Courting a Leo Woman- Too Close to Stallking?

Yes Leo women like dramatic acts of affection from their loved ones, not from dudes they blocked online.

Stalking for sure. Move on 🙃

Legit the reason she brought up her boyfriend was because you went from friendly to flirty. As you say 'she pushed you back to being friends'. So no, she didn't want to 'be intimate' with you or cheat on her boyfriend. She met you on a business forum and talked with you about similar interests and then blocked you once you overstepped her boundaries.

I know the pandemic made dating rough but this is not the hill you want to die on.

Wanting what you cannot have

All good points. She said she did not want to put me in an awkward situation. She was just so smart and type A ha. But I'm in Dallas and she was in DC, so I doubt it would have worked unless one of us moved (she'd have to my job is more secure than hers).

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All good points. She said she did not want to put me in an awkward situation. She was just so smart and type A ha. But I'm in Dallas and she was in DC, so I doubt it would have worked unless one of us moved (she'd have to my job is more secure than hers).

Your take away from this should be to look for those qualities you enjoyed in her, in someone else. Preferably in your area and single.

Honest question:

Did you sugar coat how far you continued to be inappropriate after she dropped she had a boyfriend?

"I feel like she kind of wanted to cheat on him, but I am unsure."

Did you communicate this assumption to her directly or indirectly? Because this would be very insulting to a Leo. Questioning thier loyalty and integrity.

Even if you didn't consciously, I could see you mentioning or leaking that impression OR realization of the situation on her own, causing a reality check.

It's all about cause and effect action and reaction.

So it make not be on you or about you per say.

If you are serious about maintaining some kind of relationship with her(friendship, chat buddy, etc) and didn't insult her or over step, you should be asking these Leos when it would be safe to reach out to her and reestablish the connection. Be honest with yourself what you are looking for here first.

Thanks. After one of our zooms, I made the comment that I really liked looking into her eyes. I told her I thought they were beautiful. The next day she said she was finally able to see her boyfriend. We were talking for at least a month before.

Last communication was late August 2020.

Why'd she block you? Cause you called her out? EEEWWWW. Just wait and see if she comes back.

She probably will miss it too if she enjoyed it as much as you did. It would be stalker-ish to reach out, after being blocked. She said she had a boyfriend and isn't even treating you in a friendly way, with the childish blocking.

I had a Leo guy do the same thing.

But it was my ex who reached out to him and he told me he had to block me because of it.

I told him to go ahead, that I'm not gonna contact him if he was going to break contact with me because of an ex who is jealous.

He contacted me about 7 months later and we have been talking ever since, as friends though.

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Legit the reason she brought up her boyfriend was because you went from friendly to flirty. As you say 'she pushed you back to being friends'. So no, she didn't want to 'be intimate' with you or cheat on her boyfriend. She met you on a business forum and talked with you about similar interests and then blocked you once you overstepped her boundaries.

I know the pandemic made dating rough but this is not the hill you want to die on.

My thoughts exactly. She probably was just being friendly(which as a Leo I know it comes off as flirting 🙄) and you probably started talking to her back in a flirty way and that's when she started to feel like you were being creepy so she probably brought up her boyfriend to see how you would react and when you confirmed it she wanted to save face and say yall are just friends and then she blocked you cause that was the easy way to deal with it.

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Legit the reason she brought up her boyfriend was because you went from friendly to flirty. As you say 'she pushed you back to being friends'. So no, she didn't want to 'be intimate' with you or cheat on her boyfriend. She met you on a business forum and talked with you about similar interests and then blocked you once you overstepped her boundaries.

I know the pandemic made dating rough but this is not the hill you want to die on.

My thoughts exactly. She probably was just being friendly(which as a Leo I know it comes off as flirting 🙄) and you probably started talking to her back in a flirty way and that's when she started to feel like you were being creepy so she probably brought up her boyfriend to see how you would react and when you confirmed it she wanted to save face and say yall are just friends and then she blocked you cause that was the easy way to deal with it.

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The sweetness that Leo's naturally have is hard to pass up on. The thoughtfulness and loving nature of Leo's is amazing.

Even my coworker does some of the sweetest things, and it's me who is the one who is thoughtless and forgetful. I feel so guilty about it but I'm truly amazed at how Leo's can be when they think of you as a friend.

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Legit the reason she brought up her boyfriend was because you went from friendly to flirty. As you say 'she pushed you back to being friends'. So no, she didn't want to 'be intimate' with you or cheat on her boyfriend. She met you on a business forum and talked with you about similar interests and then blocked you once you overstepped her boundaries.

I know the pandemic made dating rough but this is not the hill you want to die on.

My thoughts exactly. She probably was just being friendly(which as a Leo I know it comes off as flirting 🙄) and you probably started talking to her back in a flirty way and that's when she started to feel like you were being creepy so she probably brought up her boyfriend to see how you would react and when you confirmed it she wanted to save face and say yall are just friends and then she blocked you cause that was the easy way to deal with it.

