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Posted by bmoon8Posted by geminiwithataurusmanPosted by bmoon8"The pictures I take with her is like standing next to my co worker, let me handle things over here, everything I tell you is everything that I am. You have me. Just handling this for a little more. I'm not building with you just because. I don't build with anyone for nothing."
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Does this not tell you everything you need to know? Good lord.
Hello bmoon8. Thank you as I appreciate your approach. I actually don't get the play on words here. Its like standing next to your co worker? Where does the co worker come in? And kissing, holding me, affectionate moments is like standing next to your co worker—?? I DONT FUCKING GET IT.
But we just talked about buying a damn house!
You do? I think I finally succeeded in my goal with this thread. Now use that anger to fuel your actions to getting the hell out of this mess before he leaves you high and dry.
He’s just playing you like some fool and placating you until he leaves.click to expand
Thank you bmoon8.
Posted by jeanePosted by geminiwithataurusmanPosted by jeanePosted by sweethearts
Wow, I don’t know how you do it but yes leave the phone alone now, it’s just pure torture for you.
Looks like you are happy enough to accept he has you and her and you can live your life that way as long as he comes home to you. ( makes me wonder if he leaves his phone around for you to read it... that way both you and his gf accept his double life ) 🤔
It does sound like he loves you both and he’s comfortable, very comfortable living with the best of both worlds.
The only thing I urge you to do is tuck away a little bit of cash just in case your world comes crashing down one day out of the blue. Just enough to set you and the kids up on your own into another place where you can breathe.
i think this is the best advice.
you're happy with him, despite the existence of other woman. i say accept her presence and enjoy your life with him. i think you get a lot from this relationship. embrace it and try to put her out of your mind. often the little lies we tell ourselves get us through the day. maybe just accept that her being in his life is the price you have to pay to be with him.
but do put some cash away! you don't want the rug puled out from under you once those kids are grown.
Hello jeane. Thank you again for your advice! I read your posts often to get myself in line. I just want him with me jeane. I do not accept this woman and I keep thinking she will go. Stupid of me to think throughout our whole trip he didn't contact her, but he did, every single damn day! Not big conversations but text like "hey baby just checking in how are you" " hey beautiful I love you more than you could ever love me" "I don't give myself or my love openly and you have all of it" I am DISGUSTED! He told her this morning that pictures with me is like standing next to his co worker. Kissing, touching, displays of affection photos is like standing to his co worker—" What kind of co worker do you have if you are saying I am like your co worker with those types of photos?? Is this a play on words— "You have me and I am just handling this for a little more, I am not building with you just because, I don't build with anyone."
I just want him to tell me its over if that is HOW HE FEELS!!!!!!! But I know I also need to say something. I really did think this week alone and away meant something.
but we've been here before. you thought that his time with you over mother's day meant that he hadn't contacted her but he had.
to throw the cat amongst the pigeons...it's quite possible that he is lying to her too. handling what a bit longer? from what you have described you aren't holding him ransom in this marriage nor does he have to placate you to stop you from doing your worst. if anything, this entire thread shows that you are not that kind of woman.
so my sense is that he is playing the both of you and will keep this going for as long as you both allow him to.
i know you go through these short bursts of anger but then calm down and talk yourself round. i'm not judging you for that by the way, i think we all do the best we can to get through the day. what works for one is not going to work for all.
i know you just want him with you. the sad fact is that i don't think that's a realistic possibility. if it's not this other woman, it will be someone else. from what you have said, he checked out being only with you a long time ago.
from what i can see you can either share him (and close your eyes to it in order to maintain the loving relationship you feel you have ie family bbqs, loving photos on facebook, gifts and weekends away) or you kick off and kick him out. the former is the closest to what you want. you have to decide is it worth the price you have to pay (his affection being elsewhere) to have it.
to be fair, for 3 years you didn't have an inkling this was going on. even over your birthday, he kept it well hidden from you. you're not the first woman in history whose husband kept a part of his life secret from her. you won't be the last.
ultimately the question is, can you close your eyes to it?click to expand
Thank you jeane. You mentioned something, if its not you its someone else. Years ago, early in our marriage, I found out he was seeing someone, but it was nothing like this. The woman I found out about before in our early days was a purely sexual thing and definitely was for a couple of months if that, she also was seeing other people, etc..that was one of our tests to me and we succeeded over that hump. But this, I'm just amazed and pissed by. I feel like he is addicted to her and its disgusting to me. You can't even for a fucking day not talk to her———?? to me that is addiction.
She has been giving him hell for my birthday week vacation too. His texts is everything of explaining to her, and telling her he loves her.
I do not want to share him, I just wanted him to want us and our family. I had finally disclosed what was going on to my sister and she advised to stick it out before I leave and save more because while I have a little money in the bank from my own job, it won't be enough to sustain me. We do not have a home with both of our names, our house was gifted to him before we were married by his late aunt. And some other financial things that we aren't connected in marriage by, he has always handled all financial matters.
Yes, I do love family bbqs, loving photos on facebook, gifts and weekends away, I think these memories made is everything! I thought he felt the same.
Posted by sweethearts
Hmmm 🤔 my gut instinct to him getting you to “look for a house” is to move you from the family home so you and the kids will be sorted and out and that no longer ties him to the marital home.
Is he talking down sizing and/or looking in a different area?
Not sure he’d totally dupe you and the law won’t allow it, however, the law will freeze assets ie: property, bank accounts etc should there be a separation and especially if it’s nasty. This is why you need some money aside.. just in case.
There are two sides to any split, the Head & the Heart. Time to start thinking with the Head!
Your heart will only lead you to more misery and paralysed you!
Thank you sweethearts. Technically our home is his house only. He acquired this house before we got married from his late aunt. We have no communal property. We are looking in a different area. Yes my sister advices holing on to save.
Posted by sweethearts
And yeah, with Jeane here. Not entirely convinced he wants out as it seems he wants to keep you both. (From what you say) His exciting sex life and stolen moments and his happy family life with wife and kids and family.
You, however, if you choose to stay. Ensure you’re protected.
Thank you again sweethearts. I want him to have just as much as he has for her. It seems like he is addicted to her or something! I want our family life with our children and I want him to love me.
Posted by ATGRPosted by thatlibralifePosted by geminiwithataurusmanPosted by sweethearts
Wow, I don’t know how you do it but yes leave the phone alone now, it’s just pure torture for you.
Looks like you are happy enough to accept he has you and her and you can live your life that way as long as he comes home to you. ( makes me wonder if he leaves his phone around for you to read it... that way both you and his gf accept his double life ) 🤔
It does sound like he loves you both and he’s comfortable, very comfortable living with the best of both worlds.
