?
No, I don't let your behavior affect mine. If you're disrespecting me I'll let you know, not bring myself down to your level.
No, you aren't asking too many questions.
Posted by startwars
1. trust =/= detachment
"it doesn't seem like you care"
"you don't ask me where I came from"
well one thing y'all should know is that if a virgo truly loves you then that means they'll trust you with everything
"have fun" is probably all what you're going to get when you mention boys nights out
we won't grill you for coming home late because what the fuck would you be doing? cheating? no way lol
we won't feel jealous when women/men flirt with you, 90% out of times a virgo would laugh and cheer you on.
we trust you and our relationship
I don't think many people realize how big trust is in virgos relationships, like once we establish that good luck breaking it.
yet we get lots of shit for it because it seem like "we don't care" when its just us putting our faith in our partners.
2. private =/= detachment
"you don't seem that affectionate towards your partner"
well, first its non of anyone business but to give you an insight to what all this is about. WE ARE PRIVATE even more than scorpios, I don't know about other virgos but even after the relationship end I wouldn't want anyone to know anything, it is/was "ours" for a reason.
3. we don't drop hints because we don't get hints
1st dating stage:
"you seemed standoffish"
"it seemed like you've friendzoned me"
well, Virgos act normal and be themselves around everyone, even potential partners.
3. we do apologize, but only when we're wrong. AKA once in a blue moon
"you never apologize"
well, I don't know if any of you ever cared enough to read between the lines
and realize that "virgos are their own worst critic"
we don't just refuse to apologize, we think it over and over and over in our heads
guilt is death to virgos, we can't live with it. so there's no way our mindset is against apologizing.
you however won't get an apology if you're guilt tripping/manipulating us
or when you're upset over something that is within our nature
and you won't get one if we think we did the right thing which is based on other stuff that make absolute sense- even if it seemed like a dick move.-
(earthy-watery virgo)
So true this is what I learned being with a virgo. you really have to learn how to pay attention to understand a Virgo like you said you got to read between the lines to understand them.
Thank you @meh!
idk about y'all, but I HAVE to be at least good friends w/ a guy before we date. I'm not sure how women can date guys they've just met with instantly... not for me :/
I need to be able to have fun with the guy, teasing and joking and stuff. My best friend ?
Humor is the way to my heart. It our humor is on the same wavelength โโ
I need to be able to have fun with the guy, teasing and joking and stuff. My best friend ?
Humor is the way to my heart. It our humor is on the same wavelength โโ
Posted by beautifulsoul74
Why do Virgos end friendships without telling the person they ended it when the person did no wrong?
You ever suspend phone accounts?
The connection is still there just not ready to continue at that moment.
Gives an open opportunity to pop up randomly at any time in the future.
Posted by beautifulsoul74
Why do Virgos end friendships without telling the person they ended it when the person did no wrong?
What makes you think they did no wrong? I've blazed on two friendships but there was a reason...
One example, friend had an affair with a married man whose wife was dying of cancer. I don't judge, but didn't want to be around that energy... Didn't think it was my place to confront a grown person about what she was doing.
Posted by startwarsThis is so much like me in relationship lol. Guess its my virgo venus. I had a question tho, can two Virgo suns who are very similar, be happy together in long run??
1. trust =/= detachment
2. private =/= detachment
3. we don't drop hints because we don't get hints
3. we do apologize, but only when we're wrong. AKA once in a blue moon
(earthy-watery virgo)
Posted by LentoBull91Posted by startwars
1. trust =/= detachment
"it doesn't seem like you care"
"you don't ask me where I came from"
well one thing y'all should know is that if a virgo truly loves you then that means they'll trust you with everything
"have fun" is probably all what you're going to get when you mention boys nights out
we won't grill you for coming home late because what the fuck would you be doing? cheating? no way lol
we won't feel jealous when women/men flirt with you, 90% out of times a virgo would laugh and cheer you on.
we trust you and our relationship
I don't think many people realize how big trust is in virgos relationships, like once we establish that good luck breaking it.
yet we get lots of shit for it because it seem like "we don't care" when its just us putting our faith in our partners.
2. private =/= detachment
"you don't seem that affectionate towards your partner"
well, first its non of anyone business but to give you an insight to what all this is about. WE ARE PRIVATE even more than scorpios, I don't know about other virgos but even after the relationship end I wouldn't want anyone to know anything, it is/was "ours" for a reason.
3. we don't drop hints because we don't get hints
1st dating stage:
"you seemed standoffish"
"it seemed like you've friendzoned me"
well, Virgos act normal and be themselves around everyone, even potential partners.
3. we do apologize, but only when we're wrong. AKA once in a blue moon
"you never apologize"
well, I don't know if any of you ever cared enough to read between the lines
and realize that "virgos are their own worst critic"
we don't just refuse to apologize, we think it over and over and over in our heads
guilt is death to virgos, we can't live with it. so there's no way our mindset is against apologizing.
you however won't get an apology if you're guilt tripping/manipulating us
or when you're upset over something that is within our nature
and you won't get one if we think we did the right thing which is based on other stuff that make absolute sense- even if it seemed like a dick move.-
(earthy-watery virgo)
So true this is what I learned being with a virgo. you really have to learn how to pay attention to understand a Virgo like you said you got to read between the lines to understand them.click to expand
Read between the lines. And here I thought Virgo's were "very straightforward."
riiiiiiiiiight.......