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I guess so. She was willing to still talk, but I personally don't feel comfortable talking to a woman who was in a relationship. Especially if I do not know the guy. She told me if this was causing a dilemma it was better for us to part ways. I told her let me think about it, because I do not believe in rash decisions and I really enjoyed our friendship the past few months. The next day she had blocked me.

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Why'd she block you? Cause you called her out? EEEWWWW. Just wait and see if she comes back.

She probably will miss it too if she enjoyed it as much as you did. It would be stalker-ish to reach out, after being blocked. She said she had a boyfriend and isn't even treating you in a friendly way, with the childish blocking.

I had a Leo guy do the same thing.

But it was my ex who reached out to him and he told me he had to block me because of it.

I told him to go ahead, that I'm not gonna contact him if he was going to break contact with me because of an ex who is jealous.

He contacted me about 7 months later and we have been talking ever since, as friends though.

Nah she was just being friendly and he commented on her eyes and that came off creepy and she realized he was interested in more so she brought up the boyfriend to see how he'd react and when he told her they couldn't be intimate then that came off as more creepy and she blocked him.

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Why'd she block you? Cause you called her out? EEEWWWW. Just wait and see if she comes back.

She probably will miss it too if she enjoyed it as much as you did. It would be stalker-ish to reach out, after being blocked. She said she had a boyfriend and isn't even treating you in a friendly way, with the childish blocking.

I had a Leo guy do the same thing.

But it was my ex who reached out to him and he told me he had to block me because of it.

I told him to go ahead, that I'm not gonna contact him if he was going to break contact with me because of an ex who is jealous.

He contacted me about 7 months later and we have been talking ever since, as friends though.

Nah she was just being friendly and he commented on her eyes and that came off creepy and she realized he was interested in more so she brought up the boyfriend to see how he'd react and when he told her they couldn't be intimate then that came off as more creepy and she blocked him.

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I think I missed the part of him flirting first, just read that she brought up her boyfriend after talking with him for hours and days at a time.

I need to stop skimming lengthy paragraphs lol

That's makes sense. Walking him right back into the friendzone that he tried to step out of.

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Legit the reason she brought up her boyfriend was because you went from friendly to flirty. As you say 'she pushed you back to being friends'. So no, she didn't want to 'be intimate' with you or cheat on her boyfriend. She met you on a business forum and talked with you about similar interests and then blocked you once you overstepped her boundaries.

I know the pandemic made dating rough but this is not the hill you want to die on.

My thoughts exactly. She probably was just being friendly(which as a Leo I know it comes off as flirting 🙄) and you probably started talking to her back in a flirty way and that's when she started to feel like you were being creepy so she probably brought up her boyfriend to see how you would react and when you confirmed it she wanted to save face and say yall are just friends and then she blocked you cause that was the easy way to deal with it.

I guess so. She was willing to still talk, but I personally don't feel comfortable talking to a woman who was in a relationship. Especially if I do not know the guy. She told me if this was causing a dilemma it was better for us to part ways. I told her let me think about it, because I do not believe in rash decisions and I really enjoyed our friendship the past few months. The next day she had blocked me.

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She just wanted to be friends from the get go and when she thought about what you said and decided it wasn't worth the headache cause she was never that invested in the first place, she blocked you.. I have been through this scenario before....or similar situations where I have just wanted to be friends with a dude and he wanted more.

If she just wanted to be friends, why didn't she mentioned her boyfriend before? We talked about childhood, college, career goals, fears, politics, etc. but never a boyfriend. It's odd.

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Legit the reason she brought up her boyfriend was because you went from friendly to flirty. As you say 'she pushed you back to being friends'. So no, she didn't want to 'be intimate' with you or cheat on her boyfriend. She met you on a business forum and talked with you about similar interests and then blocked you once you overstepped her boundaries.

I know the pandemic made dating rough but this is not the hill you want to die on.

My thoughts exactly. She probably was just being friendly(which as a Leo I know it comes off as flirting 🙄) and you probably started talking to her back in a flirty way and that's when she started to feel like you were being creepy so she probably brought up her boyfriend to see how you would react and when you confirmed it she wanted to save face and say yall are just friends and then she blocked you cause that was the easy way to deal with it.

I guess so. She was willing to still talk, but I personally don't feel comfortable talking to a woman who was in a relationship. Especially if I do not know the guy. She told me if this was causing a dilemma it was better for us to part ways. I told her let me think about it, because I do not believe in rash decisions and I really enjoyed our friendship the past few months. The next day she had blocked me.

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Fibber!

You were ready to keep talking to her.

And if you do know the guy? It would be okay?

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If she just wanted to be friends, why didn't she mentioned her boyfriend before? We talked about childhood, college, career goals, fears, politics, etc. but never a boyfriend. It's odd.

She enjoyed the attention and then shyt started getting real

Plain and simple is that your a loser and that’s why she blocked you. Any mention of stalking just states my case.

