to all the cappy man out there when you 're mad do you mean what you say , or you just do it to do some damaga / hurt the other person ?
do capricorn mean what they say when mad ?
bump
Does he have Sag Mercury ? If so, I don't know if this is all Sag Mercury but my ex used to say mean things to end an argument quickly. But he also had Aries Mars.
Posted by ParisianCappyPosted by ladylibra21Sag mercury are god and i'm à god thx,
Does he have Sag Mercury ? If so, I don't know if this is all Sag Mercury but my ex used to say mean things to end an argument quickly. But he also had Aries Mars.click to expand
Whatever lol ?
Posted by ChrisIsKodakToo late!
dont bump this thread please. It's dumb
Me, personally.. (in my experience)
I think they mean what they say.. Not for games or beating around the bush. They just have a bluntly honest way of saying things and it comes off as "mean".. If they offend you, you can let them know and they will correct themselves. Just be open and direct.
Most times, if they don't want to do more "damage," they will end the convo, assess the situation and come back later.. & most times it seems like they come back later like nothing happened... it's because they don't wanna argue..... They typically are patient ppl but they dislike unnecessary drama.. and shit talking to them, does you NO good.. It's NOT a good idea to start shit with a Capricorn..unless you are ready for a lifelong battle of whits. If you win, they will rebuttal with any subject possible until they win .. lol.. Been there done that.... They aren't fond of it all together.. To me, it seems like they think, "I got more important shit to do, like work, I'm not about to argue with you...." lol If you try to continue "your point", you WILL get your feelings hurt because they will ignore your every being at that moment.. It's best to just give a Capricorn space...
I think they mean what they say.. Not for games or beating around the bush. They just have a bluntly honest way of saying things and it comes off as "mean".. If they offend you, you can let them know and they will correct themselves. Just be open and direct.
Most times, if they don't want to do more "damage," they will end the convo, assess the situation and come back later.. & most times it seems like they come back later like nothing happened... it's because they don't wanna argue..... They typically are patient ppl but they dislike unnecessary drama.. and shit talking to them, does you NO good.. It's NOT a good idea to start shit with a Capricorn..unless you are ready for a lifelong battle of whits. If you win, they will rebuttal with any subject possible until they win .. lol.. Been there done that.... They aren't fond of it all together.. To me, it seems like they think, "I got more important shit to do, like work, I'm not about to argue with you...." lol If you try to continue "your point", you WILL get your feelings hurt because they will ignore your every being at that moment.. It's best to just give a Capricorn space...
Posted by poison_ivyI see someone is very observant... 😄
Me, personally.. (in my experience)
I think they mean what they say.. Not for games or beating around the bush. They just have a bluntly honest way of saying things and it comes off as "mean".. If they offend you, you can let them know and they will correct themselves. Just be open and direct.
Most times, if they don't want to do more "damage," they will end the convo, assess the situation and come back later.. & most times it seems like they come back later like nothing happened... it's because they don't wanna argue..... They typically are patient ppl but they dislike unnecessary drama.. and shit talking to them, does you NO good.. It's NOT a good idea to start shit with a Capricorn..unless you are ready for a lifelong battle of whits. If you win, they will rebuttal with any subject possible until they win .. lol.. Been there done that.... They aren't fond of it all together.. To me, it seems like they think, "I got more important shit to do, like work, I'm not about to argue with you...." lol If you try to continue "your point", you WILL get your feelings hurt because they will ignore your every being at that moment.. It's best to just give a Capricorn space...
Posted by daron76OH yeah.. LOL! I've learned my lesson plenty on the subject of a "mad Capricorn.." & I also learned that you guys don't take words lightly so you gotta be careful of how you say things to you folk.. I use to go toe to toe, still do if I know I'm correct.. & when I'm wrong, I simply apologize and give him space.. lolPosted by poison_ivyI see someone is very observant... 😄
Me, personally.. (in my experience)
I think they mean what they say.. Not for games or beating around the bush. They just have a bluntly honest way of saying things and it comes off as "mean".. If they offend you, you can let them know and they will correct themselves. Just be open and direct.
Most times, if they don't want to do more "damage," they will end the convo, assess the situation and come back later.. & most times it seems like they come back later like nothing happened... it's because they don't wanna argue..... They typically are patient ppl but they dislike unnecessary drama.. and shit talking to them, does you NO good.. It's NOT a good idea to start shit with a Capricorn..unless you are ready for a lifelong battle of whits. If you win, they will rebuttal with any subject possible until they win .. lol.. Been there done that.... They aren't fond of it all together.. To me, it seems like they think, "I got more important shit to do, like work, I'm not about to argue with you...." lol If you try to continue "your point", you WILL get your feelings hurt because they will ignore your every being at that moment.. It's best to just give a Capricorn space...click to expand
Posted by poison_ivyPosted by daron76OH yeah.. LOL! I've learned my lesson plenty on the subject of a "mad Capricorn.." & I also learned that you guys don't take words lightly so you gotta be careful of how you say things to you folk.. I use to go toe to toe, still do if I know I'm correct.. & when I'm wrong, I simply apologize and give him space.. lolPosted by poison_ivyI see someone is very observant... 😄
Me, personally.. (in my experience)
I think they mean what they say.. Not for games or beating around the bush. They just have a bluntly honest way of saying things and it comes off as "mean".. If they offend you, you can let them know and they will correct themselves. Just be open and direct.
Most times, if they don't want to do more "damage," they will end the convo, assess the situation and come back later.. & most times it seems like they come back later like nothing happened... it's because they don't wanna argue..... They typically are patient ppl but they dislike unnecessary drama.. and shit talking to them, does you NO good.. It's NOT a good idea to start shit with a Capricorn..unless you are ready for a lifelong battle of whits. If you win, they will rebuttal with any subject possible until they win .. lol.. Been there done that.... They aren't fond of it all together.. To me, it seems like they think, "I got more important shit to do, like work, I'm not about to argue with you...." lol If you try to continue "your point", you WILL get your feelings hurt because they will ignore your every being at that moment.. It's best to just give a Capricorn space...click to expand
lol yeah i just ended things with my ex cap , and never again gonna give a cap a go anymore , i thought the love was real and true but i guess not , its funny because i found out that hes already :p looking for a new partner on a online dating website , damn do caps really get over you that soon , or was he just not in love with me to start with , but as i say you live and you learned and capricorn are added to my list of don't you dare / do not / girlll think again list lol
Posted by cookiebaybayLol he test my patience often! So I know where you're coming from!! & I think your cap is probably online dating to not think about your breakup maybe? Did he say he wanted things to end?Posted by poison_ivyPosted by daron76OH yeah.. LOL! I've learned my lesson plenty on the subject of a "mad Capricorn.." & I also learned that you guys don't take words lightly so you gotta be careful of how you say things to you folk.. I use to go toe to toe, still do if I know I'm correct.. & when I'm wrong, I simply apologize and give him space.. lolPosted by poison_ivyI see someone is very observant... 😄
Me, personally.. (in my experience)
I think they mean what they say.. Not for games or beating around the bush. They just have a bluntly honest way of saying things and it comes off as "mean".. If they offend you, you can let them know and they will correct themselves. Just be open and direct.
