Scorpio_Serenity
@Scorpio_Serenity
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Crushed By a Cancer...
Holy Fuck that was depressing!
Whelp, I hate to say it, but maybe... Cancer isn't your cup of tea? I can see how depression would kill a relationship but damn.
Maybe he could use some reassurance. It's worth trying to save the relationship for the sake of the child. That's for sure.
Whelp, I hate to say it, but maybe... Cancer isn't your cup of tea? I can see how depression would kill a relationship but damn.
Maybe he could use some reassurance. It's worth trying to save the relationship for the sake of the child. That's for sure.
Sorry to hear that. I'm going to be as upfront with you as possible because sugar-coating this will do you no good. This guy is feeding you a line to sidestep his potential responsibilities. He's literally shirking the fact that you are pregnant with his kid.
"Not feeling the spark" is a really convenient excuse (and not one you'd generally hear from a guy). Guy's typically could care less about the "spark" to be honest. Problem is, as you've said already, this guy has kids from another relationship. With the burden of losing his job and you being in your current condition, he's panicking. In response, he's dropping all of his excess "baggage".
So instead of ghosting on you, he's basically coming up with excuses to blame you for the downfall of the relationship. He knows he can't blame you for getting pregnant, so he's finding other issues. Ask yourself this. Does it make sense that he would push away the mother of his child to fend for herself? Unfortunately he is not concerned about you right now. Him taking the time to adjust his status on social media is just icing on the cake.
Cancers can be VERY passive aggressive unfortunately. So it sounds like the guy you're dealing with doesn't have any plan to help you right now. Again I'm sorry to have to tell you this, but you should be aware of your current situation.
"Not feeling the spark" is a really convenient excuse (and not one you'd generally hear from a guy). Guy's typically could care less about the "spark" to be honest. Problem is, as you've said already, this guy has kids from another relationship. With the burden of losing his job and you being in your current condition, he's panicking. In response, he's dropping all of his excess "baggage".
So instead of ghosting on you, he's basically coming up with excuses to blame you for the downfall of the relationship. He knows he can't blame you for getting pregnant, so he's finding other issues. Ask yourself this. Does it make sense that he would push away the mother of his child to fend for herself? Unfortunately he is not concerned about you right now. Him taking the time to adjust his status on social media is just icing on the cake.
Cancers can be VERY passive aggressive unfortunately. So it sounds like the guy you're dealing with doesn't have any plan to help you right now. Again I'm sorry to have to tell you this, but you should be aware of your current situation.
Id get an abortion personally and wait for the true one.
The child will have a crappy life knowing its dad didn't want to know, but does with his current brats.
The child will have a crappy life knowing its dad didn't want to know, but does with his current brats.
wtf no updates ?
A two year thread....yeah, I'm biting my nails, too
đ€ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Damn DXP! Pete and repeat!
đ€ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
đ€ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by nyx100
Id get an abortion personally and wait for the true one.
The child will have a crappy life knowing its dad didn't want to know, but does with his current brats.
You don't notice old threads huh? You just answer lol I notice you bring up a lot of them. I was just saying that I noticed, it's not a big deal, but I think it's funny how oblivious you are to dates and you just type away đ
Posted by Black-Mamba
why the fuk do women trap men in this way and than pretend to be innocent
Yeah this feels a bit like a trap to me as well.
You know they told her that it would effect the bc when they gave her the prescription.
Posted by HeartofTopazz
Who the fuggin hell moves in together after 4 months?
âFit together so wellâ that we had an antibiotics baby
I can move in easily within a week đ
but seriously, this story is very one-sided, reading it I couldnt help myself to feel sorry for that guy.... the OP sounded a bit deluded and cry, unfortunately
I beleive she left out looots of things and yes, I beleive she actually wanted to trap him with a baby and cure whatever problems they had...... jobless, depressive.. and now pregnant
I hope tho it resolved somehow.... poor kid and all involved (if it wasnt a troll story)
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Black-Mamba
why the fuk do women trap men in this way and than pretend to be innocent
Yeah this feels a bit like a trap to me as well.
You know they told her that it would effect the bc when they gave her the prescription.
the guy loses his job, has 2 kids, can you imagine finding out he has a kid on the way that's unplanned
sheezclick to expand
Ouch
Posted by Raakac
Well i'd say he's feeling overwhelmed abd insecure. Knowing he already has 2 kids and can't fully provide them now that he doesn't have a job must be stressful, on top of that he has depressed woman he needs to take care of and he just now finds out about the kid he's having, when he can't provide. Seems like he's stressed and he's running from the responsibility.
On other note, have you told him how much him taking care of you while you were depressed meant, have you expressed graditute, said simple thank you and showed signs of gesture/effort/trying/ ? Do you know what's hi's love language is? You told him you're on birth pills and now that you're pregnant he might think you tricked him into having a kid or something. I'd say either both of you have conversation as grown people do, or part ways.
The hardest question now is the pregnancy and the kid.... and i can't say anything about that, you have to make your own choise, as much as i'd like to say get abortion, it's already been 3month's and there is already a fully developed life inside you... You should talk with that Cancer man and if you can't consider how the life with the kid would be without the father.......
Best wishes stay strong and positive.....
Sounds like one cancer guy I know. But they consciously place themselves into trouble. In the end they pursue a chick that can provide for them and take care of him.
Posted by RaakacPosted by nousernamePosted by Raakac
Well i'd say he's feeling overwhelmed abd insecure. Knowing he already has 2 kids and can't fully provide them now that he doesn't have a job must be stressful, on top of that he has depressed woman he needs to take care of and he just now finds out about the kid he's having, when he can't provide. Seems like he's stressed and he's running from the responsibility.
On other note, have you told him how much him taking care of you while you were depressed meant, have you expressed graditute, said simple thank you and showed signs of gesture/effort/trying/ ? Do you know what's hi's love language is? You told him you're on birth pills and now that you're pregnant he might think you tricked him into having a kid or something. I'd say either both of you have conversation as grown people do, or part ways.
The hardest question now is the pregnancy and the kid.... and i can't say anything about that, you have to make your own choise, as much as i'd like to say get abortion, it's already been 3month's and there is already a fully developed life inside you... You should talk with that Cancer man and if you can't consider how the life with the kid would be without the father.......
Best wishes stay strong and positive.....