The only thing I urge you to do is tuck away a little bit of cash just in case your world comes crashing down one day out of the blue. Just enough to set you and the kids up on your own into another place where you can breathe.
Thank you sweethearts. He doesn't know I have his code. So he leaves it thinking its "safe". Thank you for the advice about the saving some money. I did look at the phone and he made sure to "check in" with her everyday we were on our trip. UNBELIEVABLE. The last text I saw was him telling her this morning "The pictures I take with her is like standing next to my co worker, let me handle things over here, everything I tell you is everything that I am. You have me. Just handling this for a little more. I'm not building with you just because. I don't build with anyone for nothing."
This mofo still found time to check in every fucking day we were gone.
“Just handling this for a little more”...
This sounds like he’s getting ready to divorce you...or something else? It’s eerie how he’s sure to praise you to everyone looking but dogs you to her. He’s plotting...
You better wake up now before it’s too late...
Sounds like he’s maybe waiting until the kids are old enough so he doesn’t have to pay maintenance, for example.click to expand
Thank you ATGR. "Waiting for the kids are old enough", my sister just recently said this "I do think he loves you but he is also waiting for the kids to get older so its less guilt maybe, you know him, he would never want to be without his children, since they were born, he has been with them everyday of their life, he is not going to miss out on that, being with his children every single day. Not him."
That to me seems like yes he is onl here for the kids, fuck me! But again I have known him since we were kids so I do know that he loves me and cares, thats what is messing me up but this woman he fucking can't stop talking to!
Posted by geminiflyby
Sorry, Gem - I hope you take some of the advice here. I left my cheating Scorp in similar fashion. The relationship is over so you have to plan your exit. Give him just enough affection to keep his attention off of you. Save your money, line up a place to live. Drop the fantasy that things will change. You actually have the upper hand because knowledge is power.
Thank you Gem! I reread this thread so many times as I can to keep the advice seeping through this brain of mine. As someone mentioned, it is a battle of heart and head. I want to believe this is a slip up of him just wanted new sex.
Your advice sounds VERY similar to my sisters. She said keep doing the same thing but understand it isnt what I think it is and keep saving my money. That he is there to be in our childrens lives everyday and I am a bonus piece to keep happy. He loves me but not like that and probably I do not like him like that either, I am just used to him. We actually got in a minor argument about that statement. She told me that we were never really compatible and while he is a great person, we would have been better just friends. That if I was to really think about things, I would know that maybe we did only get married because he felt like that was the obligatory thing to do. I don't see any of this yet and maybe this will come with time.
But I am mad. This week has been nothing but high school graduations and culminations so we have had a busy week. He just asked me should we take the kids away for the weekend and us having a date night tonight. Of course my initial is absolutely how fun and a date night?! That sounds amazing! I also go with the thought of, she is temporary, he is not taking her on a date night, again sex and what else do they really have.
And while I do think this is wonderful, I also think he will call her before we go. This is a mind fuck !
And while I do think this is wonderful, I also think he will call her before we go. This is a mind fuck !
Posted by geminiwithataurusmanPosted by jeanePosted by geminiwithataurusmanPosted by jeanePosted by sweethearts
Wow, I don’t know how you do it but yes leave the phone alone now, it’s just pure torture for you.
Looks like you are happy enough to accept he has you and her and you can live your life that way as long as he comes home to you. ( makes me wonder if he leaves his phone around for you to read it... that way both you and his gf accept his double life ) 🤔
It does sound like he loves you both and he’s comfortable, very comfortable living with the best of both worlds.
The only thing I urge you to do is tuck away a little bit of cash just in case your world comes crashing down one day out of the blue. Just enough to set you and the kids up on your own into another place where you can breathe.
i think this is the best advice.
you're happy with him, despite the existence of other woman. i say accept her presence and enjoy your life with him. i think you get a lot from this relationship. embrace it and try to put her out of your mind. often the little lies we tell ourselves get us through the day. maybe just accept that her being in his life is the price you have to pay to be with him.
but do put some cash away! you don't want the rug puled out from under you once those kids are grown.
Hello jeane. Thank you again for your advice! I read your posts often to get myself in line. I just want him with me jeane. I do not accept this woman and I keep thinking she will go. Stupid of me to think throughout our whole trip he didn't contact her, but he did, every single damn day! Not big conversations but text like "hey baby just checking in how are you" " hey beautiful I love you more than you could ever love me" "I don't give myself or my love openly and you have all of it" I am DISGUSTED! He told her this morning that pictures with me is like standing next to his co worker. Kissing, touching, displays of affection photos is like standing to his co worker—" What kind of co worker do you have if you are saying I am like your co worker with those types of photos?? Is this a play on words— "You have me and I am just handling this for a little more, I am not building with you just because, I don't build with anyone."
I just want him to tell me its over if that is HOW HE FEELS!!!!!!! But I know I also need to say something. I really did think this week alone and away meant something.
but we've been here before. you thought that his time with you over mother's day meant that he hadn't contacted her but he had.
to throw the cat amongst the pigeons...it's quite possible that he is lying to her too. handling what a bit longer? from what you have described you aren't holding him ransom in this marriage nor does he have to placate you to stop you from doing your worst. if anything, this entire thread shows that you are not that kind of woman.
so my sense is that he is playing the both of you and will keep this going for as long as you both allow him to.
i know you go through these short bursts of anger but then calm down and talk yourself round. i'm not judging you for that by the way, i think we all do the best we can to get through the day. what works for one is not going to work for all.
i know you just want him with you. the sad fact is that i don't think that's a realistic possibility. if it's not this other woman, it will be someone else. from what you have said, he checked out being only with you a long time ago.
from what i can see you can either share him (and close your eyes to it in order to maintain the loving relationship you feel you have ie family bbqs, loving photos on facebook, gifts and weekends away) or you kick off and kick him out. the former is the closest to what you want. you have to decide is it worth the price you have to pay (his affection being elsewhere) to have it.
to be fair, for 3 years you didn't have an inkling this was going on. even over your birthday, he kept it well hidden from you. you're not the first woman in history whose husband kept a part of his life secret from her. you won't be the last.
ultimately the question is, can you close your eyes to it?
Thank you jeane. You mentioned something, if its not you its someone else. Years ago, early in our marriage, I found out he was seeing someone, but it was nothing like this. The woman I found out about before in our early days was a purely sexual thing and definitely was for a couple of months if that, she also was seeing other people, etc..that was one of our tests to me and we succeeded over that hump. But this, I'm just amazed and pissed by. I feel like he is addicted to her and its disgusting to me. You can't even for a fucking day not talk to her———?? to me that is addiction.
She has been giving him hell for my birthday week vacation too. His texts is everything of explaining to her, and telling her he loves her.