The thing is I would give her all sorts of attention. She was let go and working two part time jobs. She had to move back in with her parents. I make good money and she could have stayed home and be comfortable. Why lead on a decent guy?

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If she just wanted to be friends, why didn't she mentioned her boyfriend before? We talked about childhood, college, career goals, fears, politics, etc. but never a boyfriend. It's odd.

Why would that be odd? I don't bring up my bf when talking to coworkers, friends, clients. Why would I? That would be weird af unless the topic was about personal relationships.

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The thing is I would give her all sorts of attention. She was let go and working two part time jobs. She had to move back in with her parents. I make good money and she could have stayed home and be comfortable. Why lead on a decent guy?

How exactly did she lead you on? I am genuinely asking here

Cause you said you met on a business forum and were building a friendship.

At any time did she verbally indicate she was looking for more than friendship from you?

Also yuck this isn't the 1950s. Not all women wish to be kept at home on someone else dime. If you met her on seeking arrangements I could understand your mindset. But, again, you met her on a business forum so she has some interest in building her skillset, working and earning for herself.

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The thing is I would give her all sorts of attention. She was let go and working two part time jobs. She had to move back in with her parents. I make good money and she could have stayed home and be comfortable. Why lead on a decent guy?

How exactly did she lead you on? I am genuinely asking here

Cause you said you met on a business forum and were building a friendship.

At any time did she verbally indicate she was looking for more than friendship from you?

Also yuck this isn't the 1950s. Not all women wish to be kept at home on someone else dime. If you met her on seeking arrangements I could understand your mindset. But, again, you met her on a business forum so she has some interest in building her skillset, working and earning for herself.

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Yes we met on a business website, but we got to talking and discovered similar interests outside of business. Books, family, personal sadness, etc. we shared a lot of private, personal information that goes into building a personal relationship.

She initiated texts and zooms. She made comments like how I am a very refined man, etc. She knew I was single.

I did not mean to indicate that this was the 1950's style relationship. I was saying she was working really hard for almost no money. I would have offered her stability. She could have taken her time finding a job, if she wanted to work.

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The thing is I would give her all sorts of attention. She was let go and working two part time jobs. She had to move back in with her parents. I make good money and she could have stayed home and be comfortable. Why lead on a decent guy?

How exactly did she lead you on? I am genuinely asking here

Cause you said you met on a business forum and were building a friendship.

At any time did she verbally indicate she was looking for more than friendship from you?

Also yuck this isn't the 1950s. Not all women wish to be kept at home on someone else dime. If you met her on seeking arrangements I could understand your mindset. But, again, you met her on a business forum so she has some interest in building her skillset, working and earning for herself.

Yes we met on a business website, but we got to talking and discovered similar interests outside of business. Books, family, personal sadness, etc. we shared a lot of private, personal information that goes into building a personal relationship.

She initiated texts and zooms. She made comments like how I am a very refined man, etc. She knew I was single.

I did not mean to indicate that this was the 1950's style relationship. I was saying she was working really hard for almost no money. I would have offered her stability. She could have taken her time finding a job, if she wanted to work.

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So you would be willing to 'offer stability' aka send money to a someone you've never met in person who is in another state? Seeking arrangements is the place for you my guy. They could really use a man of your generosity and caliber.

Taking about books, family, personal info, common interests is exactly how one builds a report and friendship. You read more into it then was there. There's no shame in being horny. But its a little bs to claim she led you on because your expectations for more weren't met.

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The thing is I would give her all sorts of attention. She was let go and working two part time jobs. She had to move back in with her parents. I make good money and she could have stayed home and be comfortable. Why lead on a decent guy?

How exactly did she lead you on? I am genuinely asking here

Cause you said you met on a business forum and were building a friendship.

At any time did she verbally indicate she was looking for more than friendship from you?

Also yuck this isn't the 1950s. Not all women wish to be kept at home on someone else dime. If you met her on seeking arrangements I could understand your mindset. But, again, you met her on a business forum so she has some interest in building her skillset, working and earning for herself.

Yes we met on a business website, but we got to talking and discovered similar interests outside of business. Books, family, personal sadness, etc. we shared a lot of private, personal information that goes into building a personal relationship.

She initiated texts and zooms. She made comments like how I am a very refined man, etc. She knew I was single.

I did not mean to indicate that this was the 1950's style relationship. I was saying she was working really hard for almost no money. I would have offered her stability. She could have taken her time finding a job, if she wanted to work.

So you would be willing to 'offer stability' aka send money to a someone you've never met in person who is in another state? Seeking arrangements is the place for you my guy. The could really use a man of your generosity and caliber.

Taking about books, family, personal info, common interests is exactly how one builds a report and friendship. You read more into it then was there. There's no shame in being horny. But its a little bs to claim she led you on because your expectations for more weren't met.

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Definitely not being a sugar daddy. Just saying if it worked out romantically that could have happened. Why are you trying to start an argument and be rude? You keep pushing and then twist things to be "witty."

