Aquagirl2015
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Biggest Insecurity?
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Interesting. What's your sign?
Posted by bumboklatt
my biggest insecurity is not being able to connect with people
I always feel like people take me the wrong way (good or bad)
Oh yea I can see what you mean about that. Like whenever you are your true self, you feel rejected
Posted by xoxoRain
Taurus sun, aqua moon, Libra rising.
And one of my biggest insecurity is that I'm not accepted by the ones I love most. I don't belong, I don't fit in. Friends are pretending to love me but actually hate me.
They're giving me fake love etc etc etc.
Being stared at by people or when people are nosing in my business.
Being proven wrong on something I was sure of.
Aqua rising Aries sun Piscesmoon
Being miss understood... For my quorky nature...
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Being miss understood... For my quorky nature...
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I don't allow myself to be vulnerable in a relationship. It's like I have this fear that if I allow myself to be vulnerable to another they'll take advantage of me somehow. Even if they say they love me, I have a hard time believing they're not really after something.
Im always insecure about my body, dont get me wrong I love my body, I have a very good body but it doesnt reflect who I am on the inside.
Clearly I was meant to have a tail and fins so I can live under the sea.
Clearly I was meant to have a tail and fins so I can live under the sea.
Posted by SeasonYea I am normally attracted to Aqua every this drove me nut about a few Aquas I dated... Actually one currently... I hope she can open up. The last thing I want is to hurt her... It is hard though my intuitive side knows she is not opening up so I just feel like there is a wall... So to speak it drives me nuts in a good way to get to know but then can drive me away...
I don't allow myself to be vulnerable in a relationship. It's like I have this fear that if I allow myself to be vulnerable to another they'll take advantage of me somehow. Even if they say they love me, I have a hard time believing they're not really after something.
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It's very interesting that in general a lot of us females are afraid of emotional things- not being enough, not opening up, being judged etc.
Just an observation!
Just an observation!
Being judged, slowly learning to not give a shit though.
My insecurity is myself now (hair, body, face...) I never really had one until these last few years. I had something tramatic happen to me and it caused me hate myself and never trust any guy ever. I'm slowly coming around now and starting to love myself more but my trust for men is very low still.
Oh, and feeling abandoned.
Posted by LadyJuicySorry to hear, sure sounds like it puts my insecurities into perspective. Hope you find the way to overcome or manage these insecurities.
My insecurity is myself now (hair, body, face...) I never really had one until these last few years. I had something tramatic happen to me and it caused me hate myself and never trust any guy ever. I'm slowly coming around now and starting to love myself more but my trust for men is very low still.
Posted by LibraLovesHimBack when I was younger I used to cry-I couldnt understand how people could be so hateful/bitter/bullies. Now I just grind on and use it as fuel to achieve more.
Being judged, slowly learning to not give a shit though.
My biggest insecurity is having BO. Dayum. What did I eat last night. God damn do I stink.
i guess mine would be a fear. Fear of never having children.
Posted by SolesanLolol
My biggest insecurity is having BO. Dayum. What did I eat last night. God damn do I stink.
Ikr? Or being alone with someone in an elevator and you have some nasty case of gas.
My biggest insecurity stems from a fear of loss combined with fear of vulnerability.
I have a fear of being exposed to the ones I love, but not wanting to lose the people I love because of this phobia.
I attach, and disconnect....attach and disconnect.
I also have a serious issue with accepting compliments, my paranoid thoughts are in overdrive, and I sense they have disingenuous agenda....but that is usually not the case, it's just my own insecurities.
I have a fear of being exposed to the ones I love, but not wanting to lose the people I love because of this phobia.
I attach, and disconnect....attach and disconnect.
I also have a serious issue with accepting compliments, my paranoid thoughts are in overdrive, and I sense they have disingenuous agenda....but that is usually not the case, it's just my own insecurities.
Posted by LibraLovesHimThank you. I am praying and taking it day by day. I will get through it!!!Posted by LadyJuicySorry to hear, sure sounds like it puts my insecurities into perspective. Hope you find the way to overcome or manage these insecurities.
My insecurity is myself now (hair, body, face...) I never really had one until these last few years. I had something tramatic happen to me and it caused me hate myself and never trust any guy ever. I'm slowly coming around now and starting to love myself more but my trust for men is very low still.click to expand
My biggest insecurity is that I'll joke too much when I need to be serious.
