Turning 30...

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I'm getting there and I honestly can't deny that I'm anxious, can't really understand why but sometimes I feel hit by a series of questions that I don't have the answer to, yet. But I know the answers will come through.

Sometimes is hard to live day by day when I see into the future, what will I do with my life for the next 10 years to reap for the following 100 years.

I have 2 beautiful and amazing daughters, which I feel truly blessed to have because even when I can't get up from my bed, I have to do it. They are my reason to live.

"I don't have a dream. I have a vision and a purpose." æ

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Posted by WarAngel1
Think of your 30s as a culmination of all the work you've put in your 20s. Let the real fun begin!
My 20's were very family focused, focused on keeping my relationship together (with my ex) which fell apart about 4 yrs ago, focused on school, but realized that I couldn't work in the field I chose (that changed too), focused on educating my kids ( this never ends) and finally was able to focus on my spiritual and self growth recently, about 3 years ago.

That's when everything else changed. Now I have a different vision from when I was in my 20's. The only thing I can rely on now is the experience of what didn't work, so I don't do it again. And learn from what did work, to continue to apply.

I'm starting my business this year. Entered in another business venture with someone close to me and it's like everything is new now, it's risky, but exciting. Still, makes me nervous.
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Posted by Dead_Kermit
Looking back I’ve to say 30plus has been the best time of my life. There’s no reason to worry.

As to visions, you had a different vision in your 20s, so what? You’ll have a different one in your 40s too. That’s life... things change.
Thanks!!! I noticed that, and sometimes I tell that to others, as you mature your visions may change, but some people are so afraid of the change that they get stuck in what they thought they wanted.

I'm not afraid of change, actually I'm the type of person who always needs something new and I always do things without having second thoughts, but I guess that now I'm anxious because I can't rely on "expected results". 😕
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Looking back I’ve to say 30plus has been the best time of my life. There’s no reason to worry.

As to visions, you had a different vision in your 20s, so what? You’ll have a different one in your 40s too. That’s life... things change.
Thanks!!! I noticed that, and sometimes I tell that to others, as you mature your visions may change, but some people are so afraid of the change that they get stuck in what they thought they wanted.

I'm not afraid of change, actually I'm the type of person who always needs something new and I always do things without having second thoughts, but I guess that now I'm anxious because I can't rely on "expected results". 😕
I see. Just... results happen and are more often a combination of luck and ability than ability alone. Just remember: if you try, you risk failure. If you don’t, you ensure it.

If you do what you need, you’re surviving. If you do what you want, you’re living. Make the journey worthwhile.
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You are right. THANK YOU!

I really appreciate your words! 🤗

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I guess I'm more be proud of what I've done rather than the what if or what will be.

It's a lot easier to just be grateful.

I'm grateful I never got to know my parents else I don't know what kind of a spoilt brat I'd be. I'm grateful for having my daughter or I may not have experience joy and love as I did. I'm grateful for some break ups or I would've not known what heart break really is. I'm grateful for the travelling, bouts of depression, financial issues that sets me up for being better the next time. etc etc

As for the future who knows but that's the fun part I guess. I'm sure there's going to be something that I'll never be able to be prepared for. I mean even now I still struggle with depression, who knows if I just throwing up the flag one day.

If there's one thing is that I don't know anything and that's sit alright with me.
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Think of your 30s as a culmination of all the work you've put in your 20s. Let the real fun begin!
My 20's were very family focused, focused on keeping my relationship together (with my ex) which fell apart about 4 yrs ago, focused on school, but realized that I couldn't work in the field I chose (that changed too), focused on educating my kids ( this never ends) and finally was able to focus on my spiritual and self growth recently, about 3 years ago.

That's when everything else changed. Now I have a different vision from when I was in my 20's. The only thing I can rely on now is the experience of what didn't work, so I don't do it again. And learn from what did work, to continue to apply.

I'm starting my business this year. Entered in another business venture with someone close to me and it's like everything is new now, it's risky, but exciting. Still, makes me nervous.
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Happy Birthday it sounds like you are doing wonderful! At the core of every journey it is really about growth and self awareness sounds like you have had both!
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Looking back I’ve to say 30plus has been the best time of my life. There’s no reason to worry.

As to visions, you had a different vision in your 20s, so what? You’ll have a different one in your 40s too. That’s life... things change.
Thanks!!! I noticed that, and sometimes I tell that to others, as you mature your visions may change, but some people are so afraid of the change that they get stuck in what they thought they wanted.

I'm not afraid of change, actually I'm the type of person who always needs something new and I always do things without having second thoughts, but I guess that now I'm anxious because I can't rely on "expected results". 😕
I see. Just... results happen and are more often a combination of luck and ability than ability alone. Just remember: if you try, you risk failure. If you don’t, you ensure it.

If you do what you need, you’re surviving. If you do what you want, you’re living. Make the journey worthwhile.
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Best advice ever 👌

“If you do what you need, you’re surviving. If you do what you want, you’re living. Make the journey worthwhile.”
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Think of your 30s as a culmination of all the work you've put in your 20s. Let the real fun begin!
My 20's were very family focused, focused on keeping my relationship together (with my ex) which fell apart about 4 yrs ago, focused on school, but realized that I couldn't work in the field I chose (that changed too), focused on educating my kids ( this never ends) and finally was able to focus on my spiritual and self growth recently, about 3 years ago.

That's when everything else changed. Now I have a different vision from when I was in my 20's. The only thing I can rely on now is the experience of what didn't work, so I don't do it again. And learn from what did work, to continue to apply.

I'm starting my business this year. Entered in another business venture with someone close to me and it's like everything is new now, it's risky, but exciting. Still, makes me nervous.

Happy Birthday it sounds like you are doing wonderful! At the core of every journey it is really about growth and self awareness sounds like you have had both!