I do not want to share him, I just wanted him to want us and our family. I had finally disclosed what was going on to my sister and she advised to stick it out before I leave and save more because while I have a little money in the bank from my own job, it won't be enough to sustain me. We do not have a home with both of our names, our house was gifted to him before we were married by his late aunt. And some other financial things that we aren't connected in marriage by, he has always handled all financial matters.
Yes, I do love family bbqs, loving photos on facebook, gifts and weekends away, I think these memories made is everything! I thought he felt the same.click to expand
so you're upset about how frequently he talks to her but not that he talks in the first place?
it's not unreasonable for him to want you as much as you want him and for you to be the only woman in his life, the thing is, you're not.
you have to deal with what is in front of you. most of the times you close your eyes to it. putting faith in only part of your life while dismissing the other part.
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he celebrates my birthday = he loves me
he talks about me to her and how he is "handling it" = lalalalalalalalala fingers in ears
your reaction to this is making more sense now. if it was just sex you think you could get over it. you've been there before. what is hard for you to grasp is that this time it might be more than just sex. (i'm not convinced it is but i guess time will tell)
how did you find out about the first time? you've said before that you think he wants to be with you and the family and that he wants to make the marriage work. do you still feel that way?
Posted by geminiwithataurusmanPosted by sweethearts
Hmmm 🤔 my gut instinct to him getting you to “look for a house” is to move you from the family home so you and the kids will be sorted and out and that no longer ties him to the marital home.
Is he talking down sizing and/or looking in a different area?
Not sure he’d totally dupe you and the law won’t allow it, however, the law will freeze assets ie: property, bank accounts etc should there be a separation and especially if it’s nasty. This is why you need some money aside.. just in case.
There are two sides to any split, the Head & the Heart. Time to start thinking with the Head!
Your heart will only lead you to more misery and paralysed you!
Thank you sweethearts. Technically our home is his house only. He acquired this house before we got married from his late aunt. We have no communal property. We are looking in a different area. Yes my sister advices holing on to save.click to expand
Whether the home is in his name doesn’t mean a thing. It’s marital property here in Auss and NZ. @ladyneptune she knows more on this in the US if that’s where your from.
I’m sure he’s also fully aware of how much he’d lose financially which is why he’s keeping you on side as well as other reasons I’m sure.
You really should seek professional advice to see where you’d be if the worse were to happen. Do not fob it off, knowledge is power!
What stuck out too was that this isn’t the first time he has done this. You mentioned that he cheated earlier on and for all you know this isn’t the 2nd time, there could’ve been others?
Be smart, he’s playing you for a fool. Find out your worth, even though it’s not what is important to you, it is to him and what very May be what is holding him there. Once you know, it gives you leverage to be able to play this out instead of being blindsided.
What is evident, is as soon as you start getting angry he comes up with.... let’s go away on holiday or let’s have a date night and put pictures up on social media and you’re back believing in him and hoping he loves you more. Then reality hits when you go back to his phone and realise he’s been talking with her the whole time and belittling his special outings with you??
What type of man does that?? One with an agenda!
I took my time and read all the pages of this topic.
I am very curious how the things went, because I 'm in a very similar situation with a Taurus man, me being the"scorpio woman" (actually a Capricorn women raised by a Scorpio father and with a lot of plutonian energy).
Long story short, I'm involved in an extra relationship with a Taurus man since 10 months, him being in a relationship with a Gemini women (8 years) and me being married.
There are some differences of situations but the main idea is the same from what I saw in the posts. They don't know each other for so long and they started the relationship when she was 31 and he was 29. He was her first one. She was somehow in a 30s life crisis let's say because she had that age without having a relationship and being virgin and he was broken after a couple of toxic relationships. It all started very natural and he was happy because of the peaceful enviroent and she understood his moods (for Gemini this is very common because are very adaptable). There were no passion or tension between them but it was fine. Sexually he was not content. That is why he cheated from the first year with some ex girlfriends. Over the years, things went ok between them and the initial sexual curiosity of her started to fade away. Sex was more and more rare. This was the point when he started an extra relationship with a married Pisces women which lasted 2 years, because SHE ended it, not because he wanted. He said it was care and affection there, but nothing very special, it was fine because the sexual misses from home were filled in by the Pisces woman. When that relationship was over, he tried to fix the things home and invested more time and interest on the Gemini woman. Unfortunately, as per his sayings, she is totally not compatible with him (she is not practical, she doesn't cook, she has no attraction to sex etc) and the things went even distant between them. She started to refuse him sexually, initially verbally but then with gestures too (like he initiated - each and every time he initiated - touching her and she took his hand from her and said she's tired, she's not in the mood etc). He felt very hurt and disappointed but never confronted her. He took 6 months without initiating sex just to see how she will react, and she was fine with that, they don't do sex if he is not initiating and in the last years when he initiated he was rejected. He had to take her from sleep to have sex and her not being able to reject him. Sounds funny but this is devastating for someone who loves you and want to be phisically connected to you. They became good friends, talking a lot, having fun and that's it. He started to fake and maintain the apparences of a normal relationship long before meeting me. That being said, he started to search someone else to fulfill the void from home, and that's how we started. The void is not just sexual, it's also emotional.
Being in the position of "Scorpio woman" (for about 10 months that's true, not 3 years..YET), I can tell you that your husband is making things for facade. In my case there are no kids involved from any part, but there are no big differences. I know everything he does with her and he always make time to write even he is with her. Not to mention that we have seen each other almost every day since we have started, 10 months ago, and they live together and share the same house.
You don't have any idea what you have every night in your bed, girl. You don't know your man. He is not what he's showing you. You just see some principles, strongly rooted by his earth sign. And that's all. He is totally different from what he shows and he cannot be himself around you.
And yes, now he is on vacation with his Gemini woman and he checks in on me every single day, saying that he loves me and misses me, sending photos and telling me where he is and what he is doing. And he is with her, smiling and acting like there is no one else between them.
I am very curious how the things went, because I 'm in a very similar situation with a Taurus man, me being the"scorpio woman" (actually a Capricorn women raised by a Scorpio father and with a lot of plutonian energy).
Long story short, I'm involved in an extra relationship with a Taurus man since 10 months, him being in a relationship with a Gemini women (8 years) and me being married.
