She said it Important I have the Aries with me
Gems trying to call me it's 3.30 in the morning
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She said she's gonna keep bugging me until I pick up there's no way I can
Aries is asleep I have 15 miss calls and texts saying it's bullshit me not picking up or answering my phone or hearing it she said I really needed to talk to you
Posted by poppyflowerPosted by Centaur12
She said she's gonna keep bugging me until I pick up there's no way I can
Call blockclick to expand
Now texting saying I must of gave you tones of miss calls please call me when you get this
Posted by Centaur12
She said it Important I have the Aries with me
When did you have time to tell her about the Aries between ignoring her and deleting her phone number š§
I smell a plot hole.
Posted by _elle_Posted by poppyflowerPosted by _elle_
Block her. That is ridiculous.
Is there a way to block text messages though? š¤
I have a Samsung and I can block either calls or texts....calls still go to voice-mail, I just don't hear them ring.
At this point, for him...it's 4am...I would actually turn off my phone completely.click to expand
Turning off his phone would mean he couldnāt make thread #999999 about his favorite obsession.
At this point idk why anyone here is still invested. Not even a very believable troll. We can do better guys.
Block her!!
Obviously you havenāt mentioned that you have a gf and youāre no longer interested as you havenāt āBlocked herā like you said you were going to.
Whatās your end game here?? Do you honestly think that the Gem is going to turn around for you after everything youāve been through?
Stop fooling yourself, sheās desperate for attention because sheās noticed youāre not beating down her door anymore. You give her the attention she craves and sheāll turn it back on you again for the umpteenth time!!
Keep moving forward, thereās nothing back there!
Whatās your end game here?? Do you honestly think that the Gem is going to turn around for you after everything youāve been through?
Stop fooling yourself, sheās desperate for attention because sheās noticed youāre not beating down her door anymore. You give her the attention she craves and sheāll turn it back on you again for the umpteenth time!!
Keep moving forward, thereās nothing back there!
Posted by Centaur12
She said she's gonna keep bugging me until I pick up there's no way I can
What is wrong with you?...Are you seriously interrupting your date with the Ram to ask us what you should do about your ex contacting you?
I can't.
Posted by Centaur12
Aries is asleep I have 15 miss calls and texts saying it's bullshit me not picking up or answering my phone or hearing it she said I really needed to talk to you
All of this is really irrelevant. The mere fact that you're on DXP worried about this nonsense rather than spooning the Ram and trying to go for another round of sex says a lot.
This is just...sad on so many levels.
I was pretty drunk and Aries was past out sorry guys I never answered her calls and she tried again more this morning then text me to say what do I have to do to get hold of you go through your assistant š
What I have had from her in text this morning was this.
Pick up it's important
Well I must of gave you tones of missed calls please give me a call once you get this.
We do talk about you still you know, we always share our memories at the table about you. Why not, im not going to pretend we didnt happen or make the girls feel like they cant talk about you. You are the only man they've ever known to be apart of me. Alissia is non stop asking about you, actually at the table she said "mummy why have you chucked Sammy in the bin" š i listen to im kissing you " and it makes me upset.. this aint a too get back with you message or sympathy. Just putting it out there. I dont want no hating. Yea we might go months without chatting but thats all normal for people right. Does it really have to be like this.
Im not going to get in the way of you meeting someone just by catching up once in a while jezz.
Ok that's bullshit you not waking up to your phone going off I really need to talk to you.
Fucking hell have I got to go through your admin to get to you š¤£ just a casual chat.
That's all the texts I got from her and I have had 19 missed calls from her.
Pick up it's important
Well I must of gave you tones of missed calls please give me a call once you get this.
We do talk about you still you know, we always share our memories at the table about you. Why not, im not going to pretend we didnt happen or make the girls feel like they cant talk about you. You are the only man they've ever known to be apart of me. Alissia is non stop asking about you, actually at the table she said "mummy why have you chucked Sammy in the bin" š i listen to im kissing you " and it makes me upset.. this aint a too get back with you message or sympathy. Just putting it out there. I dont want no hating. Yea we might go months without chatting but thats all normal for people right. Does it really have to be like this.
Im not going to get in the way of you meeting someone just by catching up once in a while jezz.
Ok that's bullshit you not waking up to your phone going off I really need to talk to you.
Fucking hell have I got to go through your admin to get to you š¤£ just a casual chat.
