Why do virgos ghost you?

dated a Virgo for 7 weeks, after our 7th date he disappeared. I'm trying to wrap my mind around what could've happened or why he did it. The date was fine nothing out of the ordinary happened.

dated a Virgo for 7 weeks, after our 7th date he disappeared. I'm trying to wrap my mind around what could've happened or why he did it. The date was fine nothing out of the ordinary happened.

Cause we are douchebags

What’s your sign?

Posted by piperita

What’s your sign?

Gemini

Posted by GemCurio

You're so bad..lol

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I can't help myself ...

Trying to keep you on dxp LOL

For whatever reason they have just let them do what they think is best.

You just carry on being badass and don't let it worry you.

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Posted by Cassy33

dated a Virgo for 7 weeks, after our 7th date he disappeared. I'm trying to wrap my mind around what could've happened or why he did it. The date was fine nothing out of the ordinary happened.

Gemini and Virgo are not compatible. Find yourself an air or fire sign! They are private people and Gemini like to gossip. Also they like to have good conversations but Gemini sometimes can give too much information all at once which can overwhelm Virgo.

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Yea I think you're right... I'm thinking he's maybe to reserved for me but still... ghosting is not cool.

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Cause we are douchebags

Disagree 💙

Posted by wagtail

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Cause we are douchebags

Disagree 💙

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Thanks love ❤️

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Cause we are douchebags

Well I'm sure glad to hear one of you admit it!

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Posted by Cassy33

dated a Virgo for 7 weeks, after our 7th date he disappeared. I'm trying to wrap my mind around what could've happened or why he did it. The date was fine nothing out of the ordinary happened.

Because there are some Virgos who are coward as fuck to tell somebody head on that they're not already interested in them.

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Unfortunately every Virgo I've known has been like that. And romance had nothing to do with any of it as it was friends or family members. They hide behind the excuse of not liking confrontations. Piss poor excuse to the rest of us sensible adults who know that sometimes, things just have to be met head on. Things just need to be said.

Posted by Lala1393

I don't think that's just a Virgo thing. I knew a Sag who did that. Litterally....POOF.

Then he came back. Like errr. Nah. Back off bruh. ✋🏾

That's just 'cause Sagittarius anything has the attention span of a gnat!

As mentioned earlier, I think they are scared to tell you off that they are not interested. For some reason, they think they can change you into that perfect partner that they are looking for. But if things don't work their way, thats if they realize that they can't change you, they bail out. I have had a couple of Virgos appear, disappear, re-appaear and so on in my life.I have been trying to get the answer to this question. Lucky enough, one Virgo mentioned this to me and it somehow makes sense.

I'm trying to figure this out too! It's as though they pronounce you dead...

Posted by chris19

As mentioned earlier, I think they are scared to tell you off that they are not interested. For some reason, they think they can change you into that perfect partner that they are looking for. But if things don't work their way, thats if they realize that they can't change you, they bail out. I have had a couple of Virgos appear, disappear, re-appaear and so on in my life.I have been trying to get the answer to this question. Lucky enough, one Virgo mentioned this to me and it somehow makes sense.

This makes sense except the fact that he seemed interested... he did fall back on communication while he was vacation but when he got back he messaged me to make sure we were still getting together Saturday. We did and everything was great he was acting interested Saturday then... ghost

Posted by Cassy33

Posted by chris19

As mentioned earlier, I think they are scared to tell you off that they are not interested. For some reason, they think they can change you into that perfect partner that they are looking for. But if things don't work their way, thats if they realize that they can't change you, they bail out. I have had a couple of Virgos appear, disappear, re-appaear and so on in my life.I have been trying to get the answer to this question. Lucky enough, one Virgo mentioned this to me and it somehow makes sense.

This makes sense except the fact that he seemed interested... he did fall back on communication while he was vacation but when he got back he messaged me to make sure we were still getting together Saturday. We did and everything was great he was acting interested Saturday then... ghost

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Option 1: Thats how they act. Your situation is kind of similar to mine. You know one minute they seem interested the other they completely shut off. This whole behavior is strange but you will get used to it. I think they afraid of committing to someone. One Virgo told me that the love I gave her was intense she was afraid of breaking my heart. Therefore, I deserved someone who would equally show me the affection. She didn't want to ghost to me around. Do you text or call your Virgo frequently? If so you need to reduce on that. Pretend as if he doesn't exist, give him a day or two or if possible a week.

Option 2: How close are you with this Virgo? You need to confront him. There must be something pulling him back.

Option 3: Thats the typical behavior of Virgo. You have to get used to it. I suggest you move on from this guy.

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Posted by Cassy33

Posted by chris19

As mentioned earlier, I think they are scared to tell you off that they are not interested. For some reason, they think they can change you into that perfect partner that they are looking for. But if things don't work their way, thats if they realize that they can't change you, they bail out. I have had a couple of Virgos appear, disappear, re-appaear and so on in my life.I have been trying to get the answer to this question. Lucky enough, one Virgo mentioned this to me and it somehow makes sense.