There are some differences of situations but the main idea is the same from what I saw in the posts. They don't know each other for so long and they started the relationship when she was 31 and he was 29. He was her first one. She was somehow in a 30s life crisis let's say because she had that age without having a relationship and being virgin and he was broken after a couple of toxic relationships. It all started very natural and he was happy because of the peaceful enviroent and she understood his moods (for Gemini this is very common because are very adaptable). There were no passion or tension between them but it was fine. Sexually he was not content. That is why he cheated from the first year with some ex girlfriends. Over the years, things went ok between them and the initial sexual curiosity of her started to fade away. Sex was more and more rare. This was the point when he started an extra relationship with a married Pisces women which lasted 2 years, because SHE ended it, not because he wanted. He said it was care and affection there, but nothing very special, it was fine because the sexual misses from home were filled in by the Pisces woman. When that relationship was over, he tried to fix the things home and invested more time and interest on the Gemini woman. Unfortunately, as per his sayings, she is totally not compatible with him (she is not practical, she doesn't cook, she has no attraction to sex etc) and the things went even distant between them. She started to refuse him sexually, initially verbally but then with gestures too (like he initiated - each and every time he initiated - touching her and she took his hand from her and said she's tired, she's not in the mood etc). He felt very hurt and disappointed but never confronted her. He took 6 months without initiating sex just to see how she will react, and she was fine with that, they don't do sex if he is not initiating and in the last years when he initiated he was rejected. He had to take her from sleep to have sex and her not being able to reject him. Sounds funny but this is devastating for someone who loves you and want to be phisically connected to you. They became good friends, talking a lot, having fun and that's it. He started to fake and maintain the apparences of a normal relationship long before meeting me. That being said, he started to search someone else to fulfill the void from home, and that's how we started. The void is not just sexual, it's also emotional.
Being in the position of "Scorpio woman" (for about 10 months that's true, not 3 years..YET), I can tell you that your husband is making things for facade. In my case there are no kids involved from any part, but there are no big differences. I know everything he does with her and he always make time to write even he is with her. Not to mention that we have seen each other almost every day since we have started, 10 months ago, and they live together and share the same house.
You don't have any idea what you have every night in your bed, girl. You don't know your man. He is not what he's showing you. You just see some principles, strongly rooted by his earth sign. And that's all. He is totally different from what he shows and he cannot be himself around you.
And yes, now he is on vacation with his Gemini woman and he checks in on me every single day, saying that he loves me and misses me, sending photos and telling me where he is and what he is doing. And he is with her, smiling and acting like there is no one else between them.
@capgirl15 why does he not leave her for you?
What is the reason behind that? This guy doesn’t want to disrupt his family life and hurt his kids.
Have you got kids with your husband? Why wouldn’t you just be together and stop hurting you’re supposed SO?
What is the reason behind that? This guy doesn’t want to disrupt his family life and hurt his kids.
Have you got kids with your husband? Why wouldn’t you just be together and stop hurting you’re supposed SO?
Posted by Capgirl15
I took my time and read all the pages of this topic.
I am very curious how the things went, because I 'm in a very similar situation with a Taurus man, me being the"scorpio woman" (actually a Capricorn women raised by a Scorpio father and with a lot of plutonian energy).
Long story short, I'm involved in an extra relationship with a Taurus man since 10 months, him being in a relationship with a Gemini women (8 years) and me being married.
There are some differences of situations but the main idea is the same from what I saw in the posts. They don't know each other for so long and they started the relationship when she was 31 and he was 29. He was her first one. She was somehow in a 30s life crisis let's say because she had that age without having a relationship and being virgin and he was broken after a couple of toxic relationships. It all started very natural and he was happy because of the peaceful enviroent and she understood his moods (for Gemini this is very common because are very adaptable). There were no passion or tension between them but it was fine. Sexually he was not content. That is why he cheated from the first year with some ex girlfriends. Over the years, things went ok between them and the initial sexual curiosity of her started to fade away. Sex was more and more rare. This was the point when he started an extra relationship with a married Pisces women which lasted 2 years, because SHE ended it, not because he wanted. He said it was care and affection there, but nothing very special, it was fine because the sexual misses from home were filled in by the Pisces woman. When that relationship was over, he tried to fix the things home and invested more time and interest on the Gemini woman. Unfortunately, as per his sayings, she is totally not compatible with him (she is not practical, she doesn't cook, she has no attraction to sex etc) and the things went even distant between them. She started to refuse him sexually, initially verbally but then with gestures too (like he initiated - each and every time he initiated - touching her and she took his hand from her and said she's tired, she's not in the mood etc). He felt very hurt and disappointed but never confronted her. He took 6 months without initiating sex just to see how she will react, and she was fine with that, they don't do sex if he is not initiating and in the last years when he initiated he was rejected. He had to take her from sleep to have sex and her not being able to reject him. Sounds funny but this is devastating for someone who loves you and want to be phisically connected to you. They became good friends, talking a lot, having fun and that's it. He started to fake and maintain the apparences of a normal relationship long before meeting me. That being said, he started to search someone else to fulfill the void from home, and that's how we started. The void is not just sexual, it's also emotional.
Being in the position of "Scorpio woman" (for about 10 months that's true, not 3 years..YET), I can tell you that your husband is making things for facade. In my case there are no kids involved from any part, but there are no big differences. I know everything he does with her and he always make time to write even he is with her. Not to mention that we have seen each other almost every day since we have started, 10 months ago, and they live together and share the same house.
You don't have any idea what you have every night in your bed, girl. You don't know your man. He is not what he's showing you. You just see some principles, strongly rooted by his earth sign. And that's all. He is totally different from what he shows and he cannot be himself around you.
And yes, now he is on vacation with his Gemini woman and he checks in on me every single day, saying that he loves me and misses me, sending photos and telling me where he is and what he is doing. And he is with her, smiling and acting like there is no one else between them.
"That being said, he started to search someone else to fulfill the void from home, and that's how we started. The void is not just sexual, it's also emotional", - wait, wait, I think I have heard it before! Right, it is the explanation of weak, comfortable and seeking for drama losers of all ages since Ace Age.
@sweethearts
He feels comfortable and safe in his actual relationship, the Gemini women always adapted to his mood swings and never questioned him. He has all the freedom he needs. Also, he feels somehow responsable for her given the fact that he was her first one, she is almost 40 years old now and she expects from him to have a family together as soon as possible. He makes everything around house (cooking, cleaning), because she has two left hands in every practical aspects of life, and seems that he is ready to take all these responsabilities on his shoulders if he has a peaceful environment home. He don't want to disappoint or make suffer anyone. They already have a routine together, memories, plans and he also feels that you cannot build your happiness on other's suffering and deception. He respects her but they cannot connect on a deep intimate level, she don't feel him and his needs. He is introverted and pessimistic and her airy and positive vibe makes him detach from the problems and worries. But this is short term because the fundamental differerences between them made him search for affection, understanding and intimate connection outside their world.
No, I don't have kids with my husband for the same reason. We two (me and Taurus) are in the same point in life but they have some additional years compared with me and my husband which make things more complicated on their side.