Being betrayed and get abondoned because I'm not good enough.
Aqua sun with a nasty fearful cap venus rx!
Aqua sun with a nasty fearful cap venus rx!
Thanks to everyone for responding! It takes courage, even on this online forum to be this honest. I really appreciate you sharing your biggest insecurities. Quite a few of us have the same fears, so it's always good to know you're not alone. *Hugs* to everyone who shared!
Hahaha! Ooohhh! INTJ-I see ya! I'm an ENTP lol.
Yes, you get *hug* *hug*
I appreciate you sharing! 🙂
Yes, you get *hug* *hug*
I appreciate you sharing! 🙂
Posted by Aquagirl2015As an aqua moon always trying to save aho.
Hey everyone,
Was just curious to know what some other signs thought their personal biggest insecurity was.
Just wanted to say that this should be a NO JUDGING ZONE.
Aqua sun- mine is feeling like I'm not good enough
Infj here. This should be good smashing personalities here.
Aqua moon yeah being betrayed to an earth sign forgive and forget. Hardly unless they did something really bad to other people.
abandonment
Scorpio Sun, Aries Moon
Scorpio Sun, Aries Moon
Well I had a fire mutable dad so my esteem was shot. Never was good enough in his eyes. I have cancer rising it doesn't do anything but hurt and detach moreso.
I think my biggest insecurity would be to be rejected and left by the persons i really care about, not like a smiple way, but in more complex, that's why i do everything on my own, i have friends and things like that, but i can never ask for help or something, it's not like they wouldn't help me, they would, but i think it's pride talking that i need and want to accomplish everything on my own, even a simplest tasks and the hardest one's, and that's deep psychological root, you do and try to do everything on your own because you're to afraid to let others help you, to afraid because if the person left you couldn't stand on your own 2 feet, i just don't want to rely on the person 2 much because i think i'm strong and others might not be as strong as me and couldn't handle it, some people wouldn't call that bad, but the truth is if you're unable to ask for help, you're just a person who's afraid of being hurt or rejected to much in my option, it's good to have a strong ground under your feet and know where you're going, to have a goal, a dream, a vision, but this road gets really lonely, you have friends, good one's that you could count on and rely on, but you just can't. It's a fight i feel i have to fight alone, i'm only 22 now and i don't know, i just look at people and i'm not judgemental or anything, i just don't want to be around most of the people, unhealthy, with no morals, no values, the more i grow the more i realise i need positive, strong people around me, with morals, values and knowledge, things like that, just simply being with these people you become more stronger, wiser, you expand your world more and more, you start to realise more things, you start to gain more confidence, you become a rival, motivator for others and they become motivation for you without you even realising it, damn an amazing feeling, an the amazing thing is, they are strong, have values, and morals, you know deep inside people like them would never leave y, they are part of you as much as you are part of them, but the wrong people in your life can take a part of you away , that's what scares me the most i think..... as strong as you are, it's the closest people that can hurt you the most, because they are inside and know your heart, they either protect it making you a better person overall, or they stab it with a poison dagger.. 🙂 sorr for grammar tho . 😄
fear i'll never make my dream of being signed to a major label happen
Posted by rakacamen crab bro
I think my biggest insecurity would be to be rejected and left by the persons i really care about, not like a smiple way, but in more complex, that's why i do everything on my own, i have friends and things like that, but i can never ask for help or something, it's not like they wouldn't help me, they would, but i think it's pride talking that i need and want to accomplish everything on my own, even a simplest tasks and the hardest one's, and that's deep psychological root, you do and try to do everything on your own because you're to afraid to let others help you, to afraid because if the person left you couldn't stand on your own 2 feet, i just don't want to rely on the person 2 much because i think i'm strong and others might not be as strong as me and couldn't handle it, some people wouldn't call that bad, but the truth is if you're unable to ask for help, you're just a person who's afraid of being hurt or rejected to much in my option, it's good to have a strong ground under your feet and know where you're going, to have a goal, a dream, a vision, but this road gets really lonely, you have friends, good one's that you could count on and rely on, but you just can't. It's a fight i feel i have to fight alone, i'm only 22 now and i don't know, i just look at people and i'm not judgemental or anything, i just don't want to be around most of the people, unhealthy, with no morals, no values, the more i grow the more i realise i need positive, strong people around me, with morals, values and knowledge, things like that, just simply being with these people you become more stronger, wiser, you expand your world more and more, you start to realise more things, you start to gain more confidence, you become a rival, motivator for others and they become motivation for you without you even realising it, damn an amazing feeling, an the amazing thing is, they are strong, have values, and morals, you know deep inside people like them would never leave y, they are part of you as much as you are part of them, but the wrong people in your life can take a part of you away , that's what scares me the most i think..... as strong as you are, it's the closest people that can hurt you the most, because they are inside and know your heart, they either protect it making you a better person overall, or they stab it with a poison dagger.. 🙂 sorr for grammar tho . 😄
Posted by pakmaiSame 😢
My biggest insecurity is being misunderstood. I don't think I think like most people (at least the people I have to interact with) and it makes me not want to pursue a relationship because I don't want to explain myself 24/7. I literally am only friends with people who do not question my character.. They get me % 100.
