It went really well, we are dating now exclusively so I guess it went well 🙂 these guys know how to for it lol
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May I ask if there is a male capricorn that I am interested in, would me showing affection and interest and kinda taking a lead would be a DO or DON'T for him?
Because since I am Pisces female I usually tend to be the submisive one, but with Capricorns it feels like the begining of the relashionship can be very very very slow, especialy in the stage of just trying to figure each other out. And I need certain feeling of certainty that I see he won't provide me if I won't push. On other hand I don't want to come across as crazy person being all over him 😄 because that is like complete opposite of how I am.
Because since I am Pisces female I usually tend to be the submisive one, but with Capricorns it feels like the begining of the relashionship can be very very very slow, especialy in the stage of just trying to figure each other out. And I need certain feeling of certainty that I see he won't provide me if I won't push. On other hand I don't want to come across as crazy person being all over him 😄 because that is like complete opposite of how I am.
Posted by Capri-sun😄 thank you I will try... God.. I just want to bash my head on the table.. But you are right!Posted by Roana
May I ask if there is a male capricorn that I am interested in, would me showing affection and interest and kinda taking a lead would be a DO or DON'T for him?
Because since I am Pisces female I usually tend to be the submisive one, but with Capricorns it feels like the begining of the relashionship can be very very very slow, especialy in the stage of just trying to figure each other out. And I need certain feeling of certainty that I see he won't provide me if I won't push. On other hand I don't want to come across as crazy person being all over him 😄 because that is like complete opposite of how I am.
If he wants you, he will make it crystal clear. We really aren't that slow...I mean we can be, I've seen some that aren't.
Be yourself.
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What's his Venus?
this thread is interesting!
Posted by SunMoonStars
Do
- realize that sometimes Caps can dish it out, but cannot take it back!!
- drop hints about what you want rather than flat out say (unless they ask you)
- show them how serious you can be
- practice cultivating silence. I don't think Caps like chatterboxes or be used as a sounding board.
My Cap doesn't take hints easily 😢
Posted by anna1Posted by SunMoonStars
Do
- realize that sometimes Caps can dish it out, but cannot take it back!!
- drop hints about what you want rather than flat out say (unless they ask you)
- show them how serious you can be
- practice cultivating silence. I don't think Caps like chatterboxes or be used as a sounding board.
My Cap doesn't take hints easily 😢click to expand
neither does mine, he prefers me to be straight up and just ask. He gets cranky if I beat around the bush hahah like I'm wasting his time.
Posted by scorpio1108Posted by anna1Posted by SunMoonStars
Do
- realize that sometimes Caps can dish it out, but cannot take it back!!
- drop hints about what you want rather than flat out say (unless they ask you)
- show them how serious you can be
- practice cultivating silence. I don't think Caps like chatterboxes or be used as a sounding board.
My Cap doesn't take hints easily 😢
neither does mine, he prefers me to be straight up and just ask. He gets cranky if I beat around the bush hahah like I'm wasting his time.click to expand
Exactly, Sometimes I drop hints and tell him something indirectly but he never respond to my need and that's when I get frustrated and he says "you could have asked me directly I don't get hints"
Hi Everyone, have this on going strange bond with a capricorn but with heavy placements of aquarius and sag. Moon-aqua, venus-aqua, mars-sag, mercury-aqua. rising-sag. This being said, lets get to it:
-They don't like extremes based on the mood/timing they are in
•Changes in their plan. They're not good with last minute ideas. Maybe you guys are meeting to discuss a project, its now 3 hours later, you suggest to go get some food. Most likely he'll say no if he wasnt planning on even leaving.
•If they are tired, even if they are even keel, they will need to hide for a bit, let them. As an air sign, I can definitely relate to this.
•What they say is usually exactly the way they mean. As what they say has been weighed out. So if he tells you something that really hurts you, know that they mean it.
•Sometimes though, they'll apologize not because they didn't mean what they said but because they lost control.
•They enjoy physical comfort- cook food, baths, good wine, comfortable environment .
•Dont repeat yourself. Keep it short and direct. Lengthly repetitive anything annoys them.
e.g. My cap boss is so annoyed with the Director. She always is so loud, keeps complimenting him over and over and over (loudly) . Very emotionally expressive.
•They like unassuming confidence- if you know your good looking, smart, then you dont need to flaunt it.
same goes with the way one dresses, reacts, thinks.
•With people they choose to open up to, they are so SILLY quite funny.
•They need to have strong people around (not dominance, thickheaded) , resilient, patience.
•They need to think things through in time. So nothing you say or do will bring an immediate change or reaction. Its going to be in their control.
•They are willing to do anything for their friends and partners, this requires a great sacrifice and compromise on their own beliefs at times. If you want in, you're gonna have to show them all the spectrum of your being.
Bottom line: They are very very nitpicky.. they grow with time and get better with time.
-They don't like extremes based on the mood/timing they are in
•Changes in their plan. They're not good with last minute ideas. Maybe you guys are meeting to discuss a project, its now 3 hours later, you suggest to go get some food. Most likely he'll say no if he wasnt planning on even leaving.
•If they are tired, even if they are even keel, they will need to hide for a bit, let them. As an air sign, I can definitely relate to this.
•What they say is usually exactly the way they mean. As what they say has been weighed out. So if he tells you something that really hurts you, know that they mean it.
•Sometimes though, they'll apologize not because they didn't mean what they said but because they lost control.
•They enjoy physical comfort- cook food, baths, good wine, comfortable environment .
•Dont repeat yourself. Keep it short and direct. Lengthly repetitive anything annoys them.
e.g. My cap boss is so annoyed with the Director. She always is so loud, keeps complimenting him over and over and over (loudly) . Very emotionally expressive.
•They like unassuming confidence- if you know your good looking, smart, then you dont need to flaunt it.
same goes with the way one dresses, reacts, thinks.
•With people they choose to open up to, they are so SILLY quite funny.
•They need to have strong people around (not dominance, thickheaded) , resilient, patience.
•They need to think things through in time. So nothing you say or do will bring an immediate change or reaction. Its going to be in their control.
•They are willing to do anything for their friends and partners, this requires a great sacrifice and compromise on their own beliefs at times. If you want in, you're gonna have to show them all the spectrum of your being.
Bottom line: They are very very nitpicky.. they grow with time and get better with time.
I see a lot of this in myself - Cap Moon ...
Posted by SunMoonStars
Hi Caps and those that care for them!
Let's share some advice and experiences, hopefully we can help each other.
I'll start..
Do
- give them alone time and do your own thing. They seem to always understand and respect if it's work related.
- handle with gentle care in the morning. Let them have coffee first. Mine takes about an hour to warm up.
- pay attention to how they make requests of you, and mirror that.
- joke around with them, they need a laugh!
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