He told me that he wanted us to be happy in our secret world and not upset anyone. He made sacrifices to bulid something with me during these months and he was somehow disappointed that it was never enough and I always wanted more from him. He told me he gave me everything he could and more than that would be to be together, which is complicated from both sides.
He doesn't want to lose me, because probably I am a complementary part of his existence and the Gemini woman is the essential. You can live without the complementary for a while, but you cannot without the essential. The essential here is the stability.
But what it's not very clear for me at this point is why he became so possessive and jealous if he clearly stated from the beginning that all we have is something extra. He was jealous on my husband, he compared with him on several aspects and always wanted to be sure that he is superior than my husband in my eyes. This is not something healthy and open doors for a lot of potential issues that might have.
He feels comfortable and safe in his actual relationship, the Gemini women always adapted to his mood swings and never questioned him. He has all the freedom he needs. Also, he feels somehow responsable for her given the fact that he was her first one, she is almost 40 years old now and she expects from him to have a family together as soon as possible. He makes everything around house (cooking, cleaning), because she has two left hands in every practical aspects of life, and seems that he is ready to take all these responsabilities on his shoulders if he has a peaceful environment home. He don't want to disappoint or make suffer anyone. They already have a routine together, memories, plans and he also feels that you cannot build your happiness on other's suffering and deception. He respects her but they cannot connect on a deep intimate level, she don't feel him and his needs. He is introverted and pessimistic and her airy and positive vibe makes him detach from the problems and worries. But this is short term because the fundamental differerences between them made him search for affection, understanding and intimate connection outside their world.
No, I don't have kids with my husband for the same reason. We two (me and Taurus) are in the same point in life but they have some additional years compared with me and my husband which make things more complicated on their side.
He told me that he wanted us to be happy in our secret world and not upset anyone. He made sacrifices to bulid something with me during these months and he was somehow disappointed that it was never enough and I always wanted more from him. He told me he gave me everything he could and more than that would be to be together, which is complicated from both sides.
He doesn't want to lose me, because probably I am a complementary part of his existence and the Gemini woman is the essential. You can live without the complementary for a while, but you cannot without the essential. The essential here is the stability.
But what it's not very clear for me at this point is why he became so possessive and jealous if he clearly stated from the beginning that all we have is something extra. He was jealous on my husband, he compared with him on several aspects and always wanted to be sure that he is superior than my husband in my eyes. This is not something healthy and open doors for a lot of potential issues that might have.
And how would both of you feel if your partners were also seeing someone else?
This is a separate discussion...
It's obvious that no one likes to be lied and cheated. He was used to do that in the past, for me it was the first time in my whole life. I used to be and I still am loyal and sincere person. That's what I told him before meeting and way long after. He thought that maybe because it's my first time I would accept it a bit harder than usual but I must confess that I still didn't accepted it. I tried to make him understand that he should work in fixing his issues home rather than searching alternatives outside. I was telling him the cruel true about what he has done her over the years with the rest of women and stuff. The truth hurt him and he was upset with me, because he is running from the truth. I told him that he is simply not fair with anyone and what we are doing it's not correct for anyone. I think I was the first one telling these things straight on his face and not accepting living in his fairytale world. And he never understood why I couldn't just live the moment and always brought the reality on the table. Because that means peace for him: never start discussions about the reality and I guess this is why he likes the vibe near Gemini, because Geminis don't notice this stuff, real and pragmatic aspects of life, therefore they never opens the topic.
Discussions about problems are threatening their stability....that is why he is not feeling as much as stable with me compared with his Gemini, because he feels that if we discuss about issues, things that are not "fine", means that I am not satisfied and I will leave him. He cannot understand that discussing you can fix the problem and never came back to it. Taurus have a very big issue with communication. And I think it's an Earth sign issue, especially with discussions about emotional aspects.
This is why he searched for someone married or in a relationship. But the things between us went in a wrong direction from the beginning, especially for me as a person who sees things in black or white. Each and every time I tried to make him understand that it's better to go on separate ways, he came back asking to continue on his terms because he don't want anyone to suffer.
I do care a lot about him and I understand his situation. He said that we've found each other too late but we can still enjoy each other as much as our lives permit us. And without what we have, our lives would not be the same. I don't agree with this.
For me, the most important step you can do with someone is having a baby. So if he will choose to have a family with her, I will not be part of the story. My feeling is that he will do that with her, and he will always search someone else to fill his void. But it will not be me.
It's obvious that no one likes to be lied and cheated. He was used to do that in the past, for me it was the first time in my whole life. I used to be and I still am loyal and sincere person. That's what I told him before meeting and way long after. He thought that maybe because it's my first time I would accept it a bit harder than usual but I must confess that I still didn't accepted it. I tried to make him understand that he should work in fixing his issues home rather than searching alternatives outside. I was telling him the cruel true about what he has done her over the years with the rest of women and stuff. The truth hurt him and he was upset with me, because he is running from the truth. I told him that he is simply not fair with anyone and what we are doing it's not correct for anyone. I think I was the first one telling these things straight on his face and not accepting living in his fairytale world. And he never understood why I couldn't just live the moment and always brought the reality on the table. Because that means peace for him: never start discussions about the reality and I guess this is why he likes the vibe near Gemini, because Geminis don't notice this stuff, real and pragmatic aspects of life, therefore they never opens the topic.
Discussions about problems are threatening their stability....that is why he is not feeling as much as stable with me compared with his Gemini, because he feels that if we discuss about issues, things that are not "fine", means that I am not satisfied and I will leave him. He cannot understand that discussing you can fix the problem and never came back to it. Taurus have a very big issue with communication. And I think it's an Earth sign issue, especially with discussions about emotional aspects.
This is why he searched for someone married or in a relationship. But the things between us went in a wrong direction from the beginning, especially for me as a person who sees things in black or white. Each and every time I tried to make him understand that it's better to go on separate ways, he came back asking to continue on his terms because he don't want anyone to suffer.
I do care a lot about him and I understand his situation. He said that we've found each other too late but we can still enjoy each other as much as our lives permit us. And without what we have, our lives would not be the same. I don't agree with this.
For me, the most important step you can do with someone is having a baby. So if he will choose to have a family with her, I will not be part of the story. My feeling is that he will do that with her, and he will always search someone else to fill his void. But it will not be me.
I'm only going to catch up on the last few pages of this 6 month saga, seems like you are accepting all this for the kids or the house or some shit. But does this mean you get to go meet other people and liver your own life?
like embrace the open marriage? have some fun with other people?
like embrace the open marriage? have some fun with other people?