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Thank you!!! haven't seen you around much, I remember we used to be on that cap board all the time 😂

Definitely self growth and awareness, focusing on myself and growing spiritually. 🤗
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Posted by Aerazo
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Posted by WarAngel1
Think of your 30s as a culmination of all the work you've put in your 20s. Let the real fun begin!
My 20's were very family focused, focused on keeping my relationship together (with my ex) which fell apart about 4 yrs ago, focused on school, but realized that I couldn't work in the field I chose (that changed too), focused on educating my kids ( this never ends) and finally was able to focus on my spiritual and self growth recently, about 3 years ago.

That's when everything else changed. Now I have a different vision from when I was in my 20's. The only thing I can rely on now is the experience of what didn't work, so I don't do it again. And learn from what did work, to continue to apply.

I'm starting my business this year. Entered in another business venture with someone close to me and it's like everything is new now, it's risky, but exciting. Still, makes me nervous.

Happy Birthday it sounds like you are doing wonderful! At the core of every journey it is really about growth and self awareness sounds like you have had both!


Thank you!!! haven't seen you around much, I remember we used to be on that cap board all the time 😂

Definitely self growth and awareness, focusing on myself and growing spiritually. 🤗
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Yeah he sort of made himself vaunerable the other day but he is a year too late. I don't have time for the games and I love an Aquarius now lol.

Did you do anything nice for your birthday ?
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Posted by Aerazo
I'm getting there and I honestly can't deny that I'm anxious, can't really understand why but sometimes I feel hit by a series of questions that I don't have the answer to, yet. But I know the answers will come through.

Sometimes is hard to live day by day when I see into the future, what will I do with my life for the next 10 years to reap for the following 100 years.

I have 2 beautiful and amazing daughters, which I feel truly blessed to have because even when I can't get up from my bed, I have to do it. They are my reason to live.

"I don't have a dream. I have a vision and a purpose." æ




Dont worry, Aquas are late bloomers in general, thats why we are staying young for a long time 🙂

It would be sad if you would have the same mindset all your life, like you had in 20, where would be the progress? somebody call it a vision, somebody call it a dream, its the same = to have something you are looking for all the time

with Aquas its a strange thing..... you live your life, its "dull" for a year or 5 years or so.... then suddenly from one day to another, everything changes....... new love is on the horizont in 2018, so it will be an exciting year with your new business (just make sure about the finances)

dont be so hard on yourself, you are allowed to do mistakes, and you will not make any big mistakes anyway.... you are an Aqua, remember? 🙂

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Think of your 30s as a culmination of all the work you've put in your 20s. Let the real fun begin!
My 20's were very family focused, focused on keeping my relationship together (with my ex) which fell apart about 4 yrs ago, focused on school, but realized that I couldn't work in the field I chose (that changed too), focused on educating my kids ( this never ends) and finally was able to focus on my spiritual and self growth recently, about 3 years ago.

That's when everything else changed. Now I have a different vision from when I was in my 20's. The only thing I can rely on now is the experience of what didn't work, so I don't do it again. And learn from what did work, to continue to apply.

I'm starting my business this year. Entered in another business venture with someone close to me and it's like everything is new now, it's risky, but exciting. Still, makes me nervous.

Happy Birthday it sounds like you are doing wonderful! At the core of every journey it is really about growth and self awareness sounds like you have had both!


Thank you!!! haven't seen you around much, I remember we used to be on that cap board all the time 😂

Definitely self growth and awareness, focusing on myself and growing spiritually. 🤗

Yeah he sort of made himself vaunerable the other day but he is a year too late. I don't have time for the games and I love an Aquarius now lol.

Did you do anything nice for your birthday ?

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Ohh too bad for him. My cap is still around. We are working together now and helping each other. sometimes I get impatient but I don't want to push anything as things seem to be progressing.

My birthday is on Monday but yes I went on a Disney cruise to the bahamas with my daughters, my mom and sister, we just got back. I had a great time!

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I feel this thread so much

I've accidentally called myself 19 when I was in my early 20s #superindenial

I have always dreaded my birthdays. Now 30 is closer to me than 20 🥺

I been slowly learning to be more grateful and appreciate how far I've come.

I just changed my life goals to be a spicy milf and then a gilf 😁


I hope the anxiety goes away as we get older lol.

Im glad you are coming to the realization to be grateful for what you have. 🙏🏻

Lmao I was the spicy milf! I still am, I hope 🤣
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Posted by Aerazo

I'm getting there and I honestly can't deny that I'm anxious, can't really understand why but sometimes I feel hit by a series of questions that I don't have the answer to, yet. But I know the answers will come through.

Sometimes is hard to live day by day when I see into the future, what will I do with my life for the next 10 years to reap for the following 100 years.

I have 2 beautiful and amazing daughters, which I feel truly blessed to have because even when I can't get up from my bed, I have to do it. They are my reason to live.

"I don't have a dream. I have a vision and a purpose." æ


I am with you on this one I turn 30 in December I also have daughters as well but currently living separately with my new partner and I hate the fact that there is no security it scares me really and I duno why maybe it's because I had that security and now I don't 🤷‍♂️
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Posted by Aerazo

I'm getting there and I honestly can't deny that I'm anxious, can't really understand why but sometimes I feel hit by a series of questions that I don't have the answer to, yet. But I know the answers will come through.

Sometimes is hard to live day by day when I see into the future, what will I do with my life for the next 10 years to reap for the following 100 years.

I have 2 beautiful and amazing daughters, which I feel truly blessed to have because even when I can't get up from my bed, I have to do it. They are my reason to live.

"I don't have a dream. I have a vision and a purpose." æ


Wait til you turn 40!

It makes being 30 look like being 20 !