I was depressed for a while and withdrew when I was friends with people who are somewhat.. "Clingy" or "Attached". Like, I couldn't be myself.. I don't HAVE to be around people and they didn't like that.. I got questioned for being aloof, I guess. I don't know.
Ugh! Totally get this. Anytime I've tried to be vulnerable it's come back to hurt my feelings. Do you feel the not good enough feeling carries over from relationships to other aspects of life
Posted by AquaNextDoor
Being betrayed and get abondoned because I'm not good enough.
Aqua sun with a nasty fearful cap venus rx!
I would agree with you to a certain extent but I wanted to see what/if any general commonalities certain signs had with their insecurities.
Posted by Deadpoop
I believe our insecurities are a culmination of our experiences, and upbringing along with any ideology we may have been exposed to growing up. If you ask most people their appearance at one time or another has played a role in their insecurities, and being that each one is a different sign, we cant pin this on the stars i believe...
scorpio > that im not loved truly and for who i really am. i have a hard time trusting other people's motives
Posted by Aquagirl2015Hm not really, I'm pretty confident in others aspects of my life. My cap hubby gives me lots of reassurance and that makes it easier for me to work on my insecurities 🙂
Ugh! Totally get this. Anytime I've tried to be vulnerable it's come back to hurt my feelings. Do you feel the not good enough feeling carries over from relationships to other aspects of life
Posted by AquaNextDoor
Being betrayed and get abondoned because I'm not good enough.
Aqua sun with a nasty fearful cap venus rx!click to expand
My biggest insecurity..
Insecurity is my insecurity in general. I wish my insecurity and anxiety could subside and that I could relax, and not give a crap about things. I think people can sense it and that makes it all even worse.
Insecurity is my insecurity in general. I wish my insecurity and anxiety could subside and that I could relax, and not give a crap about things. I think people can sense it and that makes it all even worse.
Mine is being emasculated and my gf is aries. The ultimate horror scenario is a woman who protects me in a dangerous situation and not the other way around. I will never date female fighters, soldiers or cops.
Being bossed around in front of everybody or being a stay at home dad, her earning more than me all that stuff. Before that happens, the law of physics will change therefore never.
I always thought I am progressive and openminded for new things after all - wrong.
Posted by Aquagirl2015
Hey everyone,
Was just curious to know what some other signs thought their personal biggest insecurity was.
Just wanted to say that this should be a NO JUDGING ZONE.
Aqua sun- mine is feeling like I'm not good enough
I don't feel that way, but I used to feel sad and insecure all the time.
but I guess because I am merged with someone who gives me strength and love and comfort. it really makes me happy.
maybe that's what you need, is someone who will love you lots and you can love them a lot back too.
Posted by DMV
i guess mine would be a fear. Fear of never having children.click to expand
my sister has a Pisces sun best friend who had a great fear of not having children. So she tried all kinds of methods. Thankfully she had her first baby this year.
Posted by AquaNextDoorthere. see? Merging with another beautiful soul gives you happiness. but it has to be the right one, of course.Posted by Aquagirl2015Hm not really, I'm pretty confident in others aspects of my life. My cap hubby gives me lots of reassurance and that makes it easier for me to work on my insecurities 🙂
Ugh! Totally get this. Anytime I've tried to be vulnerable it's come back to hurt my feelings. Do you feel the not good enough feeling carries over from relationships to other aspects of life
Posted by AquaNextDoor
Being betrayed and get abondoned because I'm not good enough.
Aqua sun with a nasty fearful cap venus rx!
click to expand
the reassurance thing is true.