I always read that Taurus is supposed to be like a loyal sign or whatever but I feel like they're loyal to their romantic interests and finances more than anyone else. But then again, earth sign life style 🤔🤔
Coz I think about Chris watts and grant amato
Chris choked his kid who said 'my dad is a hero' like dudeeee. All so he doesn't have to pay child support and be with his mistress.
And grant stole money from his family for a cam girl. Dude murdered and betrayed his brother who supported him through his constant stealing from their family and everything.
Anything for the girl they like and money to provide for her 😲😲
Coz I think about Chris watts and grant amato
Chris choked his kid who said 'my dad is a hero' like dudeeee. All so he doesn't have to pay child support and be with his mistress.
And grant stole money from his family for a cam girl. Dude murdered and betrayed his brother who supported him through his constant stealing from their family and everything.
Anything for the girl they like and money to provide for her 😲😲
Geez, if you think that marriage is an emotional fucktoy, just don't get married in the first place you idiot!
TAURUS AND LIBRA LOVE SEX AND LIFE COMPATIBILITY
https://vedicmonks.com/taurus-and-libra-compatibility/
A Taurus and a Libra man or woman have different temperaments but will eventually adjust to each other. The Taurean is practical, patient, loyal, and quick to accommodate the intellectual and often dreamy Libran. Taurus and Libra both have special kicks in their relationship. Both categories are ruled by the venus. But While Taurus loves to be comfortable and relies on their sense of touch and taste, Libra will want everything pretty and rely on their eyesight and the sense of smell. They do connect in a way, but in most cases, they have this different approach to Venus as a planet of sexual pleasure. If your sun sign is Taurus and your partner is Libra, and vice versa, will you both make a good match in life and also with other things? Perhaps, this is an important question which many people may have in mind and seek answers to.
https://vedicmonks.com/taurus-and-libra-compatibility/
A Taurus and a Libra man or woman have different temperaments but will eventually adjust to each other. The Taurean is practical, patient, loyal, and quick to accommodate the intellectual and often dreamy Libran. Taurus and Libra both have special kicks in their relationship. Both categories are ruled by the venus. But While Taurus loves to be comfortable and relies on their sense of touch and taste, Libra will want everything pretty and rely on their eyesight and the sense of smell. They do connect in a way, but in most cases, they have this different approach to Venus as a planet of sexual pleasure. If your sun sign is Taurus and your partner is Libra, and vice versa, will you both make a good match in life and also with other things? Perhaps, this is an important question which many people may have in mind and seek answers to.
Do we have any updates? Gemini women, did you discussed with your husband?
Posted by Mission2Venus
My husband
How are people talking about their spouses any different from people talking about their nonmarital partners on a regular basis? The former is just identifying their partners in a martial status vs nonmarital. This obsession of yours is very particular and seems deep-seated. Are you that depressed no one finds you husband material enough that you must resort to continuous humor surrounding it? Talk to me.
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Mission2Venus
My husband
How are people talking about their spouses any different from people talking about their nonmarital partners on a regular basis? The former is just identifying their partners in a martial status vs nonmarital. This obsession of yours is very particular and seems deep-seated. Are you that depressed no one finds you husband material enough that you must resort to continuous humor surrounding it? Talk to me.click to expand
Its humour not to be taken seriously
🤣
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SassyKiwiPosted by Mission2Venus
My husband
How are people talking about their spouses any different from people talking about their nonmarital partners on a regular basis? The former is just identifying their partners in a martial status vs nonmarital. This obsession of yours is very particular and seems deep-seated. Are you that depressed no one finds you husband material enough that you must resort to continuous humor surrounding it? Talk to me.
Its humour not to be taken seriously
🤣click to expand
Oh I know, but going at it for days/a week? There’s a grain of truth in every joke :p
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by SassyKiwiPosted by Mission2Venus
My husband
How are people talking about their spouses any different from people talking about their nonmarital partners on a regular basis? The former is just identifying their partners in a martial status vs nonmarital. This obsession of yours is very particular and seems deep-seated. Are you that depressed no one finds you husband material enough that you must resort to continuous humor surrounding it? Talk to me.
Its humour not to be taken seriously
🤣
Oh I know, but going at it for days/a week? There’s a grain of truth in every joke :pclick to expand
🤣
Persistent humour
😆
@geminiwithataurusman
Darling!
All the ‘sorries’ aside - what do YOU want to do?
You said your marriage started as OOPS we having a baby. You don’t seem devastated by your finding. Are you having someone in a side yourself? Just sounds like it.
Your marriage is solid financially and if kids are an adults - talk - settle - get out. Be happy. Let him be.
If kids younger (they can’t be too young right?) - wait but let him know you know.
You have to get ready for independent living right? I don’t think it’ll be tearful divorce. You both made a mistake and made best out of it and now you marriage ran its course.
Good luck! Hope you can get all you want for yourself out of this and stay friends. 🫣
Darling!
All the ‘sorries’ aside - what do YOU want to do?
You said your marriage started as OOPS we having a baby. You don’t seem devastated by your finding. Are you having someone in a side yourself? Just sounds like it.
Your marriage is solid financially and if kids are an adults - talk - settle - get out. Be happy. Let him be.
If kids younger (they can’t be too young right?) - wait but let him know you know.
You have to get ready for independent living right? I don’t think it’ll be tearful divorce. You both made a mistake and made best out of it and now you marriage ran its course.
Good luck! Hope you can get all you want for yourself out of this and stay friends. 🫣
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Mission2Venus
My husband
How are people talking about their spouses any different from people talking about their nonmarital partners on a regular basis? The former is just identifying their partners in a martial status vs nonmarital. This obsession of yours is very particular and seems deep-seated. Are you that depressed no one finds you husband material enough that you must resort to continuous humor surrounding it? Talk to me.click to expand
How is ALL THIS came out of just that?
Chill psycho! We having a ball for 3 days with ‘My Husband’ 🤦♀️
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SassyKiwiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by SassyKiwiPosted by Mission2Venus
My husband
How are people talking about their spouses any different from people talking about their nonmarital partners on a regular basis? The former is just identifying their partners in a martial status vs nonmarital. This obsession of yours is very particular and seems deep-seated. Are you that depressed no one finds you husband material enough that you must resort to continuous humor surrounding it? Talk to me.
Its humour not to be taken seriously
🤣
Oh I know, but going at it for days/a week? There’s a grain of truth in every joke :p
🤣
Persistent humour
😆click to expand
Strong dedication indeed!
Posted by GemiMayPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by Mission2Venus
My husband
How are people talking about their spouses any different from people talking about their nonmarital partners on a regular basis? The former is just identifying their partners in a martial status vs nonmarital. This obsession of yours is very particular and seems deep-seated. Are you that depressed no one finds you husband material enough that you must resort to continuous humor surrounding it? Talk to me.
How is ALL THIS came out of just that?
