Capricornicus
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Cap Needing Advice on Cancer Woman
well ...I can't speak for every cancer woman ....but speaking for myself
1. she told all her friends how into she was
2.she boldly kissed you and came on to you
3. she made sure you had her number
-----then you DIDN'T text that weekend------
I am extremely shy! and if I pull out all the stops and you still don't text 😢 sigh*I would start to pull back into my shell ...which sounds like what she is doing
1. she told all her friends how into she was
2.she boldly kissed you and came on to you
3. she made sure you had her number
-----then you DIDN'T text that weekend------
I am extremely shy! and if I pull out all the stops and you still don't text 😢 sigh*I would start to pull back into my shell ...which sounds like what she is doing
Sounds like you are just too Needy!
Posted by Cancan26Hey !! 😄 .. Glad to see you back 🙂
well ...I can't speak for every cancer woman ....but speaking for myself
1. she told all her friends how into she was
2.she boldly kissed you and came on to you
3. she made sure you had her number
-----then you DIDN'T text that weekend------
I am extremely shy! and if I pull out all the stops and you still don't text 😢 sigh*I would start to pull back into my shell ...which sounds like what she is doing
Posted by RumiLthank you poo!Posted by Cancan26Hey !! 😄 .. Glad to see you back 🙂
well ...I can't speak for every cancer woman ....but speaking for myself
1. she told all her friends how into she was
2.she boldly kissed you and came on to you
3. she made sure you had her number
-----then you DIDN'T text that weekend------
I am extremely shy! and if I pull out all the stops and you still don't text 😢 sigh*I would start to pull back into my shell ...which sounds like what she is doing
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Cancers do not let go easily. So when breaking up, even if its her choice or even when the relationship was bad, she has a hard time. So she is mourning....have patience...
Posted by Cancan26
well ...I can't speak for every cancer woman ....but speaking for myself
1. she told all her friends how into she was
2.she boldly kissed you and came on to you
3. she made sure you had her number
-----then you DIDN'T text that weekend------
I am extremely shy! and if I pull out all the stops and you still don't text 😢 sigh*I would start to pull back into my shell ...which sounds like what she is doing
he said he texted the next day, then it was the weekend and he didn't until Monday as he knew she was moving stuff out from her ex's ...
OP, I say - just my perspective - she said she needed time and you know the booze was talking - so maybe she was just reeling from moving stuff out of ex's place and I'm sure they talked at some point so what I'm saying is that it's a tad soon don't ya think ... you don't want a rebound piece of mess ... be cool and give it some time ...
She's gone dark because she's detaching from something she was once close to and trusted.
Keep contact but also keep that in mind.
Keep contact but also keep that in mind.
Most of cancers i noticed are afraid of rejection 😉 she sounds like she has doubts or she's testing you maybe? 🙂 i don't do things like this, but i'd invite you to do something nice for her, not practical but something that would create some emotion, make something for her, a nice romance dinner or a lunch or something beautiful with your own hands ,we love personal gifts and when you put work and heart in not, not so much practical things, unless we're old. 😄 for example id like a book but way more i would love a pic or a letter or something made by the person i like 🙂 i might not be a cancer woman, but i think all cancers want something that has meaning behind it, and maybe some romance and shit 😄 if you tell her you like or love her, show her, actions , and show your vulnerable side , don't be afraid, she will think you're more human , because for me was the same once with capricorn, at first i thought she was ice cold, but when i got to know her, ofc she didn't say anything, but i noticed that she really was sensitive and vulnerable inside, with many fears that she hides under that mask, open up a little bit and you'll see how the cancer will become more open with ya i think 😉 if you think she's worth it that is
She also kind of sounds like distancing herself from you, she might think that you're not into her because you don't show enough attention or something, just insecure cancerian going back 🙂
She also kind of sounds like distancing herself from you, she might think that you're not into her because you don't show enough attention or something, just insecure cancerian going back 🙂
Posted by Cancan26Nope sorry that is bs. He may not have texted the next day but the man has pursued trying to talk to her like 3 times. That is a BIG enough hint that he has reciprocated. If this Cancer woman is thinking like you then she is a bitch because he has shown his interest and there is no reason to refuse to acknowledge it simply because he did not text her the VERY next day.