Most times, if they don't want to do more "damage," they will end the convo, assess the situation and come back later.. & most times it seems like they come back later like nothing happened... it's because they don't wanna argue..... They typically are patient ppl but they dislike unnecessary drama.. and shit talking to them, does you NO good.. It's NOT a good idea to start shit with a Capricorn..unless you are ready for a lifelong battle of whits. If you win, they will rebuttal with any subject possible until they win .. lol.. Been there done that.... They aren't fond of it all together.. To me, it seems like they think, "I got more important shit to do, like work, I'm not about to argue with you...." lol If you try to continue "your point", you WILL get your feelings hurt because they will ignore your every being at that moment.. It's best to just give a Capricorn space...
lol yeah i just ended things with my ex cap , and never again gonna give a cap a go anymore , i thought the love was real and true but i guess not , its funny because i found out that hes already :p looking for a new partner on a online dating website , damn do caps really get over you that soon , or was he just not in love with me to start with , but as i say you live and you learned and capricorn are added to my list of don't you dare / do not / girlll think again list lolclick to expand
My Capricorn is so careful to react when mad, that he is basically past it because he took so much time reflecting. So when he says something to me, I take it to heart because I know it isn't out of anger but from truth.
Posted by CAPR1LICIOUSWow didnt know you were with a cap guy. Thats nice 🙂
My guy hasn't gotten angry at me till now.
When I say something upsetting, he just goes silent, which is absolutely frustrating!
He's a cheerful Cap though. You'll find him cracking jokes most the time. The wittiest person I have ever known.
Cap and cap would have a higher level of understanding i guess
@ Op
I am a cap but not a cap man . I dont say things that i dont mean. I am a blunt cap to the point of being rude sometimes, so yes i say harsh things but always that i mean .
I am a cap but not a cap man . I dont say things that i dont mean. I am a blunt cap to the point of being rude sometimes, so yes i say harsh things but always that i mean .
Posted by lady_chatterley
Does the guy have any Aquarian influence? How about Arian influence?
Aquarians can cut people out of their lives easily. And, Aries move fast.
im really brand new when it comes to chart reading , but let me share his chart
Sun Aquarius
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Aquarius
Mars Sagittarius
Jupiter Aquarius
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Taurus
Asc node Taurus
Posted by Seraphlightthank you , im fine , i was just wondering , as there was a couple things that been said that i was suprised when he said them , cause he always said they didn't bother him , oh wellPosted by cookiebaybayThey probably don't. I am sorry if nasty things were said to you. Men never mean them. They just lose their tempers.
to all the cappy man out there when you 're mad do you mean what you say , or you just do it to do some damaga / hurt the other person ?
I hope it will be ok for you.click to expand
yeah they have no filter, extremely blunt
Posted by CAPR1LICIOUSI agree, here..
My guy hasn't gotten angry at me till now.
When I say something upsetting, he just goes silent, which is absolutely frustrating!
He's a cheerful Cap though. You'll find him cracking jokes most the time. The wittiest person I have ever known.
My cap will get mad.. Say a few HONEST words... & then goes quiet! It's very frustrating because I want things to be resolved and not linger on..
But most times he is cracking jokes.. happy, playful... etc. Only when he gets upset.. or tired, he's a grump.
Posted by cookiebaybaysoo he isn't even a cap man?Posted by lady_chatterley
Does the guy have any Aquarian influence? How about Arian influence?
Aquarians can cut people out of their lives easily. And, Aries move fast.
im really brand new when it comes to chart reading , but let me share his chart
Sun Aquarius
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Aquarius
Mars Sagittarius
Jupiter Aquarius
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Taurus
Asc node Taurus
click to expand
hes Aqua sun and a shit ton of other Aqua placements.
you want this forum
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/
Posted by CAPR1LICIOUSPosted by marshmallowYes Marsh! For the past five months. 🙂Posted by CAPR1LICIOUSWow didnt know you were with a cap guy. Thats nice 🙂
My guy hasn't gotten angry at me till now.
When I say something upsetting, he just goes silent, which is absolutely frustrating!
He's a cheerful Cap though. You'll find him cracking jokes most the time. The wittiest person I have ever known.
Cap and cap would have a higher level of understanding i guess
You are right about the understanding part. It's a good thing and bad. Good, because at any given time I can intuit his feelings. Bad, because we're so in tune with each other's emotions that it's making us go through several ups and downs.
If he's feeling down, my day goes bad. If something is bothering me, he gets worried.
A lot of things go unsaid. We just assume that the other person knows...
The overall feeling we get from being together is good. His company is quite addictive. I just can't get enough. Lol.
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If he's feeling down, my day goes bad. If something is bothering me, he gets worried.
This my problem too in life. And honestly i feel suffocated by this. Why should i get so affected by other's mood ? Even if i love the other person , I am still a different individual . I am working on it . Really want to be indifferent and a bit detached inside
The overall feeling we get from being together is good. His company is quite addictive. I just can't get enough. Lol.
Thats a very nice feeling i am sure 🙂 Wish u both the best
Posted by CAPR1LICIOUSAgreed!Posted by poison_ivyYes. I can behave very inappropriately at times. And I know some things annoy him, but he will not let me know. I just want him to tell me what it is, so I can avoid that in the future.Posted by CAPR1LICIOUSI agree, here..
My guy hasn't gotten angry at me till now.
When I say something upsetting, he just goes silent, which is absolutely frustrating!
He's a cheerful Cap though. You'll find him cracking jokes most the time. The wittiest person I have ever known.
My cap will get mad.. Say a few HONEST words... & then goes quiet! It's very frustrating because I want things to be resolved and not linger on..
But most times he is cracking jokes.. happy, playful... etc. Only when he gets upset.. or tired, he's a grump.