Chill psycho! We having a ball for 3 days with ‘My Husband’ 🤦♀️click to expand
Um he isn’t the only one allowed to pick fun at people grandma
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by SassyKiwiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by SassyKiwiPosted by Mission2Venus
My husband
How are people talking about their spouses any different from people talking about their nonmarital partners on a regular basis? The former is just identifying their partners in a martial status vs nonmarital. This obsession of yours is very particular and seems deep-seated. Are you that depressed no one finds you husband material enough that you must resort to continuous humor surrounding it? Talk to me.
Its humour not to be taken seriously
🤣
Oh I know, but going at it for days/a week? There’s a grain of truth in every joke :p
🤣
Persistent humour
😆
Strong dedication indeed!click to expand
Fixed earth 😆
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by GemiMayPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by Mission2Venus
My husband
How are people talking about their spouses any different from people talking about their nonmarital partners on a regular basis? The former is just identifying their partners in a martial status vs nonmarital. This obsession of yours is very particular and seems deep-seated. Are you that depressed no one finds you husband material enough that you must resort to continuous humor surrounding it? Talk to me.
How is ALL THIS came out of just that?
Chill psycho! We having a ball for 3 days with ‘My Husband’ 🤦♀️
Um he isn’t the only one allowed to pick fun at people grandmaclick to expand
You meant ‘poke’ fun?
And he is poking fun. You just spewing fur all over
Posted by saggurl88
You should talk with your husband.
He found whatever support he wasn't getting from you, in another woman. He could still cherish his family life, but likes this girl as well
He's starting a business and looking at property. He seems to be trying to get up and go, but you've also pointed out that he wants to be in his childrens lives everyday- which means he's being fulfilled with both of you.
It's not so simple.
Are you financially set to be a single parent? Are you waiting on him to buy with this chick so it can be included in the divorce?
Are your kids old enough not to have one parent around, if you live in separate households. Daycare is like a second mortgage. But divorced people find ways around this when their marriage is done.
You should have a talk with him. Does the girl even know he's married with a family. He clearly has a lot of time on his hands, away from you, to be able to carryon a 3 year relationship without you around.
This is a tough situation and I'm sorry to hear it. There aren't too many relationships that last this long nowadays.
You know what’s really strange? Is the fact that she is 40 y/old woman acting like ‘I haven’t been on this planet for a while…what do people do here when shit like this happens’?
She is delusional or spoiled or something else.
But I am smelling BS.
Posted by Capgirl15
Do we have any updates? Gemini women, did you discussed with your husband?
What’s your update? Are you still with your husband and sleeping with the other?
Posted by GemiMayPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by GemiMayPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by Mission2Venus
My husband
How are people talking about their spouses any different from people talking about their nonmarital partners on a regular basis? The former is just identifying their partners in a martial status vs nonmarital. This obsession of yours is very particular and seems deep-seated. Are you that depressed no one finds you husband material enough that you must resort to continuous humor surrounding it? Talk to me.
How is ALL THIS came out of just that?
Chill psycho! We having a ball for 3 days with ‘My Husband’ 🤦♀️
Um he isn’t the only one allowed to pick fun at people grandma
You meant ‘poke’ fun?
And he is poking fun. You just spewing fur all overclick to expand
If he’s posting the same stuff on particular users’ multiple threads, it’s not just poking, it’s also picking. So chill out grams, he’s a big boy, he can take it.
Posted by amit72231
TAURUS AND LIBRA LOVE SEX AND LIFE COMPATIBILITY
https://vedicmonks.com/taurus-and-libra-compatibility/
A Taurus and a Libra man or woman have different temperaments but will eventually adjust to each other. The Taurean is practical, patient, loyal, and quick to accommodate the intellectual and often dreamy Libran. Taurus and Libra both have special kicks in their relationship. Both categories are ruled by the venus. But While Taurus loves to be comfortable and relies on their sense of touch and taste, Libra will want everything pretty and rely on their eyesight and the sense of smell. They do connect in a way, but in most cases, they have this different approach to Venus as a planet of sexual pleasure. If your sun sign is Taurus and your partner is Libra, and vice versa, will you both make a good match in life and also with other things? Perhaps, this is an important question which many people may have in mind and seek answers to.
How did Libra become a part of this thread? I thought it was about Taurus, Capricorn-Scorpio and Gemini? Anyway I can attest to Libra and Taurus having off the chart great sex and romance but Taurus always ruins it with his jealousy.
Posted by GemiMayPosted by saggurl88
You should talk with your husband.
He found whatever support he wasn't getting from you, in another woman. He could still cherish his family life, but likes this girl as well
He's starting a business and looking at property. He seems to be trying to get up and go, but you've also pointed out that he wants to be in his childrens lives everyday- which means he's being fulfilled with both of you.
It's not so simple.
Are you financially set to be a single parent? Are you waiting on him to buy with this chick so it can be included in the divorce?
Are your kids old enough not to have one parent around, if you live in separate households. Daycare is like a second mortgage. But divorced people find ways around this when their marriage is done.
You should have a talk with him. Does the girl even know he's married with a family. He clearly has a lot of time on his hands, away from you, to be able to carryon a 3 year relationship without you around.
This is a tough situation and I'm sorry to hear it. There aren't too many relationships that last this long nowadays.
You know what’s really strange? Is the fact that she is 40 y/old woman acting like ‘I haven’t been on this planet for a while…what do people do here when shit like this happens’?
She is delusional or spoiled or something else.
But I am smelling BS.click to expand
Married men always have time to cheat lol It's up to a women to leave, they don't stop after getting caught.
Married men have more time to cheat and be in relationships then single guys nowadays. There's a cheating culture going on right now.
That’s Ands all over, someone laughs at something he does so he repeats it until it’s old… then he finds something else that you all think is funny… rinse and repeat
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by Capgirl15
Do we have any updates? Gemini women, did you discussed with your husband?
What’s your update? Are you still with your husband and sleeping with the other?click to expand
I've been with two taurus women and both instances were disasters. Taurus wants to control, and this fish doesn't deal with that.
Posted by StonyPosted by saggurl88Posted by sweetheartsPosted by Capgirl15
Do we have any updates? Gemini women, did you discussed with your husband?
What’s your update? Are you still with your husband and sleeping with the other?
Shit got wild in a 1 year old thread.click to expand
You gotta read all 335694161493131465464 pages!
Posted by Seajatt
I've been with two taurus women and both instances were disasters. Taurus wants to control, and this fish doesn't deal with that.
Sadly, you are correct. I have Aquarius cousin married to a Taurus woman. She alienated him from his family, made him sell his condo which was nice looking (they lived in a small town in Sweden) for a much more expensive apartment in Stockholm, made him take care of her mother while forgetting his mother, she doesn’t work, he can’t even hang out with friends anymore.
