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Things we learned from dating Caps (Dos and Don'ts)
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Don't be a Cancer
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLOL!
Joke around with them but not about them yes.
Do something for them every now and then but make it consistent.
Don't date them cause they're boring ?
Thanks for the advice 🙂
How long did you make it with yours?
Posted by YesWhy not? 🙂
Don't be a Cancer
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Make sure you have —
They love the smell of greens lol
Sorry, I cannot see the graphic..make sure you have...?
Do-
-Have your own hobbies.
-Have your own fire and not get so serious just because they seem serious. They LOOOVE fun.
Don't-
-Slave over them. Even if they don't love you, they'll keep you as a pet and still call you a girlfriend for amusement and convenience.
-be TOO available. They tend to get unamused if they think they don't have to climb higher for you. (But don't take advantage of that either).
From my experience, if they get taken advantage of, they take it out on someone else and push away those that are good for them. It really doesn't help you and you'd hurt them for a lifetime.
I've dated 3 capricorns
Two of them were one of the sweetest ever. One was one of the best or THE best..
but one of them was a real scumbag...who happened to be a capricorn. I say this because he cheated a lot. (And I didn't find out until the end so, )
-Have your own hobbies.
-Have your own fire and not get so serious just because they seem serious. They LOOOVE fun.
Don't-
-Slave over them. Even if they don't love you, they'll keep you as a pet and still call you a girlfriend for amusement and convenience.
-be TOO available. They tend to get unamused if they think they don't have to climb higher for you. (But don't take advantage of that either).
From my experience, if they get taken advantage of, they take it out on someone else and push away those that are good for them. It really doesn't help you and you'd hurt them for a lifetime.
I've dated 3 capricorns
Two of them were one of the sweetest ever. One was one of the best or THE best..
but one of them was a real scumbag...who happened to be a capricorn. I say this because he cheated a lot. (And I didn't find out until the end so, )
Posted by ParisianCappyPosted by SalamanderCandyi havnt seem salamandercandy seems so long, i never know that she dates capricorn
Do-
-Have your own hobbies.
-Have your own fire and not get so serious just because they seem serious. They LOOOVE fun.
Don't-
-Slave over them. Even if they don't love you, they'll keep you as a pet and still call you a girlfriend for amusement and convenience.
-be TOO available. They tend to get unamused if they think they don't have to climb higher for you. (But don't take advantage of that either).
From my experience, if they get taken advantage of, they take it out on someone else and push away those that are good for them. It really doesn't help you and you'd hurt them for a lifetime.
I've dated 3 capricorns
Two of them were one of the sweetest ever. One was one of the best or THE best..
but one of them was a real scumbag...who happened to be a capricorn. I say this because he cheated a lot. (And I didn't find out until the end so, )click to expand
Hello! ^^ yeah I love that sign xD hahah.
But if I meet someone new, I'll take them in as a completely different person than anyone before, though.
Posted by SalamanderCandyGreat advice, thanks!
Do-
-Have your own hobbies.
-Have your own fire and not get so serious just because they seem serious. They LOOOVE fun.
Don't-
-Slave over them. Even if they don't love you, they'll keep you as a pet and still call you a girlfriend for amusement and convenience.
-be TOO available. They tend to get unamused if they think they don't have to climb higher for you. (But don't take advantage of that either).
From my experience, if they get taken advantage of, they take it out on someone else and push away those that are good for them. It really doesn't help you and you'd hurt them for a lifetime.
I've dated 3 capricorns
Two of them were one of the sweetest ever. One was one of the best or THE best..
but one of them was a real scumbag...who happened to be a capricorn. I say this because he cheated a lot. (And I didn't find out until the end so, )
Curious to know (if you don't mind sharing), with the scumbag - was there any indication or red flags that he was cheating. Hindsight is 20/20 as they say!
I'll think of more, but
Don't be over-emotional around them
Don't drink too much
Do NOT cry. You might as well look for comfort from a cactus.
Always be nice to them
Ask them lots of questions and be interested in their professional life
Don't be over-emotional around them
Don't drink too much
Do NOT cry. You might as well look for comfort from a cactus.