That's all the texts I got from her and I have had 19 missed calls from her.
Posted by Centaur12
...Ok that's bullshit you not waking up to your phone going off I really need to talk to you....
Gems always make me laugh.
She really thinks she's entitled to that peen---yes that's partly your doing----it's unreal though.
some people deserve each other.
Posted by Hypnotoad
Answer your phone while you're balls deep in the Aries
And SHOUT your orgasm down the phone
....L O U D L Y....whilst calling the Ramās name ....
š„“šš¤£
You and that woman still going at itā
So, what did you reply? What she replied? Are you going to meet the Gem to keep the drama going? Please, update!
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Centaur12
...Ok that's bullshit you not waking up to your phone going off I really need to talk to you....
Gems always make me laugh.
She really thinks she's entitled to that peen---yes that's partly your doing----it's unreal though.click to expand
I know right š
Posted by goldenfish
So, what did you reply? What she replied? Are you going to meet the Gem to keep the drama going? Please, update!
I replied saying I was sleeping what's up ?
Posted by Centaur12Posted by goldenfish
So, what did you reply? What she replied? Are you going to meet the Gem to keep the drama going? Please, update!
I replied saying I was sleeping what's up ?click to expand
She said Thats cool, sorry for the excessive phone calls.
Then I replied Thats ok is everything ok ?
She replied Yea everything is fine, i had loads to drink as you've probably guessed. Wasnt a drunken phone call tho, i did genuinely wanted to see how you was doing.
I replied Yeah, thats ok yeah I'm doing ok I suppose are you alright and the girls ?
Her reply Likewise for us. That's it lol
Posted by Centaur12Posted by Centaur12Posted by goldenfish
So, what did you reply? What she replied? Are you going to meet the Gem to keep the drama going? Please, update!
I replied saying I was sleeping what's up ?
She said Thats cool, sorry for the excessive phone calls.
Then I replied Thats ok is everything ok ?
She replied Yea everything is fine, i had loads to drink as you've probably guessed. Wasnt a drunken phone call tho, i did genuinely wanted to see how you was doing.
I replied Yeah, thats ok yeah I'm doing ok I suppose are you alright and the girls ?
Her reply Likewise for us. That's it lolclick to expand
Alrighty I will stay tuned for the rest of the story (which, I am sure, will follow).
She text me saying - Well in all honesty i did say to the girls possibly thurs about contacting you to meet up with the girls this coming Sunday. Not sure what you think on that. Park trip or something. You free for a call?
No donāt meet her š
this aint a too get back with you message or sympathy. Just putting it out there. I dont want no hating. Yea we might go months without chatting but thats all normal for people right. Does it really have to be like this.
***Yes it does have to be like this so you can move on, sheās being honest here and you want to read more into it. She says upfront this isnāt a I want to get back with you text!!! She doesnāt want you back, she wants your friendship and you bending over backwards to please her againāØ**
Im not going to get in the way of you meeting someone just by catching up once in a while jezz.
***This is where you let her know youāve already met someone and she wonāt get in the way so stop callingāØ**
I really need to talk to you.
***Seriouslyā? What about? Sheās said absolutely nothing to talk to you about whatās urgent at all, only wants to chat as she said below.***
Fucking hell have I got to go through your admin to get to you š¤£ just a casual chat.
***Tell it to her straight. Iām with someone, stop calling me and find another lacky!! You owe this to yourself and the RamāØ**
***Yes it does have to be like this so you can move on, sheās being honest here and you want to read more into it. She says upfront this isnāt a I want to get back with you text!!! She doesnāt want you back, she wants your friendship and you bending over backwards to please her againāØ**
Im not going to get in the way of you meeting someone just by catching up once in a while jezz.
***This is where you let her know youāve already met someone and she wonāt get in the way so stop callingāØ**
I really need to talk to you.
***Seriouslyā? What about? Sheās said absolutely nothing to talk to you about whatās urgent at all, only wants to chat as she said below.***
Fucking hell have I got to go through your admin to get to you š¤£ just a casual chat.
***Tell it to her straight. Iām with someone, stop calling me and find another lacky!! You owe this to yourself and the RamāØ**
I'm gonna bet that while all this advice is being provided on this thread, he's talking things out with the Gem and he will update the thread shortly....
The Ram is a placeholder. Sadly.
The Ram is a placeholder. Sadly.
I'm talking to her on the phone this morning she's messaged me to say she wants to meet up with the kids at the Park.