Sounds like one cancer guy I know. But they consciously place themselves into trouble. In the end they pursue a chick that can provide for them and take care of him.
I hate when people take care of me, i can take care of myself. I'm looking for partner in crime, to do shit together , travel and so on. By stating them you're talking about all of Cancers, and not all of them are like that.click to expand
Not all cancers are like that. But from all the ones that I know, they all like to be taken care of and they avoid any kind of responsibility that stems from their own doing. When you find a responsible Cancer man that doesnât avoid responsibility, let me know.
Posted by RaakacPosted by nousernamePosted by RaakacPosted by nousernamePosted by Raakac
Well i'd say he's feeling overwhelmed abd insecure. Knowing he already has 2 kids and can't fully provide them now that he doesn't have a job must be stressful, on top of that he has depressed woman he needs to take care of and he just now finds out about the kid he's having, when he can't provide. Seems like he's stressed and he's running from the responsibility.
On other note, have you told him how much him taking care of you while you were depressed meant, have you expressed graditute, said simple thank you and showed signs of gesture/effort/trying/ ? Do you know what's hi's love language is? You told him you're on birth pills and now that you're pregnant he might think you tricked him into having a kid or something. I'd say either both of you have conversation as grown people do, or part ways.
The hardest question now is the pregnancy and the kid.... and i can't say anything about that, you have to make your own choise, as much as i'd like to say get abortion, it's already been 3month's and there is already a fully developed life inside you... You should talk with that Cancer man and if you can't consider how the life with the kid would be without the father.......
Best wishes stay strong and positive.....
Sounds like one cancer guy I know. But they consciously place themselves into trouble. In the end they pursue a chick that can provide for them and take care of him.
I hate when people take care of me, i can take care of myself. I'm looking for partner in crime, to do shit together , travel and so on. By stating them you're talking about all of Cancers, and not all of them are like that.
Not all cancers are like that. But from all the ones that I know, they all like to be taken care of and they avoid any kind of responsibility that stems from their own doing. When you find a responsible Cancer man that doesnât avoid responsibility, let me know.
Define responsible Cancer man please đclick to expand
Follow through on plans that cancer man mutually agreed upon with another person. How about you do a test. Try avoiding gray areas with a cancer man and try setting up plans that are âBlack &Whiteâ meaning that there are clear guidelines where everyone knows their job/responsibility. I bet you that he wonât like it bc he wonât be able to âswim in the waterâ and get away with things.
Posted by Schawq
A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
Iâd say turn that kind of mindset back on them and theyâll stick to you like a duck tape. Cancers in my life that I know stick to partners that treat them like trash. Witnessed many examples.
Posted by SchawqPosted by nousernamePosted by Schawq
A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
Iâd say turn that kind of mindset back on them and theyâll stick to you like a duck tape. Cancers in my life that I know stick to partners that treat them like trash. Witnessed many examples.
A cancer will put up with it if that person has a good job. đ€·đ»ââïžclick to expand
That seems to be an unreasonable reason to put with someone. Unless you donât have a good job or you donât work at all.
Posted by RaakacPosted by nousernamePosted by RaakacPosted by nousernamePosted by RaakacPosted by nousernamePosted by Raakac
Well i'd say he's feeling overwhelmed abd insecure. Knowing he already has 2 kids and can't fully provide them now that he doesn't have a job must be stressful, on top of that he has depressed woman he needs to take care of and he just now finds out about the kid he's having, when he can't provide. Seems like he's stressed and he's running from the responsibility.
On other note, have you told him how much him taking care of you while you were depressed meant, have you expressed graditute, said simple thank you and showed signs of gesture/effort/trying/ ? Do you know what's hi's love language is? You told him you're on birth pills and now that you're pregnant he might think you tricked him into having a kid or something. I'd say either both of you have conversation as grown people do, or part ways.
The hardest question now is the pregnancy and the kid.... and i can't say anything about that, you have to make your own choise, as much as i'd like to say get abortion, it's already been 3month's and there is already a fully developed life inside you... You should talk with that Cancer man and if you can't consider how the life with the kid would be without the father.......
Best wishes stay strong and positive.....
Sounds like one cancer guy I know. But they consciously place themselves into trouble. In the end they pursue a chick that can provide for them and take care of him.
I hate when people take care of me, i can take care of myself. I'm looking for partner in crime, to do shit together , travel and so on. By stating them you're talking about all of Cancers, and not all of them are like that.
Not all cancers are like that. But from all the ones that I know, they all like to be taken care of and they avoid any kind of responsibility that stems from their own doing. When you find a responsible Cancer man that doesnât avoid responsibility, let me know.
Define responsible Cancer man please đ
Follow through on plans that cancer man mutually agreed upon with another person. How about you do a test. Try avoiding gray areas with a cancer man and try setting up plans that are âBlack &Whiteâ meaning that there are clear guidelines where everyone knows their job/responsibility. I bet you that he wonât like it bc he wonât be able to âswim in the waterâ and get away with things.
I know couple of Cancers including myself that would go through the plans that we agreed upon. That being said i don't agree on some shit people try to force me to do, they say it's my responsibility, but is it really? Just because they want me to do something that doesn't make it my responsibility to do that for them, especially if they can do that themselves, it's their responsibility to take care of the thing they need to be done, not try to put that shit on somebody else. It's like saying it's wife's responsibility to cook for for the man, while it's not. Yes it's nice and so on, but it's propoganda, there is no responsibility like that, just because a man would think it's her responsibility doesn't mean it is, he could cook that shit for himself, especially if they didn't agree upon that thing. It's my responsibility to follow thru what i agreed upon, upon my words and promises, it's my responsibility to life my life with my values and my standards and each person has them. That being said i know loads of cancers who cancel dates, don't reply messages and phone calls on purpose, i think it has more to do with values rather than a sign tbh.click to expand
Youâre right with everything you said. But this one part that you wrote is tricky âJust because they want me to do something that doesn't make it my responsibilityâ. Lol that even sounds like one cancer that I know. For example, when you sign up to go to college you canât just say oh this or that is not my responsibility. I mean, going to class and passing them is your responsibility. Buying books, showing up on time, etc. When you move in with a girl and get her pregnant it is your responsibility as much as hers. I mean, maybe itâs just upbringing not the sign... idk.