Always be nice to them
Ask them lots of questions and be interested in their professional life
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioHaha, yeah, I can see this.Posted by SunMoonStarsDollars ?Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Make sure you have —
They love the smell of greens lol
Sorry, I cannot see the graphic..make sure you have...?
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Do you think Cap men want a sugar mama??
Posted by LoisLaneThanks! I especially agree with the comfort part 🙂 and the always be nice to them. They are SO sensitive sometimes.
I'll think of more, but
Don't be over-emotional around them
Don't drink too much
Do NOT cry. You might as well look for comfort from a cactus.
Always be nice to them
Ask them lots of questions and be interested in their professional life
Great thread!!
Do
- realize that sometimes Caps can dish it out, but cannot take it back!!
- drop hints about what you want rather than flat out say (unless they ask you)
- show them how serious you can be
- practice cultivating silence. I don't think Caps like chatterboxes or be used as a sounding board.
- realize that sometimes Caps can dish it out, but cannot take it back!!
- drop hints about what you want rather than flat out say (unless they ask you)
- show them how serious you can be
- practice cultivating silence. I don't think Caps like chatterboxes or be used as a sounding board.
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioHow can I do that??
Oh yea since they like being in control make them think they're the boss even if they aren't. Lol
Subtlety is a bit of a weakness for me... 😢
TY!
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioHaha 🙂Posted by SunMoonStarsI was just joking lol it's either you let em be in control or you don't.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioHow can I do that??
Oh yea since they like being in control make them think they're the boss even if they aren't. Lol
Subtlety is a bit of a weakness for me... 😢
TY!
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Why does it seem hard to believe that a Scorp (not you specifically) relinquished control to anyone?
You must have really respected those Caps!
Never say you love them first. Don't rush the courting stage. Give them space. See them through their depression by patiently waiting.
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioYou remind me of my Scorp guy friend dating a Sagittarius. He says he wants a partner who leads 50% of the time too. Did the Cap do this well? You said they are "boring", so I'm wondering, what's that elusive quality that Scorps want in a partner to keep things exciting?Posted by SunMoonStarslol who says I did? ? But I'll tell you this much I believe in equality so I do give her 50% of the control for the sake of avoiding issues/drama so in a way I really am just being generous ?Posted by EvoxxxscorpioHaha 🙂Posted by SunMoonStarsI was just joking lol it's either you let em be in control or you don't.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioHow can I do that??
Oh yea since they like being in control make them think they're the boss even if they aren't. Lol
Subtlety is a bit of a weakness for me... 😢
TY!
Why does it seem hard to believe that a Scorp (not you specifically) relinquished control to anyone?
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Posted by Capri-sunYes, they're just not happy about it 🙂Posted by SunMoonStars
Do
- realize that sometimes Caps can dish it out, but cannot take it back!!
- drop hints about what you want rather than flat out say (unless they ask you)
- show them how serious you can be
- practice cultivating silence. I don't think Caps like chatterboxes or be used as a sounding board.
No, no, yes, yes
We can take it back lol, we just won't be happy about it.
I prefer direct rather than beating around the bush, reading in between lines, trying to decode what your hints mean.
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Wish my Cap preferred direct communication!
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioYup, why do you think I keep trying with this guy?? 🙂Posted by SunMoonStarsBoring was just a joke lol for sure in bed they aren't ?Posted by EvoxxxscorpioYou remind me of my Scorp guy friend dating a Sagittarius. He says he wants a partner who leads 50% of the time too. Did the Cap do this well? You said they are "boring", so I'm wondering, what's that elusive quality that Scorps want in a partner to keep things exciting?Posted by SunMoonStarslol who says I did? ? But I'll tell you this much I believe in equality so I do give her 50% of the control for the sake of avoiding issues/drama so in a way I really am just being generous ?Posted by EvoxxxscorpioHaha 🙂Posted by SunMoonStarsI was just joking lol it's either you let em be in control or you don't.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioHow can I do that??
Oh yea since they like being in control make them think they're the boss even if they aren't. Lol
Subtlety is a bit of a weakness for me... 😢
TY!
Why does it seem hard to believe that a Scorp (not you specifically) relinquished control to anyone?
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Cook damn good and keep everything neat and clean at home.