I think we're very generous with each other. He made some classic mistakes in the beginning and I let them slide. He's the same with me. We never point out each others faults. Not sure if that's a good thing or bad.click to expand
IMO I think you guys shouldn't let things that bother you slide.. My cap and I point out each others faults.. Dislikes, etc., honestly, whether the other person gets offended or not.. It will help us grow for the better. As I've stated many times on here, I'm a pretty tough Scorp gal.. I can take what he dishes, & vice versa... But I say things without thinking first when Im upset.., I have a temper, & he takes words SO seriously that if speak too negatively, it upsets him.. We've had some misunderstandings too.. BUT as you said, I want him to talk about it, and figure out why it upset him so we can move forward.. Usually I learn my lesson cause he can be bluntly harsh and sometimes it hurts my feelings.. So we both end up not speaking to each other.. for a bit.. Or We cut each other off by saying "moving on.." I had to tell him about himself in the beginning a few times.. He'd dismiss an argument so fast and I soon learned that it's just his way of avoiding a further argument... But he use to say "I'm not talking about this anymore".. He doesn't do it anymore becasue I told him that I don't appreciate him dismissing me like, I'm just "a bitch he's fucking..?" "I don't play that.. I respect you enough to listen to you so you need to listen to my side.." I'm very aggressive with him & vice versa..
There have been times where he'll keep reaching out til I speak to him when I go silent.. I'm stubborn so when he goes silent.. I reach out maybe once or twice then I give up like "fuck it.." I'm not babysitting his emotions.. SMH! lol .. Once, we had a big outburst.. Some random argument that wasn't necessary and he hurt my feelings so I ended the convo.. told him "You got it" ...He kept writing me
Him:
"I got what?"
(10 minutes later)
"I guess not"
(hour later)
"HELLO—"
(2 hours later)
"Baby??"
Then he called me and I didn't answer so he sent me a sad face emoji.. " 😢 "
Lol.. The next day... when I finally responded, he wrote, "We talking today!!!? YAY! 🙂"
Like I said.. Im a Scorp sun with a Sag venus & Cap rising so I'm similar to cap ways where I need my space if I get upset to cool down or I'll say things I don't mean.. So I go "silent".. I've broken up with him before in the heat of an argument.. So... I had to change that.. with him.. Specially because I want it to work.. & Being that he's much older than me, I don't wanna be immature about the shit with "silent treatments".. He's helping me for the better where I take a step back, breath and think.. I know DAMN well I don't wanna "break up" with my bae! 🙂 lol & I'm helping him open up more, not dismiss a talk too quick and share his feelings with me.. We're slowly breaking down each others "walls" and flaws! 😉
Posted by justagirlNOT A CAP!!!!!!!!! o_OPosted by cookiebaybaysoo he isn't even a cap man?Posted by lady_chatterley
Does the guy have any Aquarian influence? How about Arian influence?
Aquarians can cut people out of their lives easily. And, Aries move fast.
im really brand new when it comes to chart reading , but let me share his chart
Sun Aquarius
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Aquarius
Mars Sagittarius
Jupiter Aquarius
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Taurus
Asc node Taurus
hes Aqua sun and a shit ton of other Aqua placements.
you want this forum
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/click to expand
Posted by poison_ivysorry guys this is the right chartPosted by justagirlNOT A CAP!!!!!!!!! o_OPosted by cookiebaybaysoo he isn't even a cap man?Posted by lady_chatterley
Does the guy have any Aquarian influence? How about Arian influence?
Aquarians can cut people out of their lives easily. And, Aries move fast.
im really brand new when it comes to chart reading , but let me share his chart
Sun Aquarius
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Aquarius
Mars Sagittarius
Jupiter Aquarius
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Taurus
Asc node Taurus
hes Aqua sun and a shit ton of other Aqua placements.
you want this forum
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/click to expand
Sun Capricorn
Moon Sagittarius
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Capricorn
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Aquarius
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Taurus
Asc node Taurus
Posted by cookiebaybayPosted by poison_ivysorry guys this is the right chartPosted by justagirlNOT A CAP!!!!!!!!! o_OPosted by cookiebaybaysoo he isn't even a cap man?Posted by lady_chatterley
Does the guy have any Aquarian influence? How about Arian influence?
Aquarians can cut people out of their lives easily. And, Aries move fast.
im really brand new when it comes to chart reading , but let me share his chart
Sun Aquarius
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Aquarius
Mars Sagittarius
Jupiter Aquarius
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Taurus
Asc node Taurus
hes Aqua sun and a shit ton of other Aqua placements.
you want this forum
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/click to expand
Sun Capricorn
Moon Sagittarius
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Capricorn
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Aquarius
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Taurus
Asc node Taurus
also updating , that he contacted me yesterday , when we're not even a week after the breakup , i thought caps are about cutting off ex's when its over ??
Yep. We do lol. Even if it sounds harsh or blunt, it's still a hint of what we truly think or feel. Emotions make the truth come out
Posted by CAPR1LICIOUSThanks 🙂Posted by marshmallowThank you, Marsh! 🙂Posted by CAPR1LICIOUSPosted by marshmallowYes Marsh! For the past five months. 🙂Posted by CAPR1LICIOUSWow didnt know you were with a cap guy. Thats nice 🙂
My guy hasn't gotten angry at me till now.
When I say something upsetting, he just goes silent, which is absolutely frustrating!
He's a cheerful Cap though. You'll find him cracking jokes most the time. The wittiest person I have ever known.
Cap and cap would have a higher level of understanding i guess
You are right about the understanding part. It's a good thing and bad. Good, because at any given time I can intuit his feelings. Bad, because we're so in tune with each other's emotions that it's making us go through several ups and downs.
If he's feeling down, my day goes bad. If something is bothering me, he gets worried.
A lot of things go unsaid. We just assume that the other person knows...
The overall feeling we get from being together is good. His company is quite addictive. I just can't get enough. Lol.
If he's feeling down, my day goes bad. If something is bothering me, he gets worried.
This my problem too in life. And honestly i feel suffocated by this. Why should i get so affected by other's mood ? Even if i love the other person , I am still a different individual . I am working on it . Really want to be indifferent and a bit detached inside
The overall feeling we get from being together is good. His company is quite addictive. I just can't get enough. Lol.
Thats a very nice feeling i am sure 🙂 Wish u both the best
Why would you want to be indifferent towards the person you love? Lol.