Posted by Mariposa_Posted by Schawq
A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
This is the realist comment Iâve read in a while.click to expand
It may seem like that, but most times itâs just passing feelings of ups and downs that make us question. We know deep down it will pass and continue being happy with our partner đ€ it could be a learning curve...
Posted by Schawq
A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
Lies.. if a crab does this to you then he/she never truly loved you.
Posted by SchawqPosted by YodiPosted by Schawq
A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
Lies.. if a crab does this to you then he/she never truly loved you.
Hmm I can see that. My brother is a Cancer and loved someone for a very long time but that person never really had a low period to look down upon so đ€·đ»ââïžclick to expand
What do you mean by low period? Are they still together?
Posted by Mariposa_Posted by MoonbutterPosted by Mariposa_Posted by Schawq
A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
This is the realist comment Iâve read in a while.
It may seem like that, but most times itâs just passing feelings of ups and downs that make us question. We know deep down it will pass and continue being happy with our partner đ€ it could be a learning curve...
Unfortunately my loves goes beyond and Iâve done so much for the cancers in my life only for them to back out and leave me hanging, all because of constant mood changes. Not even scorpios do this to me.
As being fixed, thatâs too risky, because I stick to my word through the toughest storms.click to expand
We also donât like someone too doting or too into us, makes us uncomfortable. Depends on the Cancer, age and experience all in all but I will say I struggle with impulsive feelings. Difference is I know now itâs just a passing feeling and ride it out.
Posted by SchawqPosted by Black-MambaPosted by SchawqPosted by YodiPosted by SchawqPosted by YodiPosted by Schawq
A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
Lies.. if a crab does this to you then he/she never truly loved you.
Hmm I can see that. My brother is a Cancer and loved someone for a very long time but that person never really had a low period to look down upon so đ€·đ»ââïž
What do you mean by low period? Are they still together?
My brother was in love with a very successful Virgo. Cancers love Virgos and caps and scorps, I think for their strength, intelligence, and success.
No theyâre not together and never were. What I mean by low period is like a time period when theyâre not as successful in life or where theyâre having a bunch of problems/flaws.
He wouldn't love her if he was with her
Crabs do love perfection tho
I got to admit that
Yes and they love when people can take care of them, especially financially.
And especially the MEN. They love a strong independent intelligent wealthy woman to put him in his place and/or take care of him. Cancer men if youâre reading this... donât deny it đ©đ
If youâre dating a Cancer you most likely are top of the crop, and if you fall off that pedestal and have too many issues, they get disappointed and their eyes start to wander to the next strong person.click to expand
Lol you are right about everything except for
" if you fall off that pedestal and have too many issues, they get disappointed and their eyes start to wander to the next strong person"
My eyes wander regardless đ jkjk..
we will pick up the slack if the person we love is going through hardships. However if months or years goes by and that person is doing nothing to better their situation or just doesn't give a damn then yeah.. peace out.
Idk maybe it's just the crab men or the other placements in his chart.
Posted by SchawqPosted by YodiPosted by SchawqPosted by YodiPosted by Schawq
A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
Lies.. if a crab does this to you then he/she never truly loved you.
Hmm I can see that. My brother is a Cancer and loved someone for a very long time but that person never really had a low period to look down upon so đ€·đ»ââïž
What do you mean by low period? Are they still together?
My brother was in love with a very successful Virgo. Cancers love Virgos and caps and scorps, I think for their strength, intelligence, and success.
No theyâre not together and never were. What I mean by low period is like a time period when theyâre not as successful in life or where theyâre having a bunch of problems/flaws.click to expand
Oh okay.. gotcha.
I don't know your bro but idt he would of left the virgo if she was going through a low point. We wait for the opportunity to help our love ones.
Posted by SchawqPosted by Black-MambaPosted by SchawqPosted by YodiPosted by SchawqPosted by YodiPosted by Schawq
A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
Lies.. if a crab does this to you then he/she never truly loved you.
Hmm I can see that. My brother is a Cancer and loved someone for a very long time but that person never really had a low period to look down upon so đ€·đ»ââïž
What do you mean by low period? Are they still together?
My brother was in love with a very successful Virgo. Cancers love Virgos and caps and scorps, I think for their strength, intelligence, and success.
No theyâre not together and never were. What I mean by low period is like a time period when theyâre not as successful in life or where theyâre having a bunch of problems/flaws.
He wouldn't love her if he was with her
Crabs do love perfection tho
I got to admit that
Yes and they love when people can take care of them, especially financially.
And especially the MEN. They love a strong independent intelligent wealthy woman to put him in his place and/or take care of him. Cancer men if youâre reading this... donât deny it đ©đ
If youâre dating a Cancer you most likely are top of the crop, and if you fall off that pedestal and have too many issues, they get disappointed and their eyes start to wander to the next strong person.click to expand
Those traits are so EW!!!
Posted by aPiscesPrincess2
Now I'm getting nervous about the Cancer I'm with, after reading all this. đ So far things are pretty good. But for how long. đ
Gurl don't let theses mfers including me turn you off of someone in RL..
Fuxxx the internet.
That man ain't do ish too you.
Just know that a Cancer's love is the best kind đ
Posted by virgoopPosted by YodiPosted by SchawqPosted by Black-MambaPosted by SchawqPosted by YodiPosted by SchawqPosted by YodiPosted by Schawq
A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
Lies.. if a crab does this to you then he/she never truly loved you.
Hmm I can see that. My brother is a Cancer and loved someone for a very long time but that person never really had a low period to look down upon so đ€·đ»ââïž
What do you mean by low period? Are they still together?
My brother was in love with a very successful Virgo. Cancers love Virgos and caps and scorps, I think for their strength, intelligence, and success.
No theyâre not together and never were. What I mean by low period is like a time period when theyâre not as successful in life or where theyâre having a bunch of problems/flaws.
He wouldn't love her if he was with her
Crabs do love perfection tho
I got to admit that
Yes and they love when people can take care of them, especially financially.
And especially the MEN. They love a strong independent intelligent wealthy woman to put him in his place and/or take care of him. Cancer men if youâre reading this... donât deny it đ©đ
If youâre dating a Cancer you most likely are top of the crop, and if you fall off that pedestal and have too many issues, they get disappointed and their eyes start to wander to the next strong person.