Are you serious right now

🙄🙄🙄 SMFH

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The thing is I would give her all sorts of attention. She was let go and working two part time jobs. She had to move back in with her parents. I make good money and she could have stayed home and be comfortable. Why lead on a decent guy?

How exactly did she lead you on? I am genuinely asking here

Cause you said you met on a business forum and were building a friendship.

At any time did she verbally indicate she was looking for more than friendship from you?

Also yuck this isn't the 1950s. Not all women wish to be kept at home on someone else dime. If you met her on seeking arrangements I could understand your mindset. But, again, you met her on a business forum so she has some interest in building her skillset, working and earning for herself.

Yes we met on a business website, but we got to talking and discovered similar interests outside of business. Books, family, personal sadness, etc. we shared a lot of private, personal information that goes into building a personal relationship.

She initiated texts and zooms. She made comments like how I am a very refined man, etc. She knew I was single.

I did not mean to indicate that this was the 1950's style relationship. I was saying she was working really hard for almost no money. I would have offered her stability. She could have taken her time finding a job, if she wanted to work.

So you would be willing to 'offer stability' aka send money to a someone you've never met in person who is in another state? Seeking arrangements is the place for you my guy. The could really use a man of your generosity and caliber.

Taking about books, family, personal info, common interests is exactly how one builds a report and friendship. You read more into it then was there. There's no shame in being horny. But its a little bs to claim she led you on because your expectations for more weren't met.

Definitely not being a sugar daddy. Just saying if it worked out romantically that could have happened. Why are you trying to start an argument and be rude? You keep pushing and then twist things to be "witty."

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If pushing and twisting things means questioning why you are painting yourself as a victim and crying about being led on then yes, me so witty.

Also 'things working out romantically' in exchange for some money literally is the definition of a sugar daddy.

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The thing is I would give her all sorts of attention. She was let go and working two part time jobs. She had to move back in with her parents. I make good money and she could have stayed home and be comfortable. Why lead on a decent guy?

How exactly did she lead you on? I am genuinely asking here

Cause you said you met on a business forum and were building a friendship.

At any time did she verbally indicate she was looking for more than friendship from you?

Also yuck this isn't the 1950s. Not all women wish to be kept at home on someone else dime. If you met her on seeking arrangements I could understand your mindset. But, again, you met her on a business forum so she has some interest in building her skillset, working and earning for herself.

Yes we met on a business website, but we got to talking and discovered similar interests outside of business. Books, family, personal sadness, etc. we shared a lot of private, personal information that goes into building a personal relationship.

She initiated texts and zooms. She made comments like how I am a very refined man, etc. She knew I was single.

I did not mean to indicate that this was the 1950's style relationship. I was saying she was working really hard for almost no money. I would have offered her stability. She could have taken her time finding a job, if she wanted to work.

So you would be willing to 'offer stability' aka send money to a someone you've never met in person who is in another state? Seeking arrangements is the place for you my guy. The could really use a man of your generosity and caliber.

Taking about books, family, personal info, common interests is exactly how one builds a report and friendship. You read more into it then was there. There's no shame in being horny. But its a little bs to claim she led you on because your expectations for more weren't met.

Definitely not being a sugar daddy. Just saying if it worked out romantically that could have happened. Why are you trying to start an argument and be rude? You keep pushing and then twist things to be "witty."

If pushing and twisting things means questioning why you are painting yourself as a victim and crying about being led on then yes, me so witty.

Also 'things working out romantically' in exchange for some money literally is the definition of a sugar daddy.

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I'm not a sugar daddy and you are twisting my words. There is no exchange. I think you are missing the point of my messages. We are in the middle of a pandemic and she lost her job. Her boyfriend also lost his job. She was forced to work crummy part-time jobs. I, on the other hand, have a steady job. If we were to work out, it would be less stress on her to have to work two part-time jobs, because my job is more stable. That is not a sugar daddy arrangement, that is helping your significant other in a time of need.

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The thing is I would give her all sorts of attention. She was let go and working two part time jobs. She had to move back in with her parents. I make good money and she could have stayed home and be comfortable. Why lead on a decent guy?

How exactly did she lead you on? I am genuinely asking here

Cause you said you met on a business forum and were building a friendship.

At any time did she verbally indicate she was looking for more than friendship from you?

Also yuck this isn't the 1950s. Not all women wish to be kept at home on someone else dime. If you met her on seeking arrangements I could understand your mindset. But, again, you met her on a business forum so she has some interest in building her skillset, working and earning for herself.

Yes we met on a business website, but we got to talking and discovered similar interests outside of business. Books, family, personal sadness, etc. we shared a lot of private, personal information that goes into building a personal relationship.

She initiated texts and zooms. She made comments like how I am a very refined man, etc. She knew I was single.

I did not mean to indicate that this was the 1950's style relationship. I was saying she was working really hard for almost no money. I would have offered her stability. She could have taken her time finding a job, if she wanted to work.