But I am going to be upfront and straight with her and say I understand what your saying you want is a friendship and not anything else but its not a good idea it will confuse the kids and also, I am seeing someone else and out of respect for them I think its best we leave it.
But I am going to be upfront and straight with her and say I understand what your saying you want is a friendship and not anything else but its not a good idea it will confuse the kids and also, I am seeing someone else and out of respect for them I think its best we leave it.
Posted by Centaur12
I'm talking to her on the phone this morning she's messaged me to say she wants to meet up with the kids at the Park....
Posted by Centaur12
I'm talking to her on the phone this morning she's messaged me to say she wants to meet up with the kids at the Park.
But I am going to be upfront and straight with her and say I understand what your saying you want is a friendship and not anything else but its not a good idea it will confuse the kids and also, I am seeing someone else and out of respect for them I think its best we leave it.
Hmph. So which is it? If you are currently talking to her (e.g. "I'm talking to her..."), did you already tell her you're seeing someone else (present, done, end of stroy) or do you plan to meet with her (e.g. "but I am going to be...") and tell her (future, drag this out for months....)?
i guess sagittarius does not always aim for higher wisdom and knowledge with that little bow and arrow ...
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Centaur12
I'm talking to her on the phone this morning she's messaged me to say she wants to meet up with the kids at the Park....
https://c.tenor.com/D_Wj_IKLElIAAAAd/oprah-winfrey-shrug.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expand
hahaha
Posted by MaxianPosted by Tetka_Iz_Daleka
i guess sagittarius does not always aim for higher wisdom and knowledge with that little bow and arrow ...
"Truthseekers" my ass. I feel duped.click to expand
similar sentiments ....smh.
maybe OP has a fixed venus/moon.
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Centaur12
I'm talking to her on the phone this morning she's messaged me to say she wants to meet up with the kids at the Park.
But I am going to be upfront and straight with her and say I understand what your saying you want is a friendship and not anything else but its not a good idea it will confuse the kids and also, I am seeing someone else and out of respect for them I think its best we leave it.
Hmph. So which is it? If you are currently talking to her (e.g. "I'm talking to her..."), did you already tell her you're seeing someone else (present, done, end of stroy) or do you plan to meet with her (e.g. "but I am going to be...") and tell her (future, drag this out for months....)?click to expand
Of course heās going to meet with her to tell herā¦
This is his last attempt to get her to wake up and decide she wants a āReal relationshipā with him.
This has been his end game all along!
To be continued: thread 213
Posted by Centaur12
I'm talking to her on the phone this morning she's messaged me to say she wants to meet up with the kids at the Park.
But I am going to be upfront and straight with her and say I understand what your saying you want is a friendship and not anything else but its not a good idea it will confuse the kids and also, I am seeing someone else and out of respect for them I think its best we leave it.
The plan seems OK. Curious how Gemini will react
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Centaur12
I'm talking to her on the phone this morning she's messaged me to say she wants to meet up with the kids at the Park.
But I am going to be upfront and straight with her and say I understand what your saying you want is a friendship and not anything else but its not a good idea it will confuse the kids and also, I am seeing someone else and out of respect for them I think its best we leave it.
Hmph. So which is it? If you are currently talking to her (e.g. "I'm talking to her..."), did you already tell her you're seeing someone else (present, done, end of stroy) or do you plan to meet with her (e.g. "but I am going to be...") and tell her (future, drag this out for months....)?
Of course heās going to meet with her to tell herā¦
This is his last attempt to get her to wake up and decide she wants a āReal relationshipā with him.
This has been his end game all along!
To be continued: thread 213click to expand
No, I'm not meeting her at all I'm telling her this over the phone today also, yes I am Aqua moon
Posted by goldenfishPosted by Centaur12
I'm talking to her on the phone this morning she's messaged me to say she wants to meet up with the kids at the Park.
But I am going to be upfront and straight with her and say I understand what your saying you want is a friendship and not anything else but its not a good idea it will confuse the kids and also, I am seeing someone else and out of respect for them I think its best we leave it.
The plan seems OK. Curious how Gemini will reactclick to expand
I'm sure she won't care š she's already stated her intentions
Posted by Centaur12Posted by goldenfishPosted by Centaur12
I'm talking to her on the phone this morning she's messaged me to say she wants to meet up with the kids at the Park.