Lol you are right about everything except for
" if you fall off that pedestal and have too many issues, they get disappointed and their eyes start to wander to the next strong person"
My eyes wander regardless đ jkjk..
we will pick up the slack if the person we love is going through hardships. However if months or years goes by and that person is doing nothing to better their situation or just doesn't give a damn then yeah.. peace out.
Idk maybe it's just the crab men or the other placements in his chart.
you gotta be strong to love a cancer is all i know.click to expand
Hell yeah.. and that's why I stay away from them.
RUNNNNN RUN FAST!!. but shhhhhhhhh
let ppl think we're perfect đ
Posted by aPiscesPrincess2Posted by YodiPosted by aPiscesPrincess2
Now I'm getting nervous about the Cancer I'm with, after reading all this. đ So far things are pretty good. But for how long. đ
Gurl don't let theses mfers including me turn you off of someone in RL..
Fuxxx the internet.
That man ain't do ish too you.
Just know that a Cancer's love is the best kind đ
Lol well so far so good, for the most part. But we've only been dating about 3 months. So I hope things will keep going well. âșïžclick to expand
I hope so too.. so that you can comeback and show theses bitter b!!tches how to love a crab man right.
Good luck đȘđż
Posted by Mariposa_Posted by YodiPosted by aPiscesPrincess2Posted by YodiPosted by aPiscesPrincess2
Now I'm getting nervous about the Cancer I'm with, after reading all this. đ So far things are pretty good. But for how long. đ
Gurl don't let theses mfers including me turn you off of someone in RL..
Fuxxx the internet.
That man ain't do ish too you.
Just know that a Cancer's love is the best kind đ
Lol well so far so good, for the most part. But we've only been dating about 3 months. So I hope things will keep going well. âșïž
I hope so too.. so that you can comeback and show theses bitter b!!tches how to love a crab man right.
Good luck đȘđż
So now we âbitter bitches?â
Lolclick to expand
No just you love..
Lol
Posted by Mariposa_Posted by YodiPosted by Mariposa_Posted by YodiPosted by aPiscesPrincess2Posted by YodiPosted by aPiscesPrincess2
Now I'm getting nervous about the Cancer I'm with, after reading all this. đ So far things are pretty good. But for how long. đ
Gurl don't let theses mfers including me turn you off of someone in RL..
Fuxxx the internet.
That man ain't do ish too you.
Just know that a Cancer's love is the best kind đ
Lol well so far so good, for the most part. But we've only been dating about 3 months. So I hope things will keep going well. âșïž
I hope so too.. so that you can comeback and show theses bitter b!!tches how to love a crab man right.
Good luck đȘđż
So now we âbitter bitches?â
Lol
No just you love..
Lol
Oh well đ€·đœââïž
As an aqua, My ego is too high to be hurt.click to expand
K
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by Mariposa_
FYI other users, if you say anything that comes off even slightly as âoffensiveâ towards a cancer, be prepared to be cussed out, told off, or attacked.
đ€·đœââïž
Attention everybody, we all want to talk shit about cancers and we want them to validate the things we say without them getting offendedclick to expand
I was about to agree with her bih đđ
But okay.. lets deny deny denyyyyy
Posted by Mariposa_Posted by YodiPosted by Black-MambaPosted by Mariposa_
FYI other users, if you say anything that comes off even slightly as âoffensiveâ towards a cancer, be prepared to be cussed out, told off, or attacked.
đ€·đœââïž
Attention everybody, we all want to talk shit about cancers and we want them to validate the things we say without them getting offended
I was about to agree with her bih đđ
But okay.. lets deny deny denyyyyy
Can you quote where I said something offensive about cancers?click to expand
Nope.. I have better things to do.
You quoted me.. Not the other way around.
Posted by Mariposa_Posted by YodiPosted by Mariposa_Posted by YodiPosted by Black-MambaPosted by Mariposa_
FYI other users, if you say anything that comes off even slightly as âoffensiveâ towards a cancer, be prepared to be cussed out, told off, or attacked.
đ€·đœââïž
Attention everybody, we all want to talk shit about cancers and we want them to validate the things we say without them getting offended
I was about to agree with her bih đđ
But okay.. lets deny deny denyyyyy
Can you quote where I said something offensive about cancers?
Nope.. I have better things to do.
You quoted me.. Not the other way around.
Because there was nothing I said that was offensive, I was being real and logical but YOU got personally offended.
Please know that with an Aquarius, the moment you get highly irrational, Iâm going to step back and let you spin.click to expand
Bitter b!tches = @Mariposa
Okay Aquarius.. now I know
Posted by Mariposa_Posted by MoonbutterPosted by Mariposa_Posted by MoonbutterPosted by Mariposa_Posted by Schawq
A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
This is the realist comment Iâve read in a while.
It may seem like that, but most times itâs just passing feelings of ups and downs that make us question. We know deep down it will pass and continue being happy with our partner đ€ it could be a learning curve...
Unfortunately my loves goes beyond and Iâve done so much for the cancers in my life only for them to back out and leave me hanging, all because of constant mood changes. Not even scorpios do this to me.
As being fixed, thatâs too risky, because I stick to my word through the toughest storms.
We also donât like someone too doting or too into us, makes us uncomfortable. Depends on the Cancer, age and experience all in all but I will say I struggle with impulsive feelings. Difference is I know now itâs just a passing feeling and ride it out.
Yeah.. how about I just love on scorpios instead because they love equally in return.click to expand
You do you, some peeps just canât handle certain signs whether itâs Cancer, Gemini, Aries, etc.
Posted by Mariposa_Posted by MoonbutterPosted by Mariposa_Posted by MoonbutterPosted by Mariposa_Posted by MoonbutterPosted by Mariposa_Posted by Schawq
A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
This is the realist comment Iâve read in a while.
It may seem like that, but most times itâs just passing feelings of ups and downs that make us question. We know deep down it will pass and continue being happy with our partner đ€ it could be a learning curve...
Unfortunately my loves goes beyond and Iâve done so much for the cancers in my life only for them to back out and leave me hanging, all because of constant mood changes. Not even scorpios do this to me.
As being fixed, thatâs too risky, because I stick to my word through the toughest storms.
We also donât like someone too doting or too into us, makes us uncomfortable. Depends on the Cancer, age and experience all in all but I will say I struggle with impulsive feelings. Difference is I know now itâs just a passing feeling and ride it out.