You are too gentle and kind, Marsh. Your husband is a lucky guy. 🙂
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Love is a complicated thing . It doesnt always give happiness . I want to be indifferent as i suffer because i care. All i want today is to be happy and since past 4-5 years i am surrounded by people who have different attitude than mine and their anger or some's too much forceful expectations suffocate me . If i am indifferent at heart then no one will be able to bother me. I want to not care at all
Posted by CAPR1LICIOUSThankyou for your kind words 🙂Posted by marshmallowI understand what you mean. Although, I cannot imagine anyone being angry with you. People like you are very rare. 🙂Posted by CAPR1LICIOUSThanks 🙂Posted by marshmallowThank you, Marsh! 🙂Posted by CAPR1LICIOUSPosted by marshmallowYes Marsh! For the past five months. 🙂Posted by CAPR1LICIOUSWow didnt know you were with a cap guy. Thats nice 🙂
My guy hasn't gotten angry at me till now.
When I say something upsetting, he just goes silent, which is absolutely frustrating!
He's a cheerful Cap though. You'll find him cracking jokes most the time. The wittiest person I have ever known.
Cap and cap would have a higher level of understanding i guess
You are right about the understanding part. It's a good thing and bad. Good, because at any given time I can intuit his feelings. Bad, because we're so in tune with each other's emotions that it's making us go through several ups and downs.
If he's feeling down, my day goes bad. If something is bothering me, he gets worried.
A lot of things go unsaid. We just assume that the other person knows...
The overall feeling we get from being together is good. His company is quite addictive. I just can't get enough. Lol.
If he's feeling down, my day goes bad. If something is bothering me, he gets worried.
This my problem too in life. And honestly i feel suffocated by this. Why should i get so affected by other's mood ? Even if i love the other person , I am still a different individual . I am working on it . Really want to be indifferent and a bit detached inside
The overall feeling we get from being together is good. His company is quite addictive. I just can't get enough. Lol.
Thats a very nice feeling i am sure 🙂 Wish u both the best
Why would you want to be indifferent towards the person you love? Lol.
You are too gentle and kind, Marsh. Your husband is a lucky guy. 🙂
Love is a complicated thing . It doesnt always give happiness . I want to be indifferent as i suffer because i care. All i want today is to be happy and since past 4-5 years i am surrounded by people who have different attitude than mine and their anger or some's too much forceful expectations suffocate me . If i am indifferent at heart then no one will be able to bother me. I want to not care at all
I hope it's just a phase and you find yourself surrounded by people who cherish, love and accept you the way you are.click to expand
The anger that i am talking about is what people use to manipulate others. That kind of anger i want to be free from. I dont want to be affected by it .
Posted by poison_ivyTotally TRUE! ! ?
Me, personally.. (in my experience)
I think they mean what they say.. Not for games or beating around the bush. They just have a bluntly honest way of saying things and it comes off as "mean".. If they offend you, you can let them know and they will correct themselves. Just be open and direct.
Most times, if they don't want to do more "damage," they will end the convo, assess the situation and come back later.. & most times it seems like they come back later like nothing happened... it's because they don't wanna argue..... They typically are patient ppl but they dislike unnecessary drama.. and shit talking to them, does you NO good.. It's NOT a good idea to start shit with a Capricorn..unless you are ready for a lifelong battle of whits. If you win, they will rebuttal with any subject possible until they win .. lol.. Been there done that.... They aren't fond of it all together.. To me, it seems like they think, "I got more important shit to do, like work, I'm not about to argue with you...." lol If you try to continue "your point", you WILL get your feelings hurt because they will ignore your every being at that moment.. It's best to just give a Capricorn space...
Posted by ladylibra21
Does he have Sag Mercury ? If so, I don't know if this is all Sag Mercury but my ex used to say mean things to end an argument quickly. But he also had Aries Mars.
i got sag mercury and say hurtful shit that i mean in the moment without considering feelings
Posted by CAPR1LICIOUSLOL! I know.. I did doubt him.. In the beginning mostly because it's so new to me.. I am use to getting my way and being pursued fully by an interest... with him.. I have to put in just as much effort as he does.. so it's a difference. lolPosted by poison_ivyOh god! That is so cute! Lol. He is so invested, I don't know why you were doubting him. 🙂Posted by CAPR1LICIOUSAgreed!Posted by poison_ivyYes. I can behave very inappropriately at times. And I know some things annoy him, but he will not let me know. I just want him to tell me what it is, so I can avoid that in the future.Posted by CAPR1LICIOUSI agree, here..
My guy hasn't gotten angry at me till now.
When I say something upsetting, he just goes silent, which is absolutely frustrating!
He's a cheerful Cap though. You'll find him cracking jokes most the time. The wittiest person I have ever known.
My cap will get mad.. Say a few HONEST words... & then goes quiet! It's very frustrating because I want things to be resolved and not linger on..
But most times he is cracking jokes.. happy, playful... etc. Only when he gets upset.. or tired, he's a grump.
I think we're very generous with each other. He made some classic mistakes in the beginning and I let them slide. He's the same with me. We never point out each others faults. Not sure if that's a good thing or bad.
IMO I think you guys shouldn't let things that bother you slide.. My cap and I point out each others faults.. Dislikes, etc., honestly, whether the other person gets offended or not.. It will help us grow for the better. As I've stated many times on here, I'm a pretty tough Scorp gal.. I can take what he dishes, & vice versa... But I say things without thinking first when Im upset.., I have a temper, & he takes words SO seriously that if speak too negatively, it upsets him.. We've had some misunderstandings too.. BUT as you said, I want him to talk about it, and figure out why it upset him so we can move forward.. Usually I learn my lesson cause he can be bluntly harsh and sometimes it hurts my feelings.. So we both end up not speaking to each other.. for a bit.. Or We cut each other off by saying "moving on.." I had to tell him about himself in the beginning a few times.. He'd dismiss an argument so fast and I soon learned that it's just his way of avoiding a further argument... But he use to say "I'm not talking about this anymore".. He doesn't do it anymore becasue I told him that I don't appreciate him dismissing me like, I'm just "a bitch he's fucking..?" "I don't play that.. I respect you enough to listen to you so you need to listen to my side.." I'm very aggressive with him & vice versa..
There have been times where he'll keep reaching out til I speak to him when I go silent.. I'm stubborn so when he goes silent.. I reach out maybe once or twice then I give up like "fuck it.." I'm not babysitting his emotions.. SMH! lol .. Once, we had a big outburst.. Some random argument that wasn't necessary and he hurt my feelings so I ended the convo.. told him "You got it" ...He kept writing me
Him:
"I got what?"
(10 minutes later)
"I guess not"
(hour later)
"HELLO—"
(2 hours later)
"Baby??"