His whole life is Taurus and children now. I hope they last but I don’t know. My aunt thinks he will explode one of these days.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by GemiMayPosted by saggurl88
You should talk with your husband.
He found whatever support he wasn't getting from you, in another woman. He could still cherish his family life, but likes this girl as well
He's starting a business and looking at property. He seems to be trying to get up and go, but you've also pointed out that he wants to be in his childrens lives everyday- which means he's being fulfilled with both of you.
It's not so simple.
Are you financially set to be a single parent? Are you waiting on him to buy with this chick so it can be included in the divorce?
Are your kids old enough not to have one parent around, if you live in separate households. Daycare is like a second mortgage. But divorced people find ways around this when their marriage is done.
You should have a talk with him. Does the girl even know he's married with a family. He clearly has a lot of time on his hands, away from you, to be able to carryon a 3 year relationship without you around.
This is a tough situation and I'm sorry to hear it. There aren't too many relationships that last this long nowadays.
You know what’s really strange? Is the fact that she is 40 y/old woman acting like ‘I haven’t been on this planet for a while…what do people do here when shit like this happens’?
She is delusional or spoiled or something else.
But I am smelling BS.
Married men always have time to cheat lol It's up to a women to leave, they don't stop after getting caught.
Married men have more time to cheat and be in relationships then single guys nowadays. There's a cheating culture going on right now.click to expand
This news as old as the world itself!
Man is providing for the family and having life where he is having fun and IF his wife too preoccupied with everything else BUT her husband - she is playing ‘what had just happened’ and it’s been 3 years!
My man says I know you would smell another woman! Yep! But only if I pulled nose plugs out of my nostrils. Sometimes those plugs becoming ingrown. I say he is waiting for the wife to SAY SOMETHING and she should.
Posted by sweethearts
That’s Ands all over, someone laughs at something he does so he repeats it until it’s old… then he finds something else that you all think is funny… rinse and repeat
Sounds a little more serious than I initially thought xD Deep people-pleasing tendencies through recycled humor?
Posted by StonyPosted by saggurl88Posted by sweetheartsPosted by Capgirl15
Do we have any updates? Gemini women, did you discussed with your husband?
What’s your update? Are you still with your husband and sleeping with the other?
Shit got wild in a 1 year old thread.click to expand
That’s how bored this place is.
Say something fun. Have you ever?
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by Seajatt
I've been with two taurus women and both instances were disasters. Taurus wants to control, and this fish doesn't deal with that.
Sadly, you are correct. I have Aquarius cousin married to a Taurus woman. She alienated him from his family, made him sell his condo which was nice looking (they lived in a small town in Sweden) for a much more expensive apartment in Stockholm, made him take care of her mother while forgetting his mother, she doesn’t work, he can’t even hang out with friends anymore.
His whole life is Taurus and children now. I hope they last but I don’t know. My aunt thinks he will explode one of these days.click to expand
That's too bad. Fish are pretty easy. Jump in our pool, it's nice, refreshing, cool when you're hot and warm when you're cold. Let us swim around you and caress you. But the second they start trying to snatch at us or muddy up the waters, we swim off. Cancer and Scorpio intuit this naturally, others I think can struggle with this.
Posted by SeajattPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by Seajatt
I've been with two taurus women and both instances were disasters. Taurus wants to control, and this fish doesn't deal with that.
Sadly, you are correct. I have Aquarius cousin married to a Taurus woman. She alienated him from his family, made him sell his condo which was nice looking (they lived in a small town in Sweden) for a much more expensive apartment in Stockholm, made him take care of her mother while forgetting his mother, she doesn’t work, he can’t even hang out with friends anymore.
His whole life is Taurus and children now. I hope they last but I don’t know. My aunt thinks he will explode one of these days.
That's too bad. Fish are pretty easy. Jump in our pool, it's nice, refreshing, cool when you're hot and warm when you're cold. Let us swim around you and caress you. But the second they start trying to snatch at us or muddy up the waters, we swim off. Cancer and Scorpio intuit this naturally, others I think can struggle with this.click to expand
Fish are pretty easy, indeed. Lol.
But seriously, as a Gemini I can understand this. I have many good pisces friends.
Can someone give me cliff notes of this thread?
Too lazy to read.
Too lazy to read.
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by SeajattPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by Seajatt
I've been with two taurus women and both instances were disasters. Taurus wants to control, and this fish doesn't deal with that.
Sadly, you are correct. I have Aquarius cousin married to a Taurus woman. She alienated him from his family, made him sell his condo which was nice looking (they lived in a small town in Sweden) for a much more expensive apartment in Stockholm, made him take care of her mother while forgetting his mother, she doesn’t work, he can’t even hang out with friends anymore.
His whole life is Taurus and children now. I hope they last but I don’t know. My aunt thinks he will explode one of these days.
That's too bad. Fish are pretty easy. Jump in our pool, it's nice, refreshing, cool when you're hot and warm when you're cold. Let us swim around you and caress you. But the second they start trying to snatch at us or muddy up the waters, we swim off. Cancer and Scorpio intuit this naturally, others I think can struggle with this.
Fish are pretty easy, indeed. Lol.
But seriously, as a Gemini I can understand this. I have many good pisces friends.click to expand
Gems are great 🙂
Posted by SeajattPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by SeajattPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by Seajatt
I've been with two taurus women and both instances were disasters. Taurus wants to control, and this fish doesn't deal with that.
Sadly, you are correct. I have Aquarius cousin married to a Taurus woman. She alienated him from his family, made him sell his condo which was nice looking (they lived in a small town in Sweden) for a much more expensive apartment in Stockholm, made him take care of her mother while forgetting his mother, she doesn’t work, he can’t even hang out with friends anymore.
His whole life is Taurus and children now. I hope they last but I don’t know. My aunt thinks he will explode one of these days.
That's too bad. Fish are pretty easy. Jump in our pool, it's nice, refreshing, cool when you're hot and warm when you're cold. Let us swim around you and caress you. But the second they start trying to snatch at us or muddy up the waters, we swim off. Cancer and Scorpio intuit this naturally, others I think can struggle with this.
Fish are pretty easy, indeed. Lol.
But seriously, as a Gemini I can understand this. I have many good pisces friends.
Gems are great 🙂click to expand
Thank you. We are not always liked, but there is more to us than meets the eye ☺️
Posted by Mission2VenusPosted by borednbeautiful
Can someone give me cliff notes of this thread?
Too lazy to read.
My husband was also trying to be somebody else’s my husbandclick to expand
Lol, thanks. Perfect. I’ll keep following this thread.
These husbands ain’t loyal.
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