Yeah.. how about I just love on scorpios instead because they love equally in return.
You do you, some peeps just canât handle certain signs whether itâs Cancer, Gemini, Aries, etc.
Very true, thank you for the insight.click to expand
No problem đ
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A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
Lies.. if a crab does this to you then he/she never truly loved you.
Hmm I can see that. My brother is a Cancer and loved someone for a very long time but that person never really had a low period to look down upon so đ€·đ»ââïž
What do you mean by low period? Are they still together?
My brother was in love with a very successful Virgo. Cancers love Virgos and caps and scorps, I think for their strength, intelligence, and success.
No theyâre not together and never were. What I mean by low period is like a time period when theyâre not as successful in life or where theyâre having a bunch of problems/flaws.
He wouldn't love her if he was with her
Crabs do love perfection tho
I got to admit that
Yes and they love when people can take care of them, especially financially.
And especially the MEN. They love a strong independent intelligent wealthy woman to put him in his place and/or take care of him. Cancer men if youâre reading this... donât deny it đ©đ
If youâre dating a Cancer you most likely are top of the crop, and if you fall off that pedestal and have too many issues, they get disappointed and their eyes start to wander to the next strong person.
Damn that's harsh.
A cancerâs nature or what I said?
Cancers nature based on what you said lol. It's a real turn off. Makes me glad I blocked the only Cancer male I was close to dating. I did notice that I had to be the aggressor with him. I hated that. But maybe that's what they like. My Cap sister is married to a Cancer and she micromanages his life including all of his money. I don't know how he can stand it, but he seems legit happy.
Me too I would never date a cancer. I have so much fun with cancers though, like on an animalistic primal level there is a connection. But yes they are very judgmental and vicious people. Iâm not saying that to scare people away from cancers because maybe thatâs your thing, but from my experience they are only loving and affectionate (and they truly can be!) when they admire you for the reasons I listed. đ€·đ»ââïžclick to expand
You definitely speak the truth because Iâm looking back to the three Cancer men that put me on a pedestal vs the one who didnât. The first three knew me and were impressed with me for my intelligence, sanity and most importantly because I was emotionally unavailable to them. Finances werenât a factor because two were from when I was in my early 20s and the third was more recent and he was way older than me and had money already. All three knew I wasnât interested in them and so I didnât fawn over them like the girls that truly liked them. They also donât like people who show them genuine interest and fawn over them..as someone already mentioned.
There was only one Cancer dude I did like but solely because I was physically attracted to him. I wanted to get to know him better and reached out, but he was hot and cold. I wasnât going to tolerate hotnand cold so I friendzoned him. I did notice his choice in women were ones who picked him and were financially well-off, of if they werenât, then they had to be spending their money on him. He knew I wasnât going to do that. No way in hell is a dude going to mooch off me.
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A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
Lies.. if a crab does this to you then he/she never truly loved you.
Hmm I can see that. My brother is a Cancer and loved someone for a very long time but that person never really had a low period to look down upon so đ€·đ»ââïž
What do you mean by low period? Are they still together?
My brother was in love with a very successful Virgo. Cancers love Virgos and caps and scorps, I think for their strength, intelligence, and success.
No theyâre not together and never were. What I mean by low period is like a time period when theyâre not as successful in life or where theyâre having a bunch of problems/flaws.
He wouldn't love her if he was with her
Crabs do love perfection tho
I got to admit that
Yes and they love when people can take care of them, especially financially.
And especially the MEN. They love a strong independent intelligent wealthy woman to put him in his place and/or take care of him. Cancer men if youâre reading this... donât deny it đ©đ
If youâre dating a Cancer you most likely are top of the crop, and if you fall off that pedestal and have too many issues, they get disappointed and their eyes start to wander to the next strong person.
Damn that's harsh.
A cancerâs nature or what I said?
Cancers nature based on what you said lol. It's a real turn off. Makes me glad I blocked the only Cancer male I was close to dating. I did notice that I had to be the aggressor with him. I hated that. But maybe that's what they like. My Cap sister is married to a Cancer and she micromanages his life including all of his money. I don't know how he can stand it, but he seems legit happy.
Me too I would never date a cancer. I have so much fun with cancers though, like on an animalistic primal level there is a connection. But yes they are very judgmental and vicious people. Iâm not saying that to scare people away from cancers because maybe thatâs your thing, but from my experience they are only loving and affectionate (and they truly can be!) when they admire you for the reasons I listed. đ€·đ»ââïž
LOL. No worries its not my thing. I've never been able to maintain platonic nor romantic relationships with Cancers. In fact, I ended a friendship of 20 years with the last Cancer friend I had left in October. All of my friends now are pisces, sags, or fixed sun signs.
Yeah for sure. I feel bad because Iâve had such great friendships with Cancers.. including one of my current co-workers, she has really been there for me so I feel kinda bad saying this sh*t about Cancers but I canât lie because thatâs most of my experiences with them. Also ironically Cancers have the most sex appeal than any other sun sign to me đ©đ© and yet they are the ONLY sign I would feel too insecure to go report a failure to, because I can literally FEEL their disappointment and loss of interest in me afterward.. Iâve had a falling out with my brother whoâs a Cancer for these reasons. But Iâm sure once I have another achievement heâll come running back into my life to praise me and say âI was wrong about you I guessâ smh đ€Šđ»ââïž Thatâs not how love works..click to expand
Interesting... whatâs your Mars sign?
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Well i'd say he's feeling overwhelmed abd insecure. Knowing he already has 2 kids and can't fully provide them now that he doesn't have a job must be stressful, on top of that he has depressed woman he needs to take care of and he just now finds out about the kid he's having, when he can't provide. Seems like he's stressed and he's running from the responsibility.
On other note, have you told him how much him taking care of you while you were depressed meant, have you expressed graditute, said simple thank you and showed signs of gesture/effort/trying/ ? Do you know what's hi's love language is? You told him you're on birth pills and now that you're pregnant he might think you tricked him into having a kid or something. I'd say either both of you have conversation as grown people do, or part ways.
The hardest question now is the pregnancy and the kid.... and i can't say anything about that, you have to make your own choise, as much as i'd like to say get abortion, it's already been 3month's and there is already a fully developed life inside you... You should talk with that Cancer man and if you can't consider how the life with the kid would be without the father.......