Posted by Capri-sunScorp Mars?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSPosted by LoisLaneLol. That's not true at all. I may not be emotionally expressive around most people, but my relationships can be emotionally intense...not in a crazy way though.
I'll think of more, but
Don't be over-emotional around them
Do NOT cry. You might as well look for comfort from a cactus.
If my SO was going through a difficult time, I'd expect him to reach out to me for comfort, rather than seek it elsewhere. If I'm with you, then I need to have all of you.
We're pretty good at comforting. We are good listeners and we provide solid, helpful advice. We might even go out of our way and fix what's bothering you.
*sigh* my intensity borderlines crazy at some times.
Not that I would hurt anyone crazy, just over the top with emotional intensity crazy.
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Posted by Capri-sunPosted by ladylibra21Posted by Capri-sunScorp Mars?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSPosted by LoisLaneLol. That's not true at all. I may not be emotionally expressive around most people, but my relationships can be emotionally intense...not in a crazy way though.
I'll think of more, but
Don't be over-emotional around them
Do NOT cry. You might as well look for comfort from a cactus.
If my SO was going through a difficult time, I'd expect him to reach out to me for comfort, rather than seek it elsewhere. If I'm with you, then I need to have all of you.
We're pretty good at comforting. We are good listeners and we provide solid, helpful advice. We might even go out of our way and fix what's bothering you.
*sigh* my intensity borderlines crazy at some times.
Not that I would hurt anyone crazy, just over the top with emotional intensity crazy.
Yes!
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What house is yours in? Mine has his in the 12th house i'm not sure if he will get revenge or just shut himself away. I shouldn't care but I do. How do you react when you're hurt ?
Don't be an egg. Virgos are immediately eliminated
-Be yourself. They want to get to know you and understand you completely- the uncensored version of you.
-Be consistent with your behavior, feelings, communication, etc.
-Prove your loyalty and trust. Don't give them a reason to be suspicious
-Do special things for them. It will make them happy.
-Communicate with them. they might not give you the answer you are looking for, but they do listen and will try to accommodate your needs
-Be consistent with your behavior, feelings, communication, etc.
-Prove your loyalty and trust. Don't give them a reason to be suspicious
-Do special things for them. It will make them happy.
-Communicate with them. they might not give you the answer you are looking for, but they do listen and will try to accommodate your needs
Posted by ladylibra21i don't think you hurt him too much. This is a good time for him to reflect on your relationship with himPosted by Capri-sunPosted by ladylibra21Posted by Capri-sunScorp Mars?Posted by CAPRILICIOUSPosted by LoisLaneLol. That's not true at all. I may not be emotionally expressive around most people, but my relationships can be emotionally intense...not in a crazy way though.
I'll think of more, but
Don't be over-emotional around them
Do NOT cry. You might as well look for comfort from a cactus.
If my SO was going through a difficult time, I'd expect him to reach out to me for comfort, rather than seek it elsewhere. If I'm with you, then I need to have all of you.
We're pretty good at comforting. We are good listeners and we provide solid, helpful advice. We might even go out of our way and fix what's bothering you.
*sigh* my intensity borderlines crazy at some times.
Not that I would hurt anyone crazy, just over the top with emotional intensity crazy.
Yes!
What house is yours in? Mine has his in the 12th house i'm not sure if he will get revenge or just shut himself away. I shouldn't care but I do. How do you react when you're hurt ?
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The men love to be the men, which I love that.
I'm starting to date a Capricorn man, he really has a lot of qualities I like:
1. A sincere warmth
2. ? respectful
3. Wants to pamper me
4. Works hard
5. Loves to talk and listen
6. Protective - I need this so much, I've been living alone in fear for so long so to have a man come in and make me feel like my safety is taken care of means so much to me. Like I never want to leave his side and just live in bliss.
7. Loyalty.
Last night he opened up that he has never felt this way before, he wants to keep me, he doesn't want to do anything that bothers me because he has waited too long to date me. Talk about making my heart melt.
I'm starting to date a Capricorn man, he really has a lot of qualities I like:
1. A sincere warmth
2. ? respectful
3. Wants to pamper me
4. Works hard
5. Loves to talk and listen
6. Protective - I need this so much, I've been living alone in fear for so long so to have a man come in and make me feel like my safety is taken care of means so much to me. Like I never want to leave his side and just live in bliss.