Posted by AneemAi notice a lot of people are like that, no matter the sun sign, placements,
My biggest insecurity would be the need to get approval from ppl I care much about.
If I don't care about a person, I won't give any single fuck if they like me or not.
But it's a different story for a person I care about, or I admire, I want them to like me, I want them to let me into their inner circle and so on.
I am still learning that I don't need people's approvals to feel loved or complete as a person.
they want and NEED approval from strangers.
edit so youre NOT alone.
Posted by rakac
I think my biggest insecurity would be to be rejected and left by the persons i really care about, not like a smiple way, but in more complex, that's why i do everything on my own, i have friends and things like that, but i can never ask for help or something, it's not like they wouldn't help me, they would, but i think it's pride talking that i need and want to accomplish everything on my own, even a simplest tasks and the hardest one's, and that's deep psychological root, you do and try to do everything on your own because you're to afraid to let others help you, to afraid because if the person left you couldn't stand on your own 2 feet, i just don't want to rely on the person 2 much because i think i'm strong and others might not be as strong as me and couldn't handle it, some people wouldn't call that bad, but the truth is if you're unable to ask for help, you're just a person who's afraid of being hurt or rejected to much in my option, it's good to have a strong ground under your feet and know where you're going, to have a goal, a dream, a vision, but this road gets really lonely, you have friends, good one's that you could count on and rely on, but you just can't. It's a fight i feel i have to fight alone, i'm only 22 now and i don't know, i just look at people and i'm not judgemental or anything, i just don't want to be around most of the people, unhealthy, with no morals, no values, the more i grow the more i realise i need positive, strong people around me, with morals, values and knowledge, things like that, just simply being with these people you become more stronger, wiser, you expand your world more and more, you start to realise more things, you start to gain more confidence, you become a rival, motivator for others and they become motivation for you without you even realising it, damn an amazing feeling, an the amazing thing is, they are strong, have values, and morals, you know deep inside people like them would never leave y, they are part of you as much as you are part of them, but the wrong people in your life can take a part of you away , that's what scares me the most i think..... as strong as you are, it's the closest people that can hurt you the most, because they are inside and know your heart, they either protect it making you a better person overall, or they stab it with a poison dagger.. 🙂 sorr for grammar tho . 😄
good one.
Posted by Parkourlerwow that's really great honesty.
Mine is being emasculated and my gf is aries. The ultimate horror scenario is a woman who protects me in a dangerous situation and not the other way around. I will never date female fighters, soldiers or cops.
Being bossed around in front of everybody or being a stay at home dad, her earning more than me all that stuff. Before that happens, the law of physics will change therefore never.
I always thought I am progressive and openminded for new things after all - wrong.
most men would be fearful saying that around feminist women.
Come on this is online i am completely anonymous. In Reality I am Putin thats why I act so tough. My security unit from the kgb will kill me for posting here. Or maybe I am Obama, tired of Michelles bossys tendencies.
Please note that I dont have a problem fighting together WITH a woman but not for her me and I am the one who will be protected.
Please note that I dont have a problem fighting together WITH a woman but not for her me and I am the one who will be protected.
Yeah Aries is masculine positive , Taurus is feminine negative and those well come in handy at times. It's a cute when a Taurus allows Masculine types to do things for the Feminine types allowing free flowing connection.
Posted by Parkourler😆
Come on this is online i am completely anonymous. In Reality I am Putin thats why I act so tough. My security unit from the kgb will kill me for posting here. Or maybe I am Obama, tired of Michelles bossys tendencies.
Please note that I dont have a problem fighting together WITH a woman but not for her me and I am the one who will be protected.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Its true, I just dont allow her to lead and to dominate me. She is not happy about it but for some reason, she stays.
Yeah Aries is masculine positive , Taurus is feminine negative and those well come in handy at times. It's a cute when a Taurus allows Masculine types to do things for the Feminine types allowing free flowing connection.
There is also comfort in knowing she can stand up for herself. When she walks alone in a dark alley two o clock in the morning after a nightout, I worry more about the health of the attacker and less hers 🙂
Losing my creativity.
Losing my joie du vivre.
Undermining my relationships.
Being lied to...each time I sense it, I get extremely angry, even if I didn't prove it.
Losing my joie du vivre.
Undermining my relationships.