This makes sense except the fact that he seemed interested... he did fall back on communication while he was vacation but when he got back he messaged me to make sure we were still getting together Saturday. We did and everything was great he was acting interested Saturday then... ghost

Option 1: Thats how they act. Your situation is kind of similar to mine. You know one minute they seem interested the other they completely shut off. This whole behavior is strange but you will get used to it. I think they afraid of committing to someone. One Virgo told me that the love I gave her was intense she was afraid of breaking my heart. Therefore, I deserved someone who would equally show me the affection. She didn't want to ghost to me around. Do you text or call your Virgo frequently? If so you need to reduce on that. Pretend as if he doesn't exist, give him a day or two or if possible a week.

Option 2: How close are you with this Virgo? You need to confront him. There must be something pulling him back.

Option 3: Thats the typical behavior of Virgo. You have to get used to it. I suggest you move on from this guy.

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I tried confronting him by text. I'm not going to just show up at his house. He ignored me... yea I'm DEF moving on

I do it and it doesn't always mean I'm no longer interested...

I distance myself for a number of reasons...busy from work, stressed, need time to myself, emotional reasons (because of my crabby moon) as so on...

Hell, there will be times I distance myself and don't even realize I'm doing it

Posted by virgal_perfectionist

I do it and it doesn't always mean I'm no longer interested...

I distance myself for a number of reasons...busy from work, stressed, need time to myself, emotional reasons (because of my crabby moon) as so on...

Hell, there will be times I distance myself and don't even realize I'm doing it

that's all well and great but what about communicating this to significant others in your life - if one would do this, there wouldn't be a question as to why

Posted by tctaap

Posted by virgal_perfectionist

I do it and it doesn't always mean I'm no longer interested...

I distance myself for a number of reasons...busy from work, stressed, need time to myself, emotional reasons (because of my crabby moon) as so on...

Hell, there will be times I distance myself and don't even realize I'm doing it

that's all well and great but what about communicating this to significant others in your life - if one would do this, there wouldn't be a question as to why

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And that's my downfall...usually when I communicate it I find it challenging to tell my significant other to either leave me alone or I don't want to talk about it without starting an argument. So I distance myself, handle it on my own (we are natural fixers and very critical on ourselves) and talk about it when I'm not so moody. Yes I know its not the best way to handle situation which is why I'll be single for a very very long time lol. *shrugs* I'm really working on this!!

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Posted by tctaap

Posted by virgal_perfectionist

I do it and it doesn't always mean I'm no longer interested...

I distance myself for a number of reasons...busy from work, stressed, need time to myself, emotional reasons (because of my crabby moon) as so on...

Hell, there will be times I distance myself and don't even realize I'm doing it

that's all well and great but what about communicating this to significant others in your life - if one would do this, there wouldn't be a question as to why

And that's my downfall...usually when I communicate it I find it challenging to tell my significant other to either leave me alone or I don't want to talk about it without starting an argument. So I distance myself, handle it on my own (we are natural fixers and very critical on ourselves) and talk about it when I'm not so moody. Yes I know its not the best way to handle situation which is why I'll be single for a very very long time lol. *shrugs* I'm really working on this!!

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honestly, I think a lot of people are like that - the ones that have the tendency to get overwhelmed and then need extreme quiet and space - I can be one of those as well but I don't hold back from communicating - I guess this naturally can help sometimes but most often not - but I do tell them how I am feeling and if they understand so be it, if not, so be that - I've never lost a friend because of this

is this how modern society is, not understand that people are not "UP" all the time and that the world is a bed of roses ? shit happens, people get sad, depressed, gloomy, or just need some quiet time to unwind - wtf is wrong with that, it's for real ? retrograde happens lol !

I’ve ghosted becuz of

*lost interest

*to emotional

*different wants

* turned off by ( watever)

* My feelings more intense than theirs

* they asked for space ( then I never return)

Mostly these reason but a lot of times I get busy so I don’t consider that ghosting.

I can go at least 5 days no contact when I’m busy

I just wanna say, when I deal with someone and I'm into him, really often suddenly I feel like I'm no longer interested. All of my feelings and whatever just dissapear and I'm like "Ah, I don't care about you" and I never write or care or smh. And thats that

So do you think my ghost will ever reappear?

Posted by imnotvirgo

I just wanna say, when I deal with someone and I'm into him, really often suddenly I feel like I'm no longer interested. All of my feelings and whatever just dissapear and I'm like "Ah, I don't care about you" and I never write or care or smh. And thats that

Do you ever change your mind then try to reach out again?

Posted by Cassy33

Posted by imnotvirgo

I just wanna say, when I deal with someone and I'm into him, really often suddenly I feel like I'm no longer interested. All of my feelings and whatever just dissapear and I'm like "Ah, I don't care about you" and I never write or care or smh. And thats that

Do you ever change your mind then try to reach out again?

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no 😢 it's all just gone