So you would be willing to 'offer stability' aka send money to a someone you've never met in person who is in another state? Seeking arrangements is the place for you my guy. The could really use a man of your generosity and caliber.

Taking about books, family, personal info, common interests is exactly how one builds a report and friendship. You read more into it then was there. There's no shame in being horny. But its a little bs to claim she led you on because your expectations for more weren't met.

Definitely not being a sugar daddy. Just saying if it worked out romantically that could have happened. Why are you trying to start an argument and be rude? You keep pushing and then twist things to be "witty."

If pushing and twisting things means questioning why you are painting yourself as a victim and crying about being led on then yes, me so witty.

Also 'things working out romantically' in exchange for some money literally is the definition of a sugar daddy.

I'm not a sugar daddy and you are twisting my words. There is no exchange. I think you are missing the point of my messages. We are in the middle of a pandemic and she lost her job. Her boyfriend also lost his job. She was forced to work crummy part-time jobs. I, on the other hand, have a steady job. If we were to work out, it would be less stress on her to have to work two part-time jobs, because my job is more stable. That is not a sugar daddy arrangement, that is helping your significant other in a time of need.

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how did you know her bf lost his job?

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The thing is I would give her all sorts of attention. She was let go and working two part time jobs. She had to move back in with her parents. I make good money and she could have stayed home and be comfortable. Why lead on a decent guy?

How exactly did she lead you on? I am genuinely asking here

Cause you said you met on a business forum and were building a friendship.

At any time did she verbally indicate she was looking for more than friendship from you?

Also yuck this isn't the 1950s. Not all women wish to be kept at home on someone else dime. If you met her on seeking arrangements I could understand your mindset. But, again, you met her on a business forum so she has some interest in building her skillset, working and earning for herself.

Yes we met on a business website, but we got to talking and discovered similar interests outside of business. Books, family, personal sadness, etc. we shared a lot of private, personal information that goes into building a personal relationship.

She initiated texts and zooms. She made comments like how I am a very refined man, etc. She knew I was single.

I did not mean to indicate that this was the 1950's style relationship. I was saying she was working really hard for almost no money. I would have offered her stability. She could have taken her time finding a job, if she wanted to work.

So you would be willing to 'offer stability' aka send money to a someone you've never met in person who is in another state? Seeking arrangements is the place for you my guy. The could really use a man of your generosity and caliber.

Taking about books, family, personal info, common interests is exactly how one builds a report and friendship. You read more into it then was there. There's no shame in being horny. But its a little bs to claim she led you on because your expectations for more weren't met.

Definitely not being a sugar daddy. Just saying if it worked out romantically that could have happened. Why are you trying to start an argument and be rude? You keep pushing and then twist things to be "witty."

If pushing and twisting things means questioning why you are painting yourself as a victim and crying about being led on then yes, me so witty.

Also 'things working out romantically' in exchange for some money literally is the definition of a sugar daddy.

I'm not a sugar daddy and you are twisting my words. There is no exchange. I think you are missing the point of my messages. We are in the middle of a pandemic and she lost her job. Her boyfriend also lost his job. She was forced to work crummy part-time jobs. I, on the other hand, have a steady job. If we were to work out, it would be less stress on her to have to work two part-time jobs, because my job is more stable. That is not a sugar daddy arrangement, that is helping your significant other in a time of need.

how did you know her bf lost his job?

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She told me. He lost his job and went to his hometown. She told me she was able to see him that day and was happy about it.

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The thing is I would give her all sorts of attention. She was let go and working two part time jobs. She had to move back in with her parents. I make good money and she could have stayed home and be comfortable. Why lead on a decent guy?

How exactly did she lead you on? I am genuinely asking here

Cause you said you met on a business forum and were building a friendship.

At any time did she verbally indicate she was looking for more than friendship from you?

Also yuck this isn't the 1950s. Not all women wish to be kept at home on someone else dime. If you met her on seeking arrangements I could understand your mindset. But, again, you met her on a business forum so she has some interest in building her skillset, working and earning for herself.

Yes we met on a business website, but we got to talking and discovered similar interests outside of business. Books, family, personal sadness, etc. we shared a lot of private, personal information that goes into building a personal relationship.

She initiated texts and zooms. She made comments like how I am a very refined man, etc. She knew I was single.

I did not mean to indicate that this was the 1950's style relationship. I was saying she was working really hard for almost no money. I would have offered her stability. She could have taken her time finding a job, if she wanted to work.

So you would be willing to 'offer stability' aka send money to a someone you've never met in person who is in another state? Seeking arrangements is the place for you my guy. The could really use a man of your generosity and caliber.

Taking about books, family, personal info, common interests is exactly how one builds a report and friendship. You read more into it then was there. There's no shame in being horny. But its a little bs to claim she led you on because your expectations for more weren't met.