7. Loyalty.
Last night he opened up that he has never felt this way before, he wants to keep me, he doesn't want to do anything that bothers me because he has waited too long to date me. Talk about making my heart melt.
Seriously I need and have been in need of a real man. He could be the one, seeing him tonight. He has offered his spare room for me to sleep in.
Posted by ParisianCappy?Posted by SunsetvirgoOBEY TO CAPRICORN
Don't be an egg. Virgos are immediately eliminatedclick to expand
Posted by ParisianCappyOh my lil Cappy I would probably only ever obey you ——??Posted by SunsetvirgoOBEY TO CAPRICORN
Don't be an egg. Virgos are immediately eliminatedclick to expand
Posted by LibrajeanHow long have you known him? You're not going to sleep in the same bed?
Seriously I need and have been in need of a real man. He could be the one, seeing him tonight. He has offered his spare room for me to sleep in.
Posted by SunsetvirgoI really wanna say why we're eggs so I'll reply to myself — Lmao
Don't be an egg. Virgos are immediately eliminated
We're fragile (egg shell)
We're mutable/moody (you can change the appearance of an egg just by doodling one thing on it)
Annnnddd we're fun (eggs are fun to play with AND to eat ?)
Okay I'm done
Posted by pinkbird03We've known each other for a few years but this is our second date. I'm driving to where he lives and he offered up his spare room to sleep. He is being respectful and a gentleman. Which is so sweet he told me to bring my pajamas. Lol. We are definitely going to be exclusive though, I'm totally into him. Any tips?Posted by LibrajeanHow long have you known him? You're not going to sleep in the same bed?
Seriously I need and have been in need of a real man. He could be the one, seeing him tonight. He has offered his spare room for me to sleep in.click to expand
Posted by Capri-sunThank you ... ?Posted by Librajean
Seriously I need and have been in need of a real man. He could be the one, seeing him tonight. He has offered his spare room for me to sleep in.
Have fun beautiful 🙂
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Posted by LibrajeanBring cute pajamas 😛Posted by pinkbird03We've known each other for a few years but this is our second date. I'm driving to where he lives and he offered up his spare room to sleep. He is being respectful and a gentleman. Which is so sweet he told me to bring my pajamas. Lol. We are definitely going to be exclusive though, I'm totally into him. Any tips?Posted by LibrajeanHow long have you known him? You're not going to sleep in the same bed?
Seriously I need and have been in need of a real man. He could be the one, seeing him tonight. He has offered his spare room for me to sleep in.
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Posted by pinkbird03?Posted by LibrajeanBring cute pajamas 😛Posted by pinkbird03We've known each other for a few years but this is our second date. I'm driving to where he lives and he offered up his spare room to sleep. He is being respectful and a gentleman. Which is so sweet he told me to bring my pajamas. Lol. We are definitely going to be exclusive though, I'm totally into him. Any tips?Posted by LibrajeanHow long have you known him? You're not going to sleep in the same bed?
Seriously I need and have been in need of a real man. He could be the one, seeing him tonight. He has offered his spare room for me to sleep in.
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Posted by Capri-suncome on....really ? We're so sweet....Posted by Yes
Don't be a Cancer
+1000000000 have yet to have a positive experience.click to expand
Posted by sakuraflowers
Do
- remember the things you observed about the Cap or the things that the Cap has mentioned (ie - what they like, their hobbies, what bothers them, etc.)
So that they can see you cared and remembered. 🙂
Very true
When he said he likes something for example a special kind of desk when talking together about furniture.
He's very suprised that you will remember that months later when showing him a picture of that kind of desk witch is on sale.
He didn't understand that i would remember that and was very " WOW". Like he didn't think it was important to me
give him a massage a day...they like that. It relaxes them and it will take things of their minds. They think WAY to much and forget how to relax
Posted by Capri-sunPosted by LindaaaatjePosted by Capri-suncome on....really ? We're so sweet....Posted by Yes
Don't be a Cancer
+1000000000 have yet to have a positive experience.