But I am going to be upfront and straight with her and say I understand what your saying you want is a friendship and not anything else but its not a good idea it will confuse the kids and also, I am seeing someone else and out of respect for them I think its best we leave it.
The plan seems OK. Curious how Gemini will react
I'm sure she won't care š she's already stated her intentionsclick to expand
Mmm 19 missed calls & texts at 3 AM tell me different story.
Posted by goldenfishPosted by Centaur12Posted by goldenfishPosted by Centaur12
I'm talking to her on the phone this morning she's messaged me to say she wants to meet up with the kids at the Park.
But I am going to be upfront and straight with her and say I understand what your saying you want is a friendship and not anything else but its not a good idea it will confuse the kids and also, I am seeing someone else and out of respect for them I think its best we leave it.
The plan seems OK. Curious how Gemini will react
I'm sure she won't care š she's already stated her intentions
Mmm 19 missed calls & texts at 3 AM tell me different story.click to expand
Yeah she left 19 missed calls and texts but told me it was because she wants to meet up with the kids and to see how I am she wants nothing else but a catch up apparently and has said she will not stand in the way or stop me from meeting someone.
Also, why would she state that she talks about me still with her children and also, mention she's listening to the song we use to listen to together and get upset about it.
Again it's leading me on in one statement she says
"We do talk about you still you know, we always share our memories at the table about you. Why not, im not going to pretend we didnt happen or make the girls feel like they cant talk about you. You are the only man they've ever known to be apart of me. Alissia is non stop asking about you, actually at the table she said "mummy why have you chucked Sammy in the bin" š i listen to im kissing you and it makes me upset" . Does this not indicate she misses me and cares ??
Then the next statement
"this aint a too get back with you message or sympathy. Just putting it out there" (does this not indicate she wants friendship from me or FWB with me and to be at her becking call again?
Again!!! it's all wishy washy behaviour from her I want no part of it !!! This is exactly why I walked away in the beginning because of the up and down wishy washy behaviour.
Tells me she wants a friendship then tells me she's upset listening to our song etc can she not see this is why it's impossible for us to be friends lol.
Posted by Centaur12Posted by sweetheartsPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Centaur12
I'm talking to her on the phone this morning she's messaged me to say she wants to meet up with the kids at the Park.
But I am going to be upfront and straight with her and say I understand what your saying you want is a friendship and not anything else but its not a good idea it will confuse the kids and also, I am seeing someone else and out of respect for them I think its best we leave it.
Hmph. So which is it? If you are currently talking to her (e.g. "I'm talking to her..."), did you already tell her you're seeing someone else (present, done, end of stroy) or do you plan to meet with her (e.g. "but I am going to be...") and tell her (future, drag this out for months....)?
Of course heās going to meet with her to tell herā¦
This is his last attempt to get her to wake up and decide she wants a āReal relationshipā with him.
This has been his end game all along!
To be continued: thread 213
No, I'm not meeting her at all I'm telling her this over the phone today also, yes I am Aqua moonclick to expand
Okay, so future, drag this out for months, got it.
Curious, why couldn't you just tell her this when you were talking to her on the phone.....um yesterday? Quite honestly, this is something you could have informed her of via text when you pulled away from the sleeping Ram in the middle of the night/early morning. Probably instead of asking DXP what to do.
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by PhoenixRising
Hmph. So which is it? If you are currently talking to her (e.g. "I'm talking to her..."), did you already tell her you're seeing someone else (present, done, end of story) or do you plan to meet with her (e.g. "but I am going to be...") and tell her (future, drag this out for months....)?
Of course heās going to meet with her to tell herā¦
This is his last attempt to get her to wake up and decide she wants a āReal relationshipā with him.
This has been his end game all along!
To be continued: thread 213click to expand
I have a bad habit of stating people's contradictions in the form of a question. It's less of a need to know the answer and more so to highlight that they aren't fooling anyone but themselves.
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Centaur12Posted by sweetheartsPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Centaur12
I'm talking to her on the phone this morning she's messaged me to say she wants to meet up with the kids at the Park.
But I am going to be upfront and straight with her and say I understand what your saying you want is a friendship and not anything else but its not a good idea it will confuse the kids and also, I am seeing someone else and out of respect for them I think its best we leave it.
Hmph. So which is it? If you are currently talking to her (e.g. "I'm talking to her..."), did you already tell her you're seeing someone else (present, done, end of stroy) or do you plan to meet with her (e.g. "but I am going to be...") and tell her (future, drag this out for months....)?