Definitely not being a sugar daddy. Just saying if it worked out romantically that could have happened. Why are you trying to start an argument and be rude? You keep pushing and then twist things to be "witty."

If pushing and twisting things means questioning why you are painting yourself as a victim and crying about being led on then yes, me so witty.

Also 'things working out romantically' in exchange for some money literally is the definition of a sugar daddy.

I'm not a sugar daddy and you are twisting my words. There is no exchange. I think you are missing the point of my messages. We are in the middle of a pandemic and she lost her job. Her boyfriend also lost his job. She was forced to work crummy part-time jobs. I, on the other hand, have a steady job. If we were to work out, it would be less stress on her to have to work two part-time jobs, because my job is more stable. That is not a sugar daddy arrangement, that is helping your significant other in a time of need.

how did you know her bf lost his job?

She told me. He lost his job and went to his hometown. She told me she was able to see him that day and was happy about it.

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But that's such personal information. She obviously wanted to bang you.

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The thing is I would give her all sorts of attention. She was let go and working two part time jobs. She had to move back in with her parents. I make good money and she could have stayed home and be comfortable. Why lead on a decent guy?

How exactly did she lead you on? I am genuinely asking here

Cause you said you met on a business forum and were building a friendship.

At any time did she verbally indicate she was looking for more than friendship from you?

Also yuck this isn't the 1950s. Not all women wish to be kept at home on someone else dime. If you met her on seeking arrangements I could understand your mindset. But, again, you met her on a business forum so she has some interest in building her skillset, working and earning for herself.

Yes we met on a business website, but we got to talking and discovered similar interests outside of business. Books, family, personal sadness, etc. we shared a lot of private, personal information that goes into building a personal relationship.

She initiated texts and zooms. She made comments like how I am a very refined man, etc. She knew I was single.

I did not mean to indicate that this was the 1950's style relationship. I was saying she was working really hard for almost no money. I would have offered her stability. She could have taken her time finding a job, if she wanted to work.

So you would be willing to 'offer stability' aka send money to a someone you've never met in person who is in another state? Seeking arrangements is the place for you my guy. The could really use a man of your generosity and caliber.

Taking about books, family, personal info, common interests is exactly how one builds a report and friendship. You read more into it then was there. There's no shame in being horny. But its a little bs to claim she led you on because your expectations for more weren't met.

Definitely not being a sugar daddy. Just saying if it worked out romantically that could have happened. Why are you trying to start an argument and be rude? You keep pushing and then twist things to be "witty."

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Ignore that worthless, stupid ass flippant cunt. This miserable bitch is always trying to play smartass to get an ego boost. She's an imbecile.

She constantly goes out her way to attack an OP and purposely misrepresents their positions in order to keep attacking them in hopes of being seen as edgy and like she's calling out shit and presenting an alternative or opposing point of view. It's pathetic.

As for this Leo woman. It does appear like she is playing games to feed her ego and vanity. She can't be that stupid and if she is, is it really worth pursing someone so clueless? Imagine you in a relationship with her while she does the same thing she did to you but to other guys.

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Legit the reason she brought up her boyfriend was because you went from friendly to flirty. As you say 'she pushed you back to being friends'. So no, she didn't want to 'be intimate' with you or cheat on her boyfriend. She met you on a business forum and talked with you about similar interests and then blocked you once you overstepped her boundaries.

I know the pandemic made dating rough but this is not the hill you want to die on.

My thoughts exactly. She probably was just being friendly(which as a Leo I know it comes off as flirting 🙄) and you probably started talking to her back in a flirty way and that's when she started to feel like you were being creepy so she probably brought up her boyfriend to see how you would react and when you confirmed it she wanted to save face and say yall are just friends and then she blocked you cause that was the easy way to deal with it.

I guess so. She was willing to still talk, but I personally don't feel comfortable talking to a woman who was in a relationship. Especially if I do not know the guy. She told me if this was causing a dilemma it was better for us to part ways. I told her let me think about it, because I do not believe in rash decisions and I really enjoyed our friendship the past few months. The next day she had blocked me.

Well, she has made it clear that you are blocked. So why would you continue to try to reach out to someone that blocked you? Hello.

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I’ve known several Aries men who won’t take “no” for an answer. It can be annoying ... “persistence” doesn’t even go there.

Please help- I am still thinking about this Leo woman.

We haven't talked to each other in about ten months, but I still think about her everyday. I am really tempted to create a new account on the website we met and PM her again. However, I do not want to come across as a John Hinkley Jr-type of stalker.

I still think about the first time I was able to look into her eyes. They were big and brown. Through our talks, I realized she was the smartest, most well read, and classiest woman I have ever talked to. I just felt this strong emotional connection through our paragraphs of correspondence and then eventually our late night Zooms.



How do I get her out of my mind without hurting a rebound? Should I message her what I have felt everyday for over almost a year and longing I am too talk to her again?

Damn, I sound super desperate...

Sorry for the rant lol just need some advice.