Yes, cancers are very sweet. I just haven't felt the connection in the ways I needed to. They left me cold in the bedroom, haven't connected on a mental level, some have a hard time with relationship boundaries.
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cold in the bedroom—— It must have been another sort of cancer you've met then. :-)
But then again, you have to look at other placements for "bedroom activities".
Conclusion: i am DEFINATELY not cold lol :-)))
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioFor me it's not just that they are serious. The complain to much and it's about EVERYTHING. Very controlling.Posted by SunMoonStars1 for 2 yrs the other for half just messin around with boring they're too serious for my liking.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLOL!
Joke around with them but not about them yes.
Do something for them every now and then but make it consistent.
Don't date them cause they're boring ?
Thanks for the advice 🙂
How long did you make it with yours?
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Posted by LibrajeanHow did it go? ?Posted by pinkbird03?Posted by LibrajeanBring cute pajamas 😛Posted by pinkbird03We've known each other for a few years but this is our second date. I'm driving to where he lives and he offered up his spare room to sleep. He is being respectful and a gentleman. Which is so sweet he told me to bring my pajamas. Lol. We are definitely going to be exclusive though, I'm totally into him. Any tips?Posted by LibrajeanHow long have you known him? You're not going to sleep in the same bed?
Seriously I need and have been in need of a real man. He could be the one, seeing him tonight. He has offered his spare room for me to sleep in.
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Posted by EvoxxxscorpioHuge battle of the wills 😄Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairieslol good luck controlling a Scorpio ??at least they tried ?Posted by EvoxxxscorpioFor me it's not just that they are serious. The complain to much and it's about EVERYTHING. Very controlling.Posted by SunMoonStars1 for 2 yrs the other for half just messin around with boring they're too serious for my liking.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLOL!
Joke around with them but not about them yes.
Do something for them every now and then but make it consistent.
Don't date them cause they're boring ?
Thanks for the advice 🙂
How long did you make it with yours?
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Posted by EvoxxxscorpioHow does this dynamic work otherwise. I hear often of these two pairing upPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by EvoxxxscorpioHuge battle of the wills 😄Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairieslol good luck controlling a Scorpio ??at least they tried ?Posted by EvoxxxscorpioFor me it's not just that they are serious. The complain to much and it's about EVERYTHING. Very controlling.Posted by SunMoonStars1 for 2 yrs the other for half just messin around with boring they're too serious for my liking.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLOL!
Joke around with them but not about them yes.
Do something for them every now and then but make it consistent.
Don't date them cause they're boring ?
Thanks for the advice 🙂
How long did you make it with yours?
I can tell that one of the cap I went out with has never gone out with a scorp before cause she definitely tried to control me and I let it work for a very short time just cause I was trying to find out her weakness and bam when she lost control she didn't know what to do lol
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you need someone with a Virgo stellium, no one is that perfect .Lol
Posted by SunMoonStarsI did. Loved him too much. Until yesterday when i figured out that his friend had convinced him to download a tinder account behind my back and he was talking to other girls. And i was wondering why he suddely stopped being sweet and started acting like a jerk and kept talking about wanting to be single. He had even bought me a ring to propose. He suddenly had too much confidence. Well, f that sh. 🙂 im tired of letting him cintrol me.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioHaha 🙂Posted by SunMoonStarsI was just joking lol it's either you let em be in control or you don't.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioHow can I do that??
Oh yea since they like being in control make them think they're the boss even if they aren't. Lol
Subtlety is a bit of a weakness for me... 😢
TY!
Why does it seem hard to believe that a Scorp (not you specifically) relinquished control to anyone?
You must have really respected those Caps!
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Lol sorry...venting.
Posted by sakuraflowersI agree with this. Thats the best way ive found to communicate with a cap.Posted by SunMoonStarsLet them know of your feedback or preferences, but let them have the final say ... imo ...Posted by EvoxxxscorpioHow can I do that??
Oh yea since they like being in control make them think they're the boss even if they aren't. Lol
Subtlety is a bit of a weakness for me... 😢
TY!
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Posted by Capri-sun+10000000000000000000000000000Posted by LindaaaatjePosted by Capri-sunPosted by LindaaaatjePosted by Capri-suncome on....really ? We're so sweet....Posted by Yes
Don't be a Cancer
+1000000000 have yet to have a positive experience.