Then he called me and I didn't answer so he sent me a sad face emoji.. " 😢 "
Lol.. The next day... when I finally responded, he wrote, "We talking today!!!? YAY! 🙂"
Like I said.. Im a Scorp sun with a Sag venus & Cap rising so I'm similar to cap ways where I need my space if I get upset to cool down or I'll say things I don't mean.. So I go "silent".. I've broken up with him before in the heat of an argument.. So... I had to change that.. with him.. Specially because I want it to work.. & Being that he's much older than me, I don't wanna be immature about the shit with "silent treatments".. He's helping me for the better where I take a step back, breath and think.. I know DAMN well I don't wanna "break up" with my bae! 🙂 lol & I'm helping him open up more, not dismiss a talk too quick and share his feelings with me.. We're slowly breaking down each others "walls" and flaws! 😉
You are right about growing for the better through such discussions. I'm guilty of being dismissive as well. He will ask me what is bothering me and I often say, "forget about it". He will just keep quiet. But he is very perceptive. More than me, I should say.
I guess we're so generous with each others faults, because it took some time for us to understand and trust each other, and for the relationship to take off. Our backgrounds are so different.
The silent treatments are a definite headache. The men in my family have the habit of doing this and I thought they were the only ones to be afflicted with this illness. It is impossible to get them to speak unless they want to. Men of few words, as some would call them.
I love the dynamic you both share. How much older is he, as compared to you? 🙂
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I think since you both are caps, maybe you guys will shut down more during an argument.. It should get better with time..
My cap shuts down a lot.. He'll make his point and then.. He goes quiet.. He just doesn't like to argue.. But he has told me he understands.. arguments happen.. it is what it is.. Sometimes he gets "short" with me..(1 word responses etc) I can obviously tell he's feeling some type of way about our argument when he's short.. so I just give him his space to cool.. maybe a whole day.. My points don't really matter if I keep trying to PUSH it if he's upset.. He's really patient tho as he doesn't let the petty arguments get the best of him.. & I know I can be a lot to deal with sometimes.. but I guess it'll get better with time as we get to know each other more... 🙂
Yea, I get you 100% .. lol Silent treatments use to be a MAJOR issue of mine in my past relationships.. So with him, when he goes silent during an argument.. I see how it offends me, so I try my hardest not to do it anymore. & I've explained to him that it's quite frustrating when he does that.. Otherwise we can BOTH be 2 silent ppl. LOL! Not a good look.. I'm as stubborn as they come.. so sometimes I still go quiet if it's called for.. SMH lol
He is 4 years older than me.. I'll be 28 in October.. he's 32.. Which is not by much.. BUT!! Yea.. I'm sure a lot of where I'm "coming from" he's been there, & done it.. lol.. I'm very mature tho. Always have been.. I've got an "old soul".. 🙂 & I love older men.
Posted by CAPR1LICIOUSOh good girly!! I'm happy for you 2!! A move will definitely make things easier for you 2.. I have't reached that stage but he complains that he doesn't "like" me because I live too far.. lol!! If we were closer.. we'd probably see each other on a regular basis.. Right now, we fit each other in when we're both free cause we both have busy lives.. and schedules.. Him more than me tho.Posted by poison_ivyLol. You're right. I'm guilty of shutting down after making my point in an argument as well. I'm patient most of the time though. Takes a lot for me to get upset.Posted by CAPR1LICIOUSLOL! I know.. I did doubt him.. In the beginning mostly because it's so new to me.. I am use to getting my way and being pursued fully by an interest... with him.. I have to put in just as much effort as he does.. so it's a difference. lolPosted by poison_ivyOh god! That is so cute! Lol. He is so invested, I don't know why you were doubting him. 🙂Posted by CAPR1LICIOUSAgreed!Posted by poison_ivyYes. I can behave very inappropriately at times. And I know some things annoy him, but he will not let me know. I just want him to tell me what it is, so I can avoid that in the future.Posted by CAPR1LICIOUSI agree, here..
My guy hasn't gotten angry at me till now.
When I say something upsetting, he just goes silent, which is absolutely frustrating!
He's a cheerful Cap though. You'll find him cracking jokes most the time. The wittiest person I have ever known.
My cap will get mad.. Say a few HONEST words... & then goes quiet! It's very frustrating because I want things to be resolved and not linger on..
But most times he is cracking jokes.. happy, playful... etc. Only when he gets upset.. or tired, he's a grump.
I think we're very generous with each other. He made some classic mistakes in the beginning and I let them slide. He's the same with me. We never point out each others faults. Not sure if that's a good thing or bad.
IMO I think you guys shouldn't let things that bother you slide.. My cap and I point out each others faults.. Dislikes, etc., honestly, whether the other person gets offended or not.. It will help us grow for the better. As I've stated many times on here, I'm a pretty tough Scorp gal.. I can take what he dishes, & vice versa... But I say things without thinking first when Im upset.., I have a temper, & he takes words SO seriously that if speak too negatively, it upsets him.. We've had some misunderstandings too.. BUT as you said, I want him to talk about it, and figure out why it upset him so we can move forward.. Usually I learn my lesson cause he can be bluntly harsh and sometimes it hurts my feelings.. So we both end up not speaking to each other.. for a bit.. Or We cut each other off by saying "moving on.." I had to tell him about himself in the beginning a few times.. He'd dismiss an argument so fast and I soon learned that it's just his way of avoiding a further argument... But he use to say "I'm not talking about this anymore".. He doesn't do it anymore becasue I told him that I don't appreciate him dismissing me like, I'm just "a bitch he's fucking..?" "I don't play that.. I respect you enough to listen to you so you need to listen to my side.." I'm very aggressive with him & vice versa..
There have been times where he'll keep reaching out til I speak to him when I go silent.. I'm stubborn so when he goes silent.. I reach out maybe once or twice then I give up like "fuck it.." I'm not babysitting his emotions.. SMH! lol .. Once, we had a big outburst.. Some random argument that wasn't necessary and he hurt my feelings so I ended the convo.. told him "You got it" ...He kept writing me
Him:
"I got what?"
(10 minutes later)
"I guess not"
(hour later)
"HELLO—"
(2 hours later)
"Baby??"
Then he called me and I didn't answer so he sent me a sad face emoji.. " 😢 "
Lol.. The next day... when I finally responded, he wrote, "We talking today!!!? YAY! 🙂"
Like I said.. Im a Scorp sun with a Sag venus & Cap rising so I'm similar to cap ways where I need my space if I get upset to cool down or I'll say things I don't mean.. So I go "silent".. I've broken up with him before in the heat of an argument.. So... I had to change that.. with him.. Specially because I want it to work.. & Being that he's much older than me, I don't wanna be immature about the shit with "silent treatments".. He's helping me for the better where I take a step back, breath and think.. I know DAMN well I don't wanna "break up" with my bae! 🙂 lol & I'm helping him open up more, not dismiss a talk too quick and share his feelings with me.. We're slowly breaking down each others "walls" and flaws! 😉
You are right about growing for the better through such discussions. I'm guilty of being dismissive as well. He will ask me what is bothering me and I often say, "forget about it". He will just keep quiet. But he is very perceptive. More than me, I should say.