She blocked you. Which means she does not want to communicate with you.

No means no.

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She blocked you. Which means she does not want to communicate with you.

No means no.

I know that, but also she might miss me too. I'm probably delusional

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She blocked you. Which means she does not want to communicate with you.

No means no.

I know that, but also she might miss me too. I'm probably delusional

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Yes you are.

If she does in fact miss you she can unblock you and reach out to you.

Well I just sent her an emailing asked about her summer and what has changed in her life since we last spoke. Maybe she will reply, maybe she will not. But life is too short to not try to get the girl of your dreams.

Why don’t Aries men listen?

Read what the Dxp ladies have written....they’ve been good enough to input so take that on board.

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Well I just sent her an emailing asked about her summer and what has changed in her life since we last spoke. Maybe she will reply, maybe she will not. But life is too short to not try to get the girl of your dreams.

Oh, cmon, people here are reacting like you are hitting her up on daily basis. I think, if you still think about her after 10 months it worths a try to send an email (well, you did it already). If there is no answer, you have your answer.

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Well I just sent her an emailing asked about her summer and what has changed in her life since we last spoke. Maybe she will reply, maybe she will not. But life is too short to not try to get the girl of your dreams.

You’re stupid and this was a very stupid thing to do. Please do not ask for advice on here if you are not going to listen to it. She has you blocked and does not want to hear from you. Are you not able to place yourself in other people’s shoes? Do you not block anyone? Good lord.

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Exactly

I’ve found the Aries men I’ve known are too busy putting themselves first than to put themselves in others shoes ....

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Well I just sent her an emailing asked about her summer and what has changed in her life since we last spoke. Maybe she will reply, maybe she will not. But life is too short to not try to get the girl of your dreams.

Well, you could spun your wheels going back n forth so action is good to release yourself from the what if prison.

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Well I just sent her an emailing asked about her summer and what has changed in her life since we last spoke. Maybe she will reply, maybe she will not. But life is too short to not try to get the girl of your dreams.

Oh, cmon, people here are reacting like you are hitting her up on daily basis. I think, if you still think about her after 10 months it worths a try to send an email (well, you did it already). If there is no answer, you have your answer.

Enabler.

This is not a game where she is playing hard to get and the Aries bro should take it as a challenge. She legit does not want to be contacted by him. He is stalking her.

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This is my opinion and no, I do not consider this particular situation (after 10 months dude could not get over a person and sent an email) as a stalking - I have been stalked twice, know what I am talking about, and let me tell you: stalking is when a person creating multiple fake accounts to communicate with you, texting you "saw you at "X" today, show up in places you are hanging, calling you from "unknown" numbers, texting your friends/family - all that after numerous requests to leave you alone.

Stalker!!!!

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Well I just sent her an emailing asked about her summer and what has changed in her life since we last spoke. Maybe she will reply, maybe she will not. But life is too short to not try to get the girl of your dreams.

Oh, cmon, people here are reacting like you are hitting her up on daily basis. I think, if you still think about her after 10 months it worths a try to send an email (well, you did it already). If there is no answer, you have your answer.

Enabler.

This is not a game where she is playing hard to get and the Aries bro should take it as a challenge. She legit does not want to be contacted by him. He is stalking her.

This is my opinion and no, I do not consider this particular situation (after 10 months dude could not get over a person and sent an email) as a stalking - I have been stalked twice, know what I am talking about, and let me tell you: stalking is when a person creating multiple fake accounts to communicate with you, texting you "saw you at "X" today, show up in places you are hanging, calling you from "unknown" numbers, texting your friends/family - all that after numerous requests to leave you alone.

Stalking is also making contact and communicating when a person wants no contact or communication. Attempts of contact and communication also include social media. It’s clear that she set boundaries and wants NO contact or communication from him.

Why do some men not respect women’s wishes until another man, her boyfriend or brother, steps up to them? It should not have to take another man for a woman’s wishes to be respected.

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I think you did not look very much into context, was too busy typing your ultimate truth. Again, as a female survived real stalking I will keep my opinion. "Why do some men....It should not have to take another man for a woman’s wishes to be respected", - no idea where did you find this in the post which makes me think you are talking to yourself. Stalking can be triggering, I get it. This one is just not the case.

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Well I just sent her an emailing asked about her summer and what has changed in her life since we last spoke. Maybe she will reply, maybe she will not. But life is too short to not try to get the girl of your dreams.

Oh, cmon, people here are reacting like you are hitting her up on daily basis. I think, if you still think about her after 10 months it worths a try to send an email (well, you did it already). If there is no answer, you have your answer.

Enabler.

This is not a game where she is playing hard to get and the Aries bro should take it as a challenge. She legit does not want to be contacted by him. He is stalking her.

This is my opinion and no, I do not consider this particular situation (after 10 months dude could not get over a person and sent an email) as a stalking - I have been stalked twice, know what I am talking about, and let me tell you: stalking is when a person creating multiple fake accounts to communicate with you, texting you "saw you at "X" today, show up in places you are hanging, calling you from "unknown" numbers, texting your friends/family - all that after numerous requests to leave you alone.