Best wishes stay strong and positive.....
Sounds like one cancer guy I know. But they consciously place themselves into trouble. In the end they pursue a chick that can provide for them and take care of him.
I hate when people take care of me, i can take care of myself. I'm looking for partner in crime, to do shit together , travel and so on. By stating them you're talking about all of Cancers, and not all of them are like that.
Not all cancers are like that. But from all the ones that I know, they all like to be taken care of and they avoid any kind of responsibility that stems from their own doing. When you find a responsible Cancer man that doesnât avoid responsibility, let me know.
Define responsible Cancer man please đ
Follow through on plans that cancer man mutually agreed upon with another person. How about you do a test. Try avoiding gray areas with a cancer man and try setting up plans that are âBlack &Whiteâ meaning that there are clear guidelines where everyone knows their job/responsibility. I bet you that he wonât like it bc he wonât be able to âswim in the waterâ and get away with things.
I know couple of Cancers including myself that would go through the plans that we agreed upon. That being said i don't agree on some shit people try to force me to do, they say it's my responsibility, but is it really? Just because they want me to do something that doesn't make it my responsibility to do that for them, especially if they can do that themselves, it's their responsibility to take care of the thing they need to be done, not try to put that shit on somebody else. It's like saying it's wife's responsibility to cook for for the man, while it's not. Yes it's nice and so on, but it's propoganda, there is no responsibility like that, just because a man would think it's her responsibility doesn't mean it is, he could cook that shit for himself, especially if they didn't agree upon that thing. It's my responsibility to follow thru what i agreed upon, upon my words and promises, it's my responsibility to life my life with my values and my standards and each person has them. That being said i know loads of cancers who cancel dates, don't reply messages and phone calls on purpose, i think it has more to do with values rather than a sign tbh.
Youâre right with everything you said. But this one part that you wrote is tricky âJust because they want me to do something that doesn't make it my responsibilityâ. Lol that even sounds like one cancer that I know. For example, when you sign up to go to college you canât just say oh this or that is not my responsibility. I mean, going to class and passing them is your responsibility. Buying books, showing up on time, etc. When you move in with a girl and get her pregnant it is your responsibility as much as hers. I mean, maybe itâs just upbringing not the sign... idk.
I didn't give any examples, you're just assuming and saying things i didn't say and twisting what i said making it sound worse than it is. what i said is exactly that, what i said, nothing more, nothing less. If you need me to get drive you somewhere and i have something else to do, it's not my responsibility. If i'm bussy with my work and you're asking me to do something for me, it's not my responsibility, it's yours, when i do my job, i do my job, and that's my responsibility in that moment. when i do sports, i do sports, and that's my responsibility. When i'm out with friends i'm out with friends, it's my responsibility. The only time when you become my responsibility is when i have free time and i'm home, then you might be my, girl/wife and yes, then you are my responsibility. It's weird how quikcly people start assuming and adding,twisting up things. If you have important things in your life you need taken care of and other person can't do that for you, you need to do that yourself and don't force someone else to help you do it, it's your dream/goal or a thing you need to make happen and you should be the person responsible for it, your goals/dreams/geting things done and so on are never going to be as important to someone else as much as it's going to be important to you, don't matter what that is, sports/music/family so on, because they are yours, you might have cleaning something in top of your values/priorities other person might not have them there at all, sure when your partner is home he helps you, but he shouldn't go out of hi's way , he shouldn't sacrifice hi's own goals/dreams/work or something they are doing or care about for something that you care about, your goals/dreams and daily tasks are not more important than his, and you need to understand that, and he needs to understand that 2 . đclick to expand
Lol Cancer guy. You get what you put out.
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A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
Lies.. if a crab does this to you then he/she never truly loved you.
Hmm I can see that. My brother is a Cancer and loved someone for a very long time but that person never really had a low period to look down upon so đ€·đ»ââïž
What do you mean by low period? Are they still together?
My brother was in love with a very successful Virgo. Cancers love Virgos and caps and scorps, I think for their strength, intelligence, and success.
No theyâre not together and never were. What I mean by low period is like a time period when theyâre not as successful in life or where theyâre having a bunch of problems/flaws.click to expand
Cancers are just that, Cancers. Cancer men just want to take whatâs yours. Your money, your strength, your intelligence, your success. They donât have it on their own so they leach on others. But be careful, theyâll leave you as soon as you are drained. Then theyâll go leach onto someone else. But they will never have anything on their own.
Posted by Mariposa_Posted by MoonbutterPosted by Mariposa_Posted by Schawq
A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
This is the realist comment Iâve read in a while.
It may seem like that, but most times itâs just passing feelings of ups and downs that make us question. We know deep down it will pass and continue being happy with our partner đ€ it could be a learning curve...
Unfortunately my loves goes beyond and Iâve done so much for the cancers in my life only for them to back out and leave me hanging, all because of constant mood changes. Not even scorpios do this to me.
As being fixed, thatâs too risky, because I stick to my word through the toughest storms.click to expand
Cancers are leachers who canât do anything on their own but take away from you everything that they want. Once youâre depleted they onto someone else.
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A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
Lies.. if a crab does this to you then he/she never truly loved you.
Hmm I can see that. My brother is a Cancer and loved someone for a very long time but that person never really had a low period to look down upon so đ€·đ»ââïž
What do you mean by low period? Are they still together?
My brother was in love with a very successful Virgo. Cancers love Virgos and caps and scorps, I think for their strength, intelligence, and success.
No theyâre not together and never were. What I mean by low period is like a time period when theyâre not as successful in life or where theyâre having a bunch of problems/flaws.
He wouldn't love her if he was with her
Crabs do love perfection tho
I got to admit that
Yes and they love when people can take care of them, especially financially.
And especially the MEN. They love a strong independent intelligent wealthy woman to put him in his place and/or take care of him. Cancer men if youâre reading this... donât deny it đ©đ
If youâre dating a Cancer you most likely are top of the crop, and if you fall off that pedestal and have too many issues, they get disappointed and their eyes start to wander to the next strong person.click to expand
Self centered leachers
Posted by MoonbutterPosted by Mariposa_Posted by MoonbutterPosted by Mariposa_Posted by Schawq
A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
This is the realist comment Iâve read in a while.