well ...I can't speak for every cancer woman ....but speaking for myself
1. she told all her friends how into she was
2.she boldly kissed you and came on to you
3. she made sure you had her number
-----then you DIDN'T text that weekend------
I am extremely shy! and if I pull out all the stops and you still don't text 😢 sigh*I would start to pull back into my shell ...which sounds like what she is doing
But tbh OP I think she was just drunk. I dont think she likes you as much as she has led you to believe. Seems like she is toying with you for her fun and ego boost. You deserve better, ESP if you are aa hot as you say she says you are.
she playin playa!
I'm a cancer and I do not let go of exs easily. It takes me a long time to heal. Doesn't sound like she's ready to move on yet. And the fact that she still had to move out of her exs place is heartbreaking enough.
Also, maybe she's totally embarrassed about what happened when she was drunk. I'm guilty of that!
Lastly, as a cancer women dating a cap man I can tell you this- we love attention we love more of the semi aggressive type because we love to talk and show our emotions. You like space more than us. You move too slow and don't show as much feeling as we'd like.
I think you still have a chance though! This girl needs someone to take care of her right now. Show her you can do that!
Also, maybe she's totally embarrassed about what happened when she was drunk. I'm guilty of that!
Lastly, as a cancer women dating a cap man I can tell you this- we love attention we love more of the semi aggressive type because we love to talk and show our emotions. You like space more than us. You move too slow and don't show as much feeling as we'd like.
I think you still have a chance though! This girl needs someone to take care of her right now. Show her you can do that!
Posted by Guesswho22This is true!
This is a first all I ever see are women boo hooing over how to get a cap man and ur sprung on a cancer
@malloryor
maybe...you could be right .... 😄 (I don't know her lol)
I was speaking for myself....I get discouraged easily when it comes to flirting so for me if I put in a lot of effort and don't get a "proactive" reaction immediately ...I get discouraged and I begin to back off ..and in the situation where I had just broken up with someone and my ego was already bruised ...it wouldn't be a stretch to for me to go cold for a bit ...but again thats me personally
maybe...you could be right .... 😄 (I don't know her lol)
I was speaking for myself....I get discouraged easily when it comes to flirting so for me if I put in a lot of effort and don't get a "proactive" reaction immediately ...I get discouraged and I begin to back off ..and in the situation where I had just broken up with someone and my ego was already bruised ...it wouldn't be a stretch to for me to go cold for a bit ...but again thats me personally
How are u so sure that she didn't patch up with his ex...she went for moving some stuff from her ex's or something...maybe they clicked again
We,cancerians don't really let go of our love that easily...we do everything possible to bring it back on the right track
She deliberatley gave u her phone number and then poof!!! The ex thing is back Imo
We,cancerians don't really let go of our love that easily...we do everything possible to bring it back on the right track
She deliberatley gave u her phone number and then poof!!! The ex thing is back Imo
Posted by newloveAgreed! This has happened with me as the cancer girl. I tried to move on and open myself up to someone else, but said I needed to take things slowly. Really, I was physically attracted, but not open to it going anywhere because my heart was still with my ex. I bet they are trying to work things out. I would let this go before you get hurt. If they were living together, she is not over him yet. We cling to things. There's a saying:. Everything I've had to let go of has claw marks. True for Cancers.
How are u so sure that she didn't patch up with his ex...she went for moving some stuff from her ex's or something...maybe they clicked again
We,cancerians don't really let go of our love that easily...we do everything possible to bring it back on the right track
She deliberatley gave u her phone number and then poof!!! The ex thing is back Imo
Sound like she's busy from the break up she had...bad move you made was not replying to her when she finally hit you up.. why are you chasing her? Is it because you want to get to know her or you just chasing sex?
Posted by ScrumptiousWhhhhy why would you do this! I will never sleep again!
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