Yes, cancers are very sweet. I just haven't felt the connection in the ways I needed to. They left me cold in the bedroom, haven't connected on a mental level, some have a hard time with relationship boundaries.
cold in the bedroom—— It must have been another sort of cancer you've met then. :-)
But then again, you have to look at other placements for "bedroom activities".
Conclusion: i am DEFINATELY not cold lol :-)))
Yes my scorp mars needs all consuming passion where our bodies become 1, before during & after.
1 guy I kissed & felt nothing. No passion whatsoever. Like your first kiss in elementary school lol. We never had sex. He has a way of tapping into my sensitive side. Making me cry the past few times we talked. I know he genuinely cares.
1 guy was 1 & done, I didn't get off very much just bland straightforward sex. He was too focused on the end goal. Very short time wise.
Another guy was 1 & done before I came same scenario. Then when I was ready to go home, he got upset and asked me to stay. Only to divide the covers in between us as I cried myself to sleep (this is particularly what I mean by leaving me cold- no love & affection)
The one cancer that did hold me was on his phone most of the time. I like undivided attention.
The pisces spoiled me in the bedroom so I guess I have high expectations now. I'm over sex for the sake of sex. I really need someone I can connect with on all levels. He would withhold on cumming, we went multiple rounds into the night and next morning, wiped my tears, always made sure I was covered up with a blanket, had sex in & outside of the bedroom and outside of the house all together, knew what I liked to drink, always had good wine...I mean we could sex each with our eyes over a drink before either one of us laid a finger on the other. We had lots of fun together.
This is only about cancer men, the ladies are cool so it might be different for you with the cap man / cancer woman dynamic.click to expand
I couldn't agree more.
I need " the merging" on all levels to feel fulfilled.
Sex just for the sex? I can do it with "my light switched off in my head" but i don't like it.
Scorp moon here , so feelings and passion is a must for me. Not always easy to find it....
I spent 15 years with a Cap and in retrospect one of the reasons that I think we lasted so long was because he wanted to feel adored, but he also loved the chase.
I found early on that if I gave him all of the attention he asked for he would be happy for a while and then he would get bored.
Luckily I'm easily distracted so when he would get bored I would find some activity to wrap myself up in and after a few days it would drive him crazy that I wasn't showering him with love and affection and he would start the chase.
If I gave too much attention when he was bored, he would get annoyed. If it took me too long to respond appropriately to the chase we would have trouble, like chasing other women sort of trouble. He never cheated, that I know of, but boy would he chase until he caught and lost interest.
I learned pretty early on when to entertain myself and when to entertain him.
I found early on that if I gave him all of the attention he asked for he would be happy for a while and then he would get bored.
Luckily I'm easily distracted so when he would get bored I would find some activity to wrap myself up in and after a few days it would drive him crazy that I wasn't showering him with love and affection and he would start the chase.
If I gave too much attention when he was bored, he would get annoyed. If it took me too long to respond appropriately to the chase we would have trouble, like chasing other women sort of trouble. He never cheated, that I know of, but boy would he chase until he caught and lost interest.
I learned pretty early on when to entertain myself and when to entertain him.
Wow! Loving this thread! A lot of good inout! I don't want to repeat anything but here is mine:
Don't be afraid to embrace "classic gender roles" if that comes naturally to you. There is pressure on women to not want to cook and clean for your man but, if you do, do it. He finds the sounds of you clinging around in the kitchen for him SEXAY.
Let him order for you some times when you're out at a restaurant.
Don't take his advice personally if it seems he is criticizing, he only has your best at heart.
If you think something is wrong, TALK to him about it; you'd be surprised at how off the mark your assumptions are and how sweet his intentions are.
Don't try to have sex when he is super concentrating on his work. Believe it or not, he would appreciate you telling him to kiss you so he has the chance to mentally switch to focus on you, than for you to be in his face while he's working. 😄
Don't be afraid to embrace "classic gender roles" if that comes naturally to you. There is pressure on women to not want to cook and clean for your man but, if you do, do it. He finds the sounds of you clinging around in the kitchen for him SEXAY.