I guess we're so generous with each others faults, because it took some time for us to understand and trust each other, and for the relationship to take off. Our backgrounds are so different.
The silent treatments are a definite headache. The men in my family have the habit of doing this and I thought they were the only ones to be afflicted with this illness. It is impossible to get them to speak unless they want to. Men of few words, as some would call them.
I love the dynamic you both share. How much older is he, as compared to you? 🙂
I think since you both are caps, maybe you guys will shut down more during an argument.. It should get better with time..
My cap shuts down a lot.. He'll make his point and then.. He goes quiet.. He just doesn't like to argue.. But he has told me he understands.. arguments happen.. it is what it is.. Sometimes he gets "short" with me..(1 word responses etc) I can obviously tell he's feeling some type of way about our argument when he's short.. so I just give him his space to cool.. maybe a whole day.. My points don't really matter if I keep trying to PUSH it if he's upset.. He's really patient tho as he doesn't let the petty arguments get the best of him.. & I know I can be a lot to deal with sometimes.. but I guess it'll get better with time as we get to know each other more... 🙂
Yea, I get you 100% .. lol Silent treatments use to be a MAJOR issue of mine in my past relationships.. So with him, when he goes silent during an argument.. I see how it offends me, so I try my hardest not to do it anymore. & I've explained to him that it's quite frustrating when he does that.. Otherwise we can BOTH be 2 silent ppl. LOL! Not a good look.. I'm as stubborn as they come.. so sometimes I still go quiet if it's called for.. SMH lol
He is 4 years older than me.. I'll be 28 in October.. he's 32.. Which is not by much.. BUT!! Yea.. I'm sure a lot of where I'm "coming from" he's been there, & done it.. lol.. I'm very mature tho. Always have been.. I've got an "old soul".. 🙂 & I love older men.
I've never had arguments in any of my relationships (I know that sounds weird). This is the first time I've received silent treatment from a boyfriend. Since he wasn't telling me what bothered him, I decided to give him the silent treatment myself. That finally worked. After three days of silence, he traveled down the other night and we had a long discussion.
He wants me closer to him. I knew that might be the reason since he often complained, "I don't get any of you" and "you always make me wait". Caps are way too demanding, as I'm getting to learn. Lol.
Moving will be a little difficult for me, but it will have to be done I guess. I will also be meeting his parents soon. So that is good. 🙂
Silent treatments are not good at all, but they are often used to avoid arguments. It doesn't always help though, since it can build resentment. Alternatively, you might end up saying things in the heat of the moment that you regret later.
What is your guy's rising sign? I just learned my Cap is Libra and Aqua dominant. He's an airy Cap. Perfect! 😄
P.s. Sorry for the late reply. Was on a break from DXP. 🙂
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You've never had arguments?.. OMG! Me and my ex always use to.. & still do cause he's my kid's father.. & it annoys the shit out of me.. lol! But my cap.. Gives me the silent treatment.. I can't stand that either lol.. I need a balance.. I've gotten better with my silent treatment but as of lately I've been wanting things to change so I've been "keeping quiet.." He's been reaching out more.. So I get that mirroring their actions SOMETIMES helps them get over their "mood swing". lol Can't get enough of his weird ass..
My cap is really earthy with a lot of Cap & Taurus in his chart but he has equal amounts of Fire and Water signs also.. LOL! He's a weirdo.. Most of our corresponding signs are compatible except our Moon.. His is Taurus mine is Libra.
An airy cap would seem perfect.. Would help balance out the aloofness with your cap.
& No problem! Breaks are needed! 🙂
Posted by CAPR1LICIOUSWelcome Luv! 🙂Posted by poison_ivyThank you, Ivy! 🙂
Oh good girly!! I'm happy for you 2!! A move will definitely make things easier for you 2.. I have't reached that stage but he complains that he doesn't "like" me because I live too far.. lol!! If we were closer.. we'd probably see each other on a regular basis.. Right now, we fit each other in when we're both free cause we both have busy lives.. and schedules.. Him more than me tho.
You've never had arguments?.. OMG! Me and my ex always use to.. & still do cause he's my kid's father.. & it annoys the shit out of me.. lol! But my cap.. Gives me the silent treatment.. I can't stand that either lol.. I need a balance.. I've gotten better with my silent treatment but as of lately I've been wanting things to change so I've been "keeping quiet.." He's been reaching out more.. So I get that mirroring their actions SOMETIMES helps them get over their "mood swing". lol Can't get enough of his weird ass..
My cap is really earthy with a lot of Cap & Taurus in his chart but he has equal amounts of Fire and Water signs also.. LOL! He's a weirdo.. Most of our corresponding signs are compatible except our Moon.. His is Taurus mine is Libra.
An airy cap would seem perfect.. Would help balance out the aloofness with your cap.
& No problem! Breaks are needed! 🙂
I remember your situation. You should think of moving if possible. LDRs can be stressful, I believe. And if this is something he's complaining about, then he might be expecting you to do something about it.
Lol. No, I've never had arguments in a relationship. I think it's because I've always picked men who were gentle and respectful over the more intense types. I can be intense myself, so I would rather avoid that in a partner. It can result in some hilarious and confusing situations though. 😆
Earth, water and fire... Interesting combo! 😄 The earth and water should make him very emotionally sound, I guess. Fire must be what keeps him driven.
I mostly attract men who are fire dominant or air and earth dominant. I find that it compliments the lack of air in my chart.click to expand
Yea, It's not entirely tough for me to move.. He is concerned about me uprooting everything I've accomplished. My job, my business.. I also just moved into a new place in November as well.. So he was telling me to wait... I guess he wasn't trying to be selfish. I get it.. & I appreciate him for that.. for being so patient and understanding.. but you are 100% correct... This is my first, official LDR and it's so stressful.. I miss him so much.. & as you know work to them comes first so we don't get that much time together.. with both of our busy schedules.. But when we do spend time, it's magical.. & cherished. There will be a time when we're living together.. Until then, I'm remaining strong for the time being..