Of course heās going to meet with her to tell herā¦
This is his last attempt to get her to wake up and decide she wants a āReal relationshipā with him.
This has been his end game all along!
To be continued: thread 213
No, I'm not meeting her at all I'm telling her this over the phone today also, yes I am Aqua moon
Okay, so future, drag this out for months, got it.
Curious, why couldn't you just tell her this when you were talking to her on the phone.....um yesterday? Quite honestly, this is something you could have informed her of via text when pulled away from the sleeping Ram in the middle of the night.click to expand
I thought it would of been better to do it over phone call also, when she wasn't drunk and I wasn't drunk because she said she had alot to drink as I probably guessed I wanted a clear head.
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by sweetheartsPosted by PhoenixRisingHmph. So which is it? If you are currently talking to her (e.g. "I'm talking to her..."), did you already tell her you're seeing someone else (present, done, end of stroy) or do you plan to meet with her (e.g. "but I am going to be...") and tell her (future, drag this out for months....)?
Of course heās going to meet with her to tell herā¦
This is his last attempt to get her to wake up and decide she wants a āReal relationshipā with him.
This has been his end game all along!
To be continued: thread 213
I have a bad habit of stating people's contradictions in the form of a question. It's less of a need to know the answer and more so to highlight that they aren't fooling anyone but themselves.click to expand
That's fair hence why I do not understands her contradictions
Posted by Centaur12Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Centaur12Posted by sweetheartsPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Centaur12
I'm talking to her on the phone this morning she's messaged me to say she wants to meet up with the kids at the Park.
But I am going to be upfront and straight with her and say I understand what your saying you want is a friendship and not anything else but its not a good idea it will confuse the kids and also, I am seeing someone else and out of respect for them I think its best we leave it.
Hmph. So which is it? If you are currently talking to her (e.g. "I'm talking to her..."), did you already tell her you're seeing someone else (present, done, end of stroy) or do you plan to meet with her (e.g. "but I am going to be...") and tell her (future, drag this out for months....)?
Of course heās going to meet with her to tell herā¦
This is his last attempt to get her to wake up and decide she wants a āReal relationshipā with him.
This has been his end game all along!
To be continued: thread 213
No, I'm not meeting her at all I'm telling her this over the phone today also, yes I am Aqua moon
Okay, so future, drag this out for months, got it.
Curious, why couldn't you just tell her this when you were talking to her on the phone.....um yesterday? Quite honestly, this is something you could have informed her of via text when pulled away from the sleeping Ram in the middle of the night.
I thought it would of been better to do it over phone call also, when she wasn't drunk and I wasn't drunk because she said she had alot to drink as I probably guessed I wanted a clear head.click to expand
Fair enough. A sober mind can read text just as well. If not better than an emotional mind hearing words. Just sayin'.
Normally, yes I would say if you were in a loving relationship, with mutual respect, the person has earned a meeting and a conversation (if it's healthy for both to do so). In your case, given the way she ended it and repeated jerking around she would have stayed on read until the kids went to university. A simple "no, I don't think that is best" via text would suffice. Her drunk a** will read it after she has her morning coffee.
Personally, I have a difference in opinion regarding telling her about the Ram because quite frankly I don't think she needs to know why you don't want to meet/talk. You simply don't want to. Period. And I don't say that to hide the Ram, I say it because it's none of her god d*mn business what you do with your life.
Btw, this whole "we can't meet up out of respect for the person I am seeing" is bullsh*t. You're hiding behind the Ram. You should be telling her to bugger off because you're done with her. Unless you're not.
Posted by Centaur12Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by sweetheartsPosted by PhoenixRisingHmph. So which is it? If you are currently talking to her (e.g. "I'm talking to her..."), did you already tell her you're seeing someone else (present, done, end of stroy) or do you plan to meet with her (e.g. "but I am going to be...") and tell her (future, drag this out for months....)?
Of course heās going to meet with her to tell herā¦
This is his last attempt to get her to wake up and decide she wants a āReal relationshipā with him.
This has been his end game all along!
To be continued: thread 213
I have a bad habit of stating people's contradictions in the form of a question. It's less of a need to know the answer and more so to highlight that they aren't fooling anyone but themselves.