It may seem like that, but most times itâs just passing feelings of ups and downs that make us question. We know deep down it will pass and continue being happy with our partner đ€ it could be a learning curve...
Unfortunately my loves goes beyond and Iâve done so much for the cancers in my life only for them to back out and leave me hanging, all because of constant mood changes. Not even scorpios do this to me.
As being fixed, thatâs too risky, because I stick to my word through the toughest storms.
We also donât like someone too doting or too into us, makes us uncomfortable. Depends on the Cancer, age and experience all in all but I will say I struggle with impulsive feelings. Difference is I know now itâs just a passing feeling and ride it out.click to expand
Of course cancers donât like someone being too into them bc that means responsibility and they donât like that. Seeing your daughter on the weekends bc you have to is not good parenting.
Posted by HeartofTopazzPosted by nousernamePosted by SchawqPosted by YodiPosted by SchawqPosted by YodiPosted by Schawq
A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
Lies.. if a crab does this to you then he/she never truly loved you.
Hmm I can see that. My brother is a Cancer and loved someone for a very long time but that person never really had a low period to look down upon so đ€·đ»ââïž
What do you mean by low period? Are they still together?
My brother was in love with a very successful Virgo. Cancers love Virgos and caps and scorps, I think for their strength, intelligence, and success.
No theyâre not together and never were. What I mean by low period is like a time period when theyâre not as successful in life or where theyâre having a bunch of problems/flaws.
Cancers are just that, Cancers. Cancer men just want to take whatâs yours. Your money, your strength, your intelligence, your success. They donât have it on their own so they leach on others. But be careful, theyâll leave you as soon as you are drained. Then theyâll go leach onto someone else. But they will never have anything on their own.
Lawdz...U need a nap! Lil grump a lumpsclick to expand
Haha probably. But all I say to these cancer mofos is that you get what you put out. You can fake it for a little while with women but that wonât last long. They they will be left to their own little miserable lives.
Posted by HeartofTopazzPosted by nousernamePosted by HeartofTopazzPosted by nousernamePosted by SchawqPosted by YodiPosted by SchawqPosted by YodiPosted by Schawq
A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
Lies.. if a crab does this to you then he/she never truly loved you.
Hmm I can see that. My brother is a Cancer and loved someone for a very long time but that person never really had a low period to look down upon so đ€·đ»ââïž
What do you mean by low period? Are they still together?
My brother was in love with a very successful Virgo. Cancers love Virgos and caps and scorps, I think for their strength, intelligence, and success.
No theyâre not together and never were. What I mean by low period is like a time period when theyâre not as successful in life or where theyâre having a bunch of problems/flaws.
Cancers are just that, Cancers. Cancer men just want to take whatâs yours. Your money, your strength, your intelligence, your success. They donât have it on their own so they leach on others. But be careful, theyâll leave you as soon as you are drained. Then theyâll go leach onto someone else. But they will never have anything on their own.
Lawdz...U need a nap! Lil grump a lumps
Haha probably. But all I say to these cancer mofos is that you get what you put out. You can fake it for a little while with women but that wonât last long. They they will be left to their own little miserable lives.
Lmao u r funny!click to expand
OJ Simpson, Henry the VIIIth, and one guy that I know. He went to jail. And I hope that he might not go again. But Iâm doubtful. Oh did I say serial, consistent cheater? Girlfriend user? Haha donât get me started. Oh and he uses drugs. But he claims that he qot off of it. One more Cancer guy that I know is nice. But some of his traits are not good. Taking forever to graduate, cheating on his girlfriend (Iâll just leave it at that), and living a luxurious life off of his parents money. Well, letâs say we all do that but I doubt that he will be able to make it on his own bc he is already struggling. He might have a decent shot to be a decent guy bc he has family to back him up and push him in the right direction. Thatâs it. Idk any other cancer guy. Do you know any that are better? Oh yeah, Silvester Stalone. He is cool.
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A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
Lies.. if a crab does this to you then he/she never truly loved you.
Hmm I can see that. My brother is a Cancer and loved someone for a very long time but that person never really had a low period to look down upon so đ€·đ»ââïž
What do you mean by low period? Are they still together?
My brother was in love with a very successful Virgo. Cancers love Virgos and caps and scorps, I think for their strength, intelligence, and success.
No theyâre not together and never were. What I mean by low period is like a time period when theyâre not as successful in life or where theyâre having a bunch of problems/flaws.
Cancers are just that, Cancers. Cancer men just want to take whatâs yours. Your money, your strength, your intelligence, your success. They donât have it on their own so they leach on others. But be careful, theyâll leave you as soon as you are drained. Then theyâll go leach onto someone else. But they will never have anything on their own.
Lawdz...U need a nap! Lil grump a lumps
Haha probably. But all I say to these cancer mofos is that you get what you put out. You can fake it for a little while with women but that wonât last long. They they will be left to their own little miserable lives.
Lmao u r funny!
OJ Simpson, Henry the VIIIth, and one guy that I know. He went to jail. And I hope that he might not go again. But Iâm doubtful. Oh did I say serial, consistent cheater? Girlfriend user? Haha donât get me started. Oh and he uses drugs. But he claims that he qot off of it. One more Cancer guy that I know is nice. But some of his traits are not good. Taking forever to graduate, cheating on his girlfriend (Iâll just leave it at that), and living a luxurious life off of his parents money. Well, letâs say we all do that but I doubt that he will be able to make it on his own bc he is already struggling. He might have a decent shot to be a decent guy bc he has family to back him up and push him in the right direction. Thatâs it. Idk any other cancer guy. Do you know any that are better? Oh yeah, Silvester Stalone. He is cool.click to expand
You forgot Bill Cosby
Posted by STILLPosted by nousernamePosted by HeartofTopazzPosted by nousernamePosted by HeartofTopazzPosted by nousernamePosted by SchawqPosted by YodiPosted by SchawqPosted by YodiPosted by Schawq
A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
Lies.. if a crab does this to you then he/she never truly loved you.
Hmm I can see that. My brother is a Cancer and loved someone for a very long time but that person never really had a low period to look down upon so đ€·đ»ââïž
What do you mean by low period? Are they still together?
My brother was in love with a very successful Virgo. Cancers love Virgos and caps and scorps, I think for their strength, intelligence, and success.