Stalking is also making contact and communicating when a person wants no contact or communication. Attempts of contact and communication also include social media. It’s clear that she set boundaries and wants NO contact or communication from him.

Why do some men not respect women’s wishes until another man, her boyfriend or brother, steps up to them? It should not have to take another man for a woman’s wishes to be respected.

I think you did not look very much into context, was too busy typing your ultimate truth. Again, as a female survived real stalking I will keep my opinion. "Why do some men....It should not have to take another man for a woman’s wishes to be respected", - no idea where did you find this in the post which makes me think you are talking to yourself. Stalking can be triggering, I get it. This one is just not the case.

What sign are you? You get on my nerves because you are looking for something “wrong” I am doing. I bet you are like that in your relationships and drive men, friends, and/or other women away from you. That is all you had to do to your stalker. 🤣

I don’t care about your personal experience. I care about what the OP said and what he is doing, especially since I am another Aries.

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You can tell a person (especially aries) loosing their shit when they start little petty insults, which makes them feel better. I should say I am glad I get on your nerves 🙂)) Thank you for telling this, really. Once again - I know it is hard, but you have to try - your experience and opinion is not an ultimate truth. Looking forward to get more reactions from you ))

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Well I just sent her an emailing asked about her summer and what has changed in her life since we last spoke. Maybe she will reply, maybe she will not. But life is too short to not try to get the girl of your dreams.

Oh, cmon, people here are reacting like you are hitting her up on daily basis. I think, if you still think about her after 10 months it worths a try to send an email (well, you did it already). If there is no answer, you have your answer.

Enabler.

This is not a game where she is playing hard to get and the Aries bro should take it as a challenge. She legit does not want to be contacted by him. He is stalking her.

This is my opinion and no, I do not consider this particular situation (after 10 months dude could not get over a person and sent an email) as a stalking - I have been stalked twice, know what I am talking about, and let me tell you: stalking is when a person creating multiple fake accounts to communicate with you, texting you "saw you at "X" today, show up in places you are hanging, calling you from "unknown" numbers, texting your friends/family - all that after numerous requests to leave you alone.

Stalking is also making contact and communicating when a person wants no contact or communication. Attempts of contact and communication also include social media. It’s clear that she set boundaries and wants NO contact or communication from him.

Why do some men not respect women’s wishes until another man, her boyfriend or brother, steps up to them? It should not have to take another man for a woman’s wishes to be respected.

I think you did not look very much into context, was too busy typing your ultimate truth. Again, as a female survived real stalking I will keep my opinion. "Why do some men....It should not have to take another man for a woman’s wishes to be respected", - no idea where did you find this in the post which makes me think you are talking to yourself. Stalking can be triggering, I get it. This one is just not the case.

What sign are you? You get on my nerves because you are looking for something “wrong” I am doing. I bet you are like that in your relationships and drive men, friends, and/or other women away from you. That is all you had to do to your stalker. 🤣

I don’t care about your personal experience. I care about what the OP said and what he is doing, especially since I am another Aries.

You can tell a person (especially aries) loosing their shit when they start little petty insults, which makes them feel better. I should say I am glad I get on your nerves 🙂)) Thank you for telling this, really. Once again - I know it is hard, but you have to try - your experience and opinion is not an ultimate truth. Looking forward to get more reactions from you ))

I just told the truth. Truth hurts.

It’s you that is doing petty insults. Nice try though. You also did not answer the question.

Again, nitpicking and pointing out things that others do “wrong” gets old quick. I doubt you appreciate people in your life, are grateful for the things and people you have, and cannot find anything “right” that others do.

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I really love Aries, they fall for me so fast and hard. But being "babies" of the zodiac, sometimes they demonstrate toddlers behaviour, well, like you did. I am glad you I got under your skin so you found a second to check my topics, but as for me you are just another boring poster, excuse me that I will not do the same )))

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Well I just sent her an emailing asked about her summer and what has changed in her life since we last spoke. Maybe she will reply, maybe she will not. But life is too short to not try to get the girl of your dreams.

Oh, cmon, people here are reacting like you are hitting her up on daily basis. I think, if you still think about her after 10 months it worths a try to send an email (well, you did it already). If there is no answer, you have your answer.

I hope for OP's sake that you're right. But I suspect, unless OP is ready to get over her, we're probably gonna hear this again in a few months time...with more "what if she misses me"..."what if she replies this time", especially since he already implied that she's the girl of his dreams. I hope I'm wrong but it doesn't seem OP is gonna be over her anytime soon.

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Agree, for that I put "If there is no answer, you have your answer.". I am just a bit surprised how same people encourage absolutely out of control behaviour illustrated by girl chasing a Virgo (the one with multiple accounts/threads), but not approving Aries who decided to send an email after 10 months. SMH.