Posted by beautifulsoul74were you close friends?
Why do Virgos end friendships without telling the person they ended it when the person did no wrong?
Posted by AneemA08- I think we suck at making it obvious that we have feelings for someone, so just ask them.
Very helpful, thanks.
How do you know if virgo starts to have feels for you though?
Gimme an example pls..
Are they sensitive? Do they bottle up feelings?
What if say, a person you care about doesn't do the particulars of your requests, how would they feel?
I'm asking in order to make someone feel comfy around me.
I can be rather cold at times, dk why.
Prone to manipulation as well so gimme some examples of the manipulations you were talkng about in your OP that virgos won't take very well, pls.
- I don't understand the 2nd question
- all what you scorpios do ?โ๏ธ picking fights for attention, making them jealous, guilt trips..etc
Posted by PetalsI ship itPosted by startwarsThis is so much like me in relationship lol. Guess its my virgo venus. I had a question tho, can two Virgo suns who are very similar, be happy together in long run??
1. trust =/= detachment
2. private =/= detachment
3. we don't drop hints because we don't get hints
3. we do apologize, but only when we're wrong. AKA once in a blue moon
(earthy-watery virgo)
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Posted by GetMistedwhat's it like to always be banned?
What's it like to always be in 3rd place?
Posted by GetMistedwhat's it like to never get to play?Posted by startwarsWhat's it like to never get 5/5?Posted by GetMistedwhat's it like to always be banned?
What's it like to always be in 3rd place?click to expand
Posted by GetMistedWhat's it like to not know how to host your bb game?Posted by startwarsWhat's it like to not know your own Kik username?Posted by GetMistedwhat's it like to never get to play?Posted by startwarsWhat's it like to never get 5/5?Posted by GetMistedwhat's it like to always be banned?
What's it like to always be in 3rd place?click to expand
Posted by startwarsTo the point to where we were confidants.Posted by beautifulsoul74were you close friends?
Why do Virgos end friendships without telling the person they ended it when the person did no wrong?click to expand
Posted by GetMistedPosted by startwarsPlayed basketball yesterdayPosted by GetMistedWhat's it like to not know how to host your bb game?Posted by startwarsWhat's it like to not know your own Kik username?Posted by GetMistedwhat's it like to never get to play?Posted by startwarsWhat's it like to never get 5/5?Posted by GetMistedwhat's it like to always be banned?
What's it like to always be in 3rd place?click to expand
Posted by beautifulsoul74Weird, maybe they think you've done something shady and are being petty because "you probably know what you've done"Posted by startwarsTo the point to where we were confidants.Posted by beautifulsoul74were you close friends?
Why do Virgos end friendships without telling the person they ended it when the person did no wrong?
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Posted by startwarsI see. Even though that's not the case, if it were..it's sad. Takes a lot of effort to build something to where you're confidants and have 100% trust in each other...only to have to have it broken by what most likely amounts to a perception problem and not actual reality.Posted by beautifulsoul74Weird, maybe they think you've done something shady and are being petty because "you probably know what you've done"Posted by startwarsTo the point to where we were confidants.Posted by beautifulsoul74were you close friends?
Why do Virgos end friendships without telling the person they ended it when the person did no wrong?
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I'm not laying situations like these at Virgos feet because every sign does it. But if we're being fair and honest here, every sign simply has a different version of the same issue.
Posted by SunsetvirgoDitto. I find I'm more comfortable being myself when we start off as friends. There's no pressure of putting on an impression.
idk about y'all, but I HAVE to be at least good friends w/ a guy before we date. I'm not sure how women can date guys they've just met with instantly... not for me :/
I need to be able to have fun with the guy, teasing and joking and stuff. My best friend ?
Humor is the way to my heart. It our humor is on the same wavelength โโ
Posted by beautifulsoul74sorry about thatPosted by startwarsI see. Even though that's not the case, if it were..it's sad. Takes a lot of effort to build something to where you're confidants and have 100% trust in each other...only to have to have it broken by what most likely amounts to a perception problem and not actual reality.Posted by beautifulsoul74Weird, maybe they think you've done something shady and are being petty because "you probably know what you've done"Posted by startwarsTo the point to where we were confidants.Posted by beautifulsoul74were you close friends?
Why do Virgos end friendships without telling the person they ended it when the person did no wrong?
I'm not laying situations like these at Virgos feet because every sign does it. But if we're being fair and honest here, every sign simply has a different version of the same issue.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UzLCQaHF84o
I haven't responded...
Virgo Sun in the 5th House
Leo Moon in the 4th House
Libra Mercury in the 6th House
Aries Jupiter in the 12th House
Sagittarius Saturn in the 7th House
What could this mean?
What are your experiences?
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Is there such a thing?
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so @ non virgos, save your "facts" for later. questions are welcome though
@ virgos share yours too, state your other placements, whether you're an airy/firey/watery/earthy virgo and your dominant sign.