That's fair hence why I do not understands her contradictionsclick to expand
She is duplicitous ~ a *trickster*
~ Out for self gain
Posted by nanobotz
You know dudeā¦. Sometimes the heart just wants what it wants and it doesnāt make sense to others. Itād be better for you to accept that, and work through those feelings than to bring another woman further (Aries) into this and pretend to take advice from people here. Something in your heart isnāt allowing you to move on from her, so you havenāt moved on. Like not even one small bit, and the sooner you acknowledge that, the better.
*like* This.
Posted by Centaur12Posted by Centaur12Posted by goldenfish
So, what did you reply? What she replied? Are you going to meet the Gem to keep the drama going? Please, update!
I replied saying I was sleeping what's up ?
She said Thats cool, sorry for the excessive phone calls.
Then I replied Thats ok is everything ok ?
She replied Yea everything is fine, i had loads to drink as you've probably guessed. Wasnt a drunken phone call tho, i did genuinely wanted to see how you was doing.
I replied Yeah, thats ok yeah I'm doing ok I suppose are you alright and the girls ?
Her reply Likewise for us. That's it lolclick to expand
Gems militarise their children A LOT. My father went through it with his Gem. She chased him across boarders and faked pregnancies.
Did you lose your own mother at a young age?
Posted by Centaur12Posted by goldenfishPosted by Centaur12Posted by goldenfishPosted by Centaur12
I'm talking to her on the phone this morning she's messaged me to say she wants to meet up with the kids at the Park.
But I am going to be upfront and straight with her and say I understand what your saying you want is a friendship and not anything else but its not a good idea it will confuse the kids and also, I am seeing someone else and out of respect for them I think its best we leave it.
The plan seems OK. Curious how Gemini will react
I'm sure she won't care š she's already stated her intentions
Mmm 19 missed calls & texts at 3 AM tell me different story.
Yeah she left 19 missed calls and texts but told me it was because she wants to meet up with the kids and to see how I am she wants nothing else but a catch up apparently and has said she will not stand in the way or stop me from meeting someone.
Also, why would she state that she talks about me still with her children and also, mention she's listening to the song we use to listen to together and get upset about it.
Again it's leading me on in one statement she says
"We do talk about you still you know, we always share our memories at the table about you. Why not, im not going to pretend we didnt happen or make the girls feel like they cant talk about you. You are the only man they've ever known to be apart of me. Alissia is non stop asking about you, actually at the table she said "mummy why have you chucked Sammy in the bin" š i listen to im kissing you and it makes me upset" . Does this not indicate she misses me and cares ??
Then the next statement
"this aint a too get back with you message or sympathy. Just putting it out there" (does this not indicate she wants friendship from me or FWB with me and to be at her becking call again?
Again!!! it's all wishy washy behaviour from her I want no part of it !!! This is exactly why I walked away in the beginning because of the up and down wishy washy behaviour.
Tells me she wants a friendship then tells me she's upset listening to our song etc can she not see this is why it's impossible for us to be friends lol.click to expand
You never mention here how is Aries. Does she ask any questions? How is she with you? How is it going? Because, you know, she is the present, Gemini is the past.
Posted by goldenfishPosted by Centaur12Posted by goldenfishPosted by Centaur12Posted by goldenfishPosted by Centaur12
I'm talking to her on the phone this morning she's messaged me to say she wants to meet up with the kids at the Park.
But I am going to be upfront and straight with her and say I understand what your saying you want is a friendship and not anything else but its not a good idea it will confuse the kids and also, I am seeing someone else and out of respect for them I think its best we leave it.
The plan seems OK. Curious how Gemini will react
I'm sure she won't care š she's already stated her intentions
Mmm 19 missed calls & texts at 3 AM tell me different story.
Yeah she left 19 missed calls and texts but told me it was because she wants to meet up with the kids and to see how I am she wants nothing else but a catch up apparently and has said she will not stand in the way or stop me from meeting someone.
Also, why would she state that she talks about me still with her children and also, mention she's listening to the song we use to listen to together and get upset about it.
Again it's leading me on in one statement she says
"We do talk about you still you know, we always share our memories at the table about you. Why not, im not going to pretend we didnt happen or make the girls feel like they cant talk about you. You are the only man they've ever known to be apart of me. Alissia is non stop asking about you, actually at the table she said "mummy why have you chucked Sammy in the bin" š i listen to im kissing you and it makes me upset" . Does this not indicate she misses me and cares ??
Then the next statement
"this aint a too get back with you message or sympathy. Just putting it out there" (does this not indicate she wants friendship from me or FWB with me and to be at her becking call again?