Before my calm, slow paced, patient, logical thinking CAPRICORN (lol) I always ended up with "intense" men lol.. I don't think I've ever had a "calm" relationship.. one without arguments. The more serious relationships anyway. SMH! I am like you, I prefer peace.. But sometimes arguments happen.. The older I get the more I prefer a "conversation" where both parties get to speak their piece.. Get everything off our chest and then move on.. Often times, during my last relationship, I held back alot because I don't like confrontation, so I avoided them at all cost.. I blame it on my Sag Venus.. I would shut down and then boil on the insides til everything spilled over and my lid would burst and that's when my "scorpio" temper would come out to play.. Not a good look.. So I am better about speaking my mind right away now..
My babe is def grounded.. Caring, loving, chivalrous.... But not good with expressing his emotions over the phone or texting.... I get it randomly.. & I melt because he can truly be a romantic.. I just gotta get deeper to his core.. I'm still peeling off the layers.. Which keeps this relationship exciting.. First time dealing with this kinda man.. & I honestly get bored easily.. BUT I could never grow bored of him..
I've got a lot of Air in my chart.. I'm Libra Dominant .. & Capricorn is the second dominant sign in my chart.. On top of me already being a Cap rising.. May be how I attracted him cause he's the opposite with all that Earth, Fire and Water.. LOL! We compliment each other well.. IMO
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I understand. It's exactly what I have been going through. There are times when you want to be in each other's physical presence and when that's not possible it builds frustration and resentment. I need lots of attention in a relationship or I can feel neglected and act moody. That is one of my major flaws. ? He's the same though, so we're evenly matched. Lol.
Exactly! I miss him all the time.. & I don't need to be up under him, but, just having his physical presence (as you said) makes a difference... Especially once we wake up next to each other everyday and go to bed together .. I am the same as you.. I get moody.. upset.. and don't wanna talk.. It's a habit I can break.. Just can't help who you like/love.. & it's hard when you can't have that person around when you want.. I am such a jealous lady when I see happy couples while I'm out.. I smile.. then roll my eyes.. HAHAHH!
My plan is to actually move to his city and have my own place to live...somewhere near his. I wouldn't want to live with him unless we're married.
I think that's a good idea! To keep things at the general pace that you've been going til you 2 really get use to each other.. .. Not move in together too fast.. That's when things tend to get sticky.. Especially being the way you caps are.. It would take time before you allow someone in your personal space.. Once I decide I wanna take the steps to move.. I'll get my own place also.. & from there we can take it slow.. and then get married and move in together. I wanna do it the right way this time around.. Me and my ex started living together 3 months after becoming an item.
You mentioned about holding back to avoid confrontation...I experienced the same while I was dating the Virgo several years back. He was a successful businessman of 26. I was 21 and still at law school. He completely wooed me over...flooding me with gifts, sending loving messages everyday. He had also directed his personal secretary to call and inform me if he was ever late in contacting me. My friends told me this was the best thing that could happen to a girl and that I should just nod along with everything he says. So I did. Lol.
He spoke a lot about himself all the time...about the places he had traveled to, his hobbies, about how adventurous he was, his innovations, etc. We dated for six months and I don't think he ever got to know who I was. He always told me how I ought to be/think. He would often tell me that I needed to be more "impulsive", which I found annoying, but I never told him. He had literally taken over my entire life. Planning everything for me.
So six months later he told me it was the right time for us to get married. Well, my reaction was quite immature. I ended the call and didn't communicate with him for the next 7-8 months. I panicked, I think. ? Picturing myself marrying him and having his children gave me depression. That's when I knew I actually didn't like him. ?
Since then I've been very careful about not letting others take over my life. Also about expressing my views freely and maintaining my individuality.
WOW! Your Virgo ex wanted you to be his perfect little trophy wife.. Do as he says, think "HIS" way.. dress this way... Planning everything for you.. Buying your love.. & then he decided when you were gonna marry him.. ? O_O.. He was intense as hell.. Nothing wrong with his affection.. his "checking in" etc.. But you had no say so.. It was all about him.. IMO, Virgos are good ppl.. very giving etc.. But they expect ALOT in return.. and they can be selfish as hell when you don't do as they want... I have had a major falling out with a Virgo before.. I just can't do one as far as a dude.. I actually don't attract Virgo Men.. Mostly all the other Earth signs..
I'm glad you chose the decision that was best for you.. & came to your senses that he wasn't the one.. Could you imagine being married to him now?? You would be like a little "Stepford Wife".. Housewive.. Trophy wife.. etc. Or at least that's how he wanted you to be. whoa! O_O
My Cap is the same with emotions. He will rarely express them, but his feelings run deeper than the guys I dated before him. Talking about my emotions is not easy for me either, but he somehow gets me to blurt them out. 😄 You really have to pay attention to what they are saying, even while they are making jokes. They always mean it.
Ain't it weird.. to have a man in our lives that doesn't express his emotions well like the guys from our past.. They aren't like the men that laid all their emotions down heavy.. A BIG change for me..... but you can sense the deeper feelings in our Cap men.. It's hard to explain it.. I think its more'so real.. Nothing is forced.. Don't get me wrong, I can handle an intense guy.. (I'm intense myself..) but I get a better feeling with my cap.... I think he expresses his feelings in a more logical way.. To really know deep down that you feel greater love for a person. To really think about this person, who they are, how they are, what they make you feel deep inside.. inside & out... It's not about wasting time with them.. They take ALL the time they need BUT every hour, minute, second, is valued in their eyes.. Just like we need to get to their core.. the mystery in their eyes.. is how they try to get to the bottom of why they feel so strongly about us women.. I really believe that with time, compliments, effort, loving him, for him.. not making him feel bad for working hard.. Being there for him consistantly.. etc, I could really bring out this man's softer side.. I'm here for that!
It's beautiful to read your posts. Through your words, it's easy to sense how much you love your guy. 🙂
Thank you... *sigh*.. I'm an intense scorpio.. LOL! I have toned it down to not make him nervous.. as I can tell, you caps get a tad bit uncomfortable when someone is overly emotional.. But he knows.. Every time I think about him.. no matter how long we've gone without talking if we're busy, I will always stop what I'm doing, just to let him know that I'm proud of him.. to keep hustling.. and that I miss him.. & Will see him soon.. He ain't overly emotional with his responses (lol).. but he'll usually send a smiling emoji and say thanks babe.. So modest.
You're a Libra dominant? Is your moon heavily aspected? Yes, he must have been attracted to all the air in your chart. 🙂
My libra Moon is in the 9th house.. I believe its a good thing..? I'm loyal, I like honesty.. & I think logically.. It works? Says I could make a great lawyer cause I'm good with my words.
I understand. It's exactly what I have been going through. There are times when you want to be in each other's physical presence and when that's not possible it builds frustration and resentment. I need lots of attention in a relationship or I can feel neglected and act moody. That is one of my major flaws. ? He's the same though, so we're evenly matched. Lol.