No theyâre not together and never were. What I mean by low period is like a time period when theyâre not as successful in life or where theyâre having a bunch of problems/flaws.
Cancers are just that, Cancers. Cancer men just want to take whatâs yours. Your money, your strength, your intelligence, your success. They donât have it on their own so they leach on others. But be careful, theyâll leave you as soon as you are drained. Then theyâll go leach onto someone else. But they will never have anything on their own.
Lawdz...U need a nap! Lil grump a lumps
Haha probably. But all I say to these cancer mofos is that you get what you put out. You can fake it for a little while with women but that wonât last long. They they will be left to their own little miserable lives.
Lmao u r funny!
OJ Simpson, Henry the VIIIth, and one guy that I know. He went to jail. And I hope that he might not go again. But Iâm doubtful. Oh did I say serial, consistent cheater? Girlfriend user? Haha donât get me started. Oh and he uses drugs. But he claims that he qot off of it. One more Cancer guy that I know is nice. But some of his traits are not good. Taking forever to graduate, cheating on his girlfriend (Iâll just leave it at that), and living a luxurious life off of his parents money. Well, letâs say we all do that but I doubt that he will be able to make it on his own bc he is already struggling. He might have a decent shot to be a decent guy bc he has family to back him up and push him in the right direction. Thatâs it. Idk any other cancer guy. Do you know any that are better? Oh yeah, Silvester Stalone. He is cool.
You forgot Bill Cosbyclick to expand
Lol thanks for reminding me. These cancers ainât slik
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A cancerâs love is not for the long run. They need to be constantly impressed with you to stay in love. Little hardships where theyâre losing things in their favor will make them moody and fall out of love. You deserve a real love.
This is the realist comment Iâve read in a while.
It may seem like that, but most times itâs just passing feelings of ups and downs that make us question. We know deep down it will pass and continue being happy with our partner đ€ it could be a learning curve...
Unfortunately my loves goes beyond and Iâve done so much for the cancers in my life only for them to back out and leave me hanging, all because of constant mood changes. Not even scorpios do this to me.
As being fixed, thatâs too risky, because I stick to my word through the toughest storms.
We also donât like someone too doting or too into us, makes us uncomfortable. Depends on the Cancer, age and experience all in all but I will say I struggle with impulsive feelings. Difference is I know now itâs just a passing feeling and ride it out.
Of course cancers donât like someone being too into them bc that means responsibility and they donât like that. Seeing your daughter on the weekends bc you have to is not good parenting.click to expand
That must be a guy cancer thing, because for me I donât want someone too into me until Iâm into them. I donât want pressure to feel a certain way until Iâm ready. I actually wanted to date a guy with kids. đ€·đ»ââïž
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Heart how long will it be before he comes back? He has asked for space to assess our relationship. I really miss him.
Because someone has to keep count....
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So, for those of you who don't know, I just recently broke up with my Cancer guy. I went and saw him in Iowa in January. My periods have always been sporadic, and it's common for me two go 2 months without having a period. I didn't think of anything, n
I only know 4 cancer men and obviously I don't know all cancer men or just men for that matter. They 4 that I know cheat , manipulative and when called out on their wrong , gets extremely defensive.
I found out a cancer I was talking to had a girlfriend
I met this guy on holiday this week. We were only able to spend a day together but I immediately felt connected to him. He also seemed to feel the same because he was on cloud 9. He just looked so happy.
Anyway I live in America and he is in the U.K. W
My cancer man and I go into an argument about something small I said. to him it was big enough to get really upset. Long story short I told him I'm not perfect and neither is he and we need to be the best we can be to each other.
My cancer man and I ha
So, let me clarify. I think my Cancer ex is a turd now. Had some shit come to light and I was an idiot. A lot of you called me out on that, thanks. haha
But I just read two Cancer man posts about crazy blocking of mutual friends. What is the deal with
Okay, so over the last two years ive had some humbling experiences. Some of you may have even read my pathetic Cancer man posts. I've found that I will get into relationships and when I want to get out, I all of the sudden panic. I flip the script, miss t
I'm doubting the situation and I am not afraid to lost this cancer man. I just need a clarification in why such manner that you wanted it to end up the conversation again with ''BYE''. Why can't he just be straightforward to tell me ''I won't be able to c
I ask the reason why we haven't had contact, he said that his just having a hectic time at work, helping out his flat mate friend moved, finishing late in the evening etc and so on... Fair enough, at least i got the answers I'm not so sure about. But O
The time has come. Going to break up with my bf. He made insulting, passive aggressive comments to me for no reason that I'm aware of and I'm not getting anything out of the relationship. How do I do it so:
A) I don't get sucked back in
B) He doesn't
My first post was poorly written in a rushed manner so I hope to explain this better and as short as possible.
I am a Scorpio woman who got asked on a date by a Cancer man. When we met for coffee we got along great, had a lot of things in common both pos
Around five months was when his mood swings really started to pick up and he became stressed out from losing his job. At one point, he told me that he hated affection and wouldn't let me touch him. Then I found out that I was pregnant... We were being careful, but my birth control stopped working because of some antibiotics I was taking at the time. At first, he was shocked, but then he was the utmost supportive and loving about it. He has two little girls from a previous relationship that he sees on weekends and so I know how great of a father he is.
Now fast forward to this past Friday... I was staying with my parents because my mother took me to my first ultrasound on Wednesday. Everything seemed fine the week I was away. He would even video chat with me and tell me that he missed me. Then on Friday out of nowhere, he sends me a message saying that he has a lot on his mind and that he just doesn't feel that spark that he used to feel when we first met. Finally he admitted that it was because of my depression that he felt neglected and forced to be loved. Which I don't understand because I always smothered him with affection and love... Then he told me he loved me and that's it's complicated right now. And he said that I couldn't stay with him again until we both had jobs again. That gave me hope that we could still try to get back on track...
Last night, I was in the hospital for severe morning sickness. I am three months along with our baby and have been horribly sick. Then I come home and see that he changed his relationship status to single. I am completely devastated... What happened?! Now I am pregnant with his child and he has left me alone... I am so confused and hurt... Can someone please make sense of this for me? I am beside myself with grief...
P.S. This was my third relationship with a Cancer. And it seems like each one ended with them finding someone else... I hope that this is not the case again...