Being lied to...each time I sense it, I get extremely angry, even if I didn't prove it.
ou paint me in highly flattering light! I only wish I was that logical ALL the time. Damn Aries moon!Posted by DeadpoopPosted by Aquagirl2015Understandable. Never hurts to do some due diligence
I would agree with you to a certain extent but I wanted to see what/if any general commonalities certain signs had with their insecurities.Posted by Deadpoop
I believe our insecurities are a culmination of our experiences, and upbringing along with any ideology we may have been exposed to growing up. If you ask most people their appearance at one time or another has played a role in their insecurities, and being that each one is a different sign, we cant pin this on the stars i believe...click to expand
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For leaving your majestic Aqua for a retarded Gemini. You had a fucking Aqua, wrapped around your finger. Do you know how hard those are to get?! Any idea at all?
And who the hell would leave one for a Gemini? Wasn't even a Leo or something. And she's
About this Pisces? Use One word..
Sun: Pisces
Moon: Libra
Ven: Pisces
Mer: Aqua
Mars: Aqua
Asc: Aqua
Sun- Libra
Moon- Pisces
Mercury- Libra
Venus- Virgo
Mars- Scorpio
Pluto- Scorpio
Jupiter- Libra
Saturn-Aquarius
Uranus-Capricorn
Neptune- Capricorn
Lilth- Aries
Ascendant- Pisces
Just because I'm curious and it'd be fun to learn more about
Just curious how aquarius's like to approach friendships and their typical actions with friends.
So far i've picked up that aquarius can be very social, with lots of friends, but also love their independence.
I've only started befriending some aqu
Aries, Leo, Sagittarius, Gemini, Libra, Aquarius
which of the masculine signs appears most "feminine"?
hey all, I've been reading quite a lot on this board and came across an interesting thought. It goes: aquas want someone who will put them to their place for bad behavior. Is it true?
I am a cancer and I feel treated like a doormat by my aqua bf and
follow your heart and never doubt yourself. for real.
The aqua guy I'm dating stood me up this week and I got upset and have been being distant with him. Will he lose interest? I just felt hurt:( He left for a while week job trip to China and he didn't even see me before he left. He asked to see me.But the d
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I made a huge mistake and kind of sort of broke up with my aqua a few weeks ago. I apologized to him a week later, he said everything was all fine, though he wasn't all that receptive. I asked if he waned to get together and he sent me the emoji wearing s
Hi,
I have been wondering for some time about her... we go to the same studio for yoga. Saw each other often.
Back story I totally fell for this Aqua 5 years ago and then she went to Cal to chase jobs for her type of work. It is not easy to find a
On another post we were talking about our experiences with certain air sun, moon, rising signs and someone gave an interesting perspective on Gemini and Aquarius:
{""I agree with that. Aquas are full of themselves but they will always act democratic, t
So recently my Aqua ex wrote me a letter.. expressing how much he's changed, how much I've taught him, how much he appreciate me, he loves me, and he's thankful for EVERYTHING...
Also, he expressed how he was wrong and don't know how I stayed with him
I've legit disappeared from people's lives from one day to another because I simply decided I didn't wanna be friends/date them anymore and I'm just wondering if that's because I'm an Aqua and how are other signs when it comes to being patient lol because
Weird stuff. He kept liking my selfies on instagram. But then doesnt talk to me anymore. Stares at me. But when i talk to him, he invites other people in the conversation. I asked if he wants to go drinking with me and if he can invite others and he said
Weird stuff. He kept liking my selfies on instagram. But then doesnt talk to me anymore. Stares at me. But when i talk to him, he invites other people in the conversation. I asked if he wants to go drinking with me and if he can invite others and he said
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I'm Aquarius sun and Leo moon which is the exact opposite to one another... Those with the opposite signs, what is your personality like? I find mine is REALLY split, what about yours? Or your thoughts on this?
Post your Best friend or Closest Friend chart next to yours... & Explain what you feel makes you both great friends..
My Chart:
Sun- Pisc, Moon- Aries, Mer- Aqua, Ven- Aqua, Mars- Leo, Jup- Sag, Sat- Pis
My best friend's (Female and Male)
Female
After reading another thread about aquas ans rejection I'm curious to know, how do you go about rejecting someone?
I was told aquas are passive about doing this and won't tell you upfront if they no longer want to see you.
I mean someone that you'
Was just curious to know what some other signs thought their personal biggest insecurity was.
Just wanted to say that this should be a NO JUDGING ZONE.
Aqua sun- mine is feeling like I'm not good enough