Again!!! it's all wishy washy behaviour from her I want no part of it !!! This is exactly why I walked away in the beginning because of the up and down wishy washy behaviour.
Tells me she wants a friendship then tells me she's upset listening to our song etc can she not see this is why it's impossible for us to be friends lol.
You never mention here how is Aries. Does she ask any questions? How is she with you? How is it going? Because, you know, she is the present, Gemini is the past.click to expand
Aries is curious about why I hesitate on certain things she doesn't speak her mind sometimes I had to grind a little to get her to speak up but I know things bug her and it's my fault because I hold back.
Aries is very loving with me always wants to be close to me goes to hold my hand alot and cuddle me.
She pays for stuff is usually always 50/50 with me is good with my children plays with them she told me she was writing me a letter about how she feels towards me and feels its easier for her to express her feelings that way as she's scared of rejection but then screwed it all up.
She's told me she could see her self marrying me and wants us to live together but would travel back to her town so she could still play her sports and work she said all this while she was drunk on Saturday night.
The one thing that is alittle off putting however is she is very boisterous in her ways and when she's drunk turns into a completely different person spits on the floor swears alot it's pretty disgusting really she's like a different person.
I feel as if I would have to look after her like a child a little bit and that's why me and the Sag split in the beginning she's not very house proud or doesn't seem like she has much care in keeping things nice apart from her self really and It may make me sound like a right snob but I'm not I just want things to be nice and someone to have respect for stuff etc. If that makes sense.
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I'm talking to her on the phone this morning she's messaged me to say she wants to meet up with the kids at the Park.
But I am going to be upfront and straight with her and say I understand what your saying you want is a friendship and not anything else but its not a good idea it will confuse the kids and also, I am seeing someone else and out of respect for them I think its best we leave it.
The plan seems OK. Curious how Gemini will react
I'm sure she won't care š she's already stated her intentions
Mmm 19 missed calls & texts at 3 AM tell me different story.
Yeah she left 19 missed calls and texts but told me it was because she wants to meet up with the kids and to see how I am she wants nothing else but a catch up apparently and has said she will not stand in the way or stop me from meeting someone.
Also, why would she state that she talks about me still with her children and also, mention she's listening to the song we use to listen to together and get upset about it.
Again it's leading me on in one statement she says
"We do talk about you still you know, we always share our memories at the table about you. Why not, im not going to pretend we didnt happen or make the girls feel like they cant talk about you. You are the only man they've ever known to be apart of me. Alissia is non stop asking about you, actually at the table she said "mummy why have you chucked Sammy in the bin" š i listen to im kissing you and it makes me upset" . Does this not indicate she misses me and cares ??
Then the next statement
"this aint a too get back with you message or sympathy. Just putting it out there" (does this not indicate she wants friendship from me or FWB with me and to be at her becking call again?
Again!!! it's all wishy washy behaviour from her I want no part of it !!! This is exactly why I walked away in the beginning because of the up and down wishy washy behaviour.
Tells me she wants a friendship then tells me she's upset listening to our song etc can she not see this is why it's impossible for us to be friends lol.
You never mention here how is Aries. Does she ask any questions? How is she with you? How is it going? Because, you know, she is the present, Gemini is the past.
Aries is curious about why I hesitate on certain things she doesn't speak her mind sometimes I had to grind a little to get her to speak up but I know things bug her and it's my fault because I hold back.
Aries is very loving with me always wants to be close to me goes to hold my hand alot and cuddle me.
She pays for stuff is usually always 50/50 with me is good with my children plays with them she told me she was writing me a letter about how she feels towards me and feels its easier for her to express her feelings that way as she's scared of rejection but then screwed it all up.
She's told me she could see her self marrying me and wants us to live together but would travel back to her town so she could still play her sports and work she said all this while she was drunk on Saturday night.
The one thing that is alittle off putting however is she is very boisterous in her ways and when she's drunk turns into a completely different person spits on the floor swears alot it's pretty disgusting really she's like a different person.
I feel as if I would have to look after her like a child a little bit and that's why me and the Sag split in the beginning she's not very house proud or doesn't seem like she has much care in keeping things nice apart from her self really and It may make me sound like a right snob but I'm not I just want things to be nice and someone to have respect for stuff etc. If that makes sense.click to expand
Okay, alcohol thing seems like a red flag.
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