Exactly! I miss him all the time.. & I don't need to be up under him, but, just having his physical presence (as you said) makes a difference... Especially once we wake up next to each other everyday and go to bed together .. I am the same as you.. I get moody.. upset.. and don't wanna talk.. It's a habit I can break.. Just can't help who you like/love.. & it's hard when you can't have that person around when you want.. I am such a jealous lady when I see happy couples while I'm out.. I smile.. then roll my eyes.. HAHAHH!
My plan is to actually move to his city and have my own place to live...somewhere near his. I wouldn't want to live with him unless we're married.
I think that's a good idea! To keep things at the general pace that you've been going til you 2 really get use to each other.. .. Not move in together too fast.. That's when things tend to get sticky.. Especially being the way you caps are.. It would take time before you allow someone in your personal space.. Once I decide I wanna take the steps to move.. I'll get my own place also.. & from there we can take it slow.. and then get married and move in together. I wanna do it the right way this time around.. Me and my ex started living together 3 months after becoming an item.
You mentioned about holding back to avoid confrontation...I experienced the same while I was dating the Virgo several years back. He was a successful businessman of 26. I was 21 and still at law school. He completely wooed me over...flooding me with gifts, sending loving messages everyday. He had also directed his personal secretary to call and inform me if he was ever late in contacting me. My friends told me this was the best thing that could happen to a girl and that I should just nod along with everything he says. So I did. Lol.
He spoke a lot about himself all the time...about the places he had traveled to, his hobbies, about how adventurous he was, his innovations, etc. We dated for six months and I don't think he ever got to know who I was. He always told me how I ought to be/think. He would often tell me that I needed to be more "impulsive", which I found annoying, but I never told him. He had literally taken over my entire life. Planning everything for me.
So six months later he told me it was the right time for us to get married. Well, my reaction was quite immature. I ended the call and didn't communicate with him for the next 7-8 months. I panicked, I think. ? Picturing myself marrying him and having his children gave me depression. That's when I knew I actually didn't like him. ?
Since then I've been very careful about not letting others take over my life. Also about expressing my views freely and maintaining my individuality.
WOW! Your Virgo ex wanted you to be his perfect little trophy wife.. Do as he says, think "HIS" way.. dress this way... Planning everything for you.. Buying your love.. & then he decided when you were gonna marry him.. ? O_O.. He was intense as hell.. Nothing wrong with his affection.. his "checking in" etc.. But you had no say so.. It was all about him.. IMO, Virgos are good ppl.. very giving etc.. But they expect ALOT in return.. and they can be selfish as hell when you don't do as they want... I have had a major falling out with a Virgo before.. I just can't do one as far as a dude.. I actually don't attract Virgo Men.. Mostly all the other Earth signs..
I'm glad you chose the decision that was best for you.. & came to your senses that he wasn't the one.. Could you imagine being married to him now?? You would be like a little "Stepford Wife".. Housewive.. Trophy wife.. etc. Or at least that's how he wanted you to be. whoa! O_O
My Cap is the same with emotions. He will rarely express them, but his feelings run deeper than the guys I dated before him. Talking about my emotions is not easy for me either, but he somehow gets me to blurt them out. 😄 You really have to pay attention to what they are saying, even while they are making jokes. They always mean it.
Ain't it weird.. to have a man in our lives that doesn't express his emotions well like the guys from our past.. They aren't like the men that laid all their emotions down heavy.. A BIG change for me..... but you can sense the deeper feelings in our Cap men.. It's hard to explain it.. I think its more'so real.. Nothing is forced.. Don't get me wrong, I can handle an intense guy.. (I'm intense myself..) but I get a better feeling with my cap.... I think he expresses his feelings in a more logical way.. To really know deep down that you feel greater love for a person. To really think about this person, who they are, how they are, what they make you feel deep inside.. inside & out... It's not about wasting time with them.. They take ALL the time they need BUT every hour, minute, second, is valued in their eyes.. Just like we need to get to their core.. the mystery in their eyes.. is how they try to get to the bottom of why they feel so strongly about us women.. I really believe that with time, compliments, effort, loving him, for him.. not making him feel bad for working hard.. Being there for him consistantly.. etc, I could really bring out this man's softer side.. I'm here for that!
It's beautiful to read your posts. Through your words, it's easy to sense how much you love your guy. 🙂
Thank you... *sigh*.. I'm an intense scorpio.. LOL! I have toned it down to not make him nervous.. as I can tell, you caps get a tad bit uncomfortable when someone is overly emotional.. But he knows.. Every time I think about him.. no matter how long we've gone without talking if we're busy, I will always stop what I'm doing, just to let him know that I'm proud of him.. to keep hustling.. and that I miss him.. & Will see him soon.. He ain't overly emotional with his responses (lol).. but he'll usually send a smiling emoji and say thanks babe.. So modest.
You're a Libra dominant? Is your moon heavily aspected? Yes, he must have been attracted to all the air in your chart. 🙂
My libra Moon is in the 9th house.. I believe its a good thing..? I'm loyal, I like honesty.. & I think logically.. It works? Says I could make a great lawyer cause I'm good with my words.
Our actions will always trump our words.
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How do Capricorns handle losing someone?
-- Heartbreak (in love or loss of relationship)
1.) Do you forgive and forget?
2.) Do you try to rekindle the relationship?
3.) How long does it take you to get over someone?
-- Loss of a friendship
1.
Hi Caps and those that care for them!
Let's share some advice and experiences, hopefully we can help each other.
I'll start..
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- give them alone time and do your own thing. They seem to always understand and respect if it's work related.
So I know that compatible signs aren't always perfect for each other but I'm ready to try something new. I'm a Virgo and I've always been with air signs ever since I started dating. I'm ready to start pursuing Caps as I've heard we are perfect for one ano
Its our birthday month and we have been wishing each other.
I thought would it be cool to post some random pics from our birthdays this year. Doesnt have to be picture of us or any other person in it. Could be a gift, a party , a cake anything :)
Sometimes I think my Cap wishes I was more perceptive about his feelings.
For me, that's very difficult. I have almost no earth or water, and prefer straight forward communication.
He has Merc in Cap and I have Merc in Sagittarius.
Do Caps nee
Happy birthday to all the Capricorns :) Cappy season is here, So Girls and guy share your experiences about the birthday gifts you gave to cappys and their reaction on those gifts. And cappys what were the gifts you got that you liked ?
Happy Birthday Capricorn.
You are the majestic mountain peaks of the earth,
Kissing the canopies of clouds
Carpeting the heavens.
Cyber hugs to Cap from Season