Let him order for you some times when you're out at a restaurant.
Don't take his advice personally if it seems he is criticizing, he only has your best at heart.
If you think something is wrong, TALK to him about it; you'd be surprised at how off the mark your assumptions are and how sweet his intentions are.
Don't try to have sex when he is super concentrating on his work. Believe it or not, he would appreciate you telling him to kiss you so he has the chance to mentally switch to focus on you, than for you to be in his face while he's working. 😄
Posted by SunMoonStars
Hi Caps and those that care for them!
Let's share some advice and experiences, hopefully we can help each other.
I'll start..
Do
- give them alone time and do your own thing. They seem to always understand and respect if it's work related.
- handle with gentle care in the morning. Let them have coffee first. Mine takes about an hour to warm up.
- pay attention to how they make requests of you, and mirror that.
- joke around with them, they need a laugh!
Yes at the morning thing!!!!
I thought my ex husband was just a dickhead in general.
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So I know that compatible signs aren't always perfect for each other but I'm ready to try something new. I'm a Virgo and I've always been with air signs ever since I started dating. I'm ready to start pursuing Caps as I've heard we are perfect for one ano
Its our birthday month and we have been wishing each other.
I thought would it be cool to post some random pics from our birthdays this year. Doesnt have to be picture of us or any other person in it. Could be a gift, a party , a cake anything :)
Sometimes I think my Cap wishes I was more perceptive about his feelings.
For me, that's very difficult. I have almost no earth or water, and prefer straight forward communication.
He has Merc in Cap and I have Merc in Sagittarius.
Do Caps nee
Happy birthday to all the Capricorns :) Cappy season is here, So Girls and guy share your experiences about the birthday gifts you gave to cappys and their reaction on those gifts. And cappys what were the gifts you got that you liked ?
Happy Birthday Capricorn.
You are the majestic mountain peaks of the earth,
Kissing the canopies of clouds
Carpeting the heavens.
Cyber hugs to Cap from Season
Hey Guys!
wassup! i just need help from all Capricorn women out there! plz....
Since 1 year and 6 months Im very attached and friendly with Capricorn girl.[ Dec 24 born ]. My day starts with her and it ends with her. We chat all day even though we bot
I find my male Cap to say* he wants to co-lead, but in reality, he is not flexible and subtly controls the direction of the relationship. It's kind of his way or the high-way, and if he's going along with someone else, he'll make damned sure they know he'
How do capricorn women deal,treat, or respond to men who they suspect only wants to have sex? Disrespect them according to their standards? Men who they suspect are trying to Use them?
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What are your experiences as a capricorn or as their partner ? Do Caps dislike fighting so much that it becomes a deal breaker or do they feel that fighting is a normal part of a relationship ? To what extent fights are allowed when you are in a relations
Have a sit and drink our fine nectar.
Let me give a lil history, there's a Capricorn girl who I work with. We've been working together for almost a year and half or so. During that whole time we've talked no more than 5 times, really short convos, water cooler talk. She's literallly friendl
what's up virgo pals ? i was wondering, did you notice an astro pattern amongst people you vibe with / don't vibe with ? Not romatically, but on a friendship level
I noticed i vibe the best with aquarius, virgos, scorpios and caps
I dont vibe the best
Does this mean I have a Neptune rising?
When u hate exes do you tell them
Do u ever lie about hating somebody
How do you express your hate via actions
Do Caps push people away by starting fights over little things when you're depressed (financially strapped, jobless, mid life crises, etc.) or are you just not that interested?
Got inspired by another question.
How many Caps (male and female) have ever met someone they weren't too sure about...gave it a try, and it grew into love?
I have a suspicion that if a Cap doesn't fall in love within 3 months, they won't. Thoughts
When a romantic fling from the past tries to keep in touch?
My fellow earth sign brethren,
Why don't you love me?
Kaythanksbye,
This bitch
Let's share some advice and experiences, hopefully we can help each other.
I'll start..
Do
- give them alone time and do your own thing. They seem to always understand and respect if it's work related.
- handle with gentle care in the morning. Let them have coffee first. Mine takes about an hour to warm up.
- pay attention to how they make requests of you, and mirror that.
- joke around with them, they need a laugh!